Confidence and joy are the keys to a great sex life | Emily Nagoski | TEDxUniversityofNevada
Author of the NY Times bestselling book, 'Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life,' Dr. Emily Nagoski presents the research behind two keys to sexual well-being -- confidence and joy.
Emily Nagoski is Wellness Education Director, Lecturer, and campus favorite at Smith College, where she teaches Women’s Sexuality. She has a PhD in Health Behavior with a doctoral concentration in human sexuality from Indiana University, and a master’s degree (also from IU) in counseling, with a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She has taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships and communication, stress management, and sex education. She is the author of three guides for Ian Kerner’s GoodInBed.com, including the Guide to Female Orgasm, and she writes the popular sex blog, TheDirtyNormal.com.
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Anyone here (and anyone period!), will greatly benefit from reading "Come As You Are". Deeply moving, highly enlightening, and so very inspirational. Words literally can't describe how this book has changed my life and rewired my brain and perspective. If you haven't read it, go read it!! 😀😄😁
@kdentertainment2002
Жыл бұрын
Me and my wife had heard about this book somewhere and ordered it tonight along with companion workbook. Her libido is much higher than what I provide so I’m curious what this book says on this. We have a great communication but she deserves to be happy and confident. I’d prefer to be there as her support as opposed to roadblock. Hoping we find advice and answers with this book.
Masterful. One of the best speakers I've ever seen. Joy to witness this in person
@ophel1a
7 жыл бұрын
She wasn't giving advice on sexual orientation. She was giving advice on accepting your personal brand of sexuality, whatever 'orientation' it may be.
@kassies2832
6 жыл бұрын
Nico Val You should pay attention when you watch videos. It had nothing to do with orientation.
This is a wonderful presentation. What a delightful woman!
I read her book (it was excellent), got it from local library-only later did I find this video, someone posted link on FB.
She actually said 1 in 6 men. Thanks for not being biased. Respect.
@rabbitofthefuture3234
2 жыл бұрын
i love you have a hug bro
Her Book Come as You Are is AMAZING.
Her book Come As You Are is as amazing as this Talk!! Thank you for everything you do Emily! I have learned so much from you and will keep spreading it to all the people around me!
@csmith320
Жыл бұрын
Now I extra want to read it now that I know she wrote it!
@tommac21
Жыл бұрын
Why didn't you just ask your next door neighbor.
Even among all the truly great TED talks out there, this one stands out. Such a superb and joyful presentation! 'What's that?' leads so naturally to 'what might be' - that I'm curious to see what her next books and TED talk will go!
This was incredibly powerful and gave me strength. Thank you for doing a Ted Talk.
@studywithharpal2998
3 жыл бұрын
Hey... I am Mavi from India I am searching for partner who can speak English and can help me so i think u r let's if u ready then say yes we can get connected on watsapp thanks❤🌹😊
This woman is wisdom. She is humble as she is wise. She is amazing. Her books are solid gold.
That was hard to hear, but important! I'm in the middle of her book "Come As You Are" and I thought I'd give this a watch. So glad I did. She's changing my life
Fucking love this speaker! Funny, personable, and inspiring!
This needs more views, this is a great talk!
Emily Nagoski has got such an endearing personality, and she delivered a great speech here. After listening to her narration of the book Come as You Are, I've been buying copies of it and sending it to friends. Truly amazing and life changing. Keep up the good work!
Emily you were fantastic!!! Some of my favorite work in the field. You are changing the world, thank you!!!!
First the talk, AMAZING. Second her. Wow, something about her just hits my gas pedal. Wow to both.
Enlightened, beautiful and simple (a great great complement). So very well done!
This clarity and humor is blowing my mind, the content spreads like warmth through me. Made my week 😁🙏❤ more, Emily!!
One of the best TED talks. Has haunted me for years.
Emily, thank you for sharing your delightful insight. Powerful, witty & reassuring!
So relaxing watching and listening to you here at the top of the mountain of Italy. Thank you so much for talking of this argument. You make me in a good today.
One of the best Ted Talks I've ever heard.
Such a fantastic talk with amazing, applicable content! This speaker really has something to offer and she delivers it so well. The Force is strong in this one!! 😃
Outstanding!!! Thank you for sharing your joy, confidence, wisdom, and the science!
This is my favorite TEDx talk. 💙
Absolutely stunning!! So powerful and concise. Everyone needs to see this.
