How To Make My Ex Chase Me

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Coach Lee shares how you can make your ex chase you even though they broke up with you.
If you have been dumped but are wanting the tables to turn so that you can get back together with your ex, then you want and need for that person to chase you instead of you being the one to pursue or chase them. So it's natural to ask how you can make your ex chase you.
Coach Lee will show you how to do that in this powerful and informative video that goes beyond clichés and jingles about getting an ex back after a split. Be sure to watch this video all the way through to fully understand and grasp the dynamics at work in this difficult situation.
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  • @amberjohnson4287
    @amberjohnson42873 жыл бұрын

    ‘They’ve been running and eventually they look back and realize they aren’t being chased, so they stop running’ 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @ENFPerspectives

    @ENFPerspectives

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣 that is a funny visual

  • @dshbhkt6186

    @dshbhkt6186

    3 жыл бұрын

    Xacly 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @davidhodgson5252

    @davidhodgson5252

    2 жыл бұрын

    I chased and now I quit chasing because They either like me or they dont

  • @namutebisharifah8621

    @namutebisharifah8621

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@davidhodgson5252 i stopped chasing him so he reached out am lyk not caring at all

  • @socal1772

    @socal1772

    2 жыл бұрын

    i bet youre the runner youre so beutiful

  • @The_Darrell
    @The_Darrell3 жыл бұрын

    One thing I really appreciate about you, is how calming you are. Most of your viewers are probably panicking and stressed, but you definitely help people relax with your tone, and words.

  • @BrianRoss6

    @BrianRoss6

    3 жыл бұрын

    I fall asleep listening to him all the time very nice lullaby

  • @james.black981

    @james.black981

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh heck yes. I totally agree. Lee could just read a phone bill and it would sound amazing

  • @gypsysummer1020

    @gypsysummer1020

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hes voice makes me sleepy... and i didnt understand totally will i feel relaxed now... thanks fornir advice.... but the thing is still i want my ex back 😔😥😪

  • @james.black981

    @james.black981

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gypsysummer1020 it goes away in time, and you learn sooooooo much in the process about yourself and what it means to be you.

  • @Jolene.098

    @Jolene.098

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @kyipasbeautyminati4172
    @kyipasbeautyminati41723 жыл бұрын

    I used to watch these videos desperately trying to get my ex back... But now i am married to another man who is far better than my ex lol

  • @nikki8789

    @nikki8789

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awesome!!

  • @antilaw9911

    @antilaw9911

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why married? A piece of legal contract paper does not assure your love will last. Marriage is a myth.

  • @kyipasbeautyminati4172

    @kyipasbeautyminati4172

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@antilaw9911 marriage is a big commitment, loosers don't do that.... A man wanting to marry you is one of the most respectful thing he is doing to you... Else he can just make you his gf sleep with u and leave... 😂

  • @xarmy5669

    @xarmy5669

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why are you still here then? Sorry to hear about your marriage aswell.

  • @kyipasbeautyminati4172

    @kyipasbeautyminati4172

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@xarmy5669 because i realized that once when you r suicidal for someone wont even mean a thing in one time and life doesn't end thr.... You can find better life after that... And you don't have to feel sorry for my marriage becoz i am happiest now... Feel blessed everyday

  • @greekmontana3008
    @greekmontana30082 жыл бұрын

    I’m literally gonna make my ex regret badly and improve my life dramatically. The power of motivation and to prove someone wrong is absolute strength to me

  • @jft2nd

    @jft2nd

    2 жыл бұрын

    100% doing the same

  • @yangtzeling7468

    @yangtzeling7468

    2 жыл бұрын

    The very fact that you bother to make your Ex regret badly Clearly reflects you are still a slave to your Ex. 😂

  • @aljok6629

    @aljok6629

    Жыл бұрын

    @@yangtzeling7468 yea but it gives him strenght to drastlicly improve him self. And in the end he will be back with his ex or he will not care about her anymore

  • @SA-kz6zc

    @SA-kz6zc

    Жыл бұрын

    @@yangtzeling7468 Using tragedies as motivation is what seperates a strong person from a weak person. You're weak

  • @yangtzeling7468

    @yangtzeling7468

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SA-kz6zc and you are tragically dumb and pathetic. A strong person just moves on. They don’t need to hold on to the “ tragedy “ of a past relationship to improve themselves. The irony of your assumption is hilarious. But it proves you are not the brightest bulb in the room.

  • @tylerrock356
    @tylerrock3563 жыл бұрын

    Listen to him. I bought his break up kit and followed everything he said. My ex came back in 2 months and we are stronger than ever. It may not always work but work on yourself, follow his rules and Ignore the negative comments. you’ll be in the position to win.

  • @memebaby5946

    @memebaby5946

    3 жыл бұрын

    Test him on WhatsApp

  • @hannahoriakhi6486

    @hannahoriakhi6486

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@enorough8704 lies scam scam scam!!

  • @kevinvanhorsing5141

    @kevinvanhorsing5141

    3 жыл бұрын

    My sinceres congratulations...sometimes we sabotage our relationship because our ignorance...l am fan of him already...

  • @audleylinton8471

    @audleylinton8471

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@enorough8704p

  • @grahamwalton8351

    @grahamwalton8351

    3 жыл бұрын

    How long were you guys together?

