I enjoyed this video. Makes a lot of sense. I agree with knowing when and where to express your femininity. However, no matter where you go or what you wear, if you are indeed that attractive, people will hate on you anyway. I always say, "Stay golden, and don't dull your shine for anyone!!!" I love appreciating other women, their beauty and their potential. Women should inspire and support each other more often than not. Being a hater makes someone ugly in my opinion.

@MindfulAttraction2.0

7 ай бұрын

Isn't the first law of power never outshine the master? Unfortunately you could express what you want but it comes with social and professional consequences. Imagine your babysitting and you're trying to express your light. While the husband has a wife who is suspicious of you. You're going to get fired lol. There's a time and place for everything

@ladyfxllc

7 ай бұрын

@MindfulAttraction2.0 of course, that's why I said I agree with knowing when and where to express it. However, some people will hate you regardless of how humble you are. What I mean by stay golden and don't let them dull your shine is to not let it affect your self-esteem outside of that situation.

@softlife45

7 ай бұрын

I think you're missing the point of what alex is saying. Any and everybody can not like you. But if you outshine the master you'll be perceived as a threat and attacked. If you're not perceived as a threat you may not be liked BUT you will not be attacked ​@ladyfxllc

@AsiaJohnson-tq1dz

7 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤everything you said you are right I totally agree 😊

@ruthdiaz1598

6 ай бұрын

Amen! I've been dealing with this my whole life!!!! People in general are haters when u are attractive. They always wanna assume u are stuck up.

Growing up being called an ugly duckling hurt so much. Now the same people can’t leave me alone coz I glowed up. But this cycle taught me about human nature so I’m indifferent to compliments & criticism now. I run on self love & validation. I’m smart enough to use my looks to get what I want without hurting anyone coz you know - karma lol.

@dg-qn5mi

7 ай бұрын

FACTS went through the same and agreed

@relaxwithme__

5 ай бұрын

Yes 🎯 Went through the same. I think it’s a gift because our self awareness is at a different level than people who have never been through both.

I was getting bullied at work by older women and they were so slick with it.

@MissSparks92

5 ай бұрын

They act like hyenas and you're the lioness. Take it as a giant compliment!

@daphnebailey6223

5 ай бұрын

I’ve never had anyone bully me over my looks at work but I’m one of the youngest women in my career field and it hard working with all older women 😖 Honestly my biggest advice is to just down, i only dress up when im going out or hang out with my bf 😂

@SaraMay-cr9sx

5 ай бұрын

Good for you, doesn't mean she doesn't experience this at her job and your age has zero to do with it...maybe you're not attractive, ever consider that? Grown adults in the work place bullying people like they're in middle school need to learn to respect others despite their envy of those more attractive than they are, this woman does not need to try and look less attractive for the less fortunate's comfort@@daphnebailey6223

@MelissaMiller-wh1ir

5 ай бұрын

Good for you, doesn't mean she doesn't experience this at her job and your age has zero to do with it...maybe you're not attractive, ever consider that? Grown adults in the work place bullying people like they're in middle school need to learn to respect others despite their envy of those more attractive than they are, this woman does not need to try and look less attractive for the less fortunate's comfort@@daphnebailey6223

@MissSparks92

5 ай бұрын

She doesn't need to "dress down" so other people won't bully her...they should learn to live with disappointment in their appearance and respect others despite their jealousy. Also, just because you don't work with bullies, your age has nothing to do with this, it's the fact that you work with decent people, not your age or attractiveness. @@daphnebailey6223

Women can be passive aggressive. That’s my experience. I don’t have to dress sexy no matter what I wear my shape shows. Was crazy but now!!! I am a force. I mow down jealousy.

@AndreaSanchez-bw4ic

7 ай бұрын

Same!!! I’m like this is my body even w leggings and a tee I still get stares but I’m not trying I just wear what I like …

My partner always kept saying I was sexy, got fed up of it. Tell me I make u laugh, u love my smile, ur so smart instead.

