After 6months she's starting to send me massages after no contact thnks boss be blessed

@Andy-Andy

11 ай бұрын

Probably when you least expected it to happen 🙂

@kaisidis1704

7 ай бұрын

Hey! How’s it going?

@alexanderfinlayson3555

4 ай бұрын

She sent you a massage!

@Cowboy19735

4 ай бұрын

Must be nice, maybe then she will realize how well and good I treated her.

Love when Coach Lee said, "They think they want the breakup. We're going to let them find out."

@chrisceliaedwards5522

5 жыл бұрын

Lol 😂

@SonNguyen-sn5rr

5 жыл бұрын

Thomas Ulibarri g

@eleni1rol

5 жыл бұрын

That's why you shouldn't chase after them . If you do you're feeding their ego and they have power over you.

@heather4089

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly, my ex dumped me, I told him thank you for your time and I wish you the best. He hasn’t heard from me in 3 months and won’t hear at all. Not interested anymore after that.

@jaysilver5957

5 жыл бұрын

BAM! 😂🤷🏻‍♂️💯

"..focusing on friends and family that won’t break up with you” - so powerful

@AbdellatifAbaida

3 жыл бұрын

On your self also

@cestchou

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@tulinbeyduz920

Жыл бұрын

actually my friend just blocked me

Everytime I am tempted to let go of no contact I come to listen to these videos

@aprilzoe_4494

4 жыл бұрын

Bilan Bilan me too :) it works amazingly

@ildikoivanyi6873

4 жыл бұрын

@@aprilzoe_4494 me too, it works when u are weakening and tempted.

@JelenaVecic024

4 жыл бұрын

Every time i started to feel bad and depressed i come to listen your videos and i feel better... its been 8 days ..long 8 days how we broke up.. i still feel down but your videos are giving me light and hope. Hope that NC rule will work.. i miss my ex so very much..

@philipsmith4564

4 жыл бұрын

Jelena Vecic any updates?

@JelenaVecic024

4 жыл бұрын

@@philipsmith4564 nop.. 40 days since we broke up,., and i am in NC.. and have no plan to break KC at all i feel little bit better , but it is still far away from good... :(

When you find someone as good or better than your ex- you’ll finally stop thinking of them

@kikiandco1899

5 жыл бұрын

My ex will not find better than me. I am rich, a body to kill for, really smart and a book reader, respected and liked. 😂🤣😂🤣

@corchef007

4 жыл бұрын

Women don't know what they want..the only thing they know is that they want what other women have...

@scottzvidzo5564

4 жыл бұрын

@@corchef007 That's so true hey thanks for lighting up on that !

@M_elliote34

4 жыл бұрын

Andre porcelli - no this is good advice. Let them go. There are 70 billion people on this planet...and not a single one of them is meant to fill that one special spot in your heart. Did you not listen to coach lees video? Let your ex go, pursue self love and other romantic interests. If your ex comes back great, if not then you move on

@DNATruLyricist

4 жыл бұрын

@@kikiandco1899 it all depends on what's shes attracted to... not what society deems attractive

The comment section of Coach Lee's videos is such a beautiful place. People sharing the same agony. I always spend a good amount of time reading the comments whenever I watch coach's videos. Wishing you all a quicker and lasting recovery from this trauma.

@riyamalhotra2518

Жыл бұрын

100 like Deepak 👍

@riyamalhotra2518

Жыл бұрын

🤓

@user-iq7hv7ud8u

11 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@joanmu1053

10 ай бұрын

Very sweet❤

I want to thank the people in the comment section for sharing.

@divineserendipity1196

4 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same...

If someone is able to leave you, just let it go... move on, have dignity

@heather4089

5 жыл бұрын

Lola Who true

@denniso113

5 жыл бұрын

I agree. If someone leaves you, not in the middle of an argument, angry, or something like that, then it means that person planned it, wanted it, wished for it, and did it. And if he/she did it, it means that he/she just doesn't love you anymore, for whatever the reason. If someone doesn't love you, then let him/her go and never talk to that person, ever again, just shut up forever. Not for some period of time. Forever. Don't talk, don't look, don't show up.. Vanish.

