Dating when you're 40 and over (Steve) Full Video: Episode 18

Dating when you're 40 and over (Steve) Full Video: Episode 18
#40plus #genx #40andover #relatable #dating #forwomen #foryoupage #datinglife #datingover40 #reallife #relationships

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  • @queentinadoire6931
    @queentinadoire69312 ай бұрын

    I would immediately cancel the date. I'm not trying to babysit anyone's child.🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @breannajones2567
    @breannajones25672 ай бұрын

    “What are you thinking of ordering?” “My food to go! Y’all enjoy your date.” ✌🏾

  • @thelifeuchoose

    @thelifeuchoose

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @RacieRain
    @RacieRain2 ай бұрын

    I would have immediately cancelled.

  • @b1njjj95

    @b1njjj95

    Ай бұрын

    SAME! Canceled and blocked! 🚫

  • @louveblancheomega799

    @louveblancheomega799

    Ай бұрын

    Especially that he didn't come at their first date

  • @user-je3zc3nj9c
    @user-je3zc3nj9c2 ай бұрын

    Never take a child on a date, especially a first date.

  • @slickandslaycious6579

    @slickandslaycious6579

    2 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @thiacari

    @thiacari

    2 ай бұрын

    If she is over 7, he could invite his date to a cafe near his apartement and the child could stay at home for an hour. He could call babysitters and pay. Ask the neighbours. Anything. But why mess up the first impression?

  • @seajelly2421

    @seajelly2421

    2 ай бұрын

    Agreed. Don't play with your child's emotions like that. Someone who moves too fast on introducing children is someone I'm not interested in dating.

  • @Greenwalk64

    @Greenwalk64

    2 ай бұрын

    It is a good thing he brought his daughter so this lady knows what she is in for if she continues to date this man. Red flag! 🤔

  • @thiacari

    @thiacari

    2 ай бұрын

    @@Greenwalk64 Properly introduced it could have gone much better. Maybe give it a year after divorce, talk about how mum and dad won'tlive togetherbut it's nobody's fault, show photos, explain that mum will still be the only mum, and then do some nice activity together, e.g. park and ice cream.

  • @xBettyjo
    @xBettyjo2 ай бұрын

    Kids always want their parents to get back together.

  • @VitaInDC
    @VitaInDC2 ай бұрын

    Most kids wants their parents to reunite. It's especially hell for step mothers.

  • @deniserobinson9874
    @deniserobinson98742 ай бұрын

    First of all never take your child with you on your date. That’s for adult conversations. And he already knew his daughter was rude.🤦‍♀️

  • @CGstudy1
    @CGstudy12 ай бұрын

    When he said, "So what are you thinking about ordering?" I would've been like, "Take out🍕...boy bye."🏃🏾‍♀️

  • @vanassebeattie2027
    @vanassebeattie20272 ай бұрын

    It's the paper shooting target on the garage door for me. 😂😅

  • @LIONSUNRISING

    @LIONSUNRISING

    2 ай бұрын

    I HAVE to get one😂😂😂😂

  • @WildnUnruly

    @WildnUnruly

    2 ай бұрын

    Love that! ❤ I keep some in the back of my car, on my fridge & pantry door.

  • @LIONSUNRISING

    @LIONSUNRISING

    Ай бұрын

    @@WildnUnruly imma steal your idea & in the spirit WILL BE GIVING YOU CREDIT🤣💯🎯🥰🗣️😭💫

  • @hammie55
    @hammie552 ай бұрын

    The former wife in this situation is a major red flag. 🤯 🚩 RUUUN baby, run!

  • @naturalkinks8683
    @naturalkinks86832 ай бұрын

    His daughter helped her dodge a bullet 😂

  • @dona_grace
    @dona_grace2 ай бұрын

    A child will tell it all, without even being asked😂😂.

  • @qquitaward1
    @qquitaward12 ай бұрын

    " I know you're gonna love her" Samantha " yo dress 👗 fat". 😂😂😂😂

  • @apinspires78

    @apinspires78

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @rosajohnson5212
    @rosajohnson52122 ай бұрын

    The escape call came right on time, before Samantha got served up on a platter. I would not return!