You are INCREDIBLY skilled at picking up the nuance of human behavior. Wow…. I really enjoy your channel!

Sex appeal is about confidence and it’s an energy. Women might be their most fertile in the 20s but your sex drive really doesn’t kick into your 30s and I think that also plays a part in why once you really become a woman is when you hold in sex appeal women’s in a 40s and 50s could be sexy sexiness has nothing to do with promiscuity. It’s more about allure and energy.

@user-wh9sn

2 ай бұрын

This age obsession of young women is mens insecurity they assume less life experience will make it easy for them

You're spot on. As an attractive mature woman, I still find women jealous of me when I'm in spaces with less attractive women than me or when they don't dress properly ( I modeled and was taught to leave home to impress at all times). I also find men often falling all over themselves to get a glance or just to talk to me. Another thing is that men compete with each other when trying to talk to me, and I've even noticed they'll throw each other under the bus in order to get a chance to court me. I'm always amazed at how people react simply based off ones looks. Pretty privilege is real, and I'm aware of it. I try not to intentionally benefit from it.

@ijeonu2405

6 ай бұрын

Very😂. I benefit from it😂😂

@marleyisms

6 ай бұрын

@@ijeonu2405 😂🤣 As you should. It ain't fair, but favor isn't fair 😂.

@melaninchocolate6552

6 ай бұрын

I got job offers o wasn't even qualified for!! I interviewed for jobs just to experiment and see if I would get it and I dressed well and got it!! I'm respected more at work, men do give more and provide and want to take care of you when you first show that you take care of yourself

I'm 46 now but in my 20s I was a 10+. Could have any guy I wanted. There is definitely pretty privilege. I was lucky enough to work in the cosmetic industry so my looks helped my career but I did learn FAST I had to dress more masculine. I wore suits to work and flats. If not, my bosses would think I was dumb. As soon as I toned down my appearance, I started getting promoted.

@19suicidedoll69

6 ай бұрын

😅

@19suicidedoll69

6 ай бұрын

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@kylieking8163

6 ай бұрын

You could still get promoted if you wear heels if not quicker

@PorcelainScream

6 ай бұрын

I am 27, very educated and work in mental health. Left my old job because of toxicity, we all had the same uniform. Now in an office setting I wear sweats and a hoodie every day and the coworkers STILL assume the worst of me, assume I sleep around, one even told me to respect myself in front of the whole office. I have no idea how to navigate this so I just keep to myself

@kv2723

6 ай бұрын

At 46 you should still be in your prime.

I brought a model friend to my ex's band practice and watching the guys lose their sh*t because of her there was amazing. They were talking mad sh*t and really not very friendly. Super sloppy songs. They had never been that way out of maybe 20x I had been there. This video reminded me of that. Had a good laugh down memory lane. I'm glad I found your channel. This video helped me connect a lot of dots and make better sense how most of ya'll (men) function. Thank you for taking the time to make/upload these!

@kaylahface

6 ай бұрын

That is fucking hilarious oh my goodness 😂😂😂but also like🙄 🤦‍♀️ you know?! Stupid silly boys

You said men don't understand this..some women don't either. For me it's probably the 'tism, but as a woman who is very direct, blunt, outspoken, honest, and not afraid of confrontation, the fake, passive aggressiveness of women has always been beyond me - I don't understand, but I don't like it and I call it out when I see it, I don't have time for that shit and I don't want it around me. Why I get along so much better with men 😩

Confidence is everything, more than looks or youth and will win every time.

Never dull your light because of jealous hateful people .when you show them you are confident chill and laid back and you dont care what they think .they will leave you the fuck alone!!!!!