@christophervibe7430

4 жыл бұрын

Dennis O then who do I have to control? And yell at

@DNATruLyricist

4 жыл бұрын

That's easy to say when ur not in love with them. Some people cant just drop someone like that if they love them.. its not that easy as u put it.

@222vessel

4 жыл бұрын

@@denniso113 what if she says happy birthday ?

its crazy how everything you want to do is the exact opposite of what you should do.

@RS-hz1yi

2 жыл бұрын

master this and apply it to the stock market. you will make loads of money going against the crowd. same concept

The best thing I realized that if you do no contact and do it not to get them back but, to move on and if they come back then great, if not that’s ok too. It really helped me forgive them and myself, accept the breakup and get back out there and have more fun in my life. I feel amazing. Be strong. Accept. Get yourself and your confidence back. Don’t obsess.

@jazzsatiago3451

4 жыл бұрын

For my Case my bf not even think of me because he Can easy to get hooked everywhere 😭😭😢😭😭😭

@nengahtung3756

4 жыл бұрын

JAZZ Satiago & you want someone like that ?

@jazzsatiago3451

4 жыл бұрын

@@nengahtung3756 like what

@nengahtung3756

4 жыл бұрын

Jazz Satiago, like what you said, your bf is the kind who is easy to hook up? Why would you want someone like that?

@rgue5509

2 жыл бұрын

update

Some words of encouragement to the dumpees, I ended it, I went through the relief period I am now in pieces wishing I had her back.

@maybugz

3 жыл бұрын

@@shamainedania4495 relief period was like a week, I was doing alright for like 4 weeks,sent the odd message to her, not much back, wasn't too bothered by it, thought just wait and we'll sort it out. It was when I seen she had a new bf after a month that it hit me and I was in pieces. I guess that's when I realised I really had lost her.

@vigneshwaranramesh4320

3 жыл бұрын

Will it work in the same way ? If the dumper is a girl

@maybugz

3 жыл бұрын

@@vigneshwaranramesh4320 hm, good question, women seem to move on to another guy much quicker.

@rred8674

3 жыл бұрын

@@vigneshwaranramesh4320 my situation is a little more complicated, but I do consider myself the dumper, and I'm a female. It's been 32 days, I count, and I have missed him since the first day. I tried to contact, nothing, so I let it be. I'm not going to harass or bother him. But it hurts so much, I regret it so much, and I'm here on new years at 1 am trying to find some peace of mind. So yeah. It sucks for us too. And I don't wanna move on. Not yet.

@vigneshwaranramesh4320

3 жыл бұрын

R Red Thankyou so much for responding .. I wish my girl should also feel the same as you 🙂. I am feeling relaxed and hope after reading your comment

I had coffee with the ex yesterday. Shes was very happy to see me. Had no contact in 7 months. She apoligized for everything. Even though we may not get back together it was nice. She texed me 5 mins after we departed telling me it was the biggest mistake she made. And told me im looking so good and look so happy. Lost 100 lbs and enlisted in army leave october. Its a win win for me.... She left me for her kids dad who she was with for 7 yrs and he doesnt do anything for them... I believe time apart is a great thing

@noneyabusiness9931

5 жыл бұрын

@@notherejusthere3324 yes its very true!!! If yall talk even once every cpl weeks or months still a chance.

@deseos8224

5 жыл бұрын

Good for you sean.. Time heals everything.. I hope someday I'll reach that point where I won't care anymore about my ex 😞I'm in no contact over a month now.. it's still hurt

@chrisceliaedwards5522

5 жыл бұрын

She'll regret it once someone has you 🤗 baby daddy baby mama drama been through that

@norarae3867

5 жыл бұрын

Your a blind fool if you take that broad back. once a cheater always a cheater

@mageguy3

5 жыл бұрын

Sean Griffin same situation. I’m in right now. She was getting a divorce. But I started acting I insecure and needed. She would tell me stories but i would act angry at times. She would go and tell him same story but he would be indifferent. She believed he “matured, he listens to me he understands you don’t “ he went to the doctor and told the doctor he didn’t have sex for 4 years since they split. She told me “ I believe him” Funny thing his mistress came out and told her later on she had slept with him several times and wanted him for her self. At this time she was already planing to go with him. She told me he went for him because of the kids had asked her but truth I see is she though he changed. The kids was the excuse I’m she in those 4 years apart the kids asked for him. Just now she does something about it when she meets me. But yeah she is hard headed and continues with her plan lol.

