How To Use Strength To Get Your Ex Back

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In this video, relationship expert, Coach Lee shares how you can get your ex back by using strength and by operating from a position of strength.
Coach Lee explains how the No Contact Rule is actually not giving up power, but using power. If you are wanting to get your ex back after a breakup, this is a powerful video to watch but it is also helpful for when other things go wrong in life.
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  • @TriggaTrevv
    @TriggaTrevv3 жыл бұрын

    This is the most powerful video ive ever watched thank you for all youve done for me Coach Lee. God bless 💯💪🏾

  • @shurdellparris7240

    @shurdellparris7240

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes me as well before bed because its very hard to not reach out to her....

  • @lian6300
    @lian63004 жыл бұрын

    He is my angel. I wake up and watch his videos and and at night watch his videos until a fall sleep. Thank you so much.

  • @Albanersofa

    @Albanersofa

    4 жыл бұрын

    Agreed :)

  • @bhonggamelicor8860

    @bhonggamelicor8860

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here☺

  • @rtzbis6136

    @rtzbis6136

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yabsolutely!! He made me take things differently. The anguish and over thinking are fading now and I’m feeling better. Thanks Coach.

  • @jab2winfinance

    @jab2winfinance

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol. Can’t go as far as calling him an angel yet. But I’m in the same boat waking up and falling asleep. He definitely hits the nail on the head for me. Fingers crossed it works!🤞

  • @s-ayam4371

    @s-ayam4371

    4 жыл бұрын

    I do the same! Thank you coach

  • @DerMelodist
    @DerMelodist4 жыл бұрын

    No Contact gives you the strength you need. You don’t start with it, but you certainly end with it.

  • @FaithJoelle55

    @FaithJoelle55

    4 жыл бұрын

    3 days in no contact and I feel a sense of freedom!!! At this point I don't have a desire to talk to him or see him!

  • @pamelad757

    @pamelad757

    3 жыл бұрын

    Phoenix360 how long did you date?

  • @shaut9120

    @shaut9120

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@FaithJoelle55 how is everything now

  • @dannamunozca

    @dannamunozca

    3 жыл бұрын

    Are you sure? Because I miss him so much

  • @jsigversion1

    @jsigversion1

    2 ай бұрын

    9 days in, and some days are definitely easier than others. I'm AP and she's DA. Today was a hard one.

  • @EDiva98
    @EDiva984 жыл бұрын

    I watched these videos every night for comfort because we all know the nights are the hardest. And I watch them when I get down on myself. This is all new to me- I’m trusting the process. Thank you for the videos.

  • @Rats1738

    @Rats1738

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same! This is now a daily thing, even though I dont think I want my ex back just listening to coach Lee helps my mind

  • @MajDuty

    @MajDuty

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good luck

  • @benjcalderon2583

    @benjcalderon2583

    2 жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @brandonohara4122

    @brandonohara4122

    Жыл бұрын

    The morning is rough

  • @kikhazz

    @kikhazz

    Жыл бұрын

    @@brandonohara4122 it's a constant everyday all day struggle. Even while sleeping. Emotionally draining to say the least

  • @lukeskywalker313
    @lukeskywalker3133 жыл бұрын

    Its about losing the battle TO WIN THE WAR

  • @fbi8436
    @fbi84364 жыл бұрын

    Moving on and not caring anymore is the biggest strength and revenge....

  • @donnarakitzis2719

    @donnarakitzis2719

    4 жыл бұрын

    FBI • 9 Years Ago wish it was that easy

  • @fbi8436

    @fbi8436

    4 жыл бұрын

    Donna Rakitzis it’s hard but after, you’re gonna become someone much stronger

  • @empyric949

    @empyric949

    4 жыл бұрын

    Are aliens real?

  • @fbi8436

    @fbi8436

    4 жыл бұрын

    Logypoo could be

  • @maxhedge9535

    @maxhedge9535

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes that is the best revenge, we was together for 6 years and it's been 2 1/2 years since we been apart still miss her very much , my life has been better in every aspect. I never reached out to her and to this day I still do care and miss her but in a distance and not bother her, in the end you dont get over it you just learn how to live with it

  • @crystalfox604
    @crystalfox6044 жыл бұрын

    This pain is so painful & feels like your grieving a death......

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    4 жыл бұрын

    In a way, you are. For now.

  • @MajDuty

    @MajDuty

    4 жыл бұрын

    I've often said death is easier because with death there is no going back. You are forced to let go. Losing someone you became vulnerable to and loved dearly, is a pain worse than death. I've lost my dad and my best friend and I've grieved harder and longer losing the two loves in my life. I guess I should be happy I had two (not at the same time)

  • @paolapizzuti

    @paolapizzuti

    3 жыл бұрын

    I do feel the same.. I can't breath.. I feel numbness and lost... Someone help me please!

