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@PabloGonzalez-hv3td

2 жыл бұрын

If you're pushing monogamy you're still full of shit 😤👀

@DarlicaMaek

2 жыл бұрын

Yo Rich, whats your take on OF is getting out of the pornography business?

@beatsbytesmilesmore2341

2 жыл бұрын

Mà

@soldieroftoughlove7635

2 жыл бұрын

This is going to sound bad.. You know that smell that all puppies have on their breath? ..I accepted the advances of a 22 year old,she initiated all pursuits lol Well..it turns out that all young women have have a certain smell to them! It took me back to my highschool days!! Sorry NOT sorry!

@Tod_oMal

Жыл бұрын

Hi Rich, to proof you are right, I am older, fat and poor but I have interesting hobbies she likes and I share those with her, I also make her laugh and I often cook for her mom. With that simple things, I am fortunate this young amazing lady has been with me for 10 years already. I hope my luck doesn't run out. Cheers.

I've learned quite early that being with a woman who depends on you for her daily dose of entertainment is a recipe for misery.

@calomonte4764

2 жыл бұрын

Oh man this is a powerful point.

@kreaturae

2 жыл бұрын

Women are easily bored, they can’t stand being alone with themselves... Drives me nuts, like... Read a book or something...

@vanderumd11

2 жыл бұрын

This is how you get access to the sex though. pick your battles

@vanderumd11

2 жыл бұрын

@@kreaturae most cannot.. it is not in their nature. women are social

@bryanessing3344

2 жыл бұрын

I make it clear that they need to be happy with themselves FIRST.

- Not having enough money. - Falling in love. Those are the mistakes

@Admin-qy4zi

5 ай бұрын

So true

@HCforLife1

4 ай бұрын

@@Admin-qy4zi naaaah. Most people are boring. When you are younger you have some dreams, and that "spark". The worse thing you can do in your life is to be at some point a ready product. I did this mistake. Loosing that "spark" I became predictable and boring. If you are not fishing for dumb young woman - you should strive for having some higher goals and be interesting. Being that ready product you are destination. Destination isn't sexy - journey is.

@skypravda

Ай бұрын

the latter in the worst one

Marriage is like a Tornado: "In the beginning there's a lot of blowing and sucking, then you lose your house".

@alex-p

2 жыл бұрын

Lol, brilliant

@fliu5282

2 жыл бұрын

Uhhhhaaa you made my day.

@gimmedahhcookies4341

2 жыл бұрын

They scream when they come, and take the whole house when they leave

@kennethdileo6578

2 жыл бұрын

Great philosophy 👍

@DJBenito304

2 жыл бұрын

Whoa 🤯 fax 📠

This was one of Rich's best and useful videos. Even for younger men, having hobbies and being interesting is important. Honestly, who wants to enter HER world of shopping, Facebooking, and baby showers?

@jamesmorrin2729

2 жыл бұрын

Women arent interested in your hobbies! They want you to give them attention and be their muse. Just be youself. If they dont like it move on.

@CodeBleu724

2 жыл бұрын

@@jamesmorrin2729 Exactly. No man should be the least bit interested in her hobbies. Her hobbies, more often than not, are stupid. She wants to come into your world if she's worth af.

@23ofSeptember

2 жыл бұрын

@@RN-gx7wt So cringe??? WTF R U Talkin bout??

@piotrk.4241

2 жыл бұрын

Why would let such a woman into your world? You must have really low standards. There are women who do sports, read books, travel etc.

@herbigp

2 жыл бұрын

Have hobbies and friends and a lifestyle that is attractive to her and all other dudes too.

Stay in shape and take care of yourself. I’ve seen so many men this summer in their 40’s-60’s driving sports cars and they’re overweight. What’s the point of making bank if you’re gonna look like shit.

@07wrxtr1

2 жыл бұрын

I’m lost on how anyone has an excuse for being overweight anymore; we all know what we should and shouldn’t be eating.

@vanderumd11

2 жыл бұрын

they pay for the women 1 hour at a time. it works for them

@markdrake2715

2 жыл бұрын

True...Don't have to look like a body builder, but stay tight and no gut hanging over the beltline...

@petehoward8494

2 жыл бұрын

That goes for the wives as well...

@marcind4644

2 жыл бұрын

Because they can still fuck more young women than some obsessed gym visitor, therefore they don't feel very motivated to change that. Although, I agree with the overall point, we should take care of ourselves.

If she says she's bored, it just means your spending way to much time with her. Plain and simple

@allthehardtimes

2 жыл бұрын

Yup bye sounds like a Shhh test

@TheHumanRanger

2 жыл бұрын

I tell her to "be more entertaining then" ;)

@brianvesta

2 жыл бұрын

After the bedroom action as a older man I'm gonna get bored of her way fast...Try talking to females in their 20s...."Stop the Cap"....🤷🏽‍♂️

@Diazlsx07

2 жыл бұрын

I once told my gf "well has it occurred to you that you are the boring one"

@Ace.0.0.0.

2 жыл бұрын

@@Diazlsx07 And then what happened?

It's been a long time I watched this channel. Nothing really changed here, only me. It took some time to rewire my brain, but my life has gotten much better in return. No more chasing tail, no more dating, no more BS. I concentrate on my health, wealth, friendships, and all the other things I find important. Life has never been this good and I cannot imagine I would ever give it up for a woman.

@kind1st

2 жыл бұрын

BINGO!!

@lynettejacobs8662

Жыл бұрын

As a woman, I’ve done the same & feel the same. Maybe that’s actually the goal of life- learning to love yourself THAT much.

@girohead

Жыл бұрын

MGTOW...I was talking to my parents who couldn't understand my brother's divorce and I told them about how most guys don't pick up the ques, but women (and most people) telegraph how they are, will be (selfish, generous, conniving, whining)....'cut them off, that's why I'm still single.'

