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don't get distracted by chemistry, build the connection. Take your time!!

@patsummer135

2 жыл бұрын

Perfectly said 😥 that's my problem, that's what I have to change 🤦🏻‍♀️

@FlamingCockatiel

9 ай бұрын

Good advice, but I don't know how to follow it.

Stop texting. Stop calling. Stop being always available! You stop chasing him...if he's really interested. He'll start chasing you.

@AngelSanchez-sn6jg

3 жыл бұрын

Ok 👌

@ashy1111

3 жыл бұрын

So true i have to start that😇

@thecrazysarecomin

3 жыл бұрын

Or we just think , meh she ain't interested or is playing games which pings red flags , so we move on , hang out with our buddies, concentrate with work and carry on with life .

@n2organic

3 жыл бұрын

There’s a balance. What I find fun in a budding relationship is reciprocal enthusiasm. When two people are openly and unabashedly interested in each other. There’s no need for playing games when this kind of synergy exists. Holding back like this suggests, will only have a bad result and is indicative of immaturity. On the other hand, I do think men enjoy being the pursuers so at some point allowing him to “chase” but responding positively to his advances raises good energy!

@CrystalDatingCoach

3 жыл бұрын

@@n2organic Yes and No. Enthusiasm OK... To much is a BIG TURN Off. Calling and Texting every time you think of them. Makes you look Desperate.

Now I only take advice from people who are married. Like this channel. He is doing everything right and I should listen to him.

I think it's lovely that when you prioritize yourself, your man prioritizes you. This was great. Thank you!

1.THE INCITING ACCIDENT 2.A CALL TO FREEDOM 3.BAND TOGETHER 4.COURAGEOUS ACTION

@jennyjen3985

Жыл бұрын

1.The inciting incident *

I love this guy. I admit I was skeptical when I saw the title and almost didn’t watch, but I’m glad I did. Nurturing oneself is a beautiful way to approach being ready for a man in ones life--to give yourself what you want from him and be the person you’re looking for.

@chewyyyl

Жыл бұрын

Ĺ8ìòoooll

I need to stop being so 'nice', soft and worrying about hurting his feelings.

@jammyjay917

3 жыл бұрын

Same..... Self love, do what makes you happy.

@natalied6923

3 жыл бұрын

The interesting thing is, you rob him of the opportunity to do it for himself, turning into a mommy no mentally normal guy feels attraction towards! So live and LET LIVE!

@jasprerph

3 жыл бұрын

I would say be kind and considerate BUT make yourself a priority first. Take care of yourself first and then do nice things for him if you can. Don't sacrifice for a man that you just met.

@suzieburnette1677

3 жыл бұрын

I have the very same problem...

@CrystalDatingCoach

3 жыл бұрын

He needs to be worrying about yours. Your the Prize!

I want a loving, caring , exciting relationship where me and my partner are connecting at a deeper level of understanding😊 and there is warmth, love, sunshine and all the good things in life❤️

I agree to this 100% Finally someone said it! I was too afraid to admit all of this because I thought I was wrong and was gonna lose the man that wants me. Thank you for giving me hope as well as motivation! 👍🏽

I do love this encouragement. Love yourself first. Thank you❤️

This was an amazing video! Thank you🥰and music in background makes it so much fun I like it!

Love this, you really nailed it! I needed to hear this today, right now.

I always use “ self love “ coz loving yourself is not selfish at all. Its really about knowing your value and worth as a woman. And we should never apologize for having high standards in love because the right man or the man who really wants to be in your life will rise up to meet those standards" 💯he have to prove himself that he is the missing piece of me then his indeed my person .

Matt, you have no idea how much I needed to hear Meredith's story and your advice... Thank you!

Thank you for this advice ! It’s worth gold !!! 💜

Matt, I think that this has been your best video/advice so far! Excellent job!!👍🏼

Hi Mathew I love your way of talking your sense of humour and your informative videos, well done!

