I remembered I left a comment here a few months ago and wanted to comeback and give a final update. After about 8/9 months of being separated, my ex and I found our way back to each other. I feel through taking the time apart to heal, grow, and apply new tools gained from therapy, reading, and outside research we now have a much stronger foundation than we ever had in our past. Only wanted to come back and repost so that I can be seen as another example that exes do comeback (even when you think things are truly over or least expect it). Just make sure when they do, you have done the work on yourself to put you in a position to receive them back healthily and not out of necessity. Goodluck to those who truly wish to have their ex back, I am rooting for you. Thank you Coach Lee for these videos, because regardless of whether my ex and I got back together or not they helped me get through some dark times.

@Nrsouth12

4 ай бұрын

Who reached out first?

@drehawkns

4 ай бұрын

@@Nrsouth12She did. If she didn't, we never would have talked. It has to be their choice to initiate.

@Nrsouth12

4 ай бұрын

@@drehawknsrespect 💯

@rickym936

3 ай бұрын

I'm on day 3 of NC. It's definitely not easy. I read this and gained a sense of hope.

@holagirl

3 ай бұрын

​@@rickym936stay strong and focus on coach lee's videos whenever you feel down. It helped me to reach to 29th day and break no contact by that day. It doesnt feel well, its like stabbing your own confidence also so better stay No contact until they are the one to reach you. Now I feel I need to double the time I've reached to gain that same confident during no contact.

Forget our ex for a moment. What about you Coach Lee and the idea that you may very well have saved thousands of lives and prevented who knows how many suicides?? As I read the comments I think, it must be a wonderful feeling to be able to give people hope, strength, courage and a will to work on themselves instead of letting the ship sink. Thank you for all your kindness in the world 🙏💝

3 years in no contact. It gets easier and they'll be a day you just wake up and you don't care to have them anymore. Keep going 💪🏼

@-KorruptionOfLight-

11 ай бұрын

I'm in the same position. 3 years and counting. I've got my eyes on other women. I've very much moved on. Hope you have too

@sloanmagnum5009

11 ай бұрын

3 years in no contact? It gets easier? I hope you're not just staying a perpetual state of no contact while not actively moving on and starting new relationships? You've moved on right? 3 years is a bit too long to be dwelling

@nathantrujillo471

11 ай бұрын

Another testament on how no contact doesn’t work. These people fooled me lol

@azazel3944

11 ай бұрын

@@nathantrujillo471 no contact is not about to just get your ex

@Liz-dragon-street.

11 ай бұрын

​@@sloanmagnum5009 For me its been more than a year and no i have not date or had one night stands or thought about others... I really worked on myself and found out i have strong issues on connections with man. Norhing wrong wit being single ❤

“Get your part done right” no matter what the outcome is, in the end you can say to yourself that you’ve done your part and you’re gonna be alright. Thank you coach lee.

@ericjohnkhawas9163

9 ай бұрын

💯💯

I’m almost positive she’s gone for good but I keep watching these videos anyways! Thank you Coach Lee

@johnlanier3616

11 ай бұрын

Move on. Nobody is worth pain.

@mattkiebach6506

11 ай бұрын

@@johnlanier3616 I don’t know how to we were together for 8 years. I still love her so much

@johnlanier3616

11 ай бұрын

@@mattkiebach6506 I was with mine for 16 years. 5 months later and my life is way better. When you decide to move on, it will all make sense.

@detectivejimmymcnulty1676

11 ай бұрын

@@johnlanier3616keyboard warrior lol

@lmiller1413

11 ай бұрын

8 years????? Wow. No one stays with someone for 8 years without loving them. Not sure what happened. Buy I pray that she will still see you as available and will reach out.

was in a long distance relationship for 3 years, she said she saw me differently after her last visit and only loved me as a friend... 3 weeks no contact. stay strong everybody we in this together

@Sanchez.Basado

9 ай бұрын

Damn :(

@robinshankey2395

6 ай бұрын

Update?

I was out with my wonderful, loving new partner and ran into my narcissistic ex in a bar...complaining loudly about being miserable. I just smiled and waved. My ex looked AWFUL! 😅 Thank you, coach Lee, for getting me through this!

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

lorhip4087, Narcissists are very TOXIC. I was with one for 5 years, and I left him over 12 years ago. Good luck to you and your new partner. ❤

It works. Having stayed in no contact for 60 days, day 57, she reached out to me

@mariopensotti1015

11 ай бұрын

So you have replied 3 days later ?

@Vrilster

3 ай бұрын

How’s it going now?

Cant thank you enough Coach Lee...at the lowest phase of my life..u r a savior

Thanks! My hat is off to the person 3 years No Contact. Going to sleep and I turn on coach Lee at MN. Feel so weak. To get through this sadness, anxiety. The words are right on.

@sloanmagnum5009

11 ай бұрын

3 years and you're still counting the days? Do you thinks that's a bit long?

I was the one that broke up with him. I begged at first for him to take me back. It didn't work. It pushed him away. I started watching these videos and all videos about break ups. It was so hard.... 4 months of little contact.... and overnight we are back together. I worked very hard on my new business and made myself so much better during the break up. I never thought it would happen, but it did.

@don4717

10 ай бұрын

Me got the same.. my ex goes back to her parents to think about our relationship, After 4 weeks i couldnt wait anymore and break up the relationship.. after 1day i realised it was a mistake and beging and say sorry for the mistake but she was very sad+angry. Now im in no contact for 1 week and it feels like she never come back to me. The best i can do is wait or?

@katiekunch830

10 ай бұрын

@don4717 waiting yes. Minimal contact. Yes. Work on you. Become irresistible. I worked really hard on myself, dated other people, but knew they weren't the one. I prayed a lot and watched videos all the time. I was ready to move on. I had done the work to make myself better. He came back. It's rare. I was hopeless and hopeful.

@don4717

10 ай бұрын

@@katiekunch830 great to hear that. I will try to improve myself and im in no contact now for 8 days. Its hard every day but the hope doesnt die. I wish you all the best for your relationship and thank you for your advice

@TrentAlexanderArnold66LFC

7 ай бұрын

@@don4717any updates?