@jimbeam7160

Жыл бұрын

@@girohead I avoided a lot of marriages that were not good for me. Thank God I was too cautious as an automatic defensive mode that some how kept me off a very dangerous highway made up of broken heroes on a last chance powerglide....baby we were born to run. Run from western women. Look for quiet, loyal, women who have feminine traits.

@Billy97ify

3 ай бұрын

It all sounds like a lot of work. I am already too busy.

As a seasoned gentleman myself (42) dating multiple young women (18 to 25), I haven't made bank nor do I have any particularly exotic hobbies. I do have a very interesting past (multiple years travelling the world), but this doesn't seem to be a big factor in their attraction. In my experience you can do quite well with young women just by generally having your shit together to a reasonable degree eg you're living on your own, keep your place reasonably clean and tidy, you're self-sufficient, have a respectable (but not necessarily high) income. Basically if you're secure and stable, have some vitality about you, not fat, have one or two hobbies you enjoy, and she's into older men, then she'll be happy.

@haseozenithmaru1186

2 жыл бұрын

Can't wait for work

@user-ed3hc2vh2l

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree

@VictoryAviation

2 жыл бұрын

As a 40 year old myself, why the hell would you even want to date an 18 year old? That’s like babysitting. They have almost nothing in common with our generation.

@user-ed3hc2vh2l

2 жыл бұрын

@@VictoryAviation Jedem Daseine=

@VictoryAviation

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-ed3hc2vh2l I don’t know who that is or what it means 🤷🏼‍♂️

Don't ever try to date seriously a party girl. They are never good.

@65firered

2 жыл бұрын

Don't try do really anything seriously with party girls.

@shashvatsinha1345

2 жыл бұрын

Why so ?

@marks7088

2 жыл бұрын

Honestly I am pretty sure that girl this guy in the thumbnail is with is a former or was a former party girl.

@TILLEYJS

2 жыл бұрын

@Malcolm McCorkle I agree. Try to find the quiet girl too. I've found those to be the best in bed as well. The loud ones are usually just starfishes.

@Floreal78

2 жыл бұрын

Word

A woman will be perfectly content spending all day with a man to whom she is strongly attracted, doing only basic everyday activities, without becoming "bored" whatsoever. Boredom is often a sign of the dwindling of the honeymoon period, or of spending far too much time together. It may also be a symptom of a mismatch in the type and amount of stimulation that both members of a couple need for a sense of overall well-being. Finally, some simply lack the ability to self-reflect and address their boredom, and are instead dependent upon others for entertainment. I completely agree that having hobbies and involving her in them is absolutely essential.

@shawz7291

2 жыл бұрын

@dum that’s legit I’ve been seeing a girl for probably over 2 years now I work flat out and see her once and only just recently twice a week I’ve probably gone out with her 10, maybe 15 times over that 2 year period She just comes over, cooks our dinner, we chill, watch a movie and smash She just enjoys my company Well that and the good D I give her I guess 💁

@livingyourbestlife711

2 жыл бұрын

very well put!

@Wize817

2 жыл бұрын

​@@shawz7291 Yah but how many times a month? If its too infrequent most likely she's also smasing other dudes 💯 Gross 😆

@stephanea5364

2 жыл бұрын

@@shawz7291 You're all happy being in her rotation.

@shawz7291

2 жыл бұрын

Idk lads, some girls want it more than others, others are more relaxed Also I do think a lot of girls only want one guy at a time, if you have her mind, then she won’t fuck around You have to judge the girl and the situation yous are in

I'm 39. In my recent experience dating women in their 20's, 75% of them (Gen Z) into polyamory. They have no issues lying to your face that they are not polyamorous, but don't believe them. This is the reason why I don't waste time with them anymore. If all you want to do is have sex with them, then they are easy, albeit tainted.

@MarvelousSeven

2 жыл бұрын

The truth about female nature...

@mikejones4308

2 жыл бұрын

Female empowerment, like abortion.

@tastybrownie7448

2 жыл бұрын

All I want with them is fun but they are not easy, bro.

@Ash_Queen16

2 жыл бұрын

But that’s Gen Z, what about Millennials?

@itsrelativ3967

2 жыл бұрын

If and when neccessary I just pay them for sex if that's what they're offering. I in no shape or form want a 20 something year old in my domestic space 24/7. They LIE LIE LIE and if you spent all your money trying to impress them you'll go ballistic.

Rich: Don't lead with money Also Rich: You need to show up driving a $300K car

@dariusandrews4490

2 жыл бұрын

@@peter11947 yes the care if its a super car or camaro... Yes they know how much super cars are worth even if they've never seen or heard of the vehicle... Women use Google to see what stuff costs man

@dariusandrews4490

2 жыл бұрын

@@peter11947 I totally agree.. I'm just speaking on the way a lot of gold diggers operate.. They do it to you every day.. Anytime you see a woman out in public, if youre fast enough you'll catch her look at your shoes in like a millisecond and then proceed to speak or whatnot

@mikejones4308

2 жыл бұрын

If they won't go for a ride in my 4-seat airplane and be into it, they not for me. Gotta like skydiving, roller coasters, white-water rafting and bungee jumping.

@lynettejacobs8662

2 жыл бұрын

I actually prefer you show up in your Toyota/Honda so I know you aren’t trying to impress with toys. Most men who utilize toys & money makes me pull back instantly because I think you are trying over compensate & trying to use money to impress me. It shows a lack of confidence too. I want to get to know YOU, the person/soul. No money really necessary. We can sip water out of our water bottles strolling down the sidewalk, sitting on a bench, laughing & talking. Save the fancy meals/experiences for special occasions like anniversaries & vacations.

@LordHolley

2 жыл бұрын

lol

Giving them your money when they don't deserve or earn it.

@MisterMister5893

2 жыл бұрын

That's what's wrong with most people. You can't have a taste of the sushi for free. This guy is completely on his game. Women aren't free, nor cheap. You got to pay, to play. ON TOP Of being an interesting person to be around like he alluded in the video. Good looking, wealthy men are almost a dime a dozen now with the tech jobs and entrepreneurs around.