Thank you Mat for confirming my actions. I did all that you said. I am in a total bliss with this person at this moment; of course to early to predict but definitely I am at peace with the decision I made. Decision of choosing the man of my dreams

My ok’d moms advice is this: “The FIRST time YOU CALL HIM You’ve LOST HIM”

@KB-hf3ym

3 жыл бұрын

Old

@richardrivas3294

3 жыл бұрын

When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash

@ThingsILove2266

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly- don’t deny a man the hunt

@richardrivas3294

3 жыл бұрын

@@ThingsILove2266 very correct miss!! Where are you from?!

@CrystalDatingCoach

3 жыл бұрын

Mom is right! Your the Prize...let him TRY to Win you!

Thank you so much! That’s just what I needed to hear!

Great video! Very well-articulated

Nice! I like your videos, thank you for sharing.

Thank you! Happy fourth of July!

I love your stories they are so helpful and they show your enthusiasm for your work! Thank you, I truly enjoy listening to your videos

@richardrivas3294

3 жыл бұрын

When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash

Oooh, 😮 this helped sooo much! Thank you! 🙏

I have made quantum leaps forward recently and want to continue in that realm of finding my Voice. Vulnerability, confidence, compassion. Just being me and having fun. I have a man. My story involves the death of my husband of 37 years, my grieving, and now this move forward into a new and expressively freer relationship. To me, I have learned over the years with my precious husband that what is most important is sexual intimacy and that is linked closely to personal intimacy. I am discovering, as in a journey, in my new relationship how to carry ME, who I am, authentically and vulnerably. A whole new world!!

Oh this is exactly the affirmation I needed at this moment, Mat.

I so do those things you said.... I’ve been shielding for 4 months it’s knocked my confidence .... my revolution would be to stop over caring about people who don’t show care back.... But it’s a HUGE ask, like learning a whole new way to be?! 😳Thanks Matt have a fantabulous 4th of July 🤗

@clairexxx0405

3 жыл бұрын

@Steve H Thank you so much for your support and I know your right, I think having being in a abusive relationship effects how you think of yourself and losing my Beautiful little boy impacted that greatly as grief does, thanks again 🤗 x

@richardrivas3294

3 жыл бұрын

When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash

Matthew you’re so inspiring. !Do you have this boyish sweetness about you. Very unique. Love for people. Thank you for your Encouraging videos that make impact in our lives

What an advice man... thankyou and hats off to you matt!! 💘💘🌹🌹

Thank you for sharing such great tips,u have motivated me n helped me shaped my content. I believe if I share this on my channel they will love it. Thanks math

I love all your video Matt :), thank you very much.

I’m so annoyed I just found you!!! I’m binge watching your videos your incredible and just helped me through a really messed up connection. Thank you so much you gained a follower 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

@SandraHernandez-cl1if

3 жыл бұрын

Do you really need help to restore your relationship permanently?

Matt. I’ve been following you for years. I used to watch your videos all the time. I’m in love now yet he is so insecure. He brings out a side to me I never knew I had. Love is wonderful and your advice is amazing, yet men have issues too and I wish they had a friend like you.

@swinxfee

3 жыл бұрын

How has it been going?

Literally so glad I found this channel

Great video Mathew😊😊

love it, thanks Mat!!

Can you do advice videos for single mothers? I just feel that when a woman has a child it changes the rules of the dating game and makes it that nore challenging.

@rebeccaeichornerdiakoff9883

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed! Please! 🤗

@shelleysanders9666

3 жыл бұрын

I agree: the relationship advisors on Toutube don't give specofic advice for single parents (nor the older age group of age 50+ daters)..

