Like the use of Keanu Reeves in the thumbnail. If anyone is high value its him. One of the most humble men in existence despite his fame.

@gregthompson9434

3 жыл бұрын

Keanu a modern MGTOW

@user-yj3kn4fe7h

3 жыл бұрын

He's one of my favorite celebrities. He does the right things for the right reasons. He acts with intention. Not for attention.

@wellyforpm

3 жыл бұрын

That's cause he's canadian......

@WeknowhoUR

3 жыл бұрын

But he needs to learn how to act!

@dennisjr77

3 жыл бұрын

Keanu is sharpened by the spear of pain, lost ALOT in his life! Through it all, he stays humble, and kind!👏👏👏👏👏👏

“The most important relationship you have is with yourself”. Absolutely!

@redpillpharmacy6877

3 жыл бұрын

A total lie.

@tommygun5038

3 жыл бұрын

Yes because it's sets the foundation for everything else.

@redpillpharmacy6877

3 жыл бұрын

@@tommygun5038 Rather, it sets the foundation for total narcissism.

@tommygun5038

3 жыл бұрын

@@redpillpharmacy6877 ...I know what you're talking about but this isn't what it means. It means having your shit together first. Not behaving like a narcissist.

@redpillpharmacy6877

3 жыл бұрын

@@tommygun5038 Incorrect. “The most important relationship you have is with yourself” is a shameless declaration of total narcissism, indeed of toxic solipsism, and thus-like tattoos-an indication of total conformity with today’s shameless depravity.

Putting yourself first is so important. I'm 55 and it took me many years to truly understand that. The fact that you really "get it" at your age is impressive. Making sure that I'm the best version of myself allows me to be the best employee, friend, partner, to others.

@pbhpbh1379

3 жыл бұрын

@Tim Nichols Yes I agree to a degree. I’m the same age and stage in life. It leads to stepping up and being a role model for your children, grandchildren etc. A wise man once told me, “live so you’ll be missed when your time has come”. Putting yourself first is a fine balance. Sometimes you have to put others first. I suppose that is the challenge.

@db4419

2 жыл бұрын

@@pbhpbh1379 Great that you added that, that sometimes you DO need to put others first. Part of being exactly this kind of man, I would think.

@insiderinside1905

Жыл бұрын

I would substitute her Self care with achieving difficult things. If you see a woman that you think is out of your league, put that negative energy into working your plan. If a woman rejects you. Don’t call her a bitch; nope. Work your plan. Bethe man you intend to be, and eventually, she would be lucky to date you. Note that the essential skill is this delayed gratification. Blesss you dudes as you strive.

@briannyob7799

Жыл бұрын

I use the airplane analogy. In case of an emergency, put your mask on first. You can't save others if you haven't saved yourself.

@mecho68

Жыл бұрын

Not neglecting yourself and putting yourself first are two different things. People which I care and love are coming for me thirst. I was never disappointed or regretful.

The best advice I've ever gotten is that getting a relationship is not a chasing game, you have to improve yourself first, and then you attract more people. Dating in a way is a form of self-improvement

@CruceEntertainment

Жыл бұрын

Usually this means getting into good physical shape.

@Bennysol

11 ай бұрын

@@CruceEntertainment combo of that and making big money

@uqs57bju

11 ай бұрын

@@Bennysol confidence trumps both of them. They are still important but confidence is where it's at.

@cosmicentity1520

10 күн бұрын

​@@Bennysolyeah cause women only chase millionaires

A high value woman in my opinion is not manipulative, has her shit straight(is not looking to be saved), takes care of herself, is comfortable in her own shoes, is successful at what she does and always learning new things especially ones that challenge her. Oo man! Let me know when she walks in. 👍

@f1romero969

3 жыл бұрын

A high valué woman is a woman who can direct a governors dinner party, knows how to socialize in high class, increases your business through her networking, helping out (knowing your business when to obtain more supplies, having all your staff ready for something, knowing when to inform you of your stock etc...) wants you to succeed and will push you towards it. Submissive. Beautiful. Smart (Not a 30 plus yr old PHD SmArT)

@palmer3977

3 жыл бұрын

@@f1romero969 A quality woman wouldn't mix with the likes of governors, she would realise what they are.