@misao7746

2 жыл бұрын

Well where has the pure relationships gone to? More importantly, if she is in need of money for luxus desires, perhaps she has some struggles with her self esteem? Maybe just stay away from women that depend on luxury for esteem boost too much!

I agree. Do something interesting. Lots of guys loose hobbies after they are married. Wife’s don’t like husbands to have hobbies. Hobbies take up time away from them. I see it in young couples all the time. When I see older people divorce he doesn’t know what to do. He lost friends because of the wife. This older gentleman lost his wife and a few weeks later he found someone new so he could attend to her needs. His kids asked why would he do that. It’s because he has no friends and doesn’t have hobbies, he doesn’t know what to do with his time. It’s sad. Men are taught to give everything up for family. When you see a woman who lost her husband continues to see her friends and do things. Why because a guys “friends” used/are her friends husbands. Not a lot of connection most of the time.

@LordVodka313

2 жыл бұрын

It's disgusting to be honest on all fronts. And EVERYONE knows this subconsciously, yet still tends to their selfish desires even in a marriage. I've heard of women who are uncomfortable with their significant other being fit because of their insecurities. That whole "give up everything for family" thing needs to stop. We not in the past anymore.

@MrTimjm009

2 жыл бұрын

I can totally relate. WHen I was married in the past , I ended up losing touch with friends , not doing the things I liked . All because she had issues with it all . Even gym was an issue because she wasnt into the gym and was very insecure etc . I started doing these things again after the divorce. Many of my old friends are now married and so I dont see them because they are now doing what I used to do !

@LordVodka313

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrTimjm009 Richard Cooper calls this the "beta"-nizing by a thousand concessions. When I Heard that for the first time, I understood what he meant based on past relationships

@ironsteed5766

2 жыл бұрын

Very true. Especially if the wife has no hobbies she will grow tired of sitting around the home doing nothing while the husband is out enjoying his hobby. Men should never give up their hobbies/ interest.

@emanuelmota7217

2 жыл бұрын

I've never been married, but from what I see most wives do NOT want their husbands to have hobbies. As you say, the wives see his hobbies as taking time away from HER. And \ or it's money that could be spent ON HER. There's no way I would want to be in a situation like that.

For the rest of us relatively poor men out there: The most success I ever had in my dating life was when I had my own nice 2br apartment and most of my dates consisted of going to dinners (or a live standup comedy show if they were lucky) followed by a few weeks of netflix and chill. One time we were driving and I had her lean over in my seat... After a little bit of that I pulled over and we both went in the back seat. When she left that night she cried and said she never felt so alive. Excitement doesn't always have to be expensive.

@micah6817

Жыл бұрын

Exactly..this guy is describing nothing but rich men,and gold diggers,it doesn't apply to the majority of men..

@jimmyjay6497

Жыл бұрын

Lol.

@jimmyjay6497

Жыл бұрын

@@micah6817yes, but it describes ALMOST ALL women. Sucks but true!

Be interesting and exciting because it's what you like being. Never try to be something hoping it will get you women. Firstly because it's too much work inventing a persona that you think is what women want, secondly it's fake. You know it and they will recognize it sooner or later. Do things you love and be engaged in your passions, be authentic and genuine in your interests and you will be satisfied and fulfilled with or without a woman. Be that kind of man and you won't have to "try hard" your way into women being interested in you. I see so many guys asking for tips and tricks and what is the secret to getting girls, well there is no secret. Either you are the kind of guy that people want to be around because it's just who you are or you aren't. Be the man you dreamed of being when you were a kid and be awesome!

@sunyata1016

2 жыл бұрын

Well said 👏

@blueocean1424

2 жыл бұрын

👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 I too caught myself feeling and seeing this way

@BooBooJohnson195

2 жыл бұрын

That's real talk right there. Be happy with yourself and let everything else come along. Who wants to be around someone who's not happy with being around themselves

@TBAL83-Social

2 жыл бұрын

Now this is solid perspective.👍 Post more or upload some contents of your own. It will be helpful.

@jasoncatron1039

2 жыл бұрын

Well said Zach, you have to be who you are.

Make money. Make muscles. Learn game. Hold frame.

@starwalk3r

2 жыл бұрын

This strategy will last you about 2 years. Then she mentally checks out no matter what. Just pump and dump.

@thehammer9599

2 жыл бұрын

'Frame' hahaha wow I'd forgotten all about the 2000s.

@silverfox6883

2 жыл бұрын

I had heaps of much younger girls back in the day without being a big money earner, though I had the looks and was a bit of a rock star ...

@starwalk3r

2 жыл бұрын

@@silverfox6883 Congrats to you for being good looking and being a rock star. Besides you gloating about it, how does this information help the rest of us?

@grahambrown1980

5 ай бұрын

@@silverfox6883Yeah, you’re such a flake! You must have over 1k dislikes! Too bad they don’t show! Mine’s one.

I’m a boring guy. Boring is really important to me. Any woman 👩 I date has to not only accept it but like it.

@somguy728

2 жыл бұрын

That is a great example of maintaining frame!

@pugsymalone6539

2 жыл бұрын

I'm with you, man. I'm boring. Not their court jester.

@BigBadBossu

2 жыл бұрын

@@pugsymalone6539 Thats just it, you don't have to be a jester and being boring works only to your detriment when it comes to options. The point of the video is to show that women are notoriously hypergamous and will absolutely trade you up even if you think she is loyal it will always be in the back of her mind. If your life is empty and devoid of things to look forward too... guess what she won't be looking forward to you and will throw you away for some dude who would literally destroy her life and still support him because he is moving back and forth and is interesting even if it is destructive. You can choose to elevate or destroy a woman but if you have nothing to look forward too then its like being with a cat. You don't have to entertain her, you just have to have a life thats active and whatever direction that activity goes so long as you have it and include her she will follow

@pugsymalone6539

2 жыл бұрын

@@BigBadBossu I don't disagree with the message in the video, I get it. What I'm saying that I've played that game and it always ends the same. I'm now boring as in; I will live a low-key life in a nice home, eat and drink well, have a nice garden and well trained, well cared for pets. If a gal wants to join me in that, fine. I will not leave my comfort zone to get laid by a squirrel who will never be satisfied with the status quo.

