Masturbation Myths | Teesha Morgan | TEDxStanleyPark

This talk will walk you through the emotionally-charged myths and misconceptions surrounding masturbation.
Dr. Teesha Morgan is a Sex Therapist and Couples Counsellor, author, sexual educator and co-founder of The Westland Academy of Clinical Sex Therapy.
Email: connect@teeshamorgan.com
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • @cloroxlavenderscent4307
    @cloroxlavenderscent43075 жыл бұрын

    I feel like there's like a ted talk for everything

  • @TheCoachRC

    @TheCoachRC

    4 жыл бұрын

    It sure seems that way. This channels videos have been going on for years. Plus, everybody wants to take the stage to conduct a lecture.

  • @mladendelic7284

    @mladendelic7284

    4 жыл бұрын

    ... and everyone.

  • @saxier1838

    @saxier1838

    4 жыл бұрын

    I love your profile pic

  • @dtm934

    @dtm934

    4 жыл бұрын

    It’s 2019 and you’re still rockin’ bleach smh

  • @JonBandMiley

    @JonBandMiley

    4 жыл бұрын

    There is

  • @paris466
    @paris4664 жыл бұрын

    "... improves immune functioning" I ought to be goddamned immortal by now.

  • @Hegstuffing

    @Hegstuffing

    4 жыл бұрын

    LOL

  • @superbreastman

    @superbreastman

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ahahaha....that's where Highlanders came out from! LOL

  • @GeorgeMihaiRadulescu

    @GeorgeMihaiRadulescu

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂💪🏻💪🏻

  • @williamjohnson7963

    @williamjohnson7963

    4 жыл бұрын

    TMI! LOL!

  • @faisal-ce6hk

    @faisal-ce6hk

    4 жыл бұрын

    You just made cry of laughter

  • @pratyushjha5961
    @pratyushjha59613 жыл бұрын

    RIP to the one who just watched the first 30 seconds, lost his hope and left the video thinking that now he is DONE !

  • @edwinamuthoni7077

    @edwinamuthoni7077

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmao

  • @m_rightshenas1412

    @m_rightshenas1412

    2 жыл бұрын

    :(

  • @Nf_king1

    @Nf_king1

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @caleboop1814
    @caleboop18144 жыл бұрын

    Damn the infertile myth at the start made me say to myself “okay maybe not today”

  • @dirtydan9856

    @dirtydan9856

    4 жыл бұрын

    caleb just do it on ur own pace.dont be addicted

  • @jitendra-ke5lb

    @jitendra-ke5lb

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hey loona

  • @Nephibis

    @Nephibis

    4 жыл бұрын

    Idk...I thought maybe being infertile could have its benefits...

  • @arbaazjamadar3720

    @arbaazjamadar3720

    4 жыл бұрын

    It made me say to my self "never again".

  • @shivamchoudhary9522

    @shivamchoudhary9522

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@arbaazjamadar3720 same bro 😂🤣

  • @graxthewanderer6043
    @graxthewanderer60438 жыл бұрын

    Clitoral hood sounds like a some place in downtown, where women rule the situation

  • @chrismeadows1187

    @chrismeadows1187

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Jason Hunter Sup....my femey! LOL

  • @lesliedavidson1003

    @lesliedavidson1003

    8 жыл бұрын

    Funny, Jason. Humor is good! ;)

  • @Tsujanryo

    @Tsujanryo

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Jason Hunter Sounds more like a secret, occultish, feminzai criminal organization determined to rule the Earth. Kind of a cross between Cobra and Vagina Monologues and Hydra. "I am the CLIT Commander!" - Jay hehehehe

  • @visho8979

    @visho8979

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Jason Hunter HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Dude, that's the best line I've read since I learnt what is a clitoris

  • @TheKenjoje

    @TheKenjoje

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Jason Hunter feministic dream place :)

  • @sunpreetsinghchahal7656
    @sunpreetsinghchahal76565 жыл бұрын

    Heart attack in beginning 😂

  • @MsMridusmita

    @MsMridusmita

    4 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @123kidsart

    @123kidsart

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @bushidoblack8904

    @bushidoblack8904

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙌🏽🙌🏽😂😂😂😂

  • @satisfied5846

    @satisfied5846

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😌😌

  • @AMITAVASAHA007

    @AMITAVASAHA007

    4 жыл бұрын

    True, i went pale 😑

  • @amanbhatia4262
    @amanbhatia42624 жыл бұрын

    *_THEY HAD US IN THE FIRST HALF NOT GONNA LIE_*

  • @ivin119

    @ivin119

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @nadirbouchelaghem6430

    @nadirbouchelaghem6430

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haha

  • @MrJimaz

    @MrJimaz

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yo I was so scared 🤣🤣

  • @not_your_kareshiiii
    @not_your_kareshiiii4 жыл бұрын

    Wonder how many parents brought their children along to hear her talk.

  • @dubbingsync

    @dubbingsync

    4 жыл бұрын

    At a Ted talk? I don’t think kids would be there... think being the key word as I don’t know the rules behind guests or audience members.

  • @richmondmawuli9265

    @richmondmawuli9265

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yh

  • @babysenpai3883

    @babysenpai3883

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@dubbingsync yes I think so too

  • @markchip1

    @markchip1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Actually , I suspect it would be every bit as likely the other way round - "See Mum... It's not just me!".