  • @pris_pris
    @pris_pris5 ай бұрын

    The first days to a week is HELL. It’s like you got the news that someone you love deeply died. Dreading everything right now but reading the comments here gives me hope. 😔😔😔

  • @Privilge05

    @Privilge05

    2 ай бұрын

    Literally.. I’m on day 6.. yesterday was probably the worst of this week. This comment hits home

  • @pris_pris

    @pris_pris

    2 ай бұрын

    @@Privilge05 hang in there…it DOES get better…I promise you…or he’ll come back to you..hang in there and know they’re thinking of you too.

  • @Goku19170

    @Goku19170

    Ай бұрын

    Updates?

  • @donovanbailey3333
    @donovanbailey3333 Жыл бұрын

    It may not get your ex back. But you have no idea how much this helps get through the worst nights by giving some semblance of hope.

  • @mfitzy100
    @mfitzy100 Жыл бұрын

    “Chase yourself..”- great line and advice

  • @juliet3227
    @juliet32273 жыл бұрын

    Honestly, I dont know how I could have gotten past my anxiety without Coach Lee.May God continue to bless you

  • @delindabrown555

    @delindabrown555

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can recommend you to the powerful Dr who helped me manifested my ex back permanently with more love and commitment. He can help you and bless your relationship perfectly

  • @delindabrown555

    @delindabrown555

    3 жыл бұрын

    +1,478,241,0387

  • @1stMarDiv4341
    @1stMarDiv4341 Жыл бұрын

    Sooo…..I started watching your videos to get my ex back. Well, I got her back. Not totally, taking it very slow and had our second date last Thursday night. What I’ve realized: 1) I felt better during no-contact. The first week was pure dog shit, but the next 23 days I felt free, empowered, and confident as hell 2) I don’t love her anymore. And, to be frank, I can do a lot better 3) I’ve lost 8 lbs. in six weeks but have added noticeable muscle development. Cut out processed foods and drinking. Dedicated myself to focusing on personal growth, but remembering to have fun as well. In contrast, it’s obvious my ex has done zero work. Rather than work on themselves, they’ve just been hitting up bars and drinking out with her girlfriends. And it’s obvious. It’s strange. Six weeks ago, I was a broken man. I thought I could never do better than her. Wow. I was wrong. Much love for your videos, Coach Lee. Update: we were going to meet again this coming Saturday, but I’m changing locations because I no longer want her and don’t want to lead her on. So the plan is to meet for a cup of coffee and I’m going to be honest and tell her it’s over. I’d say there’s no hard feelings, but there are (no animosity, though). And I’m not going to sacrifice the progress I’ve made to re-enter what ultimately was a toxic relationship. Also, down 13 lbs. overall but with added lean muscle mass. I feel amazing

  • @pawepetek7294

    @pawepetek7294

    11 ай бұрын

    That's great dude. I'm over 1 month after BU, but 2 weeks into No Contact. She hasn't contacted me yet, but I created an Instagram account a week ago and she started to follow me, watch my stories, like my posts. It's confusing to me but I'm not going to contact her. I'm meeting up with friends and visiting cool places, also seeing my therapist and I'm starting to work out! I want to be in a place where I love myself more than her. And maybe one day when she reaches out I will think about giving us another chance or maybe I will have outgrowned her by then. Anyways I'm so happy for you, take care.

  • @Bella.2424.

    @Bella.2424.

    11 ай бұрын

    I’m going through my pain with a guy that I really liked and it’s still raw. I’m struggling 😐 I’ve saved your comment and I’m hoping to feel better again because I thought I had it great with this guy but it hurts that he’s moved on so easily.

  • @andrianaemile6528
    @andrianaemile65283 жыл бұрын

    “Then they’re sick, and you’re better off without them” had me weak 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @dpatterson9540
    @dpatterson9540 Жыл бұрын

    The first 2 days is like someone died but then each day gets better. I did what Coach said, and he started to notice I didn't care, that turned the tide and he asked me back and only in my terms so thank you for keeping me see it at a macro level.

  • @kagamitaiga9167

    @kagamitaiga9167

    7 ай бұрын

    its a worse feeling than death, i feel you 😢

  • @Daigo_Salto
    @Daigo_Salto3 жыл бұрын

    Everytime I get anxiety, I quickly open youtube and watch your videos. Your videos are very helpful to keep myself sane and be positive about things. Thank you coach Lee

  • @nateengida3806

    @nateengida3806

    2 жыл бұрын

    Broski don’t run to KZread run to the Bible

  • @sahiljarwal

    @sahiljarwal

    12 күн бұрын

    Same here brother 😅😅

  • @siasia483
    @siasia4833 жыл бұрын

    Almost 30 days of no contact and still nothing from him. At this point I don't really expect him to reach out anymore (although I desire it so badly). I miss him like crazy but let me tell you this, my obsession SLOWLY fades away. Finally I can focus on something else even if it is just for 5-10 minutes, but still, I feel relieved. Keep fighting people, I wouldn't have survived without all these videos, they kept me relatively sane. EDIT: he reached out on day 35. But I think I screw it, because he got silent again. The point is though, they DO reach out when you follow strictly NC rule. Good luck anyone!

  • @siasia483

    @siasia483

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@axelbriggjern3534 Thanks!

  • @ericvega3597

    @ericvega3597

    3 жыл бұрын

    What did you say

  • @siasia483

    @siasia483

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ericvega3597 I kept it super short, he asked how I'm doing and I answered with simple "good, thank you". But I didn't screw it up with that response, as I initially thought. He reached out again three days after that and this time he actually wanted to meet and to talk to me. Therefore never lose hope

  • @luissantiago6077

    @luissantiago6077

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@siasia483 that’s awesome!! any updates?

