Get Your Ex To Come Back To You After A Breakup

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Want your ex to come to you after they broke up with you? Coach Lee explains how you can do that.
Get information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at myexbackcoach.com/ebk
Breakups can be painful and challenging, leaving you longing for the connection you once had with your ex-partner. While there is no guarantee that every relationship can be revived or that your ex will come back to you, it is possible to create an opportunity for your ex to return if the circumstances are right. This video will provide you with some valuable insights and tips on how to let an ex come back to you after a breakup.
Winning back an ex after a breakup is a delicate and nuanced process. While there are no guarantees, implementing the strategies discussed in this article can help create an environment where your ex may consider returning to the relationship. Remember, the ultimate goal is not just to get your ex back but to build a healthier and stronger connection based on mutual understanding, respect, and personal growth.
Immediately following a breakup, it is crucial to implement the "no contact" rule. This means refraining from contacting your ex in any way whatsoever, allowing both parties to heal and gain perspective. It also creates an air of mystery around you and allows your ex to start missing you which they cannot do if you won't leave him or her alone.
Demonstrate personal growth by making positive changes in your life. This can include improving your physical well-being, updating your wardrobe, or pursuing new interests. These changes not only boost your self-esteem but also make you more appealing to your ex.
While it's tempting to reach out and try to rekindle the relationship, it's essential to give your ex the space they need. Respect their decision and allow them time to process their feelings. Constantly pursuing or pressuring them will push them further away.
Use the time apart to focus on yourself. Engage in activities that bring you joy, invest in personal growth, and cultivate self-confidence. Rediscover your passions, set new goals, and work towards becoming the best version of yourself. This self-improvement will not only benefit you but also make you more attractive to your ex and others.
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  • @m.alexander7865
    @m.alexander7865 Жыл бұрын

    Coach LEE!! she came back ! 8 months no contact ! I took all of your advice and listened to you. Bought your breakup kit. Did no contact ... finally, told her I'm not friendzone material. Stayed polite and never bad mouthed her... SHE finally came back and asked If I'd consider trying again... we are happy and stronger!... to coach Lee's community, do NOT lose hope... even if they don't come back. I was ready to accept that and found my happiness again.. Thank you coach Lee

  • @michaelburton6841

    @michaelburton6841

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m at the same level, 8 months since she left, we have kids together (young age) still want and love her but literally nothing at all, not even a glimmer of hope??

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    @Michael Burton I suggest you book a Coaching session with Coach Lee or another Coach on his staff. myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/

  • @assplundah

    @assplundah

    Жыл бұрын

    If she left you once, she will more than likely do it again mate, don’t fully trust someone who has betrayed you before.

  • @yafaveekelsey

    @yafaveekelsey

    Жыл бұрын

    Wait so you didn’t reach out the whole 8 months ?

  • @michaelburton6841

    @michaelburton6841

    Жыл бұрын

    No been in contact because we have children together but doing strategic NC as of recently purely about kids

  • @javadhoseini6059
    @javadhoseini6059 Жыл бұрын

    My ex came back after 8 months of no contact even with all the mistakes I made during the breakup. stay strong guys!

  • @MrIlleism

    @MrIlleism

    Жыл бұрын

    Can you talk about it? What did you do, how did you maintain no contact? Did you get blocked everywhere :D

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    javahoseini6059 Been there-I know how tough it can be. Just wanted to give you the heads up about Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." Seriously, it's a game-changer! This workshop is all about rescuing your relationship and then keeping your relationship strong after the breakup or separation. Oh, and get this: you'll also have a coaching call every month for 6 whole months! So you won’t be going at it alone or anything. To find out more, hit up Coach Lee's team. You can schedule an appointment to discuss all the details at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. If you do, it will blow your mind and give you the support you need! /rant

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@MrIlleism Some people did block, some didn't. The whole idea is NOT to contact each other.

  • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

    @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

    10 ай бұрын

    Good luck. I don't know if I'll ever be that lucky or life will be that kind to me 😞😞 I just wish I either never met him or someone that is more compatible that looks similar to him but is ultimately more kinder, sweeter, more dedicated and actually isn't a Papa's boy or Mama's boy and will choose me over his family when it really comes down to it! You're trying to build a new life WITH your spouse and children not your old parents!

  • @joanmu1053

    @joanmu1053

    9 ай бұрын

    @@MrIlleism hahahaha

  • @rajdeepkundu4552
    @rajdeepkundu4552 Жыл бұрын

    No contact No stalking No overthink No dreamy sequence creation No too much need to back them No self blaming No only see videos Only work on yourself - Gain confidence you will have your own words , thus self respect will also increase and Now you are emotionally independent.

  • @kriti_jain

    @kriti_jain

    Жыл бұрын

    All this journey is to discover self again... without being have to dependant on others..... This is all no contact about..."emotional fulfillment and independency"

  • @tdw711

    @tdw711

    5 ай бұрын

    I broke all the rules game with my spouse for 31 years did the pushing her away never expresses how she feels towards me when she left 3 weeks ago Jay Center sleeping out in front of her mother's house he has a contacted me is it too late for my stuff to turn around what y'all think

  • @captainbligh3894

    @captainbligh3894

    4 ай бұрын

    Very good

  • @brianlane9534

    @brianlane9534

    3 ай бұрын

    Emotionally independent for the win. That is what it's all about. But if [we] don't work on ourselves during this down time, it is all for nothing. Rumination is normal in the beginning. But think of it as passing through a tunnel. At first the opening behind you is large. With time it gets smaller and smaller, and less inviting to re-enter. It is when the tunnel is no longer beckoning you to return that you are free to make an informed decision - yes emotions are involved too. Go back armed with knowledge and the self-respect that YOU ARE THE PRIZE. You do not take them back a consolation prize. It's got to be an 'equal' desire for fulfillment and enrichment for both.

  • @tebampamonyane9818
    @tebampamonyane9818 Жыл бұрын

    this man helped me get through a very difficult break up 😭3 years later i still come here for relationship advice

  • @aminasalipada4569

    @aminasalipada4569

    Жыл бұрын

    Haha me too i had to listen to him twice cause i got my heart broken twice

  • @xcoachkim

    @xcoachkim

    Жыл бұрын

    I completely understand the difficulty you're facing since I've personally been through the same. I had a really bad breakup nearly 3 years ago and it affected me for a long time after - thought I'd never get past it actually... I want to recommend Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." I hate to use this word….but it's really transformative! The workshop is for saving your relationship after a breakup or separation (or if it looks like one is coming). You’ll also have a coaching call every month for 6 months so you won’t be left alone to handle this yourself. Anyway, I suggest getting more information about it. You can schedule an appointment to discuss at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I genuinely believe this experience will be enlightening and immensely valuable for you.

  • @danette26
    @danette26 Жыл бұрын

    The path towards moving on and getting them back is the same. Focusing on myself makes me happy

  • @lolaloulou5999

    @lolaloulou5999

    Жыл бұрын

    You hit the nail on the head!