  • @MajDuty

    @MajDuty

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@paolapizzuti Likely only time will help. As hard as it will be you have to leave her alone

  • @paolapizzuti

    @paolapizzuti

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@MajDuty thanks... I will do my best.. Thanks for reach me out.. Let me feel less alone. 🙏

  • @petervanderlind
    @petervanderlind Жыл бұрын

    It doesn't even matter if the ex is coming back, at least I'm not running after the ex like a mad man

  • @michaelsturdevant9196
    @michaelsturdevant91964 жыл бұрын

    One of his best videos. Yes, it applies to all aspects of life when things aren't going your way. Showing strength shows her that you can take her or leave her. That doesn't mean you don't love her. It means you aren't desperate; you're solid. I followed this dude's advice and I got her back after three months. We're ten months now in chapter 2 and as strong as ever. Yes, it's better than before.

  • @Don-pk2uy

    @Don-pk2uy

    4 жыл бұрын

    Update bro?

  • @owensimpson1110

    @owensimpson1110

    2 жыл бұрын

    Congrats man I’m trying to follow the same advice and showing my strength emotionally

  • @sooofunny37

    @sooofunny37

    Жыл бұрын

    Congrats

  • @KrizXGirl

    @KrizXGirl

    Жыл бұрын

    If you don't mind me asking, why did you break up? Keeping my hopes and trying to see some patterns with success stories :).

  • @abdulmuminfoysol2898
    @abdulmuminfoysol28984 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Coach lee... Your tips really helped. My Long distance ex contracted me after 20 days of NC . Now she changed her approches & she is the one who asked me "can we talk".... I am so happy 😍 guys please be strong NC definitely works

  • @ATXMEX78

    @ATXMEX78

    4 жыл бұрын

    This gives me so much hope to hear congrats!!! My long distance just left me this past Sunday on the 2nd the day before her birthday.. we were in a relationship for a year-and-a-half and we had seen each other two times one time our daughters actually met mine is 9 and hers is 10 and my daughter was really looking forward to having a new sister, anyways it seemed that her career was what she chose over moving to Texas with us which I can respect.. my 2nd oficial day of No Contact was yesterday but she checked on me today because I happened to sprain my knee yesterday at work. But I'm only responding very cool and calm just like the coach Lee's videos I have been binge watching, she's a super sweet woman who I have amazing chemistry with and not a difficult bone in her body whatsoever.. It would be a shame to lose this unicorn of a woman!!! Any man would be blessed to have her just as I have. She cried when telling me the bad news but she basically explained that her love had dwindled which killed me because I thought we were still looking forward for the move in Summer.. I should have encouraged her when she wanted to visit me on New year's but I talked her out of it because I didn't want her to get in a plane accident or be stranded in the midwest because she lives in Indiana I was only looking for her well-being but maybe she didn't see it that way and she started having doubts.. Can you please in detail tell me how she approached you? And did you guys set up to fly to each other? Thank you so much for the hope Sorry if this was winded

  • @abdulmuminfoysol2898

    @abdulmuminfoysol2898

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ATXMEX78 I can feel u bro. Don’t rush she will be back it takes time though

  • @ATXMEX78

    @ATXMEX78

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@abdulmuminfoysol2898 Thanks bro I wish you the best I pray mine comes around for us But if she doesn't I will atleast be stronger and better for myself and my daughter!

  • @calebdruckenmiller3148

    @calebdruckenmiller3148

    4 жыл бұрын

    Abdul Mumin Foysol So happy for you! I love hearing success stories. I’m a little over a month of no contact myself. Any advice for my situation? I’m 28 and 13 years younger than her- I know the age difference was part of it. We dated for 5 months with no relationship title and it turned into a long distance situation the final couple months since I became an independent contractor and now travel for different jobs. I’m making great money which is awesome but seems I lost her in the process. I really hope we can start over again eventually though. She really was special to me and I’m gonna keep doing whatever is necessary to be prepared for when we do.

  • @Sarai0901

    @Sarai0901

    4 жыл бұрын

    This gives me hope, i have a long distance too, he broke up with me 4 days ago, and i am doing the no contact, but i dont know if it works on long distance, but your comment gives me hope, thanks!

  • @sogolafshar2996
    @sogolafshar29964 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee- I’ve been having the hardest days of my life. The only way I got through it is by watching your videos. Thank you for your amazing work!

  • @margotmaven1052

    @margotmaven1052

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ditto

  • @Thigrandil

    @Thigrandil

    Жыл бұрын

    Any update? Ive been though these hardest days of my life too, feels amazing when its over, doesnt it? Nothing will ever again defeat me.