@bryanlloyd6024

3 жыл бұрын

@@f1romero969High value men don't want submissive women.

@Bxconnect

3 жыл бұрын

@@bryanlloyd6024 You’re talking about beta male providers.

@bryanlloyd6024

3 жыл бұрын

@@Bxconnect It doesn't have to be either/or. High value men as defined here can be a mix of alpha, beta, and whatever else.

"The most important relationship you will ever have is not with your mom, your friends. It's with yourself!! Love this quote.

@soapbox187

10 ай бұрын

The relationship you have with yourself is directly dependent on the relationship you had with your mom or dad as they are the really template to which you compare any other man and women for the rest of your life. Obviously, this isn't a conscious decision but a subtle subconscious decision stemming from past trauma and coping mechanisms. Determine what attachment style you are first, and then you can improve your relationships.

1. Authenticity 2. Emotionally Intelligent 3. Self love/ Care 4. Always Learning Thanks you so much ❤️

@Sergio_Loureiro

9 ай бұрын

Integrity?

@alvoefc801

5 ай бұрын

But at the same time remember to not giv a shit

@chazMarch

Ай бұрын

@@alvoefc801 I’ve heard that too. It’s kinda sad that we have to play games

@rajadavid2064

8 күн бұрын

1. Authenticity 2. Emotionally Intelligent 3. self love 4. integrity 5. always learning

It’s so refreshing to hear a list of traits that are actually within our control.

@user-pm8uc5dc3e

10 ай бұрын

Shame they dont matter to 90% of modern women

@Carlos-qe4ny

6 ай бұрын

(R) have to work on not being habitual Liars😢

Authenticity Emotional Intelligence Self Love and Care Integrity Always Learning Applies to everyone I will add compassion and wisdom to round it out.

Never realized I fit into a high value position. A high value woman is intelligent, takes care of herself, can make decisions on her own, supportive, has a sense of humor, doesn't have her eyes glued to a screen, hears what you say and not what she thinks you said, wait, I'm starting to rant.

The key to both sexes being “high Value,” is SELF AWARENESS AND DOING THE WORK FOR SELF GROWTH AND IMPROVEMENT!!!

@XPuntar

2 жыл бұрын

"Know thyself" It was for this reason why this was written at the entrance at the Oracle in Delphi!

@kentjohnson873

Жыл бұрын

In other words, women don't even try

@toddjohnson271

9 ай бұрын

No....Women need to preserve. If they are promiscuous there is no growth or improvement with the opposite gender.

This is a really valuable lesson for both genders. More people should follow these steps before judging other people.

An insecure woman is the worst. She'll muster up enough confidence to get you in a relationship, but then the flood gates open

@Diesel-le5fx

3 жыл бұрын

FACTS!

@karolinagadek7679

3 жыл бұрын

Agree

@joeofcourse

3 жыл бұрын

@雷锋Lei Feng it's a reference to a dame holding water from a storm. As soon as she feels comfortable around you, she won't hold back her problems anymore and you will be the one drowning

@russ9921

3 жыл бұрын

And it’ll cost you to get rid of her too. And then she’ll say she should have got even more!

@qjtvaddict

3 жыл бұрын

I hate insecure trash

I just luuuuuurve my own company. I’ve been single two years and I’ve never been so happy.

This is one of the most important lessons a father can teach his son. It goes way beyond just the dating scene. Thank you

The reason I keep watching Courtney’s videos is because she strikes me as way more aware and understanding of a lot of these underlying characteristics. Money CAN be an indicator of success and high value, but what really counts is authenticity and an absolute lack of neediness. Real confidence (not performance) attracts women and strengthens relationships with men as well.

