It's Okay To Be Sad | What Gets Me Through | Dominique Sachse

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We all go through rough patches, and I’m learning it’s okay to be sad and upset. This past year has brought so much change in my life, maybe yours too, and sometimes we feel like everything hits us all at once. I had one of those weeks and felt the best way to approach it was to just simply share the darkness and where I seek the light.
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  • @janebooth5959
    @janebooth5959 Жыл бұрын

    Optimist: Someone who figures that taking a step backward. after taking a step forward is not a disaster, it's a cha-cha.” This quote from Robert Brault has been a small mantra for me. Just for today I will dance the cha cha. Wishing you wellness and wellbeing 🙏💙

  • @patriciaatkinson4500

    @patriciaatkinson4500

    Жыл бұрын

    Love that!

  • @heidicain

    @heidicain

    Жыл бұрын

    I love that too!!!!!

  • @chicanica64

    @chicanica64

    Жыл бұрын

    Love this!

  • @susan8471

    @susan8471

    Жыл бұрын

    so very well said....love it.

  • @Elvis2Kitty

    @Elvis2Kitty

    Жыл бұрын

    I love that - thanks for sharing!

  • @tht8916
    @tht8916 Жыл бұрын

    Being able to call your mother and having her be able to come right to you when you call...priceless!!!

  • @sandrafwg1163
    @sandrafwg1163 Жыл бұрын

    My husband of 49 yrs passed Easter Sunday. It has been the hardest time of my life. I thank God that I have my two children. Gary would be so proud of how we have helped one another through this sorrow.

  • @sonyasmith7863
    @sonyasmith7863 Жыл бұрын

    As someone who has not seen her beloved daughter and 3 grandchildren in 4 years, I can sympathize with you. My downs come out of nowhere. I do still have my husband but he is not a talker and not much help. I’m 72 and need my family. I have learned to just keep my mouth shut and endure. God bless you, Dominique. I pray things come up quickly for you. Be so, so, so thankful you still have your Momma. I miss mine so much.

  • @cathiconnelly5756

    @cathiconnelly5756

    Жыл бұрын

    you are not alone. I too have been exiled from my children's lives. That includes my two grandchildren. My oldest at least lets me facetime once a week. it hurts so much......

  • @emanuelatazzi7681

    @emanuelatazzi7681

    Жыл бұрын

    I lost my mom 2 weeks ago. She was my mom, my friend and my confident. I ‘ m feeling really alone. I have my husband but he isn’t so supporting. Last settember i retired and i Miss my work, i was a teacher. Some months ago my younger daughter left and went living alone. For me all this is too much.

  • @barbarabain1477

    @barbarabain1477

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless her x-husband. We only have mercy for you for leaving him.

  • @kb1759

    @kb1759

    Жыл бұрын

    @@barbarabain1477 whatdoes this mean?

  • @cynthiabertrand8465

    @cynthiabertrand8465

    Жыл бұрын

    My husband and I have been exiled by our children as well. We haven't seen our 4 grandchildren ages 5-16 years in 2 1/2 years now. We don't even know what we have done. It hurts but we have decided to just live our lives the best we can.

  • @colleenburnham7813
    @colleenburnham7813 Жыл бұрын

    Amen sister. After over 30 years of marriage I got divorced and had to start my life over again. Money is tight I am on disability and thats my only source of income. Its hard but with the love of my Lord and my Mom I am getting through it. Thank you for addressing this issue. It is like a sisterhood out here just open your heart and they will come. We are right down in the trenches together. God bless.😇🥰

  • @juliekostas7322

    @juliekostas7322

    Жыл бұрын

    I wish you a healthy and happy future 🙏🏼

  • @oskihaddad6406

    @oskihaddad6406

    Жыл бұрын

    God is by ur side

  • @patriciaporter1959

    @patriciaporter1959

    Жыл бұрын

    Blessings to you 🙏

  • @colleenburnham7813

    @colleenburnham7813

    Жыл бұрын

    @@juliekostas7322 God Bless

  • @colleenburnham7813

    @colleenburnham7813

    Жыл бұрын

    @@patriciaporter1959 Thank you. Same to you

  • @nurseruthie11
    @nurseruthie11 Жыл бұрын

    People say that God doesn’t give you more than you can handle, however, that is a lie. God gives us more than we can handle many times. Why? To draw us closer to him. Seek him and rely on him to carry you through. The strong don’t need him, but in our weaknesses & struggles, we do need Him. Praying for you as you get through this time.

  • @orosedobheathaabhaile

    @orosedobheathaabhaile

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, He really got the people of the Holodomor through great. Didn't he?

  • @meggiwick7601

    @meggiwick7601

    Жыл бұрын

    What is Holodomor?

  • @michellemckinneybarnett7230

    @michellemckinneybarnett7230

    Жыл бұрын

    You assume a lot about someone’s beliefs. Not everyone is a Christian.

  • @tizb5178

    @tizb5178

    Жыл бұрын

    He should give it to someone else. His pissed enough ppl off!!!

  • @valentina-pg4bj

    @valentina-pg4bj

    Жыл бұрын

    GOD does not give you anything that is not common to all of us! And we all are stronger & can endure more than what we think we are capable of! We just need to ask HIM for wisdom & to remove the veil from our eyes!!!🙏🙏🙏

  • @jeanettachowns228
    @jeanettachowns228 Жыл бұрын

    Someone once said “You can’t wait for everything to be right or good to decide to be happy”. That has helped me get through a tough day or week.

  • @cbaker9667

    @cbaker9667

    Жыл бұрын

    That is a quote by Jane Marczewski, aka Nightbirde. She stated that on America's Got Talent. Sadly, she lost her cancer battle last year. Google her. Her brother is posting her music. It's beautiful. She was beautiful.

  • @barbarabove255
    @barbarabove255 Жыл бұрын

    You are not alone. We all have or will be in a similar spot. Be blessed.

  • @lesleyevangelides5935
    @lesleyevangelides5935 Жыл бұрын

    You are such an inspiration to many. My marriage ended in 2009 and I lost my beloved special needs daughter age 26 4 months later. I had to take on a more challenging position to make ends meet and then at the beginning of 2011 I lost my precious son also aged 26. My world caved in and I couldn't see the light but i had to press on. Fast forward, I am taking care of my elderly parents and taken early retirement in order to do so resulting in downscaling and a huge lifestyle change. My belief is that it is only with my faith I have got this far and it will carry me one day at a time. God bless you and remember we are warriors ... draw on your faith and inner strength

  • @lorettaloretta9586

    @lorettaloretta9586

    Жыл бұрын

    GOD Bless you 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Prayers for you & your elderly parents … left my job - took care of my mom 6yrs dementia … she passed by it was very tough on me & my family. You have been through tremendous loss but people are praying for you!! Stay strong … keep the faith & Blessing all around you ✝️🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @carolmckenney8136

    @carolmckenney8136

    Жыл бұрын

    I cannot imagine how much sorrow you have been through but your inner beauty and strength shines through. I am grateful to have read your sad but hopeful testimony; you have much to be proud of. Blessings to you. 🙏

  • @DDee-oi6kn

    @DDee-oi6kn

    Жыл бұрын

    Lesley - when I think I have problems and I hear a story like yours, it makes me realize so many more are going through so much more than I am. God bless and be with you.

  • @debbiehopper5288

    @debbiehopper5288

    Жыл бұрын

    So sorry for your loss of your beloved children, so sorry.

  • @katatude

    @katatude

    Жыл бұрын

    I will keep you in my prayers. I know you have a beautiful eternal life ahead after the tremendous suffering you have endure here on earth. May your days ahead be so much better than those that have passed. God bless and keep you.

