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  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity4 жыл бұрын

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  • @simranmukherji7207

    @simranmukherji7207

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Alex, due to some repetitive issue of him not being emotionally responsible to me, I told him in anger- go to hell. Its been 6days today of no contact from either side. How long to continue this way?

  • @mariahameliadalhia1686

    @mariahameliadalhia1686

    4 жыл бұрын

    Can i ask why men adding lots of girls in social media after 2 days break up ...its hurt me cos i dpnt flirt or add guys cos i still care for our feelings

  • @paulinemacdonald7325

    @paulinemacdonald7325

    4 жыл бұрын

    my ex never came back and never call me again.

  • @tahseenmd7468

    @tahseenmd7468

    3 жыл бұрын

    Can I get your email or mobile number sir?

  • @siyonawaghmare3457

    @siyonawaghmare3457

    2 жыл бұрын

    My ex broke up jus because he is worried about our future and and he is upset about me does not want to her me but I want him what should I do

  • @Amercado0719
    @Amercado07195 жыл бұрын

    Yes they sure do, better question is will you take the guy back who dumps you because he treated you like an option. Guess the grass isn’t always greener!

  • @amasion2882

    @amasion2882

    4 жыл бұрын

    It’s interesting. Most people who abandon a serious relationship or first marriage usually regret it. Whether they get with a new person or stay single. It’s easy to take good things for granted when we don’t know how good we’ve got it.

  • @roseluz1765

    @roseluz1765

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂 Hell no !

  • @sierria64

    @sierria64

    4 жыл бұрын

    Okay let me break it down to you ..I am a nurse and I had an affair with the doctor who was living with someone else I decided that this relationship was no longer healthy for me so instead of me being a typical woman and cussing him out I broke it off very nicely and told him that I wanted to move on and that I wasn't getting any younger and I had to be realistic about everything I told him I hope that he found someone that can treat him the way he need to be treated ,I told him I hope you find someone that can make him happy..I know he only treated me like a booty call I didn't feel the need when I decide to move on to make that into an argument and tell him everything he wasn't doing for me because I understood he knew damn well what he wasn't doing for me. I realize it was my fault . because I liked him and allowed the situation. I just decided to break away and move on.this man started calling my home he decided one day to call me at 7 at night and started asking me about my new man my life he asked me did I love the new guy and how was he different from him. I told him at the moment he's (the new guy) is very nice guy he told me can I consider him if it doesn't work out this man was living with somebody else and I was nothing but his booty call so he was having an affair me and treated me taking me for granted. he had the audacity to tell me if it didn't work out could I consider him I just listen to I shook my head on the phone.. he kept calling me asking me can I take you out to dinner he kept calling over and over and over and over again I told him I wanted to concentrate on this new relationship and I felt that it was unhealthy to continue interacting with him.he started telling me that he cared for me more than what he realized and he didn't want me to go he said he loved me and he did not realize it until I left.. seems getting in the other relationship made him want to hold on..he told me to please give him a chance to show me ..I will spend more time with you..etc.. he was a general surgeon - trauma surgery...I believe his ego was bruise that I walked away. and after I made it clear that I no longer wanted to be with him or interact with him he called me again one night and told me very sincerely nobody's ever told me the way I told him he said nobody's ever did told him so stern and yet so consideritly...i guess he knew he was taking me for granted..I guess I made him feel very small I guess I made him feel very guilty because I was very nice about it I was very humble about it when I walked away I felt there was no need to tell him what he was not doing when he already knew what he was not doing there was no need to tell him about this relationship is not anything cuz he knew he didn't value me in the relationship so when I walked away the only thing was he was expecting that that's what made him feel guilty .he knew he deserved to be cusssed out I did not. The last thing I said to him was .. I dont want you to feel uncomterable around me .. we are good.. After that he would come to my area , and talk to me. and he kept asking me did I love the other man..ssh. I never respnded. He kept asking to give him another chance. I never did .. I married the other man.. when he found out that I was getting married he saw me at work and asked me to come out side , to talk. He cried and and said..I did and still do love you.. I never showed you , never had time for you... like I should have .. I let the right one get away...Im a fool .. I know you and I could have been happy.. I know the guy that chose you will be.....Ive been married 16 yrs .. I came across him last year . he was married , and smiled and said to me .. I just could not see you ...the way you needed to be seen

  • @yentoots8863

    @yentoots8863

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nope

  • @AureliaLambrechthey

    @AureliaLambrechthey

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sierria64 Wow, woman, You did it perfectly, and with class.👍😘

  • @MiMi-rc1bv
    @MiMi-rc1bv4 жыл бұрын

    I don’t want an ego-man who plays hot and cold with me. I want someone who accepts me the way I am and I accept him the way he is. I‘m so done with playing these games.

  • @prophecybydefault4708

    @prophecybydefault4708

    2 жыл бұрын

    And you'll find him. It's not hard, all you have to do is go up and ask. But it depends on who you choose.

