My wife’s dad left when she was 9 and as a result she has always craved attention from males. Been married for 13 years and she is filing fir divorce. When it comes down to it, she would rather go dancing or whatever and get that superficial male attention that she desperately “needs”. We’ve got two little ones. But society has been surprisingly supportive of her behavior and very critical of me. I feel dead inside. My heart feels like it’s going to collapse on itself. I’m just so sad.

@sthembisomakelefane8727

3 жыл бұрын

Hey dude. Its been a year since you commented hope you’re doing well.

@PunkProfess0r

3 жыл бұрын

@@sthembisomakelefane8727 thanks man...I’m doing okay 👌 still coping but I’ve learned that time heals all and that things still work out

@inderjeetsingh9609

3 жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear this. I am 27 and very grateful to find these knowledge being still single and on my purpose. But honestly west is doomed. I live in very conservative society where most of marriages are arranged by parents. I used to feel that this culture is toxic to our freedom but reality is men here have much higher control over women then those in western cultures. Truth is if women doesn't fear the men, she will eventually destroy him.

@javierdavis696

3 жыл бұрын

Stay strong bro and i hope the best for ur kids

@PunkProfess0r

3 жыл бұрын

@@javierdavis696 thanks brother - been spreading kindness lately. It works wonders :)

Rich - Learn from my experiences Me - she has all 3 red flags but let me see what happens. Me 10 months later - Rich is right

@DeAngelo77

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@your.dark.lord.

2 жыл бұрын

She was hot, huh?

@bitcapone3173

2 жыл бұрын

@@your.dark.lord. yeah, she was. Hot and a hot mess.

@hillsman9199

2 жыл бұрын

Same here but replace 10 months with three years and subtract the third sign

@kamatchoooo

Жыл бұрын

5 years later for me

I’ve been too attracted to women who need saving, it’s been the most expensive and tiring ten years of my life. Single for 18 months and way happier.

@ScarfaceFranckRibery

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, same here. If you tell her that you cannot be with her because she’s a mess, she will cry and make you feel bad.

@ericpowell4350

2 жыл бұрын

Read about codependency. Good book is "Codependency No More"

@ScarfaceFranckRibery

2 жыл бұрын

@@ericpowell4350 thank you

@Liam_Maddog

2 жыл бұрын

Rescuers on some level expect her to be grateful and subservient. BUT NO. They will be the opposite. Do not fool yourself.

@mevolveme

2 жыл бұрын

You still happier bro?

Lets stop beating ourselves up over what mistakes we made picking significant others, and just realize we LEARNED from the mistakes. Stay strong guys!

@icemanzeke

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I needed to hear this.

@nightowl6811

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly lol😆! So what! I’m glad we all failed and now I learned and I’m super happy at 50 with zero debt to enter 2022! Men and women continue to talk about the past! Like if everyone is perfect. F no! Nobody is an Angel or excellent

@gregharn1

2 жыл бұрын

Learning isn't enough. We NEED to be educating younger men (preferably before marriage or fatherhood)

1. Daddy Issues. 0:50 2. Damsel In Distress 6:56 3. Custody Catastrophe's 9:34

@intranube

6 жыл бұрын

yo! thanks for doing this

@thedeathreaperofficial8079

6 жыл бұрын

My friend's old girlfriend I'm pretty sure was all 3. After they broke up, she continued to hang around like a parasite.

@mikeg3529

6 жыл бұрын

Lol, ew.

@nicolesabetti9104

6 жыл бұрын

I agree with this list... people who are in any of these situations,😧 or in some cases all three, should not be trying to date in the first place, they have more serious issues to focuse on, like finding a better counselor or lawyer. ... I have dated guys in these categories too... I think, these are pretty general dating situations to avoid.

@camman6912

6 жыл бұрын

Been there done all that At 61 I’m the expert on women I’ve learned a lot from my stupid mistakes

I've been married for over 40 years.the problem I see in most relationships today is that each person is looking at what they are getting out of it instead of what they can give.good luck with that.

@emmysmith2236

6 жыл бұрын

True true.

@conan1912

6 жыл бұрын

Lorna Phillips Amen to that. People need to focus on how they can be better. Generally the other will respond in like

@poison03nae

6 жыл бұрын

Truth

@magacop5180

6 жыл бұрын

I’m trying to get a big booty cute wife that knows how to cook and won’t cheat. That’s all I need.

@magacop5180

6 жыл бұрын

danae hernandez Marry me.

First of all, I am a woman. I am writing this to the females of our species (especially radical feminists) that are currently screaming in rage after watching this video: My dear fellow females, I 100% agree with what this guy says. What ya'll are misunderstanding is that having daddy issues/custody problems/etc is not indicative of you being a bad person. This man is not saying that. What he IS saying, however, is that you have unresolved issues in your life (not necessarily your fault) and a wise man would not want to be involved in that. And I believe that is a wise decision to make, because the issues in your life are going to affect the man you are dating as well. Please understand.

@DailyElevate

2 жыл бұрын

I'm SO with you and I couldn't agree more! Well said!

@originalewalk

2 жыл бұрын

funny how men are the ONLY people causing daddy issues, but then they are also the boyle ones who get to deem any women that suffers from said issues as less “valuable”… don’t you see the circular reasoning here? don’t you see how problematic that is?

@lib2574

2 жыл бұрын

He didn’t say unsolved issues he just said issues. Even if you’ve dealt with your issues with male role models you cannot lie and say you had role male models when you didn’t. There’s plenty of women with absent male role models who appreciate a good man.

@cindybrown7527

2 жыл бұрын

100% agree with you and him. As a mother of 2 sons I didn’t want my sons to marry these kind of women. Marriage is hard enough without inviting in a troubled woman.

@christineshah7330

2 жыл бұрын

@@originalewalk Men aren't the only ones causing daddy issues. There are plenty of mothers out there that poison the well of the love their children want to have for their dad by talking trash about him and keeping them from him. I've personally witnessed this happen to a number of men that I know. They aren't bad or dangerous men, just men that had kids with self-centered women.

The first and easiest step men can take to improve their lives is to boycott companies who engage in male-bashing advertising such as Gillette and Nissan USA.

@al69420

3 жыл бұрын

Bruh but that 400z is sick tho lol

@virajkadam1684

2 жыл бұрын

@@al69420 fuck that 400z imma buy that Supra. Toyota forever

@JustTuningIn

2 жыл бұрын

Oh and don't forget Harry's razors. Buy Jeremy razors

Stuff like this should be a high school class for guys. Had to learn this shit the hard way.

@Mistyk83fr6

5 жыл бұрын

So many of us learned the hard way, better to learn that not at all. Better late than never 👍

@Mistyk83fr6

5 жыл бұрын

This video is 💯 right, spot on! I'd an exgf (not tom mention also a half sister) who are classic psychological textbook cases mentioned. My sister would use, shag, marry from one man to another, these poor guys, nothing was good enough. My exgf was an entitled little b*tch, whose dad was an abusive drunk then out of the picture when she was young. She took everything for granted, unfortunately her mum's traits (playing the victim card) became her own (felt like she was dating her mum and not me). Nothing was good enough, she was selfish, didn't drive, leeched money and the worst she would suck up energy like an emotional vampire and i got tired of "rescuing her from her own made up b.s. I broke up with her and took the red pill and am so glad i did!