"Best relationship you could ever have is with yourself" well ain't that the TRUTH

@redpillpharmacy6877

3 жыл бұрын

No, in fact it’s a diabolical lie.

@sinistergrinch

3 жыл бұрын

Beside your relationship with Jesus, I would agree!

@lalosalamanca8574

3 жыл бұрын

Dear courtney: I appreciate everything you have done for you saved my life.

@SSGTA440

3 жыл бұрын

You should discuss the rarest male characteristic of all, that of the Sigma male. Otherwise, a very good analysis. Well done.

@Icureditwithmybrain

3 жыл бұрын

I agree, now to clone myself!

I remember being younger and looking for someone traditional values , but being hesitant Bc it’s not popular , eventually I didn’t care and was super blunt since I didn’t want anyone otherwise , and guess what , it worked ! I found what I wanted .

@markrcca5329

3 жыл бұрын

That makes sense. I's a numbers game - being super blunt let you filter out a lot of women who were unsuitable to you, quickly.

Wow Courtney your intuitive and compassionate nature is on another level which is why your content is authentic and spot on. You being here makes the world a better place. 🤗

I read somewhere that when the student is ready, the teacher appears. I have recently been having questions about these things and just like that I found this channel. Thank you Courtney for the things you share with us.

To the younger guys on this thread...continue to work hard in your career and life these 5 traits, if you don't have them all, will come with time, growth, and majority. I'm an old dude and these videos are always an interested social study for me. There's a bunch of freedom in doing what you love and want regardless of what people think. Great traits to have...thanks!

@Jay_0605

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@David-ot9tr

Жыл бұрын

And you likely will remain single but that is okay, too.

@hastensavoir7782

Жыл бұрын

@@David-ot9tr why?

@figglyawes1122

Жыл бұрын

@@David-ot9tr he didn’t say he was single

@vitaminwater6235

Ай бұрын

Speak that og

How i view a high quality woman : simplicity in everything(clothing, life in general, etc) , modesty, good manners, having similar values to mine, willingness to commit to long term and possibly marriage

@balwgar92

3 жыл бұрын

I've only met one like that my whole life, but throw in her being attracted to you and you being physically attracted to them as well, astronomical odds

@bozo1875

3 жыл бұрын

You missed submissiveness

@hannaassaad5044

3 жыл бұрын

@Dan Swildens are you addressing me.?

@balwgar92

3 жыл бұрын

@Dan Swildens there's quite a large gap between what you're describing, and someone who's main joy in life is amassing a large horde of material possessions at someone else's expense while generally being selfish and ungrateful to those around them.

@Tamara_rs45

3 жыл бұрын

@Dan Swildens Your problem is that you can't look at the women as a whole. You take one characteristic and make it as the whole personallity is based only on that - "the nature" girl, " the materialistic " girl, "the smart" girl... Man are never described like that. The world teaches us to be pretty and to not ask questions, so that we can be stuck with dudes like you that are making the decisions for ouselves just because you are a provider. That's the main fear of modern woman. :)

Putting yourself first Is definitely a big one imo. It's reassuring to know that you and other people out there understand that. Another great video! Thank you @Courtney Ryan

Wow I am so grateful that I have come across your channel! So sick and tired of all the toxic games and advice! Your channel is extremely refreshing! Thank you Courtney💓

Your upload rate lately is commendable

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! ❤️

You're teaching me the things I never learned growing up. 30 years later I finally understand why I have always met the wrong women. Thank you Courtney. ♥️✌️🇨🇦

This video is so amazing for someone going through the phase where they're entering manhood. Being given direction is so important and a lot of guys don't really get that

Courtney, I just wanted to say "Thank You" so much for the content you put out to help us guys who sometimes struggle with our own identities. Its so nice to hear someone that is committed to helping men achieve their full potential in life.