@hlengiwefeliciamabuza7354

6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much

Sex appeal becomes a liability for women

Because i have BPD for years i felt when i was being manipulated,devalued, & discarded by women. I just didn’t know what it was i just knew it never felt right I know when women are jealous of me. I am a loner, i speak up for myself and i dont tag along with people and validate them. Im always the bad person at most jobs involving women. Im either a lovable or hateable person most often people dislike. But now im learning that use the hate as fuel

I don't dress provocatively, but, I've realized over the years, that other females, even some of the ones I've thought were "friends", show an underlying resentment. I'm petite, I'm a conservative Christian, I'm also friendly and warm (at 42) I'm told that I'm sexy and beautiful all of the time. All. The. Time. But I want a man with the right values, faith, compatibility, etc. (and, of course, attraction). Being attractive pays off - but so does being warm, genuine, and friendly.

I think the “boob” experiment was kinda flimsy bc in my experience there’s so much more to mens attraction than just having big tits lol. I’ve worked at several strip clubs and other various clubs and big boobs on their own don’t usually have the biggest affect on men, it’s the overall package (beautiful woman w a nice shape overall) that draws in the most men. Bigger boobs can be an asset, but an average/chubby woman w big boobs vs a truly beautiful woman w a great shape (hips, stomach, legs etc) almost every time the more beautiful woman will make more money and have way more regulars overall. Men are simple at times lol but they do choose beauty and an overall nice shape over just a pair of big tits like 98% of the time from what I’ve observed . So it’s not just about tits (or one isolated body part) it’s about overall Beauty and sexiness.

@queenchinenye2378

6 ай бұрын

Just be sexy. Noted

@MedusssssaChristo

6 ай бұрын

Of course there Is, but a shapely figure does attract attention especially of men, It triggers primal desires.

@whitneyangelie3682

6 ай бұрын

@@MedusssssaChristo What I’m saying is the “shapely” figure has to be nice and svelte and somewhat proportional and the woman has to be somewhat pretty for that to be true. A sloppy looking woman w huge boobs isn’t going to get the attention that a beautiful woman w a harmonious shape and smaller boobs will get 💯I notice that the women that get the most attention is all about a good hip to waist ratio, actually. That shits like catnip to men 🤣

@skillsphere9245

6 ай бұрын

@@whitneyangelie3682 im a man and confirm that that i look at womens face body ratio and even voice its counts the same for men if man is very tall even somewhat muscular he wont fix a dime i have a perfect hair curly hair face symetrical jawline with those slight cavities in the cheeks my body is good too and my height too 5 11 so i had women going after me even after millionaires did there aproach to that women or where taller but still they didnt go for it and picked me and even where adament about it talking bout very wanted girls popular and semi famous

@sainisaha5023

6 ай бұрын

​@@whitneyangelie3682yeah so true. That hip to waist ratio is the real thing boobs is secondary.

There's just no one else like you Dalexis. ⭐

You have described my upbringing. There is pretty privilege but it wrecks your female friendships. It gets really sad. Jealous women have told rumors about me and tried to ruin my reputation. I can always tell when someone has talked to a certain friend because that person would treat me differently.

This sounds like my life .. im curvy with a natural big butt even as a a teenager with natural hazel eyes.. i wasnt even girly during that time.. family females bearly talked to me and had a hard time making female friends.. even till this day.. and most men are mean to me since i ignore them and dont pay attention to them like most females do..even the handful if girl friends i have are passive aggressive with me .. i even have female neighbors that give me the cold shoulder.. im a high impact dance cardio dancer (always in volleyball shorts)and since ive been working on my self care and healing and working on my body more i get more hatred.. thank you for this i never understood this as a child with a absent father.. i i always thought it was my fault.. this means alot to me ❤

@theupgraded6558

7 ай бұрын

Omg are you me?😮 I feel for you❤

Yes! There’s a reason why being a lady is key to being a successful respectful woman . We know this and that’s why we dress in a classy manner for respect purposes. The way you carry yourself is your superpower. Etiquette and manners is what every woman (especially beautiful women with sex appeal) needs in order to be respected by all.❤

@kv2723

6 ай бұрын

So true. When you get in touch with your feminine energy (warm, soft, receptive, friendly, with firm boundaries) men act like you're the greatest thing they've ever seen.