  • @lilliankillian7366

    @lilliankillian7366

    Жыл бұрын

    He is so encouraging.and gives us hope. Ty coach for helping us with the hurt. It's so hard

  • @ryanchaney94

    @ryanchaney94

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Thigrandilupdate for you?? Since people don’t update lol

  • @Thigrandil

    @Thigrandil

    11 ай бұрын

    @@ryanchaney94 she still messages me daily, we see each other once/twice a week and talk for hours. but 9 months later, we're still not together again. its weird.

  • @dellaknocke4669
    @dellaknocke46693 жыл бұрын

    My guy is coming over tomorrow with steaks and bake potatoes. We've known each other 6 yrs. We're in our 70's and I have never met a man like him. Such a gentleman and caring. It's been a week since we've seen each or even communicated. I let him have the break.

  • @sanayachinsang909
    @sanayachinsang9094 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee is the most handsome and sexiest man alive on the planet He's the greatest coach ever !!!!!respect coach Lee

  • @Simple_Days

    @Simple_Days

    3 жыл бұрын

    He is indeed...I really like his protective aura

  • @lisat5666

    @lisat5666

    3 жыл бұрын

    I believe he is all for us and sincere.

  • @MaRiAm936

    @MaRiAm936

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes he is

  • @melissaboss5399

    @melissaboss5399

    3 жыл бұрын

    He’s soothing. Refreshing. And easy on the eyes 😍

  • @w.a.9655

    @w.a.9655

    3 жыл бұрын

    Totally agree & very professional 💥 like the sun-bleached hair too.

  • @fellamay4558
    @fellamay45584 жыл бұрын

    This man is absolutely precious. The only coach who goes deep into the psychology of ppl.

  • @AdeleMoravcov
    @AdeleMoravcov4 жыл бұрын

    I panicked and did those mistake... it was my first serious relationship and therefor first serious break up. However I completely get what you are saying in this video. With it being a bit over a month now and me being in NC, I realised it actually was a good thing, it was a kick in my butt and I started working on myself more than ever before. I know that if we are meant to be than we will get back to each other and will be better for each other, if not, then at least I will be better for someone else and mostly for myself. Its still hard to know I wont have them in my life, but Im starting to realise that no matter how this ends, it was a good thing because I needed to lose someone I loved to realise what I was doing wrong and to realise my worth.

  • @hwdareu5848

    @hwdareu5848

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow ... Seems like we are on same boat. I cried and pleaded before and on the day she broke up with me... Went straight no contact and broke it after 7 days and befriended her(most pathetic things to do). Stayed in contact with her, hangout twice and after 1 and half months I convinced her if we can workout and she told me she's not interested and that she don't love me anymore...no contact for 2 months now.

  • @AdeleMoravcov

    @AdeleMoravcov

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@hwdareu5848 I luckily went no contact out of nowhere after I tried the friend thing but then my ex posted smth on IG and I was done. But then we met up and it felt like break up no2, we ended at good terms tho even tho the conversation was tough. So Im in 3rd week of NC round 2 and we will see. But tbh Im not sure I can be with my ex anymore, they sleep w someone new already and that just makes me sick

  • @hwdareu5848

    @hwdareu5848

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@AdeleMoravcov yeah... that's why I'm never going to contact her again.

  • @kglistless
    @kglistless4 жыл бұрын

    This may be your best video yet. Strive for personal greatness, be strong, your progress is all that matters. Small steps. Just fake it until you make it, because you will eventually make it -either on your own, or with the person you love.

  • @FaithJoelle55

    @FaithJoelle55

    4 жыл бұрын

    Agreed!!!!

  • @lke4907
    @lke49072 жыл бұрын

    .. nobody ever said "I sure am glad I panicked." 🤣😅 Coach the humor you throw in to your videos is the best. Love your personality.

  • @joannab1692

    @joannab1692

    7 ай бұрын

    😂 I laughed at that too!

  • @jantahosp

    @jantahosp

    5 ай бұрын

    At What time line....pls

  • @LiLgPnoy15
    @LiLgPnoy154 жыл бұрын

    I watched this video many times, but after months of hard work and being patient, everything is clicking. Everything is coming together. I am stronger as each day goes on and I understand my past. Shout out to everyone going through a difficult breakup.

  • @daphneywilliams5225

    @daphneywilliams5225

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank u Coach Lee, God bless,

  • @vendulaknejflova1272
    @vendulaknejflova12724 жыл бұрын

    You know. I don't even want my ex back, I just love watching your videos because they're so inspirational!

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    4 жыл бұрын

    Vendy, thank you so much.

