The contrast between her struggles and achievements makes such a powerful statement on perseverance. The legal battle for rights was particularly moving, all those people coming in to help.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

2 ай бұрын

Thank you @kenfletcher1306. Getting the support was such a big lesson

@kenfletcher1306

2 ай бұрын

@@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou thanks for your bravery

I appreciate the reminder that self-fulfillment is more lasting than transient success or happiness. That's an important one.

The idea that we already possess what we need inside us is really empowering

I loved her closing statement, and the idea that we already have everything we need inside of us.

"Shame needs the oxygen of secrecy." Such a powerful quote Shelley, thank you.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

10 ай бұрын

Thanks for the feedback @ByteMayhem

It's powerful to hear someone advocate so strongly for defining oneself on one's own terms.

What an incredible journey this woman has been on to get to herself and also pave the way for others. Just beautiful.

I appreciate the way she encourages us to stop waiting around and just start embracing our true selves now, even though her story is proof that personal growth and positive change are possible at any stage of life.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

7 ай бұрын

Thank you for feedback @kexinan I wish you well on your own journey

Very proud to call you a friend Shelley. Your honesty with self and others is an example for all. xx

It's outrageous that her legal battle went on for a whole decade. Such unwavering determination and commitment is so, so incredible. That's taking the fight to stick up for your personal identity to such an amazing level and is truly a beacon of hope for future generations.

I felt every word of this talk! It's time to shed those masks and embrace authenticity. Let's start a revolution of self-acceptance and empowerment!

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

10 ай бұрын

Love it! we need a healthy revolution of self-acceptance. Thanks for commenting

What an incredible win for Shelley, her team and the world by association. We need more people with her strength and courage.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

11 ай бұрын

Thank you Declan. I really appreciate your comments.

Dare to be you! Fabulous, talk, fabulous quote fabulous you Shelley Bridgman. 💕💕

The call to action about removing the invisible mask and revealing oneself for true empowerment-it's a powerful message of self-liberation.

Losing a child like your parents did must have been beyond tough. No wonder it shaped how they treated you and the whole vibe at home. Well done on overcoming all of that

This really speaks volumes about what fear can do not just to ourselves but our relationships and how we treat others. Good on you for choosing to let go of so much of it.

Shelley's fight for equal rights and her belief in the right to define one's own identity carries a broader message of inclusivity. It challenges societal norms and calls for acceptance and respect for all individuals, regardless of their gender identity.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

9 ай бұрын

Thank you @trevoramani I'm pleased you got something from it

Her journey through self-discovery to legal victory is a lesson in not giving up on what's important.

Amazing how the speaker turned personal trials into a fight for broader legal recognition. Very impactful.

The contrast between external success and internal struggle in your travel business days is so relatable. It's a reminder that success doesn't always equate to fulfillment.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

6 ай бұрын

Thank you for your astute reminder George

Wow this is such an incredible journey.... so many heart-wrenching stories but her courage to face fears is so inspiring, very grateful to have found this talk.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

7 ай бұрын

Thank you for the feedback @TooChatForYou. If there are any questions please feel free to ask

Love you Shelley, lovely person on and off screen ❤️

The description of sitting in the European Court of Justice, being visible, and facing derogatory terms with a smile-it's a powerful image of strength and resilience.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

5 ай бұрын

Thank you for your comments @marychristmaseveryone

The part about finding the gravesite with the photograph catching on the breeze literally gave me chills and tears. Going to such effort to connect to our past is really admirable.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

5 ай бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to comment @jmurdaddyforever. much appreciated

The speaker's humor about their rough beginnings adds such a warm, human touch to her story.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

12 күн бұрын

Thanks Becky

A wonderful and moving story with laughter in all the right places. Embracing loss and acceptance of life's journey!

I love the concept of authenticity and self-actualization. Psychological theories like Maslow's hierarchy and Rogers' person-centered therapy echo the importance of becoming our true selves.