@amanpradhan5221

4 ай бұрын

I am on the same situation right now Did all the mistakes and blocked everywhere. It's been 2 months of silence and 3 months of breakup

97 days of no contact. I'm starting to lose hope…

@goldenaxe4812

11 ай бұрын

I was there at one point ready to give up. Don’t stop living. More than likely they’ll be back. Just be patient. If they reach out don’t ignore them that’s the biggest thing I had to get over because I was ready to treat them how they treated me but that’s doing more damage than good. Now we’re back together now for 7 months and it’s way better than before.

@SuperMbosch

11 ай бұрын

Stay strong

@Nsdus5676

11 ай бұрын

Usually happens when you least expect it to happen. You will one day realize it’s been 97 days since you have even thought of them and then out of nowhere…. Boom …..Funny how that works in life….. I have been there myself and that’s part of what was imparted on me to heal and change perspective… hope it works out for you!

@Roni3983

11 ай бұрын

I would just work on getting rid of the hope and do no contact for yourself. I am on around 40 days nc and it hurts a ton but I love myself more. I personally think nc should never be broken if they dumped you. If u ever go back with them that will always be lingering for future fights or disagreements.

@BadRed007

11 ай бұрын

200 days here ✋🏼 i already moved on.

Hi coach Lee just want to say thank you for making these videos. Everytime I feel like contacting I watch your videos and they motivate me to not do so. I’m so thankful I came across your videos. Me and my ex are in 1 weeks of no contact and 16 days since the break up, she left me but we wasn’t toxic at all, we have our bickers and we can get moody and the usual things but she feels like time apart can help us so much and she says she still sees a future with me and that she thinks she’ll want to get back with me one day but I don’t know if that’s a lie or not. We are great and I wish we was still together but I really don’t know if she’ll ever come back I just hope she does. Stay strong everyone

Coming up on three years and I used to pray they’d come back. Now, I pray that I never here from hem ever again. No contact works at getting yourself back to where you were the day before you met them.

If they walked away from you, let them walk. Let it go and move on. If it was meant to be you would still be together.

@maxsheerin8219

11 ай бұрын

If it was that easy none of us would be here. Including you!

@RP-zu6ti

11 ай бұрын

@@maxsheerin8219 It's not easy, but you have to get yourself to that point. You may be amazed what may happen if you truly let go

@maxsheerin8219

11 ай бұрын

@@RP-zu6ti exactly. We don't just let go, we have to work it. Some people tend to forget where they were on their journey.

@Camroc37

7 ай бұрын

What if you were to blame? I wasn't as good as I should've been but I laid it all out and said I needed to sort myself out. She still left and blocked me a month later, and seems to be fooling around with a guy but not dating.

@Champman543

2 ай бұрын

​@Camroc37, sorry to hear that. I can relate. Are you still separated? Did you move on?

Thank you @coach lee I finally got my ex back after 1 year

There’s some more off-center situations I’d love to see breakup videos on- too much work, not enough time, distance. When incompatibilities are not mentioned, when attraction doesn’t seem to be a factor

Thank you for all your movies. He come back after a break up ❤ It took him 1 week to understand. I am sooo happy. I thought I am his rebound. Hope now everything will be better.

@kagamitaiga9167

7 ай бұрын

happy for you, in my case i was the one who was dumped, i didnt know i have too many selfish behaviors, over the span of 1 months and counting, i corrected all of it. research on different attachment styles and even on how to be an empathetic person

We live in uncertainty life is so short i grab all the chance to express and tell my love ones how i love and care for them.

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

arp99u, God bless you for saying that. As a child, my parents taught us that. You never know WHEN your time is over. Take care and God Bless! 🙏⚘️

Excellent video

Thank you coach , still watching since last year November... still healing

Thank you Coach Lee❤❤❤

Coach Lee: the no contact GAWD

50 days in. I was calm and respectful on the day of the break-up. Literally said “I don’t want this and I love you, but I respect what you want”. She left, I packed my stuff and never said a word. She unfollowed and blocked me on everything within a few days (which felt pretty terrible). She had her brother reach out to me to get the rest of my things from the house. She finally texted me a few weeks later about a little money I owed her for something and to ask if I still wanted some concert tix she bought me for Christmas. We worked that out pretty quickly and pleasantly. I haven’t heard a thing since. It’s been a tough transition for sure. No idea what will happen, but I banking on her to simply move on. She’s a beautiful girl…she won’t have a problem finding someone new. Part of me would love to talk to her again and possibly rebuild a new and improved version of our relationship. It’s a true paradox. Hanging onto that hope keeps me involved in wanting her back, while simultaneously keeps me from fully moving on. One day at a time I suppose. I feel for everyone experiencing these feelings. It can be truly gut wrenching at times. All the best, guys.

@stellacalderon570

Ай бұрын

I guess it’s better that I lose hope.

Needed this. Thank you coach Lee

Just met with my ex last night after 9 weeks of no contact. Things seemed to go really well. Lot of tears on her side. She apologized for mistakes she made in the relationship, told me she missed me and that she loves me. Going to let it breath for now so we both have time to reflect. Hopefully she reaches out again in the near future though. Any recommendations from the comment section on what to do next is also appreciated.

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

Dre, Keep doing what you're both doing, and you'll be fine. Looking good..👍

@CiluhStyle1

11 ай бұрын

Same happened to me a week ago. Shes been quite since but hopefully she reaches back out. I'm back in no contact. Stay strong focus on you.

@hemlatagattagalla-foodreci1438

11 ай бұрын

If she really meant it, should reflect in actions and be back with you. Until then keep being the best version of yourself , maybe you will attract better ;)

@swirly2361

11 ай бұрын

Proceed with caution, as coach Lee always says you should be always a step behind her in terms of keeping conversations going and making plans! Keep working on yourself and be open but don’t jump back into it too fast :) best of luck ❤

@illahee24

11 ай бұрын

Do nothing. If she reaches out again, she is giving you the green light to pursue (but very lightly)

This is a great video!

Well I’m not going to be easy like a lot of these girls that don’t value themselves. You need to respect yourself!

I started no contact 10 days ago and I walked away from her because she now wants to be friends.. all I am doing is staying silent and watching coach Lee programs.. I really do believe I'm gonna get her.. I acted to needy and clingy and didn't even recognize it. But I feel I'm going to be able to get her back the way I want her all because I am following coach Lee's break up plan

@themustangone6449

10 ай бұрын

Good luck, wishing u well!!