@MrEOM41

5 жыл бұрын

It's as if they want young men to fail

@RaynardCreegan

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed, instead they fill our heads with useless garbage we spend the next 5 years out of school unlearning the bullshit, they dont teach life skills in school just academic skills to become a good slave worker to the dirty system.

@ToxicAfricanKing

4 жыл бұрын

Sure!

This would have been very useful information 15 years ago. Will pass this on to my son

@delljr2769

5 жыл бұрын

Your son is about 15 huh... haha

@tugnormoustuglicous1303

5 жыл бұрын

Stay strong brotha or find a side piece

@peteschannel508

5 жыл бұрын

Yep bullshit world we live in. Back in the day you would just off them and say you havent seen her and get a girlfriend and have shots of whiskey together. I love my wife but hate what she has become. Selfish one sided know it all .

@kj-HonkHonk

4 жыл бұрын

Kinda ironic but.. I turned out okay despite my upbringing and opposition.. Here's the reason. My dad was ousted out for being and alcoholic.. But my mom was wayyyyy worse. My Mom is 100% Narcissistic Jezebel and I was the Bane of her existence. Impossible for me to explain the details here but to keep it very shrt the woman hates my guts to the core. I was a daddy's girl up til the point she through his ass in jail and took custsy. She abused me all my life even up til recently when I finally cut her ass off. As a kid when she abuse me I told her I wanna live with Daddy despite his alcoholism. In my mind dealing with an alcoholic was wayy easier then an harshly abusive Narcissistic Mother. Anyways later in life I tracked him down and moved in with him when I hit hard times when she kicked me out for no good reason. He told me she caused an abortion because she couldn't get something at the store.. She through a tantrum and beat her pregnant stomach.. That was my sister.. SHE KILLED HER! I was shocked. This woman (my mother) is everything vile and disgusting I see in modern day women. So my life goal was to be the direct opposite to everything she stands for... The outcome- I landed a very great man.. An Alpha who I love, adore and respect to the core. She got very vwey jealous. To the point where she felt threatened that I was having an affair with my own step dad!! I know 100% psychotic.. But not uncommon with narcissistic mom.. OOHHH THEY ARE BEYOND EVIL! TRUST ME! So I cut ties with my family for more than 6 mths ago to stop the abuse. I can tell you millions of stories of what it's like for a daughter of a Narcissistic mom but lemme tell you there is now plenty of info on this subject on YT and the internet already Thank God! I can ses clearly the behaviors my mom displayed in most women today 😩 Sorry men.. I would love to give you an easy solution to finding a decent lady but sadly... Narcissism in women is at it's peak! Best advice I can offer is focus on your personal success and if any womwn come into your life as you make your way to the top REALLY put them through shit test. We aren't living in a prefect world where women are taught traditional values 😟 inside they are embracing feminazi brainwashing. My own mom tried brainwashing me into it but I resisted! Becoming the scape goat. But my younger sister, on the other hand,adhered to the brainwashing making her the Golden Child at 28 years old living in her home with her spineless BETA husband. It's the most pathetic situation imaginable. Anyways.. Thought I would share.. I know this was long.. Sorry.. But I have horror stories of women like this thanks to my mom and what their life turns out to be in the end cause of experience.. Feel free to ask me anything I'll be happy to help wake up anyone to these types of evil women. God Bless!

Go spend an hour in any US family court and you’ll get all the reasons you need. Stay single or go overseas gentlemen.

This is so true my ex had daddy issues and I was constantly drained because she always had the victim mentality and didn't have initiative to do something for herself.

Three women you should avoid dating or marrying; Those 25 and under, those between 25 and 40, and those 40 and over.

@trueindeed1569

5 жыл бұрын

👌🔥😂😎

@ZakuZuko

5 жыл бұрын

Made a mistake marrying a 22 year old. So immature and full of her self. Biggest mistake in my life.

@mjohnson1741

5 жыл бұрын

@Auset Luceus Gay means happy!

@romanmichaelhamilton8729

5 жыл бұрын

LOL. :-)

@ssimon64

5 жыл бұрын

@@ZakuZuko damn bro, how old were you at the time?

Women that are always on their phone. Obsession of finding someone new. Women that have to always have attention from other men

@drdee5627

4 жыл бұрын

Aka a narcissist

@scottiebones

4 жыл бұрын

This was my ex girlfriend, covert narcissist.

@toguro5117

4 жыл бұрын

Girls with a “guy best friend”

@mybiggrin

3 жыл бұрын

That’s literally all women.

@theice5521

3 жыл бұрын

BTW,every nowadays women

This is a must watch. After being in 2 relationships post divorce I finally realized that most women have daddy issues. I’m 50 years old...I dated women my age and they still had these issues lingering. I’m sending this video to my 24 year old son

@callmemajena

2 ай бұрын

But if I have them too, what should I do to help myself? 🤔 So that if I meet the love of my life I'd be a better person. At the end of the day, having grown up without receiving much attention from your father is sth that's out of your control

I always took my daughters out for their birthdays, one on one. I would open the car door for them, pull their chair out, and just generally treat them with respect. This way I can be confident that when they start dating, and some punk pulls up to the curb with his music blasting and honks the horn to get their attention, they won't even bother coming outside, because they've experienced the behavior of a respectable man and no poser with a narcissism problem is gonna keep their attention. I effectively raised the bar for them before they even began really interacting with boys. Today they are all very well adjusted

stay away from woman who never go a week without having a new boyfriend or if their boyfriends seem to overlap one another.. for instance a woman is flirting with you and says she is in a relationship but its not going very well and is hence interested in you. their boyfriends generally aren't very special to them and they choose them based on who is convenient for them and they will do the same to you. it also shows they can't be independent at all.

@ChrisHolman

7 жыл бұрын

soldatheero A woman recently was giving me the googly eyes and flirty body language while standing next to her husband. I smiled and winked to see how she would react. She blushed like a school girl and did that thing girls do when they brush their hair behind their ear and bat their eyes. At that moment I knew she had no respect for her husband, or any man for that matter. I am not a home wrecker so I left. All of this happened at a gun store while her husband was purchasing a firearm and ammo. I am 38 and she looked to be about 10 years younger than me, but I am horrible at judging a woman's age. I feel sorry for her husband. If she hasn't cheated on him yet, she will eventually. Poor guy.