@LouiseSantiano

3 жыл бұрын

Hugs momma

@foxerrr7864

3 жыл бұрын

Yessss

@rowenaramsaran6568

3 жыл бұрын

Hey Sis, find a way to mention that you have a child, in the first convo or day. You & your child/children are a package deal. They can't have one without the other. Some may run, & although that doesn't feel good, Know that it filters the candidates that are not for you are your kids. Someone may really like you but 1)not be prepared to deal with the nuances that comes with dating someone with kids 2)being with a partner with children that are not his may not be part of what he wants for his life (nothing wrong with this, his goals are valuable to him). Sometimes hearing that the person you're interested in has kids may take you by suprise but if there is a mutual interest, budding and great chemistry there, you'd want to study the person & would become genuinely interested in the well-being of the person's kids. Gradually becoming emotionally invested in them as individuals instead of only the fact that they're your kids. Eg. E🌻 & N🎸 meet, discover a mutual attraction & chemistry. N mentions having a kid. Took E by suprise but N wasn't ashamed of or trying to hide his kid to draw E in (he doesn't know if that's a deal breaker with her or not). E wasn't expecting that but appreciates N was honest from early about such an important subject. He in fact earns a bit if her respect for being honest. E has never been in that situation before but decide to get to know him better. They develop a friendship & E learns about both N & his daughter. In fact, begins to study N & his daughter (through listening attentively & asking questions). Friendship, mutual attraction & chemistry deepens, grows into something more. E appreciates, respects & treats N & his kid as a Team. Respect, appreciation, admiration, & love develops on both sides. E becomes emotionally invested in N's daughter. N is extra careful not to jump the gun & introduce E too soon to his daughter. E understands & respects that timing is delicate & crucial, so she doesn't push him. When N reads his daughter & the timing, realizes they're ready, then introduces E to his daughter. Going in, E protects their peace of mind... and especially her own. Realizes that daughter may not even like her(because E is not her mom), but N loves her (E) & she (E) is willing to invest in a relationship with his daughter. How that works, depends on the adults. It's not easy & honestly, it's not for everyone. Trust your intuition, Momma. Let him earn a place in your life but don't treat him as though as long as he is willing to invest & whatever he is willing to invest is the cost of admission, so to speak. If he is still interested in you, as a person, when he is told you have kids, then appreciate him for it. This is just one perspective from someone who doesnt have kids but deeply values a person who was honest that he has a kid. It's not a deal breaker for everyone. Know your worth, Momma & be willing to walk away if dating a single mom is not what he wants for his life. He wasn't right for you & there is someone who is. Develop a friendship for a while to learn what he is really like beyond his words... you get to see his true attitudes & perspectives.

Make so much sense ... love listening to you 😍

I have been watching you on KZread for a long time ! You great 👍🏻

Awesome video Matt! Time for change👍🏽

Haha young Matt’s reaction to his grandma’s advice versus now 😅. I think the concept of not chasing the woman you think people want you to be is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.

Thank you Matt your advices did help me so much in my life .

Very helpful videos dear, thanks a lot for sharing this video

Mat, I loved your Revolutionary Plan! Have always enjoyed your videos and insight. I am also a big believer in listening to your gut. The gut is never wrong, and has protected me from harm. When dating, it is critical to listen! I hope all enjoy the day! ☺️

I noticed while watching this video, I'm slowly transitioning between chasing to be chased. I'm starting to project who I am, but I still have times where I want to become somebody else to please certain men. Really thinking about it, I have noticed some men chasing me, and I'm letting go of men that I chased after. It's really quite the vulnerable moment. Although I have always wanted men to chase me, I sort of find it scary? Emotional growth - the most sought after yet scary development.

Hooray for Meredith! What a fantastic example! Great advising for reminders that we forget over time. Isn't it amazing the level of low treatment we (men & women) are willing to put up with? My courageous action is to be single for a while & work on myself more! I'd love to end/stop the insane perceived need of ppl to be BUSY all the time so that they could truly enjoy & cherish their time together.

I love this view into your garden with these beautiful red flowers in the background...had to listen a second time😂

Most definitely. Thank you!

Wonderful advice ❤

I find your methods so soothing.

