Just date guys you don’t like, you will be doing these things naturally

@zykira2010

5 ай бұрын

Pretty much

@zainabrose96

5 ай бұрын

haha

@WildAntics13

5 ай бұрын

Date at least someone you don’t like with money 😂you will be fine then hahahaha

@Liz-dragon-street.

5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@user-j1spswelskisj

5 ай бұрын

​@@WildAntics13😂😂

So basically it’s all about manipulation. Good and bad. If you are too pure people naturally take advantage period.

@Monicamoni912

6 ай бұрын

Absolutely 💯

@steph6109

6 ай бұрын

I'd say predatory people will take advantage and men on average are more predatory than women. There's plenty of life examples where people could have taken from you but instead gave...those examples are normally women though.

@SheriCheri94

6 ай бұрын

@@steph6109 all facts, and that’s why I get annoyed when some of these channels talk about divine feminine is the receiver, blah blah blah, yes if a man gives you money, a house, a baby, but what do you do? Turn the house into a home, deliver his child, use the money for practical things that the man can do what USE. So fundamentally masculines give so we can receive so we can give again 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@SR77736

6 ай бұрын

​@@steph6109 regular people take advantage too. Why? Bc nice people are conditioning them to take bc they give and those people are selfish.

@softlife45

6 ай бұрын

Men in general are predators. they take advantage of whether you're hard to get or not. I've seen women who are hard to get, the man got her, bragged about it, laughed, told his friends, and cheated on her, lol.

If you’re dealing with a man like this then the answer is simple…he is not the one for you. Quit trying to figure out men. You are the prize. The one who is meant for you will be easy.

@bonafide_forever

6 ай бұрын

👏👏👏👏👏👏

@basshunter9018

6 ай бұрын

💯

@danilaroche1156

6 ай бұрын

Even if he's the right one, it's never easy booboo.

@musicbrazilian7065

6 ай бұрын

​@@danilaroche1156 Nothing you do will be wrong in the eyes of the man that likes and loves you. Unless of course you are loud n unlawful.

@alishar9831

5 ай бұрын

Exactly , stop trying to figure them out , you don’t have to figure out the one who is for you and he will try to figure you out instead , omg ! Period .

Women are filled with a kindness men will never have. A friendliness men will never adopt. That’s why she is so joyful and smiley. And i don’t blame her! He’s not in her life yet

@blueblaze9862

3 ай бұрын

We love to have fun and be happy!

This depressed me 😢 basically me being nice got me abused

@sibongilevirginiashabangu7102

5 ай бұрын

Hey babe, my advise, be nice and have a good heart it really sets you apart. But, do not over look disrespect. When someone continually disrespects you, hold them accountable then politely walk away.

BEING WITH MEN IS PERFORMATIVE

I’ve become more cold in the recent years thankfully ❤now i am taking advantage of the people in my life who used to take advantage of me 😊

@sarit4252

6 ай бұрын

Give the deets

@danilaroche1156

6 ай бұрын

Nooo...

@Cookiedesigns254

6 ай бұрын

LMAO same 🤣

@AliyahHarvey1030

5 ай бұрын

Same❤

@spiritwaves5112

5 ай бұрын

Same and I’m getting the benefits, it helps if the foundation(seeds) were pure

Men who approach dating from transactional perspective end up with women who use them. Relationships are devotional, not transactional.

@Poodle_Gun

5 ай бұрын

That's why men are so mad at women and divorce laws

@Fernandapazlolas

5 ай бұрын

Yes, that only works in avoidant and insecure attachment, and people who has them they'll never be totally happy in their relationships.

@WildAntics13

4 ай бұрын

Girl 🤣 everything is transactional if you go for devotion in relationship you’re in the losing end men never approached relationship like that they always have goal in mind thats why when we sleep with them we suddenly attached men never get attached to anything unless they really like you! It’s better go with goal in mind especially for women

My advise, avoid those cold people in a partnership as it has nothing to do with love

@fivemargaritasonly

6 ай бұрын

....men and women love differently. And people love complexity, being one dimensional doesn't bode well for any relationship.

@suzanaandrade2125

6 ай бұрын

On point

Jackie Kenndy said same NEVER LET PEOPLE KNOW WHAT YOUR THINKING!! she took many secrets to her grave..

@lavenderkisses9461

4 ай бұрын

Yeah but I don’t know about her relationship advice.. looking at her own.

I recall asking my now ex about why things didn’t work out with his previous partner. When he cited that she was “too easy, “too submissive” I thought he was mad.