  • @thelegoonurfloor5347

    @thelegoonurfloor5347

    4 жыл бұрын

    probably none

  • @arjunprs
    @arjunprs5 жыл бұрын

    Indians have the most spicy foods and they also have one of the highest populations in the world... Myth broken in a sentence... 😂😂😂😂🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @mashuto

    @mashuto

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂👌

  • @SnipFred

    @SnipFred

    5 жыл бұрын

    The Chinese as well lmao 😂

  • @thewormholetv7228

    @thewormholetv7228

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@SnipFred yes!!! They have noodles.

  • @ravishankarpandey9498

    @ravishankarpandey9498

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes you're right.. Spicy food specially more use of onion and garlic

  • @shan_singh

    @shan_singh

    5 жыл бұрын

    *China!!

  • @extremeorigami
    @extremeorigami8 жыл бұрын

    I think that the problem here is that she separates the act of masturbation from pornography. For men, rarely does one come without the other. The damaging effects of pornography and the addictive nature of it can have an impact on psychological health and intimacy in relationships.

  • @brontiq

    @brontiq

    Жыл бұрын

    She literally talked about it AND explained it...

  • @uubee4443

    @uubee4443

    Жыл бұрын

    Particularly damaging to the magazine if you not a straight shooter

  • @psijicassassin7166

    @psijicassassin7166

    11 ай бұрын

    I blame my Jesus Christ church for spreading the myths about pleasuring myself. This Jesus guy and his priests have lied to humanity.

  • @himansusekhardas9749

    @himansusekhardas9749

    10 ай бұрын

    I can say nothing

  • @anbarasujerald1565

    @anbarasujerald1565

    8 ай бұрын

    Well said

  • @Aydee2020
    @Aydee20203 жыл бұрын

    "Too much self-loving can cause you to grow hair on the palms of your hands" *checks palms*

  • @benightedstxrmz7386

    @benightedstxrmz7386

    3 жыл бұрын

    damn you caught me.

  • @AtomicDiesel4100

    @AtomicDiesel4100

    3 жыл бұрын

    Been washing my hands with Nair all these years for nothing!

  • @nasreenakhuda

    @nasreenakhuda

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@benightedstxrmz7386 hey by ma****bating did u have speech problems?

  • @Akrazzyy

    @Akrazzyy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Spiderman

  • @Thenakedfinisher

    @Thenakedfinisher

    2 жыл бұрын

    Really? Is that what she said and did? Thanks for letting me know, I was on toilet,🙄

  • @josevictormiranda5854
    @josevictormiranda58542 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for being so open, I highly appreciated.

  • @quantum_OP
    @quantum_OP8 жыл бұрын

    damn she got me for a second there

  • @HomicidalDavid

    @HomicidalDavid

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Quantum op Same here.

  • @mayurkulkarni1990

    @mayurkulkarni1990

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Quantum op me too

  • @TheIcanntspel

    @TheIcanntspel

    8 жыл бұрын

    It was enough for me to rethink my whole life, lol.

  • @freakonaleash8848

    @freakonaleash8848

    8 жыл бұрын

    +TheIcanntspel me to

  • @k00patr00pa1

    @k00patr00pa1

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Quantum op I was so scared haha

  • @Tanjman_
    @Tanjman_8 жыл бұрын

    When someone asks what I did last night I usually say "I netflix and chilled with myself"

  • @alarj8341

    @alarj8341

    6 жыл бұрын

    That's what a girl on Tinder replied to me. Now it makes sense.

  • @pulakdeyashi

    @pulakdeyashi

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amazing facts

  • @markanderson9123

    @markanderson9123

    5 жыл бұрын

    Pronhub and chill.

  • @astromuonkuki5684
    @astromuonkuki56844 жыл бұрын

    This is the way to do presentation. She was quite good in interacting with the audiences.

  • @kallagodglobals.e5813
    @kallagodglobals.e58133 жыл бұрын

    I think this video and it’s author is very inspirational 💯🔐

  • @nishchalpriyadarshi1520
    @nishchalpriyadarshi15205 жыл бұрын

    I was about to become depressed in starting ... I got a feeling of relief when she said all are lies

  • @bradjones849

    @bradjones849

    5 жыл бұрын

    He'll yea lol

  • @checonava233

    @checonava233

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mi too lol

  • @afaaqhussain3798

    @afaaqhussain3798

    4 жыл бұрын

    What if it's true :s

  • @JeanEtchepare

    @JeanEtchepare

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha!

  • @alfreshluque3297

    @alfreshluque3297

    4 жыл бұрын

    Give us

  • @4684peter
    @4684peter8 жыл бұрын

    I really like how relaxed and comfortable people in these fields are with topics like sex, and I mean this is how everybody should be. It doesn't make sense to feel bad about it or guilty, everybody does it, people in the past did, it people in the future will continue to do it so? If it wasn't meant to be done you wouldn't have discovered it alone!

  • @jaredlapierre1304

    @jaredlapierre1304

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, but I don't like what other people do with their bodies that doesn't effect me at all whatsoever! It makes me uncomfortable hurr durr.

  • @kiradot8071

    @kiradot8071

    6 жыл бұрын

    Say it louder for the people in the back

  • @raworthyel3786

    @raworthyel3786

    6 жыл бұрын

    Peter Tzonis that's a trained lecturer she's doing. All Memory!

  • @carlostejada1479

    @carlostejada1479

    6 жыл бұрын

    Peter Tzonis but she's missing a looot of points, and she's wrong in many things...

  • @wx..

    @wx..

    5 жыл бұрын

    NoFap belief?