Great video! 💯

Amen thank you for this new clip 😊😊i feel asif its me.

Thank you Matt! Its brilliant and beautiful! 🙏🙏🙏

Thank you so much from a woman (58 years young) in Northern Germany :-))

Nice thought with the chasing! Love that!

Hi matt can u make a video where you can advice people who's in LDR to stay connected and strong despite of this pandemic

Thanks Matt for the awesome tips. Just realized I need to stop chasing the version of myself I want and BE that Confident high value woman that I am. My revolutionary is I want to create is to allow my man to chase and pursue me like he already does😄

I binge watching your videos and you are amazing i always smile and just be like awww you nailed so many points

You're the best Matt. Thank you.

Wow recently I’ve had an Epiphany about needing to love myself first so I can set my standards and find a relationship I can actually be happy in. Then I see this video in my recommended 💕

@faithm9284

3 жыл бұрын

Confirmation. ; )

@CrystalDatingCoach

3 жыл бұрын

If you don't love yourself...you can't expect others too.

Thank you for sharing am in call for freedom stage now😃

I really appreciate all your videos! The help, the insight, the encouragement, it's incredibly assuring when I'm feeling lost or confused. Single or dating I'm trying to learn and open my heart, trusting that what's right for me will find me. Keep being amazing Mat!

Man, I love these red flowers in the background. Please give my regards to the person that ist taking such good care of the plants. Great job! ❤

I’ve been wanting to say something but I’ve been afraid of seemed angry or needy, but this video motivated me to speak my mind.

This was so insightful. 😄

If nothing changes... nothing changes!! OMG!! I love that so much!! I’ve been following you before you were married. You are always SPOT ON for insight! Had the opportunity to meet you in person at an event and will never forget your hug! One of the BEST hugs I’ve ever received. You are genuine and gifted in your wisdom and caring for people. I admire you and respect you as a person, man, husband and especially as a father! WOW! Wish the world had more men like you in it! Thanks, Mat for being such an inspiration and coach to so many! I’m a happier woman for who I am because of your influence! Happy 4th! Celebrate well!

Wow, I’ve heard this concept before, but the way you said it awakened some parts that I didn’t realize have needed love and attention. Maybe my guy will rise up to love those essential areas or maybe another man will be manifested... i feel grateful for your time love and energy in researching and sharing such important keys to love in ways that are easier to hear 🙏😍

Greatreminder. Repetition is the mother of knowledge.reprograme our subconscious! Thanks Mathew.

I like your choice of words. Easily communicated and comprehensible.

I'm a hopeless romantic, I don't connect with many people. It has to be a deep connection beyond looks, or physical. The problem is, I see the good in people and overlook their issues, ignore the red flags, and because I'm a people pleaser, I need more boundaries! I need to stop accepting bad behavior because I see potential. Sometimes I feel like my mission in life is to love the unlovable. Ugg

Good point。Thankyou， sir。

I was being myself standing up to someone was picking on another person that's what made him love me

I met the love of my life on a dating site as well. I have met him once before lockdown. After that its all virtual. But this really helps us to know ourselves better into a deeper level. Strong bond was developed. When meeting friends with social distancjng allowed we dated but 2 meters away as well. But that makes us feel of chasing each other. I think the most important thing in a relationship or meeting someone on a date or in a site no pretensions. Just be yourself. Dont step into the level where you should do this so they will like you. Me i showed who really i am. Being you is you for them to accept no matter who we are.

@ryanarket9082

Жыл бұрын

May you please suggest this dating sites, I need a faithful husband

Great video. I did have a big "fed up" moment myself recently, and I can see how important what he says is. I did start trying to date all kinda different men and giving them more of a chance. I guess the other steps are still ahead though! I would love to date more and meet more quality men that could be into my kinda lifestyle. I am trying to give myself options and not do my usual mistake, to put everything on one man that i have a thing for.