  • @nicholebryant7359

    @nicholebryant7359

    2 ай бұрын

    Yup got them scheduled ahead of time lol.

  • @rosajohnson5212

    @rosajohnson5212

    2 ай бұрын

    @@nicholebryant7359 😂😂😂

  • @RahYisrael99
    @RahYisrael992 ай бұрын

    The lil dance on the way out the door...i was happy and scared for you all at the same time. 😂

  • @apinspires78

    @apinspires78

    2 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @semolinasemolina8327
    @semolinasemolina83272 ай бұрын

    A sweet and quiet child 😂 it's one thing bringing a child but surely the whole date should change to be a kid friendly inclusive event 😂❤

  • @victoriaconner9082
    @victoriaconner90822 ай бұрын

    Not only entertaining, it's educational,too. I like your responses. God,where were you 15 years ago? This content is needed and appreciated. God bless you. Peace and Blessings ❤😂

  • @Jeah1911
    @Jeah19112 ай бұрын

    She left the table and never came back😂

  • @paratroopergirl4064

    @paratroopergirl4064

    2 ай бұрын

    Yup, so there's no part 2...😊

  • @apinspires78

    @apinspires78

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@paratroopergirl4064 Steve's part 3 is coming soon. 😊

  • @ms.rivera7898
    @ms.rivera78982 ай бұрын

    First, I will say, girl that dress is absolutely beautiful! Love the accessories. And yes, I personally would’ve cancelled. I had a guy, when I was much younger (in my 20’s), pop up with his child at a place he was taking me. They had games there, so it was fine, but I was like 😲, why is your kid here? Needless to say, that was it for that.

  • @SincerePresence
    @SincerePresence2 ай бұрын

    That water should have been an ice tea....long Island! 😂!! That lil gull is a mess.😅

  • @shingala8544
    @shingala85442 ай бұрын

    Giving a child a tablet is a huge red flag.

  • @darkhorse9277
    @darkhorse92772 ай бұрын

    I bet she's not coming back. Well, I wouldn't.

  • @deew1390
    @deew13902 ай бұрын

    Your videos showed up in my feed recently and I’ve been watching them. Lol I’m in my late forties and a lot of your videos are spot on!! I adore kids but I definitely would not bring them on a first date.

  • @apinspires78

    @apinspires78

    Ай бұрын

    Glad you like them!

  • @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx
    @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx2 ай бұрын

    And she left the restaurant 😂😂😂

  • @apinspires78

    @apinspires78

    Ай бұрын

    Maybe.

  • @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx

    @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx

    Ай бұрын

    @@apinspires78 no girl no! She left the restaurant asp

  • @slickandslaycious6579
    @slickandslaycious65792 ай бұрын

    Naw, he shouldn’t have brought his kid to meet someone new. If y’all had been dating awhile ok, but this different

  • @user-yo6kk2dl4f
    @user-yo6kk2dl4f2 ай бұрын

    These sorry dads act as though they cannot properly check their kids when they're out of line; especially their daughters. In fact they need to check them when they're at home so they'll know how to behave when out and around others. Ladies if his kids are behaving like this or worse, leave them right there and keep it moving because that behavior has already took root in the kid(s) due to lack of proper discipline. That child need some good old fashion humble pie. Many parents don't serve it up anymore. Smh We got our behinds handed to us if we even thought about talking crazy. Leave him and his disrespectful daughter sitting right there. Don't look back. ✌🏽

  • @nelipot6051
    @nelipot60512 ай бұрын

    I think this is strike 2 for Steve.

  • @apinspires78

    @apinspires78

    2 ай бұрын

    But at least he came this time. 😂

  • @johnrobertson4637

    @johnrobertson4637

    2 ай бұрын

    Naw he got 3 strikes right there, he out of here lol

  • @giftedobserver
    @giftedobserver2 ай бұрын

    Children do not need to be involved this way in the “dating” phase.

