Enneagram: Hey Type 8's, "Stop Being A Jerk!"

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  • @giscottusa
    @giscottusa25 күн бұрын

    How I have been misunderstood as an 8 : people laughing at my pain or making fun of it, like, "oh come on, you got hurt by that?!?!" - it is almost like if you are an 8, you don't get the right to bleed or to be human, yet you are expected to give others what nobody gives you. It is a catch 22. Nobody would say : I can't believe that hurt your feelings to any other number and just laugh about it like it was a silly matter. That just reinforces the idea to 8s that people only love me because of my strength, therefore hardening their hearts to vulnerability. Great points, Tony! Awesome video! 🔥💪

  • @twlahue

    @twlahue

    25 күн бұрын

    Awesome

  • @memoshe314
    @memoshe31425 күн бұрын

    Why the title of the video motivated me to be a jerk more 😭

  • @twlahue

    @twlahue

    21 күн бұрын

    Haha, titles can have that effect sometimes! Thanks for sharing your experience.

  • @THELEMISIS
    @THELEMISIS25 күн бұрын

    I’m listening.

  • @Tristram9

    @Tristram9

    25 күн бұрын

    Honesty- a 4

  • @twlahue

    @twlahue

    20 күн бұрын

    Great

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets6 күн бұрын

    I'm a 4w5 who date an 8w7. Absolutely never again. Jesus.

  • @twlahue

    @twlahue

    6 күн бұрын

    Whoa, sounds like quite the combo! Thanks for the heads up!

  • @realSimoneCherie
    @realSimoneCherie19 күн бұрын

    Accurate

  • @twlahue

    @twlahue

    19 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your feedback!

  • @giscottusa
    @giscottusa25 күн бұрын

    Are you going to make a series on how each # can be jerks? I hope so! 😂 Jerks come in 9 different flavors 😂

  • @twlahue

    @twlahue

    25 күн бұрын

    Yes

  • @giscottusa

    @giscottusa

    25 күн бұрын

    @@twlahue looking forward to it 🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @don-eb3fj

    @don-eb3fj

    25 күн бұрын

    ...and then there are those extra-spicy BLENDED flavors - and they have wings ! Oh, my!😂

  • @tiffanythorne6740
    @tiffanythorne674023 күн бұрын

    I love this advice. Do you think 8s lack self-regulation-maybe too busy directing and protecting others to attune to their own mind, body, words and actions?

  • @twlahue

    @twlahue

    23 күн бұрын

    Thanks, Yes at times.

  • @giscottusa

    @giscottusa

    22 күн бұрын

    @tiffanythorne6740 the lack of self regulation is most common displayed on sexual 8 - they crave breaking boundaries. At times, they can live by " It is good to be bad" - self preservation 8 would feel out of control by acting the way - social 8 ( countertype) would see acting this way as a disadvantage for him/her and the group they belong