A high value woman to me is: 1: have own aspirations in life 2:free thinker and own person 3: supportive and head strong 4: knows how to take control (in life and other ways) 5: kind and understanding

@mrcartoon621

3 жыл бұрын

In terms of number 4, you dont want a woman thinking she can take control of you and the relationship, if she feels that she is in control she will lose respect for you as the man. Iff she loses respect for you she aint going to get turned on by you. Most women like a man who they feel is higher up than they are, not in an abusive controlling way thats not what I mean, but they still get turned on by a man who they respect, and they will not respect you if she thinks she can take control.

@dandrenoireofficial

3 жыл бұрын

@@mrcartoon621 im not speaking in terms of controlling the relationship. That should be 50/50. I'm speaking of taking control in life, a go-getter if you will. And the other aspect, I like being a "dominant force " but I also enjoy to letting her take charge if you catch my meaning.

@rdl4530

3 жыл бұрын

Sense of humor

@shaheersk721

3 жыл бұрын

Cooperative,feminine,submissive,is in shape,can cook and can bring peace/consistency if she brings all these things to the table then she is qualified for a high value long term commitment.

@freddiemoses467

3 жыл бұрын

Has at least DD cup and slim

I love how the video is about high-value men but reflects so much about who Courtney really is. A low-value women would never come any close to mentioning anything about honesty, integrity, authenticity or emotional intelligence. As much as the video tells what a high-valued men should be, it also tells so much about who Courtney really is. And that's amazing. Keep posting Courtney 👍😊 you're making a difference...😊❤

@tkleo2006

2 жыл бұрын

I got to know a girl for a few weeks. She said basically she was looking for all these things but her actions spoke louder than words; in her heart, she wanted something else.

@John-ih7gp

2 жыл бұрын

This is the secondary list. The real test will first be with Looks, Money, Status. This is the list if you plan on staying in a long term relationship for a number of years. If you have nothing going for you on the first list, you will never be considered high value to Women. It doesn't matter how much integrity and authenticity you have a 5'-4" and making 50k a year. She wont even bat on eye. Remember, if you are famous, this secondary list can be disregarded.

@dreambeliever3652

2 жыл бұрын

@@John-ih7gp yes. I said the same. Today’s society has made a bunch of disrespectful spoiled children

@garyprieto3731

Жыл бұрын

@@John-ih7gp Money speaks louder than words -Me.

@streetcrypto1218

Жыл бұрын

SImp

Am glad you mentioned integrity. I think people with that trait will live a more fulfilled and actualized life. I’ve personally known people with little to no integrity pass away, karma is definitely something to consider. I’ve watched a few of your videos now and I think your authentic and add value. Congrats, keep up the great work 👍

Good list actually. I want to grow into high value man. Authenticity, integrity, and emotional intelligence are very high qualities of a men.

Women's qualities I like: intelligence, humor, kindness, a mission in life outside of me, and a flat tummy.

High value woman, is you! well spoken, not a ton of make up, outstanding charming personality. Enchanting voice! high value woman are extinct!

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Awww thank you so much 🥰

@danielchavez506

3 жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan man need to be more real, the same for woman wearing too much makeup hides their true real.

@eddiehogg1679

3 жыл бұрын

I fully agree with you George Orozco

@raymeester7883

3 жыл бұрын

George are you a programmer?

@georgeorozco4970

3 жыл бұрын

@@raymeester7883 No I am a hotelier. I programed back in the days. have you hear of Pascal, C. I was teaching those classic old G. Languages. before windows.

You look like a real counselor, not like a simple youtuber trying to convince ppl about your content. I have been watching contents like yours for a long time and the way you deliver yours is the best I have found so far. Thanks for your work and congratulations for that.

Gosh with earphones on your voice is even more soothing. Speaking the truth as always.

I just got out of a long term relationship; this is exactly what I needed to know what I should work on.