@jennakingmusic_

9 ай бұрын

Update??

@stevebrown3988

9 ай бұрын

Well she never reached out but I found out later she has an avoidant attachment style.. so she is never going to reach out to me.. I think she might have blocked me on what's app... I don't see her posts anymore..

thank you Lee

Another "mic drop" - Coach Lee! This time you crammed in an entire human relationship college course combined with a college survey course on psychology (normal ex vs. dealing with a "cluster b" ex).

@RealCoachLee

11 ай бұрын

I appreciate you following so closely. And you’re smart too.

Thanks Coach Lee

Great videos! But what if you kinda called things off or a mutual breakup? We became good friends first then start a good connected relationship after 8 months. Recently I noticed changes in his behavior that I’ve mentioned before to be problematic. He did make short lived changes but Rt back to not prioritizing the relationship. So I started to not care and I ignored his one call. He popped up at my home and flipped things on me and asking for his things. I went straight into NC and refuse to reach out. He’s a stubborn person so I need to out stubborn him. But overall we had no major problems I guess we just need time apart.

Im on day three, this sucks. I have been reading for inspiration. Thank you all for sharing your stories

@TorresX

2 ай бұрын

How are you doing right now?

Day 3: getting better w9rking on myself more. Getting ahead in life 💯

Dr, I realized something this morning from listening to you over several months. Besides my wife leaving and using no contact that may or may not save my marriage, your teaching that 'THEY HAVE FIGURE THING OUT FOR THEMSELVES' could and should be a life philosophy toward all people , understandings and interactions. ....THEY NEED TO FIGURE THING OUT FOR THEMSELVES

@RealCoachLee

6 ай бұрын

Hey man, thanks for your comment. For a marriage situation, I suggest you get my free mini-course on saving a marriage at www.marriageradio.com/mini-course-to-save-your-marriage/

@DF-te2vm

6 ай бұрын

love you for what you do @@RealCoachLee

I was married for 8 years.. During the divorce and after the divorce, I didn't absolutely EVERYTHING wrong. We needed guardians to swop kids so we would not see each other. I discovered these videos and went into no contact for 6 months and started casually dating someone. My ex wife has reached out and we now text regularly and see each other again. Hopefully if we take it slow, things will work out.

@RealCoachLee

11 ай бұрын

Matthew, you need to get my free mini-course on saving a marriage at myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/

I've been in no contact since June 5th. Wasn't the greatest ending. I was threatened with a contact order which was totally unwarranted. Anyway I totally stepped back after that and been non contact since. At this moment I'm happy with my personal progress the last few months. Gyming every day and getting on with life. I'm still in love with her and part of me in this moment does want to reach out to her. However she didn't even wish me a happy birthday the other day so I need to remind myself of that as it shows she doesn't give a shit and is not right for me. I'll be fine but it is tough

Spoke to a couple of professionals and they said see it as a blessing 😕 yet i still want her smh

99.9% not the grass is always greener

My ex left me 18 months ago. We were together 9 years. She cut off all contact with me and I never heard from her again!

@Champman543

2 ай бұрын

Sounds very cruel..i mean 9 years relationship. What happened?

@ajfedz

2 ай бұрын

@@Champman543 her 19 y/o son live with us and he decided he was going to move his girlfriend into our house. I tried to put a stop to it. A big fight started and they all left the next day!

im at roughly the same amount of nc as you. ive now deleted her number and messages from the past.. it seems to help because i cant break nc if i dont have her number. were right there with ya

84 day of no contact , do I say it’s over or keep praying I lost 4 stone and built muscle I bought a new car I even take her kids on days out as I have raised them for 8 years she has blocked me on everything the relationship was good but she thought it was going to be the limerence for life , it faded after 5 years I moved 200 miles and gave up everything to live with her and I her kids now I am wondering if I should move back home to my family and friends any sergestions ?

This time comment section is right, never go back to your ex if he/she left you and got into another relationship , it’s so stupid to do.

@nottyrotty8973

11 ай бұрын

I sorta pushed her into it...

He ghosted me after saying that I hold on to the friendship so after 2 weeks of no contact, I left him a message saying I am letting him go. I can't hold on to a friendship that is one-sided. And knowing him, he will not come back.

Went 5 months no contact except times for children...she finally "reached out" apologizing and crying. Wanting to take it ao but idk if I should believe it but I'm allowing her to open up to me and I'm trying as well....I need a coach call cuz I messed up along the way but hopefully we can improve together. Shes so arrogant man idk, I gotta get me right for me.

Me got the same.. my ex goes back to her parents to think about our relationship, becouse i treatet her bad. After 4 weeks i couldnt wait anymore and break up the relationship.. after 1day i realised it was a mistake and beging and say sorry for the mistake but she was very sad+angry.I try to improve myself and Tell her it will never be the same and i will do everything to make her happy. Now im in no contact for 1 week after 2 month of begging and say sorry. Is it to late after 2 month? it feels like she never come back to me. The best i can do is wait or?

We broke up on June 6th. He’s a good man. Very giving and catering but he doesn’t have empathy.

Today is 50 days of no contact. I cannot sleep these days losing hope

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

imranhakim, NO, do not lose hope. There is still time, and in the event you need some extra help, Coach Lee has an Emergency Breakup Kit which will help you. totally get how insanely tough it is, and I've been right there in the same boat. You gotta check out Coach Lee's "Emergency Breakup Kit." It's an awesome guide that'll save you from feeling totally lost in this crazy time. It tackles all sorts of situations and gives you strategies you never even considered. You can find it at myexbackcoach.com/ebk. Seriously, I'm rooting for you and hoping it works wonders!

@zagkid694

11 ай бұрын

I’m at 47 and I feel the same way. Stay strong, our time is coming.

Coach Lee. We were together 2 years and 7 months. She broke up. After 33 days we ran into each other, talked and get together again.. After 2 and a half months I tried talking to her because she was acting hot and cold. She even missed dates and did not even call me to cancel. As I tried talking she reacted badly and became offensive. Which made me angry and I broke up. It ended badly. I immediately regretted it and tried to call her. She rejected the call. I then texted her apologizing but also letting her know that she had hurt me. She did not answer. I took no further action. It has been 3 days. No word from her. Any advice?