First day is not as hard as the 3rd to 4th days of NC. I really had to arrest myself not to text. I also decided since yesterday to quit checking her social media updates. Hard but doable

@BlackLabelSlushie

5 жыл бұрын

Don't crack. Especially the first month. Nothing good comes of it this early.

@babyololololololoo4311

5 жыл бұрын

TrueLies after a month it feels like they don’t care to talk or even to question why we stopped talking to them after a month I just want to give up and cry

@EJayyDreadHead

5 жыл бұрын

@@babyololololololoo4311 that doesn't mean its over .. .. Be patient

@jeffwolfe4058

4 жыл бұрын

Did it end or did you ever hear back or reach out?

@meosoukasene820

4 жыл бұрын

Did u ever won her back

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Success!!!! 36 days of No Contact and he just reached out. I mean ZERO contact. I don't even post on social media. I'm very busy so I just disappeared and quite naturally. I just needed uninterrupted silence to rebalance and heal. We have been together for 6 years and we separated just recently, June 1st. He reached out to me this afternoon pouring his heart out. Thank you for your guidance and reassurance.

@johnwick2338

11 ай бұрын

How r u both now?

@Ashof87

11 ай бұрын

@@johnwick2338 back together and more conscious in how we communicate with one another and being more mindful of making improvements.

@Ashof87

6 ай бұрын

@@Whatsthedealio1977 I ended things. No, neither of us were seeing anyone. We were ultimately not on the same page and what I want my future to look like was very different from his. Gotta be on the same page. Wishing you the best. Stay strong, you'll get through this.

@Ashof87

6 ай бұрын

​@@Whatsthedealio1977not sure if my reply went through. I ended things a few months after. We were not seeing others during the break. He still tries to call and text, but it's only the ego that doesn't want to fully let go. I no longer answer because it only opens a door to repeating a cycle that I do not want to repeat. It's draining, unnecessarily stressful and honestly, health comes first. Ultimately, we simply want different things. I wish you the best. Stay strong, you'll get through this.

Let them feel the loss... This is the key. Thank you Coach Lee. You are awesome ☺️

It feels like a military commander is giving a briefing before a tough mission! Thrilling.

@TexasToastSam

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely. Anchors Aweigh!

I think sometimes we dont necessarily miss our ex, we are just upset at how the break up happened. I was in a one year relationship with a girl and I ended up dropping the ball and the relationship ended. The guilt and shame of messing up is what eats me up inside. Not so much losing the person.

@junelee5975

5 жыл бұрын

Yes i d rather i got dumped

@Gweynth

5 жыл бұрын

Getting dumped hurts way more than dumping if you really love your partner.

@wrappataiga4914

5 жыл бұрын

@@Gweynth agree

@lormoons

5 жыл бұрын

Why don’t you get her back?

@magallonakirkadrianem.6040

4 жыл бұрын

Ify man, messed up so bad and that guilt and regret is killing me.

The best coach on the web. Hands down

@theseattlegreen1871

4 жыл бұрын

I concur

We all know these couches are really just coaching us not to get our ex back but to move on. sneaky but it’s true.

@mightyobserver12

4 жыл бұрын

Fall back. Coz getting back is almost impossible. He has merhandises though.

This channel really helped me stop texting my ex constantly and just focus on myself. If he wanted to, he would. Something to learn from.

@rkim3799

3 жыл бұрын

Well..any update?..did he come back?...or did he try to reach back to u?....

@Rebeccachazzy

3 жыл бұрын

R Kim nah i let it go and moved on. In a much better place now after all of it. I joined the army and decided I was worth more than trying to win someone else over when I just needed to love myself

@rkim3799

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rebeccachazzy u are indeed a strong woman...keep going girl....there will be someone out there..who are waiting for ur love....good luck....and thank u so much for ur answer😊

@Rebeccachazzy

3 жыл бұрын

R Kim you too! We all deserve love and are worthy of the correct kind. Never settle for less 💖

@Starrisaw

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rebeccachazzy why didn’t he try ? At all?