@daliagrace9050

7 жыл бұрын

Chris Holman sexist...stop putting down women just coz u got rejected by one..get over it dude..have a life u can still be important

@ChrisHolman

7 жыл бұрын

Dalia Alfakih My ex wife did not reject me, I rejected her hence why I made her move out and I filed for divorce. The woman from the store did the opposite of reject me, so who exactly are you talking about? I am not sexist! What I said was truth. The kind of woman that will flirt with a man while standing next to her husband has no respect for her husband and likely sees men as a way to improve her life through the status of a man instead of standing on her own two feet. That is not the kind of woman I would date or marry. That is not sexist, that is an observation of human nature. By the way, I handle rejection quite well. Let me tell you a recent story that goes to prove my point. A few months ago I met this gal that worked at a local comics store. I was looking to get back to reading comics since I stopped reading them as a kid when I discovered girls, ah that was a magical time...*fondly remembers his first crush*...Anyways she seemed to be really into me and we had a lot in common, comics movies and firearms, it turns out more than I realized. She would ignore other customers just to talk to me. She started to find me in the store when I was just looking around and we rarely talked about comics. She was flirty but not aggressively so. Anyways I guess I misread her because one day about a month or so ago I asked her out and she said she was kinda into girls and had a girlfriend and pointed to her girlfriend. My immediate reaction was shock, I am sure it was visable on my face, but I quickly recovered. I said "at least it isn't anything I can do something about." She responded with, "well there is but I doubt you would take hormones and have surgery just to go to diner." I said while chuckling, "No, not really." We then had a good laugh and we are currently friends. I did get rejected in this case, and by a lesbian though I am thinking she might be bisexual, and not only did I handle it well but we are now friends. I respect her enough to leave it at that. I can call some women out on their bullshit and not be sexist. The real sexists are feminists that demonize all men. I do not demonize all women, but I have no problem calling a spade a spade when I see a woman that is a shitty person. Critisizing a woman, or a group of women, is not sexist. Making a statement like "Women are too crazy to be president" is sexist. That statement is inclusive of all women while saying that I would not date certain types of women, or that feminists are female supremacists, is not sexist because it is not inclusive of all women. Not all women are the same, and not all women are feminists. If I said that a woman's place is at home in the kitchen, this is not a belief I have yet I do think it is best for a mother to stay home when her kids are under school age if possible, that would be sexist. Though I personally believe in traditional gender roles, women have the God given right to live their lives the way they choose. So stop throwing around these stupid labels. Just because a man disagrees with your ideology doesn't make him sexist. One last thing, I literally begged my ex-wife to work for years and she refused. We had no kids that needed to be taken care of, and we struggled financially for the first 3 years we where together. There was no reason why she couldn't work. That hardly sounds sexist, in fact that makes her an entitled brat that wants men to take care of her.

@aaronlandis7929

7 жыл бұрын

Dude, she doesn't care. She just proved to herself that she can get three paragraphs of attention from you with only one word. She gets double jollies for putting you down as a sexist without consequences and for you validating her pointless comment.

@jeffbridges5312

7 жыл бұрын

*Type of women to stay away from: Any and all Western women living in any westernized country. Doesn't matter what her personality is like; the culture is feminist which means they all fuck around with dozens of men and have zero loyalty and respect for men. Even if you were to find one who isn't a whore, doesn't matter, marriage is completely out of the question in the U.S. and Canada and Europe because the woman has GOD LIKE LEGAL POWER OVER YOU and your children. Most men don't find that out until after they've been permanently ejected from the home and can't see their children simply because she's bored of you.*

stay away from the $500 purse woman

@neel9137

6 жыл бұрын

kathy bost lol

@skepticalfaith5201

6 жыл бұрын

Amen to that! Or any woman with rich tastes. A great book “The Millionaire Next Door” found that most millionaires don’t show it. One of the more interesting characteristics is that their spouses spent less than they did.

@tonilynn6819

6 жыл бұрын

TRUE!!!!! I just commented something similar on a different video. Materialistic woman are so easy to spot!!! Good luck men, I'm routing for you!

@4inShopper

6 жыл бұрын

but she might be thrifty and got it from a second hand store for $50 !!! Be careful about judging on clues...take a clue as an indicator and find out more...

@tonilynn6819

6 жыл бұрын

Elise Grace that's a point, but if it's all she's wearing then it's the same difference.

That’s an easy list to add to: 1 Drinks too much 2 acts single 3 doesn’t have their shit together

@rp7r54

5 күн бұрын

THE LIST IS TOO SHORT

I've been married to woman#1"daddy issues" for 27 years and as of this moment we are separating. The point about not seeing value in the man and how is transpires into the marriage is spot on!

Women who smoke. That is like being friends with cancer.

@MrFIZZYMann

4 жыл бұрын

Avoid Women who smoke ? = Oh I Don't Know, Marry Them, Get Them WELL Insured = R.I.P. = MONEY ! Oh, I'm Thinking Like a Woman Now, Ho Hum.

@squeezerD

4 жыл бұрын

I'm a smoker too soo what's your point dipshit ?

@squeezerD

4 жыл бұрын

Death's Shadow 99 Skullface alcoholics to dipshit.

@sweetcinnamonpnchkin

3 жыл бұрын

Smells gross too

@Exoticz_Draco

3 жыл бұрын

@@nocturnaldivision your age is showing lol

I can confirm that its a nightmare to date the girls with daddy issues, trust me guys you will see it at least after 1 month and when the honeymoon phase faded away.

@DANFLIX98

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@isaacsanders9203

4 жыл бұрын

They usually have bpd or npd

@eh4235

3 жыл бұрын

What about a son with mommy issues?? I was married to one, trust me. You don't want to deal with one, he would be psychopath, sex offender that doesn't value women at all. Unfortunately there are man like that.

@kingbeef396

3 жыл бұрын

@@eh4235 i am kinda like that sorry u met one I'm working on bettering myself tho

@tdrxy

2 жыл бұрын

@@eh4235 i am also like that, but i stay away from women, either that or i m very upfront about it. problem is they don't believe/understand these issues. It's not like your bipolar or narcissistic on purpose, if you're really attached it messes with your head.

Always ignored the red flags. I just wanted to hit it. After two failed marriages I met this woman at my job who had a lot of red flags but I was so infatuated I didn't care. Been married for 22 years and she's solid gold.

@emm3889

3 жыл бұрын

Lol reminds me of my ex whom my family tore us apart, cause they didn't like her and her redflags she was a nyph, a loyal nyph mind you, best damn woman I ever had, she stayed home cleaning and preparing herself and house for what's to come while I worked and returned home to a cex demon every day, yeah I had cameras in the house cause even I was cautious since she was a nyph for sure I thought she has gotta be doing someone else while I'm working.

@lennoxcrochet9718

2 жыл бұрын

❤️💕live comes with taking chances love to hear it over again

I've noticed the daddy issue ones, tend to positively view her father, though he wasn't a good father, and compare you to the false impression and you'll never meet the standards.

1) Single Moms 2) Single Moms 3) Single Moms

@fargeeks

4 жыл бұрын

Gotham City dude i had a lady who is NOT a mom tried to make me move in and pay her bills

@dominiquemclaughlin565

3 жыл бұрын

Single dads.

@BobbyMakepeace

3 жыл бұрын

I’m fucking a single mom She just wants to fuck. That’s fine. I don’t want anything to do with her kid, and she don’t want me to have anything to do with her kid either. She make her own money. She wants to come to the gym with me then fuck.

