1 Pay More Attention. 2. Appreciate who they are. 3. Adore Your partner.

@hrnordin5909

2 жыл бұрын

The speaker may not realize how remarkable is his contribution to people’s life

"Love is the appreciation of the totality of a person." Oh my goodness what a powerful line.

@pasdarwin2509

6 жыл бұрын

Melina A very very powerful♥

@tuotnguyen7580

5 жыл бұрын

I discovered a great compilation of videos that may help you at Secret fixer blueprint

@animaki5372

5 жыл бұрын

Not certain about the points made but ,if anyone else wants to learn about how to fix a marriage try Dalz Partner Mender Discovery ( search on google ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my mate got excellent results with it.

@karagerlock3547

5 жыл бұрын

Loved this line myself. Such a .great vid :)

@twisttv6638

4 жыл бұрын

@@animaki5372.

Improving one's relationship is a bit hard these days because people are becoming more impatient but if you love someone you should never give up on him because fights and arguments are just part of the relationship.

@theultimateman7231

4 жыл бұрын

Relationships are hard. The commitment part I think is the most important

@margretnyirongo1167

Жыл бұрын

wow

I wish I had seen this video a couple months ago, I could still be with the love of my life.

@carlostoro2768

7 жыл бұрын

here's several suggestions for saving your partnership Try to talk more Cooperate with each other more Start to give and take more (I learned these and the reasons they work on Pavs partner pundit website )

@yoboy3220

7 жыл бұрын

That might be true, but be grateful that you now know this information as well so that you can use this in your new relationships!

@skyscout3

7 жыл бұрын

that's sad man

@tonyaukanah97

7 жыл бұрын

Maybe it wasn't meant to be. Think of like this, now you have a gift of knowledge to be better person to yourself and to the next person you decide to be with at any given time expecting unexpected for life but also know that what you learn always good for the future and for now I wish you the best of luck

@neothunder195

6 жыл бұрын

Same here

Love is the appreciation of the whole person appreciating them as a human being, their struggles & success, seeing the good and their other side, seeing them as one, accepting them at a level they have never been accepted before

@buchachatv6210

4 жыл бұрын

Appreciation is all I want .. seeing the good in me ..but definitely he can't figure it out because his to busy to trash all my efforts.. and one day I see my self don't really care anymore .. hope he really see my worth ..and I hope when that happened .. I had enough care..

@shirleyvargas1117

4 жыл бұрын

Including the acceptance of their shadow self. Not just loving them for all the good, but also to appreciate the things you don’t like about them. We all have flaws, big and small ones.

@charlesdsouza3893

4 жыл бұрын

Very nice and good tlk on how to improve yr relationship. Attention, appreciation n do not complain. Love is appreciation. Thanks for help. These r very useful for everybody who wants to improve relationship. God bless.

@anderstermansen130

2 жыл бұрын

That sounded almost humane.

@MrJ777666

2 жыл бұрын

I was young when I wrote this and I definitely have to say it depends on the person are they narcissist or they a genuine person that’s just misunderstood struggling 👌❤️👍

*Takes notes* I never had a boyfriend but I’d rather be ready & know these things, than being lost.

@Connetification

3 жыл бұрын

Yah need a bf ? Signing up, there’s like ten guys behind me waiting in line

@mklibuto2879

2 жыл бұрын

I also don't have a girlfriend

My boyfriend and i of 9 years are having a tough time with our relationship... this video just reinforces what ive been trying to communicate with him.. putting the phone down and being present... showing attention is so important.. to connect on a soul level not just a physical level... going to share this with him.. thank you!

@robertwilliams6245

2 жыл бұрын

I'd like to talk to him

@ademike1899

2 жыл бұрын

Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

@ademike1899

2 жыл бұрын

Whatzapp her now....

@nicholeparrish5253

Жыл бұрын

@@PersonalDevelpmentHub it's working out better.. thank you..hope you have a wonderful weekend

@maxwellart2417

Жыл бұрын

It’s so crazy. I find myself touching my phone for no reason while talking with my lady.😢

Your wife is lucky 😊😊😊

@fifamaniac04

3 жыл бұрын

Aren't most marriage therapist divorced?

this should be shown in school.....nobody truly knows the true meaning of an amazing relationship.

After watching this I see where I fucked up and now I'm going to try to fix it if it's not too late

@Robert-lb7jq

7 жыл бұрын

Was it too late?

@beans9019

6 жыл бұрын

Left on a cliffhanger 😭

Brendon, your eyes show your passion and integrity. Thank you.