Really needed this one today. A good reminder to pursue and ensure self-appreciation and love, and become the man we want to be for ourselves. This last year has really affected my confidence and cut my voice off. So I'm very grateful for the video 🤘

Great video! In my opinion a high value woman is honest, confidently feminine without being overly sexual, doesn't take herself or life too seriously and isn't constantly looking for outside validation (has her own deeply held opinions, not addicted to social media, etc.)

Great list and I’ve strived for each. You really can’t fail following this list. One thing I’d like to add is a man should want these listed for himself and only himself without the results of getting a woman. A good woman will be a byproduct of his behavior(s). Thanks Courtney

You just keep droppin vid after vid. Much respect.

@banksterkid5930

3 жыл бұрын

Dude you joined 15 years ago😮😲 much respect

This is so healthy and emotionally intelligent. You must have a certification in therapy or something.

@howmathematicianscreatemat9226

3 жыл бұрын

@@Redouku yes, she is one of the VERY few ladies who can not only stand to see other people shine nexto her but even INSPIRES them to. She embodies source energy.

Wow Courtney, I wish I would've have heard this earlier in life when I was in my twenties. I've been around the wrong people and have I been listening to the wrong voices. Watching your videos are really reinforcing my choice in upgrading my life. Thank you sooo much. ❤️

Always been a believer in putting yourself 1st and doing whatever it takes to make yourself feel happy. I recently dumped ALOT of people from my life as I started seeing them for who they really are. I always kind of knew but tried to see past things.

I just got up and the best way to start off my Saturday is by watching this video! ☺️

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Yay! Enjoy 🥰

@admirbarucija2018

3 жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan Thank you so much! 🥰

"...especially in today's society, where if you have a different opinion, everyone tries to cancel you." Lol that is spot on!

Really this is one of the best youtube channel for self-developement. A Big thanks to the creator @Courtney Ryan for creating the true content for us for free and these advices really add values in our life. I will be more than happy to work for you in future for free. Thankyou so much for putting this much effort.

By far the best and most inspiring video you have uploaded. Thank you Courtney for the resources you've provided me with to be the absolute best man I can be.

Last year I totally burned out by pleasing people, since then I'm visiting a therapist and slowly having a different view on myself and life.. And videos like these help me stay on the right path.

Keanu reeves in thumbnail got my attention. This guy is a legend 🔥🔥💯🙏🏼

@MrDanielWP

3 жыл бұрын

Keanu is 6ft tall, rich, famous, in good shape, he plays action roles and trains for them, and he is quiet/gentle... so, people don't really know him and he can be what they imagine him to be. He is every woman's dream man.

@wellyforpm

3 жыл бұрын

Because he's canadian.

Boundaries and Authenticity are 100% - for me - the key. I was always the "yes" guy. My colleagues knew that if they presented the issue in a certain way that I would take it off their plate (with no care in the world as to what I had ALREADY on my plate). That has changed. Well, is changing. I am not perfect. Authenticity - aka, your relationship with YOU - is very important as well. What does your internal dialogue look like? Mine is not always so great. But....working on that. If someone speaks unkindly to themselves....well, there is work to do. As always, Courtney, you are killing it. Job well done.

What I had gathered from this is you can't believe the negativity in your life. Even when it comes from loved ones who are just trying to "protect" you. You have to remain true to YOURSELF and to not allow yourself to become lost. I know this to be true now because I've gone through precisely that.

Great advice Courtney. I'm Quinn, a Doctoral student in Psychology who had issues with self-worth in the past. It is nice to see that high-value is not a simply of what material wealth someone has. Keep up the good work and I'll keep watching!

@rippedup4546

2 жыл бұрын

you are such a nice guy.

@davidbowman2035

Жыл бұрын

How is the doctorate going? Are you now a Dr?

This is honestly such a great self-improvement channel

Thank you for this. With a new lady in 13 years of an abusive one. I shall re-adjust and apply myself correctly. Love to you all. From the UK

I really like your presentation and how balanced your points are ..just wanted to say thanks and how refreshing it is to hear a woman's perspective that's friendly to men.