  • @honeygirlification
    @honeygirlification2 жыл бұрын

    You truly feel like a best friend. You’re very comforting and I thank you for helping me through all this brokenness and pain.

  • @HappyGirl707
    @HappyGirl7072 жыл бұрын

    That's good coach Lee. Boxer Ali said "Sometimes you have to take a step back to move forward."

  • @joemanifesto8742
    @joemanifesto87423 жыл бұрын

    Best video on this ever! I went from feeling sad and hopeless to feeling like I was hearing the theme to Rocky. We got this!

  • @matthewjob9462
    @matthewjob94623 ай бұрын

    This man is literally saving my life. One video at a time. 1 week since the breakup and NC. I took the news with dignity and started NC immediately even though I’m shattered to pieces. I didn’t know I could survive and then I coach Lee showed up in my feed. Been binging nonstop and reading comments to keep my sanity.

  • @kevintator2303
    @kevintator23033 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee, i cannot thank you enough for all of your advice you put here on KZread for people going through these emotions. Last night, my ex contacted me after I did the no contact rule saying she misses me and wants to work on our flaws and apologized for some of her faulty behavior that she did not notice during the relationship. I had faith that things would workout thanks to the fact of me following your advice and resisting on contacting her. So far, the time spent away from eachother made me realize that I also needed space and to prioritize my health and focus on me. During no contact made me realize a lot of things I needed to work on not just for my relationship, but for myself. Thanks again coach lee!!

  • @gennerobootz6490

    @gennerobootz6490

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s awesome I pray I will be able what you did

  • @wishwash6647
    @wishwash66474 жыл бұрын

    Coach lee I'm going through a really rough time and your videos helps me so much thank you for everything

  • @benjcalderon2583

    @benjcalderon2583

    2 жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @africanfufu
    @africanfufu4 жыл бұрын

    They can’t miss you if you there......😄

  • @funemployed468
    @funemployed4684 жыл бұрын

    No matter the outcome, it helps to watch ur content when the mind starts to drift off. ☺️

  • @Azizajewelry
    @Azizajewelry4 жыл бұрын

    This is probably the best video on the internet right now 👆

  • @theseattlegreen1871
    @theseattlegreen18714 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee was born to do this. Thanks man

  • @spicyjedi4584
    @spicyjedi45844 жыл бұрын

    I’ve noticed it is extra hard to operate from a position of strength knowing he started seeing someone else but the good news is it is possible. Regardless of what’s going on with him I can still strength train my mind and body and in time my position also naturally strengthens. Sometimes when my mind starts going to a weak place my inner drill Sargent orders me to knock it off...and it actually helps!

  • @pattytran44
    @pattytran443 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate how empathetic and compassionate you are!! More people should be like you!

  • @lesliejohns987
    @lesliejohns9874 жыл бұрын

    Wow wow!!!!!!!! This IS THE ICING ON THE CAKE!!! YOU SAID EVERYTHING IS THIS VIDEO WITH THE UTMOST PERFORMANCE OF YOUR INTELLIGENCE!!! YOU COACH LEE ARE THE PRIZE ... THIS VIDEO GIVES ME SOOOO MUCH HOPE!!! The analogy of using sports says it all .. JUST WHEN YOU THINK ITS A LOSS CAUSE ... That’s our mind playing tricks on us!... IT TRULY ISN’T!!! THERE IS HOPE FOR ANYONE!!! God Bless you All!!!❤️🙏🏻

  • @FatFingerMusik
    @FatFingerMusik4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks dude. You posted this on the day of my break up and it spoke to me. Be Strong.

  • @josephm6242
    @josephm62423 жыл бұрын

    I'm going to operate from a place of strength! Letting situations make me stronger and seeing them as opportunities to grow!

  • @steveslagle8564
    @steveslagle85642 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee, I have a 23hr drive ahead of me after we broke up and will be listening to you the whole time. Thank you for all your helpful videos

  • @frecklesjones4643
    @frecklesjones46432 жыл бұрын

    You always bring me back just when I feel I’m slipping… it’s a one day at a time process I truly appreciate you Coach Lee..

  • @antonymorvan1289
    @antonymorvan12893 жыл бұрын

    I listen to your videos daily over and over again to help encourage me that I am not in an impossible situation. The past 6 weeks have been incredibly hard in no contact and your videos are the only thing that have provided help to me. Bless you man.

  • @uwotm8613
    @uwotm86133 жыл бұрын

    You're great man. I don't even want my ex back now but I still watch your videos because I learn and reinforce things every time I watch them.

  • @carmenstefano7875
    @carmenstefano78754 жыл бұрын

    Such amazing, smart advice. I would suggest to anyone listening to his videos to re-listen several times to let it sink in. It is taking me a long time to find my strength, but it is so worth it.