  • @xcoachkim

    @xcoachkim

    Жыл бұрын

    You're exactly right. Focusing on oneself is such a strong, secure thing to do, and that is naturally attractive! I wanted to let you know about Coach Lee's live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's seriously amazing and I can't stress enough how valuable it is. The focus is on saving a relationship from a breakup or separation and then keeping it strong afterwards. The workshop includes a coaching call every month for 6 months. You can reach out to Coach Lee's team, specifically Johnny, to set up an appointment and discuss it further at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I believe it's an eye-opening and incredibly helpful experience that you won't want to miss out on.

  • @detectivejimmymcnulty1676
    @detectivejimmymcnulty167611 ай бұрын

    It’s tough because time is an ally with no contact, but the time seems to move so slow. It’s a catch 22 of sorts. I find myself going to bed 4 or 5 hours earlier than usual just to get to the next day

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    11 ай бұрын

    detectivejimmy. I know the feeling. That's depression! I've done the same. It does pass after a while. ❤

  • @thewanderer2041

    @thewanderer2041

    10 ай бұрын

    In bed at 6pm as well. Going through hell.

  • @brendajames586

    @brendajames586

    3 ай бұрын

    I know the feeling too..I'm sorry to hear. Try doing stuff you like to distract yourself. Go out with friends and family, join a gym etc

  • @detectivejimmymcnulty1676

    @detectivejimmymcnulty1676

    3 ай бұрын

    @@brendajames586 we’ve been back together for about 5 months now :)

  • @theway-hadarekh3571
    @theway-hadarekh35719 ай бұрын

    You don’t deserve someone who comes back. You deserve someone who never leaves. You don’t deserve someone who loves you only when it is convenient for them. You deserve someone who loves you no matter what. You don’t deserve someone who treats you as their backup option. You deserve someone who makes you their only option.

  • @Layla-hg4ux

    @Layla-hg4ux

    8 ай бұрын

    I went through this and it hurts but I finally found a man who finally said I'm so lucky and blessed to have you in my life and as my wife 😊 and he's been such a great partner... We thrive together

  • @MickGreen-js4pr

    @MickGreen-js4pr

    Ай бұрын

    You are so right,my ex finishes with me every three weeks,in three and a half years together she has never gone more than three weeks without a massive melt down.

  • @maureyspencer658
    @maureyspencer658 Жыл бұрын

    Just wanted to comeback and say his advice absolutely works. Especially the no contact rules. Time is your friend it really worked for me God Bless y’all I know it’s rough right now but focus on YOURSELF and let time do the work

  • @TeKNiQ50

    @TeKNiQ50

    Жыл бұрын

    How long did it take you

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    maureyspencer, know it's really difficult and I've certainly been there. I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.

  • @joyhaave6151
    @joyhaave6151 Жыл бұрын

    Nearly had a break-up over a foundational issue. Took Coach Lee’s advice by being calm and clear…and then quiet. After a hard week of no contact, my boyfriend reached out this morning to reconcile. These videos are such a critical resource for navigating modern day relationships!

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    joyhasve66 Been there-I know how tough it can be. Just wanted to give you the heads up about Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." Seriously, it's a game-changer! This workshop is all about rescuing your relationship and then keeping your relationship strong after the breakup or separation. Oh, and get this: you'll also have a coaching call every month for 6 whole months! So you won’t be going at it alone or anything. To find out more, hit up Coach Lee's team. You can schedule an appointment to discuss all the details at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. If you do, it will blow your mind and give you the support you need! /rant

  • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

    @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

    10 ай бұрын

    Well you're lucky but what prompted him to break up with you in the first place if I may ask?

  • @arr204
    @arr204 Жыл бұрын

    Even if they never return- just work on yourself and move forward. Trust the process and keep going.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    arr504. That's a very healthy attitude! Good luck to you..❤

  • @leratontsoane3232
    @leratontsoane3232 Жыл бұрын

    Mine came back he broke up with me in 2020 october and the whole of this year he been trying to want us back,problem is am no longer in love with him like before,i have found myself during his absence and i came to realise that i was the engine of that relationship,his input was weak enough to not hold it as he should as a man.Thank you coach

  • @Rebel_Palm
    @Rebel_Palm Жыл бұрын

    When i was going through the break up i found coach Lee and i started watching his videos. At the begining i didn't use his advice and I've made so many horrible mistakes but after some time i applied all that Coach Lee is talking about here on his KZread. Guess what it works 100% . So if you came here and you suffer horribly trust Coach lessons . Life will amaze you.

  • @tearthangel373
    @tearthangel373 Жыл бұрын

    When Trust has been broken by deception and pathological lying then it needs to be earned and restored by showing transparency in all areas of broken trust

  • @rickyanderson2505
    @rickyanderson250511 ай бұрын

    Coach Lee I can't thank you enough. I followed your breakup kit and all of your videos exactly as you said to do. After two weeks she was reaching out regularly. Shortly after she began making plans for us to do things together. We just spent the weekend together after 3 and a half weeks of following your guidelines and no contact. We had the most amazing night together last night and she just keeps pursuing me more and more. I really feel like I am getting my ex and my life back. Thank you so much again for all that you do and all of the effort you've put into creating your guides to save happy and healthy relationships that for whatever reason took a turn and otherwise would have ended.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    11 ай бұрын

    rickyanderson2. Congratulations to you and your girlfriend. Coach Lee's Kit does work, and his Workshop is even better! Coach Lee's Workshop is for couples who have broken up then got back together. It has strategies for every situation including yours. It's a POWERFUL and excellent Workshop that I suggest you join. I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.

  • @el_spectator4082
    @el_spectator4082 Жыл бұрын

    I discovered Coach Lee after my last break up in the end of 2018. And I am here again. Stronger than last time!

  • @dmb3428
    @dmb3428 Жыл бұрын

    I also want to say, these podcasts- videos have helped me tremendously ...I listen to them during my workouts and anytime I feel like breaking no contact even though I have no idea where my relationship is heading

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    dmb3482 Been there-I know how tough it can be. Just wanted to give you the heads up about Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." Seriously, it's a game-changer! This workshop is all about rescuing your relationship and then keeping your relationship strong after the breakup or separation. Oh, and get this: you'll also have a coaching call every month for 6 whole months! So you won’t be going at it alone or anything. To find out more, hit up Coach Lee's team. You can schedule an appointment to discuss all the details at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. If you do, it will blow your mind and give you the support you need.

  • @fudgemcmuffin
    @fudgemcmuffin Жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee, you are a legend. It's been 8 days of no contact for me. Weve been broken up for nearly a month, but circumstances meant I've only been able to go NC for this long. I was incredibly close to his family and yesterday his Mum text me to say that he is really struggling and even drove to our special place yesterday. I'm a little frustrated, because I am already feeling so much stronger and that knowledge has set me back a bit. But staying true to NC. We all deserve someone who would break down walls to be with us. Stay strong guys! You're all beautiful, wonderful people. Keep on keeping on.

