Guys Behavior After Breakup | Signs He Is Hurting After The Breakup

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Guys Behavior After Breakup | Signs He Is Hurting After The Breakup
How do you read guys behavior after breakup? What are the sings he's hurting after the breakup?
Alexandre Cormont answers how to know if he is hurt after the breakup and how to read guys behavior after breakup.
Sign No. 1 - a guy will feel hurt after a breakup when he doesn't want to talk to you. When men are angry they don't want to talk to anyone, not even you, his friends or his family. If a man doesn't want to talk, you should leave him alone because that means he is hurt by your situation.
Sign No. 2 - one aspect of guys behavior after breakup and a sign he is hurting is that he will try to rub in your face what you have just lost. He will change his picture online, go out even more with his friends, start drinking or smoking, and simply act out. Don't be scared in this situation. It's only temporary and not a long term solution. He's just trying to prove his independence and his manhood.
Take your time here. It's not easy to see your ex boyfriend or ex husband going out, talking to women. But your goal is to take your time to ensure that you can rebuild a strong connection and re-attract him. His acting out is only a sign that he is hurting after the breakup and common for guys behavior after breakup.
Sign No. 3 - He will complain about your behavior all the time. He will talk badly about the relationship and about you. He might also talk badly about you to family and friends. But this is just because he is hurt and trying to divert the attention onto himself. It's not bad, even though it hurts. It's good because he is letting it all out, so let him lash out, as long as you can take it! Because ponce he's done lashing out, you can work on getting your ex boyfriend back.
If your ex boyfriend is still hurting after the break up, it means he loves you. There is still love there, but it is surrounded by pain and hurt. Let him break through it so that you can reach this love. But, take your time.
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  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity4 жыл бұрын

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  • @carmenrincones3379

    @carmenrincones3379

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @hejmonika2942
    @hejmonika29424 жыл бұрын

    When he said “To get him back, take our time. We need to do the right actions at the right time.” That hit me so hard. Im too impatient.

  • @queenshipwomen8039

    @queenshipwomen8039

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, so am I.

  • @thereseanderson2512

    @thereseanderson2512

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know. If you look at the guy's perspective, it might be easier. If the guy was hurt, then of course we don't wanna be hasty and hurt him even more. We wanna do the right thing for ourselves and for him.

  • @traceyc306

    @traceyc306

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m impatient as well.. he’s not talking to others about US that I know of. He’s a workaholic n stays to himself. So not sure if he’s hurt by our breakup! All I know is a asked him about a letter I wrote him that explained my feeling. And he said he was keeping bc I wrote it.. so, to me that is the only link he has left of me. And that’s the only thing that I can tell that he’s upset about our breakup!

  • @skemunto7649
    @skemunto76495 жыл бұрын

    My ex is definitely hurting,, things didn't work out and he opted to end it , I wish him healing regardless

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    5 жыл бұрын

    That is very mature of you :) - Alex Cormont

  • @xoxo2072

    @xoxo2072

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thee spence how do you know he is hurting. I’m in the same situation

  • @xScarlingx

    @xScarlingx

    4 жыл бұрын

    Awww💕

  • @sweetdua4115

    @sweetdua4115

    4 жыл бұрын

    I could extremely relate u,me and my ex had a very good love story but his parents cant accept me,so we end up in breakup!so frustrating!

  • @sierria64

    @sierria64

    4 жыл бұрын

    Okay let me break it down to you ..I am a nurse and I had an affair with the doctor who was living with someone else I decided that this relationship was no longer healthy for me so instead of me being a typical woman and cussing him out I broke it off very nicely and told him that I wanted to move on and that I wasn't getting any younger and I had to be realistic about everything I told him I hope that he found someone that can treat him the way he need to be treated ,I told him I hope you find someone that can make him happy..I know he only treated me like a booty call I didn't feel the need when I decide to move on to make that into an argument and tell him everything he wasn't doing for me because I understood he knew damn well what he wasn't doing for me. I realize it was my fault . because I liked him and allowed the situation. I just decided to break away and move on.this man started calling my home he decided one day to call me at 7 at night and started asking me about my new man my life he asked me did I love the new guy and how was he different from him. I told him at the moment he's (the new guy) is very nice guy he told me can I consider him if it doesn't work out this man was living with somebody else and I was nothing but his booty call so he was having an affair me and treated me taking me for granted. he had the audacity to tell me if it didn't work out could I consider him I just listen to I shook my head on the phone.. he kept calling me asking me can I take you out to dinner he kept calling over and over and over and over again I told him I wanted to concentrate on this new relationship and I felt that it was unhealthy to continue interacting with him.he started telling me that he cared for me more than what he realized and he didn't want me to go he said he loved me and he did not realize it until I left.. seems getting in the other relationship made him want to hold on..he told me to please just hold on...I will spend more time with you..etc.. he was a general surgeon I believe his ego was bruise that I walked away. and after I made it clear that I no longer wanted to be with him or interact with him he called me again one night and told me very sincerely nobody's ever told me the way I told him he said nobody's ever did told him so stern and yet so consideritly...i guess he knew he was taking me for granted..I guess I made him feel very small I guess I made him feel very guilty because I was very nice about it I was very humble about it when I walked away I felt there was no need to tell him what he was not doing when he already knew what he was not doing there was no need to tell him about this relationship is not anything cuz he knew he didn't value me in the relationship so when I walked away the only thing was he was expecting that that's what made him feel guilty .he knew he deserved to be cusssed out I did not