@melaninchocolate6552

6 ай бұрын

🎯

@tobealady.4490

6 ай бұрын

@@kv2723 Precisely! I love men lol they’re like gentle giants that women need to be gentle yet firm with like a lady.

Omg I experienced aggression from women on every job, not because I was provocative, mostly because I dress well and very feminine.

The eyes Chico, they never lie

Wait a minute, lets talk about this. Ive noticed very wealthy mean with slender more smaller chest women while men who have little to no money are attracted to larger chest/butt women. Can u discuss this topic

@softlife45

7 ай бұрын

I like this Elizabeth Holmes lady she's clever. I agree with you bc look at candace owens . She's feminine but she dresses like she means business and she's stern

@softlife45

7 ай бұрын

This was an excellent video by the way

@dg-qn5mi

7 ай бұрын

Srudies have show men who come from money tend to go for slender partners as it is perceived as more 'classy'

@joma1445

7 ай бұрын

Don’t think so. The women today do their bbls and breast surgeries to attract rich guys.

@katharinaharke6907

6 ай бұрын

💯 when you have a bbl you also attract a certain type of men

I COMPETELY agree with this video in concern to women bullying a woman who is sexy. And I know….because I grew up an ugly duckling, and women and girls weren’t threatened by me when I was little. But I get to high school and buy some breasts, and skin cleared up…my hips widened. Great body, great smile. I was so proud to have these things that I didn’t have before, and be chased for the first time I definitely dressed a bit more provocative. A little bit anyway. What I notice is that I’m kind of slut shamed anyway, even if I’m dressed appropriately. Having breasts and behind makes the outfit look more ‘sexy’. Also btw I’m a flight attendant so I deal with this a lot. I’ve had wives make nasty comments about me right in my face just because their husband was staring at me. Another point is that women with boyfriends and husbands make themselves seem better than me as a single woman. I could go on and on with examples. Anyway I appreciate the men who show me extra attention because of my large boobs, again I didn’t get that attention before breast aug. Great video!

@sunnyvasic

6 ай бұрын

Youre right, if an average woman wore the same outfit as a beautiful sexy woman they would slut shame the sexy one even with the same coverage...its sad and unfair

@char6081

6 ай бұрын

Come again you bought breasts in highschool?

You don’t have to dress masculine. No woman deserves to dress like Elizabeth Holmes. Dress elegant and you’ll win as a woman.

You are absolutely right as I got older I didn’t know how to handle compliments because I was kinda bullied … not invited to go out , etc…

“We never March for ugly pride” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

This video was excellent, very well articulated with great logical reasoning ........it clears a lot of confusion and will definitely help going forward

Watching the part about how men throw morality out of the window, the other day I walked into a shop, and a man said wow if it were not for my wife and 2 kids, I would marry you. I did not know how to feel, at least he was honest.

Its so crazy how this guy (most likely unknowingly) helped me understand the Catholic Church's teaching on modesty. In all the angles and scenarios. His opinion is so familiar to my own grapse on the teaching. Like, "make an informed decision on how you would want to clothe yourself, AND here are the hardwired realities of human nature to consider".

I agree with you, I've experienced this. Especially when I was a bartender, I experienced everything that lady said in the video. Everything you said about how men and women view was literally my experience as a bartender its crazy lol

One of the best videos you’ve ever made Alex. Super in point and well explained. You should do a follow-up about how women should/can learn how to shift the energy from feminine to powerful/masculine depending of the setting or the situation.

I’m 47 and I still get looks from everyone. I don’t get it! Maybe it’s the natural red hair.