@gregort911

3 жыл бұрын

@@dominiquemclaughlin565 😂 you wish. A single woman with a kid is damaged goods. A single man with a kid is alright, facts.

@vicholtreman1405

3 жыл бұрын

Learned this the hard way.

1. Bang on...daddy issues are trouble.. 2. 1 single parent or divorced women 3. Women that disrespect you in any way

@l337Jeff

4 жыл бұрын

Single mother....double D's: Debt & Drama

@isaacsanders9203

4 жыл бұрын

Watch out for women with borderline personality disorder!

@stevecarey2030

3 жыл бұрын

@@isaacsanders9203 Having divorced one they really are a kind of monster. Something just not completely human about them. It doesn't even occur to them that there is anything wrong with their abusive behavior. I didn't know that she had it until years after our divorce when a psychologist told me it sounded like she had it. I read a list of 10 signs they have it and she was a dead ringer for 7 or 8 of them.

@isaacsanders9203

3 жыл бұрын

@@stevecarey2030 it’s such a dangerous disorder. Glad to hear you’re away from the abuse. Hope you’re doing well. Many men do not survive to live or rebuild. Cheers friend

@stevecarey2030

3 жыл бұрын

@@isaacsanders9203 Thanks man, appreciate it.

Point one. "Do not date a woman with daddy issues" that's an unrealistic expectation. This is *increasingly difficult* to find as a millenial. If you are holding out for a woman who comes from a stable marriage with a strong male figure in her life...you will be single for a LONG time.

@EMichaelBall

2 жыл бұрын

Most such women are snapped up early.

@veemon9280

2 жыл бұрын

@@EMichaelBall we come from the age of no-fault divorce and single parent households. Most people I know come from a home that's broken in some way, with no father figure. I consider myself lucky to have come from a stable home with both parents. Then again...my parents are old.

Spot on brother, this should be a high school course 101. I learned the hard way.

Spot on, sir! Nailed it with the daddy issues thing.

@EntrepreneursInCars

8 жыл бұрын

+Rob Reeves #tuth

@mstiegra

7 жыл бұрын

tuth? Do you need a tuth brush? LOL

To piggyback on the one with daddy issues -- the pussified dad. I dated a girl that had a pussified dad, and it was a nightmare. Even if the dad is a good guy, a loving guy, a caring guy.....if he's a complete softy pushover, guess what she's going to expect you to be? You guessed it....just like him. They had a great relationship, but her and her mother definitely wore the pants in that household. I can't allow that from a potential wife. For any businessman, this is going to be damn near impossible. Also, beware of the perfectionist-type of woman. Trust me, it's a nightmare and NOTHING you do will be good enough.

@EntrepreneursInCars

7 жыл бұрын

Good points

@truthteller4442

7 жыл бұрын

My beautiful and amazing mistress It goes against nature and it simply isn't attractive. No matter how much you don't want to acknowledge nature, or the truth, it is what it is. If anything, a relationship should he half and half, not her trying to dictate my life and act like a male. No man with pride and testosterone is okay with being bossed around and having their life dictated for them. Sorry, but you're simply a feminist-brainwashed woman. At the end of the day, a woman's nature is to be submissive. They lose all respect for a guy that is a complete puppy dog and does everything she says -- and you know that's the truth.

@leonidassaber7335

7 жыл бұрын

My beautiful and amazing mistress women shouldn't wear the pants... ever

@Jarake

7 жыл бұрын

Female School teachers primarily fall into that category that you just mentioned.

@truthteller4442

7 жыл бұрын

Kravesin You wanna hear something crazy and, my hand to God is the 100% truth? Her mother was a school teacher. I swear on my life. You should be a profiler. Lol.

Just broke up with a girl that had all three points. All I can say is it was good for the first few months then became an absolute nightmare. She never valued my effort, had no respect and always needed money and a bailout. We have a son and are fighting for custody she thinks every other weekend is enough time.

I just left mine because she turned out to be all 3 women you described here 😅

We need to raise strong confident Sons.

@anipopescu

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah... good idea! Not like the bunch of pussies commenting around here! I lost my all my money 4 times in my life... some times also because of men...been homeless... been saved... been dumped ... got up back. I guess only God made all that possible. But here???? Ya’allll weenie babies. Sounds like you all don’t wanna be bothered with your partners issues... which we all may have and we can resolve. You wanna be so free that the only thing I can suggest is: get a f¥¥Nng plastic doll. @the rock.... this isn’t personal you

Dude, you nailed it. My wife, totally. And I was am a rescuer and sadly bought into it

To quote yourself at the end of the video ‘wish I knew this a few years ago’. Incredibly insightful. Thank you Rich

1. The fat ones 2. The loud ones 3. The loud fat ones 4. The ones that take selfies 5. Def agree on the Daddy issues ones too

@qjtvaddict

6 жыл бұрын

Spooky Mumbles only fat guys entertain the idea of dating fat girls you don't have to mention that nobody with dignity dates fatties

@BS-bu1po

6 жыл бұрын

Spooky Mumbles Spooky, if you could expound on number 4. I want to know what you meant about "those that take selfies". I am attracted to a lot of those types. Please help!!!

@EXPLISITemcee

6 жыл бұрын

Spooky Mumbles fat ones with no attitude ? That's makes no sense

@EXPLISITemcee

6 жыл бұрын

Bob Down did he mention goldigers?

@am33x

6 жыл бұрын

I think 4 means "instagram whores". Cuz everyone takes a selfie from time to time.

I hit the jackpot! Single mother with bipolar and a party girl!!!! She also grew up without a father! She's now a single mother to three kids to three fathers.

@stevec3526

3 жыл бұрын

Guy, get some therapy for yourself. Why did you find a woman like this in your life?

@simonm1528

3 жыл бұрын

@@stevec3526 I was 20 at that time. There was no KZread mentors like there is today.

@Liam_Maddog

2 жыл бұрын

Buy track shoes.

@johnnymarrco770

2 жыл бұрын

Damn, dude. That’s a hot mess.

Great job on the videos. I was laughing when you got to the third one because my ex fell under all three categories. I’m thankful it only lasted two years!

Second vid I've watched from this guy. I'm 54, have to agree with his observations. I'm a 5th generation Canadian, ex Canadian army sergeant, own my own business, men of any age should listen....

Dude, almost every girl has daddy issues. Many girls are neglected by their overworked dad because they were too tired to even look at them after work. This is a problem since decades.

@ranikalakaar

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly and how is it the girls fault? With that said, not all those girls even have the issues that this guy is talking about and if so, its a spectrum. We can talk all day about the baggage he has that he may or may not even be aware of. Ridiculous reasonings.

@Cocod73

Ай бұрын

​@ranikalakaar whew! At least someone here is thinking.

