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I studied ballet, so it was no effort for me to raise my leg to the bathroom countertop to slather lotion up and down my shin. It was purely a subconscious move. But when I caught his expression in the mirror, the look on his face would take a million words to describe. I reveled in that silent moment imagining what was flashing through his mind.

@timeswithamber5236

Жыл бұрын

Did he get intimate with u I do this daily and mine husband could care less

@nataliep501

Жыл бұрын

He sees your stretching abilities 😂

@shellsjourney7069

Жыл бұрын

@@timeswithamber5236 That sounds more like a problem with him than it does you. Of course things are typically not 100% one-sided but I know how it is to have your husband not show interest in intimacy. It makes you turn off this wonderful side to yourself. My ex-husband of 25 years was like this the last several years. I thought I had lost my drive but here I am three years later and….well, it wasn’t because I lost my drive! Good luck to you! I hope things change for you!!

@honestreviews7276

Жыл бұрын

I can do that at 44 years of age and I never studied ballet. Just naturally flexible

@maneewanjantarasakha8919

Жыл бұрын

Y❤a❤😢😅🎉🎉

Just being happy, relaxed, and listen to him

These are all great tips! I found that not taking yourself too seriously helps. If you trip, don't be embarrassed, just laugh. It will make him see you as someone he can laugh with

I think giving him an honest compliment while smiling and looking at him right in the eyes and then giving that soft touch. It worked 🤗

@Priestagege

Жыл бұрын

Just when I was about to loose my lover to another man, this great MAN came through to help with his spells and I'm forever grateful #dragege

Matt I must admit that your videos have helped me so much. It’s the little things that drive them crazy. I was raised/influenced by people who are so caught up in appearances and constantly criticized me. Not being allowed or accepted to be myself kept me in the restricted mode. I currently strut a short faux-hock with my natural gray hair. I get so many compliments and was recently told that my hair brings out my sexy. The total opposite of what I was told; “short hair will make you look fat” & “gray hair makes you look like you just let yourself go.” Needless to say, I have detached from those people (mother & sister) and my life has become so much better. We can’t heal in the midst of those who hurt us. When we show up as our authentic self, we exude confidence and self-love. That is SEXY sisters

@sherrih6375

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!!! I recommend detaching from anyone that doesn't lift you up. If people you share your time with aren't genuinely excited to see or hear from you and be emotionally supportive just ghost them. ❤

@100mfp

9 ай бұрын

I'm so with you on the mother and sister.

@100mfp

9 ай бұрын

@@sherrih6375 Learning about detachment was so important in my life and created such an improvement!

I've discovered that my being cheerful and enjoying the moment is very attractive to men. Especially the thing that I'm not passive in the conversation and can clearly communicate my desires.

Things I do : - I'm comfortable in my own skin sexxxy ( no makeup)etc. - fact I'm confident & diplomatic - Clothes I wear - He finds it sexxxy when I'm just my kitchen dancing & singing to a song makes him laugh ( I can't even dance or sing) - he finds the fact I'm hard to break or " Tough Cookie "

@Goldenheart2911

Жыл бұрын

Love this I agree 💯 it's all about being comfortable in your own skin and being your true authentic self. 💛

It's just about feeling good and enjoying life. I have a lot of sexual energy. I exercise awareness about balancing this energy in a way that men understand it is my own thing and not permission for them to cross my boundaries. When I meet someone with a similar energy, maintaining those boundaries clearly becomes an amazing dance.

Thank you. I appreciate your informative and wise words

Wow!! This is a very productive video. Enjoyed it!

These are really helpful tips. Thanks

Amazing man! Whole video was very meaningful and genuine. We recently met each other for the very first time after 2 yrs and it was just amazing❤️❤️✨ i held his hand for whole the way... It was super super super special moment for us.

Thanks for the advice matt boggs

You have great videos and are very kind ,generous to share all of your insights and any information on men and relationships! Your wife seems very nice and has helped with her insight as well! Keep on bringing it to us!!❤

Matt you hit the nail on the head with the dimples and cellulite! Thank you for being a true, authentic man and being able to talk about the reality of sexuality, dating etc! I really appreciate this! I'm a very nerdy, shy, reserved girl, but I do enjoy feeling sexy with dancing etc. I am trying to work on my divine femininity this way! Also to add, I've talked to my DM about food and we both agreed on a few things ;) hahaha!

@brittaneybaker85

7 ай бұрын

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This was so important and great learning for myself, thankyou

Hey Mat, I love how helpful and fun your videos are, and I'm subscribed to this channel. I don't know of Mercury is still in retrograde and throwing off technology, but the 4 videos I checked tonight of yours had audio, but no visuals, thought you should know! Thanks and please keep these coming, they're great! :) Natalia

You give really good advice. Thank you 😊

Thanks Matt for this video, as a woman who grew up over weight and is no smaller but still curvy I have a hard time seeing myself as sexy. I have learned a lot from watching you for a while now.And you have given me confidence in myself.I have used the little tricks you have taught me to feel more comfortable touching a man and excepting myself as a beautiful sexy woman. Thanks again!