  • @mariacaldwell4919
    @mariacaldwell4919 Жыл бұрын

    I was recently diagnosed with stage IV cancer and had my 1st round of chemo last week. My faith in God and my husband and family and my friends are getting me thru. I have good days and bad days I see life differently now. I cherish my family and friends more, I don't know what I would do without them. I do know my cancer journey has just started but I know all I can do if try and be positive. I am blessed with 5 children, my youngest is only 11. I tell him everyday that I love him and he asks me to be here for him when he graduates high school. I tell him I will always be with you no matter what happens. He says I'm the best mama. I love him so much, I pray 🙏 to be healed and healthy. Blessings to all who are going through a life change. Take time to smell the roses, love as much as you can, pray and be thankful for all that you have. God Bless 🙏

  • @annehedlund7333

    @annehedlund7333

    Жыл бұрын

    Our prayers go with you.

  • @sassysandie2865

    @sassysandie2865

    Жыл бұрын

    Please read Radical Remission by Dr. Kelly Turner. Game changer

  • @kerryparker8925

    @kerryparker8925

    Жыл бұрын

    Prayers for your healing.❤️🙏

  • @lyngill5554

    @lyngill5554

    Жыл бұрын

    You will be fine. God is good. You will be there for your son till he walk down the isle to marry and take care of your grandchildren. Godspeed and get well soon.

  • @neem33

    @neem33

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless you

  • @maureencrandall778
    @maureencrandall778 Жыл бұрын

    I totally needed to hear these words. Thank you so much for opening up. I lost my husband to pancreatic cancer over a year ago, and I just now I feel like I’m coming out of my shell and really grieving. Raising two teenage daughters on my own is not fun and it’s not what I want. But I know it’s the way God wanted it for some reason! One thing you said is very true and very important. We need to allow other people to help us. They do rise up to the occasion and they need to do it. I remember my mom used to tell me, ‘in order to be a good Christian you need to be able to gracefully receive, not just give.’. Let people help us. God bless you in this next chapter. And yes many blessings are in store for you in big ways!🙏

  • @michellerobertson9929

    @michellerobertson9929

    Жыл бұрын

    I, too, needed to hear these words. I lost my husband to acute myeloid leukemia 6 weeks ago. Grief is heavy and hard. I do not feel ok but I am trying. God bless you Maureen on your journey.

  • @Coco-og7zw

    @Coco-og7zw

    Жыл бұрын

    Same!! This was liquid gold. Totally feel like this was divinely made just for ME! Thank you Dominique 🥰🥰🥰

  • @Catfluff521

    @Catfluff521

    Жыл бұрын

    @@michellerobertson9929 so very sorry for your loss. Of course you feel very much not ok. I hope for you that you eventually feel ok. And better, better than ok. But for now, you’ll make it through the days until you get to the ok place.

  • @bjcatz25

    @bjcatz25

    Жыл бұрын

    thank you for the sweet reminder to be able to receive too as it can be in the small things others can have great joy in giving:)

  • @panes840

    @panes840

    Жыл бұрын

    @@michellerobertson9929 oh bless you. Ivam so sorry you are suffering the loss of a loved one. Thats incredibly hard. Of course you are not ok. Such very, very early days. Just take each day as it comes and take it from there,,,,, being bold, being blesses each day.

  • @cherylmaas3154
    @cherylmaas3154 Жыл бұрын

    I just discovered you over the past couple of years. I have suffered from depression and anxiety since the age of four. I am now 63. I have had many blessings in my life but endured challenges similar to what you are going through now. Please know how much your videos... especially this one have been such a great support. You have brought some light back into my world and allowed me to say that I am OK as I am. You are a gift to us all. I send you blessings for now and the future. Thank you.

  • @lainiestewart622
    @lainiestewart622 Жыл бұрын

    The value in being able to enjoy just being in the moment without guilt if not being productive is huge. I retired and within about a year my 35 year marriage fell apart (I was completely unprepared and the full got pulled out) - my friends and family were the most supportive and wonderful support. I moved to a smaller condo that was all mine, did some sub work at my old job and was feeling productive again - then the pandemic and we all isolated and being active and engaged was a challenge. Now in this moment, I enjoy time just cuddling with my pup, watching tv or KZread, reading ,puttering in the garden, and just enjoying this new journey. Housework will always wait and I am working at not feel guilty if I give my pup a few extra cuddles, or get some serendipitous time with my adult children. I never want to look back and wish I had spend less time keeping the perfect house while forfeiting time with family and friends - and time just with myself and being serene and comfortable in that time

  • @tamaranicholaschilds8097
    @tamaranicholaschilds8097 Жыл бұрын

    A woman a long time ago gave me this advice: Let yourself Cry out loud and often, as often as you feel it. Don’t hold emotion back. I too thought I had to always be so strong. I followed her advice and it got me through a very painful time more than once. Love to you.

  • @shannoncook9915

    @shannoncook9915

    Жыл бұрын

    I've been doing alot of this lately

  • @islandgirl4954

    @islandgirl4954

    Жыл бұрын

    Great advice 💕

  • @coredadventure1

    @coredadventure1

    Жыл бұрын

    And here I know that fully and I still don't do it dang it I still hold strong

  • @hazelold2882

    @hazelold2882

    Жыл бұрын

    A good cry in the shower helps me deal with strong emotions

  • @beautifulheart7

    @beautifulheart7

    Жыл бұрын

    Its true. And someone also said that if you hold your emotions and don't cry, you can get some sickness in your body

  • @hugnsharebear
    @hugnsharebear Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sad no energy, fatigue, so so much but I’m so grateful for so many blessings thank you Jesus… and thank you to everyone reading this. I send you blessings and love! God Bless you forever and always! Amen

  • @brendadalglish2346
    @brendadalglish2346 Жыл бұрын

    Dear Dominique You've been a great help to me over the last five or so years and I'm sorry, although not surprised, you've hit a rough spot this week. I went through something unexpected and similar a decade ago when it was in my late 50s and it's taken pain and time to emerge whole and happy. You already know the most important thing: No matter the trauma and pain, you, like me, will emerge happier, healthier, kinder and wiser than I was before and my life is full and richer than ever. Embrace the adventure and live your life with beauty and boldness. I wouldn't give up my journey and the personal growth the unhappy end of my marriage brought me for anything. It's an odd blessing but a sweet one. Hugs Brenda

  • @francineringenback4428

    @francineringenback4428

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen... Been there and done that. Forgiving your ex no matter what it is in a letter and drop in the USPS mail is the greatest relief and happiness.

  • @nancyorkeithm1518

    @nancyorkeithm1518

    Жыл бұрын

    Totally agree.

  • @Daisy-xl4xu
    @Daisy-xl4xu Жыл бұрын

    I needed this today. I’m falling apart and can’t take much more. Prayers to you and everyone on here feeling overwhelmed also.

  • @7777bren

    @7777bren

    Жыл бұрын

    Good wishes to you. Others care.

  • @karlakay8805

    @karlakay8805

    Жыл бұрын

    Thinking of you Daisy…. Prayers and positive thoughts for you 🙏🏻

  • @imagine_that_4335

    @imagine_that_4335

    Жыл бұрын

    To you too Daisy x

  • @tracyd2598

    @tracyd2598

    Жыл бұрын

    Hugs sister!

  • @nancymcalister8216

    @nancymcalister8216

    Жыл бұрын

    I totally understand your message. Funny I never really write in these platforms. But you touched my heart as I'm feeling exactly the same as you at the very same time. Day at a time Daisy girl. You can do this...

  • @VeronicaGonzalez-vt8eq
    @VeronicaGonzalez-vt8eq Жыл бұрын

    Dear Dominique, I understand what you're going through. My son had a brain tumor, my ex cheated on me with my cousin’s daughter 25 years younger than him. I also had some conflicts at work. What helped me was to forgive from the bottom of my heart. The Course of Miracles and my love for God supported me during this period of my life. Receive my sincere love and blessings! 🙏🏻💞🥰💕🙏🏻

  • @lindamccracken2053

    @lindamccracken2053

    Жыл бұрын

    God Bless 🙏

  • @josimpson7999

    @josimpson7999

    Жыл бұрын

    Stay strong Veronica Betrayal is bad enough in itself but when it’s comes from one’s nearest and dearest - the people you should enable to trust - it’s always a double whammy. You deserve better! Wishing you well from across the pond 😊🇬🇧

  • @carolsumera9392
    @carolsumera9392 Жыл бұрын

    For all of you who are feeling overwhelmed I will pray for you! I have been there and my faith got me through! Sending hugs and love! ❤️❤️🙏🙏

  • @pamelahansen3479
    @pamelahansen3479 Жыл бұрын

    Dominique- this video meant so much to me- I too had a hard week as a 55 year old who missing her family and friends. Feeling under appreciated, losing sleep. Because of your healing, vulnerable and encouraging words- it seemed as though you were talking directly to me that I fell asleep! Today I will watch the rest of the video. Thank you for doing what you do so gracefully.