  • @siasia483

    @siasia483

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@luissantiago6077 We were texting and talking on the phone for a few days, but he didn't really seem to be 100% sure if he wants to be in relationship again. I couldn't deal with that, my heart was aching every time I heard his voice, because the vision of being his friend or whatever was thousand times worse than not being with him at all. So I call the meeting off and asked him politely not to bother me. He was sad but he didn't try to talk me out of it, so here we are again: another 30 days of NC... (btw I still believe it was a good decision - it has spared me a lot of pain, I'm starting to heal).

  • @rikkubeans
    @rikkubeans Жыл бұрын

    The funny thing about the popular quote 'Curiosity killed the cat' is that it's only half of the original line. The full quote is 'Curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back'.

  • @coachevy2851
    @coachevy28513 жыл бұрын

    I've always wanted to be therapist, counselor, or a psychologist...I've been binging on coaching videos for about a year. I must say Coach Lee is the best..I use to be intimidated to watch his videos cause he looks so serious, but once I started watching him I got addicted! I watch at least 4 of his videos before I go to bed..I even watch him before I come to work!! He leaves NO stone unturned!! He is so passionate about his coaching...it makes him so attractive! 🖤☺

  • @asiamiller6833

    @asiamiller6833

    2 жыл бұрын

    He is the best and he gives you hope

  • @mihaiandreianghel8999

    @mihaiandreianghel8999

    Жыл бұрын

    I am a straight guy, but those blue eyes....talk about attractivnes

  • @lindop3523
    @lindop35233 жыл бұрын

    I have a great testimony to deliver. We got back with my ex and things are finally working out for the both of us now. Thank you Coach for the tips! They were not easy but worth it

  • @ohlalaxobeer

    @ohlalaxobeer

    3 жыл бұрын

    How long did it take ?

  • @ENFPerspectives

    @ENFPerspectives

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @lindop3523

    @lindop3523

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ohlalaxobeer It took Four months and we were in No contact for three months.

  • @niki0831

    @niki0831

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's awesome

  • @ags835

    @ags835

    Жыл бұрын

    That's great! Wish you luck :)

  • @rovielynphotography9221
    @rovielynphotography92213 жыл бұрын

    I feel so hurT coz he dumped me but listening to this motivation brings me who i am in God again.. My worth is comes from God not from anyone

  • @jocelynrazon1248
    @jocelynrazon12483 жыл бұрын

    It is my 46th day of NC. My ex texted me today and told me he missed and wanted me back. I told him I am now on the moving on stage and all I want from him is to help me forget him. And I think I'll regret this in the next couple of days, but I am not going back to that toxic relationship again. Thank you so much your advices coach Lee. I can now close this chapter of my life.

  • @Dougstakes

    @Dougstakes

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m not going to suggest powerful people, haha, but great job! That’s awesome how you can just choose your destiny and not have your ex choose yours

  • @tammycain8421

    @tammycain8421

    2 жыл бұрын

    WOW SUCH STRENGTH.

  • @tammycain8421

    @tammycain8421

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Dougstakes perfectly put

  • @tammycain8421

    @tammycain8421

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Blythe Girl I know what you are saying but maybe she is right!

  • @bensal2426
    @bensal24263 жыл бұрын

    Day 26 of No Contact I’ve joined a boxing gym and working on my self care and fitness. It wasn’t easy at first but once you develop the idea of working on yourself during NC, you become stronger everyday. Stay Strong and Do NOT chase!

  • @sumanshah8871

    @sumanshah8871

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir I got lost love because of you. I am giving your number. You also help them. WhatsApp or call - +91-7665370054

  • @gypsysummer1020

    @gypsysummer1020

    3 жыл бұрын

    Help me out this feeling right now guys... 😪😥

  • @sobreezy2456

    @sobreezy2456

    Жыл бұрын

    Did she reach out?

  • @jerrycheah7516
    @jerrycheah75163 жыл бұрын

    I had 2 choices: Walk away and Risk Everything, or Stay and Try and Hold on to Nothing.

  • @jerrycheah7516

    @jerrycheah7516

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@dwightschrute8141 I have Walked away, and feeling much at peace now

  • @spreadlife9311

    @spreadlife9311

    2 жыл бұрын

    Update after 4 months ?

  • @jerrycheah7516

    @jerrycheah7516

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@spreadlife9311 Walked Away as of Today...

  • @brenlynrosedellosa9237

    @brenlynrosedellosa9237

    2 жыл бұрын

    I hope you're doing okay ❤️

  • @TEUTONIC__ORDER699

    @TEUTONIC__ORDER699

    2 жыл бұрын

    Much respect man💪

  • @mamziemay1575
    @mamziemay15752 жыл бұрын

    I NEVER chased, pleaded or begged. Gave him the break-up. And I always did work on myself, meditate, yoga, kayaking, gym, bicycling, have hobbies, family, friends, etc. Ex was gaga for me for years; we've had an emotional connection for years, then romantic/physical. Thought we both wanted the same thing, that we were each other's person. I'm leaving the country for almost two months, will have that country's sim card, so won't even know if he will contact me. Honestly, I don't think I will ever feel the same way towards him, after he pushed me away, after all we had been through just to be together. To say I'm crushed is an understatement. Want to do what they did in "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind" and wipe all memory of him from my mind and heart.

  • @michaelvargas82
    @michaelvargas823 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee is an amazing coach. His videos and calming words have made NC and my breakup a lot more manageable. Stick to No Contact, self improvement and become the best version of yourself in No Contact.