  • @neawilliams7204

    @neawilliams7204

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s what I’m saying! Those are LITTLE BOYS, not real men. The games are outdated at this point 🤧

  • @xhenared7461
    @xhenared74615 жыл бұрын

    To all the women who've been dumped by your ex boyfriend .. you gonna get through this.. when he broke up with me.. i was really devastated but now im okay.. ive found out from a mutual friend that he was seeing someone else a week after our break up and i think now they are officialy together..but that break up taught me a great lesson so now i have to keep on working for my self until God will send someone suitable for me.. wishing my ex boyfriend all the best... Ladies be positive because your break up,some day it will all make sense.😊

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    5 жыл бұрын

    Beautifully said! Thank you for your words. You're totally right. To build upon what you've said... women tend to feel the pain of the breakup at the onset but get over it sooner and recovery more fully, whereas men tend to feel the pain of the breakup much later, recover later, and actually don't recover as fully as women - Coach Adrian

  • @aliciasmith538

    @aliciasmith538

    4 жыл бұрын

    It took me years to get over then when I was finally over he asked for us to make back but I didn't take him back not out of revenge is just I was so afraid he dump me again after 3years u not sure what u want then 3to 4years later u know people I don't have that time nah

  • @saabnamkhan3464

    @saabnamkhan3464

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nice love yr comment ..exactly

  • @blank1505

    @blank1505

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Yes! This is so true. And annoying for us women.

  • @paulettelittlefield866

    @paulettelittlefield866

    2 жыл бұрын

    This makes me feel like women have to do all the changing. I was dumped because the guy said he didn’t like the arguing. Neither did I, but he failed to take responsibility for his actions that helped initiate the arguing. Our last argument he actually said that I wanted him to respect me, and that was very true. Why do men treat other women better than the woman that is with him? He was always wanting to impress others and would jump out of his boots to help other women. Why can’t they love, adore, and respect the woman that is by their side? I’d rather be alone than walk on eggshells because he refuses to communicate or acknowledge me, and stand up for me. By this time in my golden years I should be wiser, but my understanding of men and what they truly want is still a mystery.

  • @amreen5528
    @amreen55284 жыл бұрын

    That's true ..he dumbed me because I was giving him alot of time... importance which he don't deserve..I lost my self respect in front of him...

  • @tshegofatsomokonoto4928

    @tshegofatsomokonoto4928

    3 жыл бұрын

    same he dumped me claiming am overly hospitable,my time blah blah i never got dumped for being transparent and real

  • @Rhthcv

    @Rhthcv

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here. I was begging before him and he said he never loved me in 4 year relationship

  • @Nathalie7705

    @Nathalie7705

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same with me 😞

  • @lalrinselimolsom8700

    @lalrinselimolsom8700

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here💔💔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @baburaoganpatraoapte1715

    @baburaoganpatraoapte1715

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lalrinselimolsom8700 😭😭😭😭😭💔🙏

  • @christybernal6114
    @christybernal61144 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like too much work. If you have to work that hard to keep a man, than that's not the right one. Wait for someone who accepts you the way you are

  • @racelliabad2066
    @racelliabad20664 жыл бұрын

    If he dumped you once, and he came back, dont come back. He dumped me and came back and after 2 yrs he did it again. For what reason ? Because he said that he is falling out of love from me. So lesson learned. If they did it once, they will do it again. Move on. Focus on yourself, your family and your friends. It is tough but when you started to realize that you deserve so much better. NEVER GO BACK.

  • @shotz2clutch-624
    @shotz2clutch-6244 жыл бұрын

    He’s damaged me mentally no going back I’m done

  • @biancafontanella
    @biancafontanella2 жыл бұрын

    It is exhausting to be with a man like this because there are many layers in the relationship to be explored. If he is stuck on the chasing phase, that means he is def not mature enough to evolve in love.

  • @theelegantstylist
    @theelegantstylist5 жыл бұрын

    It's so true. They always come back. So be sure to have learned lessons the first time around.

  • @ivypaulina7314

    @ivypaulina7314

    5 жыл бұрын

    Not always.

  • @alonatampus

    @alonatampus

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes is true.it was happened of my life too he dumping on me because he was having one lady then after 6 years later past he wanna come back to me, then I was not answer quick then untill now i be so scared to answer yes to be back with hem,he was realized about the happened between me and hem so yeah really It was learn from man that why he dump on me!

  • @saabnamkhan3464

    @saabnamkhan3464

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes they come back it also happens with me too ... I prayed to god tat u knows everything so if he is not good enough for me n I deserve better give me strength to swaps away all his memories .. wen he came I changed myself thank god u helped I could able to do tat ..

  • @folledudesert1146
    @folledudesert11464 жыл бұрын

    I’m already a queen ! A queen doesn’t fight for a Guy ...if she works on her self she does it for her self not for a forever chaser ...if he doesn’t see my value, i show him the door...

  • @DatDyme980
    @DatDyme9804 жыл бұрын

    A mature man worth having knows that a relationship is SUPPOSED to progress. You're supposed to attach and proceed with the relationship. If he's on an ego trip he should be chasing a therapist! MAKE THAT BASTARD STAY GONE!

  • @brandymcdaniel214
    @brandymcdaniel2144 жыл бұрын

    Men can cry a river until an ocean starts to form...but when a woman’s fed up there ain’t nothin he can do about it!!! I’ve lost 50lbs since my break up and feel great... My children and I are so much happier now that all that negativity is gone. Keep your eyes in front of you ladies and move forward.