  • @killwaine
    @killwaine4 жыл бұрын

    A narcissistic guy will also gaslight you after the breakup.

  • @SaraX2024
    @SaraX20245 жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately, that doesn't apply to a narcissistically disordered person with whom you broke up while you were still so deeply in love with him/her - the person who escaped is so much more in pain, as their love was genuine. They act hurt and run a smear campaign, being in denial of what they have done, yet, because their hurt looks so 'real' as they act their part, everyone else will think the real victim is the bad guy. Someone told me that my ex seemed 'disappointed' after I escaped him... for some, he may have looked like a real heart-broken person, who told others, I left him, because I wasn't ready for a relationship. We need to listen closely to find out the truth. People who listen to a narcissist's sob story may try to convince a victim to get together again, which restarts the cycle of abuse.

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hey Sarah Z, each situation is unique, and "narcissists" are something else altogether. Not every relationship is going to fit the mold of the situations we talk about. But we're happy you were able to leave a relationship that wasn't making you happy - Coach Adrian

  • @pamelalawhon3536

    @pamelalawhon3536

    5 жыл бұрын

    ALL TRUE. I keep telling myself “I am hurting, I feel like I am dying and yet he willfully harmed me verbally and emotionally. I am the victim here”. I know I will kick myself one day for every tear I shed over this SOB, but I gave it all I had and I loved him, dammit. I am the one that’s normal, these are normal emotions. How else he’s acting has to do with control & manipulation, of his own beliefs or those of his flying monkeys. Oscar worthy role in the victim category.

  • @antoinettegorman8833

    @antoinettegorman8833

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@pamelalawhon3536 yes so it's a tin line people in love have feelings .people who proclaim they love you Don't verbally and emotionally abuse you .That's not love that's abuse. You are blessed you got away from that creep. Xx

  • @laura-yv4xg

    @laura-yv4xg

    4 жыл бұрын

    I could have written that about my ex a true narcissist. My ex told me he was going to the DR for a visa for his mom made no sense that's because he was in Cancun Mexico having a fling. The dope brought me a bottle of tequila from Mexico with the receipt still in the bag with his name, date and location. Broke up with him the next day.

  • @oneaccountannon499

    @oneaccountannon499

    4 жыл бұрын

    Has he tried to contact you? Same thing from mine.

  • @queenofthorns4053
    @queenofthorns40534 жыл бұрын

    When we were together he was contemplating on getting a new motorcycle. We broke up and he went out and bought one. Good for him I want him to be happy.

  • @judithlopez8796
    @judithlopez87965 жыл бұрын

    Why does -anybody-have to *tolerate* an abusive/narcissist man like that?? 😑 -Nobody- should be "waiting" on a man that behaves like that ***YOU ARE WORTH SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT***

  • @lonni-lynnlerille8342
    @lonni-lynnlerille83424 жыл бұрын

    My ex broke up with me after a year for pretty much no reason and is now talking bad about me and can’t keep my name out his mouth. Love that

  • @iluvshopping601

    @iluvshopping601

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lonni-Lynn Lerille me too dude

  • @sherrylfaith1374
    @sherrylfaith13743 жыл бұрын

    Yaay...! He's hurting real bad...he changed his profile picture on whatsapp!!!am glad he's hurting...this is the first time am smiling after my breakup 2/1/21

  • @fancyfacequintonjayden6335
    @fancyfacequintonjayden63354 жыл бұрын

    How do you know he is back to love you truthfully or he is back to use you after a break up?

  • @bumbabums-

    @bumbabums-

    3 жыл бұрын

    Great question

  • @nayanitasaha6453

    @nayanitasaha6453

    2 жыл бұрын

    Actually the same qus I also want to ask..