  • @orawal
    @orawal4 жыл бұрын

    The most eloquent and mellifluous speaker I've ever heard. I just want her to keep talking 😄 and such immense intellect and wit ! Wow! But surprised that Ted has spelling mistakes :P

  • @donaldswift
    @donaldswift4 жыл бұрын

    Single most impactful video for me. I started a new category on KZread cause of her fabulous video. You go girl!

  • @alyssacleland
    @alyssacleland6 жыл бұрын

    Who else checked the palm of their hands for hair

  • @mathewprincejohn

    @mathewprincejohn

    5 жыл бұрын

    ✋😜

  • @indigo3977

    @indigo3977

    5 жыл бұрын

    IM NOT ALONE

  • @michealnewton3846

    @michealnewton3846

    5 жыл бұрын

    Alyssa M. How are you?I wish to be your friend

  • @TheGamer-cs5sm

    @TheGamer-cs5sm

    5 жыл бұрын

    ✋😄😄

  • @prakharanand1060

    @prakharanand1060

    5 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @varolussalsanclar1163
    @varolussalsanclar11635 жыл бұрын

    Dont watch this on day 20 of nofap.

  • @catzel1ps452

    @catzel1ps452

    5 жыл бұрын

    Tacitus Kilgore y

  • @abhishekchary6585

    @abhishekchary6585

    5 жыл бұрын

    More than Correct

  • @tanaypandey1771

    @tanaypandey1771

    5 жыл бұрын

    Its too late bruh XD

  • @serdarjoshua5840

    @serdarjoshua5840

    5 жыл бұрын

    damn i was exactly on day 20 you saved me lol

  • @greatmind8918

    @greatmind8918

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@tanaypandey1771 lol

  • @tovopro
    @tovopro4 жыл бұрын

    Clicked on this TED Talk as a simple man. Left feeling intrigued by her intellect.

  • @indianedupsychic9477
    @indianedupsychic94772 жыл бұрын

    Love you so much not for your speech but your clerity of mind . And also your purity of heart❤️

  • @fuadahmed6060
    @fuadahmed60604 жыл бұрын

    I was shaken for the first 30 seconds. I was like I am done boy 😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @zaitunihamisi2312

    @zaitunihamisi2312

    4 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @kamalsah355

    @kamalsah355

    4 жыл бұрын

    I was scared to death..😅😅😅😂😂

  • @swapnilkadam5373

    @swapnilkadam5373

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ahahahahahahah......

  • @nyambeglen3395

    @nyambeglen3395

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yea man...

  • @BigJoJoJoJo

    @BigJoJoJoJo

    4 жыл бұрын

    I thought my unborn children were only a figment of my imagination for a minute

  • @rosty2
    @rosty25 жыл бұрын

    I'm still thinking about those 5% of men who have never masturbated.

  • @ifexki

    @ifexki

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too. Wish I never had. 😁😁

  • @knowledgeismyrock

    @knowledgeismyrock

    5 жыл бұрын

    do their balls eventually just explode?

  • @andisandean5340

    @andisandean5340

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@knowledgeismyrock hahaha

  • @Majestic469

    @Majestic469

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@knowledgeismyrock nope. Its like drugs. If you dont do it, youre not addicted, and you feel normal. But once you start, you feel like you cant stop, which is probably you.

  • @lincolndunstan3057

    @lincolndunstan3057

    5 жыл бұрын

    they are liars!!

  • @selfdiscipline296
    @selfdiscipline2964 жыл бұрын

    As soon as she said it will grow hair on your palm ... I was relieved

  • @vishnusawant2562
    @vishnusawant25622 жыл бұрын

    Very calmly and in simple words she explained everything... 👌 awesome

  • @itsxerxes6754
    @itsxerxes67548 жыл бұрын

    You already know what people did after watching this video ;)

  • @duckpotato1050

    @duckpotato1050

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Bladesmen420 ate a yam, happens everytime, to everyone

  • @vikramgehlot2258

    @vikramgehlot2258

    6 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha

  • @kimerlanpoage8208

    @kimerlanpoage8208

    6 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @ahmedissam9090

    @ahmedissam9090

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lolll

  • @vikingsvikings1087

    @vikingsvikings1087

    6 жыл бұрын

    ✊👉💦💦

  • @likaself
    @likaself8 жыл бұрын

    "Romance the hell out of yourself", great line Teesha, you too.

  • @likaself

    @likaself

    8 жыл бұрын

    +sri ram According to who?

  • @tapask09

    @tapask09

    8 жыл бұрын

    I love that line too... :)

  • @tcfmarch17
    @tcfmarch172 жыл бұрын

    The best TED talk I've ever heard. Good for you and all women.

  • @fromchopin

    @fromchopin

    2 жыл бұрын

    What about men??

  • @palistrofruly

    @palistrofruly

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@fromchopinnot good at all

  • @amitrawat1440
    @amitrawat14404 жыл бұрын

    I don't know if anyone noticed but she is amazingly attractive 😉

  • @faisalsangar5072

    @faisalsangar5072

    4 жыл бұрын

    I did!

  • @markrossi5721

    @markrossi5721

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes I noticed that quite readily!

  • @spectrum9092

    @spectrum9092

    4 жыл бұрын

    I noticed her bobs

  • @reb3liouss0ul61

    @reb3liouss0ul61

    4 жыл бұрын

    I liked her more and more as she kept talking

  • @thiagowutzkeod2453

    @thiagowutzkeod2453

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nah

  • @valken666
    @valken6668 жыл бұрын

    If masturbation makes you avoid marriage, then go for it!

  • @neilmcintosh5150

    @neilmcintosh5150

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Valken That would explain why Iv'e never married, Iv'e been a wanker all my life!