  • @oneputtsteven
    @oneputtsteven4 жыл бұрын

    The lessons in this video apply to much more than breakups. The stories of people facing incredible adversity and then overcoming the adversity and go on to many successes in life. A very powerful video.

  • @Lulu-fh2rk
    @Lulu-fh2rk4 жыл бұрын

    coach lee, I can't thank you enough! your videos not only help me to overcome my anxiety, but also teach me to be more confident, strong, and patient in all aspects of relationships. I'm so grateful

  • @jaynefernandez483
    @jaynefernandez4834 жыл бұрын

    Hi Coach, I operated from a position of strength, and all worked out for me. I will continue to watch and support . You’ve given and continue to give me tools that help me. I can’t thank you enough. You’re the Best to do this. King Coach😘

  • @jasonforster7852
    @jasonforster7852 Жыл бұрын

    This is such great advice coach, it gives me great strength to know that no matter what happens i can always come out on top of this looking like a winner. I got dumped by my ex since may 14th and ive been struggling the first few weeks but the more time i have slowly regaining my confidence and strength back, im know that time eventuality will catch up with everyone. So theres no need to be bitter but wish them happiness along the way and you'll always become a stronger person for it. Hope everyone on here can find peace on their hearts at somepoint because we all need to grow and become stronger for ourselves, we have to live on and take whatever comes you're way.

  • @guteKi1147Q
    @guteKi1147Q4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you from the depth of my heart Coach Lee. Coach Warren and others, take notes. THIS is how you help people rekindle relationships ! And not by telling them to leave the love behind and move on. People, if you read this: Coach Lee is the single best guy who will help you get your mind straight and get though this and hugely enhance your chances to keep your love forever burning strong. I've seen every video and channel on this topic and this here is the best quality information available. God bless you sir. Take care.

  • @LineKing51
    @LineKing513 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee, I’ve watched & listened to MANY of these video’s....as a former college athlete, although it can relate whether an athlete or not, THIS IS BY FAR, the best most inspirational coaching video I have ever seen! I am heartbroken & shook up with my gf breaking up with me but, it IS the best thing that happened to me. I am hopeful that as the catalyst for my transformation, my ex is the recipient of the new, best me because it’s always what she needed & wanted. Your videos are powerful & right on target. I would love to be a client & I am going to look into how I can get your personal help. My gf is the love of my life but, I will use the breakup to get her back! THANK YOU!

  • @rayf5360
    @rayf53604 жыл бұрын

    This video was a powerful message in itself, very well voiced and very motivational.

  • @fire12731
    @fire127312 жыл бұрын

    I think coach Lee is helpful even if you don’t have relationship issues / break ups . His content and delivery are spot on . So glad I found him . Wish I found him a long time ago but this was my time

  • @lesliejohns987
    @lesliejohns9873 жыл бұрын

    This is THE BEST VIDEO EVER !!!! I WATCH IT WHEN I PANIC AND HAVE EXTREME ANXIETY... But I have to say!! I HAVE TO WORK ON MYSELF... That’s the KEY! And Time and Patience!! Absolutely THE MOST SUPERB VIDEO EVER!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @DerMelodist
    @DerMelodist4 жыл бұрын

    Lee, I am so grateful that my breakup happened. I’ve grown stronger and I’ve become an even fuller person through all of this. Thank you for helping me get through this. No contact will give you the strength, even though you don’t start with it.

  • @lindapatterson9104
    @lindapatterson91042 жыл бұрын

    I cried while listening to this It was so powerful Thank you Linda

  • @mizeloise5610
    @mizeloise56103 жыл бұрын

    I am the dumper and I am watching your videos to internalize and rationalize my decision. I use them so I can see objectively and so I can learn. I write down on my notebook. So many golden teachings here

  • @laceycastillo6598
    @laceycastillo65983 жыл бұрын

    The reason why I keep on watching and listening to you not because I want to get my ex back but I love the way you lecture like us who's been dumped to wake up in the reality of failed relationship to overcome the pain. Thank you Coach Lee!

  • @31Alden
    @31Alden3 жыл бұрын

    Moment vs Future. Coach Lee: This is the most significant, no holds barred video you’ve done. As painful as the past 5 months have been since my ex and I called it quits, I am both old enough and wise enough to grasp the “moment vs future” concept. I also know the person I was involved with: Proud, stubborn, recalcitrant and patient in most instances. I also know the deep, sensitive and tender side [of him]. I’ve given him what he asked for (space). I don’t chase, beg, cry ... etc. No sunshine-thumping woman, I. Full-on position of power realist. Residual pain notwithstanding. Thank you, Coach Lee.

