5 Mistakes that Make a Man Pull Away (and What to Do Instead) | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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When you’re looking for your Mr. Right, you want someone you can be yourself with…
You’re looking for that deeper connection and mind-blowing passion…
And you don’t want to worry about accidentally saying or doing something that turns him off or gives him the wrong impression.
There are some missteps you can make in the beginning of the relationship that sabotage you.
And that’s what I’m talking about today…
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1. Over investing too early 2. Seeking validation 3. Shaping yourself to get him to like you 4. Declaring you're in love too early too fast 5. Needing labels too early
@drfifteenmd7561
2 жыл бұрын
I for sure did 1 and 5 😂
@debramcmartin905
2 жыл бұрын
All the things I did in my last relationship. Working on myself to.make sure the next one won't be the same.
@shrimpofaesthetics3643
Жыл бұрын
I did these meee here.....he started to take me for granted and now i brokeup with him .....hope i don't behave like this with the next one
@lisamorales3914
Жыл бұрын
Well for me, until it is clear, I’m not having sex with anyone. Know your worth.
Inconsistency. That makes me pull away easily.
@shashtamaharaj3489
2 жыл бұрын
Omg me too, i had a conversation with a guy i have known for some time, he was asking why we never solidified our connection, simply put i told him he was consistently inconsistent and that caused me to keep my distance, he agreed he had been.
@yall2743
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, and so fast he'll feel his butt hairs burn
@SetsoAmantle
2 жыл бұрын
Listen, I started talking to a guy who claimed he was interested in me but he took almost a full day to reply bcuz he's "held up most times" and "is not a big phone user." I stopped talking to him in a day and a half, I don't have time to waste.
@b.jerelljones7312
2 жыл бұрын
@@SetsoAmantle I agree if someone, male or female is into you, they will make time for you. 👀🤷🏿
@BooDotBoo
Жыл бұрын
Ugh, yes. Inconsistent people, in general, make me pull away. If I’m having to guess things, like hearing from you, it makes me confused and confusion makes me pull back, so that I don’t feel confused; I feel better. And if I feel better when you’re not around, well, I start to want to be without you.
A man who is self centered, or controlling. I learned the red flags of a narcissist by being involved with one for 20+ yrs. Run ladies. It only gets worse as you become more involved. Years later I met a wonderful man who is perfect for me. 5+ yrs now. Very happy.
@boomerangsruckflug8513
2 жыл бұрын
Well said, Cindy 😉👍
When a man says he is going to do something and doesn't follow through I can give one or two chances but strike 3 and your out. When a man doesn't appreciate the little things I do. When a man is all about himself look the other way
@abigealmayowa1001
2 жыл бұрын
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2 жыл бұрын
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@catherinebright7420
Жыл бұрын
This happened to me early in a relationship, where we promised to be completely honest with each other, and that was something we both valued highly! I called him on not doing what he said he was going to do, he got a little fluffy at first, and then got a hold of himself and then completely apologized. That apology, when I was not easy on him at all, grabbed my heart! He is turning out to be a high value man of his word, that I appreciate more every day!
What makes me pull away is when my man is insecure about himself, seeks repeated reassurance of our relationship, is jealous, is dominating to such a degree which limits my freedom and independence.
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2 жыл бұрын
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2 жыл бұрын
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@kathystoneburner4947
2 жыл бұрын
Amen, Amen, Amen!!!!
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2 жыл бұрын
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2 жыл бұрын
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1. Too intense, too fast. That makes me scared of a man. Why are you in a hurry? Can't you set a date in 3 days, no, you have to meet tomorrow. 2. He asks about my projects in life or what I like and then he puts it down, or worse, tells me it's not a goal and what I should do. 3.He gets physical too fast. Touches with his hand on my body when I'm not even there yet. 4. He can't stop making everything about him. 5.excessive bragging. 6. He doesn't respond to what I talk about, but starts talking about something completely different. 7. He assumes too much. 8. Too self assured that he is the hottest piece in town. 9. He starts telling bad jokes. 10. He drinks way too much
@jeannetteurena1223
2 жыл бұрын
Run!!!
@yall2743
2 жыл бұрын
@@jeannetteurena1223 haha yeah! Totally. I just gave examples of what puts a girl off on a date with a guy.
@yt7377
2 жыл бұрын
These behaviors look a lot like a narcissistic person.
@yall2743
2 жыл бұрын
@@yt7377 yez, but the topi. Is : what scares you about a man. I could say Narcissist behavior, but better to show other girls what the red flags are.
