"Nobody is superior, nobody is inferior. But nobody is equal either. People are simply unique, incomparable. You are you, I am I."

@jeremylink7701

2 жыл бұрын

The dichotomy..is that we are Divinely Unique yet we are also One within Divinity, whom is unlimited which makes us all equal.

@yourdadisretard

2 жыл бұрын

"Magnanimity of Creation is such that everything is same, similar and different (unique) at the same time." Every Experience you have, has come from the world & it's people ( Same, Similar & Unique) It depends upon what a person is seeing at that moment. See sameness then everything is 'One' & See Difference ( that makes us Unique ) then everybody/thing are 'Unique'. 😄

@emmanuelweinman9673

2 жыл бұрын

you may be you and I may be me, but we are we and all is energy.

@gabriellanordenson5459

2 жыл бұрын

🙏

@katrinalivingston5017

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

You gotta applaud the young woman in the beginning. It took a lot of courage for her to share her insecurities openly.

@jeffbanfieldsflwr3537

4 жыл бұрын

She is well on her way to overcoming her insecurities.

@travisphelps6694

3 жыл бұрын

you must not need the applause of other people!

@connieanderson2281

2 жыл бұрын

Why did the woman repeat the girl’s question???

@healer81

2 жыл бұрын

@@adityanagesh9554 of course, Dr. Phil is a mere child compared to Thich Nhat Hanh. He is someone that walks the path, even when he has gone recently.

@healthamongstus710

2 жыл бұрын

:3 Yeah I was born and raised in Miami, FL, USA, the city often rated the rudest and worst drivers of America. Often a lot of discrimination against English, too expensive in many areas, obesity, etc. Two-party puppet circus bully double-standards dictatorshittttt political system. I left America some years ago. It's a huge relief in a good handful of ways. We need veganism. For the planet, animals, ending world hunger, health, and tastes. Spiritual 👻 over debunked religion and debunked material atheism.

"You are a flower in the garden of humanity. You are not something less than a flower in the garden of humanity. If you know that you have the seed of compassion, of joy, of happiness in you, then you know that you have a value."

The subtle “good luck” at the end !!!!! Made me fall in love with him even more. Gentle, kind, funny, compassionate. Mann....so happy I came across this beautiful being!

@jeffbanfieldsflwr3537

4 жыл бұрын

So much wisdom in his voice. I can see his aura!

@mahek3017

4 жыл бұрын

@@jeffbanfieldsflwr3537 Listening to him makes me feel more humble, peaceful and happier!! He is a jewel!!

@Reree-gz5bg

2 жыл бұрын

@@mahek3017 yes!!! 🥳🥳🥳

@vamosabv

2 жыл бұрын

@Claudia W, hope luck has been with you in many ways and may you be happy, healthy and safe.

@horizonanadyomene

2 жыл бұрын

this is the first time i've seen him since he passed away, and it made me genuinely smile. he taught so much and will continue to. thank you

She spoke with such profound self observation.

as a vietnamese immigrant to america i have been greatly affected by intergenerational trauma. thich nhat hanh has been pivotal in my self healing country

@Rosco-P.Coldchain

Ай бұрын

I’m so glad your country of birth now live in peace..I hope you find peace too ❤

These young people are very emotionally mature.

@lemostjoyousrenegade

3 жыл бұрын

They are indeed. And very beautiful (in spirit). I could just "claim" them all as my "own".

@Dr_Lucozade

3 ай бұрын

@@lemostjoyousrenegade What the hell are you talking about >_>

@saberxzero

24 күн бұрын

​@@Dr_Lucozade Claim them as in adopt them? Or maybe just to show them love, compassion and care like you would show your own child that is struggling

You are a flower in the garden of humanity in the kingdom of God! Beautiful words and love!

@bodiljohansen9845

4 жыл бұрын

Smukt !!

@bodiljohansen9845

4 жыл бұрын

Beautiful answer 😇

@lauralunaazul

4 жыл бұрын

He didnt say God, just humanity :) They dont believe in A God.

@darkboy284

4 жыл бұрын

Why you throwing God In there there religion is no religion they don't no believe and this is true freedom

@shanti3152

4 жыл бұрын

He actually did say “God”, just to be more inclusive.

I love the spiritual bodiless head in the middle protecting the members here.

The "Good luck" in the end is so precious.

Thank you That..When you said we are flowers in the garden of humanity and I'm not anything less i cried. I been struggling for years doubting myself and not getting along with my dad. He constantly talks about my past mistakes and puts me down..:( I hope I can be strong

@christiangasior4244

4 жыл бұрын

Is that you in this video? It looks a lot like you.