Narcissist ex did come back and doesn't seem to want to take no for an answer. I have finally been freed from the games and horrible feelings I was constantly left with about myself feeling not enough or feeling I did something wrong. The question is now will I change my mind about the breakup. Not very likely.

Coach Lee could the length of the relationship be a determining factor as to how long it will l likely for my ex to reach out if he does? It's been a little over 2 months of no contact, my ex and I were in a 5 year relationship. When I decided to go into no contact I felt it was going to take a lot longer than 30 or 45 days but as time passes I get more and more scared and try to focus on other things to not drive myself crazy.

I walked away from a very toxic relationship over 2yrs ago & lately my Ex has been texting msgs of what he misses of what we had, I'm on his mind & he's sorry for all the crap he put me thro & we've spoken a cple of time's & his voice is so shaky & he's stuttering, l don't know what to think? I still have a lot of feeling's towards him but is it just a ploy a game?? Would love to understand

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

tamaralegget, your comment really caught my eye. When you mentioned the word TOXIC, it hit me. I was involved with a Toxic guy years ago, and found out he was a narcissist. I NEVER knew what that was until I got into Therapy. If he has any narcissistic traits, PLEASE DON'T TAKE HIM BACK. Coach Lee has 2 videos in his library which I suggest you listen to them. Go to Coach Lee's videos. They're both very informative and interesting. Good luck to you always. ❤

My and I just broke up three days ago. Before that, we attended church and Sunday School together. I don't want to find another church, do I still go and sit elsewhere? Do I find another church? I can't think clearly

I really think nc is for relationships that are for people that are in 6months or less. After that 99% it’s over and if they get in touch your second choice….really do you want that. Best way do your healing get yourself back and move on.

Trying the no contact rule, but my ex just sends some short messages after 2 days of no contact and when I reply to her text, she doesn’t reply back. It’s frustrating….

I LOVE YOU BROTHER

I tought no contact would be a lot easier than it really is.I've been in no contact for 9 days and i feel like i'm about to do something dumb any moment(reaching out).Anyway,there's a question i want to ask,my 1st language is not english,i can understand it very well.If i get on a session with this man,can we pull it trough considering this language gap?

@kagamitaiga9167

7 ай бұрын

believe me, i feel you, on the first 2 weeks, it feels like youve been stabbed by a hundreds of knives and buried alive, your mind will tell to try and win her back no matter what it takes. Im glad i have friends and families who are with me, coz if not, id be dead by now. As time passes by, i realized that I have too many selfish mistakes and behaviors. Stay strong

What does he mean by “get your side right?” Can anyone explain this

I had a girlfriend with two kids I was in a relationship on and off one day she call me how to bother her no more that she has moved on she told me that she found someone special and it was greener on the other side at the guy makes her Happy 😢 and she blocked me I have four months no contact I feel like calling to see if the kids need any school supplies your your your thoughts 🤔

Been watching your videos for two weeks, as well as coach blac but yours are more logical...my ex broke up with me end of March and did the block unblock thing for a month, and still had things of hers but we both moved out so i took a few things to where she works, she has two jobs and one is as bar lady which we know is around men, she likes the vibe but is kinda getting over it, our first meet up was three weeks ago and she told me we were 'toxic' and i should move on, we kissed a few times quite intimately and i can see she isnt doing great but also know she is talking to guys, her one good friend which i introduced to her as my friends girlfriend has Slay queen mentality and her mom and dad is influencial in her life choices. She said i would have persauded her to stay if she had not left like she did, even moving her stuff out on my bday. I asked if me being able to persuade her meant anything and she said no, we are both manipulative. I agree we are, she also said that i was controlling and she was needy(early days of break up she said she found herself) shes enjoying the freedom, i miss her dogs as well as her, not sure what to do as no contact has been super difficult but also afraid it will be easier for her to 'move on' if im silent until she reaches out. Time makes things easier for the ex too...i asked her to lie to me and tell me she never loved me so that i can have that kind of closure and move on, she said she wont because that is bullshit and she will always love me but again we are toxic for eachother. Im 29 and shes turning 24. 😅 Sorry for the long explanation, hard to get perspective with little information... Coach Lee you have been helping alot so far.

Hey bro serious question... ??? What shows up on your credit card statement when you buy your "Emergency Break Up Kit" ?? I could see my wife looking at that and laughing in my face!! It could seriously have the opposite effect and make me seem desperate. We share checking and credit cards at the moment still and that's a big worry for me. I wouldn't want to give her the advantage of knowing my strategy to win her back. You should maybe consider another video: "What to do if your ex discovers you are getting help from Coach Lee?"

@kimking3909

11 ай бұрын

That is a good question but she’ll see your serious about working it out

Good morning, I really needed to see this video. My ex girlfriend friend and I have broken up for 18 months, and she has been in new relationship for over a year. However since March, my ex girlfriend and I have been texting and talking on the phone. Matter of fact she has reached out to me on Father's Day and 4th July. On one occasion she asked me, have I thought about her during the break up. She also agreed to meet me for coffee, but she postponed the coffee meet. As I mentioned she reached out to me on Father's Day and the 4th July. However my birthday was in July, but she didn't reach out. Matter of fact I haven't heard from her in over 2 weeks. I'm so over her!! I've blocked her!! She is so immature!!

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

gregepps1669, I don't blame you at all for letting her go. It sounds like she loves playing games. Let the other guy have her!!

@fire12731

11 ай бұрын

I’m NOT. a fan of blocking unless it’s due to threats and harassment. She reached out on those particular occasions then didn’t. Just leave it at that. I think maybe she’s curious and that could be why she reached out? Maybe she’s a bit confused with her feelings on the new guy? I wouldn’t block her though

@gregepps1669

11 ай бұрын

@@fire12731 Ok...she reached on those particular holidays. However she doesn't reach out on my BDAY and then she ghost me. I haven't heard from her in two weeks. She is playing games.

He would leave me off and on during the relationship. Sometimes for weeks at a time. I would wait and he would always come back around. Now he told me we should “part ways” and it has been over 90 days. I immediately went NC and don’t expect a return this time. Pretty sure I was just an option.

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

TexasToast, he sounds like a narcissist. Let him go. The behavior itself tells me "he doesn't care." Good luck to you.❤

@RealCoachLee

11 ай бұрын

Unfortunately, I agree that you might have just been an option.