@yt7377
2 жыл бұрын
@@yall2743 yes, everyone should be scared by narcissistic behavior and run immediately!
“Giving him the opportunity to invest.” YES! I finally caught on to that in my current relationship (going on a year) and the reward for us as women is incredible. While the waiting may seem hard for the moment, your mind is so much more reassured when you let him take initiative and then you get to reward him with your response. There will come a time where you can give more, but still give him space to pursue. It’s the best and the sweetest that way :) Let him pursue in his way. Of course ask for your needs too…something I’m still trying to figure out! And manage expectations :)
@rachelmoss1493
Жыл бұрын
Love this, but what if he doesn’t take the initiative after 10 months? I’ve accommodated him and given him space time and lots of patience.
@laurad2386
Жыл бұрын
@@rachelmoss1493 then he is showing you who he is - and if that's not what you want, it's time to leave and find someone who better matches what you desire.
Also. In my case I fell in love with my guy over a month before he told me. But I let him be the first to say it. And I think he fell in love with me way sooner…just needed to find the right time and way to say it. It was perfect and I’m SO glad I waited for him to say it.
what causes me to pull away from a man: 1. Being unreliable (constantly being late; not following up on what he says), 2. Being disrespectful (swearing, name calling, ignoring me in public), 3. Being overly flirtatious with other women when I'm with him, 4. only talking about himself, 5. being too unpredictable and pushy, 6. being overly "feminist" (not holding doors, insisting every time that we share the bill, etc.).
I pull away when the man slacks. I've been in a relationship where he started off strong (he was active, respectful, fun, and he was proactive in life). Then as soon as he feels comfortable and earns that label, all of the things that drew me to him, fall by the wayside. He became inconsiderate/disrespectful, lazy and slobbish, didn't have fun anymore and sucked the joy out of life with constant negativity, and finally he became stagnant in life. I was in that relationship for years, even sticking by his side for a year while he was being ugly. I gave him the chance, until his negative attitude was transferring onto me. I'm guilty of #1, btw.
Thank you for the advice. I've been married for 15 years and honestly, I don't know how to "behave" on dates.
1. Over-investing too early (instead give him the opportunity to give to you. 2. Seeking validation or putting ourself down (instead own your worth). 3. Shaping yourself to get him to like you only sharing the parts you think he’ll like and not your uniqueness (instead be yourself so the right one gets to discover you). 4. Declaring your love too early (let him lead the emotional pacing and don’t outpace him here. You lead the physical). 5. Needing to define the relationship without giving it the room to breathe (instead give it the time it needs to define itself). Ha! I did all of these with my best friend early in the friendship. How embarrassing. Good thing he’s a good man who could handle all that and stick around through and past it. I’ve never had such a good relationship in my life (friendship or otherwise) so I’m glad I got through it too or I’d have missed out on someone and something so precious to me.
@genomeara6922
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for listing the 5 points. It’s great to have a summary!
@angelcdp
2 жыл бұрын
@@genomeara6922 you’re welcome. I wasn’t sure if I should in case it’s not helpful for the person who posted the video but for me, sometimes even after watching a video through a couple times I don’t remember what the points are (I really like this man’s videos because it makes it clear. Some don’t at all) so I wrote them for me, and once I was done I figured I may as well.
So glad to hear ALL of these! Wish I had them a few months ago!! 🙏
Will be rewatching this! Lots of great advice.
This was so helpful! Thank you
It is so true. I enjoy how you present your sessions, giving visuals, your sincerity is warm and welcoming. Thank you.
That is great!! You prevented me from making a few mistakes. Thank you
I have heard these rules multiple times, but never it was so convincing, well done!
Thank you so much Mat, the first one I SOOO relate and I am going to keep it close to me to remind myself to allow the other to have the opportunity for them to invest me.
REALLY helpful Mat, thank you! I tend to dive in too quickly. Once you do that, there’s no going back!
Thank you so much for this! I think lying is one thing I can’t forgive.
I appreciate how positive your videos are and light
Thank You much for this video this exactly what happens to me, now understand and learn how to handle the situation .
Thank you. I am in the habit of giving everything right away. And they run away. You're good, nice, but they run away. I didn't know where I was wrong.
Great helpful video! Thanks♡
I guess, when a guy wants to pull away, then it simply means that he doesn't want to go any further because he actually didn't fall in love. However, if the two had a great fun together, why not continue as friends? Friendship is much underrated. I hope to start out as friends with my future partner. There's no pressure on doing lovers' stuff since there's no relationship goal. However, if a guy is afraid of commitment or he doesn't want to put a label, he certainly qualifies for eternal friend zone.