Muito interessante, eu assisti o vídeo inteiro enquanto fazia coisas e nem senti que era de mais de 1 hora. ❤️

I am so glad I found this channel! So much that I am learning. 👏

I matured quickly despite having my dad full present. But I was 5’7 in the 5th grade. Taller than most teachers. I had problems in 5th grade through middle school from BOYS MOMS not wanting their sons around me like I was a slut. I wasn’t interested in boys until high school. It hurt but it was the women’s own insecurities to not realize I was literally same age as their sons. I didn’t consider myself sexy as I was a little girl and didn’t dress sexy at all. I was told I looked like Sarah Michelle Gellar in Buffy at the time. I’m 36 now and great shape and still pretty. If I go out I never pay for anything. I will try to buy my own drinks but men insist so I let them.

@zaraa1222

7 ай бұрын

You go girl! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Same!❤

@beeteezee3633

7 ай бұрын

Can I say something, I’m a girl and buffy the vampire slayer was my favorite when I was younger. But the part where she died and she went into that orb… to see all the depressed men around, sad for her sacrifice. And how her mom wasn’t the same after being brought back to life. It was a series that really I wish I had them all to watch again.

For a woman, our looks are our greatest asset

This was such an awesome video and so eye opening and relatable. I have learned a lot from this and also realised that women goes through so much without even doing anything.

Dude you made me laugh so many times, I had to make a few short reels out of certain parts of this to replay when I’m sad. This is a real thing though. 💯

@weeege4770

6 ай бұрын

Yeah like we dont dress like this here the way he said that😂

Yess love this video !!! Everyday life type of advice ❤

It's crazy how this is actually mentioned in the Quran ! And i never thought about it this way. {فَلَا تَخْضَعْنَ بِالْقَوْلِ فَيَطْمَعَ الَّذِي فِي قَلْبِهِ مَرَضٌ وَقُلْنَ قَوْلًا مَّعْرُوف} "32" {Do not be submissive in words, lest he who has a disease in his heart become greedy} "al-ahzab 32"

This was so good that I rewinded it and watched it for two days.

Nope, you said 50% off all of your coaching calls! I’m holding you to it! 😋 & Great Video!! I appreciate all of your time and efforts into making this! I hope to see you one day! You are definitely on my little bucket list.😉 well also bc I’ve been watching your channel since 2016.👀 only now have I decided to start commenting, you have such a calm demeanor now.😅 any whoooo, I am hoping to see you in Houston within this next year!🎉🥰☺️ God Bless you Father Alex!

Dalexis you should make a video for skinny girls who look like Victoria Secret Models like...honestly🎉 You know why, because not all men love thick women so we also want to know your view on skinny woman who wear high heels,look classy and beautiful❤❤❤

@mrsoka5967

6 ай бұрын

Great recommendation 😘

@LolaKoko-mr7zn

6 ай бұрын

@@mrsoka5967 yes,we really want to know how men think about a skinny woman who wears classy seductive and keeps herself good with makeup hair perfume and all of that Does skinny matter to them💪I hope dalexis makes a video on this

Feminine energy flows internally and masculine energy flows externally, which is why we usually don’t see the women showing their judgement behavior immediately, unless she is extremely masculine.

Alex, thank you for this content! This is very interesting and educational. I love dressing up cause I express myself through fashion (also the culture I grew up highly priorities how women look and dress)I and I noticed how so many women here in the US who tend to underdress or dress extremely casual do hate you for dressing up. I personally try to find a good balance between being a woman who expresses her femininity through fashion but also be as professional at work without changing who I’m at the core and I must say it’s pretty tough. Thank you for your insights 👍🙏

I lost it when you said “dresses like plain white bread”

A woman can be sexy wearing clothing covered her body in a black bag,you put sexiness to the really physical state,sexiness it’s a state of mind,so I don’t agree that sexiness is about showing skin off

Good stuff. Haven’t been here in a while. Congrats! I remember when this channel had like 20k subs. This is amazing!