  • @option-sh9yd

    @option-sh9yd

    8 жыл бұрын

    he's like " I recommend it sir" jajaja

  • @Kami-Sama197

    @Kami-Sama197

    8 жыл бұрын

    LMFAO wanking me to go for marriage even more. I would never ever want a feminist wife but rather an Egalitarian one even if they are hard to find XD

  • @valken666

    @valken666

    8 жыл бұрын

    Kami Sama Careful, I had many who pretend to be egalitarian, until they realize they can use the law to steal your house and income. For money they stop being egalitarian pretty quick...

  • @Kami-Sama197

    @Kami-Sama197

    8 жыл бұрын

    Valken yeah bro i know but i'll marry contractual

  • @C861986
    @C8619867 жыл бұрын

    it improves your immune functioning. now I know why I never get sick.

  • @kristinburton4953

    @kristinburton4953

    6 жыл бұрын

    Especially if you come in your own mouth. Your own creamy nectary vitamin shot would shoot straight down your throat for easy administering.

  • @pankajverma5195

    @pankajverma5195

    5 жыл бұрын

    yehh same here

  • @barnaclescum7011

    @barnaclescum7011

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kristinburton4953 humanity could've just died so long ago, but this, this is the source

  • @Majestic469

    @Majestic469

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kristinburton4953 wtf lol

  • @mashuto

    @mashuto

    5 жыл бұрын

    Damn 😂

  • @mmw5649
    @mmw5649 Жыл бұрын

    Teesha, Thank you. You speak freely and openly about topics that tongue tie most of us. Your presentation was very refreshing and enjoyable.

  • @mbs0710
    @mbs07103 жыл бұрын

    she won my hearts by debunking all myths

  • @traitor2850

    @traitor2850

    2 жыл бұрын

    +

  • @kenheines
    @kenheines8 жыл бұрын

    Masturbation is good and even healthy but chronic porn use as a means to masturbate can be hugely detrimental to overall mental health and lead to erectile dysfunction. I think she hurt her presentation not to underline or even address that point especially since, for most men, porn and masturbation goes hand in hand... no pun intended.

  • @lovefunkrockmusic

    @lovefunkrockmusic

    6 жыл бұрын

    it is not healthy at all.

  • @aliceryan6015

    @aliceryan6015

    6 жыл бұрын

    Romel Nailes Jr. , his name is Shane Idleman.

  • @euguinn9524

    @euguinn9524

    6 жыл бұрын

    Actually masturbation is very healthy, and can decrease sickness. Just be sure to wash your hands before and after 😉

  • @TheYoungprince01

    @TheYoungprince01

    6 жыл бұрын

    hand and hand. lol

  • @miyuden4118

    @miyuden4118

    6 жыл бұрын

    She wants to keep her Job, maybe she didn't address it because of that.

  • @lagaman11
    @lagaman116 жыл бұрын

    Of all of the masturbation videos on the internet, this is the only one I have found that is actually helpful, and doesn't feel a person full of some false sense of shame. Thank you for sharing!

  • @Un-scripted
    @Un-scripted4 жыл бұрын

    Incredible personality with incredible thoughts and ideas love you i wish there were some more like u in this for world for us

  • @bapibala5349
    @bapibala5349 Жыл бұрын

    You are awesome speaker ,make everyone laugh . And your fare SMILEY talking makes easy to good conclusion.

  • @iblokeversion1
    @iblokeversion15 жыл бұрын

    You are amazing Teesha! Thank you So much for talking about this in such a cool, entertainingly relaxed, casual, and non smutty way. VERY much appreciated.

  • @elkyhonig4143

    @elkyhonig4143

    Жыл бұрын

    L

  • @dr.jodyschmidt250
    @dr.jodyschmidt2508 жыл бұрын

    Great lecture Teesha! You make me proud. Keep up the great work.

  • @ammo8713
    @ammo87134 жыл бұрын

    WHEN MY MOM CAUGHT DOING THE DASTARDLY DEED SHE TOLD ME IT WOULD CAUSE ME TO GO BLIND! I THEN ASKED HER IF I COULD JUST DO IT UNTIL I NEEDED GLASSES!!! GO FIGURE !

  • @ximertracks-subtome9907

    @ximertracks-subtome9907

    4 жыл бұрын

    im mad at her!

  • @melissacooper4482

    @melissacooper4482

    4 жыл бұрын

    I can imagine a kid believing that as truth. The day the kid sees a blind person they would probably ask them, " You've masturbated didn't you?"

  • @ShizzieShizz73

    @ShizzieShizz73

    4 жыл бұрын

    LMFAOOOOOOOO

  • @twingle-ftwingle-f4924

    @twingle-ftwingle-f4924

    3 жыл бұрын

    Chary me up from serious relationship Voice call +234 904 260 2671

  • @jerseyhudson27

    @jerseyhudson27

    3 жыл бұрын

    It'll cause her to be blind ..what she doesnt know doesnt hurt her .. so why is she bothering your pleasure

  • @MasseuseMassageChairs
    @MasseuseMassageChairs2 жыл бұрын

    What a great talk! Thank you!

  • @humanyoda
    @humanyoda8 жыл бұрын

    Masturbation neutralizes the desire to interact with women sexually and can lead one to living with one's hand rather than with a woman (if masturbation is used frequently enough).

  • @humanyoda

    @humanyoda

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Nerian For whom?

  • @humanyoda

    @humanyoda

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Nerian How have you arrived at that thought?

