How forgiving my father liberated me | Agon Hare | TEDxNTU
The act of forgiveness is more powerful than we appreciate. When we hold onto the hurt caused by others, in the form of anger, resentment and pride, we discredit ourselves and deny ourselves the peace that comes from letting go. Without the cleansing power of forgiveness, we continue to suffer beyond the actual moment of pain. So, when we forgive, we make a powerful and liberating choice to deny the hurt to linger. Agon Hare is a singer, video creator, and world-traveler from Poland. As a member of the Nas Daily team, he is an open-hearted story teller. His videos have been seen by over 160 million people. Agon is on a mission to create a more compassionate and brighter world through his initiative Project Nightfall. He empowers individuals to embrace themselves and change the way they think about global issues such as racism, environment and immigration through his innovative video content. He also aims to change the music industry and bring it back to its honest and authentic roots. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
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Wow watching it after two years, this truly was one of the most important moments of my life. The journey of forgiveness changed everything. I hope you find strength to be on your own journey. You deserve it!
@fonsie_games
Жыл бұрын
Oh hi!
@fordee.alternative
Жыл бұрын
you are one of my favourites!
@ZuroPL
Жыл бұрын
Wstrząsające. Szczególnie końcówka. Jesteś postacią strasznie inspirującą. I pomyśleć że człowiek z zapyziałej mieściny w jakiejś Polsce, mógł zrobić naprawdę wielką karierę w anglojęzycznym internecie, będąc jednocześnie anonimowy w swoim kraju, wow.
@imberrysandy
Жыл бұрын
love project nightfall :) thanks for being an inspiration and a messenger for ethical beliefs
@sandraburgos5590
Жыл бұрын
I am so proud of you! Life is so hard I lost my dad to covid and my health but I am in recovery and falling in love with myself. Thank you so much!
Agon is really underrated.
@valeriasandoval9839
3 жыл бұрын
@Chunnu-Punnu Michki-Chichki he diserves more! His predicate is amazing!
@haziqsalman517
3 жыл бұрын
Yes he is
@uswahefatima104
3 жыл бұрын
No he is not
@TeacherJayvee
3 жыл бұрын
He is so Inspiring, he reach million views on FB ok
@Vbjoctiz64739
3 жыл бұрын
True
He has deep emotions in his voice 😭
@hendhanooda1926
3 жыл бұрын
You are right 💔
@herbertant4096
3 жыл бұрын
Because he had a bad past life and i realized that too
@javarare1769
3 жыл бұрын
ok bomer
@AbdulRahman-om2kf
2 жыл бұрын
Yes because he has gone through bad times
@xeta5200
2 жыл бұрын
@@javarare1769 what?
I forgave my parents not for their sake but for my own, so that I could move forward with my own life. And I understand now more than ever that they were just people who were abused too.
@ablan8801
2 жыл бұрын
God Bless You Brother ♥️♥️
@tochie-ugorji2021
2 жыл бұрын
That's true. Forgiving actually says and does more about you than the person who wronged you.
@joannasun9921
2 жыл бұрын
im happy for you but them being abused doesn't excuse abusing their own child
In my case my parents don't talk to each other since my birth and now I'm 22, still I haven't seen my parents talking to each other by living in same house. This hurts a lot. They have ruined my happy childhood n teen also. But Agon ur video changed my perspective towards them. It's hard feeling, that having parents and feeling like an orphan. Proud of you and hats off Agon.
@herbertant4096
3 жыл бұрын
God Bless you and your family 😇
@ViktorCaine
3 жыл бұрын
They haven't talked even once!? How do they even do the groceries??
@3rdassassin50
3 жыл бұрын
@@ViktorCaine yeah ikr
@tanishqsuryawanshi1276
3 жыл бұрын
@@ViktorCaine and you thought about making a joke on this😑
@ilove6x673
2 жыл бұрын
I really good know how it fells.Just stay strong.
"Everything changes the moment when you start seeing forgiveness as not just something for the other person, but also something for you" -Agon Hare
He deserves some more attention on KZread
@joshua_dlima
3 жыл бұрын
@Carlos Basulto he had like 150k that time... he deserves much more popularity on this platform... and he's growing exponentially too
@f1ybo1
2 жыл бұрын
He reached 2M+
the man who made Project Nightfall.