@FFE-js2zp

2 жыл бұрын

@@BigBadBossu Listen to yourself, you are exactly right she'll "always" want to trade up. Nature has a plan for survival of the human race. That includes frequent, promiscuous sex with all sorts of genetic variety. Does that sound like it heavily involves you, as one man? No. It doesn't. Accept your lot in life, she will move on no matter who you are or what you do. Unless... you successfully keep her miserable, and why in the world would you hope to do that. Its just your turn. Be a man and move on too.

You're so right Richard and I love the way you put that... "Your not going into her world, You're inviting her into yours."

I was 31 and she was 22. I had a job delivering medical supplies. One morning, I was lamenting the morning snowfall and how it was going to make driving more difficult. Her response: "When it's snowing, you have to take the day off and walk around with your mouth open, trying to catch snowflakes". This from a recent college graduate. She'd never had a job before. The relationship didn't last.

@billhassa

2 жыл бұрын

Hahahahahahah…..

@katarinaj.6830

2 жыл бұрын

😅😅

@chrispbacon3042

2 жыл бұрын

I can’t imagine being twenty two never having had a job.

@djocharablaikan8601

2 жыл бұрын

its actually kinda cute 😂

@user-ku7pm9zv4m

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao, is she one of those Disney characters you see in the movies with those big shiny eyes? That is hilarious..

When I was growing up and I said to mom that I was bored, she would say "boredom comes from within". More and more I realize her wisdom. If I have to entertain a woman all the time when I am with her, she will ALWAYS have to be entertained by me making me obligated to entertain her. Rich makes a great point that we should be involved in our hobbies and have fun interests but a woman has to put in some effort to the relationship too. Otherwise its just another train wreck situation.

@raularmas317

2 жыл бұрын

I agree 💯 with you. I am not here to be someone's feather and tickle them everytime they get an itch.

@jaymalls9628

Жыл бұрын

This is the truth

@mikey92362

3 ай бұрын

I say something similar all the time. "Circumstances aren't boring. Only people are boring. Being bored is a choice."

Spot on I'm 38 dating a 26 yr old and as soon as I stop doing "Fun" shit ie:socializing shit goes stale. Tried just giving her cash to go to the mall & do her own thing, but she complains unless I go with her and make it "Fun".

@tonyh1345

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you know how bad that sounds

@mikejones4308

2 жыл бұрын

Lol ... tell her you always found spanking to be fun, now lay across my legs.

@Ash_Queen16

2 жыл бұрын

@@tonyh1345 Lmao how?

My Cabin was a great thing I built up starting 20 years ago. Sure building the cabin, but also the land. Just this year I took one girl out to pick raspberries, blue berries and black berries. Then made jam with her those evenings. She had never made jam before, never canned anything and here she was on a date doing and learning. Thinking of little things like that and not just going out for other entertainment, but being able to make your own where you lead and she is following and learning how you live your life is better.

I hear what you're saying but I'm in my 40's and think that entertaining/dating younger women is for the most part a waste of time, money and effort. You will be much better off and happier devoting your time to your own career and development.

@joziewales1965

2 жыл бұрын

I got divorced at 47 and spent the next 8 years trying to partner up wasting tons of money and time. I’m 56 now absolutely loving my single life but like the occasional play date/sleepover as long as they leave in the morning 🤣🤣💪🏼

@quelquun2018

2 жыл бұрын

@@joziewales1965 I hope your getting tested for STI🤮🤢

@mikejones4308

2 жыл бұрын

We can always control our time, money and effort. That gives you higher value, which women are attracted to. When you don't try to impress to get the putang, is when the legs spread.

@suebotchie4167

Жыл бұрын

@@joziewales1965 tell it to the Judge ... at the Great White Throne.

Sorry, Rich. Not interested in becoming an entertainment coordinator. I'd rather just pay a "time sharing" fee when I'm looking for "companionship".

@mikes4286

2 жыл бұрын

My way of thinking as well. What he is saying is too much work for little value. I could be spending that time making more money or working on my hobbies. Living in a big city has the advantage of wide selection of young pretty girls with paid arrangement. If the first few times go well she can be regular. Also add more young girls to fill when she is not available. Also, you don't get attached.

@hankson5002

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!

@satoshinakamoto7253

2 жыл бұрын

Give the burden of performance on them. Why should you protect the house if she doesn't make you a coffee every morning? stuff like that

@hlgoodkat9677

2 жыл бұрын

Y'all are kinda missing the subtext here. He said invite her into your world. Meaning, you don't have to "entertain". Therefore, you can keep more of your money AND you can do whatever the fuck YOU want to do. She's just along for the ride, having fun, and staying engaged.

@hankson5002

2 жыл бұрын

@@hlgoodkat9677 No buddy, we get it. If you find a girl who´s worth it from time to time, go for it. But most of the time, these 304´s arent worthy of that time with you, they are not worth the squeeze, give you only headaches. That´s why im most of the time with Joker. And as Bud said, most of the time it´s more peaceful and relaxing to just pay for the fun.