Great video!
Thank you
Dear lord, I’ve done all of these mistakes. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ Wish I watched this sooner. Oh well, better late than never. Thanks Mat! Love your work! It helps a lot! 🙏🏽✨💕
What makes me pull away from a man is drinking, over excited about my projects and taking over them. Helping is awesome we all need help sometimes taking over is a no no
@oliveblack6801
2 жыл бұрын
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Very nice video
Really good information/ summation as always, thank-you Mat for all your work and videos! Crudeness is what would make me pull away. Being authentic is really important of course, but don't forget your manners!!
Thank you so much.....much needed advice
@idowutoyin1200
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When I first start talking to a guy, if he persists on telling me that he isn't a cheater and that he always does everything for the girls he dates, but is always the one to get hurt, then I will walk away. When a guy comes off insecure or victimized, I can't help but know that he is a mental case and that is why he is single. I will instantly turn away from any guys who is classless, disrespectful, and vulgar. That is a huge turn off. Guys who objectify women and are constantly looking at other women and talking about how hot they are, disgusts me greatly. Also, if a guy is a constant drinker and has to get himself sauced every night, then he is definitely not for me.
Great analogies! That’s really helpful.
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This one REALLY helped me Mat. Thank you!
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This was so on point for me. I recently started a relationship with a WONDERFUL man (about 6 weeks ago). Based on what he has told me about his past relationships (major ones) they were verbally and physicaly abusive towards him. So, I thought if I showed him my true self (totally opposite of his past women) that would be the way to go. Well, I think as you said to much to fast. I don't feel that it is over but I do feel him pulling away some and possibly making excuses for me to come over. Well now it has been a week and a half since I have seen him. I have talked with him just have not seen him. Now he thinks he has Covid so yeah it'll be awhile before I see him again. So, I guess I need to heed your advice and pump the brakes. Thank you so much Mat!!
I know regarding wanting to be yourself when dating I think a lot of people go into what I like to call interview mode like they're interviewing for a job
This is totally ME!! 😫
When he says ilove you right away
When a man tries to talk into sex really early and doesn't honor my boundary that it's not my personality or choice to do that. Trying to push that boundary is a deal breaker.
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Now I get it! Great content.
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Mat, I just love you (spiritual love !!). You are so funny and such a good speaker. Your work has helped me a lot and I haven't even opened yet what I purchased from your program. Love the comparison you made in the begininng. I love to dance so I guess I have to transfer that skill to learning to be a good dater!
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This was very helpful
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So I struggle with communicating to my man what I need. Even when I express it in a loving respectful way he shuts down and “feels like a failure” rather than just accepting what I need. Which is weird bc men love sex suggestions but anything else destroys their confidence
What makes me pull away is the way they sometimes treat me. Don’t tell me how wonderful I am one minute and then try to make fun of me the next.
Well said
I have to say the dance example you said is really amazing.
@nwokorotheophilus2213
2 жыл бұрын
Hello sweetheart never give up on the one you love... know of a man who can attract back your ex. He was the one who brought back my ex ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my relationship with him.
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Number 4 and 5 are the best tips for me. Letting him set the pace allows me to truly know if what I think I'm feeling is genuine. Whilst also observing his actions and behaviours, and how it makes me feel?
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Brilliant
@ramonak2497
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
When he talks and texts sexual at the beginning and he doesn’t know you yet. Shows he wants one thing.
@oliveblack6801
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i am in a relationship with my twin flame, i can't even begin to say how this is different from any relationship. so much strange an intense always!!!
Mat you are amazing❤️💯👌
From my own experiences, men who move at this pace (who say all the right things, want a label right away) have been the ones to end our relationship after the honeymoon stage--because I don't move at this pace. I need space and time too.... And good riddance because this only made space for my husband to eventually come along.
I relate to around half of these or a bit more 😂😓 Now I get itttttt
@ramonak2497
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
I think it’s important to continue being yourself bc people can sense someone who isn’t authentic and that’s a turn off
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You are discussing one of Matthew Hussey’s mentions- the bliss pint. You actually used his same words.