  • @Miniflower25

    @Miniflower25

    2 жыл бұрын

    I to have the same question.

  • @brabeegoma4460

    @brabeegoma4460

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great question

  • @queenshipwomen8039

    @queenshipwomen8039

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!

  • @stephc2664
    @stephc26644 жыл бұрын

    This perfectly describes my ex. Good to know hes hurting😏😏

  • @CalineBRUNO

    @CalineBRUNO

    Жыл бұрын

    😮

  • @robicelus

    @robicelus

    11 ай бұрын

    @stephcardona9808 probably he just moved on and replaced you. which he should.

  • @michellerichardson3090
    @michellerichardson30903 жыл бұрын

    I love when they say dont talk to me but yet have to find a way to tell you they dont want to talk to you. Like you start and I'll follow.

  • @isabellahastie573
    @isabellahastie5733 жыл бұрын

    This is literally everything that hes been showing lately. Thank you!

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad the video was helpful, Isabella. Thank you for watching. Coach Alex

  • @harmonicsoul8388
    @harmonicsoul83884 жыл бұрын

    He does these signs but is on & off with communication. I feel bitterness in conversations and he was the one who finished with me!

  • @natashaxnichole
    @natashaxnichole5 жыл бұрын

    Oh he’s doing all this.

  • @fasiahmedkhan9837
    @fasiahmedkhan98374 жыл бұрын

    If I'm hurt with a break up, you'd probably see me taking alcohol 24/7. Because breakups are one of the worstest things that happen to humans on the planet.

  • @vandanaramrochantewari9385
    @vandanaramrochantewari93854 жыл бұрын

    You're the BEST ALEX,.. with your wonderful team. Every word of you is the TRUTH of the real mind thinking and the control of it to gain selfrespect. Thank you so much from the bottum of my heart. In every proces you've guided me till so far to have selfrespect and to heal my inner pain. I keep following you from Amsterdam, the Netherlands. Every high class beautiful woman loves you in our beautiful world. Keep shining and smiling! All my respect for you!

  • @savaumid9048
    @savaumid90485 жыл бұрын

    Really helped ! You Made my day coach Alex ❤️

  • @judithlopez8796

    @judithlopez8796

    5 жыл бұрын

    You deserve better!!! Please don't wait and waist your life on someone like that... You are much more valuable to tolerate those egocentric behaviors from a person There are much more better people or there, trust me Not *all* men are like that

  • @bgirl1478
    @bgirl14785 жыл бұрын

    This Man is adorable.

  • @Paarthurnaxdova
    @Paarthurnaxdova2 жыл бұрын

    This coach is soothing by day and makes people “disappear” at night who owes him money.

  • @nikkik3263
    @nikkik32635 жыл бұрын

    It can't work if he goes to his parents talking crap about me

  • @inaric2441
    @inaric24414 жыл бұрын

    How will we know if we have never seen him ever again after the breakup👁️

  • @pandisionesamartinez2958
    @pandisionesamartinez29583 жыл бұрын

    It feels like he is describing my emotions after my breakup 😂

  • @georgestephens

    @georgestephens

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts rt now I’m in this situation and the first thing I did was run to the lq store drinking like a whale smoking cigarettes than on day I watch affrimation videos and it stopped now I feel good and Ik my lover is coming back

  • @xScarlingx
    @xScarlingx4 жыл бұрын

    My bf doesnt wanna speak to me at all ...I know its because he doesn’t want us to break up. He’s being irrational - we’ll be back together soon. I give it a week. Mark my words.

  • @wiam7575
    @wiam75755 жыл бұрын

    Who is single yet he is here becuz of his hot french accent😍😂

  • @at5286

    @at5286

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wiam 7 🤣

  • @elaineroyal2785

    @elaineroyal2785

    5 жыл бұрын

  • @How.Dare.You.
    @How.Dare.You.2 жыл бұрын

    "You should not be scared" 😂 so cute

  • @lisafuentes38
    @lisafuentes385 жыл бұрын

    I just found my newest relationship coach! I love accents, and I know it's dumb but I paid attention and learned from this man. Thank you, my heart got broken and I needed help getting through it!

  • @neressakotas4396

    @neressakotas4396

    Жыл бұрын

    I know just how you feel we have broken up and I am in pieces. I know know how he is feeling as he was the one who left

  • @mahabeer-lo6dz
    @mahabeer-lo6dzАй бұрын

    You answered my questions so well. God bless.