Almost two weeks no contact. She reached out after about a week and said she didn’t like how our last conversation went and that she missed me. We saw each other at the gym yesterday and was gonna say hi, but she had already left. Haven’t heard anything since that last call from her. Do I still just stay the course?

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

atxmanimal Remember, you're in NO Contact and she knows that too. Keep it going, you're doing great!

(I’m a male) If i have a hired apartment with my ex and need to fix all things around it when We both leave it. Is it ok to have ”neutral” contact then just regarding the apartment? Nothing about the breakup or similar just neutral stuff that needs to be done where we both have responsibility for. If it is ok. Then what is the best way of communicating to arrange these neutral things? Is it to do this in real life or to do have a call on the cellphone. Please help me, I really want to stay in NC and I just want to fix these things in the most neutral way. How should I go about it?

@xcoachkim

11 ай бұрын

Coach Lee has videos on something called strategic contact - it's the alternative to doing no contact when there are things you absolutely have to communicate about with your ex. Should be able to search for them but if not let me know and I'll link one for you.

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

​@@xcoachkim Kim, I usually go to Coach Lee videos, and they all come up.

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

EdisonTezla, the best way to do this is to be casual with each other, professional, and to keep it civil. Don't discuss anything personal.

Hi Coach. I had a nasty breakup but used the clean slate message, went into no contact and did the work. Life has been amazing. Next week my ex and I are going on a vacation with another couple. This was planned over 6 months ago and cancelling wasn't an option. She texted me after 4 weeks of no contact: saying that she does not want any drama and just a fun time on the vacation. I responded saying the same and left it there. Whats next for me towards and during the vacation?

@activitylog1655

11 ай бұрын

just have fun and don’t pressure. re attract her by being neutral and having fun with everyone.

@nino_94

11 ай бұрын

That is great man! Act casually, she will see that as a respect and strength from your part, a lot of maturity also. Have fun, act like you were not in a relationship at all. As she made her up mind for the break up, give it to her, show case your self respect and strength by not using this vacation to come back up with her. For example, let say she is having something for you again, then say to her that you are open to it, but you do not want to rush things up and "reject" her gently, this will demonstrate your strength, your maturity and show her you are confident and serious about it. I will show that you have changed and possibly set a new frame. If it happens that she tries to kiss you, accept it but cut it fast and tell her that you guys need to take it slow. Then the next day, do not act on that kiss, act like it never happened, because you dill have plenty of time afterwards after you return from vacation. She will not understand it but she will feel attraction to you. These are examples, even if she does not try to kiss you or having a fling for you, act casually, act not like friends but like two adults going on vacation together, respect her time her privacy, and enjoy your time. Your best thing to do is having a perfect peacefull joyfull time together to build a perfect peacfull joyfull memory in you, and also in her. Then when you come back from vacation, go straight into no contact. Like you were never in vacation one day, one week ago. Then all these memories will bring back the other good memories, etc let her spirit do the work instead of you trying to convince her you are worth it. Silence and time will be your friend, while yo work on yourself, on what is insecure in your heart, your wounds, and also your practical life, if needed, meaning fitness, food, finance, project, job, family, etc

@Andomosity

11 ай бұрын

Don't make them feel pressured and don't try to over compensate and make it appear as if you are dating

@bwaen_1404

11 ай бұрын

@nino_94 thank you so much for your answer. Its depth gives me lots of insight and hope towards the situation. Going no contact after the vacation sucks but I understand that I have played my part then and should wait for the magic to happen. Again very grateful!

@timsimon8995

11 ай бұрын

Oh hell no. Do NOT go. Things can always be cancelled. You're not her partner, and friends isn't what you want. Don't go.

She contacted me 18 after days of no contact, it was a Friday night and we were both out drinking.. We had a chill quick 5 minute convo and I said to come have a drink with me, she said she can't as she had a friend with her for the night but then she suggested Sunday to meet up... I never heard back from her about Sunday... It's been two weeks since that reach out.... Any advice please? Continue with no contact or?

@RealCoachLee

11 ай бұрын

You pretty much have to stay in no contact if she pitched and flaked.

@mattimattwa9064

11 ай бұрын

​@@RealCoachLee Then I shall stick with no contact. Your words have been solid, your videos have got me through and mad me stronger, thanks for the advice coach Lee 🙏

Maybe I'm delusional, but I think my breakup was very circumstantial. The relationship was really good. He broke NC 2 days after breaking up with me expressing doubt about his decision, then went back to NC. It's been a month. I believe he broke up with me, not because he didn't love, but because he was overwhelmed with grief (his father had passed away a week prior to the breakup), and because he feels reponsible for his immature and spoiled mother. She's moving in with him, and she has no boundaries. It's very unhealthy. So yeah, because of these circumstances, I really don't think he'll come back to me. He has a lot on his plate right now...

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

beatitcreep, I am so sorry about his Father, and about his Mother. I also feel very bad for you. I'm on your side here, and I do NOT believe that due to him being overwhelmed has anything to do with his leaving you. He's using that as an EXCUSE! DON'T believe it. If he really loved you, he would never leave you because of what has happened. He should need you MORE! Think about this. How can you just let someone go that you LOVE? I don't believe he is being honest with you. Please, think about this WHOLE situation. ❤❤

@beatitcreep.

11 ай бұрын

@jannlewandowski5540 like I said, the relationship was really good. I spent the weekend with him before the breakup, and he couldn't get enough of me. He called me wife material, told me he was in love with me and was making plans for Christmas. Everything changed when I told him I was anxious about his mother moving in with him. I told him I was worried about the amount of privacy/intimacy we were going able to have, because his mother is quite intrusive. He completely shut off. He went from crazy in love to wanting to break up in 48 hours. He wanted to be friends, and he seemed genuinely heartbroken when I declined. I went no contact, and 2 days later he contacted me to tell me I was all he could think about, and that he thought he might have done a mistake. I really don't think he would have broken up with me under different circumstances. I think he knows his mother and I couldn't get along. She already showed up unannounced 2-3 times a week, FaceTimed him 3-4 times a day... she borrowed my bathing suit without asking for my permission... she has NO boundaries. All that was before she moved in with him. He feels responsible for her, so there's no room for a romantic relationship in his life right now. His controlling mother is his priority.