  • @rsingh9900

    @rsingh9900

    Жыл бұрын

    Dominique, there are many of us who going through challenges in life. Take care of two elderly parents. Holding down stressful job. I have two children in college and one in high school. There are not enough hours in the day to tackle all of it. My husband passed away Four years ago. I understand struggle and grief. I pray that god give you the strength to manage your life. I am fine I get excited to tackle my challenges. I feel god has given me a lot to deal with and I am not going to disappoint him. I hope you can be happy and find that peace with in yourself.

  • @karencrane6325
    @karencrane6325 Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes we all need to have a “come apart” as a friend told me. A good cry can be cathartic so if you need it, do it. God knows what you need and what’s in your heart. His answers may not be what you ask him for or what you think you need, but rest assured he has a plan for you and it is the perfect plan. Many prayers 🙏

  • @caronagulhas339

    @caronagulhas339

    Жыл бұрын

    Dominique, have you read the book “When the Heart Waits” by Sue Monk Kidd? I think it echoes so much of what you’ve said. Give it a read if you can…. It brings a paradigm shift in perspective

  • @rjcahill4979

    @rjcahill4979

    Жыл бұрын

    Prayers for you, Dominique!!! 😊♥️

  • @christinezwicke1002

    @christinezwicke1002

    Жыл бұрын

    Much love to you! Here's hoping you're soon to "turn the corner" into easier and happier times...they're bound to be awaiting you. 💕

  • @Truthmatters6385

    @Truthmatters6385

    Жыл бұрын

    @karencrane Amen...He is able - 24/7.

  • @cherlgolja5402
    @cherlgolja5402 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been a caregiver for husband with brain cancer - I’ve learned one thing ! “you have go through and get through “ and “this to will pass”🙏🏻

  • @christinepaley6149

    @christinepaley6149

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too! Glioblastoma is a wild ride and changed my life forever. Blessings to you!

  • @NOESIS5431

    @NOESIS5431

    Жыл бұрын

    Bless you

  • @Lisa_LaCroix

    @Lisa_LaCroix

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! There is no way through but through.

  • @MelodyLovesMusic

    @MelodyLovesMusic

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, I was my mom's caretaker too. I lost her 3 years ago. Have weathered many a storm literally. I"m' in a good place now,, I have myself to count on.

  • @dminniswhite68
    @dminniswhite68 Жыл бұрын

    The valleys truly help us to appreciate the summits. We just need to keep climbing.

  • @kamalafontaine9563
    @kamalafontaine9563 Жыл бұрын

    Life is very challenging at most times but I always have this beautifull quote in my head and it makes me feel so much better.. So today, I like to share it with this family… The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen." ―Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

  • @rae4885
    @rae4885 Жыл бұрын

    My husband passed away September 17, 2015. Ever since then, I go through a sad time starting the 1st of the month. I will set down and have a good cry and ask God for strength. We as women are wired completely different than men and it's ok to feel sadness. But, it's not ok to stay in that sad place to long. We need to get out of that place and move forward. ❤🙏❤

  • @patsalas5170

    @patsalas5170

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. My husband of 28 years died suddenly while we were watching tv together in Oct 2013...I know it's painful but you are leaning on God the one who can really help and heal...I wish you peace and healing in Jesus name 😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sandrahintz2617

    @sandrahintz2617

    Жыл бұрын

    I was married 37 years and my husband passed after a long illness. So I did what I always say “Do the Best you can with what you have to work with “ god is good 😊 I am remarried now and he helped me after the loss of my parents. Being positive has always helped me. Life is good at 63 !

  • @patsalas5170

    @patsalas5170

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sandrahintz2617 my husband was only 61....6 years after his sudden death I moved to a new city to be closer to my son...I met a wonderful man at my church and we were married .. GOD is indeed Good and faithful ♥️. I am 72 and happily married again

  • @JDfaith2024

    @JDfaith2024

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry for your loss and I hope God continues bringing you peace. God bless 😊

  • @jenniferschmidt2632
    @jenniferschmidt2632 Жыл бұрын

    My therapist once said to me “You can be sad and depressed while also being grateful.” Hearing that helped me let go of the guilt I had for being depressed when I have so much to be thankful for.

  • @debramoen3070
    @debramoen3070 Жыл бұрын

    I have been there. I can remember at one of my most challenging times in life driving my car and just sobbing, asking God "why did this happen?" I was so lost and over whelmed with grief. Over time i was ble to understad the situation and why things happened as they did but by reaching out to God and pouring out my hurt and my soul, God surrounded me with family and friends to get me through. Bless you Dominique and keep the faith that God will get you through this difficult time.

  • @lisamcgee1345
    @lisamcgee1345 Жыл бұрын

    I am keeping you in prayer. I went thru major life changes 20 years ago. Just hang on to Gods hand. He will get you thru this. One day at a time is all you can do. He will bless you beyond your dreams in the end.

  • @70sladyalways25
    @70sladyalways25 Жыл бұрын

    I care for my 93 yr old mom, my in-laws who are in their late 80’s, my brother who is 73 and a disabled veteran, and my daughter who is a young single mom. I can truly say I understand the heaviness and weight you feel. My faith and a close friend have always been there to help me. I’m so sorry you are experiencing all of this. Please know others care and understand. Your honesty and openness I know will resonate with so many. Thank you for your words of encouragement. We need to remember there are those all around us who may be going through tough times. We need to be aware and offer compassion and hope. What we go through can equip us to help others.

  • @theresamcclure7333

    @theresamcclure7333

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s sounds like you are an amazing woman who has strength and stoicism too, sending love and strength to you 70’slady Always.. keep the faith and love in your quiet moments.. your never alone 💖💖 (from Australia 🇦🇺)😘

  • @susanaparrilla7745

    @susanaparrilla7745

    Жыл бұрын

    Desde Buenos Aires, Argentina, te abrazo y ruego al Señor por tu fortaleza. Kisses, Dusana

  • @susanaparrilla7745

    @susanaparrilla7745

    Жыл бұрын

    Susana sends a big hug

  • @lupegomez6057

    @lupegomez6057

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow, and I thought I had a lot on my shoulders. You are amazing for everything you do. God bless you always and give you the strength to keep going. Sending you a big hug and prayers.

  • @clemenperez9111

    @clemenperez9111

    Жыл бұрын

    We all have major life transitions and we all find the way out. Letting the passed go and accepting the new reality helps. We are human you don't have to pretend be strong...being weak is part of being strong. Yes you got this.

  • @estebee9640
    @estebee9640 Жыл бұрын

    Dominique, I totally get what you mean being in my early 50’s-just losing my father to covid, looking after a half paralyzed mother and taking care of a child who is going to university soon, needing to change career to be able to financially support everyone. Faith is what keeps me going. You are not alone in this. We all are fighting our battles but we will pull through. Be strong and keep the faith. Bight tight hugs to you Sister.

  • @milly2033

    @milly2033

    Жыл бұрын

    girls must be taught to live alone, to be financially independent, intellectually and emotionally decision-makers if a man passes by, so much the better we must not lie at 50 we will be old, the men will leave but if we have earned money we can have a gigolo. you have to know how to live alone and know how to take advantage of it And take things as they come  girls must be taught to live alone, to be financially independent, intellectually and emotionally decision-makers if a man passes by, so much the better we must not lie at 50 we will be old, the men will leave but if we have earned money we can have a gigolo. One has to know how to live alone and know how to take advantage of it And take things as they come. This way there will bé no transitions Juste life Taken care

  • @janepearson2450

    @janepearson2450

    Жыл бұрын

    Prayers from uk . With God all things are possible.