Great video and advice. My heart sank when the first trouble type you said was a girl with daddy issues. I came out of a 2 year failed relationship with a girl like that last year. Her father was basically a piece of furniture when she was growing up, and when I finally learned the extent of her anger toward her father it was a huge red flag, but I really fucking loved this girl and wanted to save her. Big mistake. She really showed a lack of respect in general towards me, because she never had a reason to respect her father, so she of course didn't feel any need to respect me. The biggest thing is the emotional damage that had been done to her. She was kind of bi-polar. She would retreat into these deep frigid spells and virtually shut me out completely. It resulted in some major issues in our relationship that were extremely painful. Honestly, it kills me, because other than the daddy issues, which were admittedly terrible, she was a damn amazing girl with so many good qualities, and very very beautiful. Life is just fucking tragic sometimes...

@ellastar9391

6 жыл бұрын

Invisible Prison yeah but imagine how badly her trust in men was damaged because of her dad =/

@scottlopez9822

5 жыл бұрын

Been there ...

@Sartheris

5 жыл бұрын

You just described perfectly a girl I had fallen in love with. I swear they are all the same

@inrptn

5 жыл бұрын

@@Sartheris They are indeed all the same. A quick way to identify a girl with potential daddy issues (or severe emotional damage) is if she is basically emotionally unavailable. They will show very very little concern or support for you, even early on in the relationship. As early as the second or third date. If talking to them and showing basic human needs and concerns starts to feel like a one-way street, I exit fast. Just dropped one last week after a few dates.

@True2TheBlueYoViGang

5 жыл бұрын

@@inrptn how do you drop one nicely? Like whats a favorite quote of yours for breaking up? Like what exactly do you tell them that the chemistry isnt there?

The ultimate life hack. Never finance a depreciating asset. Rent don’t buy, date don’t marry.

@spot_of_tea53

3 жыл бұрын

If only a true christian man could do this 😔

I needed these videos years ago but so grateful I found them now! So much valuable content. Cheers Rich

I wish they had this in 1980... Boy i was used big time.. Divorced over 20 years... It destroyed my family...

@fredberfal1246

5 жыл бұрын

same deal here ,only 14 years. The damage done cannot be measured on many levels

@bobscorpion9722

4 жыл бұрын

Me Also !

@paulblais4443

3 жыл бұрын

16 yrs for me and I still raise one of her kids from her first marriage

@kamara03k7

3 жыл бұрын

Read the rational male

@ruirodtube

3 жыл бұрын

14 years marriage. Two kids. She destroyed the family with her hidden narcissism.

Stay away from feminists, single moms, and women between 30-40, slamming through the wall.

@LDT7Y

4 жыл бұрын

Especially if they don't have kids! Don't assume they will be on the pill. One night of 'oh damn I forgot to take it' or 'well there's always 1% chance it won't work so I guess we got unlucky' and you are basically screwed. If you don't want kids, get the op or make sure you are in control of contraception the whole time. Women panic in their 30s if they still haven't got kids and want them, and will have no issue ruining a man's life to get pregnant. I've seen it happen so many times. Then the guy either feels bad and marries her or spends the next 20 years arguing with an ex while trying to find other women to date who will put up with that drama.

@alexlisamarie7953

4 жыл бұрын

BRIDGEBURNERS TV nothing wrong with feminists, unless you’re talking about the ones who want to kill all men

@alexlisamarie7953

3 жыл бұрын

My World my man dates me, a feminist

@alexlisamarie7953

3 жыл бұрын

Volition Iskey what do you mean “by the look of it”

@dalynak.9540

3 жыл бұрын

LDT7Y yep! my father’s ex-girlfriend did that to him. she lied and said she was on the pill, which he usually saw her take but she had been off of it for a while. she was 36 with no kids and lived on her own. now I have four half siblings because my father wasn’t smart about the women he was with

I’m from six years in your future. Your gonna kick some ass with this channel. Thank you.

Revisiting your videos as I just got burned from a girl with daddy issues. Thanks again Rich for putting things into perspective again.

I got married to a woman with daddy issues. It was big! mistake. She said very bad things about her father and did not have any respsect for him. And now I am the one who is not respected.

@EntrepreneursInCars

7 жыл бұрын

Please explain, it helps the community understand these red pill truths.

@Vankin77

7 жыл бұрын

On the very first date she mentioned that she had emotional breakdown because of her of dad. I mentally made a note however later dismissed it. She later spoke of him badly blaming for all the bad things in her mother’s life including her mother getting sick and passing away in relatively young age. She even spoke of him in the manner like “this idiot” or “this looser”. After her mother passed away, her father started to date other women. As a side note, she was already 24-25 years old at this point and married to me. I was really surprised how incredibly mad it was making her. As if her father had no right to date anyone and, god forbid, to bring his girlfriends to the house where my wife grew up. She could ignore her father and not speak with him for months. While we were married I was making about ¾ of our joint income. I did my best to take care of things around the house. She did not even know on what days of the week the trash was picked up. We never had any children and our intimate life became very bad. There was one time when I took her on Caribbean vacation in very expensive resort and did not even have single intimate encounter with her there during entire vacation. After couple years she tried to drive away my premarital friends. I was not to speak with anyone who was not on her “approved” friends list. We would have a party and she would act if she was a head of household while my job was to make drinks for her girlfriends and take care of their needs. She would even tell a story to her/”our” friends about how successful she was before marriage and while speaking about me say something like “and now I am married to this”. She would literally kick my ass with her foot in front of her girlfriends. And, I had to ask permission for every small thing such as going fishing or spend some money on myself. Every time I wanted to express an opinion on any matter during social events she would interrupt me and make me to shut up. My friends kept telling me that she was acting as if she was single while we were at social events as a couple. And, I had no right say No to her. Every time I tried to say 'No' the shaming would begin that often would turn into a tantrum with screaming and name calling. There were times when her tantrums would turn into vomiting for several hours. Of course I was supposed to feel guilty after that and try to make it up to her. I even got physically hit several times. She would engage in emotional abuse call me things like “stinking looser”, “alcoholic” and that all friends think that I am crazy and need professional help. At the end, I decided I had enough and I chose to leave her.

@Vankin77

6 жыл бұрын

Dee Ja. We are separated now and going through divorce. It took me too long to realize that I was wasting my time with this woman. As they say, it is better later then never.

@karenwellington213

6 жыл бұрын

Vanchin Af that's not daddy issues, that's narcissism. And yeah those come in male gender too. I left mine after 17 years of abuse. I would never wish that on anyone!!!

@jcvr732

5 жыл бұрын

@@Vankin77 men I dont know how you took so much abuse. Hope you are with a better woman.

Young MEN please listen & heed the advice this man is telling you the last two women I dated fell in two of the categories of women to avoid it cost me 16yrs of life & over $90,000 in waisted expenses.

@Bidness100

5 жыл бұрын

Dam 😬

@oc1319

4 жыл бұрын

'expenses' lol........ Do you date hookers

@danielf.6770

4 жыл бұрын

God Damn!!! 🤢

@TheHomeExpert5

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, you got off real cheap! I don't even want to go there. Women can do a 180 on you even after five years.