  • @lauuu2109

    @lauuu2109

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm 5 months maybe

  • @xcoachkim

    @xcoachkim

    Жыл бұрын

    It's difficult to be going through all that and losing the connection we had to not only the ex but loved ones, I'm sorry you had to go through that but I'm glad no contact is helping you to feel stronger. Just wanted to give you the heads up about Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." Seriously, it's a game-changer! This workshop is all about rescuing your relationship and then keeping your relationship strong after the breakup or separation. Oh, and get this: you'll also have a coaching call every month for 6 whole months! So you won’t be going at it alone or anything. To find out more, hit up Coach Lee's team. You can schedule an appointment to discuss all the details at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. If you do, it will blow your mind and give you the support you need!

  • @Drikkerbadevand

    @Drikkerbadevand

    3 ай бұрын

    If you are both struggling because you still love each other what the heck are you doing in NC

  • @Arezoo68688
    @Arezoo68688 Жыл бұрын

    every word of you is like a healing balm. Thanks a million!

  • @thatgirlruby216
    @thatgirlruby216 Жыл бұрын

    wow "when they pick up the phone and see it's been 47 days..." yes, THAT resonated full blast!! Thank you Coach, your direct no nonsense approach is what's up!

  • @anonymous19810

    @anonymous19810

    Жыл бұрын

    I went no contact for 6 weeks and reached out and asked to catch up. She said yea we can catch up when I grab my things. She came over, we laughed had fun, she could see the difference and said I'm looking great! I then gave her a letter when she left, didn't beg in the letter just said a couple of nice things but then said I would like to try again with us so reach out when your ready, no pressure and I respect any boundaries. That was 1 week ago today. I dont think I will ever hear again from her and I'm hurting so badly. 😢Back to no contact, I'm not reaching out again...... I keep waking up in the middle of the night sweating and then it all re sets every day. I'm hurting heaps. I wish I never reached out as it was so hard seeing her again.

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    Жыл бұрын

    @@anonymous19810 I would not have suggested the letter. Go back into no contact.

  • @anonymous19810

    @anonymous19810

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RealCoachLee yea I realized that in hindsight. But what can I do....Nothing. I'm not reaching back out!

  • @beccf.s.8012

    @beccf.s.8012

    Жыл бұрын

    @@anonymous19810 I am sorry to hear you are hurting but, continue doing the good work. Love will find you ❤

  • @anonymous19810

    @anonymous19810

    Жыл бұрын

    @@beccf.s.8012 yea thanks I hope so. Feels like I won't ever find it again

  • @Remorsecode123
    @Remorsecode1238 ай бұрын

    Wow, this video is so accurate to my situation. Everything this man is saying is exactly what she's been saying and posting.

  • @MDDR-io7nh
    @MDDR-io7nh Жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee is the GOAT! Listen to him & you'll learn so much!!

  • @m.alexander7865
    @m.alexander7865 Жыл бұрын

    I just introduced a friend to coach Lees page.. everyone.. if coach lee made an impact.. dont forget to pay his care and knowledge forward for a friend who IS where we WERE ! ❤🙏

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    Жыл бұрын

    M., thank you very much!

  • @gabordudas5404
    @gabordudas5404 Жыл бұрын

    It was few weeks ago I saw the best Coach Ken video EVER. And now? This is the BEST Coach Lee video EVER! Guys, you are like a good wine, get better and better as time goes by. Thank you both of you!

  • @mattsantos6995

    @mattsantos6995

    28 күн бұрын

    What coach Ken video was it?

  • @shivatecs
    @shivatecs Жыл бұрын

    Great video coach. Your videos have helped me heal past a breakup faster than I ever have and this last one was my longest relationship. I stayed in no contact and she reached out to me playing games. I blocked her on everything and am moving forward with a chuckle in my chest. Emotionally, I have truly evolved meanwhile she seems to have stayed immature. Fortunately I'm around a lot of women in my line of work and I'm feeling healthy enough to date other people again 🎉

  • @brandondefusco8930
    @brandondefusco8930 Жыл бұрын

    We are nearing a month since she left me. While I have since maintained NC, it was not without its difficulties. The weekend of, I buried myself into 4k in debt over a weekend while drinking, gambling, and going to clubs. Of course i was just as miserable when it ended. Its been a few weeks since then, and Ive completely gone sober and have not taken a single day off from either running or going to the gym. Im beginning to get out of my hole financially and feel more comfortable alone than I ever was with her. I did have to block her on social media, as a single photo of her going out nearly caused a relapse. Feeling great, and im choosing to have good days, I will not be at the mercy of my emotions. Im frankly torn at the prospect of her reaching out, a part of me longs for her, though another wants my struggle to continue as its come with so much benefit to my life. Thanks for the vids!

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    11 ай бұрын

    Brando, I read your story, and the best thing you've done for yourself is STOP the drinking, gambling, and social media. I've been there. After 5 years of being engaged, it ended badly. I can recommend a few things I've done to keep my mind off him. Go out with your friends, watch Coach Lee's videos, and pick up a hobby. Also, get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit which is excellent and it has strategies for every situation including yours. Right now, there is a DISCOUNT on his Kit, and I will give you the Code.totally get how insanely tough it is, and I've been right there in the same boat. You gotta check out Coach Lee's "Emergency Breakup Kit." It's an awesome guide that'll save you from feeling totally lost in this crazy time. It tackles all sorts of situations and gives you strategies you never even considered. You can find it at myexbackcoach.com/ebk. Seriously, I'm rooting for you and hoping it works wonders! CODE FOR DISCOUNT: A2780

  • @fuliviacannady7703
    @fuliviacannady7703 Жыл бұрын

    Been through this...but went from NC to radio silence which technically I never was on social media. He's contacting you to get an ego stroke, an emotional high; to test to see where your head is at. You have to shut that down. This cycle will only make you feel less valued, anxious and confused. It's so disrespectful and devaluing. I'm not suggesting he doesn't feel regret or care about you. But the dynamic you have with him now is only serving him.

  • @fuliviacannady7703

    @fuliviacannady7703

    Жыл бұрын

    Listen to Coach Lee!!!

  • @Drikkerbadevand

    @Drikkerbadevand

    3 ай бұрын

    It is only serving him if you let him.. when he contacts just dont say anything needy like 'omg i was so miserable without you please come back' say 'i am fine. Hope you are too'. And if they want to meet then do so and if they ask if you want to try again say you want to take it slow and if they say they just want to be friends, politely say you aren't interested in being their friend, then go back to no contact

  • @_Diaryofwealth
    @_Diaryofwealth Жыл бұрын

    Argue with your phone but Coach Lee is the best!

  • @tearthangel373
    @tearthangel373 Жыл бұрын

    I loved “Leave It To Beaver”!

  • @aramismorales431
    @aramismorales431 Жыл бұрын

    The no contact strategy does work, only if the situation is right for a return. Beware though of buyers remorse which happens after you do go back, she/he is willing but keep in mind that it will never be the same again. So be prepared for change especially your own change!