  • @rjvillan
    @rjvillan2 жыл бұрын

    I've been binge watching your videos. You're the best at giving an explanation on the psychology about relationships, not only about getting an ex back but keeping them. Thank you so much!

  • @mlong506
    @mlong5063 жыл бұрын

    4.5 months no contact. He was in a rebound and reached out to me twice while with her. Haven't heard from him since early Dec when he emailed telling me he was mad at me, lol. Stay strong people, just keep getting better for yourselves! 💪

  • @chinarose6056

    @chinarose6056

    3 жыл бұрын

    Just keep doing what ya doing. He is mad because you are doing what Coach Lee advised us to do. No contact. He didn't know what he had until he probably lost it.

  • @mlong506

    @mlong506

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chinarose6056 Amen! Thank you for the reply.

  • @basicinfo2022

    @basicinfo2022

    5 ай бұрын

    women should tell the new gf when this happens. just forward the screenshot to her. no one should be cheated on or used as a rebound unknowingly. emailing you is micro-cheating.

  • @Veev-zg8tg

    @Veev-zg8tg

    3 ай бұрын

    This is good and it works but,my X is a manipulative man. So he will block me and go and mess with another woman and then,when he is done with her? He will un block me and come back to me. Also he is a liar. So? Short story. I am DONE”. I am moving forward and DO NOT WANT him. I know my worth and better off,without him.

  • @basicinfo2022

    @basicinfo2022

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Veev-zg8tg narcissistic abusive men like this should be exposed and publicly shamed

  • @jackbukowski9363
    @jackbukowski93633 жыл бұрын

    Very legit guy. No b.s. He gives it to you straight. Seen a couple crappy coaches out there but this guy isn't one of them. he is the best

  • @zeroonezero7852
    @zeroonezero78523 жыл бұрын

    Coach lee Everytime I thought about messaging my ex I came to watch one of your videos and it gives me the comfort & support to not be a dummy I thank you so much for your service

  • @jennyliew7179

    @jennyliew7179

    3 жыл бұрын

    That demon down there is a medium using voodoo ! Stay away people, they are working for satan!

  • @raypierce3205

    @raypierce3205

    3 жыл бұрын

    Man don’t be me Ctfu I got blocked

  • @RR-oy5mt

    @RR-oy5mt

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@raypierce3205 after how many days did you reach out ?

  • @raypierce3205

    @raypierce3205

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@RR-oy5mt probably like the 10 or 14th day. She didn’t reply at all basically forced her to talk to me by blowing up her phone. It all ended up to me being block I tried message her from a different phone and was told by her to stop talking to her. Shit hurt. Don’t be me

  • @RR-oy5mt

    @RR-oy5mt

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@raypierce3205 it was too soon, I’m 30’days in and I haven’t reach out. Coach Lee recommends to reach out after 75 days, it sounds crazy but we can do it, just stay busy

  • @ctgeorgia
    @ctgeorgia3 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee... Can you imagine being his son/daughter? What an incredible wellspring of sage advice growing up!

  • @h3arty
    @h3arty3 жыл бұрын

    My ex blocked me and said he's dating someone :/ after things seemed to be going well... I blocked him back and deleted... Cos i was chasing... But my deal breaker is him dating someone new, I'm done for good. 100%

  • @aliciau2276

    @aliciau2276

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hang in there, bud. You got this.

  • @mylesm1494

    @mylesm1494

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pretty much dude

  • @RR-oy5mt

    @RR-oy5mt

    3 жыл бұрын

    It might be a rebound relationship, just give it time to fail and then wait for him to reach out

  • @astrostar7018

    @astrostar7018

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@RR-oy5mt I’m pretty sure he will and very repented.... rebound ’is just a banded

  • @RR-oy5mt

    @RR-oy5mt

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@astrostar7018 be ready when he comes back, play it simple and don’t chase, let him do 90% of the chasing

  • @konstia79
    @konstia79 Жыл бұрын

    You have made my "crisis"period so calm and smooth. Sych powerful advises. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Following all your advice has made my heart to carry on to the right direction. .... rebuilding myself!!!

  • @thoomm
    @thoomm2 жыл бұрын

    You are the best Coach ive heard! Thank you for the quiet, rational yet compassionate and meaningful delivery!

  • @MrChristianLoving
    @MrChristianLoving3 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee deserves SO MUCH MORE subscriber activity. He's so much better than other larger KZread channels. He got my attention when he said NOT TO IGNORE the the ex during No Contact. Because that was the opposite of what is proposed by other big YT channels. But my instincts told me Coach Lee was right...HE WAS. Respond, but be neutral. Indifferent. It works fantastic. Reply, but don't initiate. Does the job of you not looking like an asshole or bitter AND it makes them keep coming back.

  • @richardharbron6086

    @richardharbron6086

    2 жыл бұрын

    Did it work out for you? Have you any examples of neutral responses. I find it so difficult to control myself and be in a state of confidence and neutrality with her, I feel 95% certain that she’s friend zoning me, we have a child together which makes the N/C so much more difficult for me, and I keep finding myself saying things to try and get the outcome I want when deep down I know it’s not going to work, I know it’s more likely keeping her in the relief stage (if she even cares enough or has any worry at all to feel relieved), and keep pushing her away. I do stupid things all the time like switching from hinting and trying to flirt, to being passive aggressive type behaviour, ignorant, back to trying to be nice and hinting at sorting things out. Some days I manage ok without getting texts, then others my anxiety ruins me and I feel pathetic and weak and so full of fear that I’ll never get her back and that someone else may have her attention already. I keep checking her Facebook profile and her Snapchat count and checking when she’s online etc. I’ve spent countless hours watching all of coach Lee’s videos and they help while watching them, but when it comes to putting the advice in to action, it’s almost like I’ve not yet seen a single video, it slips my mind and I almost do everything the opposite, or sometimes I’ll follow the advice for a very short period and before I know it I’m reverting back to doing the wrong things again through fear based emotions. I try to tell myself “f@@@ her, she can do what she wants, there’s no point in me trying” then boom, there I go again stumbling down the wrong path again. Sorry for this long message