The state of the world is so depressing. By the way you don't need to dress sexy to attract attention or resentment you just have to have a noticeable advantage - physical or intellectual - but most people will justify their behavior by projecting. They'd rather believe they act as they do because you provoked it in some way.

@softlife45

7 ай бұрын

U are so lost 😂

@Nell-yh9og

7 ай бұрын

@@softlife45 You are so eloquent. Since you appreciated my contribution I'm happy to add that in my opinion: 1/ the fact that men are naturally wired that way does not make it less pathetical. 2/ you have very little leverage regarding your reputation - any woman knows it from a young age -. It can randomly be ruined by anyone. Know who you are, develop inner strenght, and stop giving your power away to people you barely value.This is one of the rare R. Greene development I do not resonate with. 3/ people will envy and resent physical and intellecual advantages which often results in projecting. Degrading the source of their incomfort allows people to preserve their self image. I learned that what people think about you rarely depends on your intrinsic value but on the emotions they feel in your presence. Which makes me think men must experience their desire for women as an ultimate weakness. That being said you will be attacked regardless if you shine in any way, when you are being attacked for dressing sexy you simply provided insecure - men and women - with a socially-agreed justification for the violence they carried from the start.

And I won’t ever stop dressing feminine but I’ll tone down the sexiness occasionally lol

I do believe that looks do play a role. It's like the debate with Nixon vs JFK. The people who watched on TV said JFK won hands down. However, people who listened to the debate thought that Nixon won by a landslide. Looks and attractiveness definitely does matter in our perception of others.

YES ALEX PLEASE MORE ON ATTRACTIVENESS. This is fresh and rarely talked about

Why is human life so complicated

@yudollia

7 ай бұрын

Lol !!!

@richerDiLefto

7 ай бұрын

Because people suck.

@mrsmrs1200

7 ай бұрын

It is simple, when you know the rules

@mrsmrs1200

7 ай бұрын

It is simple, when you know the rules

@mrsmrs1200

7 ай бұрын

It is simple, when you know the rules

this is totally logical and fact based vidio each thing is explained so well by you 💯

Great video Father Alex ✨

Like the way, you explain things, but at the same time you’re so funny and you make me laugh.

I have SUCH a hard time making female friends :/ I was always excluded at my old job and could tell they didn’t like me even though I was always nice and kind. Any advice for that

@ladyfxllc

7 ай бұрын

For one, your job, depending on where you work, is not necessarily the place you want to make friends in anyway. I would say, overall, just be yourself and always take genuine interest in the person you're speaking with. Everyone wants to be liked. Ask yourself if you actually like that person and interact with that thought in mind. Don't make it all about you and how much you want to please them cause that often backfires. Crack jokes when appropriate, and if they're a little sarcastic or bitchy to you, I don't see why you can't give it back. 😏 Don't let people step on you or be a pushover. If you can't do something at the moment, say no, and let them know you can at another time or to find someone else.

@Amylynnklh900

7 ай бұрын

Same girl same. I work at the airport so bunch of men, I guess they see it as competition🤷🏽‍♀️ oh well

@pianotnt

7 ай бұрын

the freezing method you take a ziploc bag and paper or index card write down all the names of the people you suspect are jealous of you and write down what you don't want them to do then add water and ice then freeze once frozen throw it out and watch how they change

@cocomocha

7 ай бұрын

When you’re mean and pretty you’ll have other women dying to be your friend nice and pretty gets disrespected

@handypicker

7 ай бұрын

I feel you so much. My bosses wife hates me (I think because her husband is a flirt and has showed he finds me attractive) I could almost say she has been bullying me with the other girls. They wanna put me down so much. And I was nice to them in the beginning.. Not taking it anymore though, just ignoring them when they act like little princesses

Alex your writing is impressive, you should write a book!! I would definitely buy it

It's a shame women do this. Wouldn't it be awesome if we all just supported each other.