  • @madgemackles4337
    @madgemackles43375 жыл бұрын

    I just can’t deal with the stress of this whole “chase” idea 😪

  • @nyinyibito1757

    @nyinyibito1757

    4 жыл бұрын

    Its emotionally draining! I will never ever allow this kind of approach, infact in my next relationship which has already been cooking, im going to set high Standard and baundaries, no more endless whatsapp chat,since whatsapp is the biggest devil in my life, you either meet me in person or stop wasting my time with useless sexting chat! I wont accept this again to be touchered anymore.i deserve better !

  • @jellybelly111

    @jellybelly111

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's dumb as fuck. Love shouldn't be a game and I ain't playing it

  • @Lafilledlapluie

    @Lafilledlapluie

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too lol it's exhausting

  • @Lafilledlapluie

    @Lafilledlapluie

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@nyinyibito1757 WhatsApp is really useless. Thanks for this tip. I'm taking it out of my emotional intimacy tools

  • @TheAquaticCat
    @TheAquaticCat4 жыл бұрын

    Mine came back almost 2 years later after I finally felt free from the devastation that breakup cost me and I was able to date again. He somehow felt it, they always do. Sad thing is, he dumped me again after I gave into his begging to get back together, it only took a few months. Immature guys only love you when you are not accessible. Please find a mature one.

  • @nanachioma7876
    @nanachioma78764 жыл бұрын

    Aha so true he dumped me cheated made fun of me when I tried to get back to him(wish I never done that move) a year later after crying a little and moving on met another guy been dating for a while we ended up getting married and oh guess who would like to know how I'm doing?! Ding ding ex!! Ahahaha I know not to mess with ex so told him to delete my number and God bless but get lost! Men alwaaaaaaaaaaaays come back always that's why ladies know your worth he mess with you focus on you and BYE and one more thing if a man dump you do nooooooot force him to take you back u deserve better

  • @jrmillz8546

    @jrmillz8546

    3 жыл бұрын

    Blessings to you my dear .. You deserve it all endless 💗 💗 💕..

  • @joycerepchuk7450
    @joycerepchuk74503 жыл бұрын

    I think the men that dump always are looking for more women to have in case a relationship is over. They can't bear to be alone. They have to run to another when relationships go wrong. I say, stay away from these insecure men. A waste of time and your feeling. Why would you want them back?!

  • @Ethi912
    @Ethi9125 жыл бұрын

    If he dump me oh Lord I will forget him forever ! Am not on play ground

  • @nathy5079
    @nathy50794 жыл бұрын

    If he lets you go... it was not meant to be. Although I feel like a good couple should know how to talk to each other (communication) “communication is key is all the relationships” A mature relationship can definitely sit down and talk and work at it, but people are so use to throw everything away and then regret it. No, ask for what you deserve! Not for what people think you deserve. Welcome 2020! Bring that love to people that really seek for it. ❤️💚!!

  • @nicoleiszlerhackspie
    @nicoleiszlerhackspie4 жыл бұрын

    Never go back with a guy that dumped you...never..a man that likes you will never put you to test

  • @divinegodesslife8816
    @divinegodesslife88164 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes In a fight they will dump you and not mean it, but then will be surprised when we act okay with it lol 🤣

  • @asiamiller6833

    @asiamiller6833

    Жыл бұрын

    Yea he dumped me after an argument

  • @thisloop

    @thisloop

    Жыл бұрын

    its true 🤣 happened to ma previous exes. they were always reaching out but i never took em back

  • @StoneColdFox17

    @StoneColdFox17

    7 ай бұрын

    Facts tho

  • @margomazzeo1680
    @margomazzeo16804 жыл бұрын

    Why would I want back someone who dumped me? So he can do it again?? No thank you.

  • @h.yanjean4213
    @h.yanjean42135 жыл бұрын

    I believe that, it truly happened on me, and I believe that no matter we expect him come back or not, we should still love ourself first, make us the better person and just let go, trust that if it’s meant to be it will be.

  • @hodhanhussein4999
    @hodhanhussein49995 жыл бұрын

    Here’s the case, he dumped me n I became a better person since then n he’s been coming back with all these mind games that am already done with. I still love him but since there’s no growth whatsoever I have decided to move on. Men be in control but should not be controlling

  • @mjsia8873

    @mjsia8873

    4 жыл бұрын

    men always want to cintroll everything... they are bread winner they wanted evrrything on what they like