Always better to rent

@okolepuka3376

2 жыл бұрын

3 F's rule. If it floats, flies or fuqs it is better to rent than buy.😎

@seymourelykeley

2 жыл бұрын

@@MX-CO if you have to ask 😬

@seymourelykeley

2 жыл бұрын

@@MX-CO problem is women always want more.. every time she sees you she’s hoping you’d want escalate - men are just fine with occasional fun, women on the other hand want to know ” where is this going “ therein lies the problem. 😬

@seymourelykeley

2 жыл бұрын

@@MX-CO short answer: overseas - women in the west are destroyed by a combination of factors including but not limited to feminism and divorce laws which are 100% on their side. Good news is such unfair divorce laws are not in effect in 85% of the world hence interacting with women in the west feels like dealing with a man in a woman's body, whereas women in other places are actually feminine, desirable and pleasant. This all has to do with economics. When a woman does not need you economically, her entire demeanor and outlook is changed. You will quickly notice the difference in a woman's femininity and appeal in places such as Argentina, Colombia, Brazil, panama, East Europe etc. Or if you're into Asian women, Asia. You will never get a woman in the west to be what you want her to be. They make it look like they are enjoying casually dating you when in fact, they are like a baker who is giving you a sample of his cake in the hope that you will be buying the whole cake. This btw is coming from a person with experience of 350+ women from all regions of the world ;-)

@seymourelykeley

2 жыл бұрын

@@MX-CO nor was I suggesting anything of the sort. Just have your fun and move on..

Just started dating a girl nearly 30 and i m 47. Your video was VERY useful, solid advice.. Its in our hand as well to simply show them that we are not an ATM for them.

Great advice. Great delivery.

Leading with money is no different than buying an expensive garden tool.

@BuckROCKGROIN

2 жыл бұрын

Expensive pros are cheaper.

@brianvesta

2 жыл бұрын

This all comes down to age...Us older guys know the score...If we have to pay we pay...Us older guys don't fall in love so easy....

@BuckROCKGROIN

2 жыл бұрын

@@brianvesta We're too tired for love.

@jamesmorrin2729

2 жыл бұрын

Garden tools can be put to good use and you dont have to waste time entertaining them! Get down to business.

@LA-dh1bq

2 жыл бұрын

@@jamesmorrin2729 😂🤣😂

I'm in my early 30s and I dated a woman in her mid 20s and even then I could feel the generational difference between us. Not sure if the age gap mentioned here will work long-term but there's always exceptions to the rule. Right now I have no interest in dating since I've been busy just working on myself. Got a new career path lined up and saved so much money and keeping fit.

@DanLetts97

8 ай бұрын

That’s not an age gap

@siewewill4332

7 ай бұрын

Its not an age gap.... must be some personality difference.

@mikey92362

3 ай бұрын

At 55 I mostly date girls from 20-30. The closer they are to 20, the more I have to consult urban dictionary. I have to look up A LOT of new slang every time we text! But in the end, it's worth it. They're still so much nicer and sweeter and more appreciative than older women.

Great info!

Well said Rich, so true and great advice!

I brought a girl home to try to spin Drum & Bass records on my turntables. She was floored by how complicated it was to line up the 8/16 bars...and to understand the key and melody between tracks She was puddy in my hands afterwards.

@Liam_Maddog

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, that'll last.

Great Video Richard. The reason why a lot men are boring is because they get into long term relationships at an early age. They spend most of their 20s and 30s perusing and pleasing woman. Then once in a long term relationship, all of their ambitions, goals and sadly , testosterone, dies. I cant tell you how many of my friends who are either married with children or live with their girlfriends who are just plain boring. Work,home then repeat. Aside from men focusing on their path to success, the opposite of why men are boring can be applied, and that is they are more focused on being “a good guy” to a woman who will leave them for another man who has many hobbies. This almost happened to me. I lived with my then girlfriend for almost 3 years and i saw all my interest in hobbies and lifestyle fade away and now they are back. My advice is become an enthusiast of something. Whatever it is (cars,gym,boats,planes,traveling ect). Point is, your interesting hobbies should be about 30% of your lifestyle aside from chasing excellence. You may even find excellence in that hobby. Cheers

@ambilaevus7607

2 жыл бұрын

You have a good point. As a chick, I enjoy men who are passionate about something other then p***y. I enjoy learning new things and being exposed to or helping fix car types I don't know or gadgets is really interesting.... Also, having the space to breathe sometimes while they do that stuff is a stress reliever. Absence makes heart grow fonder sometimes.

Thanks brother great advice

I listen to you from time to time boss. Since I only see some of your videos, it must be really good ones and I’m always enjoying what I see. I don’t know how I missed that you have a book so I’m gonna give that a check out, as someone who is gifted genetically, I’m seeing how being in shape with some money can really go along way. And I’m only 5’6 5’7 a good day.

Everything you said makes sense. I'm a 37-year-old guy it took me awhile to get to where I'm at financially. I have the means to take myself and a woman traveling to different countries. My main hobby is travel going to different beaches and jet skiing, museums, food and going to the gun range. Sometimes when I travel cross country being in the desert or wilderness and setting up target and shooting outdoors with no hearing protection. That part might frighten her a bit because I'm sure it would take some trust to lead up to it. But my main thing is international travel and going to interesting places.

@beltfedTODDRULZ

2 жыл бұрын

Im half deaf, carry ear plugs or campact muffs or be exciting and buy NFA silencers! Legally purchased suppressors dont require additional paperwork to cross state lines like other NFA items

@Iamjoeycross

2 жыл бұрын

That’s the life.

@mikejones4308

2 жыл бұрын

I second that, either get license for suppressor, or use ear plugs with noise activated ear muffs over them. I've got ten different ringing sounds in my ears 24/7. Its very mentally exhausting, and makes it hard to understand what people say, but not due to volume but the ringing will cancel out a syllable of a word or a whole word. You end stopping talking in groups because people get tired of repeating themselves. Heed my words. Also goes for lawn equipment too.

@drjjpak

8 ай бұрын

Protect your hearing as much as possible. You'll wonder WTF I was thinking when you are dependent on hearing aids for normal conversation.

@SasSaga

8 ай бұрын

Dude, she ain’t gonna like you when your deaf.

Being interesting/entertaining to women is the single most useful piece of advice I've ever heard

Great video. Everything put into perspective.