@LemansSunset350

3 жыл бұрын

You sound exactly like me lol

@donnacummins6904

3 жыл бұрын

I ended up hurt by a guy I was pursuing. I was told he was shy and was continuing this pursuit. I felt he liked me. I turned away guys who like me because I didn't want him to stop talking to me and he seemed jealous if I did spend time with others Kept waiting for the date. Never happened. Last time I saw him, he instead was pursuing a young attractive blonde. I put my life on hold. Should never had done.

thank u for the tips sir

You are an absolute gift.

I’d love to end the silence and no contact and be able to jump forth to the talking stage and hanging out going on little dates getting to know eachother again !

Love your advice 👍😉

You are awesome!! So glad I found you!

@maxscot4236

3 жыл бұрын

Hello I can recomend you to someone that helped me get my ex back recently he can also help you just as he did mine too

@maxscot4236

3 жыл бұрын

Text him on WhatsApp and

@maxscot4236

3 жыл бұрын

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I love this encouragement, Even though I already do this & have too many men chasing after me almost every where I go, & I'm not even that beautiful, well, I don't think I am.. my honey disagrees, though. & I never act on those other chasers.

Thanks Mat!

Finding this video is my inciting incident, time for change thank you Matt 😊

Happy 4th day to all Americans! Coming from a windy and cloudy UK.💚

Hair looks awesome Matt and that blue shirt is great color on you

Thanks Matt. I have a long-term on-off friend / boyfriend. Currently we are apart because of social distancing. We are very different and maybe not entirely suited but we do have quite a deep emotional bond. I I do believe he loves me in his own way and does not have another partner, but I don't think he wants to step up and be a proper boyfriend. He always talks about really intense serious subjects so that I can't easily change the conversation on to something as mundane as what I want from my relationship! When I do raise the subject he will give me an ambiguous reassurance and then get off back onto some subject to do with politics, economics or the arts.

That’s my line too! If nothing changes nothing changes

I feel really blessed that I I subscribed your channel uncle.......................... love from India 😍😍😍😍 thanku so much ur making me more better day by day

I love the revolution metaphor!!

Well said!!! Soms voelt het alsof je je perspectief kwijtraakt.Maar als je dan wat beter kijkt,zie je dat zich juist op zulke momenten nieuwe mogelijkheden openbaren.Om te groeien heb je af en toe een periode van reflectie nodig,zodat je nieuwe kansen ziet die je anders nooit had opgemerkt of zelfs helemaal niet voor mogelijk had geacht.OP NAAR EEN NIEUW HOOFDSTUK.

Nice video. What you describe in step 2 and 4 I call "a good girl syndrome". I was so guilty of this and even after my revolution I sometimes forget and do that again. And again and again a reaction from universe is that things go wrong, everytime. We women are taught to be caring and sharing, but nobody tells you that you should do that on your own terms, and especially nurture yourself in a first place. Be your own source of love, wisdom and happiness, because otherwise you cannot care and share. Empty bowl cannot feed anyone. 😉

happy to find out I already have entered into the revolution! I had a developmental epiphany and realized I do not want to be in a relationship with those that are difficult to be with and have toxic behaviors. So I’ve reduced back my relating to family who treat me that way.

@amberjones3221

2 жыл бұрын

Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

@amberjones3221

2 жыл бұрын

Message him on Whatsapp

I need a revolution for sure. Thanks Matt

I love this revolution aspect! 😀

You are amazing and honest love that ❤

This is an eternal truth of life . If we want our life to change, WE need to change our thoughts and behaviors.

Your the best! 🙌

Thank you

Matthew, I love your points about revolution! I get it! Thank you! What a great template! I can use this for myself, in my spiritual guidance to others journey, and it will serve to help me in my providing guidance to women business gleam in my eye. P.S. I learned about what facilities paradigm shifts from reading Marilyn Ferguson's "The Aquarian Conspiracy"...just another word for revolution. If you haven't read it, I'd bet you'd love it...warning...it was slow reading until I got it...once, I did...it changed me.