@ilearnmore5001

4 жыл бұрын

Aagrreeee

@ConradKurtMorgan

8 ай бұрын

Most people get caught up in a situation where they fall deeply in love with someone that gives them all they’ve been looking for in a relationship, they feel that comfort and security whereas the person does not actually love them. How can you get out of such situations?

I love how passionate you are, so inspiring!

i've been struggling with my boyfriend for a while, and it's a very big problem in our relationship and my life. And when i saw this vdo, i realize about what i should do to improve my relationship and myself. Thank you a lot! this is a very great vdo.

@luluwest7143

5 жыл бұрын

Unnie K. Me too! I was looking for a comment like this, thankyou

@lourdesruvalcaba-marra7591

5 жыл бұрын

How is it going now?

@nancyfelix7457

5 жыл бұрын

Unnie K. Me too girl me too..

@carolines7513

4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes i feel like we trying too hard wile dey dont

@Sweetiekins23

3 жыл бұрын

Me too. Had to watch this.

Brendon you set a timeless example of what it means to be alive. thank you

I was wondering if you can do video about, "How do you deal with the difficult times?"

I go to work without my phone and people think I'm weird. I only go through my emails a couple of times a week and I don't watch TV because I'm too busy reading personal and professional development materials or listening to Burchard FM while I'm working out and doing my chores

@natsfitnessandwellbeing5280

8 жыл бұрын

hjp

@viktorijakostadinov1047

7 жыл бұрын

I've been researching improving your marriage and discovered a great resource at Mirykal marriage plan (google it if you are interested)

@tunisact8160

7 жыл бұрын

There are several suggestions for making improvements in your partnership Try to communicate more Cooperate with each other more Try to give and take more (I discovered these and the reasons they work on Mirykal marriage plan site )

@afrobeats4511

3 жыл бұрын

I also think you're weird

@maryclaudiapitman

3 жыл бұрын

@@afrobeats4511 🤣 I appreciate your input

1) Attention; Opposites 2) Eye to Eye; Attention 3) people don’t want your presents 🎁 they wants your presence. 4)

Dear Brendon, this is the best description of what a real relationship is for me! Thank you for "formalizing" it in this simple way!

This video is 6 years old, but I’ve never needed more today than ever. I actually cried watching this because I needed to hear this. I needed to hear every word. Thank you so much.

So glad i found your channel! I've been looking for postive talks for a while.

I just wanted to cry while watching, I know I can't blame my partner for our meaningless relationship but I was thinking e-mailing this video to my partner with the message, "Open only when fully willing to watch until the end and with no distractions " Is it a good idea?

@gracetavita1306

8 жыл бұрын

yes! go for it (: honestly with all my freaking heart everything works out for everyone i seriously mean this

@kassandrasilva617

4 жыл бұрын

I hope u did it & I hope ur still together

@joveriarashif2404

3 жыл бұрын

same here

"Love is appreciation of the totality of the person." Wow!, just wow.

Oh my... Was having a bad time in my relationship and came across your channel today. You really brighten up me instantly and gave me so much confidence going ahead. Thank you Brendan. 🙏

Everything you teach and share is life changing, powerful and meaningful. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us it really makes a difference in my perspective on life. God bless!!

absolutely love your videos. They have helped me a lot in the last 2 months in terms of achieving my goals seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Thanks for sharing your words of wisdom in such an open and passionate way! :)

exactly right! me and my husband are working at this also. I'm trying to get him to connect with me and getting out of the old habits and engaging then embracing :) Thank you for sharing!

I absolutely love this! So many true words "you have to appreciate their soul.."

i just love the part where he giggled and said... " I know you think your important, and we all think we'r important! but let me tell ya their is no person in the world who can't learn to have a few hours where they can be human again, with the people that they love! "

I love the point "be intentional to be great". Thats fantastic

I just found you and watched this video from 5 years ago. I like you right off the bat. Your delivery is very comfortable and genuine. My girlfriend is in for a surprise and that's just after 1 video. Thank you for sharing!

I swear this video made me cry because it's so incredibly true♡ thank you!

This is such a motivational video. Your passion makes me want to do better and improve myself

Having a really hard time in my relationship this opened my eyes something crazy , you are a gem thank you so much ❗️

My bf needs to watch this

@skyscout3

7 жыл бұрын

good girls

@TheEthalon

7 жыл бұрын

Your boy friend doesn't need to do anything.. You need to find a new man

@jonahkarp2938

6 жыл бұрын

LOL

@patrasculucian2403

6 жыл бұрын

You two are still together?

