When I realized there is no man that is worth ruining my health peace and joy over my healing began and now happily single ❤️

@leesh2684

Ай бұрын

Me too.

@liana2136

Ай бұрын

I believe being single is so underrated! Enjoy!! ❤

@NancyStinger-ll6wt

Ай бұрын

@@liana2136 I agree and I do enjoy

@afoster3392

Ай бұрын

Same here! ☀️

@jenniferkading3265

Ай бұрын

Co dependency was not mentioned but this is what sticks so many people in stage 3

I kept it from my daughter who was having her first baby that her father, my husband, well ex to be after 40 years of marriage was cheating , He Tried to deny it , wouldn’t talk about it. I didn’t tell anyone I went through two years of him denying it ,before I could find out the truth, and then leave .I got partial Alopecia from the stress . I wanted to be the strong one. I didn’t want anybody to know, so I ate my pain and gained a lot of weight and I’m having a lot of trouble losing it , but one thing I know is God was with me every step of the way or I would not have made it And I will not have hate, I will not have hate towards him.

@pinkva23

Ай бұрын

KZread Alexandra Kay “Painted him Perfect.” This song sounds just like you and your situation. It’s so good. You will jam out in your car and cry! I have many times. Please listen!

@skoolie_life3261

11 күн бұрын

My heart goes out to you. My father cheated on my mom after 35 years of marriage. She was with him from age 16. She only told me at first, and I was the only one who knew for a couple of months, at least. I’m sorry that you had to go through it alone. My mom is still not the same, and this happened in 2015, almost 10 years ago. She will be forever changed, but I have seen glimpses of her old self peek through over the years. However, there’s an underlying cynicism that I think will always be there. Sending love ❤

Sometimes it’s about forgiving yourself for putting yourself in a horrible situation

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

Definitely

Probably the most important subject matter you have talked about on your channel! Betrayal from the one person you trust most in your life! It’s devastating ! Thank you Dominque.

I am going to a Betrayal trauma retreat in May! It’s been 3 years since I found out about the first affair (he had multiple,) and 2 years since my ex husband left me and our 4 year old (at the time.) I thought that with this much time past it would have gotten easier (the betrayal trauma,) but I still cry at cheating articles or any show I watch where I can see the other woman’s pain. I’m excited to go to the retreat and hopefully heal a part of my soul. Thank you so much for this interview!

@SpecialK711

Ай бұрын

Bless you for overcoming & getting the help needed to fully recover. 🙏🏼

It took me 20 years to heal from the betrayals. Thank God I recovered! Family betrayals injure your soul more than anything else. My breakthrough came after I forgave the betrayers in my heart. Yes, when you forgive you’re healing yourself. God released my pain and anger. Only then could I move forward. That was 7 years ago. Excellent video.

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

So glad you healed!

It is the first time - I have written notes listening to a podcast. Valuable, valuable valuable.

@theresaforgione1967

Ай бұрын

Same!

@dominiquesachsetv

Ай бұрын

I LOVE THAT!! So glad this could help you. Thank you so much for being here ♥️

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

So glad!

I just went on to the doctor’s website. I’m going to do her program. I’ve been stuck for over 20 years after divorcing an abusive man. Thank you so much for this podcast, Dominique!❤🙏

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

Great! The program to do would be our Reclaim program-looking forward to seeing you there!

@AMP34773

Ай бұрын

​@@DebiSilberis it possible to join the program also online? I'm living in Europe...

@theworldofjuniperthecat1307

Ай бұрын

Bless you. Praying for you.

@odettebechard1808

29 күн бұрын

So do I , 20 years of resisting , it is time i quit that

This woman is talking about me. I’m really glad you did this podcast! Thank you both!

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

Glad it resonated!

Thank you for featuring this subject, Dominique. Dr. Silber is so correct in saying, 'death of the old' and 'birth of the new!' I experienced betrayal in my marriage and my husband and I forgave each other, we found God, and He healed us. Betrayal can be devastating, that is a fact, but learning to forgive and value the promises and vows we made to each other in marriage strengthened our relationship and the love we have for one another. My prayer is that God helps and heals those who have experienced betrayal through forgiveness, love, and renewal. There IS hope!!!♥️

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

Yes!