When I reflect on the past all my exes tried to come back at some point.....

@gracekyaw559

5 жыл бұрын

Crystal Fox How much time did they take to comeback to u?

@xbubbles10x

5 жыл бұрын

Grace Kyaw this has been true for me too ....it’s varied from 1 day to 4 years

@nyinyibito1757

5 жыл бұрын

They do come back at some point, all my ex's tried to reach out, some brake up i had was terrible, sad, shame, i was suprised one of my ex who dumped me so bad and called me names, we met coincindentally, he was happy ,gave me huge smile hope i was going to say hi and hugged him, i passed him like have never met him before, right now as im doing no contact rule, two of my ex's contacted me, one found me in IG yesterday, remember with him, we had only two day time together, but i realised he had along way to go, i blocked him, changed my number, now he's begging wants to meet me and very sorry for his behaviour, another one ghosted me for a month, i blocked him for two months, i contacted him, hes been begging me for 7 months now, i agreed to meet him, but later cancelled, he has to learn from this, he's been crying ,begging, calling but have never picked his phone, simply because i want face to face meeting and talk, now two of my ex's are back, honestly im taking the two guys back, will start slowly without being needy or bombered them with text, the othrr HE-goat should go to hell and never come back...

@crystalfox604

5 жыл бұрын

Grace Kyaw within days or a week.....

@crystalfox604

5 жыл бұрын

_ BUDDHA _ In my opinion you told her what you had to say & she probably thinks you'll continue to chase her.Don't chase her,don't contact her & honestly the best way for a person to notice your absence or appreciate you is to "REMOVE" yourself completely.If she's not trying than what's the point? I'm a woman & it works when a man goes no contact,try it.....

gosh, every time i feel jealous about the rebound things and the break up..i have to watch your videos and feel relieved 😂

@silvermont331

5 жыл бұрын

aiman atikah ibrahim me too hun . Let’s stay strong shall we?

@akiramisakiyamato9887

5 жыл бұрын

Lol god damn true

@myrtlejennings2209

4 жыл бұрын

My ex left me for his high school girl friend he has not seen since 1988. We had a good strong 15 year relationship I thought . He been with her 2 months now . I'm a ghost now using the NCR . Need some encouraging words . Thanks

@this_is_me7969

4 жыл бұрын

@@myrtlejennings2209 I'm so sorry to hear how he treated you, was there signs? I know it's hard right now but I believe in the NCR will help you in the long term stay strong

I don't care if he's thinking about me or not. He dumped me! I cried a river for a week then realized that he's a monster. I am happy now being single! Yes! You are right Sir! I don't want to waste my time for a guy who doesn't care.

I dont know if your gonna see this but thanks. I've been watching for 3 days straight. And you delivered alot of hard truths that left me sobbing and broken. HOWEVER. I listened again and again until that hard pill was a bit easier to swallow. You are so right. In everything.

Let me tell you all my tragic story me and my x were together 6 wonderful years , one gorgeous day she told me, I love u but I have 2 let u go . I'm broken crying like an ugly baby calling her like crazy ,stocking her in Instagram and snapchat she told me to leave her alone , I begged and pleaded NOTHING worked then she found a new tall gorgeous boyfriend and I was dying inside. I started no contact , days weeks months pass thinking of her alone depressed until one day I meet a beautifull lady in my brothers party we talk for hours and started to go out dating having fun 😋, after 8 months my ex aka the wicked witch from the north came back into my life but I didnt live her anymore I was in Love w someone new

@theseattlegreen1871

4 жыл бұрын

Awseone success story. But life still sucks!

@IrishCassidy

4 жыл бұрын

Glad you met a new, beautiful person.

@anonymousgirl6595

4 жыл бұрын

Awesome story

@arleteblanco9053

3 жыл бұрын

Same story but didnt find the beautiful man hehehe😅

@jessica76311

3 жыл бұрын

😂 wicked what?