@justclickedtodislike9236

4 жыл бұрын

You chose to whine online instead . Maybe you're the problem

This honestly saved my life. I don't know what I would've done without watching this. Thank you.

This is really inspiring to me my relationship is going through a rough patch but im gonna try a diffrent route and this seems like the best way thank you so much

As always another amazing video! I'm trying to get my friends to watch too so we all can live fuller happier lives. 😃 Thank you for your service Brendan.

best relationship advice i've ever heard!

Enjoyed this ! Me and my boyfriend have only been together two months but we already argue about the silliest little things but we always end up laughing as we stop and realise we love each other so much it's ridiculous !

@destinyvail5640

5 жыл бұрын

A Clare are you still together?

@jakeoswald8017

4 жыл бұрын

99% sure you didn't love each other after 2 months

@kevinvanhorsing5141

3 жыл бұрын

Awe🤸

Amen! The best message I have heard about relationships in a long time! Just broke up an 11 yr relationship and that’s exactly what was missing!!!!! Thank u!

@ConradKurtMorgan

8 ай бұрын

So sorry to hear about that Most people get caught up in a situation where they fall deeply in love with someone that gives them all they’ve been looking for in a relationship, they feel that comfort and security whereas the person does not actually love them. How can you get out of such situations?

Thank you so much ❤ This helped me understand what I was lacking in my relationship and although you may not see this comment 😅 I thank you so so much from the bottom of my heart ❤🖒

I appreciate you Brendan - love this video and have finally found someone who believes in making relationships as fulfilling and full of love as I do ☺💖

Great video you're 100% correct. I was blind for 9 years! My childhood was not good I didnt know how to step outside myself. My ex gf is similar closed off It just hit me recently that we had to connect I knew I loved her I just didn't know how to express it. I can say that even though she is not talking to me we finally had a conversation last night where I could be truly open and present. And not worry about judgment or rejection. I'm an at peace it showed me what we could have been..

Amen 🙏🏾 I wish you a wonderful relationship. It must be filled with a lot of love. Thank you Brandon for this video. Hopefully it will help me in my future relationship :)

True...one could get very lucky whn dey find someone who gives them their time

i CLICKED ON THE BELL ICON!! I LIKE YOUR CHANNEL! KEEP GOING!

You're amazing Brendon. Thank you for your videos. I'm so grateful. You're wife, children, and anyone in a relationship with you are very lucky people. I'm so grateful you are here on KZread. God bless you. :)

@hodgesbenjamin9770

5 жыл бұрын

Denise Szelagowski hi

Thank you so much Brendon. Thank you for taking your time and making these wonderful videos.

You have such a good soul! thank you for your videos!

@anjasavic4309

7 жыл бұрын

here's several things for making improvements in your marriage Try to discuss more Cooperate with each other more Try to give and take more (I learned these and why they work on Pavs Partner Pundit website )

@unadrubic6208

7 жыл бұрын

I'm researching improving your partnership and found a fantastic resource at Pavs partner pundit (google it if you are interested)

@johncarlodequinon5944

7 жыл бұрын

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I work with singles and couples and you distilled so many crucial lessons. Thank you!

I really love this. Thank you, Mr. Burchard!

This is great advise. I recently improved my marriage with those exact things. To adore and be interested in them makes a huge difference. Thanks for this message

That background music has anchored so much motivation for me! Quality :)

Well Said! You Explained It Perfectly!!!

You're the best Brendon!!! Such a pleasure to listen you!

This video makes the world a better place. Thank you!

Sir, You are the most unique coach I have ever listened according to me 😃

Brendon you are so engaging, motivated and inspiring. I love watching your videos and reading your books!

Brendon I Love Your Stuff man...Just Love It! Love your passion and the words of wisdom that just flow out of you mouth. And....I Love to 'share' that wisdom with my friend here in Poland. Those that speak 'perfect' English can sometimes keep up (almost) with your speed and energy and understand maybe half of what you say. Those that don't speak 'perfect' English, well, there's no way they can keep up and understand anything really. They can feel the positive energy but don't have an understanding of what you're saying. I have only one request, can you make your videos available for captioning? I see on some videos on KZread that they can be translated and captioned. Your's unfortunately don't have the captioning ability. My friends say that even the auto generated English subtitles help them. If they're available for captioning I'd be more than willing to have some of them even translated via Amara. Thanks again for such a wonderful and inspirational video.

Wow, you really shine! Thank you for this. I look forward to watching more of your videos!