  • @MikoMoJo
    @MikoMoJo2 ай бұрын

    I’ve said it before; I absolutely love your content! I’m divorced and in the 50’s club. I would like a video on you. Do you have a theatre background? Where you get this idea? You are sooo entertaining 😁.

  • @apinspires78

    @apinspires78

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for your kind words. I do weekly vlogs every Sunday. Please check out the one I uploaded today. 😊

  • @MikoMoJo

    @MikoMoJo

    Ай бұрын

    @@apinspires78 I definitely will!

  • @janet7561
    @janet75612 ай бұрын

    The things kids say are often true..

  • @Greenwalk64

    @Greenwalk64

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes. They have no filter.

  • @Couture426

    @Couture426

    Ай бұрын

    You would be the one to agree with this foolishness smh

  • @sarahnorris872
    @sarahnorris8722 ай бұрын

    Steve needs to get his shit together😢

  • @Tandibee123
    @Tandibee1232 ай бұрын

    ...I hope she ran away from all that mess😳🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @oldskoofoo22
    @oldskoofoo222 ай бұрын

    tha "DOOR DECOR" in tha beginning...i laughed til i dropped TEEAARRRSSS!! Worth a thousand words!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💪🏾✨

  • @JesgateOnDown
    @JesgateOnDown2 ай бұрын

    Just reschedule. People shouldn't be having their young kids meet their dates when you as the adult don't even know much about that person yet.

  • @johnrobertson4637

    @johnrobertson4637

    2 ай бұрын

    Hell naw don't reschedule. Move on, that is very disrespectful

  • @johnrobertson4637

    @johnrobertson4637

    2 ай бұрын

    Hell naw don't reschedule. Move on, that is very disrespectful

  • @EllenAndArthur2010
    @EllenAndArthur20102 ай бұрын

    Get out of there quick

  • @adrianwillis66
    @adrianwillis662 ай бұрын

    I dated a widower once , same vibes lol

  • @lilmssunshine9188
    @lilmssunshine9188Ай бұрын

    I’m thinking she’s going to go to her car and VROOOOOOM😂😂🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @ZedGirl
    @ZedGirlАй бұрын

    I have my target 🎯 on my entry 🚪 also 😂😂Saw it when she opened and closed the door!

  • @linp5045
    @linp50452 ай бұрын

    Bringing kids on the first date 😂 I would have cancelled

  • @fleurelise997
    @fleurelise997Ай бұрын

    Statistically speaking, it has been shown that over 80% of children described by their parents as sweet and quiet are the exact opposite 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ElisabethBusse
    @ElisabethBusse2 ай бұрын

    Why are you doing this again and again? You're fantastic and pretty and smart. ❤ There's no need for "waste" like those men and their children. ...

  • @pimentocheesesandwich3065
    @pimentocheesesandwich30652 ай бұрын

    I love the the target on the back of the door 😅

  • @apinspires78

    @apinspires78

    2 ай бұрын

    😁

  • @deannabrown9334
    @deannabrown93342 ай бұрын

    At 43 I’m not even going out with someone who has children young enough to not be able to stay at home by themselves. You’re a good one for that. My peace doesn’t extend to kids not in double digits. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @sarahn7068
    @sarahn706819 күн бұрын

    It's almost 3am here in england and i have to be up early for a hospital appointment but I'm so so invested in this and since i saw "Steve part 8" i have to track them all down in order now lol not sure why I'm watching while lack of sleeping, my blood pressure gonna be sky high tomorrow because Steve is peeing me off 😂😂😂😂 come on girl you deserve better

  • @apinspires78

    @apinspires78

    19 күн бұрын

    😂 Love it. Thanks for watching!

  • @lesliegriffin3587
    @lesliegriffin35872 ай бұрын

    First.....LOVED the target on the backside of the door!!!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 You go ladybug!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @mhhmulaty5158
    @mhhmulaty51582 ай бұрын

    My sweet little granddaughter of 5 years calls my hair French fries .😊

  • @apinspires78

    @apinspires78

    Ай бұрын

    Love that!