@moneygirlsandclothes

3 жыл бұрын

Ton Robert after I read that i let out a very strong “MMMmm” i feel sorry for u bro but we appreciate the advice it’s gonna propel others forward. Thanks seriously

This man is saving my life! Thank you!!! 💪

Cheers dude your videos have changed my life I wake up 20 times happier everyday knowing how the world really works

Fella's I may do another one of these, leave your comments below on the types of women you discourage bro's from dating. Keep an eye out in the comments, and read the triggered women's comments too... You can't miss them, they usually open with shaming/insulting me for speaking the cold hard truth.

@jmoa5758

7 жыл бұрын

Hey, Entrepreneur. I'm 20, with $4500 in the bank and $1000 in stocks. Recently quit my job, and plan on moving out of my Mom's place. Any advice? Life tip?

@BobJoy_my_collection_of_stuff

7 жыл бұрын

I'm 65 , but had plenty of experience with women that constantly put me down , especially in front of (in order of severity) their family , their cousins , their friends , my friends. In every case it was a duplication of what her parents did to each other. I never had any luck concerning bringing this to their attention. It always reverted to what her parents did , mom belittling dad everywhere.

@EntrepreneursInCars

7 жыл бұрын

Bob Joy many woman rely on shaming tactics to try and get their way. It's brutal.

@BobJoy_my_collection_of_stuff

7 жыл бұрын

I always presented it to them as bad learning. Decades of watching a demonstration of how a wife loves her husband. Transferred to OUR loving dating relationship.

@Bushyturnip

7 жыл бұрын

Justin Moua you make me feel bad about my life. I'm 20 and quit my job with nothing in the bank account. time for a change regardless

Wow. I had a friend that literally dropped everything when his daughter called . She was 21 at the time . Always needed help with something. He made her breakfast one morning and instead of thanking him she complained about how he made the eggs. I couldn’t believe my ears. My farther didn’t make me breakfast?? And if he did - I’d say a proper thank you. I spoke to my friend about her behavior and he didn’t see it. He planned a dinner birthday party for her and she texted him “I’m going out with friends dad..” He’s teaching her to treat men like crap by being too nice and bending over backward ! That was the # 1 reason why I refused to date him. Every weekend was a chore he had to do for his daughter! She’s now living with a guy and he just proposed to her. I feel SORRY for that guy. He looks super simp and done already.

@TheGintama86

4 жыл бұрын

Thats sad ;-;

@freeagent8225

4 жыл бұрын

The only solace a woman has is her discontentment.

@dobermadd

4 жыл бұрын

@@freeagent8225 amen

@teamhuman2

3 жыл бұрын

Dang that seems crazy because it is ,, mabey the father feels strong remorse for producing a creature in such a awful place called earth so he's dedicated his life to her and she dosen't realize yet that he didn't really try to create her on purpose it was just something that he ate hours previously that got him to sighted by some broad that craps out moving turds from the other side of her boot taze ,,

@juniperconifer4408

3 жыл бұрын

I'm just gonna assume that your friend is coming from caucasian house hold

What you have said about women with daddy issues is clinically spot on! No respect, no interest in the value you bring to the table, they throw you like a garbage when you do not serve them the way and at the time they like... You are a very perceptive man!

Don’t take your eyes off the road man, we need you to keep making great videos!

You're 100% right on everything you said about women with daddy issues. I was married for 12 years with such a woman, it was a roller coaster to try to make her understand that I was not her father she was trying to equate me with, she never appreciated nothing I did for her. At some point she started being jealous of the way I treat my own daughters, she was emotionally unavailable and fought all good initiatives I had for the family. At last I gave up and left her.

@richk320

6 жыл бұрын

Zebede Zandale -Jezebel offspring.Congratulations on your escape!

@shinedg168

Жыл бұрын

Had the same deal. Never valued anything.

To Me you said something VERY Key and I feel that if a Woman does NOT RESPECT what You bring to the table You NEED to Get RID of her because you'll spend your Whole trying to please this tragedy in a dress .

First time i got married I completely neglected the "daddy issues" part. Did not know this was a thing at the time. I was young. I thought my ex was the exception to her train wreck of a family and I was saving her from that environment by marrying her, but just as you said; she didn't appreciate the things I did and I def paid for her unreconciled issues she had with her dad that I had nothing to do with. Good advice right there.

Another great video Rich!! It applies in 2022 as in 2015. As a 69 year old single, divorced, single again, it has applied throughout my adult life.

spot on about daddy issues. of course, the ones with daddy issues are usually hot. :/ every girl that I've known who had no father in the picture has had (all of the following): 1. drug problems 2. emotional instability 3. seldom have a career or future goals 4. piss poor financial common sense 5. the need for immediate gratification, 24/7, live for now mentality 6. her problems are paramount to anything going on in your life 7. wants you to respect her "independence", while still expecting chivary (but not appreciating it)

@dawfydd

6 жыл бұрын

That isn't entirely true, some women take a bad situation and deal with it, but the state coddles them and its much easier for them to make excuses.

@BluEN1111

6 жыл бұрын

A lot of girls don't have career goals, even if they're "normal". But #4,#5,#6,#7 is spot on. I've met one and I'm glad I recognized the red flags. Girls with daddy issues usually have extremely high levels of narcissism.

@magacop5180

6 жыл бұрын

You forgot 1 million selfies taken on Instagram....or pics of their body.

@LoriStrode

6 жыл бұрын

1 never did drugs 2 people have emotions 3 3 time business owner 4 I’m buying a house cash to retire early Well those are my plans 5 no 6 no 7 no 🤷🏻‍♀️ still single Just had cheater exes and not willling to stay in my past relationships because of that ... yeah the daddy issues is dumb to me, as a child you don’t get to choose what kind of house hold you grow up in

@AnthonySforza

6 жыл бұрын

I hate that I was only allowed to "like" this, once.

Stay away from drama!

@5tonyvvvv

6 жыл бұрын

99% of women are Drama though...

@drumdude46

6 жыл бұрын

Wrong. "Drama'....Finds YOU, No matter what.

@rp7r54

5 күн бұрын

DRAMA, MELODRAMA, STRIFE, THEATER, CHAOS, ETC

I was kind of scared to go but there's some pretty damn good advice my friend good job

One thing you said in this video - I realise I'm being picky as fuck but critisism is good :) "If she doesn't value it as a child why would she value it as an adult woman" Disagree, values change as you age. Apart from that, great video, agree with all your points.

So basically ALL women. Got it, monk mode *SOLIDIFIED*

@queenrole6507

5 жыл бұрын

The truth🙏 he has no time to understand women he don't believe in love I think everything is complicated at times especially at the start

@chrisredfield6825

5 жыл бұрын

@@queenrole6507 Whoooosh

@ViburaBlanca

5 жыл бұрын

Mr J speak for yourself

@marvinmartian7281

5 жыл бұрын

@@ulyssesdenice5071 Oveseas chicks become trashy too when exposed to the swamp.Beware!