  • @mantoasephiri4792
    @mantoasephiri47924 жыл бұрын

    That's true.... I agree with you, my man was doing like that smoking, drinking not understanding her

  • @tylervilbert5071
    @tylervilbert50714 жыл бұрын

    My ex gf initially broke up with me. It was mutual at first bc neither of us were happy and I quit courting her she lost attraction I lost attraction. But she initiated the breakup and it instantly crushed me. But I didn’t know if it was just my pride that was hurt or if I was truly heartbroken. But yes I was hurting. And it hurt for a while. I have broken hearts and I have had mine broken. A genuine guy will heart no matter who broke up with who. Hope this helps.

  • @KAHHHH8548
    @KAHHHH85483 жыл бұрын

    I think this is a really good and important video and says a lot of truths. I think men really do need to be alone when they're upset and also when they're hurt

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your feedback, Phantom. Hope the video was helpful for you! Coach Alex

  • @vee.mellow2175

    @vee.mellow2175

    4 ай бұрын

    So will he come back? I left him for cheating on me

  • @daisyroots8926
    @daisyroots89265 жыл бұрын

    What a voice.... your accent is wonderful xxx

  • @orionniles133
    @orionniles133 Жыл бұрын

    My best friend is way better than the woman i married and later divorced. My best friend loves me so much that she kept my last name. We went almost two years without really speaking, and it definitely hurt.. That was years ago. It was all worth it! I'm good at being her best friend, better than I was as her husband. I'm proud of the people we became. Proud of our ability to conquer pain. Lean into the pain, and let go of expectations. Forget about time, pain makes seconds into eternity. Right now, just breath.

  • @lolitabb88
    @lolitabb884 жыл бұрын

    Omg, all things you sad is what I am doing...so just made me realize that I am hurting :(

  • @cosmof.4652
    @cosmof.46525 жыл бұрын

    My ex ended it with me saying he sees me as a friend and after 3 years. And he kept saying during the break up ‘let’s stay friends” and I said no, and told him “I need to heal because I still love you”. Then 3 days later he blocks me on every social media... lmaooo.

  • @beatriceakinyi8084
    @beatriceakinyi80844 жыл бұрын

    You are a good teacher, thanks 👍

  • @Nadia-mx3ux
    @Nadia-mx3ux5 жыл бұрын

    Salut Alex. Tres bonne video. Enfin qq1 pour nous dire la vérité. Merci 🌻

  • @sophenphath7158
    @sophenphath71585 жыл бұрын

    He silent, he happy with his friends, he unfriend me on FB so I think he not hurt,

  • @EMPERORDEATX

    @EMPERORDEATX

    5 жыл бұрын

    so arrogant.

  • @chelseagallegos5462

    @chelseagallegos5462

    5 жыл бұрын

    He definitely is hurt if he unfriended you and he is hanging out with his friends as a distraction

  • @dianemartin2904

    @dianemartin2904

    5 жыл бұрын

    sophen phath yes he blocked me on Facebook

  • @dianemartin2904

    @dianemartin2904

    5 жыл бұрын

    sophen phath he moved on quickly I haven’t

  • @mandykaur2543

    @mandykaur2543

    4 жыл бұрын

    Let the time come. All his true friends will show him true colours. And you will not be there for him anymore

  • @aliciaphillips6219
    @aliciaphillips62194 жыл бұрын

    I'm done dating!

  • @aisiseponder4393
    @aisiseponder43934 жыл бұрын

    GREAT VIDEO VERY SPECIFIC

  • @kimberly0244579
    @kimberly02445793 жыл бұрын

    this give me small hope i didn’t give him much attention but he still cares about me better myself and he better himself for him i’m proud of him for that but i regret breaking up i hope when some time passes by he will take me back expect i’ll better version of myself :)

  • @mireyaluna9073
    @mireyaluna90735 жыл бұрын

    Cool!! Your videos help me understand things in like a month more than others did in two years. I will continue watching them. My ex is obviously hurt, he probably doesn't love me, but he is pretty hurt. Still I will leave him alone and better give him time to heal his wounds. Thank you for all the advice. By the way I like your accent where are you from? If it's not too disrespectful to ask :)

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hi Mina Lucina, thank you for sharing your story. Stay strong and be patient. And I am from France :) - Alex Cormont

  • @mireyaluna9073

    @mireyaluna9073

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Thank you for your videos, they're very interesting, I like them. This channel it's pretty good! And from France, cool! Your accent sounds really nice, I like it :)

  • @lokinggoodbrowneyegirl9557
    @lokinggoodbrowneyegirl95574 жыл бұрын

    He's not hurting about a break up he's hurting about his wife. No thoughts if you in mind at all

  • @sussegemsmean7064
    @sussegemsmean70644 жыл бұрын

    Very nice short tips Thank you very help full.