  • @gemini1926
    @gemini19262 жыл бұрын

    Thank you coach Lee! You’ve really helped me get over my breakup faster than i have any others . I’m at a point now where…I don’t even want him back anymore . I feel happy single and on my own

  • @waynesalisbury
    @waynesalisbury2 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee is the most calmest and honest person Ive ever had the pleasure of listening to. Many blessings to you sir🖐💪👍

  • @brandylee2434
    @brandylee2434 Жыл бұрын

    This video is two years ago and it still helping me out right now. Thank you coach lee. Let’s make sure we tip this guy! Life changing videos Prayers to everybody watching this and healing at the same time.

  • @cfxxmaxxy1876
    @cfxxmaxxy1876 Жыл бұрын

    coach lee is the best breakup coach out there other coaches give illogical tips which will push exes far away

  • @lemooncakee
    @lemooncakee3 жыл бұрын

    You are truly one of the best coaches out there! Thank you coach lee for your wisdom 😊

  • @giulianofaria

    @giulianofaria

    Жыл бұрын

    He's a calm guy.

  • @eliswerekio
    @eliswerekio3 жыл бұрын

    I think I'm gonna stop by every coach Lees video and say thank you.. Thank you for your videos, they are really appriciated and you really help people. 🙌

  • @Freerydah73
    @Freerydah732 жыл бұрын

    You talk very effectively. It really feels like you’re on our side. You deserve your success you have now.

  • @Freerydah73

    @Freerydah73

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you coach. I’m in the middle of trying to win back my ex. Very bad break up. Did it to myself by being weak and needy. I’ve been watching your videos and following your lead and I’m already seeing positive results. Not out of the woods yet but I can see some hope. You’re the best among so many coaches on KZread. Again thank you coach Lee!

  • @randommf3549

    @randommf3549

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@Freerydah73update

  • @maria8943
    @maria89432 жыл бұрын

    I listen to these every morning and every night to help me through the day.

  • @abhijitc251083
    @abhijitc2510833 жыл бұрын

    After my breakup, I now have a motivation: Money and building finances for my future. Thanks to her for pointing that out. I still love her, but I am far too uninvolved to respond even remotely favourably. And I need to focus on my family. Things will b much better for me, but she may or may not b part of that life I would have so loved to gift her. I pray she is happy and has clarity on everything she does.

  • @n1njaxmae
    @n1njaxmae3 жыл бұрын

    I'm not even watching his videos anymore to get my ex back I'm just entertained.

  • @sawomirantoskiewicz9540
    @sawomirantoskiewicz95402 жыл бұрын

    One video from coach Lee a day keeps the doctor away... Thank you

  • @a.fleming
    @a.fleming3 жыл бұрын

    I started dating other men, just to have fun and clear my head. Life is short and I REFUSE to chase, beg, whine or cry over him. If he thinks there's something better, then by all means, go get it🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @a.fleming

    @a.fleming

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@endywendy4065 Lord y'all are relentless! Not interested in your WhatsApp scam!!

  • @a.fleming

    @a.fleming

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@endywendy4065 I don't need help getting anybody back.... Where did I say that?

  • @a.fleming

    @a.fleming

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mod511 Where did I say I need help? It's a thousand of y'all posting this under everyone's comments 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @a.fleming

    @a.fleming

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@adamuarabiu5016 go away creep

  • @carmensmith1453

    @carmensmith1453

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@adamuarabiu5016 go away ...

  • @retard_activated
    @retard_activated3 жыл бұрын

    Imagine being a partner of someone like Coach Lee and not even needing his advice 😍😭😍😭😍

  • @99craziichick
    @99craziichick3 жыл бұрын

    After my ex ignored me and shut me out of his life. When he breaks no contact and asks me "why don't you check on me" 😂😂😂

  • @RR-oy5mt
    @RR-oy5mt3 жыл бұрын

    One month of NC She hasn’t reach out, I’m working on my self and becoming a better version of myself. I want her to reach out so bad

  • @mylesm1494

    @mylesm1494

    3 жыл бұрын

    Give it more time.should be sometime soon

  • @mylesm1494

    @mylesm1494

    3 жыл бұрын

    Watch the other video.. make sure you play it right or it might get difficult

  • @h2oboi531

    @h2oboi531

    3 жыл бұрын

    You work on yourself because you want it YOURSELF, not for her

  • @trevorharding3783

    @trevorharding3783

    3 жыл бұрын

    R R I just made one month of no contact. She hasn't reached out either, but she still has me on Google hangouts, so maybe she's either wondering if I'm moving or if I'm going to break first. I will not break. She's going to have to reach out to me.

  • @trevorharding3783

    @trevorharding3783

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gildayu4390 That may be true, which could make the situation harder for both sides.

  • @samhouse9143
    @samhouse91433 жыл бұрын

    Man when Coach Lee said “Anybody would be happy to have you then why don’t they wanna be with you” that’s exactly how I felt. Why tell me I deserve better from you but you’re not taking the necessary steps to do better like I did but instead you left? I don’t get it.