I was drowned,beaten,severely abused and maltreated by my father. Physical child abuse really hits different to be honest,it ruins you but im glad you had your grandparents.
@patrickhamilton7849
6 ай бұрын
You should forgive him still if he is alive.
Agon! U r really an amazing person...I love ur accent...I learned a lot from ur video... those videos are very inspiring...may Allah bless u
@jawwadahmed9713
3 жыл бұрын
Ameen! he trulyis a an influencer a real life changer.
@weym5369
3 жыл бұрын
may god be with Agon!
@haziqsalman517
3 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@pap_playz3044
3 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@tasfiatasnim6035
3 жыл бұрын
Ameen❤️
"If you want to forgive somebody the best way of doing that is understanding them"
@murderthemassacre
2 жыл бұрын
This
This message helped me call my father and forgive him. Man keep doing this. I don’t know your beliefs bro, but you are doing Godly work. Christ preached forgiveness, because it’s so important to moving forward in a healthy way. I pray God continues to shower you with blessings. Thank you,
I cried a lot of reflecting your words. Your truly an amazing...with a pure heart. Same here. I was so cruel and hard headed child...but when I realized that I have to use my intellect and compassion I was changed of it...itself....
My dad left me wen i was 5 he was lyk a nightmare in my lyf a person tortured me nd my mom later he married another women he never tried to contact us never helped us other side he took care of his new family well my mom raised me alone later I fell in love my luvlyf turns to be another nightmare in my lyf I left everything now happy being myself I never heard sorry from both of them not even once they never felt sorry fr der actions my forgiveness doesn't matter fr them maybe I will be able to forgive my dad nd my ex in future whatever lyf goes on
I wished I could forgive father, but he died in 2010 😔 So please, forgive your parents no matter what you experienced. Even if they will not accept it. Just for your inner peace. May god bless you all. And thanks to Agon for the words, which touched me deeply.
@LowkeyKai_
2 жыл бұрын
NO! Im not forgiving my mother for abusing me since age 7!
@karl817
2 жыл бұрын
Condolence
@tanvikittur7352
Жыл бұрын
@@LowkeyKai_ Exactly
@Jay-pc2fp
2 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you've gone through that pain. but you're only hurting yourself by holding onto that.@@tanvikittur7352
Yes forgiveness is the hardest thing to give
I feel like crying while watching him. Not because I feel bad about what happened to him but because of happiness. He found the courage to forgive and now he is free from the baggage that he was carrying from his childhood. I hope that someday I will have the heart to be as forgiving as Agon. 💙
@CedricKarlFonk
3 жыл бұрын
Me too. I agree with you. I'm not that forgiving. I'm struggling to find it in me to forgive those who hurt me both mentally, emotionally and physically.
Forgive people not because they deserve it, but because you deserve peace.
This was hard to watch 😢.I had to pause a couple of times to cry my eyes out.But I am glad I watched it.
this is the project nightfall guy
His mom will be proud of him, seeing him from heaven. Even his father.
this guy is a legend
Agon is indeed an inspiration to out generation. All of his videos are worthy to get viewed and shared.😘😘😘❤❤❤
“Agon count on me as one of your avid viewer/follower/liker/sharer & subscriber etc.” ‘💙 your Positivity & Productivities”!🙏GBU🙏
"Forgiveness is something I deserved." GOLD. Great talk.
People who have hurt you either dont know or they dont care. They don;t care about yoru forgiveness. That is why enlightened forgiveness to release yourself from bitterness or anger is so important. Believe me. i had so much anger in me towards someone i had loved and who betrayed me. it gave me a hiatus hernia. The solar plexus is where you feel it. This guy is very wise.
Lotus bloomed amongst dirt.beautiful man 👍❤️
How is it POSSIBLE for a person to be this much inspiring to you even though you're only hearing his beautiful words through a screen! I mean this is the definition of Legendary to me! ❤️
You have truly taken your power back 🙏🏻
When you Forgive, First you Forgive and liberate yourself....then, things around changes into positive..clear understanding and wisdom goes into your inner dept..and change the way who you are.
Agon, you're an icon ❤️
The wisdom & kindness you have at such a young age is other-worldly. 💓 expanding!