@jnguyen91684

4 жыл бұрын

Dawn Reine you are a strong person and I believe in you

@onelittledropintheocean

4 жыл бұрын

A parent who treats you like that often has NPD, narcissistic personality disorder. There are a lot of uTube videos by psychologists explaining the impact of this on your life, please check some out because it really helps to understand the psychology behind your relationship with your father. Basically, you will never get approval & unconditional love from him, and this is heartbreaking to realise ... A grieving takes place actually 😢 But you will learn that self love & love of nature/life itself is the most important love to have in your life, true peace will follow and your heart will no longer feel imprisoned ... And then your life will bloom! Peace be with you, precious flower 🌺💕🕊

@user-qp6vg9ho8u

4 жыл бұрын

I had the same thing with my father growing up. Keeping your distance from him as much as you can will give you the control back in your life to think about this rationally and to understand it’s not your fault he treats you in this way

@lollic307

4 жыл бұрын

Hi! I am 39 and still struggle with not being good enough for family. I spend half my life trying to prove myself and the other half self destructing when I realized their is no way to make them happy with you. Now I am healing and do not want to punish myself anymore. We are good enough. We are not perfect. Ignore the negative things and focus on the good things .

I resonate with everything she asked so much. It's hard to grow up in the U.S., as well as many other countries, without developing the habit of seeking validation from others. I love the answers of trusting your own experience and compassionately respecting people's differences without saying one is better or worse. These videos and Q&A's are very helpful, thank you so much

@jeffbanfieldsflwr3537

4 жыл бұрын

Just know that you are equal to the next man or woman. It is your right to secure in yourself.

@Reree-gz5bg

2 жыл бұрын

🤎🤎🤎 I am Chinese American. I’m from China, but live in the US. So I agree with you.

@user-cf7uh8lr4i

2 жыл бұрын

Same here…. Even now 🙏🙏🙏

@healthamongstus710

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I was born and raised in Miami, FL, USA, the city often rated the rudest and worst drivers of America. Often a lot of discrimination against English, too expensive in many areas, obesity, etc. Two-party puppet circus bully double-standards dictatorshittttt political system. I left America some years ago. It's a huge relief in a good handful of ways. We need veganism. For the planet, animals, ending world hunger, health, and tastes. Spiritual 👻 over debunked religion and debunked material atheism.

@BarbaraMerryGeng

2 жыл бұрын

: @ Jenn Boyer : Yes !

A true Buddhist and a great spiritual leader.

@BarryaLLen-ik8bq

4 жыл бұрын

Neranja De Silva Jesus Chris is the only way

@AKA-077

4 жыл бұрын

@@BarryaLLen-ik8bq wrong, many ways and all true

@Simplyveej

2 жыл бұрын

You are assigning an identity upon him, and his message is to break free from that very notion.

Her translating English back to him after him just hearing it is probably the most unintentionally hilarious thing I've ever seen

@_NobodySpecial_

Жыл бұрын

probably hard of hearing

@beberdos

Жыл бұрын

For me it's the self conscious decapitated head on the desk that does it.

@fowlowl6236

Жыл бұрын

I was wondering what was up with that

@antarespsyche3356

Жыл бұрын

Perhaps he just needs to hear things twice because English is not his primary language, and he may not have a strong command of it.

@ngs8022

Жыл бұрын

Perhaps no ordinary person can speak to a Vietnamese Lama - but only cute secretaries?

What I have found about myself . While doing thich meditation. Is what people think about me . Is thier opinion. It does not define me . It's not who I am .

This isn't easy, this is a reflection of how we feel about ourselves. Many times we can't change how we feel because the idea of who we are within our mind was created from toxic/dysfunctional experiences. Therefore, we take this idea of ourselves everywhere we go, protecting it to be more, better, ect, and when our experiences invalidate this or go against this, it hurts more or in many cases way more than it should. If this idea can be changed to being grounded in self security and self love, then the feelings reflected are coming from a healthier interpretation/belief of the self rather than toxic/dysfunctional one. The only thing that has worked for me is doing meditation that helps me to be more present. If you can change the idea of the self, you will change how the self interprets.

@84sahi

7 ай бұрын

Thats why inner work is important

I have respect for the girl to have discovered this question at such an age. It took me 48 years to realize that I have this problem that I constantly seek approval of others in my mind and imagination.

I knew Thay wasn’t going to be with us much longer, but I am grieving the loss of him deeply. Although perhaps not entirely in the spirit of accepting impermanence, I am grateful these videos live on so we can continue to learn from him.