I missed your: I appreciate you 😉
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BTW, I love salsa dance. I needed to hear/learn from this video after 6years of marriage. Seeking validation was worth mentioning. Man with body/mouth odour
I recently started dating again and have been doing the online thing. I was talking to this one guy for about a week, we were texting and talking on the phone. He seemed like a nice guy and all, but then if I didn't message him for a couple of hours he would be texting me "Are you ok?", "I miss you", "Do you miss me" etc. I hadn't even met the guy yet, needless to say it completely pushed me away and I stopped talking to him.
@katejobi9663
Жыл бұрын
It happens to me too so many times I'm online dating
Hi Mat! Can I just ask, when is it the ideal time to ask about your status in a relationship? Four months? Half a year? A year? At the age of 49 I don't really want to waste my time.
What made me pull away was when a guy I had gone out with on the second date said to me, “ everybody is going to be surprised that I got you”. When he didn’t have me it was only our second date in a weeks time.
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I pull away when he only cares about his interests and wants nothing to do with mine. Very discouraging. I adored my late husband, and truly enjoyed participating in his hobbies with him, but he never would try my favorite things. It was very frustrating!
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Mat, you are a really good speaker and just love listening to you. Actually it's been more than 2 years I'm in a relationship after my hubby passed (almost 10 yrs) I love this guy so much. He is a loving and caring guy but he don't really like kissing...so there is really not much kissing in our relationship Mat. He is not a romantic guy but I love him Mat. Another thing is that when I touch him, around his tummy he gets a kind of an electric shock and there are times when I hug him while we are sleeping... I wake him from sleep when I hug him. Mat please tell me what should I do....Jen
How do you fix this if you’re guilty of any of these? Can it be saved?
🎶 “Why it gotta be so complicated” 🎶
Being too familiar/intimate too soon. Such as using “pet names” within the first few days we are talking. Saying good morning and goodnight before we’ve even met. Complimenting my appearance in a first message. I know you think I look good or you wouldn’t have matched and spoken to me. Being sexual or trying to talk about sex too quickly. I remember I was talking to a guy and within a few messages, he was asking me if I was in bed and what I was wearing to bed. I stopped matching with men too late in the evening, so, hopefully, they aren’t tempted to ask.
What is too early? I’m not asking for labels but I’d like reassurance: 1. You discuss intentions in the beginning on first date or second. 2. Reassess or revisit around month two if there is uncertainty or if things are unclear if you’re dating exclusively or interested in taking things further. I don’t see that s as an issue.
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Жыл бұрын
I think if a guy gets physical with you, it is better to hey call for timeout and get some clarity unless you have absolutely no problem with just being a friend with benefits with him. If you aren't, then it is time to set things straight.
My question is…….what do you suggest is a reasonable and specific time frame to follow before having the discussion of putting a label on a relationship with someone??
@Esmeralda-jt2bg
2 жыл бұрын
I’m wondering the same… I’m almost 4 months in, it was brought up once, and he said he doesn’t know yet. I’m not sure when to just pull away!
@georgialee6755
2 жыл бұрын
I would say six months is a good time. What’s more important is establishing an emotional connection and or making sure you have some of the same qualities. It’s not really the label that matters but if he sees you as possibly the one. You both can put the label on the relationship but it doesn’t fully mean anything unless your the one for him and vice versa
@queenjee8570
2 жыл бұрын
@@Esmeralda-jt2bg it's confusing for sure I can relate
Was that a glitch at about 11:30+? The subtitles were not aligned with Mat's words--something about Michael Scott and photo-shopping a photo of your ex....? Love Mat's videos! (Haven't ever seen this happen before--just a heads up.
A guy told me he was worried I would get bored of him, turns out it’s cuz he believes he is boring, and I can’t do boring so it went no where
Oh oh! Investing too early: done it, been there. ( now I see di enjoys cooking together but I'd like to be taken at the restaurant sometimes !) . Seeking validation: been there, done that. No more thanks! Committing too early and leading the emotional pace instead of him: good Lord done that too. Now I understand how nice he his cause he stayed no matter what. 😂 I could feel his fear and he stayed. He is my man
@idowutoyin1200
2 жыл бұрын
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together
@idowutoyin1200
2 жыл бұрын
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@idowutoyin1200
2 жыл бұрын
Contact him
Toooooo attached Especially emotionally when I don't feel the same way 😕 Tooooooo much of callings and putting me on high pedestal and I don't feel the same way 😕
I’m doing a lot of these things but I can’t figure out how to change it😔this all makes sense but I think I’ve already messed up and I’m really happy about this man. Is it too late to try to change now. I’m way too afraid to lose this great guy and too afraid to be alone to act like a normal person. I feel like I’m so screwed
@oliveblack6801
2 жыл бұрын
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together
@oliveblack6801
2 жыл бұрын
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And what a man does to cause me to pull away is says he loves me too quickly. Had a guy do that after two months. That was a big no-go.