Being attractive has a lot of privileges… however, my ascendant is in Scorpio and has always made me exclude sex appeal. I could wear a trash bag. They can smell it a mile away. I’ve tried to have mentorship’s and make business connections with successful men and they can’t even control themselves within 1 day and most just a couple of hours. It’s like once they know they can’t have me right then and right there they go from 0 to 100 real quick and get so mad. I’ve given up on breaking into other industries because I don’t know how to navigate these situations. I feel like men will help other men but just dangle the carrot for me. I also feel like the opposite sex in dating just views me as a play toy vs wifey . I’m not sure what I need to change in my dating strategy. For reference, I’m 5’9”, 130lbs, size A cup with a great body, legs, nice face, eyes.. I’m always having to be hyper vigilant so I’m not taken advantage of. It’s lead to a lot of anxiety. One of the main reasons I stopped drinking 7 years ago so I could always be on my A game.

@AndreaSanchez-bw4ic

7 ай бұрын

Yesss I’m a Scorpio ascendant too! And I’ve thought the same thing!! 😅 how to navigate this world and not be taken advantage of by men/ women when you’re constantly being stared at and bullied and men see wifey or play toy.

@theupgraded6558

7 ай бұрын

Cover up & be mean & confident with massive ego, latter works for kim kardashian

@Nocturnal_Lorena

7 ай бұрын

I’ve got the same body stats so I can totally understand! The best way to deal with any one, any age, any gender for women like us is to act like a Capricorn & look like a Cancer. It garners respect & empathy at the same time. It’s my formula that never fails & will work everywhere in the world.

@riyaaanz6446

7 ай бұрын

@@Nocturnal_Lorena can u elaborate on act like a Capricorn and look like cancer , cause I’m a Capricorn dealing with the same thing

@Nocturnal_Lorena

7 ай бұрын

@@riyaaanz6446 Soft girl look, little to no skin showing clothes, quiet confidence, be humble but have strong boundaries, basically embody the qualities of an empress. Love your self so much that you don't tolerate any mistreatment. Don't argue, don't swear, silence is golden, walk away. Express gratitude & accept that all you need is God. Forgive, move on but never forget & only take the lessons forward. That will naturally make you feel detached. Don't expect anything from anyone, be your own saviour, ask for help only when required but help others however you can without burning out. When you need nothing, you attract everything. Have your own life even after marriage/having kids. Always take least an hour or 2 for yourself till the day you die. Don't allow anyone in your me time. Google how a cancer woman is & act like that outwardly. Google what a capricorn woman is like & become like that inwardly. That'll keep your yin yang balanced. You'll appeal to all ages, genders, races, etc without even trying. This came from 30 years of experience lol. Hope it helps.

I really adore this video & the topics you talk about. You’re so entertaining & Intelligent & handsome too! These types of videos I really find Interesting

So when a guy isn’t listing to a damn word we are saying we should take it as a compliment??? !!! 😂😂 😅Please

Awesome Video! 👍🏽

This was dope thanks

Can't beauty and sexiness be combined into something wonderful?

@irenedagostino9203

7 ай бұрын

Yes of course I am sure I am both 😂❤

This is a good video!

Liked your show. Could you make them not as long? Lots of info to assimilate. For example, this video would make 3 in a series. Keep on helping us understand ourselves.❤ TY.