  • @SunShine-ou3dl
    @SunShine-ou3dl5 жыл бұрын

    After spending beautiful 2 years together . I broke up 3months ago . After few hours he changed his Instagram picture with a sad quote and it’s still their ..

  • @Notyourmama487
    @Notyourmama4874 жыл бұрын

    My ex is now in a relationship about a month after the break up. He reached out few weeks after no contact and suddenly became made when he found out I have moved on.

  • @chrisgardiner2215
    @chrisgardiner22154 жыл бұрын

    I know one of the signs I was telegraphing,, that no one picked up on was a drug fueled downward spiral.. I mean the undertaker was following me around with a tape measure... my own fault.. Thank the God of Abraham for not giving up on me. Today I love God and His Son Jesus. That is who I want a relationship with.

  • @Emi10673
    @Emi106734 жыл бұрын

    Great videos. Thank you 👍👍

  • @nayanaramesh1252
    @nayanaramesh12524 жыл бұрын

    I agree 👍 with you Mr. Alex.

  • @MsCLT20
    @MsCLT205 жыл бұрын

    My ex blocked me after 6 months of no contact. Neither of us reached out to each other. He really hurt me as I found out he was cheating and that's how the relationship ended but he completely lied and denied having done anything when i confronted him. He actually got the other girl pregnant and I have never felt so much hurt in my life. No apology or anything and I have heard through his friends that he begged her to have an abortion. Why would he wait that long to block me?

  • @LLKarla

    @LLKarla

    5 жыл бұрын

    It doesn't matter he's an asshole

  • @picassoronal300

    @picassoronal300

    5 жыл бұрын

    Guilt and incase you contact him and say ....I told you so ..or hes a pussy that doesn't have the balls to be honest and accept his faults ..cos then he will have to be responsible and with responsibility comes alot of hard work like being loyal and honest etc

  • @leimond1306
    @leimond13065 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much coach Alex for the help. God bless you❤️

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung29393 жыл бұрын

    Good video. Thanks for sharing. 😊😊😊

  • @user-co9hi9ri5z
    @user-co9hi9ri5z5 жыл бұрын

    I know my ex is hurting, I've done some mistakes and broke his trust.. But I love him and I really want to be with him.. I am willing to be patient, currently working on bettering my self, while giving him time and space to heal.. I hope one day I can make him happy again

  • @Omnitrix8
    @Omnitrix84 жыл бұрын

    Sign number 6. He goes and watches these videos

  • @chucalissa9231
    @chucalissa92315 жыл бұрын

    I cant afford the price for coaching " maybe one day"..love this video alex...Hr doesnt talk to me..just read my text and listen" to my voicemails.WIERD BEHAVIOR"..But oh well / no CONTACT" will work"

  • @salazargameing2712
    @salazargameing27123 жыл бұрын

    Very much working for free you made such a great video

  • @pbsalyid5323
    @pbsalyid53233 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Going thru what I’m going thru now, U tips do help

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    3 жыл бұрын

    Happy to hear the video was helpful for you. Thank you for watching. Coach Alex

  • @sexyladyakb
    @sexyladyakb4 жыл бұрын

    God I love your accent / I’m going through this too I just left him alone it’s been 3 weeks / he still complains to my aunt about me 🤣

  • @johannasemfalhas5386
    @johannasemfalhas53864 жыл бұрын

    I don't know if i am as interested in my ex's feelings or you and your sexy accent.

  • @feanorlawless3891
    @feanorlawless38913 жыл бұрын

    he is in fact hurt, but people around me tell me that he didn't love me enough... we've been through a very tough time, he said a couple of things and I just got hurt and let him know that I don't feel comfortable, but I still love him :(

  • @rainiematuan5036
    @rainiematuan50365 жыл бұрын

    absolutely true 🤗

  • @georgemar1668
    @georgemar16684 жыл бұрын

    After 8 yr relation - he breakup with me - for past 8 mo. He did all theses 3 and he changed his numbers 😭

  • @mariellenik3597
    @mariellenik35975 жыл бұрын

    Oh my God this explains my husbands crazy behaviours he has done since we separated in February. He started to go on dating sites online, behaving very boyish and then he started smoking again after he been off for 3 years. He was really sick for almost 1 year after he stopped smoking so it really confused me why he started again. Thanks for this share. I love all your videos cuz they give u so good advises and hope to get back with my husband again.