I really appreciate when he spoke about not taking sides in the Vietnam war. I feel this wisdom is so relevant in the US right now. I hope that instead of letting the media and parties tell us how we should feel about one another, that we can listen to people in our community and understand them better. I genuinely feel people don’t want to be at war, they want peace and safety, they want solutions and community support. Compassion and listening are sinew.

"You are a flower in the garden of humanity" ^-^ how beautiful!!

The young woman who asked the question was well spoken and diligently listened to his answer. I can’t help but wish her well.

Such a beautiful young lady! We live in a world that teaches us this deluded way of thinking from a very early age. Just to have the courage to see this and express these feelings openly shows great depth and self-awareness. Thich Nhat Hanh is a ray of hope in a confusing world ❤❤❤

"Because we have belief in our value." We lost our way because we lost our belief. Thank you Thay for your gentle reminder.

Its human psychology when a stranger compliments you on a decision you feel good about it therefore when another total stranger with different sets off opinion and idea disapproved you of a decision you have to feel the same level of sadness as you did joy from the first stranger's compliment. Therefore we should really believe in our own decisions and stand by them and just take others opinions as their opinions and not let it effect the way we feel too much. But our culture and society makes this hard because since a little child you have always been told what you were doing is either good or bad causing us to associate what we do and other's options to be tied together making us values others opinions more than our own.

If you are only another aspect of me, then I should simply observe ill behavior in the other with compassion and sympathy. It's the " forgetting " that gets us.

She is a very lucky girl to have such a very special answer to question from a wonderful Teacher . To have him wish her good luck at the end. She will not go wrong

This was a good answer even if i think the young girl has said something that i hear very often. Probably people have a very naive understanding of OTHERS. Others do not even really exist. Other's opinion about us is just like the weather, if they are happy, their opinion is positive otherwise it is negative. Others do not care about YOU. And it is ok. You should care about your life. Forget others!

This is so very helpful. It is not easy to take a stand that exposes you to criticism. But when your stand is grounded in Love, we stand on Solid Rock.

@BetaChri5

Жыл бұрын

Oh, so true! Beautifully said!

This is one of the thing I have to work on as well. Even if deep down I know my truth, I still have difficulties going past the judgment of others and I often catch myself doubting myself if someone say something about me. It is really hard and I found out that it was rooted into the fear of not belonging. The fear of being rejected if I show up as who I am. The fear of not being love by others. I think that's pretty normal but the whole point if to be conscious of those fear not to let them control you and not to let them who you really are.

I am 53 and for the first time in my life I am finding out who I am..I spent all my adult life people pleasing and would change my many personalities..Life can be tough especially when ur living in a culture of consumerism and peer pressure..Accepting myself and facing my fears head on with an honest infantry has released a companionate human being I thought had gone forever..I try to think of others instead of myself, and that’s a beautiful thing ..❤

An honor to receive advice at a young age from such a veteran in peace - she is pretty self-aware to be able to express it, nonetheless be aware as a teenager... Thay got to test his philosophy and practice in Vietnam War and also in the civil rights movement alongside Martin Luther King Jr... Any advice from him is honestly a blessing. This is the only reason why I try to stay neutral and of peace... the middle has the remind the opposing sides what peace looks like....

AM i the only one who sees a head on a table.

@lolabuck6453

4 жыл бұрын

You made me laugh 😘

@Karrdeh

4 жыл бұрын

No, you're not the only one 😂😂

@lauralunaazul

4 жыл бұрын

Is a man! 😊😂😂😂

@lashawngrines7794

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@Nature-Body-and-Soul

4 жыл бұрын

Åh, now it was there...hahaaaaa 🙀☺

Very solid advice given here.As long as you follow the path of truth, and it is not hurting anyone,then believe in yourself .This will never allow anybody undermining you to affect you!

@bubblezovlove7213

5 жыл бұрын

But first let me translate your English into English.... Great confidence booster.... lol

@ewilson9435

4 жыл бұрын

@@bubblezovlove7213 yeah I wondered was she speaking another language and English was put over it?

@marijadjordjevic8920

4 жыл бұрын

Yes you need to follow your path.Just some people feel hurt because of our believes.But you don't feel like you're hurting them because you have different values from them.

@marijadjordjevic8920

4 жыл бұрын

Just wanted to say that you can't prevent it

@buddhaexhumed9922

Ай бұрын

Very educative. I love his videos. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.

I love that he said if we know we have just the 'seed of compassion' within us... what others say can have less effect. Not being at Thay's level... but even just the seed. We can believe our own location on the path is just fine. That's amazing.

@shangyuhsu8770

Жыл бұрын

thank you for highlighting this!