  • @sierria64

    @sierria64

    4 жыл бұрын

    Okay let me break it down to you ..I am a nurse and I had an affair with the doctor who was living with someone else I decided that this relationship was no longer healthy for me so instead of me being a typical woman and cussing him out I broke it off very nicely and told him that I wanted to move on and that I wasn't getting any younger and I had to be realistic about everything I told him I hope that he found someone that can treat him the way he need to be treated ,I told him I hope you find someone that can make him happy..I know he only treated me like a booty call I didn't feel the need when I decide to move on to make that into an argument and tell him everything he wasn't doing for me because I understood he knew damn well what he wasn't doing for me. I realize it was my fault . because I liked him and allowed the situation. I just decided to break away and move on.this man started calling my home he decided one day to call me at 7 at night and started asking me about my new man my life he asked me did I love the new guy and how was he different from him. I told him at the moment he's (the new guy) is very nice guy he told me can I consider him if it doesn't work out this man was living with somebody else and I was nothing but his booty call so he was having an affair me and treated me taking me for granted. he had the audacity to tell me if it didn't work out could I consider him I just listen to I shook my head on the phone.. he kept calling me asking me can I take you out to dinner he kept calling over and over and over and over again I told him I wanted to concentrate on this new relationship and I felt that it was unhealthy to continue interacting with him.he started telling me that he cared for me more than what he realized and he didn't want me to go he said he loved me and he did not realize it until I left.. seems getting in the other relationship made him want to hold on..he told me to please give him a chance to show me ..I will spend more time with you..etc.. he was a general surgeon - trauma surgery...I believe his ego was bruise that I walked away. and after I made it clear that I no longer wanted to be with him or interact with him he called me again one night and told me very sincerely nobody's ever told me the way I told him he said nobody's ever did told him so stern and yet so consideritly...i guess he knew he was taking me for granted..I guess I made him feel very small I guess I made him feel very guilty because I was very nice about it I was very humble about it when I walked away I felt there was no need to tell him what he was not doing when he already knew what he was not doing there was no need to tell him about this relationship is not anything cuz he knew he didn't value me in the relationship so when I walked away the only thing was he was expecting that that's what made him feel guilty .he knew he deserved to be cusssed out I did not. The last thing I said to him was .. I dont want you to feel uncomterable around me .. we are good.. After that he would come to my area , and talk to me. and he kept asking me did I love the other man..ssh. I never respnded. He kept asking to give him another chance. I never did .. I married the other man.. when he found out that I was getting married he saw me at work and asked me to come out side , to talk. He cried and and said..I did and still do love you.. I never showed you , never had time for you... like I should have .. I let the right one get away...Im a fool .. I know you and I could have been happy.. I know the guy that chose you will be.....Ive been married 16 yrs .. I came across him last year . he was married , and smiled and said to me .. I just could not see you ...the way you needed to be seen

  • @multiverse6989
    @multiverse69894 жыл бұрын

    "Come to you and Chase you-" Nah I believe in making myself bossbabe instead of wasting my time and energy on a toxic man.

  • @yasminebahemia8486
    @yasminebahemia84865 жыл бұрын

    Move on! Dont take him back!

  • @kee5395

    @kee5395

    4 жыл бұрын

    But it's very hard 😔😭😭😭...I decide to block him but after one day I unblocked him

  • @aaliyah6402

    @aaliyah6402

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why is that?. My ex blocked me then unblocked the next day.

  • @666redrum88

    @666redrum88

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think that if they come back after a lot of time (with come back i say VERY CASUALLY, like you meet them casually and things like that) when you both feel better it means that it was meant to be. Everything that is for you will always find a way to come back to you.

  • @carolchung11
    @carolchung114 жыл бұрын

    YES you're right, they always coming back BUT for me once I turn my back to the person is done ♏😄

  • @baburaoganpatraoapte1715

    @baburaoganpatraoapte1715

    2 жыл бұрын

    🦍🦍🦍👍

  • @roiihongara7042
    @roiihongara70425 жыл бұрын

    He wouldn’t leave if it was meant to be!

  • @roiihongara7042

    @roiihongara7042

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you to the old me.... Im still single though lol

  • @ghiecaraig9437
    @ghiecaraig94373 жыл бұрын

    when my ex hurt me, and be with someone else i feel so down. but now i thank my ex for what he did because it made me stronger. and now im better than before. waiting for the right one😊😊

  • @SnowFoxParty
    @SnowFoxParty5 жыл бұрын

    Yes they have...some wanted to date again and others wanted short term sex with me :/ but I learned to NEVER TAKE AN EX BACK.

  • @Banana-lk7tf
    @Banana-lk7tf4 жыл бұрын

    Yes, 99.999999% of them come back. Here's an idea, don't leave in the first place!

  • @amasion2882
    @amasion28824 жыл бұрын

    I am a human being. Not a zoologist. It’s not my job or my interest to oversee captive exotic animals’ well-being. I expect an adult human man to possess sufficient emotional and intellectual intelligence to challenge himself. If he’s bored he needs to decide what might relieve his boredom. If he feels things are “too easy” in his home/domestic or romantic life, he needs to consider a more stimulating career. HOME is where one goes for PEACE. If you’re dying for more attention and adventure and drama at home, you’re not working hard enough. I’m glad to make myself available to do fun or interesting things with my man but I’m not interested in playing perpetual “hot and cold” or “hard to get” to keep him “challenged.”

  • @yashasvi3975
    @yashasvi39754 жыл бұрын

    If someone dumps you..they dont deserve you..so even if he comes back..he is not required

  • @maggiewei2142
    @maggiewei21424 жыл бұрын

    My ex told me on the night when he dumped me after 8 years - he left me for another woman. "I'll look you up, only if my new relationship doesn't work out' Yep - ego only!!

  • @steve-from-toronto
    @steve-from-toronto5 жыл бұрын

    Guys often come back; women virtually never do if they did the dumping. They're off with someone else almost immediately.