@amyjacob2100

Жыл бұрын

I too am overweight and curvy. I have recently realized that many guys love that! Embrace those curves and love yourself! Also be fun and flirtatious! Men love that as well!

@debb4598

Жыл бұрын

I'm with ya sister! But, I had a swimming date with a man and I found a bathing suit I felt good in and I love to swim. He told me later he thought it was so sexy when I came up out of the water and flipped my hair back out of the way! Who knew?!?

@timeswithamber5236

Жыл бұрын

@@debb4598 sounds like a dream or in my case a fantasy lol

Matt you taught me so much, now I'm settled I want to keep it going, omg need tips because I'm still so shy

thank you sooooo much for saying that a man is not looking at all of the woman's flaws, that they see the total beauty. if we as women can feel confident then the man will pick up on this.

@IndigoHazelnut

2 ай бұрын

And when/if a guy is pointing out flaws (most often than not).. Its a reflection of his own insecurities..

Thank you for your advice

Love this - takes me back to my southern roots and the timeless art of being a lady... above all things.. remember who you are, be gracious, respect others, speak softly, respect yourself, and let the man be the man... thanks Mama! ❤

Holding eye contact!

Thank you Matt for all your awesome advice. Blessings and an abundance of gratitude for you :)

More great advice, thank-you so much for your great videos. One thing my guy would find so sexy was when I would apply lipstick/ gloss waiting for our dinner when we were out. Footsies under the table was fun too, and escalated pretty fast.

AMAZING THANK YOU

When are women going to learn and accept shoes and clothes are not sexy..it's the woman who makes those things sexy..it is about a womans essence,confidence, comfort in her own skin..her allure ..a woman can be buttoned up head to toe amidst bikini models and be the sexiest Woman in the group

You are absolutely correct....🥰

Hi Matt..new subscriber..you make everything sound so easy......being shy...never thought of dressing sexy let alone being sexy......growing up old fashioned...I guess we never think about it much...and most of us are so terrified that we will trip and fall trying to be sexy....lol.. how can you find that after 23 years being single?? ? See you in the next video...

Great video, Matt! What are the other two of the five secrets, please? ❤Thank you.

Love Mat Boggs 💖

Thank you Matt

I have been married to the same man for 50yrs. Just get to know each other if it works it works if not move on.

@jeanholtz579

2 ай бұрын

Best advice ever!!!👍👍👍

My husband and I are vinyl hobbyist so we enjoy a lot of music together. But when a song brings out my inner vibrations I start dancing in my seat. He says it drives him wild. Or when he catches me dancing in the kitchen that just tickles him to death 😁

All great tips 💋

SMILE!!! So simple 😊

I don't think I'm sexy and I used to find it hard to express it. But my man brings it out in me and makes me want to do things that are sexy. The way I dress, or talk to him, touch him, tease him, tell him how he turns me on etc. Such an important part of any relationship.

When I get silly & act like a dork dancing in the kitchen while my man cooks dinner. He says he loves my crazy. Our best dates are at home with him cooking & me drinking & dancing. Lots of laughs.

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Жыл бұрын

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Because I just am with elegance and confidence..well, I am too masculine many times, which is why I learn so much from your videos. Thank you, Matt 😊🙏

Great, great videos Matt

Thank you

Hai Matt, another genius advice from you, thank you❤ by the way, one of the thing he likes and consider me sexy is everytime we make ❤ he stared me in the eyes and i stared him back with my smiling eyes and face.. he said that moment he felt like he owns the world 😊

Good thing we aren't playing a game where we have to drink every time the word sexy comes up ☺️🍺

I have naturally always done these things. Makes sense.

I have been loving your videos and it’s really helping me at the moment - I started to trust again and he let me down 😞

confidence

Mat, this is Sandhya. This is the first time I am watching your video... wow. Great content. These tools are universal in the sense that they are absolutely effective even in a marriage. Thank you for sharing and being who you are. So comfortable in your own skin, in a wild PINK golf shirt.

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Being a full figured woman some men are “😳🥰”with how I gently touch myself (ie a light graze on my fore arm… smooth my dress… ) or handle objects… ( ie picking up my glass and slowly bringing it or the straw to my lips)…how I walk and carry myself… when I “reveal” a smile… I ALWAYS get compliments on my smile… so I DEFINITELY know when to let it shine… and it comes off sexy and sensual… Yummy video… 😉

I do all these things naturally and spontaneously and I never realized it until a few people (including my boyfriend lol) told me that I was pretty sexual with my gestures and my overall way of doing...I can confirm that these techniques work great!! Xx 😚

We both like golf. He really liked that I suggested we play golf on our first date. He said he thought I was so sexy packed into my golf outfit and I had an athletic swing. He wanted to throw me down right then and there on the driving range. Some men like athletic women; they find us sexy.