  • @Melpomenes17
    @Melpomenes17 Жыл бұрын

    Seems last week was "the week" for a lot of us. I had three deaths one day after another and the sense of loss was quite painful. My faith in God provides my strength. Hang in there. Much love and blessings! ❤️

  • @Ev-vh3pf

    @Ev-vh3pf

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh my, that's very sad. I pray that God grants you peace. God Bless.

  • @sunnyside1959

    @sunnyside1959

    Жыл бұрын

    You have such faith! I can't imagine what you have been through.

  • @Melpomenes17

    @Melpomenes17

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Ev-vh3pf Thank-you

  • @sylviamorgan6701
    @sylviamorgan6701 Жыл бұрын

    OMG it was like hearing my story ....this last two weeks no words because I was not sure what was happening....we sooooo need you in are lives and God has given a precious gift.... please note that we are with you and love and respect you.... big hug

  • @chrissieb3350
    @chrissieb3350 Жыл бұрын

    Amen to you! I’ve always loved the quote “she is a beautiful piece of broken pottery, put back together by her own hands. And sometimes a critical world judges her cracks while missing the beauty of how she made herself whole again”! We are all there for you and rooting for you from the sidelines.....❤️❤️❤️❤️🙌🏻👊🏻🙏🏻

  • @lesleyevangelides5935

    @lesleyevangelides5935

    Жыл бұрын

    Such beautiful words to remind us we can do this

  • @faithgray2672

    @faithgray2672

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow, beautiful quote.

  • @kimarnold668

    @kimarnold668

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh my…. I don’t even know what to say.. this has helped me so much. I am one who keeps to myself and always have since I was a kid. Thanks so much for sharing your soul as it has helped mine. 💜

  • @venicegal1569

    @venicegal1569

    Жыл бұрын

    I luv this! so well said

  • @kimberly21

    @kimberly21

    Жыл бұрын

    I have never heard that quote. It’s lovely. Thank you 😊

  • @taunabarrett781
    @taunabarrett781 Жыл бұрын

    I hear the sadness in your voice because it’s sounds like mine when I’m sad. As you know, it will pass. Thank you for being genuine and allowing all of us to to be genuine with you! ❤️

  • @marykemp4505
    @marykemp4505 Жыл бұрын

    I've just watched this again. I'm going through a time like this right now. As much as I'm trying to deal with the issues in my life it is such a struggle. The physical & emotional strain is evident as you have mentioned with the forced smile. I realise whatever the outcome of my problems I need to forge a life I'm happy in when this time has passed 🙏 Thank you so much x

  • @midnightware5384
    @midnightware5384 Жыл бұрын

    Wow. You are amazing. Resilient, compassionate & honest and whilst working thru your hurt, you have still kept a sense of humour! Here having a similarly horrendous, challenging time but grateful for my health, strength and blessings. God bless and pray for brighter times ahead. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. X

  • @marilyncornelison420
    @marilyncornelison420 Жыл бұрын

    I heard in meditation this, "stop resisting, pray with the pain." What a relief, being given permission to just be. In the gift of pain, there is peace.

  • @shinebrightly8888
    @shinebrightly8888 Жыл бұрын

    Hi Dominique, I am not saying anything this week, but I am giving You a listening ear. You have given us (Your Listeners) so much, we are here for you, we love you, we’ve got you, and we will be praying that God will provide all the help that you need. Trust me, we get it, like you’ve said, you are not alone. Robin

  • @sonyamoste
    @sonyamoste Жыл бұрын

    We all want to be seen, heard and understood, but as we get older, we get less and less of what we need from society. I no longer feel the need to be understood, I feel like I understand myself pretty well and that's good enough. Besides, no other human can really understand me anyway, it's impossible, they haven't walked in my shoes. That's ok. I still like to be seen but am working on being ok if and when society deems me invisible which happens to old people, which is where we are all headed. Being heard is probably something that we can continue to do through writing, vlogging, making comments on social media like this comment right now. I wish you all the best, and just know, the storm cloud will pass and the sun will shine again.

  • @mpbentancur6499
    @mpbentancur6499 Жыл бұрын

    May our heavenly Father continue to grant you the strength & wisdom for all of life's challenges.

  • @liznoland544
    @liznoland544 Жыл бұрын

    Dominique, I know all too well, how difficult life can get at times. My husband died unexpectedly two years ago and it has taken a lot out of me. Sadness, fear, loneliness, worry, and so many other emotions that come along with losing a spouse. He was only 60 years old. I’ve gone back to work, to keep busy and to get my mind off of things. It’s difficult, but like you, I know that God, family and friends will help me get thru this….they are. I wish you much love, happiness and peace. We are going to be okay! Stay strong beautiful lady. Things will get better. Gods got this! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️

  • @stephaniekaufman1830

    @stephaniekaufman1830

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry for your loss.

  • @dianeschultz6588

    @dianeschultz6588

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry. Thank you for your openness and honesty

  • @zenaidagonzalez6343

    @zenaidagonzalez6343

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I also lost my husband of 51 years a couple of years ago, and it's still very hard. My faith in God keeps me strong. Stay busy and positive. May God bless you 🙏

  • @michellebilodeau3882
    @michellebilodeau3882 Жыл бұрын

    My husband is 71 and his health is deteriorating quickly. I've been trying to maintain a positive attitude and be a cheerleader but today I just feel so sad. So this video struck a nerve. I'm glad you posted it.

  • @laurennguyen1008

    @laurennguyen1008

    Жыл бұрын

    Same with my husband at 72.

  • @catherineclinton911

    @catherineclinton911

    Жыл бұрын

    Praying for you & your husband. Thank you for sharing. ❤🙏

  • @valerie718

    @valerie718

    Жыл бұрын

    Praying for you to feel loved and comforted.

  • @marinaal2648

    @marinaal2648

    Жыл бұрын

    Praying for you to feel better 💕

  • @MariaRojas-mq8sr

    @MariaRojas-mq8sr

    Жыл бұрын

    My heart and prayers for you and your husband ♥️

  • @ellenhassonhasson8548
    @ellenhassonhasson8548 Жыл бұрын

    Hello Dominique! I feel very blessed to have stumbled upon you while scrolling through You Tube videos year back. I feel like our time together has been an evolution for sure! One of the things that you said in this video is something I feel compelled to respond to. You mentioned that we (your followers) expect transparency and honesty from you. No we do not. We treasure your transparency and honesty and see it as a bold courageous gift. To be so vulnerable in such a public way in order for others not to feel alone takes a lot of strength. It's selfless really. My personal trials (2016 was a particularly sucky year) have often found myself not wanting to burden others as you shared. But that is the worst thing you can do. By putting yourself out here you allow us to embrace your humanness and have faith that if we allow others to see past our public persona that they to might just care for us. Someone once said be bold be blessed....good words to live by. Thank you. And hugs!

  • @alinatonkova9
    @alinatonkova9 Жыл бұрын

    This hits home truly hard. So much change and transformation, accelerating each year. Dominique so glad you skipped the magnetic eye this time as many of us were craving for this talk. You got this girl, take care and God bless you 💜

  • @michellescott7787
    @michellescott7787 Жыл бұрын

    You are so incredibly brave to speak with such honesty, so many of us are feeling the same… but it takes massive guts to say it out loud for us all to hear. I’m so sorry you are having a hard time/week, but this too shall pass. You are strong for so many, just be kind to yourself. Xx

  • @melissakelley6073
    @melissakelley6073 Жыл бұрын

    Years ago, one of my nursing instructors shared something so profound with my class. She said “The only thing that remains the same is CHANGE.” I really didn’t realize how true that statement was until years later. In the bad times, just knowing that things are going to change gives us hope. Hang in there my friend. Prayers lifted. Melissa 🍁

  • @valentina-pg4bj

    @valentina-pg4bj

    Жыл бұрын

    Nothing lasts forever, good or bad, so we all need to make friends with change & the unknown. When we take a step of faith, GOD's angels surround us with a hedge of protection. And this too shall pass!!!