@sheilatruesdale1536

Ай бұрын

Hi Dominque this podcast was so very inspirational. So Many of us get stuck in a relationship where we are being betrayed. My ex husband betrayed me and did so much damage to me and our children. Thank goodness I found the strength to separate from him and through faith I was able to move on, although the going was tough. 😊😊

Words can’t describe how helpful this was for me! Been struggling with a huge betrayal and impending separation. Just amazing! She knows her stuff! All rings true!❤

I know there are some serious betrayals being accounted for here (and I've had my share) but my mind was immediately taken back to the time when I learned there was no Santa. I was devastated. My sister & I were raised in an abusive home & Santa was our only hope each year. It impacted me so much that I vowed to never fabricate the whole Santa lie for my own children. We found alternative creative ways to impart gifts to them at Christmas that did not require upholding a lie & the kids are better for it.

I pay for premium KZread to avoid commercials, yet here I am being annoyed by listening to commercials.

Stuck since divorce 17 years ago. Survived, raised my kids and now here I am…lost.

I knew I would have to grieve/process all the feelings when I broke off a toxic friendship, and it's so interesting how I went through all the stages mentioned here and have come out on the other side with a vibrant, joyful, peaceful life with treasured friends who are healthy, mutually supportive and inspirational.

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

Amazing!

So true - forgiveness is so not about the other person. I think an important point about forgiveness, is that is does not mean you ever have to invite that person back into your life, you just acknowledge we are all flawed and hurt happens.

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

Exactly!

Thank you so much for finding this great woman and exposing us to her Dominque, your generosity in searching to provide info and support to this community is brilliant. It was a really useful conversation.

So glad to hear this.. no one talks about it because it’s so embarrassing when it happens to you and yet nobody understands it…I went through this journey 10 years ago .. and interestingly enough… my husband and I are stronger than ever.. like my husband says.. he knows what a heart feels when it bleeds. Love the way you talk about it.. THANK YOU for your honesty 😊

Very hard time to go through betrayal. Listening to someone on tv. They said , it's not your fault if you can't be the person your partner wants. I instantly healed . I sat searching for the pain of misery I knew. It never came back. I perhaps just ready to heal. Hope this may help someone in some way.❤

what an IMPORTANT issue. and so little talked about. thank you SO MUCH !!! ❤❤❤

This is a very helpful video. The trauma of betrayal so well described, probably the most accurate description I’ve heard. I’m going into the 7th year since finding out, and I believe I’m in stage 3. I’d been slowly progressing, but feeling stuck and was just in prayer yesterday for God to please help heal my broken heart and to guide me into healing. This was very eye opening for me. Thank you both so much!🕊🤗❤️

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

So glad it helped!

Thank you so much for sharing 🙏 I recently experienced a betrayal by my adult daughter and I realized I have been betrayed by every person I trusted in my life…my mom, my dad, my stepdad, my husband, my sister. I have been stuck in stage 3 my whole life, I’m 68 yrs. Old!😢

Yesterday, 4/8, was the 6 year anniversary of my betrayal. My ex was a covert narcissist cheating with over 20 women when I found out. This is so timely! I am finally entering into stage 5. I also just turned 50 in March as well so lots of milestones! Thank you Dominic and Debi for this podcast! We are definitely not alone and can thrive post betrayal 🙏☀️❤️

Oh boy this hit home for me. I have been in stage 3 for 30 years. I need to get to work so I can open my heart up to love again. I no longer want to be alone. This was an excellent presentation to help give me the confidence I need to move forward in my life and more happiness. Sharing my life with another person would be a wonderful thing.

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

30 years is WAY too long to be in Stage 3. You deserve to heal and move through Stages 4 and 5!