  • @oxymoron458
    @oxymoron4583 жыл бұрын

    When the anxiety starts to fade away it becomes an interesting experience almost blissful

  • @ausium8433
    @ausium84332 жыл бұрын

    Thank you to the bottom of my soul that you share your knowledge free on yt. Not filled with greed, just the desire to help others, you have the greatest respect of mine good sir.

  • @zuzu7250
    @zuzu72503 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee, you have the kindest, most reasonable way of telling us ladies to “leave the man alone!”... every young lady I have ever known needs to hear you speak...

  • @hillarykittim8186
    @hillarykittim8186 Жыл бұрын

    He is literally making the world a better place. May God sincerely bless this man.

  • @robcobi
    @robcobi4 жыл бұрын

    Your positivity is really helping me, regardless to whether my breakup sticks or not. Thank you for these videos :-)

  • @bonfire0hzero
    @bonfire0hzero2 жыл бұрын

    I watch these videos and I feel like I'm being told a story and end up relaxing and falling asleep. They're amazing videos and help me wind down lots!

  • @Esteban_Narvaez_MD
    @Esteban_Narvaez_MD Жыл бұрын

    I've been watching your videos since my ex-girlfriend broke up with me and I can tell that there is no better coach I've found than you, I tried other technics at the beginning that clearly didn't work but when I started applying the no contact rule I started to have better results, waiting for her to reach me out, no calling or texting her, and she has been doing it with intervals of 2-3 days, and when I talk to her, I don't cry or beg, I think as you say, I look more strength and mature in this way, it makes sense when you don't chase, they look back and miss you, she is not back yet but applying your advises most likely she will. Watching your videos makes me feel strong and hopeful in this nightmare. Thank you.

  • @tavmansn1122
    @tavmansn11224 жыл бұрын

    I click on these videos so quickly when I see em pop up

  • @Ye80s
    @Ye80s4 жыл бұрын

    Coach lee speaks without a script, what an expert!

  • @alertbox

    @alertbox

    4 жыл бұрын

    He is undoubtedly the leading expert but it might be he has a teleprompter app displaying the script. I only say this because I've just got such app [Andorid app, Telephrompter] to help me with recording future videos. Either way, Coach Lee is a genius who helps soooooo many of us.

  • @RiFeX2703
    @RiFeX27032 жыл бұрын

    I noticed a lot of people write posts like "If he/she left me she doesn't deserve me" like Coach Lee said humans are not perfect. They lose their focus, make bad decisions, misinterpret their feelings and so on. Good things are not easy and for good things you need to make an effort. Everyone wants a job that pays 20k a month but nobody wants to study and go to college. Everybody wants to drive a brand new car but nobody wants to work for it. Same thing with relationships. Sometimes people need to grow and be stronger than before. Learn the skill of forgiving guys it really helps in life ;). Also a lot of the times you aren't a second choice or as people say "Their relationship failed and now the are crawling to me" it may be true but you don't know for sure. Drop that ego my friends and you will be surprised at how many things you misunderstood. Have a good one!

  • @kevinseraphimday6373
    @kevinseraphimday63733 жыл бұрын

    I just "discovered" coach Lee and he seems to be able to do the most convincing job of teaching "no contact". So good it even gets through my thick skull lol.

  • @rubayaya9947
    @rubayaya99473 жыл бұрын

    This video is everything ♥️ It gives me so much strength and I listen to it every morning! Thank you Coach Lee! You're my coach for life!

  • @mathewkeipert6021
    @mathewkeipert60213 жыл бұрын

    That was so powerfull. I love Coach Lees videos. This on in particular hit home at a time I thought I would cave in and try and contact my ex who I'm missing terribly. I want my girl but I also want her to know I'm strong and resilient. Not always on the inside but on the outside.

  • @timphillips9954
    @timphillips9954 Жыл бұрын

    This is brilliant advice. it's only over when you are beaten. It's only over when it's over. Sell yourself from strength. Remember, have some self respect. Let them know how special you are and how much you can give to your ex. Love yourself or how can anybody else love you?

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    Tim Phillips, you CANNOT love anyone unless you love yourself is 100% correct. I can recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you for all situations. myexbackcoach.com/ebk

  • @waitwhat6882
    @waitwhat68823 жыл бұрын

    “Living well is the best revenge” ~George Herbert, a 16th century poet.