@WildAntics13

4 ай бұрын

They like challenges

@WildAntics13

4 ай бұрын

I have some male friends married they still flirts and cheat on their wife but they are Christian 🤣

@sunnyvasic

3 ай бұрын

Yet, they say wife material is being submissive and agreeable...this is insanity

Guys don’t lie better, they lie more. My opinion based upon experience. Great advice overall though. 💯

Freaken love that you added Elliot Scott. He knows what he’s talking about

He is saying what Sheraseven does. That relationships are transactional, he’s just saying it based on attraction (mens perspective). She says it based on money…Play the game.

I am attracting the same type of guys but the thing is they are all acting so fake in the beginning . When I do see I’m getting played I get out of that situation real fast , I do not entertain it . Cut and dry I leave . So I don’t think it’s about attracting . There are toxic men everywhere ! You are going to attract them no matter what

@jenbodhi1133

5 ай бұрын

Same situation here

@Sheherhis

5 ай бұрын

This is true💯

This is why I’m not dating anymore. Too many f**king mind games and gray areas 🙄

@Jubilee_BX

2 ай бұрын

The key is to honor your feelings. When a man tests you or does something you don’t like don’t be afraid to be upset, speak up for yourself then distance yourself. Men are going to do and say things that you don’t like. The problem is that typically when women like men they give them passes on their bullshit. Don’t give them any passes. Put them in check every chance you get. Don’t make anything easy for them. No matter how much you like them make them work for your affection and prove themself to you. Only accept them back and become warm towards them after a sincere apology and changed behavior.

I agree. I do mamy character analysis on those dark, mysterious women and I confirm. Sadly, men cheat on those good girls

You two should do a collaboration. Saving women by day, fanboying over anime by night.

If a guy is throwing himself at me, yeah, that's ick. However, I have to disagree with you about the guy showing me that he doesn't need me. If he doesn't need me, I'm not attracted. I don't want to be where I'm not wanted.

Thank you Father Alex. Thanks to you I overcame my depression after toxic relationship. You helped me to build myself back up. I was single for a long time. Now I am in happy relationship. I owe you a lot.

@SpiritualSupply

6 ай бұрын

Could you please make more videos on how to apply your advice in long term relationship please.

@MindfulAttraction2.0

6 ай бұрын

Honestly, I'd never think about long term or short-term relationships when I make these videos. So I think they apply to long-term relationships as well

@SpiritualSupply

6 ай бұрын

@MindfulAtrraction2.0 Yes I can see as I'm watching 12:26 I coooollld 😅

I think it would be helpful if you could provide more detailed guidance and examples of how women are to manage and express anger in a variety of contexts and scenarios. Women have been taught to internalize certain emotions and making it hard to process these concepts

@jaelyngold2475

6 ай бұрын

Hi there, He does explain this but in his other videos. He states through meditating we can balance our emotions. So instead of acting on impulse or saying something in the heat of the moment. Take a step back, take a few breaths and begin meditating. Honestly, one should meditate every night. It does help. I have done this before, without even knowing really much about it in terms of relationships and it helps with staying completely calm. Sometimes it helps with the mysterious side too. More often than not, when my past partners wanted to always call or chat with me, I’d always tell them I’m busy, because I REALLY was busy. I never told them why but I was meditating. I learned to do this by going to a retreat a few years ago and did this well before even dating. Believe me it helps a lot.

@shaybae111

6 ай бұрын

And if meditating doesn’t work, I’d you need to release… try journaling out screaming in a pillow 💚

@vannamarie8430

6 ай бұрын

Maybe try asking advice from a woman how to manage emotions. Men do not have the answer to our issues, because they have never been a woman!

@sophien5416

5 ай бұрын

Just express yourself. As long as you are respectful with how you express your anger, then why can't it be expressed? Don't hold it in. It's when we hold it in then let it boil over and manifest itself into pettiness and drama is when anger becomes a problem. Happily married 10 years!

That only works on unhealthy insecure and avoidant attachment, and trust me, you dont want a guy who has and insecure or avoidant attachment. Guys and girls who have secure attachment wont tolerate this kind of actions, cause their self esteem is sane, and they know what they deserve. Guys who feels the girl they likes theyre being too "cocky when showing real affection is cause they have a trauma bond, and they feel scare cause at the end they unconsciously think they dont deserve that love. Yep, go and study a little of psychology please.