Great message man! Thank you

You're right on the hobbies part. I have many hobbies. Finding ladies that also like those same hobbies and live close to me in nearly impossible. So to ladies that don't share the same hobbies or interest I come off as boring very fast.

I’m 37 and is not considered the age group that you’re talking about, it I see exactly what you’re talking about! You attract who you’re, and that’s the equation. I’ve been working on myself since divorce and I would say my confident level have spiked to the roof!

TQ... I am learning. Appreciate your videos. Keep up the great work.

Great tip for some future reference- makes perfect sense. Good talk 💪🏼

Be confident, be funny, be interesting, be fit, be stylish, be sincere, be honest, be high-value, be wary.

Never ignore the heavily tattooed chicks they are always broken...

@AndrewEvenstar

2 жыл бұрын

Yep. I met a woman recently and she was interested. Invited her out one day and she was getting yet another tattoo. Rich described her perfectly. She always calls herself a badA$sB. Unfollowed her yesterday. She's trouble and even admitted how insecure she is.

@bassacoustic1549

2 жыл бұрын

Regardless of the mindset of tattooed girls, I find the tattoos themselves extremely unattractive. I can massively want a girl, but then if she has one large tattoo all the attraction is instantly gone. I’d honestly rather they had a massive birth mark or scar. It’s masculine and just pretty gross. Like putting a giant bumper sticker on a Ferrari.

@FineBlueAgave

2 жыл бұрын

@@AndrewEvenstar I don't agree. A little ink never hurt anyone. However, the new generation of Woke women are confrontational femi-nazis out looking for a fight. They lead with their politics. These women are truly broken.

@AndrewEvenstar

2 жыл бұрын

@@FineBlueAgave I don't mind a couple small tattoos but this girl has ink everywhere. Also it was her presence on social media that turned me off big time after we hung out.

@dougmerrick9064

2 жыл бұрын

I got with a chick that had pennywises face tattooed on her thigh. Most repulsive thing to look at as your about to go down or have her legs in the air lol.

Very insightful brother. Thank you so much

Thanks, EIC🎉! Great Content!

I never attracted women by my looks. Women stated they were attracted to my personality and my humor. Thank God that doesn’t fade with age!

Can’t stress this enough I’m 40 now and I try to explain this to my peers. Yes you’re successful but one you’re not going to find the women you want doing the same thing you’ve been doing the last 30 years which is spending all your free time playing video games get out into the world yeah you make bank but does it matter if you go home and sit in the house after work or business? You’ll never get and keep the women you want if you turn into a hermit soon as work hours are over.

@TILLEYJS

2 жыл бұрын

That's my problem. I can go out and get women. I just never do. Prefer my solitude. Peace is a helluva drug.

@brianvesta

2 жыл бұрын

It's alot easier to go out to night spots in your 20s & 30s and pick up chicks...Try doing that in your 50s...It looks pitifull.... Only place I know where 50+ guys can pick up young fit chicks and not look ridiculous is Thailand.....

@JMV005

2 жыл бұрын

@@brianvesta no dude. Go out during the day and live your life. THEY will find you. Forget about nightlife, believe it or not they are bored of that too. They only find young jackasses like we were. The whole reason they like older dudes is because we're not doing that young mans game anymore and they know that

@brianvesta

2 жыл бұрын

@@JMV005 Young hot women are not going find you if you're 50+....You can't real use day game like that at that age better off pay for play...

@trevorlawrence310

2 жыл бұрын

and then spend all the money on them.....🥱

Excellent insight! Thank you!

Good content 💯👍🏾

Call me crazy but I am sticking with my 54 year old wife . The only person I can trust.

@damienhunt4264

2 жыл бұрын

This is good advice, broadly speaking. However, what happens if she lets herself go? I find this happens to many married women over 40.

@Jetsetfastfood

2 жыл бұрын

@@damienhunt4264 She's asian. They don't let themselves go.

@damienhunt4264

2 жыл бұрын

@@Jetsetfastfood nice

@walterpetronella1595

2 жыл бұрын

I thought I could trust mine after 43 yrs.....she left 2 days ago

@Jetsetfastfood

2 жыл бұрын

@@walterpetronella1595 She probably had a good reason.

Great advice Rich, thanks for sharing. You can also keep yourself more interesting by observing the world around you, noticing trends and characteristics of people, neighborhoods and trends. And watching good video channels, listening to interesting podcasts and reading a variety of good books. This way you can talk about a number of different topics, and be able to continue or steer conversations in the direction you want. Which makes you a better leader compared to most guys, who just listen to mainstream news or don't stay current with new or different content.

@eddiethomasville3124

2 жыл бұрын

Are you serious? Man are dudes on here dumb.

Love the new content

Great stuff my brother....

I’m a girl and I approve this message 👏🏼

@WilliamJohnson-lq7bd

Жыл бұрын

Well, I think we can all breathe a sigh of relief knowing that.

@georgeelder8415

Жыл бұрын

Hola, mami!

@mattelgin213

8 ай бұрын

I use the master-slave approach. Do you approve? Thanks.

Life is a balancing act. I learned very early on that being world class at anything requires sacrificing other aspects of your life. Its much more effective being a jack of all trades in life as it will give you more balance, more knowledge and allow you to have a more worldly and interesting personality. And with regards to women, I’m personally looking for a team player rather than a party hopper. The minute the party stops, she’ll simply find another party.

Great video thanks man

Spot on ! Nice video

I’ve got to respectfully disagree to a point. I’m 50/50 on this. Any girl that can’t just be content with your company is not a girl you’d want around long-term. Those are just jezebels, and they’re the kind of girls that will ruin your life. If a girl is truly into you, she’ll be content just sitting and talking with you on the porch, with a few glasses of wine. If your looking for those types of girls to just have fun with, for a shorter amount of time, then I suppose you’ve got a point, but not if you’re looking for a better quality girl. If a girl REALLY likes you, she’ll follow your lead on just about anything. She’ll literally alter her entire life and become just like you.