  • @lifeisbeautiful3019

    @lifeisbeautiful3019

    3 жыл бұрын

    4 centuries ahead ! That’s insanely Awesome 👏

  • @lifeisbeautiful3019

    @lifeisbeautiful3019

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wait what?! Ur comment really supports ur name 😁😅

  • @wontgetfooledagain8178
    @wontgetfooledagain81783 жыл бұрын

    This particular video may be his best-and that’s saying A LOT, because it’s a multi-faceted topic. I feel A LOT BETTER THANKS 🙏!!! 💪💪🚀😎

  • @jugojugo6591
    @jugojugo65914 жыл бұрын

    Watching these videos everyday as a therapy and to learn. Appreciate everything man thanks for these videos

  • @annyyarellano4691
    @annyyarellano46912 жыл бұрын

    Hi Coach Lee, thank you for this video! Everyone, let's all choose to operate from a positio of strength! They will be back and let's see them beg and cry!!!

  • @Bulldog19547
    @Bulldog195473 жыл бұрын

    One of coach Lee’s best videos. What a great message...operating from a position of strength. Love it.

  • @stefanmolejo4578
    @stefanmolejo45784 жыл бұрын

    Kool haircut... Keep helping people with this excellent content!

  • @siasia483
    @siasia4833 жыл бұрын

    Oh my God, I needed this so much. I haven't been that relieved and relaxed in a long time. Thank you for your work! You give me hope and that's more than I could ask for now. Amazing content!

  • @cherfania
    @cherfania3 жыл бұрын

    Omg I would be so lost without you !! Every time I feel week to text him back . I rush and look you up . Ty for doing this for the week

  • @feebsfilms
    @feebsfilms2 жыл бұрын

    Best and strongest video on No Contact and I’ve watched many many hours on this topic since my ex suddenly ended things with me. You’re amazing coach Lee. I hope you start taking calls again!

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    Feebsfilms, Coach Lee is taking calls. myexbackcoach.com/coach-lee

  • @NepseN95
    @NepseN954 жыл бұрын

    I was so heartbroken but u have given me hope again she has not yet talk to me but i have hopes thank u

  • @monicawylie3985
    @monicawylie39852 жыл бұрын

    My ex-husband (not the man that currently broke up with me) does karate. His sensei told him to fight not with fear, nor with anger, but only with bravery. Be brave my friends! We can do this.

  • @gooptone
    @gooptone4 жыл бұрын

    Now I am addicted to Coach Lee .. it’s all good !!

  • @Paranfc
    @Paranfc5 ай бұрын

    Spent 6 weeks watching all of your vids.. this is the best

  • @maxhedge9535
    @maxhedge95354 жыл бұрын

    We was together for 6 years and it's been 2 years since the break up , my life has been better in every aspect but still miss her very much I have not reach out , in the end you dont get over it you just learn how to deal with it

  • @Enkies

    @Enkies

    4 жыл бұрын

    ramador sss wow that last bit in your comment really hit me

  • @rolfivarskar7096

    @rolfivarskar7096

    4 жыл бұрын

    You can certainly reach out now.

  • @hwdareu5848

    @hwdareu5848

    4 жыл бұрын

    2 years apart...bro please open up your heart and explore the possibility.. maybe God has someone greater and better for you out there. It's being 2 months of no contact for me now. We were together for 4 years

  • @maxhedge9535

    @maxhedge9535

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@rolfivarskar7096 she's been with the same guy this whole time

  • @maxhedge9535

    @maxhedge9535

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@hwdareu5848 ive been smashing other girls they don't compare to her

  • @Banana-lk7tf
    @Banana-lk7tf4 жыл бұрын

    One of your best videos, Coach Lee. It's not easy being strong but I know that it's going to bring him back. What we had was magical and I know that neither of us will ever find anything better. I'm not going to lose hope.

  • @peterwhite4429

    @peterwhite4429

    4 жыл бұрын

    Banana 9 how long were you together? And how long has it been since the breakup?

  • @byunsdale

    @byunsdale

    3 жыл бұрын

    hey, any update?

  • @autumnself2713
    @autumnself27133 жыл бұрын

    I Really Love this Video!!!! It's one of my Fav. I haven't seen my ex since November 5th, 2020. So I continue to Hold Steadfast to, Loyalty, Faith, Hope & Prayer that he will come back. We've been together, for 8 years he was my Best Friend, Teacher and we even Hitchhiked along the Gulf together, Wa State thru TX and than Florida. He is in California and I'm in WV for my first time. He will be in Savannah in Mid May n I'll be back in Florida.

  • @Spiritof48
    @Spiritof4810 ай бұрын

    Be strong 💪🏻 even if you feel weak , realize that you can get strong .

  • @tachynurse1339
    @tachynurse13394 жыл бұрын

    For everyone out there that is aching in pain from your break up, please listen to coach Lee. Every time I felt like I was weak I would listen, I would fall asleep to coach Lee. I wasn't sleeping at night, nor eating because of the pain. And it took everything I had to trust coach Lee. But let me tell you, it worked. And the serotonin release you get when you finally hear from your ex, is unimaginable. It took only 6 days for him to come around. We're still not 100%, but we are talking and he is reaching out to me! Please stay strong and trust the process!! You will be so glad you did. It's so worth the struggle. No pain, no gain! I'm rooting for you!!