I believe too that not everyone wants to find "love" with a partner especially when one has already experienced it. Learning to love ourselves in itself is all we need to live a peaceful, joyful, meaningful, and fulfilling life. We can't or shouldn't depend on someone else to bring that to us. It's a lot of work being in a relationship or having a companion. Everything is compromise and double the work. Now that I'm older, I personally don't like living on someone else's clock. Many women spend their youth on raising children and taking care of the whole family, and household, thereby, putting off their dreams. Sadly, many dreams go by the wayside.

This is probalby the most helpful podcast I've ever watched. Thank you!

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

So glad!

I have been waiting forever….for somebody to broach this subject matter! Thank you!

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

Hope it helped!

Amazing parallel to feelings and symptoms after losing an adult child to alcoholism. I’ve had so many of the health issues mentioned and I’m almost positive there’s a direct correlation. I’ve looked for help by searching “complicated grief”, but nothing else has come close to the “aha” moments I’ve had while listening to this podcast. Thank you!

This is an incredible important issue in everybodies life. Who was not betrayed at and felt that shame and unworthyness. And because it is so shameful we do not talk about it. Dr. Debi Silver does. This is really courage, thank you !

I absolutely needed to see this today. I went through a terrible divorce that left me a shell of myself. I hadn't ever been at such a low dark place in my life ever before. Thanks ❤

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

Glad it helped!

I have a friend dealing with the most unimaginable betrayal, and we are discovering just how much of a MONSTER her husband truly is.

I'm 25 years passed first betrayal. 13 years passed the second which led to divorce. I live in fear. I am not unhappy. I just don't feel safe to ever being in a relationship again.

@samc5877

Ай бұрын

I hope you can move through the stages and open yourself up for love. You deserve it 💕

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

That's not fair to you-you deserve to feel safe, loved, cherished, valued. That's what happens when you move through Stages 4 and 5.

I have shared this with family. Thank you so very much. It was a help to myself as well going through divorce…then going from soccer mom/entrepreneur to certified traveling crane (International Union of Operating Engineers Local 103 Indianapolis Indiana)operator (as an empty nester) Dominque you have no idea how much you have helped me over the years with KZread videos and now the podcast!! ❤ By the way I’m loving Good Morning on Merit Street ❤

@sherryengel3956

Ай бұрын

I apologize for adding the Good to the name of your morning show 😮. But still loving the show 😂❤

I moved back in with my ex husband and found myself in the same situation I was in before I divorced him. I had him have a complete psychological examination, et cetera. I am now in stage three but recently found an apartment to move into. This video has been enormously helpful to me! Especially since I'm leaving a large home to go live in a one bedroom apartment. It's weird but I'm going to swim all the way this time to the island!

This is so accurate. Part of what is difficult as someone who has done and continuing to do the work is finding a partner who is in the same mindset. So many people are complacent with staying unhealed.

Thank you for this pod cast,needed it.I do isolate myself and I don,t allow anyone into my life walls are higher and thicker than ever,I don't know if I will ever get to stage 5

@madelinekimbro2440

Ай бұрын

We need to try. One step at a time. Blessings to you!

@tammorris6125

Ай бұрын

@@madelinekimbro2440 I am trying,Ive actually taking better care of myself,getting out to walk more,eating better,and I'm liking myself again

@gloriayouchisonbrown7734

Ай бұрын

Be good to yourself, if you made it this far, go all the way❤

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

Yes you can...whenever you decide you're ready.

Crazy great, always right on time! Thank you so much! ❤❤❤

Best so far! Relatable to everyone.

Dominique, I would love for you to consider interviewing Lysa Turkurst. She is an author and speaker with a large following. Her story of betrayal and forgiveness and boundaries and how she journeyed back from betrayal is amazing. I really think you would appreciate her story. Hugs to you.

I feel you created this video just for me at the exact time I needed it. Thank you. I'm going through the post-betrayal part and you just sense out of it for me. I'm on my way up!

This was an amazing interview. I have followed this woman on social media for a long time, but it makes a lot more sense to me now with you interviewing her and asking the right questions! Dominique, you are the best!