  • @AmadonFaul

    @AmadonFaul

    8 жыл бұрын

    +humanyoda Just a guess because I'm not who you are questioning, but I'd say a decrease in libido would be hugely beneficial for men because we do some really stupid things and make some really terrible decisions based on attraction. We settle for the wrong woman, we quit great careers to move to be with someone who isn't right for us. The list is pretty extensive. There's a reason for the saying "you used the wrong head" in decision making.

  • @humanyoda

    @humanyoda

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Amadon Faul Makes sense, but I view this method as a double-edge sword. It is possible to settle on living with one's hand rather than with a woman. That's what I meant.

  • @Carcolo679

    @Carcolo679

    8 жыл бұрын

    Watch the whole video or another Ted talk about porn. It is pornography that has this effect not masturbation. Why do you think such a large majority of men watch porn? Because... Simple masturbation isn't enough we want a woman. Porn becomes the substitution not jacking off. You're essentially knocking something because most people do it wrong.

  • @shashijaiswal17
    @shashijaiswal176 жыл бұрын

    VERY factual and real explanation of what we are in disguise. Indeed the term makes much difference Masturbation and changing this would really be something we ought to do earlier.

  • @davidburns6284
    @davidburns6284 Жыл бұрын

    Very well done. Articulate and informative. We need more women like Teesha breaking down barriers to our happiness.

  • @frederickloucks4865

    @frederickloucks4865

    Жыл бұрын

    You aren't going to find many women like her in this country.

  • @becreative7072
    @becreative70724 жыл бұрын

    don't know but she is amazing talker i mean speaker on stage and she has the guts to touch such topic wow

  • @benvanrensburg4261

    @benvanrensburg4261

    2 жыл бұрын

    Now it's your turn to do some touching.

  • @jenniespaghetti
    @jenniespaghetti8 жыл бұрын

    You are a wonderful speaker Teesha! Keep spreading the word

  • @dunnnuu6502

    @dunnnuu6502

    Жыл бұрын

    I mean

  • @paginate
    @paginate8 жыл бұрын

    Way to go Teesha, great talk- good advice- lets hope we change perspective

  • @jeremyseligson2220
    @jeremyseligson22204 жыл бұрын

    She needs to distinguish between men and women. Women gain strength but men get exhausted.

  • @smitty_jaeger

    @smitty_jaeger

    4 жыл бұрын

    *men gain shame lmao

  • @prasannapodugu7936

    @prasannapodugu7936

    4 жыл бұрын

    😅🤣🤣

  • @ShizzieShizz73

    @ShizzieShizz73

    4 жыл бұрын

    I beg to differ....

  • @bungangamsha3526

    @bungangamsha3526

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ShizzieShizz73 you must be a woman then.

  • @phantomwolf2141

    @phantomwolf2141

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bungangamsha3526 😂😂😂

  • @CobaltLancer
    @CobaltLancer2 жыл бұрын

    Sure was an interesting watch. Well said Teesha! Thanks for the informative TED Talk! I surely learned a thing or two

  • @nickkanakis3469
    @nickkanakis34695 жыл бұрын

    Masterbation is fine, just don't let it get out of hand.....

  • @onmysoul1958

    @onmysoul1958

    5 жыл бұрын

    Whiskers Briarwood is that a pun😂

  • @riteshrawat4703

    @riteshrawat4703

    5 жыл бұрын

    Bruh

  • @obruddajustdafactsman2076

    @obruddajustdafactsman2076

    5 жыл бұрын

    snicker ...snicker

  • @ericdew2021

    @ericdew2021

    5 жыл бұрын

    Just don't let it go to your head?

  • @takudzwamazwienduna

    @takudzwamazwienduna

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Muuip
    @Muuip8 жыл бұрын

    Very well spoken.Finally and open, intellectual and factual approach to sexuality/masturbation.

  • @charlescarpio8403
    @charlescarpio84034 жыл бұрын

    I kept staring at the butterfly tattoo on her ankle.

  • @dcxdanny

    @dcxdanny

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh, so that was what the tattoo is.

  • @edwintalbot1653

    @edwintalbot1653

    3 жыл бұрын

    I liked it too, great legs!

  • @dcxdanny

    @dcxdanny

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@edwintalbot1653 True..... And that makes me wonder if up north there is some more curly hair :-)

  • @utpaldatta1967
    @utpaldatta1967 Жыл бұрын

    Very well explained with simple examples

  • @MnMEminem
    @MnMEminem8 жыл бұрын

    I guess the porn sites have send their agents... there are other pseudo-psychologists who say that masturbation to porn doesnt do nothing to the brain. And lets just accept the fact that a woman is trying to convince us if its good or bad to masturbate. I think I would make a Ted talk about pregnancy ! I've stoped porn for almost 2 months and I feel better, more mindfull and cleansed, also more energy and self-control+ a bit more confidence !

  • @TheCloudeGraves

    @TheCloudeGraves

    8 жыл бұрын

    I tried not masturbating for 3 months. Hated every minute. Totally pointless. I can agree with the porn, though. I haven't watched porn in a long time and am better off for it. But not masturbating has only lead to negative effects for me. It's almost as though masturbation can benefit some and harm others.

  • @therealest8574

    @therealest8574

    8 жыл бұрын

    ur the man same here bro people are decieved lol i feel sorry for people who agree with the shit she says she is talking logically but thats not what masterbation really does it causes all negative side effects but porn has to go on so yeah lol thats why they promote it just sry for english

  • @dart200

    @dart200

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Pafel Pafelov I think it's porn that's really detrimental. I'm not sure if plain masterbation is actually bad.