  • @unpoppinopinions
    @unpoppinopinions Жыл бұрын

    3yrs is a bit long but ive given up but still enjoying the content

  • @paulinaanderlova1663
    @paulinaanderlova166311 ай бұрын

    Coach Lee, thank you for your videos. I am not sure if my ex will ever come back as he also moved out of the country at the same time, but listening to tour videos is such a relief. Bless your heart

  • @axellove1266
    @axellove1266 Жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee. All your advice worked to perfection. Your the man

  • @tommo3378
    @tommo33782 ай бұрын

    This video is a godsend. Getting me through dark days.

  • @timmyturner3943
    @timmyturner394310 ай бұрын

    I love your videos man! The end is a must watch for everyone. Honestly, I’m not even sure I want this chick anymore. I’m too good for her

  • @monicasailo3217
    @monicasailo3217 Жыл бұрын

    Once upon a time coach lee was my favourite, I went through a hard time followed by pandemic that’s how I found Mr lee, but now I know my worth and let go off my helpless broken heart. Love yourself do some favour to yourself now I’m freee …. From depression, anxiety , stress and insomnia…. By the grace of god

  • @jamesbondinspector
    @jamesbondinspector Жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee you are awesome! Your knowledge and wisdom is the medicine I needed. So many other similar KZread channels just didn’t give me the answers I was looking for and the peace I feel in my heart now over the situation I’m in. Thank you sir!

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your kind words. You would benefit a lot in the workshop I'm doing with Coach Ken in a couple of weeks. There is a section where I do a breakout with all the men and get deep into masculine attraction and to be honest, it's really life changing for so many men. And the rest of the workshop is about getting a relationship back and keeping it. It's an incredible learning experience (this is the material that Augusta State University researched for 5 years and said that it had a 72% success rate over a 5 year period), Anyway, it's my best stuff and is a 3 day workshop (4 hours a day) and includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Johnny on my staff about it by making an appointment with him at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. It'd be great to see you there and I think you would agree that it was an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.

  • @RayxaxD
    @RayxaxD Жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee, you look much better with the beard! Go on!

  • @cesarcruz2325
    @cesarcruz2325 Жыл бұрын

    My wife moved out last month. Tomorrow she is picking up the rest of her stuff. It hurts but I’m keeping it cool and not begging or making it hard for her. I respect her decision so for now I’m just working on myself. Hopefully she gives our relationship another chance however if she doesn’t I’ll at least be a better version of myself.

  • @mattdidley9144

    @mattdidley9144

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounds like you've handled it well... ex husband's and wives get back together more than you think! If she does come back , have expectations for her, and good luck.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    cesarcruz2325 Been there-I know how tough it can be. Just wanted to give you the heads up about Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." Seriously, it's a game-changer! This workshop is all about rescuing your relationship and then keeping your relationship strong after the breakup or separation. Oh, and get this: you'll also have a coaching call every month for 6 whole months! So you won’t be going at it alone or anything. To find out more, hit up Coach Lee's team. You can schedule an appointment to discuss all the details at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. If you do, it will blow your mind and give you the support you need.

  • @thewanderer2041

    @thewanderer2041

    10 ай бұрын

    My wife moved out last month, too. I’m having bad withdrawals

  • @mattdidley9144

    @mattdidley9144

    10 ай бұрын

    @thewanderer2041 lots of long walks and hobbies. You'll get through this!

  • @joannedomingo2398
    @joannedomingo239810 ай бұрын

    Coach Lee, I just walked away from a dismissive avoidant. I can’t take him anymore. I was an over giver and there was no reciprocity from him. As soon as I block him and no contact he comes knocking on my door. For my emotional health I had to detach. I love him so much. Why am I the one suffering. I’m 69 he’s 61

  • @cross9004
    @cross9004 Жыл бұрын

    It was June 1st when the breakup happened. I reached out and just said "hey". I got no response I don't even know if they looked at it. I've been watching your videos to see what I could do to help with getting them back. I'm in no contact it has been almost a week. I used to be that person that begged and begged for them to come back. I've been changing as a person in this time, and I hope that no contact works. If it doesn't at least I grew stronger as a person. Thank you Coach Lee.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    Cross900. I highly recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which will help you. It's POWERFUL and has strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk

  • @rito2241
    @rito2241Ай бұрын

    I wish I found you sooner. You changed my thinking almost immediately. Thank you. Your a bad ass

  • @loridee7928
    @loridee792810 ай бұрын

    Coach Lee I want to take a moment & thankyou 🙏 Regardless if my ex returns or doesn't return !! Your teachings have been very inspiring to me !! Unlike so many other life coaches & relationship coaches that are teaching hate & unforgiveness You are teaching mercy & grace 😊Thankyou agian & Godbless You !!

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    10 ай бұрын

    You’re welcome and thank you Loridee.

  • @Matthew-wy5wu
    @Matthew-wy5wu Жыл бұрын

    It’s been since the beginning of April, she’s in a relationship with an abuser and while I feel a deep sense of compassion for her and the kids I am afraid it’s over.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    Matthew, I suggest you book a Coaching session with Coach Lee and staff. myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/

  • @mariotibbrine1

    @mariotibbrine1

    Жыл бұрын

    Those are her mistakes that she has to live with stop punishing yourself break the bond live your life stop being caught up in her toxic drama be happy for her that's what she wants you're obviously not capable of providing that type of abuse that she is currently seeking and living don't pity her just accept it buddy you are awsome just not her awsome keep your head up be proud you are better then the person she's with and that's her loss

  • @aramismorales431

    @aramismorales431

    Жыл бұрын

    She’s getting what she deserves! Found someone that treats her like she should be treated! Keep on your path brother!

  • @nin1269

    @nin1269

    Жыл бұрын

    God will replace her with someone better. Focus on improving yourself.

  • @xcoachkim

    @xcoachkim

    Жыл бұрын

    That's a difficult situation and I'm sorry things transpired like that. It's not easy to watch the person we love go to people we can see aren't good for them, it can feel like we're talking to a brick wall. There's some complicated psychology behind these situations and you would be best to work one-on-one with Coach Lee. So I just wanted to give you the heads up about Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." Seriously, it's a game-changer! This workshop is all about rescuing your relationship and then keeping your relationship strong after the breakup or separation. And, you'll also have a coaching call every month for 6 whole months so you won’t be going at it alone or anything. To find out more, hit up Coach Lee's team. You can schedule an appointment to discuss all the details at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. If you do, it will blow your mind and give you the support you need!

