I have always been modest with what I wear. I always get hit on because I’m attractive and not desperate. I’m healed and don’t need attention or validation from other people. 😊If he wants me he needs to be healed and have to balls to approach. I will not lower myself or make myself weak. That just shows he’s insecure. Insecure men are abusive.

@Nopenottoday2480

10 ай бұрын

Vary much my thinking ❤

@katlehophillips7041

9 ай бұрын

I wanna be like you when I grow up

@TheEmpress0000

8 ай бұрын

@@whonkwhonk2000 choose yourself. Heal, wine and dine yourself, be all things for yourself , raise your vibration, and you’ll attract the type of person you want

And yet men claim to be simple and not complicated 😂😂😂😂. This is the reason many women are choosing to be single. All these rules and games are too much to deal with! And even after following all these "rules" to accommodate them, they'll still find ways to disrespect you🤷🏾‍♀️. Being single is pure bliss!

@111176991

7 ай бұрын

ding ding ding, that's the right answer

You are the cutest most toxic coach out there! Am freeloading!!

@TheKeishana

10 ай бұрын

Yes he is.. FATHER ALEX

@teearrawright2549

10 ай бұрын

​@@TheKeishanalll

@brendarees9404

10 ай бұрын

Far from toxic. He hit a nerve in you. He tells the truth

@chillag8462

10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@shantellfox4472

10 ай бұрын

😂😂

Thanks for talking about the masculine feminine dance in Relationships. So important! If you are masculine as a women or feminine as a man in a relationship....you can throw the whole relationship right into Trash. Learned experience sadly

“If you don’t have any weakness… who the hell are you!?” 😂😂😂

The thirst trap pic always wins it’s true. Feed their desire and watch them come crawling!

Exactly, the dating world is a 100% unfair to women.

1) Thirst traps 🪤 (provocative pictures, words, flirtations, innuendos, sex appeal) 2) Being needed and feeling confident that they can fulfill the need - they bond and emotionally connect by being needed 3)Being nurturing - caring, kind, patient, attentive, being responsive to children, animals, elders 4) Ability to control and master your emotions 5) Femininity through relinquishing control and selectively submitting to promote mutual respect, understanding and growth

@nelleb6004

10 ай бұрын

Oh. Interesting.

@LadyJani

6 ай бұрын

Thank you❤

I tend to be super independent, but let me tell you, my weakness spills when I encounter a cat, I turn soft so quick even directing my speaking to the kitty as if I'm talking to a baby. We all have a weakness somewhere, dont be afraid to show it, Men too. I dont like men who act tough all the time, its a huge turn off.

About number two. I think women do need to be independent and be able to stand on their own. I think what you're trying to say is Men find it attractive when women are able to fall into their feminine energy when they are around a healthy masculine man. This means that a woman can let down her own masculine energy to become feminine around a man.

@victoriaswift193

10 ай бұрын

Amen to this. I have my own business and work part time as well. I have to do this temporarily for awhile and I am tired 😅. I will submit 💯 when I feel safe and loved.

@vibez8888

8 ай бұрын

Exactly, because idc what men say, in this world, most women CAN’T stop working!

@lotusphoenix8

8 ай бұрын

I agree with this.

This reminds me of a friend of mine years ago who said she left her husband thinking she was too dumb to even change a lightbulb.

Lol. Thirst trap? Men are so disappointing 😂😂😂 But, I’ll try that one if I come across a guy I actually like.

@danilaroche1156

10 ай бұрын

I realize men are visual but women posting sexy photos online is boring, gratuitous and common. I am considered very attractive. Men want to date me because I DON'T show alot of skin. I'm pretty modest. I have a nice figure and men appreciate that I'm not putting it all out there for the world to see. Yes, a man will desire you but will he marry you? I want marriage to the right man, at this juncture. Love you. Dalexis!

@PrissyLadyVenom

10 ай бұрын

@@danilaroche1156 That would depend on your definition of sexy… as there are many ways to be sexy and not raunchy. I’ve been happily married for over 10 years and widowed in 2020. I really don’t care about remarrying again. A friend/ companion is where my mindset is at right now. Ps: I’m also very attractive, and intend to flaunt what I have until I can’t do so anymore due to age… 🤷🏽‍♀️

I like a man whose healthy not so much muscular or a gym addict

@catstrawford

5 ай бұрын

Ugh I hate those gym addicts...

I like intelligent men that make me laugh then he becomes sexually attractive in my eyes

ok im halfway thru and this video is top tier!! super helpful

Being weak and being soft are two very different things. It's not about appearing more weak, it's about being a well rounded human being. No one likes one dimensional people, not men or women. It comes across as basic when you are in one mode ALL the time, whether that mode be soft or hard.

@QueenOfPrinciple

10 ай бұрын

When you're in or express different modes, some call it Bipolar Lol

@nightseertarot3337

10 ай бұрын

@joannehall9738 haha, depends on how fragmented you are, if your coming from unresolved trauma, then yeah.

@QueenOfPrinciple

10 ай бұрын

@@nightseertarot3337 Yes this is like a slippery slope LOL

@nightseertarot3337

10 ай бұрын

@joannehall9738 general rule, always resolve the trauma before communicating yourself so that you can be calm and confident. 😊😍👍

@QueenOfPrinciple

10 ай бұрын

Good Word! @@nightseertarot3337

Omg glad you came back up on my feed. Still making videos! 🎉

I love listening to your advice. Brilliant. Thank you

Great video Lex 🔥

I love your videos. I don’t miss even single video 😉. Your videos made me strong. Thank you so much.