So if the man should say “I love you”!first. Leading emotionally first. What if he hasn’t said how he feels after 10 months? (He’s told me he deeply cares for me)
What would you say is the average time to expect a label like “dating” “casual” “exclusive” “committed”. 1 month, 2 months ???
@haleywayne5858
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated 💔 for months. All thanks to Mr Steve whom helped me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
@haleywayne5858
2 жыл бұрын
W-hatsap him⏬⏬ for help....
To me, one of the biggest turn-offs is a man bragging about his possessions and/or financials. I recently went out with an old friend (also divorced) who turned every conversation topic into a way to present something valuable he possessed (10 cars, boats, homes, property, etc.) It just shut down the enjoyment of the evening for me completely.
Like your videos a lot :) Just to let you know: From minute 11.31 the subtitels are really weird and don't match the spoken words anymore... You might wanna check this?
I will pull away when a man starts treating me as an option instead of a priority in his life.
5 mistakes a man commits after marriage 1. Not caring anymore 2. Not caring anymore 3. Not caring anymore 4. Not caring anymore 5. Not caring anymore even if I’m giving it 100%
Hello matboggs, this topic is what my problems, in terms of love. I can't hide my feelings, it's just like I'm sofucating them by my love. I had a feeling that because of that they leave me. What will I do to control of it?
@jeannetteurena1223
2 жыл бұрын
Watch other videos from Mat . Until you find the solutions.
@chibuzochibuzo6297
2 жыл бұрын
@@jeannetteurena1223 Solid reply💪😄
@missgarnett
Жыл бұрын
One of the most powerful tools that you can use is to write out all of your feelings. When you keep them bottled inside, you feel like you're going to burst! So, write everything you want to tell him on a piece of paper, and then rip it up and throw it away. You can write it like a letter to him. Do it every time you feel overwhelmed by your feelings, and you will feel so much better!
What pulls me away? 🤔 Lies, not keeping his promises, and starting to plan my life 🙄
@oliveblack6801
2 жыл бұрын
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together
@oliveblack6801
2 жыл бұрын
whatsazzz him👇👇
@sterntaler64
2 жыл бұрын
@@oliveblack6801 Stop adverts! It's against community guidelines 🙄
What to do when you have already done all of these things and ruined everything and now not in contact but the plus point is he still said he love me but still distant himself saying he have other priorities. I know I can get him back. I have no idea how?? Pls help
Labels too early aren't needed, but what I want to know is, if we've had a few dates and want to get physical, how many others are you at thatcsane level with? Not about a label, more about being a RN and not wanting to sleep with the results of how many others concurrently. So it's a dicey discussion.
@user-ip9fk5ev3i
Жыл бұрын
You would want to know if the guy intends to do some serious dating or just want you as a friend with benefits right? I thought that is not "too early" to want some clarity.
The guy that I was talking to , started having bad communication, I told him that I felt disconnected and he never replied to my message , the last thing I said was that he ever wants to talk he can go to my house and have an adult conversation. I feel that I screwed up and I missed him but he is not texting me
😁😊😎🙏❤️ thanks ✅
My mom hates water lol.
What is better on a first date? When he invites me to a restaurant or if he wants to cook at his home for me?
One of the things that pull everyone of is a very competitive partner who is always competing with YOU.
4:20 !!!
Not sure if you're aware, but you closed captioning is off at the 11:32 mark. It suddenly changes to something that doesn't make any sense. It seems to be talking about the show, The Office
@idowutoyin1200
2 жыл бұрын
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together
@idowutoyin1200
2 жыл бұрын
➕2349155456106♻️♻️🎦🚻你好,親愛的現在
@idowutoyin1200
2 жыл бұрын
Contact him
Negativity is a huge turnoff
It’s hard when I bring up what I enjoy and he hates it.
Can you do a video on guys who flirts around or do all types of shady things, then accusing his gf of been insecure. I know the solution is leave. But from a guys point of view, what are some of real problems and what are things that girls might over analyze.
@oliveblack6801
2 жыл бұрын
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together
@oliveblack6801
2 жыл бұрын
whatsazzz him👇👇
Hello Matt does this rules apply to all men regardless of culture.?
@oliveblack6801
2 жыл бұрын
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together
@oliveblack6801
2 жыл бұрын
whatsazzz him👇👇
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