  • @soilemacall7809

    @soilemacall7809

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@inspiredbyraya106 Not all of them this one that help me he is no scammer

  • @resurrection2983
    @resurrection2983 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much Coach Lee...God sent me to your page and thanks for helping us grow...I appreciate all the knowledge you give....You have been an absolute GAME CHANGER in many difficult relationships....God bless you

  • @treasurediamond6304
    @treasurediamond63042 жыл бұрын

    I love this coach he’s so straight forward with a straight face the entire time. He means business 😂😂

  • @lisabaughn

    @lisabaughn

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know! It's like how did the grim reaper become the world's leading love counselor? So funny. Much love to Coach Lee. Definitely a unique person in the world.

  • @astrostar7018
    @astrostar70183 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee,.. you were borne to do what do. In a very brilliant way 👏👏👏

  • @fraserdougall8965
    @fraserdougall89653 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Again Lee, we all appreciate your advice and knowledge. Much love

  • @cockasaurus16
    @cockasaurus162 жыл бұрын

    Love the section with the ‘ Bird ‘ keeps skipping away if you get to close..but the more patient you are, the bird will let you get closer ! 👌

  • @mustaphaajibade6336

    @mustaphaajibade6336

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello all thanks to Dr kingsley I'm so excited right now my broken relationship has been restored my ex husband is back after left me for another woman I was helped by someone He can also help you too....❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯

  • @mustaphaajibade6336

    @mustaphaajibade6336

    2 жыл бұрын

    WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @tercsi1
    @tercsi13 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Coach Lee! This video really helped me see why I should stay in no contact. I've been chasing for 2 months and I'm done.

  • @bladimiragurcia4720

    @bladimiragurcia4720

    6 ай бұрын

    You need to be chasing me 😅

  • @j.l.7325
    @j.l.73252 жыл бұрын

    Thank you coach. You sound realistic mellow assertive professional voice is calming during stressful uncertain relationship moments. I can tell the coach is speaking from 1st hand experience went thru alot of what he coaches. He is a good guy helping people going thru difficult relationships. Thanks for sharing.

  • @lisabaughn
    @lisabaughn2 жыл бұрын

    Love our Coach Lee. You're such a gift to us, brother!

  • @sabajanjua9323
    @sabajanjua93233 жыл бұрын

    Youre a wizard! Two things they said to me that resonated with me which you mention in your videos all the time, 1) “It is not you, it’s me;” (2) I will deal with it if I realize that the break up was a bad idea!

  • @glasysmabada1984
    @glasysmabada1984 Жыл бұрын

    Yes i love how calm you are coach.and your videos make me feel confidence

  • @selamawitberhe4283
    @selamawitberhe42833 жыл бұрын

    You are a very good adviser. I love it. God bless you with more wisdom. You are helping so many

  • @senatorarmstrong9459
    @senatorarmstrong9459 Жыл бұрын

    This is wisdom based and learned from experience. They say knowledge is power, and it truly is. I am grateful for all of this because it is currently helping me with my ex who isn't doing right right now mentally with familial issues and school.

  • @jayrulez7808
    @jayrulez78083 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Coach! You’re advices build my self esteem stronger every time I hear your words of encouragement! Self love brings value and confidence.

  • @diablo8632
    @diablo86323 жыл бұрын

    You've helped me a lot through my recent breakup, was really hard for me to lose a girl I've loved for 4 and half years now. Watching your videos has shown me not to panic like I did after did after the break up and focus on myself and let time do its thing and give her the space she wants. I miss her a lot and have really bad anxiety and the urge to message her 24/7 but you're videos have gave me the strength not to; I fear I've proper lost the love of my life though. I hope one day I can be happy alone or eventually she comes back. it's been about 2 months so far and I'm fearful she is now speaking to a mutual friend of ours in a romantic way (I really hope not). Wish everyone in the comments all the luck and happiness with whatever outcome come their way, hopefully it's one that makes you happy. and I thank you coach lee not only for giving me a different perspective and allowing me to focus on the mature response but also helping me slowly fix my mental health.

  • @stellajames4686

    @stellajames4686

    3 жыл бұрын

    There a powerful man who help me get my ex back in just 48 in spell his 100% sure after I contacted him he help get my lover back

  • @stellajames4686

    @stellajames4686

    3 жыл бұрын

    W..h.a..t..s..a..p..p..h..i..m

  • @stellajames4686

    @stellajames4686

    3 жыл бұрын

    +..1..(..4..7..0..) ..6..7..3-..0..9..9..2

  • @faithwealth615

    @faithwealth615

    3 жыл бұрын

    +1 ( 9 7 8 ) 9 3 5- 8 8 8 6.

  • @faithwealth615

    @faithwealth615

    3 жыл бұрын

    Chat me now on w ha t sa p p to know how

  • @lynx5603
    @lynx56033 жыл бұрын

    Good damn!! breakups are like puzzled up rubicks cube you don't no what's going to happen next

  • @delindabrown555

    @delindabrown555

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can recommend you to the powerful Dr who helped me got my ex back permanently with more love and commitment. He can help you and bless your relationship perfectly

  • @delindabrown555

    @delindabrown555

    3 жыл бұрын

    +1,478,241,0387

  • @Ohgood4you

    @Ohgood4you

    3 жыл бұрын

    Classic 🤣

  • @micallll100
    @micallll1003 жыл бұрын

    Trust coach lee, no contact works He reached out after 2 months and we met up

  • @tooxlent
    @tooxlent3 жыл бұрын

    Oh my God, you are a lifesaver! Thank you coach.

