Lots of men don't grow up, they just grow old.

@tasha1443

Ай бұрын

This comment is spot on. Well said.

@SheWhoRemainz

Ай бұрын

Girl… I’m using this 👏🏽

When he said, I think we should end things the first time I would simply say “ I agree” then block 😂

@missjackie7983

Ай бұрын

I know dudes over 50 who act like they married to their moms or sisters. It's best to avoid them folks

@user-bz6oz6gt6q

25 күн бұрын

I absolutely agree with you. No time to waste with fools.

@user-bz6oz6gt6q

25 күн бұрын

I'm pretty sure he is married and the woman he is calling his mom is actually his wife. Dude has a secret life.

Friends with benefits??? 😱 Get off my phone!! 🤬

What Toni Braxton say? “Telling me your mama said that I’m not what you need. Tell you what since she’s knows it all, THEN THAT’S WHERE YOU NEED TO BE”! BOY BYE ✌🏽

@rominagresely526

Ай бұрын

I never heard that song but it makes sense.

@Sweetlady888

Ай бұрын

@@rominagresely526the song is called Just be a Man about it. 🎶

@rominagresely526

Ай бұрын

@@Sweetlady888 Oh ok. Thank you Sweet Lady.

@Sweetlady888

Ай бұрын

@@rominagresely526 you’re welcome 🙂

One of these days, she's going to throw that phone out the window 😅😅

@its_just_kia

Ай бұрын

💯...she (many of us) already did too much by replying in the first place!

@jusvicki1981

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

No mama's boys ever! They act like spoiled children.

@scross1026

Ай бұрын

Amen. It's a difference between a man who loves & respects his Mama (like my brother) & somebody who is lodged up his Mama's rear.

I just went through this with a man I had known for years. We decided to briefly start talking about dating and making plans to see each other[ and before we even went on the date] he starts asking me to send him nudes and I told him that I would once we were an actual couple and in a serious relationship. I kid you not, a week after my 32nd birthday, this man says that he spoke to his therapist about me and states that we should remain platonic since he has an immense sexual appetite and I was "too insecure" to give him what he wants. I was just sitting here dumbfounded and in disbelief of the foolishness I just experienced and I can't help but laugh about it 😅😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅

@MurphyFarm2014

Ай бұрын

You dodged a bullet there 😮 ✌️🫶🖖🤗 🇨🇦 🍁

@scross1026

Ай бұрын

His "therapist" was probably actually his homie. Or just a crackpot. 😂

@sheronnambuya8895

Ай бұрын

He only needed you as his 💊. A man who is serious won't ask for nudes - we won't "remove items from their package," just like that - he will wait to make a serious commitment ❤

@renel7303

Ай бұрын

You lucky woman! You found out your friend was a gaslighting narcissist early on! That's one man you can delete from your contacts.

@paratroopergirl4064

Ай бұрын

Oh, so you're the problem? Two of em done turned the table on you...😂

You dodged a bullet there

Too much convo. That would have ended right after he said he couldn’t make it honestly. That next message of him saying his mom didn’t like her after she offered assistance to him…baby my response would have been, “I understand. Take care.” Send text, then immediately block. Back to my exercise.

I’ll be 30 soon, so basically you’re saying it doesn’t get better 😂😂😂

@Eyesunmoonstars

Ай бұрын

At all

@renel7303

Ай бұрын

Worse.

@jusvicki1981

Ай бұрын

Bae its worse actually...I just cant and I aint...ill be 43 in a couple of months and Im so happy to have found this channel. Cause I didn't know these issues were so common.

That's why he is single.

I know for women the most annoying is a grown man that still cannot take his own decisions. And to be honest, for man like me that left my parents house at 17... it's soooo pathetic, I can't even respect a man like that

@saltycat662

Ай бұрын

They have narcissistic mothers. I'm all too familiar with that. My in laws are evil. My husband cut them off for over a decade. My husband was a mama's boy until he finally woke up. These women are emotionally married to their sons, it's sick.

I have just discovered your content (Utube algorithm). Being in my 50s now and having ended "dating" in my 40s for the long term single life - this brings back so many memories. All of them frustrating 😂. Things aren't that much different this side of the Pond! 🇬🇧

@MurphyFarm2014

Ай бұрын

Same here in CB NS 🇨🇦 🍁 ✌️🫶🖖🤗

@tonnieverse4038

Ай бұрын

I gave up in my 30s..