  • @WWE-MediaTv

    @WWE-MediaTv

    5 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @beccf.s.8012

    @beccf.s.8012

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nope. I dumped and stayed single. I didn’t have anything going on and still don’t want to. I am a busy woman with things to achieve. My time is valuable. Once I was out of the relationship All exhausted of trying to juggle it, and work and school; I’ve been enjoying more time for the things I had going on before him. I wish him well.

  • @diplomatgirl171

    @diplomatgirl171

    4 жыл бұрын

    Steve-in-Toronto or necessarily

  • @afsanashaikh7678

    @afsanashaikh7678

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nope. I was cheated by man and he immediately moved on with a girl who already cheated her bf😂

  • @leiselcab8633
    @leiselcab86334 жыл бұрын

    It happened to me twice. He dumped me twice without any valid reason. I am stupid to fall inlove with him. Now I know, Thank you.

  • @kyziesanyue1504
    @kyziesanyue15044 жыл бұрын

    I dont want him to come back... If I'm not worth of his time then he's also not worth of my tears.... One day he will regret what he did to me... I choose him over anyone else.. And now I'm done he's not worth it!!!!

  • @paulettenoel4391
    @paulettenoel43914 жыл бұрын

    After watching this video, I realized that I was good enough after thinking I wasn't. Some men just want to chase and have what they can't have. Lots of work, headackes & heartbreaks. I'll stick to dating only, that way they will be nicer to me lol!

  • @Lexivilz
    @Lexivilz5 жыл бұрын

    Its happening to me now that's why i'm here but i dont want to get him back. i just want him to realize things

  • @margomazzeo1680

    @margomazzeo1680

    4 жыл бұрын

    I tried that too..but since I know hes a Narcissist now..it doesnt matter what you say..how you feel..because they are the Tin God..who is offended when we stand up 4 ourselves..so let him fall..just like Humpty Dumpty...Im.outta here.

  • @nanaabronoma2757
    @nanaabronoma27574 жыл бұрын

    Women should fall in love with themselves. Don't stress making a man happy. Focus on making you happy and falling in love with yourself. Build your confidence and they will do the chasing

  • @margomazzeo1680

    @margomazzeo1680

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yup..

  • @dimplesdelacruz3325
    @dimplesdelacruz33255 жыл бұрын

    3 months broken up and 2 months NC. He blocked me on fb msgr (but stayed friends) and my mobile number right after the breakup. He defriended me on fb after 1 month right after I posted pics of mt vacation with friends. My ex is stubborn and my 1st attempt to reachout was on the 45th day of NC. I txted using my own number and used my 2nd fb msgr acct which he apparently did not block. He never responded to the txt until now which i am guessing i am still blocked and the fb msgr chat was never seen. Got frustrated. I did not panic. Went back to NC. I dont hurt anymore but I miss him every single day. It is hard but i will jst let the universe do its will. Tomorrow ill be starting a new job with the field im passionate about. This is my start to self love. One day a time. If he comes back or doesn't, i know i will be in a much better position. I will be happy either way. Thank you coaches. ☺️

  • @KB-rp7nr

    @KB-rp7nr

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dimples dela Cruz: Oh he will try and come back. It's emotional cruelty and do not allow someone to treat you this way. It's very disrespectful to treat someone this way. I would not invest in a relationship with someone who play these mind games. It's natural to hurt but you will get over it. I would block him on every social media account and delete his number. He will see that you've blocked him and that you don't care to see how he's doing. A person like this don't deserve the attention they're not worth.

  • @leahleopoldo4600

    @leahleopoldo4600

    4 жыл бұрын

    True, been experiencing it right now, sometimes women should love herself first,.. when the time is right, right men will attract to you and will love you the way you want it too...

  • @helentalia9923
    @helentalia99234 жыл бұрын

    "Guys always come back" - not if all communications have been cut off!!

  • @annamuldowney7927
    @annamuldowney79273 жыл бұрын

    Dumped today 😔😂 I'll stay away I did overly text him but I'll keep my distance now 🤣

  • @PsychedPerspective
    @PsychedPerspective5 жыл бұрын

    Haha truth! They come back on sections. They’ll dump and/or discard you then try and stalk/Hoover you. They’ll call you, etc ask ur friends abt you etc. But I now know my worth and I’m in a different place. I don’t care nor want to deal with bullshit & drama.

  • @margomazzeo1680

    @margomazzeo1680

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thats with a Narcissist..Im with one too..Im getting away from him and his shitty behavior..

  • @snehini
    @snehini3 жыл бұрын

    He's coming back. I can feel it.

  • @cherylinesia3854

    @cherylinesia3854

    8 ай бұрын

    So did he? Lol

  • @carinrestuc6242
    @carinrestuc62424 жыл бұрын

    Just win BIG on the lottery and see how fast they come running back!! Lol

  • @kanika9995

    @kanika9995

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen!!