@naomigates30

5 жыл бұрын

Hahahha

I just ended a relationship with my girlfriend, it was really hard but I had to do it. She didn't have typical daddy issue but pussified father. She bragged all the time how she can do everything, how strong she is and shit like that, but her dad or brother help her all the time with just everything you can think of. She was hard to spot on at first, but as you said, there are only problems with such girls, endless problems. On the other hand, I am the guy that gets things done, I recently started my own business and women like that just don't appreciate qualities that I bring to the table. I must get through this breakout. Cheers

@AH-ph3cb

Жыл бұрын

don't go back ive seen it with my mom. my stepdad is whipped. my grandpas did everything for her

This stuff that you've mentioned is completely accurate. I had to learn it the hard way. Wish there is more awareness for decent guys out there, its already too late if you learn from experience.

At 55 everything you say has been like a bell ringing and I am in the process of my new life because I realized about 5years ago I was going about this whole thing in a self destructive way and even at my age I have very young women coming at me I am just tired of the complications they bring thanks for your channel

Don’t save her she doesn’t wonna be saved don’t save - J cole 👏🏿

@ronmexico4115

5 жыл бұрын

*project pat

@EC-fx7ep

5 жыл бұрын

Project Pat you dumb fuck

@immaware6847

5 жыл бұрын

Pensacola Poker be easy, they don't know 😅

@bravadoland2434

5 жыл бұрын

They prefer to be proud of their wounds than to be told how to solve them. Life is boring for them without wounds to be licked.

@deansley174

5 жыл бұрын

That was Prohect Pat you millenial clown. 😂😂😂

Wholly shit!!!! Man my ex fits all 3. Omg I see it now.

@CM-on1iy

3 жыл бұрын

Good experience bro, isn't it?)))))

@tae-007

6 ай бұрын

yep

Thank you for your well spoken words and support. I think every man should see this!

I’m a new listener and I have to say, I’ve now watched 4 different alpha male/dating instructors and you by far are THE BEST. There’s no peacocking in you. You’re straight up, no frills, balls to the wall truth. Not to say those other mentors are bad. They’re actually quite good, but you have the method that works best for me. What you say really hurts and makes me uncomfortable at times. But, it’s what I need to hear and feel. I woke up today with your knowledge and I’m already starting to feel like my better self now that I can weed through the toxic feminist BS, I can now take off my own mask. Thank you for all you do, brother!

This video was nice, polite, and directly to the point with no bullshit. 10/10

a man should not be a baby daddy before being a husband, bottom line.

@janebaker4912

7 жыл бұрын

Dewayne Eberhardt ...oh no! thatsy boyfriend.

@tonylama2012

7 жыл бұрын

Dewayne Eberhardt why? you loose your home if you marry

@trinatruly5505

4 жыл бұрын

Amen Dewayne

@gasolinaquema8416

3 жыл бұрын

It’s worst getting married to just to have kids, then have your wife take all your shit. No thank you.

@morainalorettabullock3024

3 жыл бұрын

I agree , I dated a baby daddy before and when that happened his baby momma had a fit , so I decided to stick with people my own age and men single never married and without children .

I came this channel recently, and it's GREAT. So many of the videos pertain to me. I was married to a Hungarian woman who turned into a beast as soon as I paid off the mortgage. She never lifted a finger to help our two girls and I had to take a job I couldn't stand, but that allowed me to work from home instead of a much better/higher salary one that I would have loved, just so I could take care of my children AND work FULL-TIME, while their mother sat on the couch and DOUBLED her weight.

what you said about the daddy issues was sooooo accurate dude, i had that girl i wanted to engage and i discovered she had daddy issues and noticed her attention seeking behavior and everything is all about her , not caring about me or my life , so i cut the ties immediately and walked away. what you said happened exactly as u said

I dated my ex for two years, she had daddy issues. He left the family in another country so he was missing for most of her life. She eventually ended up cheating on me after proclaiming that I did not giver her enough attention. I work as a entry level network engineer and I focus a lot on self development. Anyways, I remember one of the last conversations I had with her shortly after the break up was that she envied me because and quote "Your family is intact and they love you, meanwhile I'm here with my family who doesn't care about me". So yes, girls with daddy issues will mess you up if you're not careful. Needless to say I'm glad I ended that before I committed myself more into the relationship, but sad to say those two years are well behind me.

I agree with this so much. I own up to having “daddy” issues and growing up with not having strong parents to give more guidance on how to treat people and most of all how to treat myself. I have found my biggest fear is being that girlfriend or wife who drains her boyfriend or husband dry or takes advantage. My goal is to make a relationship where my man is appreciated and I show an equal contribution to the stress the world throws at us. This video is very appreciate cuz it shows the light on how women in our society are growing up to be. Guys take notes!

@MD-DLive

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your honesty!

@zarhun7

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for honesty hope you heal

@originalewalk

2 жыл бұрын

lol at the concept of equal contribution when the deck is shown to be perpetually stacked in mens favor so you’re literally promoting doing more work but calling it equal 😂😂😂 im in stitches!!

@eternalfaith4622

2 жыл бұрын

God bless you lady. Its humbling to know there are women who are enlightened out there. I pray you the best .

@callanc3925

Жыл бұрын

@@originalewalk youre a really bitter woman if you take pride in belittling another woman striving to have a good life

Great video. I wish I learned this four years ago.

My friend I wished I would’ve known this before. But thank God it’s never to late. Thank you for wisdom. HKS

I haven't watched this in its entirety, but am writing this as I'm listening. You nailed the daddy daughter situation exactly. I couldn't agree more! I was extremely close to my father, and he was exactly what I needed. I got so much confidence because of that relationship and ended up being a prodigy, level headed, logical (as opposed to emotional), and am very successful. Seriously, he was the one that made me realize as a teenager, that I had what it took to do whatever I wanted for my career. It is absolutely priceless.

@PoyTroy

Жыл бұрын

Good. It is imperative for a father tobe in his daughter's life, and raise her and listen to her. That a way when she goes out into the real world she knows what the love from a man looks like. My ex never got that, and she resents/hates her father on top of been molested as a child by a family member. It was hard as all to deal with her durning the 4 years we were together. Love her , but I hated all the drama and hate she had towards her family and people around her, she brought me down and brought the worst out of me. I take full responsibility, I saw the red flags early on when we were dating, and I continued down the path. We have a small child together and I love him so much, I'm just thankful we have 50 50 custody of him. Blessed

@KD400_

Жыл бұрын

Hope ur relationships turned out great. It will be easier for u to get a man because women with their fathers make good wives imo

Women with grown children living at home would also be one to avoid.

@anonymousnearseattle2788

7 жыл бұрын

Just simplify it to avoiding women with children, period. She left their dad for some stupid, fabricated reason, and she'll do the same to you.

@VersionBest

6 жыл бұрын

She Natural - SMH that is exactly the problem. Poor decision making. Poor judgment of character. Poor life's choices. These literally encompasses female nature.

@ryanwillett728

5 жыл бұрын

@@anonymousnearseattle2788 As a 42 yo male, I'm here to tell you if you find a woman in her 40's with no kids, take caution. I won't say avoid, but definitely be cautious.