@sunnyvasic

3 ай бұрын

You're right, my friend has a bachelor'sin psychology and she said men marry women who have the same energy or attachment style as their mothers. Whatever that attachment may be

@Jubilee_BX

2 ай бұрын

Good point

I love Elliott Scott too. He keeps it real And father Alex. These men we are dating don't stand a chance 😅😅

Ladies, you wanna be happy and be with a man who completely adores you? Pick the man you can be a total dork with and who LOVES you for it. Better yet, be with a guy whom you can have farts (even smelly ones) and who would laugh and love you more. I tried out all these manipulative tactics and in the end only attracted men who were also emotional fuckwiths . And then i decided to love myself and let a man love the real me, and got married within 9 months. Still happily married. And i realise how i would have never been happy with those assholes i'd played games with

You don't get angry enough and you need to control your emotions... WHICH IS IT???

@kataraa11

6 ай бұрын

you firstly need to control ur emotions, so you will be respected for getting angry over sth

@jiyeonkim9862

6 ай бұрын

To me, showing anger means that you imply your decisiveness and willingness to execute. You must control your emotions regardless of any circumstances (more likely negative emotions) but allude that you have power.

Thank you for looking out for us women and seeing the drastic edge men have, when it comes to knowing our part in the dance

I'm so happy you did a video with my second fave, Elliott Scott.

Hey Alex, good educational video. When I was saving up $ to buy my Corvette, I couldn’t wait to purchase her. She truly is my baby and really respect and take great care of her 🏎️. Having to work hard for something makes you appreciate it more.

I didn’t even know a cold man can commit to anyone and if he stays with you, it’s your lose.

Best influencer on You tube....love your videos. So proud of you Alex ❤

I hate this slowness. I always fail. It's too hard

This is one of your best videos. Thank you.

I love how you explained this

Thanks a million Alex i really needed this ❤

The cross over I needed!

Damn that easy game mode analogy was a wake up call. Best analogy. All FACTS 💯

Great advice ☀️💯

Games Games Games Games Games Game Games Game Games Game Games games games what ever happened to true connection and organic flow when getting to know one another❤

@theREALamymoss

6 ай бұрын

You can have true connection and be in the flow and still not show all of your cards, be mysterious and control your emotions. It’s a fine balance. It’s more emotional intelligence and control. Otherwise, you’re just handing over your power. Period.

@karasmusic123

5 ай бұрын

Our great grandparents went through the Great Depression and were emotionally disconnected and had to focus mostly on survival. They birthed the Boomers (the Me Generation), and they were emotionally disconnected from their kids and invalidated a lot of them, and a lot of us have trouble with trusting people and being vulnerable and close to each other. And now a lot of us are living out generational trauma and attachment wounds.

@WildAntics13

4 ай бұрын

It’s always a game girl no matter how good you think he is 🤣. So you need to make sure your not in the losing end ! Men goes to relationship with goal in mind women sometimes dont we value nurture relationships that’s why we lose! I learned better if you don’t wake up the bitch and your always the yes girl with no goal in mind you won’t get what you need ! Bitch era baby 🤣

Great advice alex thank you so much 👍❤️

Men chase colder women, but I don’t typically see men marry cold women but that’s just what I’ve seen in my world I could be wrong

@WildAntics13

4 ай бұрын

Because good girl 🤣 they can used them more 🤣.

Good video, Alex. Thanks

I appreciate you so much ❤

This is why there is a lot of GREAT SINGLE WOMEN SMDH. I am dizzy just listening to this video lol. I can not! God bless frfr ✌🏽☮🙏🏽💫

It doesn’t always work like this that I would have to say “I don’t know where this is going” and “one day it will end”. I think the best advice would be to be authentic and in order to become authentic we need to work on our healing and on our character. And I haven’t even mentioned spirituality and God. Cause God is actually real and has a specific plan for our lives..so He also has a chosen spouse! ..but I agree with a healthy anger part you mention! That speaks to me..have to be truthful and have to push each other towards growth too.

I’m 100% ok with being single. I have a very sweet nature and cannot be cold.

Elliot is so good 👍🏻 All his videos are so helpful. Also, he looks positive !!!!

Your videos are fire!

I actually totally disagree sorry…. You can’t build a relationship on manipulation. Build boundaries and don’t be desperate simple wtf

Grown men shouldn't be boyfriends. It's to see if he is husband material...

loved that one

Ditto & thanx .

Hieee, Daluxxx!

Thank u for the content!