  • @beccf.s.8012
    @beccf.s.80124 жыл бұрын

    No lol I have one exception and it messed up my return rate 😂 Idc though. I just came in because I wanted to answer the question in the title. They not always come back. But that’s ok. Don’t seek validation on it and don’t let this dictate your self worth. Changing for someone that is no longer part of your journey is self destructive. Waiting for someone who left is a waste of time. Blessed them with love and set them free. Let go. Life will bring you someone awesome when you are ready. Just get to work on yourself hard!

  • @Anna-gg1wp
    @Anna-gg1wp3 жыл бұрын

    I dumped a guy 2 weeks ago. He was draining me emotionally mentally. ..im a very spiritual person people energy can drain me ..He was 2 critical 2 judgmental.taking bad about his ex gf how poor they are ...Put me down 2 ...i didn't say anything ...i hold back.. he laughed in my face that i dont have car hosue ..that i dont have life like he has. . And there is reason why i live like that... and he doesn't know...he judged me way to fast. After few months i dumped him. Told him why .its over ... told him 2 never contact me and do not expect anything from me in the future. And move on. Goodbye and he responded " bye"

  • @zenaidacariaga4324
    @zenaidacariaga43244 жыл бұрын

    They realize your worthy enough 😉👍 thanks Alex 🙏👍

  • @Dominique910
    @Dominique9105 жыл бұрын

    Been broken up for almost 5 months now. Havent heard from him since last month when he texted me how I was doing. I felt like the convo was going no where so I ended it myself. Still miss him but he lives 70 miles away😞

  • @sarahm5926
    @sarahm59264 жыл бұрын

    They always come back !!!!!!!!

  • @janiceolga2278
    @janiceolga22784 жыл бұрын

    Ohhhh I love those positive comments girls I just broken up wit him 2weeks ago!

  • @tashaburton5501
    @tashaburton55015 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂🤣he tried his loss never again let him watch me love others bc he was running streets past 8 years 💋🌹❤️💋☀️😇my sun stil shineing

  • @ShaliniShukla_
    @ShaliniShukla_5 жыл бұрын

    this is exactly I was thinking about it and there you posted a video on this topic, thanks a lot. load of love from me.

  • @ankitasuman7

    @ankitasuman7

    5 жыл бұрын

    Do people really come back? Because I have been waiting for him since one year now, and his behavior and attitude truly shows that he won't, plus he's moving to a different country! I do believe that if it's meant to be, it will be! But does this holds true even when he's drifting away?

  • @aasaane2614
    @aasaane26145 жыл бұрын

    Is he worth getting back together???!! I donot think so.

  • @sandysays.f.8030
    @sandysays.f.80304 жыл бұрын

    Yes he came back but i was done i didn't wanted him back its been 9 months and now i m living my bestest life .......past is gone let it go .....thanks love advice coach your videos helped me lot in becoming new version of my self .....😊😊😊😊

  • @silvermont331
    @silvermont3315 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏿 for sharing with us , all the amazing and beautiful women out there !

  • @ionyyc2671
    @ionyyc26715 жыл бұрын

    So it's always about challenges,,, what if we don't want to play that game all the times, it makes you sick and tired..Girls stay with sb who really appreciate you, and will never get bored

  • @loversweetheart7795
    @loversweetheart77955 жыл бұрын

    Your advice makes us alive

  • @sz2538
    @sz25383 жыл бұрын

    I refuse to be toyed with. I've learnt the hard way. I refuse to be his in-between. When he comes for me, he'd better be ready.

  • @rubypaul100
    @rubypaul1004 жыл бұрын

    How much some guys understand women.Respect for u. thank you for ur help

  • @mariapapadimitropoulou7258
    @mariapapadimitropoulou72584 жыл бұрын

    Its truth.The law of reaction.I am sending my love from Greece.

  • @maitemannaerts60
    @maitemannaerts605 жыл бұрын

    I had a “friends with benefits” kind of thing going on for 2 years. Ofcourse, I fell in love. He didn’t want a relationship. I told him I wanted to stop and I started seeing someone else and all of a sudden he admitted his feelings to me. We dated for a few months, I was so happy. We had 1 big “issue” though... there is a 13 years age gap between us. He has kids, I don’t. We had the talk about kids in the future. He broke up and started acting cold because he doesn’t want any more kids. I told him afterwards that I don’t really have this mom feeling or have a wish to become a mom... he told me he had moved on already. No texting after that but I see him everyday because he is a coworker. But now he is giving me mixed feelings. I am starting to think I am losing my mind. He seeks my attention by playing and joking. Now he gave me free tickets to a show this weekend. He will be there as well... I don’t understand 😒 you comming back or nah??

  • @Cherrypie210
    @Cherrypie2102 жыл бұрын

    I’ve never giving 100% emotion and commitment and those who faded out always come back asking me out once or twice a year, every freaking year. I never come back

  • @user-qu7gc5ij1v
    @user-qu7gc5ij1v3 жыл бұрын

    Great counselling session! Thank you!