  • @Godisfirst21
    @Godisfirst21Ай бұрын

    I'm 51. I get picked up, door opened, taken out to dinner and entertainment and brought back to my door. Kisses....I'm sleepy now...bye bye. Thank you Darling for buying dinner and drinks. I appreciate you and Id love to see you again in a month.

  • @kristinaberry3227
    @kristinaberry32272 ай бұрын

    I love this❤❤❤ so creative

  • @JohannaBarnard-sl4jb
    @JohannaBarnard-sl4jb2 ай бұрын

    Ouch ! 😆.. She scraps her knife and fork together.... I wondered who be next if she stayed fir the steak... 😆..

  • @Simone69214
    @Simone692148 күн бұрын

    Now that I’m turning 40, I wouldn’t of responded back. Please, miss me with the last minute change of plans saga✌🏽

  • @tbunnyshy1
    @tbunnyshy12 ай бұрын

    Its just not worth trying to date anymore. 😂

  • @DB-nc2iv
    @DB-nc2iv2 ай бұрын

    Yup! Take that call to your car, drive off, never look back! 😲🤣 Because our children are an unpolished version of us! I can only imagine how the dad is when at home with his daughter!

  • @johnrobertson4637
    @johnrobertson46372 ай бұрын

    Habitual line stepper move on so you dont have to use your pimp hand 🤣🤣🤣

  • @loysmith3186
    @loysmith31862 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂 she got the target shooter ❤it

  • @RAJOHN-ke7mc
    @RAJOHN-ke7mc2 ай бұрын

    I dont entertain men with young kids

  • @dianesorokac2260

    @dianesorokac2260

    2 ай бұрын

    Me either...been there 1x done that...disaster never enough$$$

  • @nicholebryant7359

    @nicholebryant7359

    2 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @DarthFurie

    @DarthFurie

    2 ай бұрын

    The kids better be grown with NO arrears on child support 😭 Otherwise get to steppin

  • @missyggg
    @missyggg2 ай бұрын

    Ha we all knew Steve is up to no good 🤔

  • @ALittleBitOfEverything-555
    @ALittleBitOfEverything-5552 ай бұрын

    Just reschedule

  • @StarVee-iw3zm
    @StarVee-iw3zm2 ай бұрын

    I would jet and never come back

  • @kat35lulu88
    @kat35lulu88Ай бұрын

    The target practice poster nice touch! I got one too!!!!😮 And girlfriend you need more than water...... lol.....

  • @kimjenkins7866
    @kimjenkins78662 ай бұрын

    Leave sis!!! The dress looks beautiful on you ❤

  • @apinspires78

    @apinspires78

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you!!

  • @RahYisrael99
    @RahYisrael992 ай бұрын

    Here we go...

  • @ladylibertywdc8324
    @ladylibertywdc8324Ай бұрын

    Postpone the date to another day. Line up vetted babysitters, parents!

  • @johnrobertson4637
    @johnrobertson46372 ай бұрын

    Im glad my son is grown. But he got manners and would never do that 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @louveblancheomega799
    @louveblancheomega799Ай бұрын

    I would not attend or leave. Also parenting issues "shut up and play on your tablet"

  • @alxee1203
    @alxee12032 ай бұрын

    That guy is gross for letting his kid talk like that. His kid gross.

  • @janewasson4845
    @janewasson48452 ай бұрын

    One and done.

  • @melishaweston6774
    @melishaweston67742 ай бұрын

    ... now ditch and not return to the table😱

  • @jussme6670
    @jussme66702 ай бұрын

    Omg!!! BOUNCING IS WHAT THE PROS DO!! 😊❤

  • @berinasnaturestories
    @berinasnaturestoriesАй бұрын

    Went I'm I finding everything funny? 😂😂😂

  • @ajwriter5699
    @ajwriter5699Ай бұрын

    🗣️STORY TIME🗣️ 👉🏽 Mr. Leonard Swwwooorre to me that he had been divorced for 3 years. I believed him because he hadn’t given me any reason not to. 😒 His 5 year old got sick at day care one day, so he had to be the one to pick him up. No problem. I assumed the little boy would nap for at least an hour or so. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I didn’t get a strange feeling about pulling down curtains and breaking the water bed at this man’s house because we weren’t sneaking around and he never asked me to hide or leave. 😱😱 How about this cute little joker who suddenly felt better, came rushing up To My Face and screamed, “That’s my mama side of the bed!” Um, excuse me???? Trust, that was my last time seeing Lenny. Grown men are such liars 🙄🙄🙄