  • @MnMEminem

    @MnMEminem

    8 жыл бұрын

    Lazarus Aether dart200 Omar Abouraya I agree with you all. Guess I haven't been affected cus I have a gf and do regular sex. It's not bad to masturbate if you feel like it after all we need to produce new and healthy sperm. I guess porn is the only thing we should avoid so it doesn't fuck with our brains, moral and values.

  • @mikhailadam6809

    @mikhailadam6809

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Lazarus Aether I agree, for some reasons people suddenly believe everything a dude on TED talk says. And forget the history of research on masturbation. Porn addicts with library of video are obvious a different story. But getting yourself off has been known to have physiological and physical body benefits. doesn't HAVE to tie up with pornography film.

  • @JackyAYenga
    @JackyAYenga8 жыл бұрын

    Well done Teesha! Your presentation was both entertaining and informative, and I learned a thing or two... What a great way to talk about this topic! I wish you great success on your journey to support people with better sex education, you are definitely needed.

  • @VijayaRangaLR
    @VijayaRangaLR2 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic talk Thank you so much 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @TheMsjohn99
    @TheMsjohn994 жыл бұрын

    "If you don't use it, you loose it" words to live by

  • @ShizzieShizz73

    @ShizzieShizz73

    4 жыл бұрын

    I say this often....

  • @traitor2850

    @traitor2850

    2 жыл бұрын

    +

  • @prathmeshchaudhari7613

    @prathmeshchaudhari7613

    Жыл бұрын

    - Johny sins

  • @ming0917
    @ming09177 жыл бұрын

    This is such a wonderful speech on a very serious topic within current society with intelligent humors, and it contains a lot of facts as well. I am a big believer in communication and trust are key to successfully relationships (particularly sexuality part of the relationship) , and masturbation can really help in those two areas, because if you don't know your own body, your own sexual pleasure, then how would you expect anyone else to know better than yourself. Only when you know yourself well enough, you can guide your partners and communicate clearly with your partner to allow him/her to give you pleasure, and trust in him/her to allow you to receive great pleasure.

  • @evinkleinman6052

    @evinkleinman6052

    Жыл бұрын

    Give me your phone number gobble , gobble

  • @davidknapp-fisher6955
    @davidknapp-fisher69558 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations Teesha! Your talk was edgy, funny, informative - but above all, a great way to tackle a topic that many folks have questions about, but didn't know who to ask... now they do! Great job, and I'm looking forward to hearing more great stories from you in the future!

  • @psijicassassin7166

    @psijicassassin7166

    11 ай бұрын

    I blame my Jesus Christ church for spreading the myths about pleasuring myself. This Jesus guy and his priests have lied to humanity.

  • @jerrykester7155
    @jerrykester71553 жыл бұрын

    Well if we're all being adults and we're all being honest with ourselves more than with other people she made a lot of very good points enough where even I would love a chance to sit down and speak with this woman

  • @practical3341

    @practical3341

    3 жыл бұрын

    Actually first 30 seconds were true. Don't get confused by this video. Society doesn't want you to succeed. there are infinite side effects of masturbation. For true guidance watch Chastity108 youtube channel. Good luck.

  • @muzmuzaffamuz8421
    @muzmuzaffamuz84214 жыл бұрын

    Wow TEDX, very informative and good knowledge, salute your knowledge and your presentation excellent awesome, thank you appreciate love you

  • @janetmorrison1378
    @janetmorrison13787 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this absolutely fantastic talk about self- pleasuring! The world NEEDs this message:)

  • @krishalienz9696
    @krishalienz96965 жыл бұрын

    She was saying stop watching me and just do it.😁...

  • @fahadalismaily9370

    @fahadalismaily9370

    4 жыл бұрын

    Do whatt😁😁

  • @saurabhwalzade9954

    @saurabhwalzade9954

    4 жыл бұрын

    Right😂😂😂😂

  • @edwardmclaughlin7935
    @edwardmclaughlin79354 жыл бұрын

    Supposed to make you go blind but, somehow I can't see that.

  • @bobjacobson858
    @bobjacobson8584 жыл бұрын

    An old man in nursing home was caught "pleasuring himself". A very conservative nurse tells him "Stop that; you'll go blind." The man asks "Can't I do it until I just get cataracts?"

  • @xppp3021
    @xppp30218 жыл бұрын

    he brings down blood pressure. Reduces stress. there's nobody you have to deal with afterwards except yourself. and it will keep your ass out of prison.

  • @lovefunkrockmusic

    @lovefunkrockmusic

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ever heard of Jack the Ripper

  • @JonnieQuestsStars

    @JonnieQuestsStars

    5 жыл бұрын

    x ppP are you talking about masterbation or Jesus???? Really? Out of jail?

  • @yannijanmondejar7951
    @yannijanmondejar79515 жыл бұрын

    Well said. She amazed me of how she delivered her message effectively. The way talk was calm and smooth. Her visual presentation was a good way to present her ideas coherently. The way she moves and the way she uses her hands were also a good way to convey every points of her message. Overall, her communication skills were pretty impressive and if I would to rate her speech then it would be 9/10.

  • @rideadventure3777

    @rideadventure3777

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Venom Hype hi how are you? is there female?