  • @trueblue37

    @trueblue37

    5 жыл бұрын

    My girlfriend broke up with me in Dec and I did the same sort of thing. We were together for 5 year but she was very controlling and sometimes abusive. She calmed down but I was depressed and stopped showing her love. I felt less of a man because of the way she treated me. She broke up with me ironically. She wanted me back in Jan but I still felt like we needed time. I was still numb but I could tell she was hurting. Eventually around March it all hit me. I was in so much emotional pain. But I kept my cool and posted a few happy pics on social media. I feel like she never saw this as me hurting though. She was probably pissed off that I was happy without her. She must have met somone around april and excelated quicly into a relationship with him because she deleted me and put a display picture up of then two. It literally killed me, but in a way I feel sorry for the guy.

  • @naomychepkorir2404

    @naomychepkorir2404

    Жыл бұрын

    @@trueblue37 😪😪sorry

  • @manishamakvana1199
    @manishamakvana11995 жыл бұрын

    Superb explanation

  • @madisonnedvecki6102
    @madisonnedvecki61025 жыл бұрын

    I’ve applied a lot of the things you teach and things are stating to work... he has made the last 8 moves... sending me messages on insta after watching my story while I was on a road trip... he told me to be safe, etc. (; he’s grabbed me and hugged me to tight and held it for a long time... I was going away somewhere for two days and he told me to be safe and to let him know when I was back and that he’d be thinking about me.. I let him know the next day that I was finally about to leave somewhere and I wouldn’t have my phone. I ended it with telling him I am nervous... and I put my phone in my car and left for two days.. when I came back, I had a message from him telling me “it’s okay to be nervous.. etc.. be safe. I love you.” I hadn’t responded for two days and my phone is also broken so I just call and let him know that I just received his message, I can’t text him back and I’m on my way to get a new phone... etc.. he seems kinda down... maybe hurt that I didn’t respond to him FINALLY making that move to tell me he loves me again.. so once I got a new phone. I texted him.. thanking him for his messages and that he’s sweet and I love him too.... this is such a tipping point... but it’s been all day since I’ve messaged him back that I love him and he hasn’t said anything.... I feel like there’s not a lot of videos that take it from this point forward. I’d love for you to make a video about this ♥️ Updated... after not responding to that... later at 1am, he starts screen shotting messages on Snapchat and then messages me saying sorry if it’s notifying you... and then snaps another screen shot.. lol. So I responded asking him what he was screen shotting and he responds saying it’s some pics... I’m like “I’ll have to go look now” he says “I’m okay with that, hahaha” and sends another one right after saying “it was some sexy pics and another one from our hot spring trip”...... later after a few more messages he says “ I'm still super tired, I'm going to try to sleep again. I'm glad you're home and safe. I thought about you the whole time. Anyways, I'll talk to you soon. Goodnight, sweet dreams.” I respond with “Sam you’ve said some really sweet things and have given me quite the hugs... I really hope you’re not trying to play with my heart and try to string me along or something... and that your intentions are pure... thank you for keeping me in your thoughts and letting me know that you’re glad I’m safe. 💕 talk to you soon. Goodnight🌙” Thank you SO much for all of your videos. You’ve really helped me SO much! Btw... it’s going on two months since the actual breakup and at first, I was doing that whole grasping, begging, etc... quickly found you guys and have been watching every day.. I’ve stepped back and stopped reaching out and applied no contact that way... but he’s very emotional and so when he has reached out, I haven’t been too cold or not responded... but I’ve definitely pulled back and that’s when he’s started to come forward... he’s made the past 9 moves now in a row throughout a two week period... I’ve responded but still not chased him by any means

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hey Madison, good job thus far! Keep it up. Avoid saying things like "I really hope you’re not trying to play with my heart and try to string me along or something... and that your intentions are pure..." That should go without saying. You don't want to disrupt the "flow" of "good vibes" between you two with "warnings" or admonishments - Coach Adrian

  • @aphlinerayne9211
    @aphlinerayne92115 жыл бұрын

    Mine is even trying to date my friends,,, so wicked

  • @simplymazada2157

    @simplymazada2157

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aphline Rayne Are they really your friends if they’re chatting to your ex 🤨

  • @judithmcdaniel7343
    @judithmcdaniel73434 жыл бұрын

    Your voice/accent sounds so soothing~~~ I❤It

  • @staceyayub647
    @staceyayub6472 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much this truely helped me

  • @michellefiery739
    @michellefiery7394 жыл бұрын

    You're amazing!

  • @sophiala291
    @sophiala2914 жыл бұрын

    Oh My Gosh!! He still loves me?? OMG he shows all these things gosh!!