  • @b1njjj95
    @b1njjj95Ай бұрын

    The second Steve mentioned bringing his daughter would have been the second I blocked his ass and took myself out on a date. Lol jk I wouldn't have even entertained the idea of giving him another chance after he royally fucked up. 💁🏾‍♀️ This is why people with children should date each other, instead of childless people. It just makes it easier.

  • @ambrosiarevolt-may8996
    @ambrosiarevolt-may89962 ай бұрын

    Did she send the 🆘 signal with her cutlert to be interrupted so she could escape?

  • @tyquinishabettis5206
    @tyquinishabettis52062 ай бұрын

    Go on home. It won’t get any better.

  • @habeebahs.2956
    @habeebahs.295626 күн бұрын

    😮 Chile, after that 1st smart ass remark from that kid, I would have had to escape some how.

  • @rwilliams7621
    @rwilliams76212 ай бұрын

    Run!!!!

  • @wrenbyrd1093
    @wrenbyrd10932 ай бұрын

    Samantha! 😱🫢😮😨

  • @cpproduction325
    @cpproduction325Ай бұрын

    It’s a rain check for never for me.

  • @johnrobertson4637
    @johnrobertson46372 ай бұрын

    Yep bounce out of there 🤦🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @Tyrone950
    @Tyrone950Ай бұрын

    Shouldn't be going out on dates anyway. Food needs to be cooked at the church, and senior citizens at hospitals need help walking to the cafeteria.

  • @jwil7954
    @jwil79542 ай бұрын

    Oh me, oh my😂! Hopefully, this skit was not based on a true story!

  • @apinspires78

    @apinspires78

    Ай бұрын

    😂

  • @jensosweetlo7411
    @jensosweetlo74112 ай бұрын

    Lil Samantha does not have any manners 😮

  • @lyndaslocum7404
    @lyndaslocum7404Ай бұрын

    You look pretty

  • @daphnehayes4942
    @daphnehayes49422 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @AmbiLane998
    @AmbiLane998Ай бұрын

    Immediate cancel.

  • @pramos85
    @pramos852 ай бұрын

    👍

  • @MyFreeLife111
    @MyFreeLife1112 ай бұрын

    Hi there ❤ how are you ❤️

  • @sweetgirl4u247
    @sweetgirl4u2472 ай бұрын

    Um, no.

  • @yovonnafarmer8699
    @yovonnafarmer86992 ай бұрын

    Nope I would have went in the house with my Ben and Jerry’s and enjoyed my night. Your child would’ve have even known my face let alone my name

  • @lakeeshahampton325
    @lakeeshahampton3252 ай бұрын

    Texarkansas Steve Jefferson???

  • @Robin-wx5gc
    @Robin-wx5gcАй бұрын

    Drive Away😳😳😳 I

  • @dianesorokac2260
    @dianesorokac22602 ай бұрын

    Hahaha Hahaha 😆 OMG.NO no men w kids either yuck

  • @mysticladytarot7777
    @mysticladytarot7777Ай бұрын

    Red flag i can't believe you went 😂 anyone with kids, do not introduce them to your potential partners until youre very committed ❤poor child.😢😢

  • @elbasset7214
    @elbasset7214Ай бұрын

    Never date anyone with kids unless you always like coming second

  • @jacquelinewilliams1957
    @jacquelinewilliams19572 ай бұрын

    I would get in my car and leave.

  • @kimjenkins7866
    @kimjenkins78662 ай бұрын

    👍