  • @kimberlyjenkins6516

    @kimberlyjenkins6516

    Жыл бұрын

    Totally agree! The one thing you can count on is that things will change! 💗

  • @carolclark4673
    @carolclark4673 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry that you’re having a sad time and feeling altogether overloaded, you’ll get through, you’re a strong, capable and intelligent woman.. love and hugs this early morning from Australia. 💖

  • @bonniehenderson2560
    @bonniehenderson2560 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video, it was so heartfelt. We all go through tough times and sometimes forget that there are other people feeling the same way as we feel. You are blessing to all of us!

  • @gdrgdr5104
    @gdrgdr5104 Жыл бұрын

    I was having a bad week last week and this week! Been there. I went to High school with you but was as shy as I am tall. But you influenced me in Ms. B’s art class. So happy for you and all you have accomplished! You told me my name sounded like royalty and I shot up 20 feet tall. Stay lifted up! You have a great spirit! Much continued success!

  • @smiley9872

    @smiley9872

    Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful story, thank you for sharing.

  • @jilllatina4811

    @jilllatina4811

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your honesty & grace

  • @suz1506

    @suz1506

    Жыл бұрын

    what a beautiful share.... we are all royalty if only we would accept that. I am a child of the most high God.

  • @deepintheheartoftx7548
    @deepintheheartoftx7548 Жыл бұрын

    I am also in the state of “this is not how I pictured my life at this stage” currently. So many of my friends are in the same boat. Cling to the Lord. He is our only hope!

  • @coffeewithconnie

    @coffeewithconnie

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏🏻

  • @nancywhelan6537
    @nancywhelan6537 Жыл бұрын

    Dominique, thank you for sharing your feelings and sadness. You remind us that even the strongest people can get to breaking points. Lean on your support system, focus on all that you have to be thankful for, and hang in there as there are better days coming soon!

  • @joannec4356
    @joannec4356 Жыл бұрын

    This video is so appropriate for me right now who is recently separated. Learning to be alone is hard sometimes. Feels like your pep talk is directed straight to me…very eerie in some ways.

  • @lizettecamalich6168
    @lizettecamalich6168 Жыл бұрын

    When I have hard times like the one you share I think: "This is what means "To live"...when you FEEL (no matter is painful) it means you're ALIVE!! Embrace it and by the time everything gets in place you'll be stronger...mentally, phisically and spiritually!!!

  • @adb534
    @adb534 Жыл бұрын

    Dominque this was such an encouraging word that you’ve shared with us, thank you! As a believer myself this scripture is what I have posted on my refrigerator. These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In this world you WILL have tribulation, but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world- John 16:33 ❤️

  • @maureencrandall778

    @maureencrandall778

    Жыл бұрын

    My favorite verse in the Bible as well!

  • @Courage2bwell

    @Courage2bwell

    Жыл бұрын

    This is what I needed most desperately. Knowing scripture by heart is truly invaluable but having His word, the passages that we neglect to be brought before us. Especially when we are in the midst of being "crushed on all sides" "These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In this world you WILL have tribulation, but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world"- John 16:33 The tribulation can feel almost deadly I the despair, angst, searching for God to soothe our aching heart, calm our minds, tend to our wounds. We, like Dominique know all the right cheers to chant mid game. But to be reminding that we WILL have tribulation - an that to me means, whether I am doing everything correctly or not...tribulation WILL COMEand that I can "be of Good Cheer" for one reason alone. This world brings angst, pain, treachery, but HE has OVERCOME the World, HE is with Me an with YOU and we can actually "have peace" in that. Even when, ESPECIALLY when it seem impossible.

  • @vickycorey8195

    @vickycorey8195

    Жыл бұрын

    @Anji Amen. One of my favorite verses.

  • @nieveswhite3859
    @nieveswhite3859 Жыл бұрын

    You’re a beautiful human being Dominique. I send you love and by this moment I’m sure you’re feeling better. We’re blessed having people like you in the media. Have a wonderful time.

  • @a.contreras4934
    @a.contreras4934 Жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed watching you on the evening news and then your makeup tutorials now I come to appreciate these videos of life. You are a giving and uplifting person even when you are going through a difficult or overwhelming time! Remember, you are a strong woman and a woman of faith and this too shall pass. You are not alone. My prayers are with you.

  • @amandah.3083
    @amandah.3083 Жыл бұрын

    One of my favorite quotes from Corrie ten Boom is something like, "There is no pit that God's love is not deeper still." I have been in a pit most of this year, but I know God has me.

  • @laurab4833

    @laurab4833

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @carrenellis5954

    @carrenellis5954

    Жыл бұрын

    This is also my absolute favorite quote of CtB. Such great comfort in these words. His love has infinite depth! We are never out of His reach, and he will help us out of that pit!!

  • @amandah.3083

    @amandah.3083

    Жыл бұрын

    @@carrenellis5954 amen!

  • @valdez3245

    @valdez3245

    Жыл бұрын

    I have found that quote from Corrie Ten Boom to be so true! Be blessed and Shalom to you.

  • @melodireyes9687
    @melodireyes9687 Жыл бұрын

    Boy, can I relate! I just turned 75 and as if that wasn't enough to give me pause, I have had one of the worst months of my life. I have been feeling very much as you have been feeling but also realizing how so many of the people whom I have been there for are just not there for me when I stumble. While I don't necessarily need to turn my back on my fair-weather friends, I realize I need to look for more support and more positive and encouraging friends. I allowed myself to hear the kind words of your friend, as if she had spoken them to me, and it helped. I so admire your candor, because it would be easy for you to present yourself as flawless and without fear or limitations. When you talk about your difficult times it does make me feel less alone - I think, "See, even Dominique has bad days!" Oddly, I had been fooling around with magnetic lashes I bought some time ago and watching your old lash videos and I was about to give up and just throw them away. So I am looking forward to the magnetic lash video, but definitely needed the video from today. As always, thank you for being an inspiration and a positive role model - and for looking beautiful while you do it!

  • @carolmckenney8136

    @carolmckenney8136

    Жыл бұрын

    You know, I understand about the friends that don't support you. I hope you keep looking for them. Good and giving people are harder to find - its true. But they are out there.

  • @libbybalmain
    @libbybalmain Жыл бұрын

    You are so inspiring and truthful. We all want everyone to see the happy side of everything in life and sometimes you just gotta let it all out. I did that a few montgs ago. Was all too much. Had the biggest cry..., felt sorry for myself, cried for all the mistakes i have made. My best friend listened to me and got me through it. Thank god for friends Dominique. I look at you with such praise and i just wanted to give you a big aussie hug x

  • @ROSE-mq3qd
    @ROSE-mq3qd Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing🙏 - your integrity and dignity really shine through - listening to you share it’s ok to feel sad, has helped me today weep for all the recent things that have gone on in my life, my life is a on a rollercoaster of life changes and challenges at the moment and I struggle with constant busyness and last week I’ve just had to calm down and hear my body’s need to weep and not hold it all down; that it’s ok to cry and feel vulnerable, that I’m ok to feel not ok and it’s all going to be ok to weep it out - thank you 🙏

  • @janegrimes9981
    @janegrimes9981 Жыл бұрын

    3 months ago, we separated after 39 years of marriage...It's been tough. Thank you Dominique for your words, and for sharing not just the good (which is always brilliant) but also the true and the sad moments. We're all blessed in some way, no matter what.

  • @ashleys4652

    @ashleys4652

    Жыл бұрын

    I admire you for having the strength and courage to separate after so many years. So many would just stay. Praying for peace and a lovely and fulfilling new chapter for you. ❤

  • @sueepling7280
    @sueepling7280 Жыл бұрын

    Dominique, the power of prayer is the strongest bond I've formed in my adult life. I'm sorry that you had an emotionally draining week, but what a blessing you are for sharing it ❤️ I think all of us feel.alone at times and burdened by life's ups and downs. I will continue to lift you in prayer, and hope that these burdens will lighten for you. May your joy come in the morning

  • @cheyenneskylark
    @cheyenneskylark Жыл бұрын

    It's amazing how you share so much of yourself even during tough times to help others. So many of us, including myself, have been divorced women moving through many life obstacles whether emotional, financial or otherwise. I've found myself as well, making sure to "Pivot" my thoughts to all the blessed things in my life when I feel like I'm hitting a wall of no return in life. Focusing on being grateful for something pulls one out of the tornado of negativity we all fall victim too. Thank you again. You are a beautiful, loving soul that shares so much for all. Sending you blessings, you will pull through. ALWAYS REMEMBER, "THE RAINBOW NEVER APPEARS UNTIL AFTER THE STORM"....