  • @shirleycurry6482
    @shirleycurry64824 ай бұрын

    Perfect Timing on this video Coach Lee: I'm at the point on my journey where I've begun to have some feelings about the control element and the valuing, that I realize lies with the one who distanced themselves. Logically, I get that they are the one that stepped back and its their option to decide when and how long it will take to come to a decision to either move forward with their lives, or attempt a reunion. But it is the one who was left that has to deal with being static; frozen. In my case, that's me. I'm having a hard time with the reality that I have no control over this situation and that someone else will determine if I'm worth a second look and what value that will have to them, on a go forward basis. I also accept that the only way out of this quandary personally, is to move forward in my own life as a solitary individual; while someone else is deciding about the relationship. But I'd just like to say, it feels lousy. Yes, I'm moving forward. Yes, I'm personally prospering as a result. But it still feels lousy to have this hanging out there. We have had several contacts since this life adventure started in November, but its settled into a once a month event. I'm suspecting that this is my new "level" of value. And now its up to me, to come to accept things as they stand with this relationship and move forward with me life, without it as it was. Its occurring to me that I need to learn a whole new set of skills to deal with relationships in the future. I'm looking forward to keep living and learning. Thanks for getting me through to this point, none the less.

  • @KatieThomas-jl2rn

    @KatieThomas-jl2rn

    3 ай бұрын

    Thanks for putting into words what I am feeling. You have captured it exactly.

  • @OurStories-os7yv
    @OurStories-os7yv Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much Coach Lee. I have opened my channel where I am talking a little bit about my story. I am going day by day. You are giving me the strength to continue and have hope.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    My Voice.My Story. I suggest you book a Coaching session with Coach Lee or a coach on his staffmyexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/

  • @OurStories-os7yv

    @OurStories-os7yv

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jannlewandowski5540 thank you very much!

  • @xcoachkim

    @xcoachkim

    Жыл бұрын

    I admire your strength in handling the breakup and sharing your story openly. It takes bravery to do that especially on a public forum. I see Jann has recommended the coaching sessions which are top tier, I had a call with one of Lee's staff andI can vouch for how amazing it was. So I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.

  • @OurStories-os7yv

    @OurStories-os7yv

    Жыл бұрын

    @@xcoachkim thank you very much for your words! 😘

  • @annyespinal8077
    @annyespinal807711 ай бұрын

    Thank you Lee, that was a great video , very good information ❤very helpful

  • @ohlookitsabird
    @ohlookitsabirdАй бұрын

    I’ve only ever experienced a partner dumping me and coming back once. Worst mistake getting back with them the way I did. I don’t think it will happen with someone else now that I want it to. It hasn’t been that long, but I did try to get us to save it, they still said no. I said I respect the decision and they needed to respect mine to not be friends. Sounded more sad to lose me as a friend than as a partner. Working on myself either way. I need someone who will love me enough to admit their faults when a relationship gets wonky instead of putting all the blame and need to change on just me, when we’re actually triggering each other.

  • @tearthangel373
    @tearthangel373 Жыл бұрын

    It’s about first healing your inner child and understanding your Attachment Childhood wounds

  • @DeepakKumar-dt8zc
    @DeepakKumar-dt8zc8 ай бұрын

    Trust this Coach...he is on point and will heal your heartbreak eventually if you follow him...i even made my ex come back to me when she is in another relationship...this shit is legit ...but now I'm friendzoning her and i completely moved on... trust the process 😇

  • @markpack1111
    @markpack11117 ай бұрын

    You're a life saver ... I've listened to your work for years... we'll talk soon...

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    7 ай бұрын

    I'm looking forward to it Mark!

  • @bigboss6867
    @bigboss6867 Жыл бұрын

    Just removed her from my friends list on social media. She broke up with me back in September of '22, gave me every cop-out excuse as to why but then gave me the, "let's be friends" line. Not playing her game anymore.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    Big Boss. I totally understand. You can't be friends with an ex! Good luck to you..

  • @bigboss6867

    @bigboss6867

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jannlewandowski5540 Just as Lee said, "by doing so they're casting that message of 'I can have you back at anytime'." I wonder how she will feel deep down when she finds out she's lost me.

  • @richardthompson2563
    @richardthompson2563 Жыл бұрын

    @aleyna koss, I think what Coach Ken had said about staying in the moment is huge. This sounds complicated. Because of the girl he is seeing. Based on what you wrote, it sounds like you want him back. If you do, i think your only option is to go back to NC. Its a tough thing to just swim out from him and tread water and watch this play out. However, the fact he is reaching out to you says to me he is cracking. You do need to wait for that Bradley Cooper phone call moment from the first minute of "The Hangover"..."Hey, uh....we effed up." That is the measage you need before you make any moves. Hope this helps!! I really wish you luck in getting him back the way you want!

  • @richardthompson2563

    @richardthompson2563

    Жыл бұрын

    @Aleyna Koss stay the course on NOT being a friend. As Lee and Ken say, that is a low value offer that you should never take. Set that boundary thru NC, and please understand you did not ruin this. He did. As Lee would say...they broke it, they need to fix it. You can't be the one to fix it. He walked out. You didn't. I know the pain you feel. That said, now you can do the work to remind yourself of your value. He walked out on a prize. That's his stupidity. Now he has to take full responsibility and I know waiting for that is like walking out to the yard and staring at a bunch of rocks...it's terrible.

  • @yohannesiv632
    @yohannesiv632 Жыл бұрын

    Coach lee is incredible saved my relationship 🙏

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    yohannesiv632, Congrats! Coach Lee has something to show you I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.

  • @johjoh8938
    @johjoh8938 Жыл бұрын

    Two months of rejection then I listen to coach lee and NC Three weeks after that it just as coach lee said She called me and now we are building again Thanks coach lee

  • @ferencmondik31

    @ferencmondik31

    Жыл бұрын

    Let her initiate all the time! Extremely important! Best of luck. :)

  • @professor0reo700

    @professor0reo700

    Жыл бұрын

    Happy to hear you hear back from her. I only had one week of trying to fix things, then 3 months of no contact. From my perspective, it still seems like she's having a merry life without me in it.

  • @johjoh8938

    @johjoh8938

    Жыл бұрын

    @@professor0reo700 I thaught the same. What I did said or do Everything was rejected. Now the tables are turned

  • @johjoh8938

    @johjoh8938

    Жыл бұрын

    @@professor0reo700 just had my first date Today I know what you going thrue But stay strong you Will see that the happiness she now has Will turn in to doubt But NC is key! Hope for the best my friend Greetz from the netherlands

  • @xcoachkim

    @xcoachkim

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad it worked out for you and you're building your relationship back up. I wanted to let you know about Coach Lee's live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's seriously amazing and I can't stress enough how valuable it is. The focus is on saving a relationship from a breakup or separation and then keeping it strong afterwards. The workshop includes a coaching call every month for 6 months. You can reach out to Coach Lee's team, specifically Johnny, to set up an appointment and discuss it further at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I believe it's an eye-opening and incredibly helpful experience that you won't want to miss out on.

  • @PATH918
    @PATH9187 ай бұрын

    all the time i haven't hear talk about LOVE only about tactics and calculates,if a relationship WITHOUT LOVE better LEAVE them in their PLACE❤

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    7 ай бұрын

    I talk about love an awful lot for you to say that you haven't heard it.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    6 ай бұрын

    PATH918, I've known Coach Lee for over 5 years. LOVE is the reason he is here. Love is what brought me to him, and he really helped me more than he will ever know. Take care, and Best wishes to you.