  • @morgy1916
    @morgy1916 Жыл бұрын

    it's been almost 2 months my ex broke up with me, but I only been in NC 2 weeks. I honestly did not know better until I started watching these things, on KZread. I hope I have not left it to late, but if I have at least I finally am showing myself and her some pride in my life.

  • @r.a.28
    @r.a.283 жыл бұрын

    Ever since my breakup, I've been binging on these videos. Well, then I started re-watching them, slowly and with full attention, to actually understand and try to follow what Coach is trying to advise. I'm trying the NC rule myself, has been a few weeks. Hope it works.

  • @SlaminSalmon-ni3wj

    @SlaminSalmon-ni3wj

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here, I’m praying it’s gonna work

  • @sobreezy2456

    @sobreezy2456

    Жыл бұрын

    Did it work?

  • @d34285
    @d34285 Жыл бұрын

    I found it is important to heal first and then you will find your opinions will vastly change and you won't be thinking about your ex. Keep improving you!

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    David Southerland. That's a GREAT ATTITUDE. HEAL FIRST, then date. Never rebound! Good luck to you..

  • @AzazelHash281
    @AzazelHash2813 жыл бұрын

    You really chill out the panic

  • @kevinvanhorsing5141
    @kevinvanhorsing51413 жыл бұрын

    This guy's is so so smart that really got me thinking...ignorance is very daring...

  • @duggiefresh8170
    @duggiefresh8170 Жыл бұрын

    You are very insightful and skilled at explaining feelings into words and words into strategy.

  • @loriann7117
    @loriann71172 жыл бұрын

    Thank you coach lee. You actually make a lot more sense than some of those popularity-grabbing, money-hungry coaches put together. and by the way @coach Lee I am seeing scammers' comments everywhere in this video... just a heads up.

  • @loriann7117

    @loriann7117

    2 жыл бұрын

    😅😅😅😅😅

  • @daha.vincent
    @daha.vincent3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Coach Lee. I feel better right now 💪

  • @grantoldblueeagle
    @grantoldblueeagle3 жыл бұрын

    Wow that’s the best thing I’ve heard for a long time

  • @23.27
    @23.27Ай бұрын

    Sometimes Coach Lee just cracks me up. He doesn’t even try to be funny it’s just I find myself chuckling sometimes. 😭

  • @Sihara.Liyanapathirana
    @Sihara.Liyanapathirana Жыл бұрын

    After 30 days of no contact, we were back to talking. It’s been 9 days now, and I’ve realized I’ve gone back to being the pursuer. He is still unsure of what he wants and even though he says he wants to spend time with me more, he doesn’t want to be with me exclusively. I’ve decided to go back into NC for one more month. Let’s see what happens. Baby steps.

  • @dt8427
    @dt84273 жыл бұрын

    Coach Awesome back with another great video! Love ya Man!

  • @naugarcia4991
    @naugarcia49912 жыл бұрын

    I'm learning so much listening to your podcast.. thank you .. I'm in so much in pain .. didn't know he is a narcissist with PTSD.

  • @maraecandy601
    @maraecandy6013 жыл бұрын

    Works! Thank you for all your advice.!!!

  • @Esteban_Narvaez_MD
    @Esteban_Narvaez_MD Жыл бұрын

    I can't thank you enough for what you do, I've been suffering a lot, full of anxiety, and I was about to commit suicide, I felt lost, but watching your videos gave me hope, I even bought the emergency kit, and now I'm still suffering but I'm calm working in myself and having patience, letting time do its job and believing it can happen to me that she comes back. Thank you.

  • @gregsilva1472

    @gregsilva1472

    Жыл бұрын

    Update

  • @daddyshark

    @daddyshark

    Жыл бұрын

    Did she?

  • @Esteban_Narvaez_MD

    @Esteban_Narvaez_MD

    Жыл бұрын

    @@daddyshark No, she did not come back and I don't want to, I'm better now.

  • @Esteban_Narvaez_MD

    @Esteban_Narvaez_MD

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gregsilva1472 she did not come back and I don't want to, I'm better now.

  • @fern-cx3bf

    @fern-cx3bf

    8 ай бұрын

    @@Esteban_Narvaez_MDhow are you now???

  • @Himothy_xx
    @Himothy_xx3 жыл бұрын

    Walking away is the best thing for me and I’m proud of that . Going on 3 months with no type of communication. Feeling great about myself 💯💯

  • @Himothy_xx

    @Himothy_xx

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@dwightschrute8141 same my brother no contact, feelings a lot better then the last time I posted this. Self cure , and staying active

  • @monicawylie3985
    @monicawylie39852 жыл бұрын

    Right now I just learned that my ex is pursuing a hook up with someone and I feel destroyed. We had broken up three weeks ago and it feels like forever. As a matter fact it will be 30 days on month Monday that we haven’t been together. I need to live through this. I never wanted to go through this pain again. Maybe it’s better that we split up I guess. But I hold out hope. And your videos have been giving me comfort ever since. If I don’t get him back at least I have all of this information in case this ever happens to me in the future. I will keep listening thank you so much

  • @JavierPwD
    @JavierPwD3 жыл бұрын

    coach lee is a robot, he is just perfect!!!

  • @madeleine8507
    @madeleine85073 жыл бұрын

    So...ex came back and now I don't know how to behave, lol. I'm holding back.

  • @inspiredbyraya106

    @inspiredbyraya106

    3 жыл бұрын

    Share your story pls. How long did it take and how and was he involved with someone else?