Your videos are calm, exude common sense and are supportive. Nicely done

@user-iq7hv7ud8u

11 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

I go to school and work and i still think about my ex all the time

@sshuteandrew

5 жыл бұрын

Sky It gets better! Hang in- there is always hope.

@shamayim2001

5 жыл бұрын

Prayers help a lot!

@sshuteandrew

5 жыл бұрын

Sky That’s what got me through! Nothing beats love and security from within!!

@carloslopez6661

5 жыл бұрын

Keep fighting on brother! Its hard but just keep distracting yourself and praying!!

@hads5279

5 жыл бұрын

Same. Even when there’s a line out the door at work and I’ve got my fake, smiley costumer service face on, sometimes something about my ex will run across my mind and that pang in my heart happens.

I loved every bit of insight you gave in this video. Very underrated video and deserves thousands of more likes. Thank you for all you do

Your videos are always so informative, logical and really calming, but also thought provoking and very helpful to my situation, so thank you yet again!

Whether she is thinking about me or not, God is, and he will deliver to her door the same receipe she delivered to me many years ago, which pushed me into depression!

Coach Lee bringing the truth with no BS yet again. Thank god I'm wired to move on (even if i privately dwell on exes or i obviously wouldn't be watching this) but if you're looking for the tools to deal with a breakup he's got them. It's nice to see someone who's in this game to genuinely help

The best relationship expert by far.

Yes this coach is the best! 🥰 that’s exactly what I’ve been doing ! Boosting up my education and having fun w my healthy life style .. I’ve started hiking too. He even went to the same area to hike with his ex rebound now lol.. I once asked him if he had the tendency to go back to his exes and said no! Such a lie ! I starting let go. Thanks for ALL THESE CLIPS !

Seen and observed many relationship coaches in YT or article, trust me no one like Coach Lee. Myaaan, you're great. 👏

Couch Lee is our breakup savior, saving our life from broken heart, and self disrespect!

Amazing how you touched on the dopamine and seratonin connection from a scientifically proven standpoint. I believe you are the first person I’ve heard mention the chemicals in the brain that make us feel these things and keep thinking about them. It explains all the feelings of loss and ‘withdrawal’ symptoms in NC just as if giving up a drug. Great video explanation that a lot of people do not realize. A lot of this experience is as you said ‘all in the mind’.

@MIMIDSH

Жыл бұрын

I agree. I always felt I had wired my brain to thoughts of him.

Coach Lee is the best. No doubt, no hesitation! After two months I feel great by watching and following his advice. More power to you coach.

I have just been broken up with Coach Lee (2 days), it does hurt because I really liked her.... I feel so much better in myself after listening to your videos... NO CONTACT... !!! Thank you so much.

Thanks your the best out there on KZread, I watched nearly all your videos, you helped me tremendously.. I watch an episode every night when I went to sleep .. your knowledge enlightened me ..

This is really helpful as I am obsessing over my ex. And my pastor and anyone else that wants to help me will say to not focus on the ex. But actual specific things to do are what I'm looking for and that one minute that's not thinking and trying to build it up. Thank you so much for that Coach Lee. And thank you for the fact that you're not judgmental on if we want to go back with our ex or not. My heart wants what it wants. The more videos I watch and the more I reflect the more I feel like I'm not a 100% sure I would take my ex back. So much depends on my ex's attitude so it's easy to get scared that the attitude won't be where it needs to be.

Thank you for everything Lee, my mental has gotten stronger because of your tips and videos. Again, thanks for everything.

I can't get enough of how SIMPLE but DILIGENT plus at the same time STRAIGHT FORWARD you are. We drive ourselves Crazy over things so Stupid and meaningless. Thank God 4ur existence ✨ #Strongwords #Guidence #Justagreatdude

Coach Lee I want to take this time to thank you because your words are really helping. But I find myself at night and in the morning where I really miss her because I’m not falling asleep next to her or waking up next to her. But that statement you made about control being an illusion was just mind blowing 👌🏼

@dnap2526

3 жыл бұрын

That's how I feel right now I wake up in the morning and I have an immediate sense of dread that she isn't with me and it feels like a hangover sometimes I wonder if she feels the same way it's been 2 days since she called me on the phone and six days since she wanted to break up