I think her journey is a reminder that sometimes the most beautiful transformations come from facing our deepest fears. It might be hard in the moment but it is worth going through to be who we are truly meant to.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

6 ай бұрын

I'm glad you got something from my talk @williamsmythe. Thank you for commenting

I think this story shows that when you finally know and accept who you are, there's so much power in honoring that authenticity you can take on huge challenges like that court case

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

12 күн бұрын

Thank you for watching Chandrazu

Incredibly moving talk Shelley! Such a powerful and empowering message! All with plenty of humour!! SUPERHUGGS!!

The scene where you sat in the ruins of Machu Picchu, letting go of emotion, and considering it your first meditation-so beautifully described. It's a testament to the transformative power of travel and being in the moment.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

6 ай бұрын

Thank you for your comments @jamnotsomagicmike. Sometimes we find ourselves in the right place at the right time.

I also feel like weeping at the story of her finding that gravestone. What a poignant and beautiful moment.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

5 ай бұрын

Thank you for commenting @MediaMediums. I'm pleased you took something from the talk

The image of an old lady stealing your shoes after the mugging incident is so vivid. It's amazing how life's lows can be intertwined with simultaneous moments of reflection and empathy.

Awesome video. I always enjoy your speaking

This is so heartwarming. It goes to show that our past doesn't define us. Thanks for sharing your beautiful and empowering journey.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

4 ай бұрын

Thank you @evanesternah. That was also my biggest lesson

Wow. That point of grief at the headstone. That unpacking and feeling the wave of emotions that come with acceptance. Really moving.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

7 ай бұрын

Thank you @bobergenn

Oh my goodness the story about finding the grave! Chills! I can't imagine how it would have felt actually experiencing something like that

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

5 ай бұрын

Thank you for commenting Henry. The experience was somehow very affirming. Hard to explain.

Hearing about her moment of realization was so wonderful. It's amazing how our hardest experiences shine a light on things that need to be confronted or emphasis what is most important, and if we're able to see through the initial pain and hardship of the situation, that's when powerful changes start to happen.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

2 ай бұрын

Seeing through the pain is so hard to do but it is truly liberating when we can. Thank you for your feedback @ezekielaliss

"When you face your fear, you deal with your shame" Thank you Shelley for your honesty and humour in sharing your story. Wonderful talk and proud to know you xx

This woman is an absolute trailblazer. I feel very honored to have heard these parts of her story.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

7 ай бұрын

Thank you for your comments @EverDragMedia

The speaker's call to dare to be ourselves is a challenge I'm ready to accept.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

4 күн бұрын

Good luck on your journey @icekunggamer

Shelley Bridgman You can red pill me anytime! And quote Camus as we all have an invincible summer within us. Bless you and keep showing others how to claim their authenticity 🙏🏽❤️

Another profound insight from this talk = most people don't want to not be here they just don't know how to live. Amen to that!

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

8 ай бұрын

Thank you @maymaylui3rd, I'm pleased you got something from the talk

I love how she uses humor to lighten the discussion of such deep and personal topics. It made it way easier to absorb because obviously there are some pretty full on parts of the story

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

12 күн бұрын

I appreciate that Dylan

I really love what she says about how taking the mask off is about revealing yourself to yourself, not to others. It's a beautiful thought and self-discovery is a really important process that everyone should undertake at least once throughout their life.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

10 ай бұрын

Thank you for commenting @mstic.10. I'm so pleased this meant something to you

I don't know why I teared up around the 12:40 mark?? Hearing about so many people wanting to fight for her... so beautiful.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

3 ай бұрын

Thank you @carlasteadman. I'm still moved by their generosity

I think there's so much strength to be gained from reflecting on our fears and shame and then conquering them. It brings so much confidence and self-assuredness that nobody can take away.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

5 ай бұрын

Thank you @austinjay9486.I appreciate you sharing your insights

Thank you Shelley! THANK YOU! Enough of the BS industry telling us to keep going until we reach the stars. WE ARE THE STARS!!