Came across your channel recently. You put across your point of view/perspective in a very calm, clear, logical and honest way. I am an introvert as well, so your suggestions seem more practical and honest to me. Subscribed to your channel. You should have more subscribers definitely.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Aww I love to hear that. Thank you so much, glad you’re here! 🥰

@allanrobertcordero1567

Жыл бұрын

ive watched so many but youre content makes me realized whats needs to be fix they always saying im cute to friendly have the carrisma but whenni start dating in turns into turnmoil and thats me ending on the friends zone

@allanrobertcordero1567

Жыл бұрын

stop validating!!!!!!

“Relationship with yourself”. So undoubtedly true

I was searching for a video like this. The options were many. Once I saw the KZread channel, I knew I'm at the right place

Love your authenticity in relationships. Relationship is better when both giving and receiving together.

Evaluating myself, I'm alright with authenticity(except when I fear I might offend people), emotional intelligence, integrity & always being open to learning (but of course there's always room for improvement), I think my self love/care is the area I need to work on, as I commit too much in life and am a bit short when it comes to taking care of myself!

Thank you for doing this. I know it takes time and effort for you to do this. Deeply appreciated. 🙌🏽

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Happy to do it! ❤️

Freaking love you Courtney! This is so helpful, thanks so much!! It's refreshing to consume positive and uplifting content for a change. I loved how you talked about authenticity, so true! For me, that's gotta be at the top of the list when I think about what makes a high value woman. She needs to be genuine. I find authenticity becoming more rare nowadays with both men and women, due to the skewed reality of social media, and going with the flow of what's popular.

Thanks again for this video. I' am a plus 50 year old male living in the UK and your vid as taught me a lot. I shall regularly be watching this vid to continual learn and remind of the lessons learn. Great Courtney

Looking forward to the video you're going to do about achieving self love. That's something I've struggled with my whole life and really need to change that mindset.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

I think a lot of us struggle with that. I’ve been there too. Stay tuned!

@DravenX37

3 жыл бұрын

Bro, read “The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem”. Can’t remember the author, but Google it. It helped me a LOT.

@Luiz-yj2po

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t think this is something you can fix just watching KZread videos bro... you should try a psychologist

@ericv5435

3 жыл бұрын

@@Luiz-yj2po doing that currently and it's not helping

@NechamaGluck

3 жыл бұрын

@@ericv5435 def read the 6 pillars. It was incredibly illuminating for me as well. It didnt "fix" everything, but it helped me understand what needed fixing and how to do it. Edit to add: the author is Nathaniel Brandon

Great video! I just realized I need to be better at setting boundaries and administering heavy doses of self love. Always been trying to people please and felt guilty whenever thinking about myself; thank you for your invaluable wisdom 🙏🏽.

@dennispacelli1007

2 жыл бұрын

Don't be hard on yourself, go softly

Refreshing to hear quality ideas from someone so well spoken and throrough. Thanks for the great content!

Had a conversation last night with some friends about how Keanu is the ultimate man. Love the thumbnail for the video. Another great video as well. I am absolutely loving the content. Throw the headphones in and workout listening.

I used to be a people pleaser and I felt like I needed a validation from everyone, and now that I look back, I was torturing myself. I realized that no one cares about me more than myself so why not take care of myself first

@motionmundo4982

3 жыл бұрын

Goodpoint

Maybe I can define what a high value woman is better yet let me share an example, Courtney Ryan is a high value, classy, example of excellence. Much love to you Courtney ❤

Thank you for the reminder! I started a couple projects, set them aside, and had forgotten them until watching this video. While i know enough to realize just how much i don't know i have also learned enough to want to share some of that with others (the focus of the projects). So thank you 🖖

Your channel is music to my mind. Thank you, Ryan!