Coach Lee is the best....PERIOD!!! Just the sound of his voice and reassurance with the correct key steps has made this break up so much easier on me 3 weeks later. I listen to them over and over, Im just starting no contact 3 weeks late due to us living together until last night and me begging for awhile. Luckly i know why her attraction faded in me, I was very confident when i saw her last night, caught her checking me out and wouldn't look me in the eyes. I put 12 pounds of muscle on, I wasn't the same insecure/needy guy she dumped after 3 years together and i owe it to your knowledge and courses. The only thing i still don't understand is that she never pulled away? Still passionate sex life, told me night before how much she loved me and even kissed me an hour before she did it? It's not another guy and I didn't break a cardinal sin so still confused on if she really wants this or if its some kinda test?

Lol the improvement of the quality of your videos is amazing. Quality was terrible before now its great!

keep it up coach lee, really helping men and women out here with their issues. Much love man

I feel very thankful for this channel and helping me solve all the confusion.

I always seem to be breaking up with my partner, then we end up back together because we can't leave each other alone ( so my friend tells me ) .....and so the merry-go-round continues ... At my lowest ive binge watched breakup videos but I always work my way back to coach lee as EVERYTHING he says rings through ..coach lee , your the best in the business, the holy grail , the most perceptive of anyone i try to take comfort from ....thank you so much in my darkest days , you stop me from going under !!!

@terrymccann2792

3 жыл бұрын

How has it panned out? I’ve had a similar relationship but this year it’s been minimal monthly contact - tomorrow is our 5th year anniversary I will ask her to marry me when I next see her

Coach Lee and his knowledge are fkng amazing.

It's been 41 days without contact and I'm still working. on myself and I believe in everything you say, you help me a lot to push through all this, thank you

I really learned a lot from this video, great information. It's amazing to think how much the heart yearns to heal & the mind still hopes . There's no doubt each person thinks about each other in no contact, there will always be a connection or you wouldn't have invested so much into the relationship, especially when marriage plans were made. Life ....I have found is a daily learning process & relationships take work on both sides but you can't be the only one putting in the effort.Follow your heart But never ignore your gut !!!! Great Video👍

@karend5327

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, always follow your gut instinct, it will save you a lot of heartache, this I know from experience. 17 months of my time invested with promises of anything I could ever dream of but it was all BS. Gut kept warning me. I have my power back after 2 weeks of NC and I don’t want him back now because I see it for what it was, based on lies but I am not bitter, honest 😂. Each experience in life makes us stronger once our heads start ruling our hearts. I do hope you are ok now and focusing on loving yourself. Blessings, Karen, UK.

I just want to say, thank you so much for these videos. It's really helping me!! You are amazing ❣️

About to take a walk now with NO ex videos!! Also, back to school tomorrow for my ex and me. I’m a teacher. He’s a principal. Different districts. Definitely find a new challenge, hobby or interest!! 💗

Folks, I cannot stress more: Follow coach lee NC rule. And focus in yourself meanwhile. It is 100% sure you are going to get over it and if it in start you almost dont believe it but yes, it will pass. It will pass.

@dnap2526

3 жыл бұрын

We aren't trying to get over it. We want them back

Am following you Coach Lee and your videos are very informative and to the point. Thanks.

To me you have been the best medicine- Coach Lee. In particular, what concerns my mental situation. You are like a conditioner on my wounds. You are a real comfort in my grief. I feel revitalized every time I hear the sessions'of yours. Therefore, thanks is a very poor word. You are outstanding Mr. Lee and a really good person. I've said it before, but say it again. May God reward people like you. People like you who reaches out to those who have got their hearts broken.You must know that you have really done so much for me. I will always think of you in my prayers. You are the most beautiful tree in the grove. THANKS. FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART....