@lmiller1413

11 ай бұрын

A mama's boy? Save yourself. Maybe after she dies, he'll be ready, but with a lot of mama issues that will get directed and dumped onto you, because even though you are kind and wonderful, all his anger toward his mother will get dumped on you.

@r.maelstrom4810

11 ай бұрын

​@@jannlewandowski5540Not true for many men. Many of us need time alone to digest feelings when turmoil and problems arrive aside from a relationship. We feel the need to focus in these new problems and solve them, and this, not for a moment, means that we don't love our partner. In fact we do that to save them our own preoccupations and keep them happy. I am not saying this is the rght thing to do, i am saying that this usually happens and that by no means this is a signal of disdain, au contrarie.

@beatitcreep.

11 ай бұрын

@@lmiller1413 I think he's a mama's boy, yes. That's very unfortunate, he'll always side with his mother, even when she's being unreasonable.

I realy need an advise: no contact for 3 years and than he whants me as a mistress...we both moved on...what is this?

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

Valentin. I would ask if he was joking. That is an INSULT!!

Broke up with my ex in late march of this year and stayed contacting each other for 2 months until my birthday on may and I’ve used NC for a month until June i messaged her again we talk for like a week and after that she created new social media accounts. After again a week of communicating I used NC again for 30 days and yesterday I emailed her and sent her some money to help her with her school and she replied that she was surprised and thought ive already moved on and she was happy that even without communication I still care about her. And now I am very confused about my feelings if I want to continue pursuing her or should moved on for good? And i really dont know if im chasing her or pursuing her.

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

jayjaytornea7132. It's obvious that you still care about her, BUT, are the feelings mutual? Has she told you she misses you and wants to see you? I know you're going into NO CONTACT but as long as you keep sending her money, she'll keep you around. Please be careful with your feelings, and observe the way she treats you. Follow your GUT feeling. Best wishes.

@jayjaytornea7132

11 ай бұрын

@@jannlewandowski5540 she told me that she missed me, replied to my email we stayed connected for like a week and agreed to meet up but never happened and shes been distant to me again after a month. And its very confusing

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

​@@jayjaytornea7132 Whatever you do, STOP SENDING HER MONEY! You need your money, you WORKED for it. Don't give her a dime! She's using you...❤

I have loved her to the highest levels and she dumped me

I think i am worth more than crumbs...

@RealCoachLee

11 ай бұрын

I think so too.

I'd really like a video around the topic of the breakup being somewhat deserved. Your videos are mostly about out of the blue getting dumped, but for some people like me it was at least partially deserved. I was with her for 3.5 years, we went on many trips and we loved each other, but I didn't do as much as I could've. I wasn't very romantic. I showed interest in other women online by viewing them (not by talking/flirting). I feel like the bad guy and I know that maybe I was bad but I am not a bad person. I could never cheat. I really wanted her forever but she just saw the bad and left, and seems to be having sex with another man immediately following the breakup. It really hurts knowing I wasn't enough when the bar was pretty low. I was a wreck and probably pushed her away during the breakup, but I am better now and know it could work out.

@angelmontelongo4110

7 ай бұрын

This is exactly what I was thinking about as well similar situation I wasn’t giving her affection and was really lacking. In a lot of things she would continuously tell me the things that I needed to work on, but I would always shrug them off and not pay attention to them until one day she left. She told me she didn’t love me anymore, but I still feel like this would apply to us man because we didn’t cheat. We didn’t do anything extremely major easily things we could’ve changed and worked on but sadly we are human and a lot of us only change threw painful experiences. I still have hope I was with her for 16 years engaged for five or four the reason for the long engagement was due to being engaged before Covid. Stay up man. Trust me a lot of people in these comments are going through it

@Camroc37

7 ай бұрын

@@angelmontelongo4110 sometimes it takes the pain of loss to figure yourself out. She really didn’t even bring up the problems until she had already lost her desire for me, and while I can’t just blame her I do wish she would have talked to me more. That was one of her complaints. I didn’t talk enough to her, just enjoyed her presence. Yet she didn’t tell me how she felt. Would I have been able to do much? Probably not. I needed that pain to wake me up. I still miss the connection we had and it feels really bad knowing I was not enough for her to the point she was comfortable falling in love with someone else and pushing me out.

@coachlee or anyone who knows what Lee would advise... no contact even if I know I took her for granted and she left me for another man? She did talk to me after 2 months for another month then blocked me "if I'm going to give my heart to anyone it will be the man that loved me right from the beginning"... should I give up on reconciliation now? They've been together 3 months and I've been blocked for 2 weeks now.

@WolfordWise

11 ай бұрын

We were together for 5 years and planned family vacation a week before we broke up. Her reasoning was she couldn't live another 5 years wasted on someone who didn't value her.

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

WokfordWise, if I were you, I would let her go. I'm sorry to say. I wouldn't wait for someone who doesn't want me. Let the other guy have her. ❤

What if I’ve already blocked on WhatsApp (and that was our main form of communication- apart from calls). Should I unblock to open that potential line of communication again in the future or is that classed as breaking no contact and looking weak? 😭

@n0slava

11 ай бұрын

Dont do it. She have Your phone number, right or even mail? If she is ready, she find a way to reach You.

@leannebarry3056

11 ай бұрын

@@n0slavathank you 🙏🏼

@RealCoachLee

11 ай бұрын

I agree that if she has your phone number or even an email address, she knows how to get in touch with you. I wouldn’t change anything.

What if your ex is bipolar ? Does no contact rule works on her too?

We did not break up yet, but we had an argument resulting to ignoring all my texts. I already said sorry for the words I used, but he still ignored my texts. I'm doing NC for 3 days now and I think I'm losing my hope. Should I say sorry to him again?

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

mitchy_kles, I don't know what you said to him, but it must have really hurt/angered him. Did you try to apologize again? If so, whatever you do, DON'T beg or plead with him. He knows you're sorry. Wait till he writes to you. Don't lose hope yet! ❤

@mitchy_kles9373

11 ай бұрын

@@jannlewandowski5540 Thank you for taking the time to write on my comment, I appreciate it! We are in an LDR, and out of the blue I shared with him my emotion that I am in doubt and have already accepted that he won't be able to fulfill his promise this year (W/c we have already discussed before that he will be with me this year).. after sending that message he ignored me, so I pretended that nothing's wrong and sent him a cute photo of our dog, which he ignores again. Then that's the time when all the accusations and assumptions about his actions came out. I'm trying to keep my hopes up

A year and a half in no contact. I realized I'm much happier without him and guess what? Financially I'm doing even better without him, until he left I had no idea how little money I spend on myself.