This is good advice. Thank you sir

Good stuff💯✊🏽

I grew up with no Dad and a “teenage mom” I did a 180 Degree difference in my life than the way I grew up. 5 well rounded children with morals and values married 25 years tomorrow. Some of us want different than what we grew up with. Don’t judge us by our parents.

@LlLl-lh8ol

Жыл бұрын

Are you a woman?

"women that need to be saved" perfectly describes by ex gf. She had a masters degree but lived paycheck to paycheck bc she spends al her money on clothes. Still lives with her parents bc she cannot afford her own place and never offered to pick up the tab, it was always me paying for everything. Thank God i was able to get away.

@Skarletkombat

4 жыл бұрын

Redbull357 damn how old is she?

@praised1745

3 жыл бұрын

You are a dustie , a man’s job is to provide and protect.

@Redbull357

3 жыл бұрын

@@praised1745 Yes, for a woman that is worthy. She wasn't the one.

@gustavomrosas4758

3 жыл бұрын

@@praised1745 Girl what ? you will remain a single mom if you keep thinking like that lol.

@ipassingthrough

2 жыл бұрын

@@praised1745 He said gf, not wife. Your words only apply if she's your spouse

Wow where was this channel when I needed it the most 😂

Great advice first thing to ask about relationships with parents. Thank you for doing video.

The worst is the kind that suffers from too much anxiety, depression, anger issues or are just plain narcissistic. I dated a woman who although she was not perfect physically (in her eyes) to me she was beautiful. But her insecurities always made her test herself in front of other men. So whenever she went out, I feared her attention seeking of men. These types always try to shift guilt to you by saying you have no confidence, you don't trust her, etc. The best kind of women are the types you don't have to worry about them ever cheating on you or disrespecting you.

@robertkehoe1133

6 жыл бұрын

Jonvolca Man I can so relate still care about her but we can't just live together so it's on slow death spiral. I gave up too much for her a shame really.

@richk320

6 жыл бұрын

Jonvolca Man You're right! That demonic behavior is one of the hallmarks of narcissism designed to torment, manipulate and control you.That game you described destroys families and relationships.

@Kicksno1fan

6 жыл бұрын

I understand the flirting problem, but anxiety? Anxiety is super common these days in America, especially in women. We have emotions that we sometimes cant handle. I’m glad my boyfriend is caring and loving towards me even with my anxiety.

@prometheuspredator7971

6 жыл бұрын

Jonvolca Man, I so agree with you. I am a woman and she was looking for attention and sympathy all the time from you, I imagine. Always playing the victim role. She felt that you would accept her inappropriate attention to other men, because she had poor self esteem and confidence. That was a big manuplation tool she used against you. Yes, I do agree Narcissistic men abd women are everywhere. You have to be experienced and educated on how to deal with them. The best way i have found is to terminate the relationship or a better term, Go No Contacr. They will make your life miserable.

@tampabaycanuck64

6 жыл бұрын

I don't see where those women exist, sir. But more power to you. These are human beings, and frail ones at that. Their sensitivity (which we as men love when positively directed at us, nurturing and sex and sweet talk) is a dual sided coin. You will evoke their anger-and the pushback from that will be either disrespectful or manifest itself passively aggressively (more often than not because they're not good at confronting or for self-solace in anger). Once that happens, all bets are off.

Very wise advice. Recently I met a new girl and our interaction went like this. Her "My father ruined my childhood" Me: "Sorry I got a terrible headache, let's do this another time" (end of my interaction with her) It all lasted not more than 3min. if we do not take into account the formal small talk. First of all you do not share such stuff with a guy you just met, second and not least.. she would feel with me in a relationship that I make her adulthood a nightmare and then.. try to get revenge on me..

@emm3889

3 жыл бұрын

She sounds like a Sagittarius they can share everything to anyone, and it rubs cancers the wrong way I'm gonna assume you a cancer.

I was blessed to have a great dad. He passed away now but he was always there. I e been married once but no children.

Thank you for the wisdom

lmao! my ex was all 3, fuck where you when i needed you!

@pinkgal206

7 жыл бұрын

Viper4ever05 you're too stupid to pick better women

@Viper4ever05

7 жыл бұрын

uh do I know you?

@agelesskarate

7 жыл бұрын

lol I know right?

@bowhunter8235

7 жыл бұрын

lol... once the bitterness is gone and the truth of freedom at any cost hit me, it all good baby.

@philgardner3820

7 жыл бұрын

Viper4ever05 .

Listen to this guy. I married one of these girls and happened exactly what he said, only troubles.

@lawrencemalata1503

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah me too

@KerlyQ79

4 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, so did I.

This has been a most helpful video on the subject of toxic women for relationships. It has put my own past relationships into perspective and stuff that I have struggled with has been thoroughly explained in this guy's clip. Well done. I now realize that the last woman I was best friends/ romantic with that betrayed me in a really heartless way had daddy issues, felt like she needed to be saved, and had active drama with her exes over child support so she was all 3 types of women in one. I really should have known better lolz.

Even years ago you are helping men navigate...Thanks Rich 👊

Sometimes the people with the worst childhoods grow up to be the most wonderful, loving and caring people you will ever know, as in my case. There are exceptions to everything😊!!

@scoobyraw8544

5 жыл бұрын

Nobody wants to play roll the dice with sometimes and end up ruining your life

@winnerwolf9546

5 жыл бұрын

@@scoobyraw8544 women love rolling the dice since the state loads them ....

@efthimios

5 жыл бұрын

I think this is right -

@BorntobeWild.

5 жыл бұрын

I agree with Kelly. I grew up with a step dad that was abusive. It showed me what not to be and or do in a relationship. While I did marry young, I have been in a successful marriage for 15 years. We have one child and I value my husband a lot. I like that he is protective and that he is the head of our home. He is my first in command and I am his second. We are a team and we support each other. Did I have a bad relationship growing up with my step dad, yes. But what it also taught me was what type of guy to stay away from, and what not to do, as a woman, in any relationship I'm in. Sadly so many woman are selfish and hurt men by, for example, taking their kids away. These woman don't understand that they cannot replace a dad. They are hurting their own children in the worst of way. Relationship are 50-50. And I do believe how a woman relates to her father is extremely important, I also know that it's about the mind set. The maturity and a person's ability to recognize damaging behavior in their past, learn from it and make sure they don't repeat it.

@knote4958

5 жыл бұрын

There's always an exception to every rule, but the point here is that it's the exception and not the rule. Dating someone with childhood issues is like buying a car from a salvage auction, you never know if it's solid and stable or if there's a serious problem under the hood, waiting for the right trigger to unleash itself. As someone who also had a rough childhood, I can fairly say this

i've always felt that about the 'daddy issues' if a girl cant respect her father.. she will never respect a man. the father is the number 1 man in a womans life until she meets her husband. how she interacts with him is a good look into how she really views you

@DANFLIX98

4 жыл бұрын

TNOutdoorsGuy so true

Great advice!!

The value of this channel is off the charts.