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching, glad you enjoyed it. Coach Alex

  • @iammaja0079
    @iammaja00794 жыл бұрын

    Okay please read this if you’re desperate as i was and crying all the time, thinking and wondering if he will come back and what if he will find someone else better that me and what if i was’t the best girlfriend and the last thing he will do is come back. I know, i was there too. I was so desperate that i stoped eating and i was crying all the time, also i put my school on the side and now i have so much to work to do. I know that you’re hurting but please listen to me. As soon as we came back together with my boyfriend i felt a need to spread this message because when i was where you are now, i was searching for tons of videos on youtube and forums on internet trying to find way to get my ex back. And after i watched every video, i was searching for comments where people wrote their experiences and HOW LONG WILL HE NEED TO COME BACK BECAUSE I CANT LIVE WITHOUT HIM. and all i found was poor souls writing that they never came back and they are still in no contact and it’s already more than 3 months. I was like nooo i can’t wait that long and all of this thing. I want YOU to know that there is enormous possibility that he WILL COME BACK. MY EX CAME BACK AFTER ONE WEEK. AND YES IT’S POSSIBLE AND IM NOT THE ONLY CASE. People who was lucky enough as i was don’t write comments anymore. They are to happy and they leave that behind so that’s why there is 99% of cases that have sad story and their exes haven’t came back. So please stay positive, don’t cry all the time, PLEASE DON’T OVERTHINK. My boyfriend for example did all the thing he knew i didn’t like and that i was scared about just for making me jealous. He didn’t have bad planes, it was just to hurt me and that i will be pissed and start writing him things about that and he already didn’t like that about me(jealousy). Also let me say that he was so sure about break up that i was sure that he meant it. And when he came back he told me that he was angry than and he saw only bad thing about our relationship. THAT IS WHY YOU NEEEEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONE, to find out what is like to not having you and that you don’t react out for him as you did. Leave phone alone, don’t stalk him because you will make scenarios that don’t even exist. You will think for the worst one. PLEASE BE POSITIVE AND HAPPY. If you had healthy relationship he will soon found out what you meant to him and what he had. And do no contact. Its the best you can do because if you don’t let him experience what is like without you he won’t have a need to get you back. Now smile and be the best version about yourself. And work on things that you’re not proud of and are hurting your relationship.❤️❤️❤️

  • @graceibelegbu189
    @graceibelegbu1894 жыл бұрын

    But by the time my life has gotten sweeter , I will no longer need him.

  • @lisahreha2344
    @lisahreha23444 жыл бұрын

    I know why he dumped me cause I did not want to move in with him. He claimed to love me so much but he wasn’t willing to wait until we were both ready. True love guess not? 🤷‍♀️ He said move on.

  • @peachblossom.phlox3403
    @peachblossom.phlox34033 жыл бұрын

    I hope my ex comes back. He broke up with me about 3 months ago and we work together very closely and he looks so happy and acts like we weren't together for three years. It hurts my heart every day to see him. I want us to work on our relationship and honestly I wasn't the best girlfriend but I was never awful and there was never any cheating and we never yelled at each other. I did cry a lot because of my anxiety and my own insecurities and I think that's what pushed him away but I have been working on myself and trying to show him I'm changing. But right now he doesn't seem the slightest interested in getting back together 😭

  • @carolmaz8675
    @carolmaz86753 жыл бұрын

    I often wonder how there are so many relationships in the world with such immaturity going on .. I do believe most relationships work bec one person is getting their own way and the other is just giving in .. how many real relationships are based on true love and respect prob very few

  • @janefferwangui4511
    @janefferwangui45114 жыл бұрын

    Onnce a man is done if he comes back it's just to play with your feelngs

  • @danibaby1736
    @danibaby1736 Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes their ego don't allow them to no matter how much they want to. Sometime they are too prideful to go back on their word even if they made a mistake or wrong judgment

  • @tiamaria1581
    @tiamaria15814 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Adrian... I needed dis

  • @Life_Rucksacked
    @Life_Rucksacked4 жыл бұрын

    Once you accept an ex again he would realise you are just a door mat and he can screw up anytime and still come running to you and instead you would be losing your worth to him so don't ever make the mistake of letting any ex in your life again,it doesn't work .

  • @celebcrunch5528
    @celebcrunch55285 жыл бұрын

    Almost 90 % do except in the case where cheating was involved

  • @miacat5630

    @miacat5630

    5 жыл бұрын

    What if they cheated they won't come back?

  • @margomazzeo1680

    @margomazzeo1680

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yup..on the nose..right..

  • @bwrrock8951

    @bwrrock8951

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@miacat5630 ...if they messed up they will.

  • @aprilkapsreiter1086
    @aprilkapsreiter10863 жыл бұрын

    Very good advice. Thank you!

  • @vidhibadoni1716
    @vidhibadoni17165 жыл бұрын

    Very useful.. Thank you so much 😊

  • @house88874
    @house888745 жыл бұрын

    I just don't get it. that's a pretty messed up game and since it's a constant "challange/chase" game bullcrap then how does love even exist? love needs to be equally given and taken and I can not always be a challange. I want to be just me. and if I want go give love and men get bored then sorry but men and woman aren't meant to be.

  • @ruth5316
    @ruth53164 жыл бұрын

    Nah i am good eventually when he comes back. I will have moved on with someone better or be content on my own 😎

  • @TECHNOFREAK1023
    @TECHNOFREAK10235 жыл бұрын

    The A-Team. A great team of love coaches.