  • @kerrieward2667
    @kerrieward2667 Жыл бұрын

    Dominique, please know you don't need to be perfect for us. Thank you for your honesty and transparency with sharing your life and your faith as you take each day one by one. Your sharing is inspiring to each of us struggling with our own challenges.

  • @Ketovore-Karen
    @Ketovore-Karen Жыл бұрын

    Remember…..”Don’t set yourself on fire to keep other people warm” So hard for women like us that are gifted with lifting other people up….that’s our pure joy. However, we often suppress our despair at times so that others won’t hurt for us the way we hurt for others and want to make everything all right for those we care about. Brokenness blossoms into cleansing then finally joy again. Let it take its course…..you can and will push through

  • @Mxtraveler

    @Mxtraveler

    Жыл бұрын

    Great words of advice to all that are going through sad things.

  • @rigaud01

    @rigaud01

    Жыл бұрын

  • @ashleys4652

    @ashleys4652

    Жыл бұрын

    This is so encouraging. Thanks. I needed to read your comment, Karen.

  • @solucionesparacafeteras3592
    @solucionesparacafeteras3592 Жыл бұрын

    Dear Dominique, thank you for opening up to the people who followed you, my name is Elizabeth and I am Hispanic, I want to tell you that what seems to be bad is not, since in each season of our lives we learn and go through situations that they make us see life from a different perspective and teach us things that we would never have experienced if we did not go through that passage. In my case I am going through something similar, my husband fell with someone younger than me, and I have felt abandoned and despised and worthless, until I realized that he was my mirror and it was me, I had abandoned myself and there are many ways of abandoning to ourselves, just as I also gave my value to him and it was me who despised myself , so it is a new beginning where it makes us stronger, and we can do everything in God who strengthens us, do not forget, do not fear and HE is faithful, a big hug to distance. Elizabeth Forte

  • @irairod5160

    @irairod5160

    Жыл бұрын

    Elizabeth, te mando un abrazo lleno de positivismo. Aqui de lejos, estoy echandote buena vibra y deseandote muchos anos de crecimiento y logros personales. Aunque sea dificil creerlo ahora mismo, te aseguro que a veces lo que uno pierde, se va precisamente para que uno pueda hacer espacio para cosas que son mas grandes y significativas. Adelante, amiga! Carinos de Iraida en Virginia.

  • @carolmckenney8136

    @carolmckenney8136

    Жыл бұрын

    It seems you have that inner beauty that brings strength to our lives. Your strength and wisdom will help others. 💕

  • @SuselSomaetEmotions
    @SuselSomaetEmotions Жыл бұрын

    Sun always show up after the storm. Everything happens for a reason and mostly the reason is to grow spiritually. You are not alone, it happens to all of us once in a while. Just remember it will pass ,keep the eyes on the light . Much blessings 🌸

  • @lucym1810
    @lucym1810 Жыл бұрын

    The best advice my dearest mother gave me many many years ago that has helped me through life when I thought I could not go on is " God only gives you crosses he knows you can bear" I can still hear my dearest mothers voice saying these words and somehow they have helped me pull through. I hope they can be comfort to you. My mother passes away 27 years ago and never got a chance to see my only child. But I know somehow through my belief in God she is by my side and I am not alone. She so desperately wanted to hear the news she would be a grandma but it came 2 years after her passing. Not a day goes by I don't think of her and my father. Stay strong and God is with you 🙏🌸💗

  • @pamelabrinton2100

    @pamelabrinton2100

    Жыл бұрын

    ✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️

  • @tammieparrishmiller3669
    @tammieparrishmiller3669 Жыл бұрын

    Music gets me through the ups and the downs more than anything besides my faith. When I'm in my car, I turn it up and I sing! It has been my go-to for my entire life. Even at 4 yrs. old, I remember loving music so much that I would beg my mother not to turn the car off until the song was over. I just lost one of my best friends from the time we were 15 she was the new girl in school and feeling lost, we had to partner up in our physical education class, so I turned to her and asked if she would like to be my partner. She never forgot that. She had a very rough life and she and her brother both became alcoholics and passed away within one week of one another. She literally drank herself to death. They played her favorite song at the funeral. She loved music too. It was amazing how it lifted us up when that song came on. I'm just saying that music is sometimes can be a lifesaver. It didn't save hers but it got her through rough times. I hope this helps someone.

  • @JenDoe1

    @JenDoe1

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m very sorry for your loss. I also have had a special relationship with music, it moves me so much I’ve often wondered if other people are as affected as I! I shared the love of music with my dear best friend. I sadly lost her 2 days before her 43rd birthday on 1/11/2020. Like your friend, she had a tough life. I can safely say that music was a savior to her as well though! It’s helped both of us get through some tough times. The power of music is real. Wishing you happiness and peace.

  • @tammieparrishmiller3669

    @tammieparrishmiller3669

    Жыл бұрын

    @@JenDoe1 Thank you so much! I love your name Queen Groove! That says it all! I am so sorry for your loss as well. I hope you know she is still with you. My friend came to me in what one would call a dream but I know it to be real because everyone I've ever lost has come to me to leave a message or just communicate to give me closure. What she said to me was "I'm resting". We always said whoever goes first will contact the other. That was her telling me she was taking a much needed rest and I believe she will come back once more. Blessings to you and keep the music alive! Peace and all the best of everything!

  • @cindygraham7871
    @cindygraham7871 Жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry you’re going through this painful time. But I must tell you, the way you are turning your focus inward to reflect, to search for blessings, to grow and to stay strong in the belief that this too shall pass gives me pause and encourages my own reflection. You’re a special person and I thank you for sharing this vulnerable and so relatable moment. Maintain your grace as you do and keep moving forward. ❤️

  • @katatude

    @katatude

    Жыл бұрын

    Cindy, what a beautiful, moving comment. I am sure you touched Dominique's heart just like you touched mine. God Bless and may your struggles be few and passed through rapidly. Thank you!

  • @cindygraham7871

    @cindygraham7871

    Жыл бұрын

    @@katatude thank you, what a lovely thing to say. I suspect Dominique attracts a community that is a bit older and/or more interested in the type of inner journey she’s talking about here. But also the hair and makeup, because please.

  • @JDfaith2024

    @JDfaith2024

    Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful comment 😊

  • @AmbrosiaK

    @AmbrosiaK

    Жыл бұрын

    Lovely comment

  • @carolinenachtrab4357
    @carolinenachtrab4357 Жыл бұрын

    I read this somewhere & I think it's so valuable to keep in our thoughts - a message from God. "My child, you worry too much, Remember.... I've got this! Love, God"

  • @lakelpermann6639
    @lakelpermann6639 Жыл бұрын

    This song ( with the link in it below) got me through my “dark nights of the soul”. I listened to it on repeat. And prayed my heart out to God. May God bless you and heal your heart. 🙏🏻💜

  • @suer292
    @suer292 Жыл бұрын

    We lost our Queen today. So was feeling so sad but I watched you and you bless us with your wonderful words, your ‘ just being there’ and your grace. Thank you it was needed 🌿❤️🙏

  • @lisarhoades965

    @lisarhoades965

    Жыл бұрын

    I know for so many this is crushing and whether or not someone followed the Royal family, it would be hard to ignore that QEII's reign spanned so many generations, how could one not shed a tear for the loss. Even during the darkest hours of war, politics, family situations and her own personal sacrifices and losses, she always put her duty first. I would like to think before passing she grinned to herself, "I was the Queen of England...Well done"!

  • @laurabeissel9345

    @laurabeissel9345

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless the Queen. America values the relationships she had with ALL of our presidents.