  • @rb879

    @rb879

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah tell more how long he came back?

  • @madeleine8507

    @madeleine8507

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@inspiredbyraya106 It was no contact for about one and a half month. He texted the day after Valentine's Day and we have just reconnected so I'm not sure exactly what's going on except he "missed me and he adores me". I'm not sure what's going on, lol.

  • @sumanshah8871

    @sumanshah8871

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir I got lost love because of you. I am giving your number. You also help them. WhatsApp or call - +91-7665370054

  • @darylwright3393

    @darylwright3393

    3 жыл бұрын

    Madeleine I can see why he came back...you are stunning with a great voice.

  • @coreylaughy1066
    @coreylaughy10663 жыл бұрын

    No contact day 1: disabled social media (30days), phone number still viable form of contact. She moved out when I was at work. Just me and my cat now. Sent a couple texts hours after she left now I feel like a ghost. Been watching his videos since starting no contact. She came back once before, 7 days after no contact. I have become super disciplined in everything. Weird how much you can change after being an emotional wreck.

  • @brenlynrosedellosa9237

    @brenlynrosedellosa9237

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are you?

  • @talentchigiya1813

    @talentchigiya1813

    Жыл бұрын

    Kkkk😂 just me and my cat

  • @Angreyelmo
    @Angreyelmo8 ай бұрын

    Your videos keep me sane.

  • @mxsharkgang3246
    @mxsharkgang32463 жыл бұрын

    Thank you coach for the dose of reality. We use to walk up to eachother alot at work but now it's not the same. I started NC but I been trying to get that fire back at work. Smh. I need to fall back..... hard working together. Edit: I texted him lastweek to see how he was since he didn't look 100%. He replied " hes ok. Going through some things. Making decisions in life" I never replied... I miss him like hell but... I know my worth. I'm crying less but its still tough to function at work since the breakup.

  • @mxsharkgang3246

    @mxsharkgang3246

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@axelbriggjern3534 I'll look for it thank you

  • @mxsharkgang3246

    @mxsharkgang3246

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@axelbriggjern3534 thank you Axel. Trying my best

  • @haroldcook1638
    @haroldcook16383 жыл бұрын

    i really do like this video!! you are so right on about everything that you talked about in this video!!

  • @joannebonsall8045
    @joannebonsall80452 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee’s advice is so helpful, thank you!

  • @mustaphaajibade6336

    @mustaphaajibade6336

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello all thanks to Dr kingsley I'm so excited right now my broken relationship has been restored my ex husband is back after left me for another woman I was helped by someone He can also help you too....❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯

  • @mustaphaajibade6336

    @mustaphaajibade6336

    2 жыл бұрын

    WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @gildayu4390
    @gildayu43903 жыл бұрын

    Hi coach, Everytime I'm confused it seems that you knew what I'm thinking and how i felt, I just think about it few minutes ago and here you are.

  • @delindabrown555

    @delindabrown555

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can recommend you to the powerful Dr who helped me manifested my ex back permanently with more love and commitment. He can help you and bless your relationship perfectly

  • @delindabrown555

    @delindabrown555

    3 жыл бұрын

    +1,478,241,0387 ..

  • @spiritualhealer1402
    @spiritualhealer14023 жыл бұрын

    I have been watching Coach Lee for awhile now, and he is on point. I dont have money for services at this time, but i could really use some help. I have a really hard exterior but internally sometimes i feel myself breaking down again.😥💪💪💪😥

  • @lesleytindall1786
    @lesleytindall17863 жыл бұрын

    Quite hard in lockdown to be with friends and family and live on your own

  • @LiLgPnoy15
    @LiLgPnoy153 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee and Coach Craig Kenneth are the best I have ever seen.

  • @maybugz

    @maybugz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeh apart from his squeaky voice

  • @micallll100

    @micallll100

    3 жыл бұрын

    Craig is horrible

  • @seannoneya7181

    @seannoneya7181

    3 жыл бұрын

    Coach Corey Wayne

  • @josephgodwin9653

    @josephgodwin9653

    3 жыл бұрын

    I like both. Clay rounds them out for the perfect trio for me.

  • @maybugz

    @maybugz

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@josephgodwin9653 yeh clay is pretty good. But I have to say Lee's vids got me through some dark times after my breakup. And coach Natalie on the other channel, she has a chilled out style like Lee has.

  • @itsAuffy
    @itsAuffy2 жыл бұрын

    Coach lee works. She reached out after 29 days no contact (for the most part). She asked to catch up before we all left for thanksgiving break and then changed her mind the next morning. It’s been five days since the last text. I’m at the point where I’m committed to never contacting her ever again. I’m just grateful she reached out to me at all. That meant a lot. I’m satisfied.

  • @fairisfairfairisfair9788
    @fairisfairfairisfair9788 Жыл бұрын

    You are the best coach lee. You have helped me a lot. Your videos are a part of my day.

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m honored.

  • @sujatakhatun9119
    @sujatakhatun91192 жыл бұрын

    He will never come back I know it's hurts💔🙂

  • @DRaven-of2lv
    @DRaven-of2lv3 жыл бұрын

    I was just about to look at her social media, too. Good save

  • @jessiekyrie7560
    @jessiekyrie75603 жыл бұрын

    thank you coach Lee this helped me a lot 🙏🏾

  • @jimmyasares2086
    @jimmyasares20863 жыл бұрын

    Im from philippines tnx for ur video its makes me comfort but i dont want my ex back anymore coz iv heart so much to the point that i dont want to see her even in her picture..god bless

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