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

Жыл бұрын

Thanks @anklebloem. I love it that you can own you are already a Star. Long may you shine

Thanks Shelley for saying that I am ok and have everything I need and I don't need to turn myself upside down and inside out

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

11 ай бұрын

Thank you I'm so pleased that message meant something to you

This is such an amazing example of what resilience and authenticity looks like.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

6 ай бұрын

I'm so pleased you enjoyed my talk @happyriley

Sounds like this chick absolutely crushes it in everything she does. This is how to live life, purely you, willing to fight for your rights and beliefs. That's powerful and it's no wonder people were drawn to her cause

The assertion of your human right to define yourself is a powerful message. It prompts reflection on the delicate balance between authenticity and societal expectations.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

2 ай бұрын

Thank you @mymotivationsnow It was such a hard lesson but a liberating one

This is such an amazing story to me. I can't imagine living so much of your life knowing that you were in the wrong body and then having something so awful happen to you that it changed your perspective and gave you the courage to do something that you know is going to put you through an even tougher time. So much bravery in that and truly helping pave the way for future generations to not have to endure something awful before taking those steps.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

4 ай бұрын

That's a wonderful thing to say @IamShootCute I think we all get handed a challenge and it's simply about how we deal with it that defines us. I wish you well in your personal future

Nodded my head in agreement when she said personal development experts suggest we need to change to achieve success and happiness rather than look inside for the tools we already have.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

8 ай бұрын

I'm pleased you got something from the talk @moyaresgard

I have infinite respect for anyone who has the courage to transition. I can't imagine how difficult it is to do all the emotional work to figure out that's what you need, let alone take steps to bringing it into reality.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

6 ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind words Nigel

This story is such a beautiful example of how, when you shine brightly in your true self other people are attracted to that light - it's like a beacon saying 'hey, this is who I am, if you're like this too we can be on the same side.'

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much @justinesaxenn That's a very astute insight.

I really appreciate how open this person is. It's refreshing to hear stories that go beyond the surface and give true scope to the experiences that have shaped us.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

6 ай бұрын

Thank you @kinsleydanton. I'm glad you got something from my talk

Love what she says about not having to buy into the shame

Such a brave story told with honesty and humour. Thank you Shelley.

Many moments of this talk struck a chord but the image of an old lady stealing her shoes [6:50 minute marker] was the saddest.

This is an amazing TEDx talk by Dr. Shelley Bridgman. I loved your humour, storytelling and weaving of your message. Thank you for your authenticity, transparency and perseverance for us to dare to be ourselves.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

Жыл бұрын

A belated thank you for your appreciation Elaine

This is an awesome story! Loved hearing it, even the sad and shocking parts. Like life itself they add so much depth to all the other parts.

That part about finding strength in the depths of winter was incredibly poignant and really resonated with me.

I think one of the key takeaways in all of this is the power of choice. We all have the power to choose how we respond to our circumstances.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

10 ай бұрын

Absolutely right Tony. Knowing we have a choice even when it's difficult is empowering.

Shelley Bridgman you are delight! So wonderfully natural with such ease. True to you and your TED title! Thank you.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Marina. I'm glad you enjoyed it

So much strength here, beautiful to witness 💛

Your mom’s reaction to your qender change with “but it’s not normal” really hit me. It’s tough when your loved ones don’t get it

I've never thought about how, as humans we should all have the right to define ourselves. I guess that speaks to my privilege, because I can't think of any time someone has tried to tell me that who I am is wrong. Thank you for helping me understand all of this a bit better, Shelley.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

9 ай бұрын

Thank you for your comments @williambessel. I'm so glad you got something valuable from my talk

Wow going through the courts and the support from your legal team-it highlights the importance of fighting for one's rights and the power of a united team.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

4 ай бұрын

Thank you @lornabalang. It was very humbling to receive such amazing support

Bloody brilliant, Shelley! You were terrific!

This talk gave me a renewed sense of hope. It's never too late to make a change and embrace who we truly are. I'm ready to take that step towards fulfillment

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

11 ай бұрын

Thank you for your comments and I wish you well on your next steps.

Great work Shelley. It's brave, strong and all told with your lovely sense of humour. Proud to call you a friend.

Loved hearing about all the court stuff, just goes to show when you stand in your authentic power people will be rallied towards you

Really struck by the importance of confronting our fears as she suggested. Seems like it would be life-changing.