@moenibus

2 жыл бұрын

agree 100%

@celticc9580

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree with you, but would add that interesting active hobbies are still important. It could be aa simple as hiking or urban photography. Neither take much dollar investment.

@hadi_drums

2 жыл бұрын

100% agreed. But unfortunately in this age of social media and disney fantasies , most girls just want to get excited everyday. As long as girls are having these narsissitic, unrealistic attitude being normal is not enough. And Long-term relationships are almost impossible now days. So overall if you want sex follow what rich says.

@seymourelykeley

2 жыл бұрын

and… who needs long term 😬

Great advice Richard.

Nice video, I agree with this. Also very nice cold start :)

So let me ask you a question. With all this knowledge about women, do you thing that your happy ? I mean rather than pushing guys into new relations with "hot girls it would be better to build a happy life with the right person and with good friends, good job. But "good" every where doesn't belong to this world, it's how to deal with struggles what makes the difference between real man and a simple male. I agree with a lot of your ideas but you have to put the woman in the equation so the benefit goes to the family, and that makes the man the woman and the children happy. The family is the unity wich built a healthy society

I feel this is harder as an introvert. I do like going out every so often, since I do get tired of staying at home. But I am not into things that are so "thrilling", such as riding a speedboat, rock climbing, riding tall/fast roller coasters, off roading, etc. Some of the places I like to go to are to learn something such as a museum, visiting historic landmarks, trying unique food, watching a live show, or checking out some kind of festival or local event. I do like going exploring around local cities and photograph unique things. As an introvert I like doing things that are more relaxing and may learn something new. There's women who like these too, but it seems it's mainly middle aged and older mature women who are into these kinds of activities. Not most women in their 20s. Also, it seems trying to have a knowledge of pop culture, history, trivia and current events from reading and watching many videos doesn't really seem to impress young women either.

Great Info. After this great advice I just became a subscriber. Thanks!

Thank you. I had exactly that problem. You nailed it!

….or just have a fun FWB deal (which is the most realistic for an age gap over 12yrs) until she "gets bored" and move on; you're likely to get bored of her too. Especially if we're talking around the 20yr age gap where you're 40's vs her 20's, you'd be a fucking fool to think there's anything more there than temporary lust. That's where I'm at now and it's fun....but you GOTTA be ready for that gap in maturity. Also, you're ALWAYS gonna have a YUGE advantage if you're as fit as can be for your age. I barely make six figures a year but I've been training RELIGIOUSLY with kettlebells and calisthenics for decades so @ almost 50 I'm built like lean & agile college wrestler with a flat stomach; not a six pack (that's hard as you get older) but solid flat stomach. My friend is 50 and has stayed solid fit his whole life...his daughter's girlfriends in college tell her straight up "Your dad is a DILF, I'd totally do him". This cannot be emphasized enough. Get as fit as you can for YOURSELF, and it'll give you a tremendous edge with women while reaping all the benefits of optimal health.

@sonyarowe1327

2 жыл бұрын

They don't want you, old man.

@MH-et5sn

2 жыл бұрын

@@sonyarowe1327 You seem salty lol.

@JMV005

2 жыл бұрын

@@sonyarowe1327 you're clueless. I'd bet you're an aging woman extremely jealous of younger women so much so that you've already "gone under the knife" or injected yourself with synthetic garbage to keep up with your much younger counterparts.

@chunkwobbler2544

2 жыл бұрын

@@sonyarowe1327 In many ways, you're right. They certainly don't want me for marriage or any serious relationship of any kind, and I feel the same way about them. Most of them are in "serious relationships" with guys their age. They just want to come over a couple of times a week, get fucked real good for an hour and go on with their lives. To me that's heaven on earth and I'm happy to oblige.

@MH-et5sn

2 жыл бұрын

@@chunkwobbler2544 Smart man.

In the me too era, dating a young lady in Canada or the US is a great way to get into trouble. Nothing gets a girl thinking like a supercar, a yacht or a private jet.

@AnthonyManzio

8 ай бұрын

Goldiggerss

Makes perfect sense. Thank you.

On point 👍🏼👍🏼🔥🔥🔥

You nailed it again I noticed most girls will tell you they are doing nothing or bored it's their default state in this state she's inviting you to ask her to do something interesting I noticed a girl will become more interested if i talk about my hobbies with her If she's not interested in your hobbies then sucks she is taken or busy i her life and not ready for you And it's better to not waste your time getting her interested A man thing is passion and hobbies or adventure and sport and most women Don't have those or suck at them and taking the lead in introducing her to your passion is how you connect with her or rather how she connect with you A good example of an older guy who dated a hot young girl was that professor who dated a sport girl and they went to live on various forests around the world, the woman was strong and hunt but the man had knowledge about plants and animals and could guide her Thro their adventure, that's how he kept her interested and not bored with him

Women also have to be interesting and fun not just men. I got rid of my ex because she was dumb and couldn't hold an intelligent conversation.

Good Info!!!!

Mind opening man 👌

I would invite them to my house for a date and make them watch when I paint warhammer miniatures for 4 hours. 😁

@tomasnokechtesledger1786

2 жыл бұрын

Hahah. I'd teach her Aircraft R/C flight.

@jamiestwrt

2 жыл бұрын

😆

A good lesson from this channel on what cars to avoid - Every in-car video I've seen lately is "taking the McLaren to the dealership for repairs". 😂

Good wisdom brother

Thanks brother. Great insights.

You speak the truth here, brother! I am 59 now and the younger women (20-35+ years, not bragging), I have "entertained" nowadays expect to be taken care of and entertained. Whether it be frequent shopping sprees, international travel, luxury vehicles, etc., these gals are more attracted to my perceived wealth rather than me, my physique, or my older looks. I am tired of it really. I have realized that if I do not acquiesce to this mode of thinking, I will remain by myself or just have to look for older women who have their own money. I won't be a "sugar daddy" for any young "pooty-tat". They are typically a depreciating asset in most cases!