Dominique & Dr Debi!!! WOW you both hit this outta the park!! Fantastic XO

Dominique such a fantastic podcast with such incredible inspiring helpful information. I pray all women , especially young or older find themselves encouraged , happy, blessed 🙌 & can move mountains with their self worth. Excellent, Thank you so much ..

Love this woman… it is so clear to me now how I have been repressing and staying stuck… fear is definitely an issue. We deserve better but we don’t see it.. until desperation sets in… thanks Dominique… you have no idea how much you help us ❤

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

So glad you're seeing it more clearly. Now it's time to heal!

This has been such an incredible interview. Thank you so much ❤

Fabulous, Fantastic, Woken Up !!! Wow, this was what I needed to hear Now!! Heading into stage 4 and finding myself slipping some days into stage 3, I finally rallied my 2 besties to help me get to stage 4 knowing I HAD TO HAVE THE PUSH because I am ready. Thank you, thank you for having this talk. Blessings to everyone, Lori

THIS!! By far, the best video yet!! EXCELLENT!!

This was so beautiful and eye opening. Thank you Dominique for bringing this beautiful doctor on for us. And Dominique, you get more beautiful inside and out every day. ♥🤗

Great job, with this discussion, Dominique and Dr. Silber! I was invested, in this discussion, from beginning 2 end 🧡

Dominique, such a great podcast, things that a person suffering from Betrayal would not think of on their own,the Dr really unravels some great solutions.

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

So glad it resonated.

This couldn’t have came up at a better time. Thank you Dominque and Debi!!

I’m so glad you all discussed the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation (or rebuilding, as Dr. Debi calls it). I’ve seen so many people go through life refusing to forgive an offender, not realizing that they are continuing to dig themselves deeper and deeper into internal (and often external) despair, anger, unhappiness. It’s certainly no way to go through life, but the steps laid out in the podcast were very informative & helpful. I really appreciated what Dr. Debi had to say, and I’m sure it will give many people hope for a more joyful & positive future. Thank you both! 🙏❣️

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

Glad it resonated!

Hello Dominique ,Dr. Silber was spot on with everything she said. I really learned a lot from her and the way she worded every situation was Awesome. so many of us women go through life with struggles and disappointments and we try to be strong but sometimes we just need that advice from another person to help us out, because you can't do it by yourself.even when you have Jesus you still need that human voice to share what is happening to you and how you need to push through it. thank you for sharing the truth and God bless you both.🥰😉😇

Absolutely insightful podcast... wow! I am truly grateful for this. Thank you Dominique and Dr. Silber ❤

Thanks Dominique and Dr. Silber , loved this podcast! Thanks very much.

Wow. Wonderful wonderful positive perspective on human nature !!! Fortunately, my ex and were both betraying each other. We confronted and forgave other and moved on. We are still good friends. Had 3 children and I went out on a limb and told them the truth. I think it hurt terribly at the time but now THEY understand. Truth and forgiveness always WIN. Hugs

Excellent and so helpful. Thank you!

I'm sure this was a very helpful conversation for so many. It makes any situations I have been in throughout life seem minor. I would like to add you both are beautiful women of courage. Dominique, your skin looks so very beautiful!

This has been very powerful! Thank you.

Wow. This is so accurate :-( She is so good. Will check her book/s out. Thankyou Dominique for getting Dr Debi on the show.

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

Trust Again is about the 5 Stages, From Hardened to Healed is if after that, you find yourself stuck in Stage 3.

I took one class in integrating the spirit soul and body into wholeness and wanted to create a counseling program to help others understand how we are created as a triune being. While I wanted my research as a doctoral student to be faith based, I did not get what I needed from a seminary. I’m glad she did the research and has viable info that everyone can benefit from.

This was a great podcast. Thanks for having Debbie on! ❤

Great interview! Thanks to both of you!💐

Thank you, what a so on spot conversation.

Incredible. Thank you for featuring this subject, Dominique.