  • @judymastrullo4348
    @judymastrullo4348 Жыл бұрын

    Dominique even when your down and sad and having a rough go of it, you are still helping us ladies out here with all your transparency. Now that should give you a sense of pride. We ALL love you when your happy, and when your sad. Your just like US. Go listen to some of your favorite music and let it help you thru it. Music heals so much . If you need more self time, take it. Love you sweety. 💖

  • @donnabruyere6793

    @donnabruyere6793

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, her story is a reflection of what’s going on in all of us ladies and we need each other’s support. Bravo Dominique

  • @maesmith6987
    @maesmith6987 Жыл бұрын

    Yes, this needed to happen today. I have had a “week” too. My son today told me that in the literature of “The Lord of the Rings,” Sam says to his dear friend Frodo “I can’t carry it for you. But I can carry you.” Thank you for carrying me today, Dominique. Blessings to you!

  • @sherrisavisky2564
    @sherrisavisky2564 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing what a lot of women our age are going through. Part of healing is sharing and as time passes it gets better even though, there still be ups and downs. In 2015 I lost my brother at the age of 51 due to colon cancer. Watching him go through this horrific disease and seeing the effects it took on my mom had me at my lowest point in life. Then I came across you on KZread and your calm demeanor and positive outlook on life helped that dark cloud move away from me. You have been a tremendous help to me and many of your viewers. Know that we all love you and wish we could give you a big hug!!! So happy you have special friends to share with. XOXO!

  • @barbiec4312
    @barbiec4312 Жыл бұрын

    Hears something recently that has helped me. You’ll be happy 1/3 of the time, sad 1/3 of the time and neutral 1/3 of the time. So you’re in that 1/3 time of sadness. Hang in there and thanks for the realness.

  • @melissajeoux483
    @melissajeoux483 Жыл бұрын

    Needed this today.. I’m there right now myself in a hostile work environment and it’s really taking me down emotionally.. I’m thankful to know not that others are feeling down right now too but that I’m not alone and that my feelings are somehow validated. Thank you for sharing and big hugs to you and anyone else reading this that needs a virtual hug as well. 💕💕

  • @dancergal5068

    @dancergal5068

    Жыл бұрын

    Melissa, please do yourself a favor and try to get out of your hostile work environment. I stayed in one far too long and it took an emotional toll. Sending you a virtual hug! 💕

  • @sallyzaragoza4155

    @sallyzaragoza4155

    Жыл бұрын

    I quit, now i''m struggling but ok in a good bittersweet way. Not sure if i'm re-hireable ageism is real. I'm a uber delivery driver, every day is a challenge. I'm not comatose anymore. Good luck, keep the job and enjoy your off time to the max. Let the job be your base not your life.

  • @melissajeoux483

    @melissajeoux483

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sallyzaragoza4155 Thank you for taking time to send me a message. That is exactly why I’m forced to stay where I am. I’m at the tail end of my career. Closer to retirement age vs just starting out so I know what you’re saying. I hope you are blessed in many other ways just for your sheer kindness to reach out to me. Thank you very much! 💕💕

  • @melissajeoux483

    @melissajeoux483

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dancergal5068 Thank you for taking the time to reach out to me. I sincerely appreciate that. I’m closer to retirement as I’ve been with my company for over 20 years. So I’m in a little more difficult position. I appreciate your kinds words though. They truly do help at times like this. Thank you so much! 💕💕

  • @kcloveonaleash

    @kcloveonaleash

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dancergal5068 I was in a a similar situation and was suffering major depressive episodes. I had to resign to save myself- started a business 11 yrs ago🐾🐾

  • @lisacrump9884
    @lisacrump9884 Жыл бұрын

    I just happened upon your video in this moment where my hurt and despair has become so heavy, it’s almost unbearable. Thank you so much for your words. They will definitely help move me forward. God bless!

  • @danielap2759
    @danielap2759 Жыл бұрын

    Dearest Dominique, your message, your transparency moved me to tears. I can totally relate to how you are feeling (even though the circumstances are different). Life goes on and things will get better. I wish you all the best. You are included in my prayers. Love you, sending you a big warm-hearted hug.

  • @morganjen1962
    @morganjen1962 Жыл бұрын

    This is a huge time right now, energetic-wise. Everyone is going through this tumultuous duration at the same time. A lot of heavy energy is going on currently.

  • @Coco-og7zw

    @Coco-og7zw

    Жыл бұрын

    Very true!!!

  • @jeaniemarkel360
    @jeaniemarkel360 Жыл бұрын

    Oh my goodness...this segment could not have come at a better time!! I am dealing with nursing care for my 96 year old mother and it's overwhelming all of the decisions one must make. I struggle with guilt that I can't care for her anymore and I'm shocked at the prices for assisted living facilities. I pray that God gives us the ability to accept the things that we can change and accept those things we can't. Dominique, you are beautiful inside and out. Thanks for showing us that you, too, can be vulnerable and susceptible to life's difficulties. One thing I do know after 65 years: life will go on and better days are ahead.

  • @shirleycox4547

    @shirleycox4547

    Жыл бұрын

    I too am in the process of trying to get to grips with my Mother's situation, she has just gone into a nursing home. We had a good relationship before and now she hates me! I don't have any siblings so am dealing with this on my own. I'm told by the staff that she has friends and appears happy, she just won't let me see this. So many exhausting feelings! Reading all these comments just dmonstrates that we are all the same. Life is full of ups and downs. Its good you called out - your normal!

  • @debbitidwell198

    @debbitidwell198

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh Jeanie, I am right there with you. My 91 year old mother has had to move in with me and my husband. We've never been close or gotten along very well, needless to say, things are definitely not any better now. This is the hardest thing I've ever had to do, expect for burying my daughter this past June. She suffered from breast cancer for 3 years and finally lost the fight. So...what a year it's been. At this point I can't see light at the end of the tunnel, although I know it has to be there. We have a son, daughter in law and granddaughter who lives very close and they are so much a part of what is keeping me going. I have two other beautiful grandchildren from my daughter, I'm going to work very hard to stay as close to as I can. Lots of sad days, but lots of good days too.

  • @MrsSunGreen
    @MrsSunGreen Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your honesty 🙏 I feel exactly the same, but now a little less lost & lonely. I wish all the best to you, Dominique 🌹

  • @RipIt832
    @RipIt832 Жыл бұрын

    It’s so good to open up to friends, family or even to the world. Yes, I’m going through a lot of struggles in my personal life so watching this helped me remember that everybody has their own struggles. Today has been a crappy day too for me but I’m telling myself it’s just one day. Today will come and go and will be a thing of the past. Make tomorrow along with myself a better one. We can choose to do what we want for ourselves. We’re not living for anybody else but ourselves. Why not try to live it your best no matter what tries to tear you down? Plan A didn’t work now on to Plan B and so on. Take that control because we do have that power to make our own life, this one life how we want.

  • @PaleOpal21
    @PaleOpal21 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you I needed this. I'm 52 years old, lost my job, had a breakdown, filed bankruptcy and my 94 year old mom had a massive heart attack and went into a temporary coma after being prescribed blood pressure medication that she didn't need all in 2021. She fully recovered, but I live with her right now. I never thought at my age and with two college degrees this is where I would be in my life. With the help of my therapist, I'm taking one day at a time and seeing the gratitude in my life.

  • @josimpson7999

    @josimpson7999

    Жыл бұрын

    Gosh, that’s an awful lot to deal with. I’m so sorry.

  • @rhondamacdougallgale5036

    @rhondamacdougallgale5036

    Жыл бұрын

    💜💜💜

  • @susiemackie53

    @susiemackie53

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too very similar at 64

  • @carolmckenney8136

    @carolmckenney8136

    Жыл бұрын

    I sympathize with you. I also have an advanced education that doesn't help me at all now including a law degree. I will pray that your life gets better. 💕

  • @PaleOpal21

    @PaleOpal21

    Жыл бұрын

    @@carolmckenney8136 Thank you.