True what you say, however if one appreciate another, and that the other doesn't appreciate themself, the relationship is very hard to live. All the best

Thank u so much for this video Yeah,relationship needs exactly what u've listed Its so important

That made me cry... So beautiful

Thank god Im watching this only a week after I got into a relationship

I watched this 4 times in a row. Amazing advice and it works!!!

MAN You open my eyes I took all your advice. . thank you

I got your book and started your programme.... Awesome.... Thanks a bundle. Keep up the good work

So wonderful. Thank you so much Brendon = ))

Love your advices. Now it's time to make it common practise in my life. Thank you.

hi brendon can you do a video about reducing anxiety please?

Have a great girlfriend, where we first started dating we were younger and had to transition into being adults. Throughout that time I showed less attention, and focused on trying to figure it out; even using that as an excuse as to why I was acting the way. Just showing her attention and appreciating her more is something I’ll work on. She’s awesome and I’m glad I saw this.

Thank you... Very helpful... I love learning how i can be a better person.

Real talk! Thank you for sharing, Brendon! 👍🏾

Grand Salute to you Brendon !!

thankyou brendon for your best tips! i really enjoyed and motivated by your video.. thankyou for your sharing. Merry Christmas, Brendon.

This is one of the best videos here on KZread!

Hi Brandon, thanks for the video! I read through the rest of the comments and I cannot be more agreeable when they mention that words of wisdom just flow of your mouth. I just wanna thank you for the book, the emails (they're indeed not the repetitive type) and for always coming up with such diverse range of videos with the same, helpful and motivating intention. Here are some videos I'd like you to share with us if possible, since we're in the topic of relationship: 1. How have or how do you intend to nourish your child in the growing teen years? How do you keep that father to son/daughter relationship great while at the same time adjusting you tone, degree of discipline and the amount of time given to be with them? 2. I'm sure you have a pretty great relationship w yourself too! You always look charged, ready, alert and I wanna know if there's anything or a routine you do in the morning when you're up, at night before you hit the sack and in the mid afternoon when most of us really just wanna nap. Haha! How do you fuel you body as well as you fuel your mind? 3. I find myself reserved on most times; at work or at a gathering. What are some of the ways I which I can express my existence without appearing aloof/ serious/ emotional?

Great tips brendon! I'll be applying these more into my relationship!

Thank you so much, you have helped my relationship a grate deal

Watching this 4 years later and I still think this guy is a genius

Oh wauw.. truly when I started to watch this I was like yeah that's right! That's the only thing I want from someone! Im defentily going to use this more in my friendships and relationship. Because I truly believe I can give more power to the people I talk to every day and make them real happy!

This is great advice for people that aready know, and accept, you. Close relationships, not new ones. Taking this deep of a perspective and with this level of energy will usually conflict with people's ego and they can become uncomfortable and can reject you.

I love this guy!! Your energy is contagious

You just sum up everything I need my husband to be and I will send him your video .. Thanks Brendon.

Amen Brendon. You touched me today! Thank you! This should also apply to parent with their own children.

@hodgesbenjamin9770

5 жыл бұрын

Linda Sommer hi

@edrobertson8503

4 жыл бұрын

Hello my dear. Can we chat on hangout.

@ConradKurtMorgan

8 ай бұрын

Most people get caught up in a situation where they fall deeply in love with someone that gives them all they’ve been looking for in a relationship, they feel that comfort and security whereas the person does not actually love them. How can you get out of such situations?

Amazing...well explained. Guess so many people actually know all this key point, however they tend to forget or fail to implement in their real life. Perfect Brendon Burchad. Thank you so much. Your words actually make me feel so good, it is full of love and compassion. Loves all your video. Thanks for sharing...keep it up

WOW! best I've heard yet. hit every important detail to make a relationship successful.

You have changed my life.. Thank you so much...

Wow. You are a true inspiration!

Watching this so I can learn how to be a better man to my lady, thank you for this. ✌

You just sum up everything I need my husband to be and I will send him your video ..Thanks Brendon

just ur vibes made me feel better :D this video is great thank you so much

Wow what a life changing video. Everyone needs to watch this!!!

Brendon you are amazing, thanks for all your videos they are all very important in my life, seems that you know what I am looking for in right time

Thank you so much for this extraordinary video. I really appreciate these heart warming truths.

Thank you Brendon, this video really charged me up with great insights.

This made me want to cry this is so true and I think this could have saved my marriage thank you so much eye opening

Thank you for the tips. Looking forward to use them, i can be so cold at times around people

Thankyou soo much your video got tears in my eyes. Thank you soo much!

WOW Brendon you are so gifted!!! Thanks for sharing. I have some work to do. Thanks for sharing.