  • @Eddie-kj1zb

    @Eddie-kj1zb

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was so depressed at the beginning untill she said it's a lie

  • @steveburns199

    @steveburns199

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@rideadventure3777 time to get it done before I get to the other thing that is not worth the time to talk about it

  • @ayoubayoubb1562
    @ayoubayoubb15623 жыл бұрын

    I loved the talk at last 💯💯🙏🙏

  • @aditya4566
    @aditya45662 жыл бұрын

    So much useful information... Thank you soo much teesha...

  • @SanjayKumar-of9ze
    @SanjayKumar-of9ze4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for explaining one of the most confusing question.

  • @GauravSingh-js3vm

    @GauravSingh-js3vm

    4 жыл бұрын

    but why our baba's are against thhis bhai...

  • @beliver468

    @beliver468

    4 жыл бұрын

    This poor lady has NO idea what she talking about. Masturbation is the worst thing for mind body and soul.

  • @harlenneroxanne3811

    @harlenneroxanne3811

    4 жыл бұрын

    @we see the ligh it’s being proven that masturbation clears the mind

  • @user-hi2fp1he5g

    @user-hi2fp1he5g

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@beliver468 you've got "soul" in your sentence, so we know it's gotta be true!

  • @wonderfulcharacter883
    @wonderfulcharacter8836 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so so so much for this valuable information....once again thank you!!!!

  • @hamzamahmood9565

    @hamzamahmood9565

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aaaand you've got 69 likes on ya comment

  • @Majestic469

    @Majestic469

    5 жыл бұрын

    I dont like where this is going..

  • @Akajeyjey
    @Akajeyjey4 жыл бұрын

    She is right about some things but I believe it DOES teach me instant gratification which makes my life feel harder than it is.. I get more distracted because I tend to search for a stimulus that gives me similar feeling more often.. I did experience worse performance at a gym after doing it (I'm talking day or two before).. I'm not sure about immunity improvement, I only notice brief improvement when I'm sick and then I feel even more tired and overall worse.. I don't tell anyone what to do but for me it seems helpful. I don't have religious reasons, I'm not ashamed of it and I don't care about going against mainstream.. Maybe it helps only certain types of people, who knows, I'm probably one of them.. For anyone who looks down on this, I encourage you to stay open minded.. give it try for several days.. If then you decide It's utter nonsense, it's ok..

  • @infernoisreal

    @infernoisreal

    Жыл бұрын

    You might wanna ask yourself why you are constantly looking for stimulus, for me it was because of my ADHD but it could be different for many people.

  • @hellomumbo

    @hellomumbo

    11 ай бұрын

    I completely agree to this. The speaker does not seem to have real experience about it.masturbation is wrong. It weakens you physically as well as mentally.

  • @vijitdaroch4879
    @vijitdaroch48794 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff... much to learn from

  • @Kojogh
    @Kojogh5 жыл бұрын

    She scared me the first few minutes 😂

  • @user-nr1gc1xn8b

    @user-nr1gc1xn8b

    4 жыл бұрын

    我也是,吓死了

  • @Jblah

    @Jblah

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@user-nr1gc1xn8b tf?

  • @user-nr1gc1xn8b

    @user-nr1gc1xn8b

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Jblah 什么意思?what?

  • @JamesTenis

    @JamesTenis

    4 жыл бұрын

    and then I felt so thankful for telling me lies!!

  • @jo-anneweiler4756
    @jo-anneweiler47568 жыл бұрын

    What a delight it is to hear this important topic covered in such a playful and inviting way. Love your presentation style, humour and your joy is infectious! I can't wait to refer my clients to your KZread!

  • @anthonymuco154

    @anthonymuco154

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Jo-Anne Weiler Just for her presentation?

  • @tapask09

    @tapask09

    8 жыл бұрын

    I love the way she delivered the entire presentation on such a sensitive topic. kudos!

  • @jo-anneweiler4756

    @jo-anneweiler4756

    8 жыл бұрын

    Yes she's terrific. You can tune into her on the Shine In 2016 webinar. Sign up app.webinarjam.net/register/23623/b8a4305988

  • @avisgabbidon351

    @avisgabbidon351

    6 жыл бұрын

    Tapas K. Chowdhury m

  • @vinaysinha8991
    @vinaysinha89912 жыл бұрын

    Very informative and worth watching!!! Fine tuned the knowledge and exposed the taboos associated!!! Hope many more programs on this issue!!!

  • @stoic007

    @stoic007

    Жыл бұрын

    maarte reh fir mutthi

  • @rumana3211
    @rumana32118 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations Teesha!

  • @xTheBigWoodyx
    @xTheBigWoodyx8 жыл бұрын

    Read the title and thought it said "Masturbation Methods" and I was like oh shit but now I'm here and kind of disappointed

  • @shawntardy7287

    @shawntardy7287

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aiden Woods 😂😂

  • @mackmanelaflare2520

    @mackmanelaflare2520

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aiden Woods 😂😂😂

  • @KineticGamingYT
    @KineticGamingYT Жыл бұрын

    i just love the way, how she started with a smile! 😊

  • @joerogaine3093
    @joerogaine30934 жыл бұрын

    Humans have a way of talking themselves into negative behavior. In all honesty we should practice self control.

  • @agent-eg8mb

    @agent-eg8mb

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nofap proves her wrong

  • @enisnizzy2396

    @enisnizzy2396

    4 жыл бұрын

    She did a comparison between sports and masturbation... ugh women.

  • @icydeath1993

    @icydeath1993

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@agent-eg8mb yup nofap is really good.improves confidence and conserves energy.

  • @vukcevu5854

    @vukcevu5854

    3 жыл бұрын

    facts.