  • @How.Dare.You.

    @How.Dare.You.

    2 жыл бұрын

    Did you get back?

  • @canethamoore6442
    @canethamoore64425 жыл бұрын

    Well I think it's completely over. He's moved on into a new relationship although he did come crying asking for forgiveness. But for me once I realized he got in another relationship -- all bets were off.

  • @aishahums8414
    @aishahums84144 жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend just Brok up with me.. it's like 12days now. I feel so hurt because I CTL wanted him..buh I'll let God Tek the wheel!!

  • @AMIR-yc1pc
    @AMIR-yc1pc4 жыл бұрын

    Thats so true as a man i am througing all this experience

  • @erinmartin0717
    @erinmartin07174 жыл бұрын

    I know my ex was really hurting after the breakup, but he still pushed me away and told me he was done. Did he do that to protect himself and his feelings?

  • @amjessy3236
    @amjessy32365 жыл бұрын

    Everything you said is so right.. He's doing everything you said.. But my issue here is that he deleted our picture on Facebook

  • @thejasenuobelho1393

    @thejasenuobelho1393

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mine too and even deleted our comments

  • @lindalopera1084
    @lindalopera10843 жыл бұрын

    Good morning Alex i like your advice Thank you 😇🌷

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're welcome. Thank you for watching! Coach Alex

  • @faithcharity9564
    @faithcharity95644 жыл бұрын

    My husband and I are not living together for quite a while, we haven't moved on yet. Recently, after three years of his silence, he contacted me, but I'm really annoyed by his behavior, that I couldn't understand. We talk about our children and future, then he disappears and it annoys me a lot, so I'm on a NO CONTACT RULE on him. I would like to try this because he really thinks I will chase him. I'm watching a lot of your videos and learning from it, most especially, applying them practically in my situation. Thanks Alex. 👍👏👏👏

  • @checathy7104
    @checathy71043 жыл бұрын

    I've really messed up.I kept telling my bf that its over everytime we had an argument but he asked me to stopped but I couldn't listen now I did the same thing again. Now he breakup with me .but I truly love him .I still want him back and I will change for the best .

  • @giaunique7806

    @giaunique7806

    3 жыл бұрын

    The same thing happened 2 me

  • @jjfn9255
    @jjfn92554 жыл бұрын

    He is always out with his friends and chatted many girls just right after we broke up so it means he didn't even love me. Lol.

  • @trinitylimjiani5323

    @trinitylimjiani5323

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @maryjaneandrade6761
    @maryjaneandrade67613 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😭

  • @cathrinapaulatamayo8728
    @cathrinapaulatamayo87285 жыл бұрын

    He told my dad that we can be friends at least because my dad looked for me yesterday, I took myself on a vacation but I am just alone. But he does all these signs. He called me and looked as well for me. He even said to me that we just need to do or settle our priorities first which is our studies.

  • @sweetwa089
    @sweetwa0894 жыл бұрын

    After a breakup, he tries conversating through text knowing i will call. Now we're married.

  • @alliejaw1
    @alliejaw13 жыл бұрын

    Married five yesrs. After a few years I felt him different towards me. I was ten years older. He moved out and divorced me. He brought me the papers to sign. I gave me no fight . I knew he was moving on. He wanted a wife from his cultural back round. After signing he told me her name and was marrying shortly. I had no reason to beg his life was moving on quickly.

  • @TheAishaAsif
    @TheAishaAsif4 жыл бұрын

    hi, i have been watching your videos since 2018 and learned so much. my guy was cold in 2018 till i finally did the NO contact...after 2 months he called and we got back together. its been great after that however this year with the pandemic and job issues etc. we had an argument and he hung up on me. he hasnt called since. its been 3 weeks. however from the day he hung up i went into radio silence and no contact. i disconnected myself from social media completely to avoid FOMO anxiety and although it was tough...its become easy and now i dont even care about going online. but i did notice that he changed his pictures on all his social apps...yes it surprised me but i felt he was doing it to trigger some reaction from me since i wasnt posting anything. it is difficult but somehow i managed till now not to make the first move. oh and by the way because of the pandemic am stuck here in India and he lives in Dubai. so there is alot of physical distance between us as well. Need your opinion...Thanks

  • @qudsiabano6460
    @qudsiabano64604 жыл бұрын

    Love this channel

  • @BUTTA408_
    @BUTTA408_4 жыл бұрын

    1. He doesn't want to talk to you. 2. A man will try to show you what your missing. Talking to other women. 3. When he is complaining and talking to people. He still love you.