Why does this well and clear articulated question need to be repeated and is not responded to directly by Thich Nhat Hanh?

Can someone explain to me why a translator was needed to repeat in English what the young woman explained clearly in English. Did I miss something? Otherwise, as usual, Thich Nhat Hanh leaves me with a sense of peace and a desire to connect to the one. 🙏

@plkaso7515

Жыл бұрын

I think it could've been to line her thoughts and statements up in a more clear way, or maybe to provide clearer pronunciation to make it easier for him to understand the message. I've also heard that you can communicate with non-english speakers in a way that helps them understand by using the speech/words that they use when talking to you, because that's the English you know they've learned. It's possible the woman was reiterating with some altered speech/word-usage that we didn't quite hear/make out on first listen. Or maybe it was to help the question-asker feel more heard and seen by illustrating her situation so clearly to the audience. Or if the translator thought the audience didn't catch some of what the girl said, it could've been to provide clarification. I'm not sure, these are just some possibilities.

@ApMignonne

Жыл бұрын

Now please also explain the guy poorly hiding behind the table

@bogohotdogz

Жыл бұрын

Gives the guru more time to "construct an enlightened answer."

@xeiaudi6005

Жыл бұрын

@@ApMignonne lolololololoololllll

@sofiamarie9136

Жыл бұрын

@@ApMignonne he's in charge of the mic to and from the guest.

There are people out there who try invoke others to SEEK their approval. They are easy spot. They usually are VERY critical. 2 great examples are Simon Cowell (USA) and Jeremy Clarkson (UK) - They criticize openly and then when they give positive feedback it SEEMS more valuable. When someone in your life does that, don't play the game by trying to earn their respect/approval. Point out to them what they are doing and back away from their company. I've seen this in workplaces by managers/bosses, in families by narcissistic parents, and in friendships by mean people dominating needy people - don't play the game. One example recently recently: I know a guy who claims his father is a negative person , recently told his dad that he is buying a nice new house...expecting/wanting some approval. The father's reply was that he's paying too much...being ripped off - That's all you will get from these people. Most of them are too dumb to know they do it..they just feed off the attention and approval others seek from them

@clairechloe5294

2 жыл бұрын

@Sir Raymond LuxuryYacht - You described a narcissistic person's behavior towards others very well. Your example of Simon Cowell was an ideal example of such egotistical people who invoke others to seek their approval. Your explanation of a toxic person's behavior is 100% correct. I have two narcissists in my family and they play these types of games. I stoppped having contact with them many years ago. As you mentioned I also came across such people at workplace. Some managers/directors get such a satisfaction just by criticizing others for no reason. That is their way of showing their superiority. Many people sadly fall into these mind games. We live in a sad world where some people put themselves on a pedestal just to put others down. I wish more people would realize the mind games the narcissistic people play and stay a way from them forever.

@unassailable6138

2 жыл бұрын

You described Gaslighting : creating a fake reality and trying to convince others it's true, it's usually a trick of people who are narcissists or are in positions of power, being or not narcissist.

@maximkikena622

2 жыл бұрын

alot of assumptions

Aw. Blessings to this gal. It is defo a challenge to reprogram that childhood programming that can hold us back sometimes. It can take many, many years! Speaking from my own experience lol

If I remember correctly when I did TM I would feel the support of life and love of other people...or that's how I felt. I would feel that way for hours or even days after a good meditation. I stopped feeling I was deprived of anything..even sex. and I cut way back on smoking ciggarettes without trying to. It was probably a subjective experience but even traffic at rush hour seemed to go better.

@aryaghorinta4377

4 жыл бұрын

i would love to hear your next story about practicing meditation Thanks for sharing!

This is something which has plagued me for years and years. You won't believe the amount of time I spend "imagining" the approval of others (movie stars, politicians, sport stars, singers :)

"You are a flower in the garden of humanity." Man, that hit me in the feels.

"Good luck" , love him.

A beautiful question. I love human beings in all of our brokenness.

This person is one of the most amazing people that would like to know before dying.

You have been such a blessing in my life Thay. I can’t thank you enough! I love and appreciate you mighty one!

Doing something that makes your soul happy without destroying the earth... is key to all happiness 😊

the compass in compassion 💫

Thank you for teaching me how to listen and pause long enough by listening and repeating the question to be able to respond mindfully to others questions.

Beautifully vulnerable question and beautifully insightful response.

What a gorgeous girl to ask such a beautifully vulnerable question x

Thank you Thay. This teaching is what many need to do right even when faced with oppression and ignorance. 🙏

Breathe mindfully enough times .. and you will Believe in the practice, and if someone disagrees you will smile, and others opinions won’t make you abandon your belief -you are a flower in the garden of humanity - I love this !