I'm crying while watching this video. This all is what I learned the past year about myself after a though breakup. I didn't have any of this but now, one year later, I start to feel and do the things described in the video. Thank you Courtney

@onthecouchwithdonatodavis9569

2 жыл бұрын

Same here bro…..same here

Something I value extremely highly in a woman, is the ability to hold a conversation, because frankly, many women cannot. A woman with genuine hobbies and interests.

Of many relation coaching videos, I like yours the best! I value character, integrity, uphold dignity of attractive women, all the while focus my personal growth, as a genuine Nice guy, rather being a simps (whom I was for 3 months). Thanks Courtney!

You are a good example of a high value girl! As a mental coach it's delightful to watch your videos.

I think sometimes being a decent guy gets mistaken as a nice guy .. I’m decent but not a nice simp guy .... love that colour blue btw Courtney , really suits you x

@nathanhobday7511

3 жыл бұрын

I feel like you just contradicted your self.

Wow, Courtney. Thank you so much for this. I remember I had suggested this theme some time ago. I'm really glad you have done that.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Happy to do it! 🥰

"Belief in doing hard things". Nailed. It!

You make a lot of sense, this is needed for today's men, thank you pretty lady

I Appreciate You Highly with This High Value Topic Let’s Scale Separate Elevate 🦅🔥

Just a suggestion, you can make a video on simple easy dishes every man must know to cook. I personally feel every man must know to cook at least a few dishes as it is a survival skill and attractive too. I AM LEARNING MYSELF

@Ericj3k

3 жыл бұрын

Here let me help you...MEAT...that’s it 💪🏽

@bozo1875

3 жыл бұрын

Dude anyone can cook, just watch a KZread video. The problem is that these feminists suggest men should cook, while working 8-7 jobs

@robertmaxa6631

3 жыл бұрын

Cook? Don't need to anymore, this is what KD, tv dinners, and Chef Boyardee are for.

I really appreciate your channel and content as you point out things from the other side's perspective with a very accurate reflection of the reality of men. Your tips are also always on point!

I've gotta say as a guy you speak some seriously good stuff. Enjoying yourself is so satisfying and so attractive 😌

High value women: - fit, slim, and takes great consistent care of her body - peaceful and feminine energy (NOT a Feminist!!!) - open minded and interested and asks a lot of questions - humble and not vain and obsessed with her looks taking IG selfies and posting them all day - believes in adding value to the world instead of just being a taker and entitled - genuine, and authentic and non-manipulative and doesn't play games or mind games - barely wears any make up and does not have fake eye lashes, boobs, or nails. Natural beauty - low sexual partner count and respects her body as being sacred - classy and elegant (this is a super rare one in 2021) - well thought out and not just a hedonistic emotional ostrich jumping from one impulse to the next - has a few close girl friends and has great relationships with them. Doesn't hang out with tons of guys or her ex boyfriends - willing to put her phone away and be fully present during a conversation - not on tinder and all the other dating sites.

A high value woman to me is a girl who holds herself in high regard. She values her relationships and is honest and forthcoming towards the people she cares about. She’s kind and sharing. She is comfortable in her own skin and doesn’t resort to playing games and/or manipulating situations. She cares about her appearance but is not too bougie or high maintenance. I can go on and on...🤣🤣

I'm happily married but your chanell has helped me be more attractive to my wife. I'm learning so much about how women think, what they need and what attracts them about men. Thank you so much. Its like I started dating all over again.

I think this one is one of your best videos. Absolute complete honesty and excepting someone for their good, their bad and their in between 100% is the number one trait I’m looking for in a woman. I think the Song (I Didn’t Know)by Sofia Carson is a good depiction of what love should look like.

emotional intelligence hit a cord with me in this video, everything else is ok

A woman here trying to learn more about male psychology. Dear men, you guys rock!