This was so beautiful and eye-opening. Thank you.
Fantastic! Loved her knowledge, passion and enthusiasm!
Thank you so much for your amazing talk on such a sensitive topic for many people. Wow!!! 💖
Great speaker and great talk, so much good and practical information. Awesome, so much to do about knowing ourselves.
I appreciate this talk! Such important information expressed so thoughtfully. Thank you.
Thank you so much Emily, truly inspiring and touching, love your sense of humor❤
This is awesome!! Definitely deserves far more views!
to anyone who is reading this: your body is perfect EXACTLY the way it is!
She really shines! Loved this.
She is amazing! Thank you so much
Wow...this speech is transcendent.
she is amazing
Girl she has me in tears
I love Her :) :D made me laugh and made me reflect on what's true... Thanks, Emily!
So incredibly good
Great ted talk, great in so many ways !
Wow she filled with love even in her voice I feel it
great talk !
Thank you 🙏🏾
Emily is an awesome speaker !
thank you!!
Two words: JUST FABULOUS
Great content, amazing speech!
Daimm what a talk!
Excellent presentation
Fantastic talk Emily. Humor, powerful human experience we can all relate to and science? The sacred trifecta of an impactful talk that will change people's perceptions and hopefully their lives. Thank you.
@dopehat868
4 жыл бұрын
Damn... Sacred trifecta is so right! Well said ☺️
This was great.
Thank you 😇
Good speaker.
She is FANTASTIC!!!! And BRILLIANT!!!
Amazing speech
This was fantastic. I want to learn from her.
@tomsmolen4490
5 жыл бұрын
Hopefully, you just did.
Aha! So that's the problem. Great insights.
Wow, what a masterpiece ❤️
Amazing!
Brilliant 👏
Awesome
wonderful!!!
Great Info. for my clients
I wish my science teacher was this cool
Thank you. Remember people cared about your courage
Awesome!
Desensitization is a *GOOD THING* 😌 ( *Thank You* *Thank You* *Thank You* I'm one of the 2/3rds; I'm a trans woman.)
"normal" is not what people need or really even want. It has been used as a tool of social conformity and dominance. We want respect for who we are in all our abnormality. Normality as a gateway drug to being liked and accepted is a fallacy. Authenticity--being who we truly are--is what we're all hungry for. Self acceptance rather than seeking approval from outside is a much deeper ground to rest on.
8:00 ish. Box 2 explained a few things to me lol
Amazing
Love her hair and the blue shades she's wearing
Magnum opus in presentations... I tip off the hat to u!
She's like a real-life Joy from Inside Out
Little late, but She IS excelent educator. She make s me joy confident.😉
Excellent talk ♥️🏳️🌈
This woman is so beautiful 🔥🔥❤ she's a beautiful human being
that is just beautiful
The title piqued my curiosity so I am listening to this lol Inexperienced ones like me shouldn't be here 😊
@anna akana brought me here💃💃💃
beautiful
Blu!
Im reading Come as you are and some parts feel unnecessary. Im around page 605, the weight part.
The final solution......open the mind and create calmness... and then the legs will open....that is it.....no other approach will work.
wow
Lovely perfect
I love you!!!
"Smells like your mother" would be a HARD BRAKE for me, boss. Great talk though
💝💝
Hello dear
Wooo wooo what’s that? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA BUENAZO
This is a lot of optimistic fluff that has all the structural integrity of cotton candy
I already think I’m hot 🔥 took only 40 years !!
I saw the thumbnail and clicked to make sure it's not manmohan singh
So sad what happened to me
thank YOU EmilY! to all native english speakers out there...nowhere on the dictionary..what does yopping mean? cheeeers
@d-ro3266
3 жыл бұрын
Francesca Fasso I’ve never heard of it. There’s “whopping”, but I’ve never heard of “yopping”
@MikeRoam2
3 жыл бұрын
it's "yawping", meaning hoarse shouting. (at 16:37) It's very rare --I've only heard "yawp" twice in 50+ years. (Here and in a poem by Walt Whitman.)
@latinaalma1947
2 жыл бұрын
@@MikeRoam2 Wow Whitman that was a lifetime ago....thanks!
And I thought I knew stuff 😅
No they are not. Its the 2 people involved that make it great. Stop making it sound like you know.
did she diss Lana del ray or am I trippin