So great! Really hits home . Great job! You’re flourishing!🎉

@jenniferkading3265

Ай бұрын

Stuck in stage 3

This was fabulous information!!

My husband's sister and my son betrayed us.....we were so heartbroken, so devastated and, hurt. Then we were angry and the disbelief that these people would do this to us. We may be wrong, but we avoid them which is sad, too.

@chicanica64

Ай бұрын

I’m sorry. 😢 Wishing you healing ❤️‍🩹

@susan8471

Ай бұрын

​@chicanica64 Thank you...we need it!! Susan

Such a powerful and helpful interview. Thank you.

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

So glad you liked it!

Thank you for this!

Dominique, your podcasts keep getting better and better!❤

Thank you so much for this! This was so helpful and I can't wait to get the books.

Stage 3 is en easy stage to live in. I realized I was living in that stage for about 2 years, then realized the only person truly hurting was myself. When I made that realization, I then chose to view myself more laterally, I learned to compartmentalize that part in my life. Soon, I began to notice myself saying "those emotions, do not serve me" or "I'm not bothered by the memories, but how I live my present will be healthy". Then I noticed, I had forgiven, and love my new stage in life. There comes a time in our pain when we've had enough and learn from within to turn away from it to find new happiness.

Thank you so much, Dominique and Deddy! Such a great and helpful interview! Beautiful and amazing ladies ❤️❤

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

Thank you!

I’m excited, this is gonna be so good! Love you Dominique.❤

@user-rm5bb6vj5k

Ай бұрын

Aloha DOMINIQUE l hope alls well with you I see you moved from Houston to How about them Cowboys DALLAS that is Stay safe and blessed always 💋

@emilyjonesclark5767

Ай бұрын

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Thank you again for an outstanding guest

Thank you so much for this podcast! So needed....I will look into this program...been stuck for decades from multiple betrayals old and new.

OMG this one hit home. Thanks so much....Love from Canada

Thank you so much. Such a great, practical, life-changing information.

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

So glad it resonated.

I found this podcast so helpful! I'm stuck in stage 3. How I am feeling finally makes sense after all of this time. Thank you Dominique and Dr. Silber!

Great conversation!! I feel forgiveness is #1. Thank you for your hard work.

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

Thank you!

WOW…..information overload. Such great news… affirmation….thank you for this! 👍🏼

thank you for this

Thank you so much for this!!!

WOW!!! Enjoyed and learned so much!! I think I need the stages book! Great podcast Ladies!!!!💕

So much value, great podcast. Thank you both of you.

Two amazing women!! Thank you❤

What a fascinating podcast. Dominque this was so good. We’ve all been there. Thank you once again for making us realize we’re enough and we will survive and THRIVE💕

This was great..so interesting. Thank you so much.

Great video, thanks.

I did her program several years ago and it was the BEST and pretty much ONLY thing that gave me a holy smack in the face and said HERE'S WHAT'S GOING ON!! WHAT A WAKEUP CALL!!

ALOHA DOMINIQUE LOOKING GORGEOUS AS EVER XOXOXO❤🔥🩷🙏🩷🙌🏽💚🏄🏼⭐️💚💎🌟🩷

Looking gorge Dominique and thank you for this podcast.❤

After literally DECADES of being hurt and betrayed I finally said enough. I haven't even had DINNER with a man in 4 years. I'd rather be lonely than constantly lied to and hurt. At least all alone with just me I know I'm safe.

Great information…this video will help so many… Sending love hugs prayers and kindness with positive energy.♥️🙏🏼🌹🦋👍🏼

Best show EVER❤ I learned so much, thank you and God bless you both

You rock, Dominque. I hope you continue to get the support you deserve so you can continue to support the rest of us

Awesome podcast! Great information shared - thanks to you both!

Best video I ever watched. I know so many people in stage 3 including myself. Can’t wait to move on to stage 4

@DebiSilber

Ай бұрын

Thank you and YES! Onto Stages 4 and 5.

What a show. Wow wee. She is amazing. Going to find her podcast asap