After 2 years of NC? I doubt it 🤣

16 days of no contact and what's worse is today is our marriage anniversary. Nothing. Lost my job too. Nothing is going right.

@rxsx0504

15 күн бұрын

Update?

hey guys! I want some advice. my ex and I are in college and it's been 2 months since we broke up. I remained in contact with him pretty frequently (big mistake since he dumped me) until he said he normally talks to people every 1-2 weeks and now I haven't heard from him in 3 weeks. I haven't texted him since then but I feel pretty down about it. what can I do?

@jayday187

11 ай бұрын

Just keep waiting. I'm on week 7 myself.

@RealCoachLee

11 ай бұрын

3 weeks of no contact isn’t enough to tell you if it could be effective or not. It’s going to take 2 or 3 months of it.

@user-mq6qx1yy2p

11 ай бұрын

thanks, buddy. I'll keep waiting.@@jayday187

@user-mq6qx1yy2p

11 ай бұрын

Thanks for the help@@RealCoachLee I wish I stayed stronger in no contact, but the idea of making me wait that long is pretty hard. I've tried not thinking or talking about them, or at least as much. do you have more advice?

🌹🙏🏻Thank you

My husband, together 17 years, 2 kids, and I are separated for almost 15 months. We had a relationship with some conflict and there was rejection by me the worst being the 2 years prior to separation. He has decided we are not a couple anymore, wants to move on and now says we were never happy. He has been seeing someone for about a year. He shows no affection anymore, not even a hug because I think he sees it as cheating on this ‘friend’. So this looks extremely bad. He sees I have changed but says it’s too late. I have a lot of regrets and probably deserve what I got even though I didn’t mean to wreck it. I didn’t feel enough of an emotional connection from him.

@RealCoachLee

9 ай бұрын

I’m sorry that you’re going through this. To start, I suggest you get my free mini-course on saving a marriage at myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/. Then, for something this serious, you really should get in my Relationship Reignite workshop.

What do you consider log distance? 50 miles, 150 miles, 500 miles?

@RealCoachLee

10 ай бұрын

The longer the worse.

What if they insist on still being friends? We were together about three years. Had trust issues but we both deeply love each other just both felt hurt so we broke up. Mostly I broke up. He kept wanting to be back with me but I felt I couldn’t trust him. So, now he’s dating someone else and he’s pretty newly smitten. Now I want him back. He knows it but still chooses to date her. He’s jealous if I talk to someone else. Is this messed up or what? Coach Lee, what do I do? I still love him.

@mrbizmanholmes7863

10 ай бұрын

You should have not been so fast to break up. Stop being a kid and learn how to tough out the bad times!! Or don't complain about the outcome!! The choice is yours!!

I’ve been in contact for a week now longest she has not contacted me. She kept pushing just friends my last text to her was il just walk away now it’s your turn. We had met up just before and had a good time. Is it clearly over now? Should I reach out?

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

No-hopes-given, when your partner starts giving you the Friendship speech, it's usually when they lose attraction. She may have met someone new, or is still attracted to an ex. Either way, she wants to be friends. I'm sorry to say. I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which will help. totally get how insanely tough it is, and I've been right there in the same boat. You gotta check out Coach Lee's "Emergency Breakup Kit." It's an awesome guide that'll save you from feeling totally lost in this crazy time. It tackles all sorts of situations and gives you strategies you never even considered. You can find it at myexbackcoach.com/ebk. Seriously, I'm rooting for you and hoping it works wonders!

@No-hopes-given

11 ай бұрын

@@jannlewandowski5540 interesting she said she still finds me attractive and enjoys spending time with me. I have the break up kit so thank you

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

No-Hopes- I know you will find the breakup kit very helpful. Thank you for being so nice.

She offered me the friendship and I said I cannot stay friends and it's better we should stop talking (basically told her that I'm not gonna reach out) and it's been 3 weeks now and she seems very normal about it, what're my chances?

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

redditcard9288 She offered you friendship, but you rejected that. She's not contacting you bcse you told her not to. She is holding her ground. Since you can't be friends with her, let her go, and move on. Take care!

@zannaadedigba3936

9 ай бұрын

Why would you want to be friends if that’s all they want ?

Well well well,after 18 months they have made a bit of a blip on my Facebook, I think it was an accidental like which they removed but still come up as a notification! This is the first ever contact since the break up.. what's your thoughts? Just pure nosing on my Facebook?? 😂

Coach Lee. I was in a relation for 2 years and 7 months. She broke up. After 33 days, we ran into each other, talked and get together again. After 2 months and a half, I tried talking to her because she was acting hot and cold. She even missed dates and did not even called or texted cancelling. As I tried talking, she would not even listen. She became angry and very hurtful. Which made me angry and so I broke up this time. I immediately regretted it and called her but she rejected the call. I texted her apologizing but also explaining how cold she had become and letting her know how offensive and hurtful she had reacted at my attempt to talk. She did not answer. I took no further action. It has been 3 days. No word from her. Any advice? Thank you for your time.

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

Waldem. Forget her! She's playing games, and you can do much better. Don't contact her at all.

@Waldemar-bb1sn

11 ай бұрын

Thank you for the advice Jann.

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

@@Waldemar-bb1sn you are welcome. 💕

Hey 👋😁 what are y’all’s thought on my situation? My ex (23) was with me (28) for almost 4 months and we we’re both madly in love like a bitch 😂. Then her parents text her July 3rd that her, her dad, & mom need to talk or else basically. Then on July 4th she told me we need to take a break and she was sorry. Clearly, her parents are narcissistic, and I heard through a friend that she was heartbroken and cried days on end after. I just wish she could’ve communicated to me what happened during that conversation, which she didn’t, and that’s what sucked the most. But I’m just giving her space to work on herself and be happy. Thoughts?

@r.maelstrom4810

11 ай бұрын

If it had something to do with her parents she would have told you. Unless it is something related to their honorabilty.