Am wiser and smarter listen to you. You are saving good girls by the day

I’m not gonna lie, when I first found your videos I didn’t like them and I thought they were to extremist and maybe a little misogynistic, but after watching a few of your videos I’ve grown to like your perspective and input as it seems to come from a place of objectivity and honesty. Respect. Maybe I’ll subscribe..l

Love me some Elliot

Love these reaction videos! Keep them coming

I wish I had you guys 30 years ago!!

Thanks

Few words...man are eternal child and immature

this guy just paraphrasing your teachings father alex

Like you're at a business meeting 😂

Match his energy.

You are too funny 😂

10:55 lmao 😭😭😭

Thank u

Thank you Father Alex as i need this advice when i was in my 20’s. I made a lot of mistakes. I had no proper mother to teach me about love and men. And she is a mess herself. She’s still drunk crying over my dad. What a loser ugh 😑

@blending_in

6 ай бұрын

that's harsh

@Mo.1988

6 ай бұрын

Like mother like daughter. How dare you speak on your own mother like that.

@Nana-vb8tm

5 ай бұрын

Disrespecting your mother for the world to see.

Once he said lions dont hid in bush's yal should immediately know this shit is stupid! Mountain lions stalk by hiding in bushes goofy

So I mustn’t be who I am ? Fun happy smiley etc ?!?? Bullshit

@leahleon_

6 ай бұрын

I agree. Most describe my presence as positive and bubbly. Why should I not shine bright right? But - in a different video Alex was going over the art of simply being still, waiting for the right moment, making eye contact, fallowed by a slight gesture. I use that move at bars, night settings ect.. as a woman who loves to talk and has high energy, I get my point across and the attention + respect I want from men during outings. Hope this made sense 👌🏽

@waterlilynymph

4 ай бұрын

Girl, you keep doing you 😊 Honestly if you are happy and full of warmth and life, it gets you more attention in a room-and with the right men for you 😉

Bahahaha, ice queen over here still waiting for my ring…😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

Alex, please offer your input on these men on KZread saying they only marry women you are submissive and feminine and quiet, who dont speak up for themselves...what would they think of this advice?

Bottom Line, focus on your damn self.

Kinda ironic these single men giving relationship advice. Like what do you even about healthy long term relationship if you didn’t have one.

@MindfulAttraction2.0

6 ай бұрын

What do you know about help me recover from my heart attack if you never had a heart attack? Says the patient to the heart surgeon

@raziahzaman996

6 ай бұрын

⁠@@MindfulAttraction2.0whatever helps you sleep at night sweetheart. I’m not trying to end up single for a lifetime. It’s just ironic how there is a solid relationship you have obtained to give an example from is what I was referring to. But it is what it is. Sending you love.

@leahleon_

6 ай бұрын

I’ve built and increased my credit score with just one simple move. I recommend to my peers that they do the same. My advice was thorough, as it inevitably works; but since doing so, my credit score has fallen. Why? Bc of my instability in other areas of life. Therefore as a result of dating experiences Alex has ground to speak. He didn’t title the video ‘HOW TO GET MARRIED TOMORROW’ 😅😊

@raziahzaman996

6 ай бұрын

@@leahleon_ cry me a river

@leahleon_

6 ай бұрын

@@raziahzaman996 I will if you say please next time😊

Agreed !! 💃🏽🕺🏽

As long as people are slave of their ego this is one of te results. Just cut the bullshit and live i would say. Enjoy life and do not be such a slave of fear or whatever. Be honoust.

Do you still offer your course nice girl?

@MindfulAttraction2.0

6 ай бұрын

Yes

@babyGirl32824

6 ай бұрын

@@MindfulAttraction2.0 I couldn’t find it on the site

take their money and make them invest in you

How does Kristen Stewart have an RBF? Her neutral face looks sad, not angry.

Why he so agrasive and emotional in the way he's talking and explaining. He gives me a headache... Like, chill...

THE RUMBLING LMAOO

5:03 5:03 💯

Melissa the psycho 😂😂

@leahleon_

6 ай бұрын

She gives great advice 👌🏽🤣

Shit, I already did it! 😭 (professed he is MY type! 😭 😭 😭)…then he went cold 🥶!! 😢 a like once a week now.

@sarahholleran6230

4 ай бұрын

Golden dik lmao 🤣

😍 Elliot is so fine. Daddy af.

111❤

Or I’m closing the channel lol

Alex close your tabs

@viviileee

6 ай бұрын

He’s a tabs guy and I’m a tabs girl 🤷🏻‍♀️

😂😂😂

😂😂😂😂

✨💃🏼🌴💜

Alex teaches good things, but im not gonna lie that he gives of dusty vibes