Love the science behind it

I love this video! ❤

This was probably one of your best videos

I've had issues with females since 5 years old..wearing a cute party dress to a bday party and I remember other little girls excluding me..move on to adult life female bosses have bullied me and I've been told to cover up bcas other women in the office complained..i never wore anything revealing to work but as the video shows you can't hide large breast..always felt sad about it bcas I love women and believe us girls need to have each other's backs ❤

@theupgraded6558

7 ай бұрын

Unfortunately men stick together & women compete

@socol76

7 ай бұрын

I had a breast reduction because I didn’t like the unnecessary attention they garnered me by either sex

@joma1445

7 ай бұрын

Omg same. I was a very pretty child and my boobs started growing at 7 years old.. I had so much hate from women growing up.. it took me years to understand that they were jealous. I couldn’t understand why somebody can hate you so much, without you doing anything to them

Not all pretty women end up with trauma from developing at a young age. A lot of them have other issues related to childhood trauma (eg parents w/infidelity issues, SA, exposure to DV, etc)

Miss Kitty was always covered from head to toe......but her"working gals" had higher hems and lower necklines. In other words...she was the "Boss Lady".!😂

Thank you, brilliant 😊

Ahhh. This vídeo was a eye-opener 😂😂. That explains many things. Nice vídeo. Thanks 😅

Thank you for this informative video Father Alex. You have evolved & you are becoming more valuable sir.....I appreciate your wealth of wisdom and knowledge. 🎯🎯🎯💎💎💎💯💯💯♥️♥️♥️

Wow. How did you have this much accurate knowledge? I did grow up without my father and I couldn’t accept my uncle in my life. I don’t have a big female features i am not fat or too skinny either. I think it is my very calm feminine nature. I didn’t make any friends in my college days only 2 from high school. I have been smeared in my college by a relative who is a narcissist that i had to cut her off but she had a massive narcissistic injury.

To get attention from somebody you like you need to be attractive with a nice body if you're not conventionally attractive men will think you're not worthy of even getting pursued that's the harsh reality its true for both men and women .

I thought I was pretty hot nowadays but I’m playing with no-one. They’d be playing with me if it weren’t for my boundaries. I’ve had to built them from scratch and now I don’t seem to be able to sustain anyone’s attention. When I didn’t take care of my self physically and had less boundaries and did a lot to make the relationship work, I was always in a long term relationship. But never a good or satisfying one. Thank you for listening to my rant, I only read the title on this video. 😂

Wearing a fancy modest dress is my go to to get both sexiness and respect ❤️

This is true, saw a difference in others reactions when dressing more conservative.

This topic seems so untouchable until you speak of this I really enjoyed

I love how masculine and honest you are 😭show me the homeless hott girl her tip jar is always full😹

This is a great video, I love your opinion

I feel like men notice it more than women. Men will have an obvious opinion of of who they think are attractive and show more attention and act differently to those women. Men innately know this makes other women jealous. Men almost exacerbate the rivalry.

You don't have to dress or be sexy to get bullied by other women. It could be for any reason imaginable. Sadly.

My childhood is starting to make sense

Very interesting, in my experience, i dnt consider myself "beautiful" even tho people tell me i look like "shakira" (which i dnt see it) and i worked in different industries. I usually dress with sweat pants, jeans and t-shirt, yet guys still hit on me🤷‍♀️ and im like, "but i look like crap today lol"

So that's WHY when I speak men act like I am speaking DOLPHIN❗ DAMN it has made me mad.

A strong religios man will not look

Really informative video thanks I still love my style though 😅

This is so true about the voice. As a Muslim god says in the Quran. To not talk in a submissive manner so that no ill intended man can take advantage of you and talk in a clear straight manner. As an introvert growing up this was a major skill i had to practice when dealing with men overall even if i am fully covered i am still very feminine at my core. But i know not to give access to just anyone.

Do more vids like this I loved this, and do a vid ab why atttactive ppl have more fulfilling relationships cuz I agree but a lot of ppl on TikTok are saying the opposite 😊

Can you do a video with more photo examples of clothes ideas, pictures to post, etc? Social media is like our personal brand, it can make or break it. I need more visuals

What would you do if you were a woman today? Single, married, kids, no kids, 9-5, s** worker, natural, medical grade, etx? Im so curious lol

be pretty & dont be ugly

Sensei dalexis

At this point I’m just watching ur videos cos the way u say stuff is funny😂Consider comedy🎀