I love the way you rock your hair

Father Alex, 😊🦋 met you in Washington Heights a month ago! It was such a pleasure to meet you in person. 🕷️

You’re changing my whole life! Thank you! ☺️

Very interesting....I love the intelligent reasoning....thanks man

I’m thankful for your content. I love your honest and candid opinions. ❤

Also, men equate softness with weakness. So it's not weakness you're talking about for women. it's it's being soft it's being feminine it's being comfortable in our own femininity and not the archetype, strong woman or strong black woman. Also, I think it also applies to men it's nice to see a guy not be so hard all the time

@leth4_ul

10 ай бұрын

Definitely

@QueenOfPrinciple

10 ай бұрын

I've found that I've allowed my tougher side now to be more prominent while around men I like because I am naturally such a loving and energetic person I don't want to come across as weak. You know: show it early, so they know I don't play. I AM NOT THE ONE or the 2. Lol BUT, now I come across rough!!

@jaleahs3214

10 ай бұрын

⁠it should be the other way round ❤

@TheEmpress0000

10 ай бұрын

Exactly. We have both so when they are in balance it’s a safe space for you and your partner.

My #1 coach

the content is 🔥🔥🔥

thirst traps only attract men worse than dogs and if thats what ur looking for then do it but i dont post any and i get quality guys

@jennv1376

10 ай бұрын

Agreed

"Now.. Don't get mad at me - I did not make people." 😂

@soulclarity01

9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

Thank you for explaining this. It was absolutely necessary for women to hear I feel, because yes most have turned into terminator mode unfortunately. 🙏🏼🧡

It's attractive to see a sexy dad pushing a stroller

@uunnoov

10 ай бұрын

Seeing a mans unconscious femininity coming through their personality is truly sexy

@steph6109

10 ай бұрын

Or the chest baby carriers. Good dads are needed

@ShainaTown514

10 ай бұрын

It’s even more attractive a man who is a provider .

I absolutely love the format of your videos. The cuts that go into you pondering the vocal audio breakdowns. This is what has drawn me to your videos. Love it.

Ladies were not born in the social media era 😉

Alex! Love ur videos. Can you do videos on how women can get men to do whatever they want investment/business wise? (Not relationship)

may god bles u .. u r best dating coach

Best advice

Alex, I’m sending love from Nola⚜️👋🏾

This is exactly the content i hope for when i watch dating coaches. This may be your best one yet. Whose book is thid?

thirst traps? most men will fall for it? I doubt it - thanks for sharing - you're fun to listen to -

Great thumbnail

Hey Alex

9:50 that cracked me up lmfao

What was the video about vibes, I'd love to listen to the whole video of that.

Ught this is hard I felt for someone in England I’m from Florida lol

@ljhall1696

10 ай бұрын

I’m in England and fell for a guy in Florida 😂

I find you a hunk!❤❤❤❤

Don't get mad at me, I ain't programmer I did not create man and woman had me cracked 😂

Being needy is bad behavior but men need to feel needed 🤔 💔

Which audiobook is it in the video?

You attraction mindset though have the whole package having a cheeky side to u is cute

Women have been disappointed many times by needing ppl who never ever came threw so they had to put their self in a position where they don't need anyone, like Uma make it with or without you but I still need you.

Why so many games to get a man... really this is tiring ...

@user-cp5yi8cr5w

10 ай бұрын

Girlll preach…Too much game playing

@EbbyGerl

10 ай бұрын

I agree. It is no wonder relationships keep falling apart. There is too much pretense, acting and games trying to get the person to want you.

@queenlii4334

10 ай бұрын

Don’t do it then, it’s not for everyone, my head hurts because people like the fake me ,in this world if u are not fake / narcissistic nobody will want u unfortunately , that’s what I think

@superwoman7397

9 ай бұрын

Not worth it.. if we have to play games.

Dalexisp 💕

@boogienights418

2 ай бұрын

🥰

For everytime you say:” that’s just the way it is”. Where do you think behaviors come from…? And what will the future be like for us and future generation….?

What audio is this that you’re referencing? A book?

@BLISSOFFICAL

9 ай бұрын

It's from the 48 laws of power by Robert Greene

this advice makes no sense they still cheat even if u do all this tbh GET THE BAG do not let these guys make u weak bc they will still cheat and u will have nothing

@anonymousb430

10 ай бұрын

Then you find the richest

@auralionasol2205

10 ай бұрын

@@anonymousb430 u gotta be ok with em cheating then so sprinkle sprinkle

@jaleahs3214

10 ай бұрын

@@auralionasol2205😂

What audio book is that?

@madeline7969

10 ай бұрын

Power by Robert Greene

Direct me to the Robot voice 🤖

❤❤❤

Hola. I speak in tongues. The Lord says that He is waiting. He says that He needs your tongue and your good looks and your accent and your yes for the good of many men and women. My name is Esther, but I am not the one, and I tell you to keep me secret. And not to reply to me here.

🌹🌹🌹

❤❤❤❤❤

❤

Alex you’re like a cute JayZ 😏

What book is this?

What do you mean by third strap?

@datb555

10 ай бұрын

thirst traps!!! 😂😂 even guys do that, when they do the videos showing abs veins etc

😹😹 fake the weakness of anything. Who are you? Omg your too cute!

It’s DHAMMA not DHARMA!!!! He is LYING!!!!

@MindfulAttraction2.0

10 ай бұрын

Omg you're right

@Christie-EnergyHealing

10 ай бұрын

Dang calm down!

@jaleahs3214

10 ай бұрын

@@MindfulAttraction2.0😂😂😂😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️

Lololol❤❤❤❤

:)

7:36 I love a really big man, but not muscley 🤷🏼‍♀️ naturally large like broad shoulders, thick sturdy legs. The grossest is the body builders with bulging veins 🤮

@aeiou0123

10 ай бұрын

Lolol same here.

How do I find you on Instagram? I'm a young singlemom. :)