When she said she feels like she's been constantly being compared was relatable. Because it's true everyone is always doing a back handed attack

@Jukelikesgames

2 жыл бұрын

Dassa whole lotta booty son

Thank you for your wisdom. May you be blessed! ❤️🙏🏼

We love you..Thay.

Thank you Thầy

I love the way you relate to bigger picture ,and tell the story of your experience !Thank you🙏🏻

The wisdom of Thay lives on.

Believe in yourself first. Know your truth. Build that solid foundation within you. And you won’t be persuaded by other people’s perspectives about you.

What a wonderfully self-aware woman. 🙏🏼

Path of compassion.. good phrase

😊👍 Oh my goodness. Being at peace with ourselve could never be political. Fear must not override sensibilities. Peace with ourselves can go anywhere. Work, play, study etc. Peace is it own special freedom. Peace.

There is something very beautiful about Thich Nhat Hanh. His words are always gentle, understated yet so powerful. So wise.

What a great teacher. I perceive so much authenticity.

Beautiful, healing teaching

My teacher, my inspiration 🙏

How right Thay is. Thanks Thoma Merton that you open the way to Thich Nath Hahn. God bless you and deep blessings to Thay ❤

"You are a flower in the garden of humanity, you are not something less than a flower..." a statement from a slightly wider context said at 5:35 but what a rich perspective on human social value.

I LOVE this Master. GODs' Blessings too all.

I love you Thay!

He is one of the very greatest.

💖🕊️🕯️✨ love you, my kind, loving and enlightened teacher. 💖🕊️🕯️✨

Con xin được cảm tạ chia sẻ của Thầy ạ.

Pure love and wisdom. Love his teaching. 💗💗💗

IT IS A KIND OF MENTAL JUDGMENT WHEN WE ARE JUDGED NOT AS SO VALUABLE AS WE THINK WE ARE SO IT" A HARD SOMETIMES BUT AFTER.LISTENING THIS EXPLANATION SO IT IS WIDENING MY HORIZON OF UNDERSTANDING..THANKS A.LOT .

Thank you so much our Teacher for the very deep teaching of you and the question from the girl.

Thank you for your adorable words

Thank you for sharing this. Stay blessed. Warm Regards,

Thank you, it is because we know the trurh deep in our hearts. If we stray from the path, we know it too and then we're looking for affirmation that it's all ok, even though we know it is not. To face ourselves in that way requires courage and honesty

Thank you Thay, thank you friend for sharing!

The lady was already clear, I don’t know why the question was repeated, it seemed to compound what she just spoke of. She is a strong lady inside I can tell that

To share requires courage Looking inside self makes affirming decision Beautifully crafted

Thai has taught me mindfulness 🧘‍♀️ and soul nourishment🙏. He lives in my❤️everyday 🕊

Head in the middle of the screen is very disturbing as it appears a head kept on the table....🤣🤣🤣

Thua Kinh Thay, Even now your words and teachings are more relevant and healing to my heart . This young lady is me in another form and another time and I am glad she had the courage to ask this question to you and be a voice for us that could not . I am so blessed and grateful for your teachings that you have gifted me for 21 years and transformed my life through my practice and my happy continuation..... I have arrived . Thank you for your continuation of your eternal presence... " A Cloud Never Dies " TNH 🙏🙏🙏❤

Beautiful.. absolutely beautiful

We are all valuable just we all have different values.We need to believe in our values and nurish them and then we won't be disturbed by other people's values

Wow, he always amazes

This young woman expressed this openly because she knows that she is somehow dishonouring herself. I hope this gave her courage to dissolve the identification and she realized Nibanna.

beautiful Thay :) Thank you for helping us

Beautiful. You are a flower in the garden of humanity.

I love this man so much 😊.

@lemostjoyousrenegade

3 жыл бұрын

Me too!

Inspiring and beautiful ❤️🌹🙏Thank you

Does anyone know why someone else repeated the question if Thich Nhat Hanh understands English?

❤️ take the path of humanity. Love it❤️

Thanks for sharing your wonderful experiences and kindness!

Could someone explain why the lady is rephrasing the young girl's question? It seems to me that Thay understands and speaks English quite well, and they are all mic'd up so her should be hearing her clearly too? I don't understand the purpose of this, the girl asked her question so well too.

Thank you Plum Village and to the departed Thich Nhat Hanh for sharing this video and all the others, and thank you for what I believe to be truly insightful and wise teachings within them. I am finding them most useful at this time.

Thank you, this is a really question…