  • @elizabethgirinde8956

    @elizabethgirinde8956

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for summarising 🙏🏼💯

  • @isabellebrasher6530
    @isabellebrasher65305 жыл бұрын

    He doesn’t look like he’s hurting. He has more pictures posted in different places and he’s smiling. He looks like he’s doing just fine. Men! 🤦🏻‍♀️💆🏻‍♀️😞

  • @simplymazada2157

    @simplymazada2157

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jordanne Brasher perception.. you dont know what he’s going through inside 🙂

  • @chelseagallegos5462

    @chelseagallegos5462

    5 жыл бұрын

    This is a guys way of distracting he is sad and he’s doing it to get to you

  • @Genesis_361

    @Genesis_361

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jordanne Brasher when I do that and I post pics but not for him ...he slowly starts to appear back into mine

  • @aniaczepek8515
    @aniaczepek85154 жыл бұрын

    Definitely true regarding changing profile picture. 10 min after breakup he changed his WhatsApp picture :)

  • @carissajae2410
    @carissajae24102 ай бұрын

    Thank you, I needed this

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    2 ай бұрын

    You're so welcome!

  • @moonl7523
    @moonl75235 жыл бұрын

    This is exactly me and my ex. I felt terrible I hurt him badly although I was the one being dumped. We still love each other.

  • @janinevelasco8437

    @janinevelasco8437

    4 жыл бұрын

    any update?

  • @mamitasg1980
    @mamitasg19804 жыл бұрын

    I think no, coz he is the one who want to stop....unreal person don't have feelings....

  • @MUZLIM1234
    @MUZLIM12343 жыл бұрын

    I’m watching this and smiling but also sad because you remind me of my ex fiancé 🤣🤣 He has a similar accent but his dad is from France/mother is Moroccan. He’s big and fit so then I came across this and felt sad 😞 but also happy haha anyway okay I see it as him still loving me. I haven’t replied back to his text four days ago but I really want to but I’m not sure if I should. He really hurt me with words but like you said it’s good because he’s expressing himself. I’ll let him take a breather make experiences even if I hate it. I know he might run back to bad habits and girls but I know I’m unforgettable. We’ve been engaged finally after 2 and half years! I’ll continue to watch your suggestions ❤️🙏🏼

  • @oliviamadison6440
    @oliviamadison64403 жыл бұрын

    This makes sense.. about the relationship with my ex ...

  • @auroramartinelli3682
    @auroramartinelli36823 жыл бұрын

    My ex broke up with me just last night after a one year relationship he said he felt upset at me but that he wasn't angry and that he dosen't hate me. So he probably dosen't feel anything for me anymore he said he's just upset but he took everything very lightly and when i asked him "how can you be so light about this?" He just stayed silent. He didn't blocked me on facebook or instagram and it seems like he's doing great without me. I think he could be a narcisist guy ,some signs were there .at first i told him off but in the end i wanted to be a mature person and i wished him the best of luck telling him that i always loved him of course he didn't say "i always loved you too" back and he seemed very okay and not hurt at all. He said he's too hurt to be with me again and that some things i said to him hurt him too much but i don't think he's hurt by the breakup .i'm trying to heal from this but i know it will take time.

  • @Uhhhwut
    @Uhhhwut5 жыл бұрын

    I feel like it’s a little hard, especially when the person barely shows any emotions. And not so motivated most of the time. Opinions?

  • @emmcapellan8196

    @emmcapellan8196

    4 жыл бұрын

    L N watch dismissive attachment style

  • @auroramartinelli3682

    @auroramartinelli3682

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel you. He acted the same.

  • @aleciatay7343
    @aleciatay73433 жыл бұрын

    I see. I thought he does not care. He is just hurt as much as me

  • @lisachilman6868
    @lisachilman68684 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Alex. Helpful. Xx

  • @shellyrizcaballero6105
    @shellyrizcaballero61054 жыл бұрын

    What if he already have someone?for like 3 days after we broke up?were together for 5 years...and

  • @sunshinelove9131
    @sunshinelove91314 жыл бұрын

    My husband left me without saying a word and blocked me on his phone and social media

  • @Banana-lk7tf

    @Banana-lk7tf

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry. That's beyond terrible. Shame on him.

  • @anudeshmukh2011

    @anudeshmukh2011

    3 жыл бұрын

    Date someone who deserve u 🤗

  • @missdale7691
    @missdale76914 жыл бұрын

    My ex is completely different.. he has no emotion hence showing no emotion.. so no he won’t be hurting.. unlike me that’s still crying daily.

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