@EncourageLegacy

11 ай бұрын

Love me a fine lady in faith. ✝️

Wow! That made me feel like you just dusted off my shoulders and straightened my collar and said, "there, now you're ready." Thank you for the brilliant insights.

The first four are good points. I totally agree with number five. You need to constantly learn something new. I read a lot, watch documentaries, take courses, and always try to learn new words. Travel to other countries also helps. This helps with developing literacy and a person's worldview. You're also able to have empathy for others.

40 Traits of a High-Value Man: Leader of Men Protector/Provider of loved ones Healthy emotional programming. Socially intelligent Makes proactive moves socially Confidant on approaching a stranger Able to interact comfortably Confidant expressing feelings Simple to understand Impervious to the influence of others Feels emotions strongly Dependable, stable, consistent behavior Feels good emotions: Happy, smiling, laughing, playful Always looking for fun and excitement Spreads good feelings to others Unreactive/drama free Unaffected by negativity Doesn't have an agenda, never forces anything Never tries to impress Never needy, clingy, or hovering Willingness to walk away from a situation he doesn't like Dances to the music In his own headspace Doesn't need validation/approval Creative expression through art Unconditional, non-judgemental Lack of jealousy Magnificant beliefs and principles Adventurous Masculine Is emotionally strong/has thick skin Is sincere and kind Has lots of ambition and is industrious Risk-taker, winner Love, Commitment, Passion Considerate and has class Practices self-discipline Never brags about anything Screens with high standards Has good social alignments/friends A girl's hotness is no big deal to him

@weirdchannel4428

3 жыл бұрын

bro you should've added 900 more traits or even like 3500 facts more thats way too less because it ain't easy to become like that

@startonix3613

3 жыл бұрын

@@weirdchannel4428 Try your best, a bunch of those traits should come naturally and you can work on whatever traits you want, you don't have to do all of those things, I certainly don't.

@howmathematicianscreatemat9226

3 жыл бұрын

Hey bro, I LOVE your points. :=) You seem to help people a lot with this but if you also include how they can get there, you can even help them even more ;)

@startonix3613

3 жыл бұрын

@@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 Thanks for the feedback. Some of the things mentioned do require a deeper explanation, maybe I'll make a series of KZread videos on it. A lot of those traits are "inner game" or personality traits a person adopts for himself. Stuff like: Never brags, sincere/kindness, lack of jealously, in your own headspace... all that stuff can be achieved by simple meditation/reflection and just choosing to start behaving that way. Think, reflect, then start being that way. Some things are harder to do than others. I used to find it very difficult to approach a beautiful girl in the past, but I've slowly chipped away and worked on it and I am much more comfortable talking to random girls now. I don't do everything on this list but look back at it and work on things I need to improve on.

Phenomenal video, well thought out, articulated in a concise and meaningful manner. Bravo

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🥰

5 Traits Of A High Value Man | Courtney Ryan 0:55 #1 Authenticity 3:55 #2 Emotional Intelligence 5:37 #3 Self Love / Care 7:19 #4 Integrity 8:36 #5 Always Learning Didn't realize you put Chapters in the "Show more" Key moments, Courtney! I didn't see chapters when hovering over the timeline. Really appreciate timestamps since it makes the video so much easier to watch. Great to see you doing it in your newer uploads!

I just found this channel and Courtney is awesome. I think you have to love yourself first, before you can love someone else.

I've been achieving self-love a lot since my girlfriend left me.

I don't know why but I actually cracked some tears.. probably because I remembered how hard I had to work to get these qualities with 25. You make good videos and you are a very charismatic, Down To Earth-Woman. Thank you for giving us good guys hope that not all women are crazy. 🤣😅

@jonathonrich8061

3 жыл бұрын

They really are.all crazy, just some more so than others. I'm sure Courtney can get crazy. I can see it in her eyes.

Really good advice, and refreshing to hear this because many think that a high value person is someone in the top 1%.

I literally was going to say as well how great that thumbnail is. A humble high value man at that too.