  • @albertodeulofeu5277

    @albertodeulofeu5277

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s easier for couples to reconcile when the MAN leaves. It’s almost impossible the other way around.

  • @reemsoliman2099
    @reemsoliman20993 жыл бұрын

    I'm so grateful to you coach Lee! Your words are so insightful, intelligent and wise. Thank you

  • @hazellcandelario2166
    @hazellcandelario21663 жыл бұрын

    I love the way Coach Lee delivers his advices in his videos.. His voice is soothing and calm.. He speaks clearly that i can hear and understand everything he says.. It is so helpful listening to Coach Lee's advices, i get motivated... Tha k u so much...

  • @gebronthomasson6960
    @gebronthomasson69607 ай бұрын

    It does blow my mind to hear people say that about the ex they are wanting back.,that “they are a terrible person, evil, narcissistic,etc. but I want them back.. I know my DA ex and myself an Anxious were both at fault for not knowing the others issues until after the fact.

  • @diaryofseresha
    @diaryofseresha4 жыл бұрын

    I cant thank Coach Lee enough for making these videos, i'm feeling so down , missing my ex who left me when i asked him question bout committment. Coach lee's videos help me relax n look at life with positive prospect. Also give me hope he be back n this time with proper committment

  • @glenzeray
    @glenzeray4 жыл бұрын

    Coach lee... This one was a banger. I added it to my list to keep. Thank you so much for your encouragement and reinforcement.

  • @joycesexton2495
    @joycesexton24954 жыл бұрын

    Its more to life than chasing behind a man or woman life is precious god bless u coach lee 💝💝💝

  • @sandrasandrasandrasandra2285
    @sandrasandrasandrasandra22853 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee, You're the best. Five months of no contact,, still nothing!

  • @dentcrow3139
    @dentcrow31394 жыл бұрын

    I've been struggling with a recent breakup, binging on your videos. I bought the breakup kit. Within a day I was on track with your guidance. I am currently 5 days in. It is very painful, and I think that this video has just changed my life. I think this inspirational speech has given me the strength to move on if I have to, in time. But, I definitely still want her back, because I know I took her for granted, and I know I can do better. I also know we were happy, before we had our falling out. Thank you so much for the hope and love for what's ahead that you've given me, Coach Lee.

  • @MajDuty

    @MajDuty

    4 жыл бұрын

    Is the kit worth it? Seems like binging all these videos will give us the help we need. I do want to support the guy but is the kit worth it?

  • @maxsheerin8219

    @maxsheerin8219

    Жыл бұрын

    Did you get your ex back or did you pay for the kit and nothing came of it ?

  • @cyrusvanbeethoven4626
    @cyrusvanbeethoven4626 Жыл бұрын

    8:30 "Because nobody's ever said, 'I sure am glad I panicked!'" Lol, CL, you're the best!

  • @sariakhan5363
    @sariakhan53634 жыл бұрын

    MINDBLOWN. I FRICKEN LOVE YOU. Your videos are keeping me strong

  • @doubleJJ01
    @doubleJJ016 ай бұрын

    Coach Lee has been helping me everyday to feel better , its been 1 month of no contact , she do reach out in between but disappeared again , so I'm still holding on to NC ... she reaches out to wish merry Christmas and happy new year btw

  • @antithesispistopheles937
    @antithesispistopheles9373 жыл бұрын

    Coach lee is the man! What would the world be like if we all had fathers like coach lee?

  • @samanthajackson758
    @samanthajackson7584 жыл бұрын

    So right. I feel I'm in a position of strength he dumped me. I've gone silent he did message me saying he misses me I messaged back a few messages to each other then hes gone silent again. Nice messages about what we been doing. I'm not bothered what he does now I will only wait so long. If he doesnt get in touch I'm moving on. I will give it time. I just want to focus on myself now Thank you this video has given me strength and a new found wisdom

  • @madisonstephenson5486
    @madisonstephenson54864 жыл бұрын

    Needed this. Was together 5 years ago for a year, broke up for 3.5 years, got back together WAY too quickly for 6 months and broke up again (schedules didn’t mesh, moved in with one another too quick, lots of love there though) and I’ve been seeing my situation like this for a bit. Haven’t reached out since July and I feel that’s really strong! Hopefully he’ll realize what I think I already know. ❤️

  • @joehaber9835
    @joehaber98354 жыл бұрын

    Awesome coach lee .....I'm 59 and learned a lot from you ! I feel so much better ..empowered !