@1kimasan

4 жыл бұрын

the same here

I am more upset that I tolerated being disrespected and bread crumbed . Was treated like crap. Though I miss the illusion I had …. Now I’m focused on me and not a cold and disrespectful , selfish person

It would be quite more interesting to have a coffee with this wise man than with some "exes" 😂 Thank you so much dear coach 😘

Great video. I really grasp the NC rule, and all the advice you give. 🙏🏼👍🏼

You are a wise man, I trust in you

I just wanted to say thank you coach. Your information has helped me immensely, and for that I'm grateful, Northern California

@israelperez570

5 жыл бұрын

What can I say coach, I'm glad that you're glad. Israel from northern Cal

okay this gave me a huge wake up from depression. deep down i knew this i think, and deep down i udnerstand my ex, but now that i heard this from you i managed to bring up these feelings this knowledge form deep down , above the sorrow , fear and depression and finaly realize that whats the situation and why shouldnt i let myself drown in negativity. Thank you very much!

I have watched and rewatched most if not all of your about “ex” coaching to remind me to carry on my “No Contact” strategy. Watched this video about 8 hours ago, get tired and watched something else “crime documentaries” just to distract myself from thinking about my “ex”. While watching the documentaries, my other phone notify me of a message from this so called “ex” who still calls me his baby .... I didn’t really know what to text back when he texted me some complimentary text and a couple of kisses and hearty hearty. He was greeting me a happy new year and asked me if how I am. I answered from being cold like “how are you?” And he answered me unconvincing answer. I even asked him if he is “lying or making things up again”... I think i killed it, i have no regrets. Btw, I did the “No Contacts” principles from you coach. It really works.

I wish i found your videos the same month you published them. You are great.

These videos are so helpful and make me stay strong in my NC journey

It was so painfull to leave you but i couldnt stand the fact that you dont feel the same as i do. You probably wont read this but i will allways love you. Please dont hate me.

@JihadBunnydick

3 жыл бұрын

Shutup commie

I was sure everything was lost. My ex told me she was done and had been done for a while. She was tired of the arguing we had two stepchildren and a child and she felt things were unhealthy for the kids. I tried no contact, but I broke down and bought coach Lee's program. Less than $100, and lots of videos later, I have my fiance back, my kids back, my home back, my self-respect back, and peace and love back in my life. Listen to Coach Lee, buy the program. Save what you had. Love is priceless.

I love your videos very soothing. When you talk about the ex experiencing loss all I think about in this day and age with tinder and basically fast food dating a woman never has to experience loss she can have someone the next day. Call me old fashioned but this throwaway culture has created serial daters that never deal with any of their real issues because the next guy is only a swipe away. I'm new at the dating world was in a super long term relationship 15 years. My experience with the dating world now seems as though all these girls are serial daters. Funny I don't want my long term back but I'm wanting these quick 2 month relationships back how ironic.

You are so good and very helpful...and do right on target....thank you so much ❤👍🇺🇸

I am so grateful for your videos. It would be great if those that left comments 1 year or so ago to give an update! I guess we all read them and it makes me feel less alone. Focus on yourself, best advice ever.

Even if I never get her back thank you for these videos. Just listening makes me feel better every single day.

@jannlewandowski5540

Жыл бұрын

Dark, if you're interested in some help, I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit. It's awesome! myexbackcoach.com/ebk

You miss the memories and the connection you had with them especially if they were your best friend. And if you think you'll never seem them it's all you have left to hold on to.

I was in this situation ryt now, and I really feel hurting😭 thank u for your advice coach Lee. its helps me a lot

man im on day 6 it just feels like all hope is lost lol. NC will remain though.

@wrappataiga4914

5 жыл бұрын

how is it going?

@23raid

5 жыл бұрын

Update us

@theseattlegreen1871

4 жыл бұрын

Update??

@razanalolimat

4 жыл бұрын

Update...

@jessepushor9967

3 жыл бұрын

Update?

I really love the no frills, straight forward and concise way you present It shows a great deal of authority and confidence, and no doubt is one of the reasons for your success. Thank you for the great advice. I have been oscillating back and forth between no contact, minimal contact, and trying to pursue. I see now I just need to leave her alone. Currently she is in the I dont give a shit about you, its only about our daughter phase. Hopefully she will come around.

@RealCoachLee

5 жыл бұрын

This video on the stages your ex goes through during no contact should be enlightening if you watch it all the way through: m.kzread.info/dash/bejne/qY15o7mHptfHhM4.html

I swear everything he says makes so much sense. sometimes I watch these vids non stop lol. is that weird? probably.