I'm so glad I haven't encountered a mommy's boy. However, I have encountered those with mommy "issues". Not sure which one's worse tbh 🤔

@LupaDomina

Ай бұрын

In my lived experience - both. Avoid at ALL costs. Or date a narcissist. It's pretty much the same experience 🤷

@sensimania

Ай бұрын

@@LupaDomina So true

@user-ev2kn7ls2g

Ай бұрын

Try one with mommy and sister issues!

@LupaDomina

Ай бұрын

@@user-ev2kn7ls2g oh my! You survived to tell the tale. It's all good 😜

I was married but became widow I wanted to have fun and I even kept telling my “friend “ all I wanted was to have fun and nothing serious he got mad and said that I was using him and that’s not the way it should be I said that he made me sound like I got him pregnant and left him with the kid.. I said “men dont want a relationship they just want to hit it and quit it “ he’s like “well not me “ it took us a few years of me saying no to finally moving In together to doing what I said I’d never do again “get married “ hahhaa it’s crazy but I can’t believe I broke my rules of being single

@Jpcorza69

Ай бұрын

@@IVvOOvVI I didn't want any responsibility and he would get furious and kept asking "so what are we " and I would say" well friends who have sex I see you when I'm in the mood or you can call me when ur in the mood " and he would say " well can you have sex with only me only " I would say ok ok than he would ask again( what we where )I kept saying friends and it would make him mad I would tell him " look I don't even know what I'll eat in the next hour let alone what you and I are, just give it time im just following the river. Of life if it happens that we become a couple it will happen ".....but if you wanna give a try it might work I guess maybe guys aren't use to a woman being that way and it might attract them ,cuz my guy would say he felt confused and at times wanting to know what was going on in my mind and if i even had any feelings for him

My response to the original text, cancelling, I would've typed, (Ok Cool)

I would have said OK, bye. 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

Haha 😂😂 he was just messy. Your calmness kills me every time their foolishness comes at you 😅.

When a man says we are ending things, just say one word: okay. Never say anything after that. Not even when youve been caught unaware. Block him and moveon for your dignity's sake - never ever try to ask him for explanations❤❤❤

The whole conversation had me tickled …😂 stay woke..

Lady... if this fool text you one more time... warn him that you're reporting him for sexual harassment ; and should he continue texting you - report him to the police.

Nope, 🙅🏾‍♀️ 🚫😂

@apinspires78

Ай бұрын

😆

🤣🤣🤣 "grown" man using mom as an excuse. Still have the cheek to say fwb. Glad you dodged the loser! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Not the mini stepper! Right on brand.

Mama said this mama said that … then do me a favor and stay over there with your mama and leave me alone 😂😂😂😂

These are mind games after he said she comes first I woulda shut it down she can come first but to say it just because I asked if everything is ok? And then to say she doesn’t even like you if that’s the case I don’t need it told to me like that he woulda been blocked with the quickness

He moght be grown physically but definitely not mentally 😂😂😂

The block button is your best friend 🤦🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤣

LOVE THESE THEY ARE HILARIOUS

He should not have had benefits to begin with! 😂

@user-bz6oz6gt6q

25 күн бұрын

I would report him with that word " friend with benefits" if he continues texting.

A different kind of baggage! No one needs that. Good riddance.

I have that same picture on my wall as you! 😊

Wait, so his mama would be okay with her being his friend with benefits?

Accurate

Please tell me this is fiction and not reenactments! 😂 of course I find these videos when i am considering dating

😂😂😂

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😂

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Friends with benefits 😂😂 horrible. He still loves at home 🤷🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

@user-bz6oz6gt6q

24 күн бұрын

If he is not married, he lives with his mother.

🤣

Enmeshed. The mother & son have an enmeshed relationship, gross.

You need to develop a three month rule with all these losers you’re coming across (if you don’t have one already)

Really????? I can't believe it. Is he a mature man or a mom's baby still????? Stay away from this kind of "man"!

😮🤔😍👍🏽👌🏽🍷🥤

Okay, I've been out of the loop for a minute...so you're saying women in/after 40's entertain this foolishness? Wow...

2 Esdras "Virgins shall mourn because they have no bridegrooms; women shall mourn because they have no husbands; their daughters shall mourn because they have no help. 35 Their bridegrooms shall be killed in war, and their husbands shall perish of famine. God’s People Must Prepare for the End ! 36 Listen now to these things, and understand them, you who are servants of the Lord. 37 This is the word of the Lord; receive it and do not disbelieve what the Lord says.[e] 38 The calamities draw near and are not delayed !"

Why is she entertaining this crap?