I love you Agon! ❤ I'm inspired by your story and I love all your videos on Project Nightfall..👍 Your power of forgiveness will take you to much brighter future and Godbless you Agon.. 😊❤❤❤👐
Watching this as part of the nightfam, I'm so proud
Hi cracked voice made me cry from the beginning till the end and i'm quite surprised because my tears don't flow easily ..
He has a lot of pearls of wisdom... Love from Indonesia!!! ❤️❤️❤️🇮🇩🇮🇩🇮🇩
cant believe he went on ted talks
Agon's story is so inspiring. It can touch many hearts and enlighten lots of people about making yourself free from all the heartaches and pain because you forgive.
I left home mainly because of the fights between my parents. Insulting each other, never a smile, they hated each other. I hoped that the arrival of my daughter would change them but nothing happened. In my hearth I forgave them both but I know that we cannot recover our relationship (if one ever existed). I would go and hug them both but I know that it's a version of them that exist only inside my head, better than the real one.
This lesson going to my mind forever,AGON.
You're such an amazing person Agon❤️you never fail to inspire me⭐
I love your soul Agon
Thank you.
Life teaches us everything and you carried it really well. Proud of you
Beautiful and full of truth.
Pure soul
The story is so touching and sad. I can feel you.
Agon! You have such a pretty soul!!!!
Great talk. Loved it
every human should hear this. he will help a lot of people and get them out of their hardest times. he should be more recognized in the eyes of the world.
Love you Agon, more power to you
Agon, you’re really a blessing ❤️
not now but maybe don't know but your words make me strong. thank you
Mr. Hare, your videos are making a huge difference. Wishing you prosperous success & happiness.
You're truly amazing, Agon....Love from India
You're such a good hearted person with lovely accent!
I've already watch this video but I'm watching it again, he's accent and the way he tells story has always amaze me.
This is a necessary talk !!!
He gives me good vibes nice kind hearted guy God bless him..
I love Agon so much! thanks for sharing this!!!
This guy deserves everything
just recently discovered this guy. now i’m addicted to his videos
Wow! You are the real deal, Agon!
What an amazingly powerful and beautiful speech! He touches millions. Agon, you are a hero!
Agon you really made my day and change my whole life, you are truly an example and inspiration of young people.! keep up a good work...! love
He's literally impacting the world ToT so lovely
I love how Agon talks!
I didn't know these things about him. He has such a strong personality. More people should watch this.
thank you~
You are amazing!
Great speech Agon
Agon your voice almost made my cry!
Agon you are a true kind human being,you changing so many peoples lives and making a world a better place, love your videos,keep up with your great deeds in serving the world community...❤️😊🌏
good words Agon. urime vlla
Really inspiring story of success.
I am a big fan of Agon Hare💜
This helped, I thank God for showing me this video :)
You know what they say... "The people with the biggest smiles have the biggest struggles"
Argon, Your video really works. I hope I will be able to do this sometime in life.
We appreciate you Agon! You have set a beautiful example for every one of us! God willing, you will get more recognition worldwide and God Willing, You will become a very busy man, May God Help you through this journey You have been a very inspiring person always, May God lighten your path to success, With so much love, Your Biggest Fan
Thank you so much Agon♥️♥️
your the best agon
Amazing 👏
@Project Nightfall ❣️❣️❣️
I owe you so much!
Agon, u r such an amazing personality,😘😘😘😘😘 Super hero........ ❤️ Love you Bravo 😍😍😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
Agon ....you are so great.....forgiven to a person who spoiled your beautiful childhood....you are a little batman❤️
Now that he’s dad is old he wants to talk to him. So now can take care of him when he’s old.
Agon is a very great person. I love how he could forgive himself. Now it changed my point of view to this world, Im happy to see the outside world, people smiling. And that could make me even happier than what I would have now. Thanks Argon, thanks people. 😊 love from Malaysia
The world needs more Agons😎😎🙌🏾🙌🏾✌🏾
I love you so much Agon (in an admiring way) and I'm only youthful so I don't know how it feels to hate yet but I am certain that I will always be reminded of your words... You deserve the world.
His accent make him and his works unique and more intriguing i love it.😊
Thank you
Love you project nightfall
Forgiveness is very important.. To forgive yourself is the first step and then it carries on
❤ Love you thanks for sharing
Agon is amazing
Night fam hello. ☺️ "I have to leave the past behind to move forward" 🧡
Let's goooo project night fall
Here for agon 🌻