Perspective is everything - some might say a lot of self growth stuff relies on us shedding conditioning and looking beyond trauma based belief systems, to figure out who we really are, what is actually us and not what we are told is us.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

10 ай бұрын

Thank you for your comments @kingbrantley. You hit the nail on the head

Loved the story about finding the grave - it gave me goosebumps too!! But I think that kind of emotional impact also shows how our past and family history shape who we are

Really loved your poignant story and the big message! Thank you for sharing it and sharing yourself with the world.

Shelley you are one of the funniest and most engaging speakers I've ever heard...'I was as good at self-destruction as I was at running a business' and many of your other lines made me laugh and get tears in my eyes simultaneously

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

11 ай бұрын

Thank you for commenting Helen. I'm delighted you got something from my talk.

The incident of being mugged in Peru seems like a turning point. It's fascinating to see how adversity can sometimes propel us towards self-discovery and transformative change.

Wow so inspirational

A powerful message for anybody, thank you

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

4 ай бұрын

Thank you @sabahachim

Her story about her experiences in Peru and Bolivia are truly captivating.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

5 ай бұрын

Thank you Lorraine. I'm glad you got something from the talk

Thank you Shelley! There is such power to be found in vulnerability and self-acceptance. From fear to fulfillment should be a mantra for everyone at some point in their life. It's a perspective check that can lead to a truly meaningful transformation 👏🏽❤

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

10 ай бұрын

Thanks Alex. I'm so please the message was relevant for you.

W's all around, this lady is money and her message is the most important for getting true happiness

Amazing Ted x talk ❤loved your poignant recall of your experiences. Told with such heartfelt honesty & sincerity. Truly one amazing lady 🫶🏼

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

10 ай бұрын

Thank you for your comments. Much appreciated

Growing up in an environment steeped in fear must have been incredibly challenging, it's so hard to tell as well when we're in those situations the affect it's having on us at a foundation level

Inspiring!

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

10 ай бұрын

Thanks David

I laughed I cried, better than an hour and a half with my therapist. Awesome Shelly.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Isabella. I'm pleased you got something from the talk.

The realization at the gravesite about letting go of inherited fear is so freakin poignant. Hoping you managed to break the cycle 💜

Wow this talk took me on a literal journey. So many ups and downs and such high emotions. Thank you.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

7 ай бұрын

And thank you for the feedback @novasux5681. I'm glad you enjoyed the journey

This just shows why you should never give up on yourself!

A heck of a lot more than I anticipated but some incredibly good recommendations here. Thank you!!!

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

11 ай бұрын

Thank you. Glad the recommendations were helpful

Had a chuckle when Shelley opened her talk with the comment that even the dogs had pepper spray ;P

Wow. Shelley, you should be like the spokesperson for our species at this point. Amazing talk

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

6 ай бұрын

Thank you @jonasblix. You're very generous

brave, and vulnerable - doesnt matter gender, matters character

Wow, what an inspiring journey! This talk reminds us that we all have the power to overcome challenges and be true to ourselves. Thanks for sharing your story!

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

11 ай бұрын

Thank you Zack Arnold. I'm pleased you got something from the talk

Absolutely brilliant, you are such an incredible storyteller. I laughed, cried, made notes, and will watch again and again. Empowering. Dare to be! X

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

10 ай бұрын

Sorry for the slow response but, I'm delighted you got something from my talk

Thank you for your kindness and sharing your insights with such vulnerability and wisdom, it was a pleasure meeting you 🙏

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

11 ай бұрын

Sorry I missed your comments when you posted them so a belated thank you for taking the time when you did

@gilliannichols8803

11 ай бұрын

@@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou I do hope our paths cross again

What an incredible story, I love the resilience in her making the trip back to Machu Picchu, it takes a lot of courage to go back to a place where you've had such a horrible experience.

@shelleybridgman-DaretobeYou

7 ай бұрын

I't's well worth the trip Alice. Thank you for commenting

Fab story, hugely inspiring and some brilliant comedy.