  • @YouTube_gets_dumber_each_year

    @YouTube_gets_dumber_each_year

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@agent-eg8mb I saw your comment and out of morbid curiosity I decided to randomly google "nofap suicides". Much to my surprise I came across a plethora of results. I'm not trying to suggest there's an inherent correlation between the practice of nofap and intrusive thoughts but I just wanted to get your perspective on that particular subject. Do you think there's any demographic that might be more susceptible to suffering adverse effects while on nofap?

  • @oliviabarbosa4086
    @oliviabarbosa40867 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful, Dr. Teesha! I love your sense of humor. :)

  • @7Chino7

    @7Chino7

    7 жыл бұрын

    Olívia Barbosa da Silva What do you think about the video's topic? Still a shameful taboo topic for women, right?

  • @rtx_____

    @rtx_____

    6 жыл бұрын

    Oh wow me too what a beatiful very nice presentation so much nice and presentful very

  • @rairepia5695

    @rairepia5695

    6 жыл бұрын

    Olívia Barbosa da Silva

  • @amirhosseintb1521

    @amirhosseintb1521

    5 жыл бұрын

    Come on shes anythinf but FUNNY 😐

  • @agaurav1

    @agaurav1

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hello

  • @kilroy8989
    @kilroy89898 жыл бұрын

    I will not be able to look at cornflakes the same again

  • @alexandergilles8583

    @alexandergilles8583

    5 жыл бұрын

    As long as your cornflakes have milk, they’re great ;)

  • @aaravp2248
    @aaravp22484 жыл бұрын

    I was about to cry in the beginning

  • @tanakritdd8223
    @tanakritdd82234 жыл бұрын

    9:05 ladies and gentlemen, we finally found the cure for the coronavirus

  • @kishanpandit348

    @kishanpandit348

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thats true.. according to scientist..

  • @mikeposner5696

    @mikeposner5696

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @redonthebeatboi

    @redonthebeatboi

    3 жыл бұрын

    Damn boi

  • @musamabinamir5106

    @musamabinamir5106

    3 жыл бұрын

    Genius baby

  • @uhinger

    @uhinger

    3 жыл бұрын

    vaccination reverse way (men's view only) 😂

  • @TXP9
    @TXP94 жыл бұрын

    I love things like this that support my existing beliefs.

  • @cecilarthur3579

    @cecilarthur3579

    3 ай бұрын

    🤔

  • @gorgorgorgorgor1
    @gorgorgorgorgor18 жыл бұрын

    Masturbation destroys my self-esteem, which in turn causes many of the problems she's trying to dismiss.

  • @kathymain578

    @kathymain578

    6 жыл бұрын

    It makes me feel much better about myself actually, more energy and a better mood.

  • @non-applicable.

    @non-applicable.

    6 жыл бұрын

    That's the point she's making! It destroys your self-esteem because of the unhealthy societal attitude towards it. If it was accepted as a norm, there wouldn't be a stigma around it and people wouldn't feel ashamed of themselves for engaging in this activity.

  • @Jojo-oi5vi

    @Jojo-oi5vi

    5 жыл бұрын

    This is soo true, it destroy my life, i wsnt to live a normal life and judt be me and meet someone

  • @Saieras

    @Saieras

    5 жыл бұрын

    You're likely using it as a coping mechanism for stress or trauma. Consider therapy.

  • @pointonelectronics

    @pointonelectronics

    5 жыл бұрын

    maybe doing it to often. try less often.

  • @blookz7877
    @blookz78774 жыл бұрын

    I love this woman

  • @KarnodAldhorn

    @KarnodAldhorn

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @achedangmei4375
    @achedangmei43754 жыл бұрын

    Love your presentation miss, Morgan.

  • @granand
    @granand4 жыл бұрын

    I am over doing it..I need to see you immediately

  • @superbreastman

    @superbreastman

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too 😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @kiraf.9135
    @kiraf.91357 жыл бұрын

    This was so on point. I'm showing this to all my girl friends. Every woman needs to see this.

  • @udembamichael4098
    @udembamichael4098 Жыл бұрын

    This is awesome. Thanks, Teesha for such a fantastic lecture with a positive way of viewing masturbation in society.

  • @prakashmajumdar4517
    @prakashmajumdar45174 жыл бұрын

    outstanding presentation....

  • @Africa893
    @Africa8935 жыл бұрын

    I love the sheer amount of comments here that boil down to "YOU'RE WRONG! YOU'RE TWISTED!" that offer _no actual evidence or counterpoint,_ just disagreement.

  • @faustus5481
    @faustus54817 жыл бұрын

    If masturbation _did_ make you go blind, would you.... a: stop b: slow down c: take your chances

  • @joesixpack8166

    @joesixpack8166

    7 жыл бұрын

    Lol. Definitely take my chances.

  • @justinebeaver1419

    @justinebeaver1419

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hmm.....decisions, decisions.

  • @jaykerouac2

    @jaykerouac2

    7 жыл бұрын

    If you went blind, the good news is that you'd still be able to beat your meat😅

  • @dannygjk

    @dannygjk

    7 жыл бұрын

    I may be wrong but I'll guess you are a woman?

  • @jackoroni4609

    @jackoroni4609

    5 жыл бұрын

    C

  • @ash93938
    @ash93938 Жыл бұрын

    Superb talk, worthy of sharing with the uneducated

  • @emman107
    @emman1074 жыл бұрын

    The Ending 🔥

  • @toyocarter4651
    @toyocarter46517 жыл бұрын

    i was scared at the beginning but then i realized she was empasizing a point and the statements were myths.

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