  • @reggie_ulon
    @reggie_ulon Жыл бұрын

    Here to support. Otherwise, I'd NEVER go back.

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Reggie. There are lots of hurting people here who need support. If you are willing, perhaps refer them to one of my videos on a topic since we can’t get to all or even most of the comments. Thank you for your caring heart!

  • @shivaslilgsunlimited7507
    @shivaslilgsunlimited75072 ай бұрын

    It’s like the movie Swingers, he kept trying to reach out to his ex and convince her.

  • @borislavkovacevic6236
    @borislavkovacevic6236 Жыл бұрын

    Almost 8 months of NC here. I'm stronger, and it's getting easier and easier with NC. Still no contact from her, except her brother and friends reaching out to me, running to say hello to me from other parts of the street, etc. Then one super hot colleague from work want to get to know me (which is not usual thing at the firm), wants to go out proposing me a drink, and after I realize that they know each other. I mean, it can be a coincidence, but come on... I just thought that my ex is much less stubborn than this, and these situations are throwing me away since I'm really out completely of her way. It's like I was never on her's part.

  • @xcoachkim

    @xcoachkim

    Жыл бұрын

    I guess no contact doesn't work every time but it's always the best response to a breakup regardless of the goal and outcome, I want to commend you for doing a fabulous job at that! I wanted to let you know about Coach Lee's live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's seriously amazing and I can't stress enough how valuable it is. The focus is on saving a relationship from a breakup or separation and then keeping it strong afterwards. The workshop includes a coaching call every month for 6 months. You can reach out to Coach Lee's team, specifically Johnny, to set up an appointment and discuss it further at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I believe it's an eye-opening and incredibly helpful experience that you won't want to miss out on.

  • @geeteshjoshi9828
    @geeteshjoshi9828 Жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee can you please make a video on Emergency Breakup Kit, like explaining the structure & features of the program. I am curious to know please do so

  • @motto4137

    @motto4137

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s a great question.

  • @chubby371
    @chubby371 Жыл бұрын

    I hope to post a successful story here some day. Probably wouldnt happen but i can only pray. 😢

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    chubby371. Post it. We would love to hear it. 👍

  • @Alejandra-by5lf
    @Alejandra-by5lf5 ай бұрын

    I broke up with him a year ago. Haven’t talk to him since then. Grown and healed mentally gotten closer to God. I wish I could contact him, but I feel like he would’ve reached out to me by now. I’m sorry, but there’s also that fear of rejection

  • @thomesc6214
    @thomesc6214 Жыл бұрын

    Last point resonates with me. Thanks Coach Lee. You are brilliant.

  • @karlov13
    @karlov13 Жыл бұрын

    Excellent video Coach Lee💪🏾

  • @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves
    @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves Жыл бұрын

    Dear Exes, sometimes it's really not you who are at fault. Sometimes you find out that you are being gaslit after discovering your ex has a whole wife and you got dumped because you found out and confronted.

  • @user-cg4sy7kz5s
    @user-cg4sy7kz5s Жыл бұрын

    Coach lee it’s just crazy what’s happening here

  • @joannedomingo2398
    @joannedomingo239810 ай бұрын

    I needed to hear this. Thank you

  • @begoodhumanbeing9164
    @begoodhumanbeing9164 Жыл бұрын

    My ex apologized,pleaded me and at last he let me go .He never gave me genuine time and I kept begging for it throughout our relationship.The day he went no contact I too did the same.God bless him.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    Be good Human. Are you ok? If you need some extra help,I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit which is excellent! It is POWERFUL and has strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk GOOD LUCK TO YOU. ❤

  • @sobreezy2456

    @sobreezy2456

    Жыл бұрын

    He saw his mistakes at the end. I’m telling you, give him ONE chance to prove himself now that he knows what’s on the line

  • @begoodhumanbeing9164

    @begoodhumanbeing9164

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sobreezy2456 he did not saw his mistakes,instead he blamed me for everything.

  • @KILLEMALL1066
    @KILLEMALL106610 ай бұрын

    Good pod cast!

  • @tearthangel373
    @tearthangel373 Жыл бұрын

    I honestly want him to learn to love himself and not people please

  • @Layla-hg4ux
    @Layla-hg4ux8 ай бұрын

    "the guy" came back after 10 months, I went on NC but I never wanted him back so him coming back was shockingly surprised. I ignored and blocked his message.

  • @monita_monita
    @monita_monita Жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee thank you for your insightful videos, your work is really honest, no fluff 🙌 Does this also apply when you are just "on a break"? He was going to break up with me because he lost feelings for me, but instead changed his mind and decided we should go on a break to think about if we want to break up fully or work on it. So I have temporarily moved out, I'm doing no contact and I'm really sticking to it. I actually think I handled the whole situation really well and with a lot of dignity. I'm working on myself for me, and I'm feeling generally positive. The problem is I feel like since we agreed to have a temporary timeout he might not be feeling like he really lost me. Thanks.

  • @Abcdefghijklmnoplm

    @Abcdefghijklmnoplm

    Жыл бұрын

    He definitely will feel it! Remain dignified

  • @xcoachkim

    @xcoachkim

    Жыл бұрын

    Breaks can be a little complicated - on the one hand space can be good but on the other hand we don't want to make them feel relieved by our absence! You're not in a hopeless situation at all and is worth discussing with Coach Lee himself. I want to recommend Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." I hate to use this word….but it's really transformative! The workshop is for saving your relationship after a breakup or separation (or if it looks like one is coming). You’ll also have a coaching call every month for 6 months so you won’t be left alone to handle this yourself. Anyway, I suggest getting more information about it. You can schedule an appointment to discuss at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I genuinely believe this experience will be enlightening and immensely valuable for you.

  • @Reab7RoverT
    @Reab7RoverT Жыл бұрын

    Stay no contact, improve on yourself, get your old hobbies back, do not block her and do no post. she crushes her soul finding new partners and potential mates. Bruh I dropped mine I feel like a kid again. got my childhood back, dirt biking, video games and smoking marijuana, I’d rather pick peace and solitude over back and fourth mind games over a damn screen that Turns into fake love at somepoint, became a follower of christ. Everyone that treated me like poo are now ashamed and wont talk to me. Letting envy run their minds.

  • @imatexan3
    @imatexan3 Жыл бұрын

    I begged and pleaded at least once a month for the past 3 months. She’s now unfollowed me on everything after viewing my stories a day or two prior so not sure how she’d go about seeing anything now, also told me she wants me to move on and hopes I can heal so I don’t see how she would change her mind after doing all that as she can be pretty hard headed and even if she’s tempted, would prolly not go thru with reaching out. Definitely feel like it’s completely over and hope is dwindling. I think she’s possibly even seeing someone new, long distance.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    Jeremy, let her go. Someday she may be sorry she left. In the meantime, I highly recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which will help you immensely. myexbackcoach.com/emk

  • @whitneymiller5139

    @whitneymiller5139

    Жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @imatexan3

    @imatexan3

    Жыл бұрын

    @@whitneymiller5139 haha nope. Still the same.