@lowriprice5099

3 жыл бұрын

Haha same I've binge watched all his videos this past week even watching some more than once!

Thank you so much for your existence. My wife after six months of cheating finally confessed that she is sleeping with a scumbag. My world is upside down at the moment. ( 23 years we put into each other) your videos are the freshest water after being robbed in the middle of the desert.

@theseattlegreen1871

4 жыл бұрын

Damn man..... What's wrong with these women? Sorry this happened to you... My fiance of 7 years dumped my ass through text 57 days ago... I instantly went no contact and said "okay bye"..... I'm going through it just like you and it ain't no picnic..... Its actually quite sad...... I thought we would be together forever. Boy was I wrong.

@MegaRaton08

4 жыл бұрын

TheSeattlegreen hang in there man. From this point on it will only get better I promise. And if you play your cards right... great things will soon start happening to you.... I have great respect for females but none for cheaters

@kingzriot976

2 жыл бұрын

How are both of you guys doing now?

Everything you have said , is soooo correct . I stopped thinking of her . But sometimes she comes to mind but i stop. I also need to make my self busy... sometimes I feel when she tells me she’s busy or she’s doing this or doing this. She’s lying . So I will also do it too.

He's on point with this video. Thanks for sharing.

no contact means blocking your phone , social media , avoid places you might run into them ......most of the time if it goes over a month of two you find out you really weren't meant to be together anyway

@antilaw9911

3 жыл бұрын

No, doesnt

@lionheart4414

3 жыл бұрын

Its been almost 2 months for me and im still hurting very badly

@retrovcr777

2 жыл бұрын

@@lionheart4414 how long were you together?

Coach Lee. My ex ignored my text for two weeks I freaked out on him and apologized later(because I feared losing him). But then when I asked for closure he said that I didnt do anything and in fact he was busy with his own life and his problem. I told him I will give him space and then I found your channel and now employing No contact. So what I want to say is thank you coach. For everything, really

@sobreezy2456

Жыл бұрын

Did he reach out?

It’s almost impossible to not think about them... can’t push an off button.

@Nick-xw5ip

2 жыл бұрын

I agree

Love these videos. Damn I recommend Coach Lee videos even if you don’t have relationship woes . This guy is the best

Coach Lee....thank you for keeping me sane.❤️❤️❤️

You helped me a lot. Thank you. A very calm voice and very good coach

I am focusing on expanding my business and finilising my body beautiful. I am away shopping for a new look. Taking really good care of myself.

This is the second time in 2 years these videos have helped me

Your the best coach thank you so much. I'm will do my best to focus on me and go on a walk and exercise and do crafts listen to jams and dance a bit and be myself . I want to stop crying I miss laughing with my husband but I stay strong and healthy . I miss my husband's warm hugs the way his sent just so much but instead I want to smile as I think of him and not pour tears all day so I can see better and clear. Thank you so much for your help. 🤗🤗🤗💜🕊️🕊️💃

Coach lee you are the best ❤️

Man your psychology is on point..wished I d found these videos ten years ago

@chriscain8888

4 жыл бұрын

@@ellenitaliasrl6430 whose that

@chriscain8888

4 жыл бұрын

Ok...watching coach Lee's videos has helped me understand some things but thank u

That's my fifth time watching this video I am really grateful for this videos of yours.

@Piard

4 жыл бұрын

You liking my comment makes me emotional. Why?

u truly r a gift from God. ty

I feel like coach Lee get your ex back is more like get yourself back. Cause most people in the comments don’t get him or her back with no contact. They just end up with the realization they’re enough and could move on. Couch Lee is just helping by comforting you and giving closure by answering unanswered questions.

I've watched like all of these videos so I needed that "stop it".

I love every video I watched from you coach Lee ❤️ such a great help

Love you Lee..... Stay blessed

Thank you so much Coach Lee. Really appreciate all of your videos.

love your Video coach Lee, Thank you.. By the way, the more I watch your Video the more I like you hehe

When coaches said focus on yourself I use to cry more . And said how could I do that. then I start thinking about that’s the right thing because if u don’t and she take you back u don’t want to look a mess u want she to said omg you look great !