@felicitymasiu96

Жыл бұрын

Well said. U are a an atm. If you looking for love date in your age group period.old should always bear in mind that it's only the purse that attracts young women. And moreover these young girls get passed around by a lot of men.

I'm the one getting bored with them usually. I couldn't care less about what they want and how they feel. I just let them enjoy their self-made little Disney drama as long as it doesn't affect me and most importantly it doesn't waste my time. As Rollo says, their twisted imagination is the best tool you can use to your advantage... and it requires zero effort. It can't get any easier than that.

@Tindel10

2 жыл бұрын

@Nemesistyx lmfao at faking looking good. I still don’t get how we are fooled in this day

@ColtMotor

2 жыл бұрын

Okay, so if you don't like women, then date guys.

@cristinap273

2 жыл бұрын

Twisted imagination to your advantage? How sad that is. Using each other up.

@alex-p

2 жыл бұрын

"Sweet dreams are made of this Who am I to disagree? I travel the world and the seven seas Everybody’s looking for something Some of them want to use you Some of them want to get used by you Some of them want to abuse you Some of them want to be abused..."

@austntexan

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I cannot even imagine caring about the useless things that entertain most modern women. I just do my thing and have never had an issue getting women. This video feels dire or something. So many women require next to nothing to "entertain". Being with one that require this much care/feeding is exhausting. I've had a few of these before and they never last. They are easily spotted. It's funny, if a guy is using his car as a way to attract, the woman is using her V in the same way. When you have a woman cook for you, like it's no big, that's when you pay attention.

Loved your video, on spot

Well said man!!!!!!

My man is 12 older than me he born in 1980 and I born 1992 ! So true you say ! Thanks for the video

Love and relationship are never mentioned in anyone's videos about dating. The veil has been destroyed.

@coreykolenosky5974

2 жыл бұрын

Its ALL about "body-count"...

@suebotchie4167

Жыл бұрын

Everybody is so superficial - their "hobbies" so overrated. Really, who is going to give a hoot 50 years from now.

It's about time you mentioned what kind of car you were drivin'! I asked a few times; 'never got a response. You should make that part of your podcast everytime you do a video while you're drivin', I think it'll make the podcast even more interesting.

awesome video brother!

I get called by a 21 year old. I'm 34. She only wants me to come over and "chill" then she usually curls up and naps on the couch and I head home. I think it's the perfect relationship 😂

@stu3775

2 жыл бұрын

That's not a big age difference.

@wowzersfyi

3 ай бұрын

good keep it up, you'll have to work extra hard in the coming years to keep her attention since younger men are better

"You have to give them something to look forward to..." No man, not my job. If a girl finds you attractive you can do no wrong. If she doesn't think you are attractive, but wants your resources, thats a total waste of your time from day 1.

@neutralmilkbaby

2 жыл бұрын

100 percent this. If you are trying hard too much it means she is not attracted to you. Attractive men don't need to entertain her, they are his entertainment.

@yuris6125

2 жыл бұрын

Amen to that!

Just recently got my PYT and am currently doing everything you mentioned but at one point questioned myself. Nope keep going in the right direction. Sometimes though I'm too interesting and too much going on in our relationship lol. I'm trying to find balance. Thanks!

Thanks for the helpful information 👍✌️

I’d like to see a video on things about men that women consider interesting. I basically have 3 hobbies; writing, hiking, and improv comedy outside of my business. I used to ballroom dance but moving out to the country / the pandemic killed all that. Only a couple women seemed really interested in my writing. SOME women like hiking while others find it awful and boring. Improv Comedy impresses some women, scares others (they dont want to do it themselves or find it cringe-inducing watching other people do it). I used to be into group meditation as well but found that was rare to be able to share with a woman (it bores a lot of them). So I have kind-of a list of possible hobbies that I assume are interesting to women. If anyone has feedback or other ideas I am all ears. 1) Cooking classes? Personally I find cooking to be barely a step above watching paint dry but do it all the time to save money. Is this actually something women find interesting? 2) Swing Dance? It requires learning and mastering a whole new set of skills and the pandemic kind of ruined this in many urban areas, but perhaps it’s still a thing or set to make a big comeback? 3) Horseback riding? I dont know quite why but a lot of women seem really drawn toward dogs and horses - I think because they are “masculine” animals that they can still trust and control to some degree. I really don’t want to ever own a dog, but find horse riding kind of fun whenever I have done it. Maybe it’s worth doing solo once every few weeks just to casually mention here and there with women as a date opportunity or as a “what do you like to do”? 4) Sailing? I had one ex who was obsessed with sailing to the point of madness. Sailing I found was academically fun as an idea but in practice can be a real chore (and expensive). 5) Sports of some kind? Maybe like Dodgeball / Kickball? There are leagues around which require a lot of commitment (attending a game / practice or two a week) but maybe that’s a thing women would be interested in. There are a surprisingly large number of women who love attending baseball / football games too so even attending some live sports events may be a way of appearing interesting, even if you aren’t a sports fan?

Jordan B. Peterson is the dad I never had. Richard Cooper is the uncle I never had.

@daveycarter8190

2 жыл бұрын

Ironically the chicks are the most boring SMDH

@ChristinaGina

2 жыл бұрын

YES and im a chick in my 20s haha

@chrisnamaste3572

2 жыл бұрын

Ahh Peterson has some screws loose....

@jetsetradio7715

Жыл бұрын

Peterson has gone a bit south, I don't hate the guy but he's been having it rough the past few years.

Great video.

OMG he totally nailed this video, thank you !

I could also hunt for my food but I prefer to just straight up pay for a good meal and leave.

Well, if you're inviting them to wear that nice thing you like and come ride with you in your $300k car, then that kind of sounds like you're leading with your money, doesn't it?!

@Liam_Maddog

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, Rich talks a good game.

This is spot on.

Thanks for doing a new video from the car! I was starting to miss that¡