  • @xcoachkim

    @xcoachkim

    Жыл бұрын

    Relationship and attraction dynamics can be complicated when there's someone else in the picture. I know I have learnt so much from Coach Lee and Ken when I did their workshop last year - gave me heaps of insight into behaviour and it's been life-changing. In saying that I just wanted to give you the heads up about Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." Seriously, it's a game-changer! This workshop is all about rescuing your relationship and then keeping your relationship strong after the breakup or separation. Oh, and get this: you'll also have a coaching call every month for 6 whole months! So you won’t be going at it alone or anything. To find out more, hit up Coach Lee's team. You can schedule an appointment to discuss all the details at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. If you do, it will blow your mind and give you the support you need!

  • @rito2241
    @rito2241Ай бұрын

    I wish you had a video on why we should take back someone who has ended the relationship. I am not totally convinced on why they won’t abandon the relationship again.

  • @henrytyler7902
    @henrytyler7902 Жыл бұрын

    Just doing no contact rule for about 20 days now, hope she will come back🙂

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    Henry Tyler, I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which will help you immensely. It's POWERFUL and has strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk

  • @xcoachkim

    @xcoachkim

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey Henry good work on doing no contact for 20 days. They say it takes an average of 21 days to form a habit, so proud of you for making it this far! Just wanted to give you the heads up about Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." Seriously, it's a game-changer! This workshop is all about rescuing your relationship and then keeping your relationship strong after the breakup or separation. Oh, and get this: you'll also have a coaching call every month for 6 whole months! So you won’t be going at it alone or anything. To find out more, hit up Coach Lee's team. You can schedule an appointment to discuss all the details at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. If you do, it will blow your mind and give you the support you need!

  • @duan_meixuan
    @duan_meixuan6 ай бұрын

    Just told my ex (who was originally my friend before the relationship) that I didn't want a friendship at the moment and didn't tell him whether or not we'd ever be friends again.

  • @rajdeepkundu4552
    @rajdeepkundu4552 Жыл бұрын

    Nice psychological methodology

  • @Ch2.0ris
    @Ch2.0ris Жыл бұрын

    You are legendary..

  • @wandayarbrough
    @wandayarbrough Жыл бұрын

    After nearly 3 year's I don't think so about him doing anything. 19 months of no contact and still nothing so it's time to move on. Been time. I know this. It hurts some still that. I never got the chance to explain I wasn't doing what he accused me of and was blind sided by the whole thing that our friendship wasn't what I thought. Old songs bother me but at least I no longer cry. I talk to other men. No connection though. How do I get a new connection with a new man.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    Wanda Yarbrough. I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which will help you immensely. myexbackcoach.com/ebk

  • @azrilntdrill
    @azrilntdrill Жыл бұрын

    Day 1 of no contact. Ive been begging, doing grand gestures, apologise profusely, everything you can think of to get him back. No more. I am just going to let him go 😢😢😢

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    azrilntdrill, I highly recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which will help you immensely. It's a POWERFUL Kit that has strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk

  • @xcoachkim

    @xcoachkim

    Жыл бұрын

    It's still early days and you don't have to give up. If you really want to I respect that. I can see you feel like you're in a hopeless situation and have tried everything. I get that. Even doing no contact can feel like you have no control or feel like you're not empowered. It can be a true struggle. I totally understand how tough it is, and trust me, I've been there myself. I really wanted to let you know about Coach Lee's live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's seriously amazing and I can't stress enough how valuable it is. The focus is on saving a relationship from a breakup or separation and then keeping it strong afterwards. The workshop includes a coaching call every month for 6 months. You can reach out to Coach Lee's team, specifically Johnny, to set up an appointment and discuss it further at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I believe it's an eye-opening and incredibly helpful experience that you won't want to miss out

  • @Drikkerbadevand

    @Drikkerbadevand

    3 ай бұрын

    Did he contact you

  • @jameljones6265
    @jameljones6265 Жыл бұрын

    I truly believe my ex is my universe

  • @theos12
    @theos128 күн бұрын

    If she changes and comes back, fine. If she never comes back, I’m fine.

  • @CoachKen
    @CoachKen Жыл бұрын

    Good one Coach! What to do during the waiting time is one of the more crucial things you cover well yet again!

  • @saumyasingh8047
    @saumyasingh8047 Жыл бұрын

    I love you coach Lee ❤️

  • @paulopinto6434
    @paulopinto64348 ай бұрын

    Coach Lee thanks you you have given me hope

  • @terezavalencia2908
    @terezavalencia2908 Жыл бұрын

    Someone else has his attention and I can’t compete

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry to hear that. In what ways can you not compete with her?

  • @terezavalencia2908

    @terezavalencia2908

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RealCoachLee she’s more attractive younger and a coworker so they spend alot of time together

  • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858
    @SVAsianPhilippinesGo685810 ай бұрын

    The thing is coach, WHY should I want someone back who has clearly as the light of day REJECTED me?! I am sad but at the end of the day, I still should have my self respect. My pride.

  • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

    @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

    10 ай бұрын

    He didn't appreciate me so.

  • @annethurmond3852
    @annethurmond3852 Жыл бұрын

    After 17 days of NC, on my birthday no less, I found him on a dating site. I broke NC and no response. It was just a hello hope you are okay text. Did I ruin it? I wish I had watched on of Coach Lee’s videos first. It always worked for me.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    Anne Thurmond, just start all over again. This time, don't contact him. What would help you immensely is Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit which is excellent! It has strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk

  • @joanmu1053
    @joanmu10539 ай бұрын

    Thank you Coach Lee. ❤

  • @tomcat1870
    @tomcat1870 Жыл бұрын

    My ex broke up with me 1 1/2 months ago just started NC. She’s stated that we won’t get back together and that she feels it’s what’s best for her. We’ll see what the future holds but for the moment I have to respect her decision. I appreciate your videos and the community for sharing their stories. It gives me hope even though she doesn’t want me to have it. 💔

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    tomcat1870, DON'T FALL FOR SPIRITUAL ADVISORS. LISTEN TO COACH LEE. I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit which will help you immensely. It has EVERYTHING in it including strategies for every situation including yours. myexbackcoach.com/ebk

  • @ivydune4185

    @ivydune4185

    8 ай бұрын

    Any updates?

  • @tomcat1870

    @tomcat1870

    7 ай бұрын

    @@ivydune4185 111 days of no contact and she had finally said something. I had been kinda reserved and then slowly opened up. I’m trying to set up a coffee date.