  • @christineprice916
    @christineprice916 Жыл бұрын

    Hello Dominique. I found being thrown into widowhood I needed to do something. I have had to go back to work but I also volunteered quilting for others less fortunate. It feels good and I keep doing it. It is hard but you can do it because “This to Shall Pass”. My mantra. God bless you and stay strong. One step at a time….

  • @tinam761
    @tinam761 Жыл бұрын

    WOW! ❤️🙏🏼 I NEEDED this so much!!! I’m in one of the darkest places in my life. So much so that I have struggled greatly to continue in it. I am here. I am working on getting myself healthier. God feels so very distant from me … I pray 🙏🏼 for that gap to close and give me strength for this day and days ahead.

  • @Tania-mx9tu

    @Tania-mx9tu

    Жыл бұрын

    Praying for you to feel God’s presence.

  • @brendabarkerhelton578

    @brendabarkerhelton578

    Жыл бұрын

    Tina, God is so close to you. He never ever leaves us. Try to be still and He will show you the way. God bless you and don't give up!!

  • @dianar.r.5988

    @dianar.r.5988

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been in that dark place too. Hoping you have been able to connect with safe people who will listen to you, accept you and love you. 🙏🏼

  • @MiriamGarcia-ki2wv
    @MiriamGarcia-ki2wv Жыл бұрын

    Dominique, thank you so much for sharing your emotions and feelings; it is not easy to do but shows the depth of your strength. You inspire and motivate us and remind us that we are not alone. Although is sometimes difficult to share with others close to us how we are feeling, it is a great thing to do so. It frees our emotions, it helps us release those feelings that keep us down and helps start the healing process. Thanks for being a voice for so many of us and for reminding us that we have so much to live for. Blessings to you and everyone in this platform.💕

  • @avasmimi10
    @avasmimi10 Жыл бұрын

    I have been where you are. I had to use the advise I gave my children when they would come home from school, complaining about what this kid did or that teacher did. I made them sit down and tell me one good thing that happened in their day. That moment made all the difference in their perspective of how they day actually went. I began to do that as well, and as time went by, the good moments began to take over the bad. My life has changed in so many beautiful and wonderful ways that I am truly blessed by the struggles of the past. It made me appreciate the blessings of today. You are wonderfully and beautifully made! The good days will surpass your wildest dreams. You are loved!

  • @ileanacarbajal658
    @ileanacarbajal658 Жыл бұрын

    I'm not good at expressing how I feel, but at this moment, Friday evening I feel empty and emotionally lonely. I'm right now sitting in the dark & listening to you on KZread and thinking...what a great time for me to hear this...thank you! I just take a deep breath and be grateful of of my blessings! All I have is my mom ²(who's 82 and looks fantastic)...I'm not married, no children, 52 years old, and love to just have a problem-free honest companion , which is hard to come by these days!😑

  • @julieconrad9820

    @julieconrad9820

    Жыл бұрын

    We think we are the only ones in a sad place. Be open to a new relationship, be open to new possibilities. My dogs are my comfort when I find I can't reach out for support. I wish you peace, joy and future happiness.

  • @Trish4175

    @Trish4175

    Жыл бұрын

    I hear you! I'm 53 no kids no relationship and being single and trying to date is so ridiculously stupid. You are not alone!

  • @ileanacarbajal658

    @ileanacarbajal658

    Жыл бұрын

    🕯🤝👋Thank you so much! GBY'ALL ♡

  • @valerieclark3064

    @valerieclark3064

    Жыл бұрын

    I totally understand. I'm 49, not married no kids. Feel so alone. Dating is so hard and can't seem to find the right person for me. Last guy treated me horribly. Glad to read im not alone!

  • @Trish4175

    @Trish4175

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't stop believing. Keep the faith. I went from a very dark lonely place just a few weeks ago to meeting someone that I never in my wildest dreams would find. Of course it's too soon to know if it will work out but my God Im having the most incredibly inspiring time.

  • @robinreganoconnell4697
    @robinreganoconnell4697 Жыл бұрын

    It's amazing Dominique how we look at some people and think "oh everything is wonderful in their life, nothing bad ever happens"...listening to you i had tears in my eyes for you because you are such a wonderful, sweet, loving, caring person. I have had a few traumatic instances in my life and i look back and see that each one made me stronger. That's what is happening to you even though you don't feel that way in this video. You are strong girl and you are human, who is going through what many of us have. Love you Dominique

  • @s.p642
    @s.p642 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your authentic beautiful self. Everyone goes through turbulent times at some point in our lives. What got me through 9 years of craziness was a lot of tears, talking to my friends and a therapist that worked on a sliding scale and knowing that troubled times do not last. It's like a wave in the ocean that you must ride knowing knowing that it won't last forever. Stay in gratitude with the blessings that still surround you each day. We do come out of it a much stronger person.

  • @syrinam.1549
    @syrinam.1549 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry to hear you’re having a difficult time, Dominique. We all go through trials in this life, and while they’re not fun while we’re experiencing them, they do grow us in so many ways. I will be praying for you, my friend. And may I remind you to leave your burdens at the feet of Jesus. He will carry them for you. ❤️

  • @jenniferseelen1899

    @jenniferseelen1899

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @84amward

    @84amward

    Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful message

  • @carmenrosario5539

    @carmenrosario5539

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen!!!!

  • @marissagonzalez7195
    @marissagonzalez7195 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being so honest. Going through a lot myself , retired and watching the world destroy itself.

  • @margoheda9968
    @margoheda9968 Жыл бұрын

    I deeply, deeply appreciate what you share here. It was a gift to me to come across this today at what happens to be a challenging time - more than I can adequately express. You are not alone, and in sharing your humanity and vulnerability, you help others to feel seen and heard. This in itself is incredibly healing. God bless you and thank you for this.

  • @charleneribera-pepin840

    @charleneribera-pepin840

    Жыл бұрын

    So beautifully said. 💕💕

  • @kimdudezki7272
    @kimdudezki7272 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for opening up and your honesty you are so appreciated and loved

  • @katadored5699
    @katadored5699 Жыл бұрын

    Hi. Dominique Thank you forv sharing. Your expression of faith, in times like these, was a reminder to me... You see. I had been diagnosed with cancer when it was already stage 4 b (out of c) and it had already metasticisized. I took the attitude that "I am not dieing of cancer. I am LIVING with cancer." I have since found that it is inoperable and I lost myself in self pity. It was as if my faith were failing me, which made me feel even worse. Your sharing of your faith has helped me to remember...nothing. has changed and certainly not God. He still has a plan for me. He still knows what's best for me and I, most certainly, am still LIVING with cancer. Every day is more precious and I get to be alive for it. I don't need to know for how long, as long as I see the beauty of each day, separately. YOU are a blessing. Thank you You, too, are already ok,, because you LIVE in the Lord's hands. : )

  • @robinholbrook6576

    @robinholbrook6576

    Жыл бұрын

    May you find joy in EVERY day and blessings upon blessings. Peace and love from from San Antonio. ❤️🌹❤️

  • @katadored5699

    @katadored5699

    Жыл бұрын

    @@robinholbrook6576 Thank you. You, too! *hugs : )

  • @MiriamGarcia-ki2wv

    @MiriamGarcia-ki2wv

    Жыл бұрын

    I am truly sorry that you are dealing with so much. Your faith and resolve to put your best foot forward are truly admirable. You are so strong and we uplift you with positive thoughts and well wishes.

  • @Lianne771

    @Lianne771

    Жыл бұрын

    You are a blessing as well whatever God has planned for you! Love and prayers for you from Canada!

  • @seaglasscolor
    @seaglasscolor Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Dominique, for sharing this. A wise counselor once said to me, “What’s in the way IS the way.” It is true!

  • @susanasaenz5751
    @susanasaenz5751 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Dominique, you’re an inspiration, you have been for me for over a year since I found your videos. I appreciate your honesty the most. May God continue to bless you and use you 🙏🏼💝

  • @barbaranicholson4082
    @barbaranicholson4082 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Dominique for being so open and honest. Today, in doing so, you were my gift as I needed uplifting. Your words and emotion resonated. Thank you for helping me see another way of approaching my personal struggles. I wish you strength.

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