  • @maddyhere9332
    @maddyhere93325 жыл бұрын

    Yes my man came back and he wants now a casual relationship with me as he has to deal with some emotional baggage and also he has to stabilize his career. He told me that he has feelings for me and he adores me but he's never saying "love" word as per him its a curse for him. I am so confused that if m wasting my time but i do really love him.

  • @kittygangmimi
    @kittygangmimi5 жыл бұрын

    What if a guy dumped me and is already in a new relationship 😂 am I still wrong to be watching this video lol

  • @lovejoyramirez5400
    @lovejoyramirez54004 жыл бұрын

    If he dump you dnt let him comebck anymore.Let go and move on..I wont do that once he lose my💜 or break my💔..

  • @jennypatton645
    @jennypatton6455 жыл бұрын

    Yes , I believe you are exactly on point.

  • @kathleenwharton2139
    @kathleenwharton21394 жыл бұрын

    This happens with many things in Life! You don’t know what you had..until you Lose it! I had a wonderful relationship with a man for two years and it was so easy..but then things started getting more complicated. I started checking out other men and then he left me. He married someone else and is miserable and I could never find anyone else. We were both idiots!

  • @carolw1624
    @carolw16244 жыл бұрын

    26 days of No Contact he came back. Neither dumped the other, it was a case of me saying to him go sort his life out and when he can step up and be the man I want to call me.

  • @avapingkian5335
    @avapingkian53354 жыл бұрын

    I'm crying now...

  • @rowiedcblanco8369
    @rowiedcblanco83694 жыл бұрын

    THANKYOUSOMUCH alex♥️ I will show.💎

  • @purplefreaks.official45
    @purplefreaks.official454 жыл бұрын

    I like the way u explain. . That's why I subscribed😉

  • @fifinana1000
    @fifinana10004 жыл бұрын

    If he doesn't see my worth in the beginning, he will not see later on.....not worthed to try....I ve been there than that.....

  • @yousraadly7341
    @yousraadly73414 жыл бұрын

    They always do comeback making excuses that they didnt know what makes them leave it at the first,and confess that ididnt do or said what makes dump /leave with hoping to be taken back 😂😂 weather i dumped or got dumped i wouldnt look back or give second chanses even if he is the one for me and i know because simply trust and respect are lost by my side toward them and icant deal with no one if idont respect or trust them unless they do what worth retrust ..etc back other wise its pointless to take them back or cases like that encouges a woman to forget that and forgive to have any back .

  • @headedlife6960
    @headedlife69602 жыл бұрын

    Same experience i have got in the form of great lesson.....he dumped after he got success and to him i am now not belongs to his status ..so he dumped me........but now i am living my life so wonderfully and i know the importance of self love ......so i do what i feel to right for me theough my knowledge understanding and experiences .........All thanks to my past ....

  • @norikin8996
    @norikin89965 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for your advice...

  • @kaleidascopechannel
    @kaleidascopechannel5 жыл бұрын

    So a quick look at my situation: my ex is 24, I’m 27. We were together for almost a year and now we’ve been broken up for almost 8 months. I didn’t do any of the bad responses such as begging or pleading. Tried keeping my behavior calm and I know I’ve done pretty good at that and being positive. I’ve been in no contact for a little over a month now and I haven’t seen much activity from him except a little more recently. There’s a girl I think he’s been talking to the last few months but he hasn’t made her known on any of his social media which makes me believe he’s not taking her seriously. He made me known pretty quickly on his social media after we started dating. We’ve also talked about getting together in that time as well so, but he’s doing online classes on top of work and school so I believe him when he says he’s busy 😅 I honestly think our break up is starting to hit him because maybe life is slowing down a little bit? But if it’s true that they come back, what is a good and constant reminder to tell myself as I heal but also want to be with him?

  • @hafsax2544

    @hafsax2544

    2 жыл бұрын

    Did he come back?

  • @mariasoriano8783
    @mariasoriano87835 жыл бұрын

    Yes.. Because they want something from you 😁

  • @margomazzeo1680

    @margomazzeo1680

    4 жыл бұрын

    Always..or they didnt find anything better.

  • @rochelleong3339
    @rochelleong33395 жыл бұрын

    thank you❤️ i love all the words you'VE said.. im so broke coz my husband alwys cheated on me.. hope he will realized all his mistakes and come sincerely🙏🙏🙏

  • @margomazzeo1680

    @margomazzeo1680

    4 жыл бұрын

    Divorce that donkey!!

  • @lenolayimchungeryimchunger2152
    @lenolayimchungeryimchunger21525 жыл бұрын

    So true . A gifted child god blessed you .

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching! - Alex Cormont

  • @stephaniezaragoza4283
    @stephaniezaragoza42834 жыл бұрын

    Its been over a week and I'm dying ..... really hard not to crack :(

  • @noodilious1610
    @noodilious16104 жыл бұрын

    Decent advice but i dont wana keep changing to keep him attracted 2 me. Its tiring and ya dont have the energy. My true love will not leave me💌

  • @ellenjohnston1312
    @ellenjohnston13124 жыл бұрын

    Why would I want him back after he has "dumped me"? That's very high schoolish, how to get a man back after they have dumped you! He dumped me because he doesn't want me...period. Why would I waste my time on someone like that? No thank you.

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