  • @Connor4x4
    @Connor4x4 Жыл бұрын

    I'm almost completely over her. I just come back to watch Coach Lee because he's reassuring and has legit advice to keep me in no contact. Thank you Coach Lee 🙌

  • @plug322

    @plug322

    Жыл бұрын

    I can't wait till I'm over her, it's only been 1 week of no contact

  • @Connor4x4

    @Connor4x4

    Жыл бұрын

    @@plug322 Keep going man. Know your worth

  • @RonaldDuplessis-ms4jd

    @RonaldDuplessis-ms4jd

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @Connor4x4

    @Connor4x4

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RonaldDuplessis-ms4jd Nice!

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@plug322 give it TIME. You will be fine. ❤

  • @examelizza-zf3xg
    @examelizza-zf3xg4 ай бұрын

    At least yes you are right . .. it has to be both want to be together . Beleive that .. ..

  • @westbrook3371
    @westbrook3371 Жыл бұрын

    No contact always worked for me - I had 3 major break ups including the last one. The problem now is that after 3 children you can’t go no contact - you can only go smart contact. My ex partner broke the no contact but doesn’t want me back. he acts like we r just friends, he calls me every day (not like he used to which was all the time). I got to a point where I had to ask him ‘how do you do that? Like switching the flick off like is nothing?..I really wanted to be like you but I’m not’. I wanted just to disappear…the thought of leaving my beautiful home in a desirable part of London is even coming to mind now. He expect me to go on family outings but for me its so hard. I don’t feel I’m being sincere pretending it’s okay and is harming my mental health.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    westbrook3371, I highly recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which will help you immensely. It has EVERYTHING in it including strategies for every situation including yours. myexbackcoach.com/ebk

  • @xcoachkim

    @xcoachkim

    Жыл бұрын

    I understand where you're coming from. Dealing with multiple breakups is so hard. I always felt like a breakup was a mild form of trauma, and felt like it was affecting my future relationships going forward. I did a lot of work on myself to prevent that from happening again. I don't know how you feel about that but I get the sense you have had to deal with recurring breakups and might be at a point where you want some change. I wanted to let you know about Coach Lee's live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's seriously amazing and I can't stress enough how valuable it is. The focus is on saving a relationship from a breakup or separation and then keeping it strong afterwards. The workshop includes a coaching call every month for 6 months. You can reach out to Coach Lee's team, specifically Johnny, to set up an appointment and discuss it further at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I believe it's an eye-opening and incredibly helpful experience that you won't want to miss out on.

  • @thomasbelmont810
    @thomasbelmont810 Жыл бұрын

    After 11 months, and the last three months completely no contact, she texted me and said she’d been having bad dreams about me. Did I want to get together and talk…? I was very excited and thought, “It worked!” I went to see her, and she used the occasion to tell me she was dating someone. It was one of the worst moments I can remember. I still don’t understand why she did that. So no contact worked…but in a very messed up way.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    thomadbelmont, I have an idea that can help you know it's really difficult and I've certainly been there. I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.

  • @Taybaby2000

    @Taybaby2000

    7 ай бұрын

    FDB‼️

  • @user-hv7rk8vk4v
    @user-hv7rk8vk4v4 ай бұрын

    I agree let. Go let god take control stay no contact

  • @plumetiasmr4091
    @plumetiasmr4091 Жыл бұрын

    My ex and I broke up like a month ago, the relationship ended cuz we had some issues being the main cause lack of time cuz he worked 9 hours a day in split schedule, we had some pretty bad fights towards the end due to saturation on my side, so after a week without no contact he agreed to meet and we got back together, but after another week he ended and said once again he felt like he doesn’t love me anymore, he just remembers the bad stuff and he said he wants to be by himself. I’ve tried no contact but always fail after a few days, he doesn’t seems mad at me and answers my calls and he also agreed to meet again but he said more than once that he just wants to be friends. I don’t know what to do… I feel heart broken

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    Plumeti ASMIR I suggest you book a Coaching session with Coach Lee or a coach on his staff myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/

  • @xcoachkim

    @xcoachkim

    Жыл бұрын

    I know Coach Lee says that breakups happen due to fall in emotional attraction. It sounds like the schedules kind of got in the way and affected the emotional attraction. There's a lot we can learn about relationship dynamics and keeping relationships healthy and steady, so I wanted to let you know about Coach Lee's live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's seriously amazing and I can't stress enough how valuable it is. The focus is on saving a relationship from a breakup or separation and then keeping it strong afterwards. The workshop includes a coaching call every month for 6 months. You can reach out to Coach Lee's team, specifically Johnny, to set up an appointment and discuss it further at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I believe it's an eye-opening and incredibly helpful experience that you won't want to miss out on.

  • @xokris3879
    @xokris38792 ай бұрын

    He broke up with me three days ago, after a 3 year relationship …I poured my heart out and was emotional, making it clear I don’t want this. Yesterday was the first day no contact and now we’re on day 2. All over the phone bc he is 4 hours away. I have had a surgery planned for next month and he said he’s still more than happy to take me and make sure I’m safe like he promised - I’m so devastated and sick over this. He’s my rock and best friend and I’ve been completely blindsided - we have our ups and downs nothing major and with long distance and seeing each other every few weeks it is hard. But it’s so worth it if we both work on ourselves and communicate. I told him we are both imperfect but I love him for who he is. I am in the guilt stage wondering what more I could have done and seeing now I should have made more initiation to make plans to see him etc while we were together. I just don’t feel like this is real it just doesn’t seem like him. I’m staying strong and not contacting… praying he reaches out with time.

  • @Robert-vd2rt

    @Robert-vd2rt

    Ай бұрын

    I know it’s hard I’ve gone thru it but through the grace of God and prayer you see God knows what’s best

  • @lunas2551
    @lunas25518 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this

  • @raytooskilled
    @raytooskilled Жыл бұрын

    Coach me and my ex constantly break up and get back together and today she actually said she doesn’t love me lol I know for sure I gotta walk away and it’s been the hardest shit ever . thanks for giving me hope but this is practically over

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    raytooskilled I have a great idea! I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.

  • @hannahwernham7481

    @hannahwernham7481

    10 ай бұрын

    This is my situation. We've broken up 3 times, and this time he's said he isn't in love anymore, and can't come back 😢

  • @bigchris32ful
    @bigchris32ful Жыл бұрын

    Only time my wife comes to me is to give me grief about something, with her cold & dry tone. Even when I go no contact for weeks & months she still does it!!😫😔

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    Chris Chambers, I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for married couples. It's excellent and it will help you immensely. myexbackcoach.com/emk

  • @bigchris32ful

    @bigchris32ful

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jannlewandowski5540 I have signed up to months ago. But everything I try she won’t cooperate she is so nasty & cold towards me. This all started when she turned 40 last year.🤔😔

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    ​​​@@bigchris32ful That's a shame, Chris. I feel for you. I was in a horrible relationship for 5 years, and I finally left. Your situation is much different, and it can be saved. Listen to Coach Lee. Take care. Big hug for you! ❤❤

  • @sandraluder3004

    @sandraluder3004

    Жыл бұрын

    You deserve warm hugs, respect and love

  • @ephi5333

    @ephi5333

    Жыл бұрын

    I suspect you're still chasing and giving in to her bread crumbs

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