@Justin11897

11 ай бұрын

@@r.maelstrom4810 thank you 👍

I told my ex 3 months after being dumped, he had better be sure of that decision (to leave, he dumped me over the phone), he had this confused look on his face and said why?...I said because once you walk out my door, there is NO coming back to me, ever! We won't see each other, we won't talk to each other, the door will be completely closed, and locked.....his mouth fell open he looked like a lost puppy and said, I don't understand why you are so angry....I said why do you care? You lied to me, deceived me, cheated on me (he found replacement 6 months prior to dumping me),,,and NOW you are concerned with MY feelings?? I said, get out of my house, go run to your next unsuspecting victim, use them like you used me. He stood there staring at me, I went not another word from you, get out of my house, and if you are not out in the next 5 minutes I will call the cops to have you arrested for trespassing....he grabbed his stuff, headed out the door and turned back and said, I thought we were friends, I thought we could stay friends....I said friends don't do another dirty like you did, I warned you at the beginning how it would be if you left, he goes I thought you were joking. I slammed the screen door, then the front door....went to my bedroom to make sure he was leaving, he slowly walked to his truck, stood there staring at my house looking really confused, bewildered, he gets in sitting there briefly, I see the door open like he was coming back but he closed it and drove off. Needless to say...he went straight to a bar (we were not drinkers)...his daughter kept calling me, 3 times in an hour looking for him, told her I didn't know where he was, the last time I left and went over to this bar near his work, sure enough his truck was there. I go inside, he looked fearful now, like oh shyte why is she here...he was drinking beer and smoking,,, I went smoking?, your now smoking?!...told him to get his worthless a## home because his daughter was looking for him, he actually got up and walked out....outside he says, I truly don't understand why you are so angry.....I began yelling at him, called him a worthless coward and I got in my car and left.....3 months later he marries the other woman, becomes a raging alcoholic (it got back to me)...and then stalks me for another 3 years. It finally stopped when I caught him......he is not with her anymore but now is with wife no 6.....wow did I dodge a bullet...😂

No i never rejected him he .he is an avoident. 3 and half years and he broke it up so not sure if he will change his mind its been 3months of n c . I stll care ty

It’s very situational, but my ex came back twice!! We broke up two times already and now he’s back. You have to have been a really good partner to them for them to know they lost something good. He said he realized his mistakes in the relationship and never stopped loving me. Trust me. I felt like it was over for GOOD. But nope. He came back again😊

@nathantrujillo471

11 ай бұрын

Men come back cuz they love harder. Women don’t have too many options. Different lives experiences for us.

@oemamira

11 ай бұрын

So it is possible to get a ex husband back after 2 divorces????

@anairaham

11 ай бұрын

@@oemamira I can’t speak on that. A husband and divorces are a whole other level!

@Camroc37

7 ай бұрын

There's some truth in that. Females don't NEED to learn if they don't want. They can get attention from anyone else. Men love hard and can't just point and choose whoever is single. @@nathantrujillo471

@SarahSmurFK

5 ай бұрын

Did he break up with u ? Nd what was the reason ? Mine because i got upset repeatedly coz he wd get defensive whenever i say he hurt me or said smth wrong, he wd snap right away nd consider it an argument when i just wannna express my feelings nd be heard. He said he got tired of this. Blocked me everywhere. We were gonna get married. Im sure he s nt coming back coz he s stubborn nd has big ego nd i dont think he s ever gone back to an ex but there is a bit of hope even tho im so hurt.

Hi Coach Lee, just wanted to ask you for your advice. My ex girlfriend recently deleted our Instagram photos after one month of no contact. She broke-up with me and I got a little emotional, but overall it wasn't a bad breakup and I understand why the breakup happened. I gave her the space and time she needed and see if maybe she'd reach out or I could contact her later in the near future, but her doing this has made me lose hope. Do you think there is any chance of her changing her mind later on and wanting to give our relationship another chance? I feel hopeless and I really want her back in my life.

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

EdwardDavian1, If it wasn't a bad Breakup then there is always hope. Go NO Contact with her and give her TIME to miss you. Also, you take the time to think. Let me recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which will help. I know it's very tough and I've certainly been there. I want to suggest that you consider Coach Lee's "Emergency Breakup Kit." It's such a good guide to help you so that you aren't just wondering on your own. It covers a lot of situations and has strategies that you probably haven't thought of. The link for it is myexbackcoach.com/ebk. I wholeheartedly recommend it and wish you the very best of luck.

@EdwardDavian1

11 ай бұрын

@@jannlewandowski5540 Thank you for your reply and I will consider getting the breakup kit. I hope she will reach out but I guess only time will tell.

@jannlewandowski5540

11 ай бұрын

​@@EdwardDavian1 Edward, best of luck to you. The Breakup Kit is excellent! Many strategies!!

@timsimon8995

11 ай бұрын

No hope sorry. You getting all emotional afterwards showed her that you're not confident in your ability to move on and find someone better. Which you can. But don't act like an emotional little boy. Be a man. Does James Bond cry over women?

My ex was too judgemental and had astronomically high standards. He was good looking though, at least in my eyes, but he dwelled too much on my negative traits for some reason. Not a good thing for a partner to do!

@Cometcast12

5 ай бұрын

Sounds like he was either a narcissist or more likely an avoidant. Their subconscious looks for flaws as a coping mechanism to justify their leaving you, a way to avoid commitment/intimacy … It’s miserable. And no one will ever be perfect except for in IG model pics of women that have had every beauty enhancing procedure available, plus AI technology beauty enhancement filters. So he will never find someone good enough in real life. Even if he did, he’ll eventually only notice her flaws. So, You dodged a bullet I promise

What do you do if both of you are practicing ‘no contact’?

@RealCoachLee

11 ай бұрын

Watch this video all the way through: kzread.info/dash/bejne/moeomcikgMawo7g.html

We are going to exchange our things on Sunday what should I do?

@RealCoachLee

2 ай бұрын

Oops.

Can you make a video where your gf leaves you because of broken trust or emotional infidelity ? What can a guy do in such scenario ? How can he regain her trust back ?

@RealCoachLee

11 ай бұрын

I suggest a coaching session with Coach Rex on my staff for that. You can schedule that call at myexbackcoach.com/coach-rex

18:44 that’s what happened to me. Not necessarily long distance, but she wanted me to move in and I hadn’t yet. When we broke up I offered and she said too late.