I will tease him with a funny comment while looking him straight in the eyes and a big smile letting him know I really like him. I currently don't have that special person but that is what I would do if I did. 😊

To radiate that sexy vibe, it comes natural to me, what helps is thinking about how much you want him, imagining the heat of the moment, & the feeling that he senses it, & wants you too. But of course, staying calm, professional, & collected at the same time... Make up, & clothing that make YOU feel sexy, like fishtail eyeliner can help bring on that sexy vibe, & allow you to ooze such confidence the entire day. Every move that you make, every step that you take, body language, keep it feminine! Own it ladies!!!

While I have communicated my opinion on “sexiness” I Want you To know how helpful your videos on online dating and dating on general happen to be.

I can't believe women don't already know all this...... wake up, shower rub lotion all over yourself, do a face mask, music...dance to some music that creates a goddess feeling like Delerium or Lorena mckinett , Sarah Mclaughlin, u will never get him turned on until you turn yourself on..WITH YOURSELF. DRINK WATER, WORK OUT, WALL DAILY, PLUCK THAT UNIBROW, WAX, STAY CLEAN...LOOOOVE YOURSELF.

I'm aware of the fact that I exude sexuality but I've only intermittently dressed in an attractive way because I didn't/don't want to be seen as attractive by the a**holes in my area. It's only when my gift has kicked in, I was aware of the truth of my life, and was aware that men outside of this area are interested have I dressed in an attractive way. I wish most would leave me alone because I know who I want. You gave some good pointers for breaking the ice, though.

Hey Matt! Great video as usual. These things that you're mentioning are things I've been told I do all the time and didn't even know it. I guess I'm just a sexual being. What I struggle with though is the fact that men tend to think that's all I am and expect it from me when I will not give it. I want to know how to still be my sexual self without being viewed as only a sexual woman. Also, I noticed the title said 5 hidden, but you only gave us 3. Did I miss 2 of the 5 hidden ones?

@souluvlai

Жыл бұрын

I get what you are saying…I feel like I KNOW how to be sexy/ sensual… I oooze it… lol but I DEFINITELY am being conscious of the balance of not having it LEAD in my connections… sometimes I have to practice walking differently or talking differently so we can get to know one another because the “you are so sexy…” comes out too soon… I’ve even had a guy I was dating ask me if guys have been distracted by your voice…that it turned him on so much … and I get that a lot… really working on shifting the dynamics….

New subscriber here

He’ll think you want sex, which doesn’t necessarily mean he wants a relationship nor that he’s a good guy.

I tell and show him respect. I also get “the girls” out when he’s had a rough day. I tell him I think he’s handsome.

Your handsome Matt thanks your video

Haha I agree only do this with someone you're really interested in.

Hes taking in ur entire gestalt!

Riiiight! I tried that. But one was a narcissist, one was a psychopath, another didn't want a 'relationship'. Because he was a player.

Men do not focus on any one thing, they are attuned to see the overall woman. They are much easier on you than you are, no doubt!

Hi Matt. Thank you for your video. I have a question. Do you think your technique will work to a guy who just friendzoned me two weeks ago ? Is it too late to try ?

@EMichaelBall

Жыл бұрын

If he’s still single, I wouldn’t say it’s too late, especially if in your actions, it’s subtle. Extra tip he didn’t use: Make very subtle body moves and adjustments in his company, like a smooth shift of a shoulder, or jutting of a hip to the side. Make your body dance, wiggle, move, ever so subtly where it’s not obvious, but he can notice at least subconsciously. Always project your chest out naturally, not obviously, keeping your shoulders and head back. If he complains about any of these actions, you can dial it back for his liking. One exception: If he expresses concerns about mixing friendship with pleasure, you could refer to how Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively were a friendship, first. Elsewhere, so many fantastic relationships start as friendships, and especially as you get older, relationships that are friendship, first will be better than just a good lay.

What’s with mix couple ? Many I’me s don’t work out. The differences are too great culturally

Yes that works OK Matt?

Nice video...In my side of the world most men fear such ladies especially if she did the sexy talk or sensual touch ...

My smile and when I staring at him

Its 3 hidden ways not 5 then! Thanks Mat!

@Helen-jw6yb

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

What does it mean when we have a mental and emotional moment and connect and he sighs and looks at me like he is in love and adores me, but then he is aroused. He said he doesn't understand because he feels connected emotionally and all and it doesn't feel sexual but he gets aroused. Has any man experienced this to tell me what it means or does anyone have an idea why this happens

To keep oneself clean when yr partner is near u .wearing nice perfume.nice body language .staring at person.

If you have just broken up with someone, it’s ok to take your time - before you jump into another relationship. You’re doing yourself a disservice by getting involved with someone new before you’re really ready to commit to another person. It’s ok to be single, you have to learn to accept the fact that there’s nothing wrong with being single - once you have adopted that mindset, things will really start to turn around for you! Cheers!

@jeckabee7916

Жыл бұрын

Agree!

@yourconnection9303

Жыл бұрын

In the meantime, date yourself!💐

@carlosverde-datingtips7001

Жыл бұрын

@@yourconnection9303 I hear ya!

@FlamingCockatiel

11 ай бұрын

Thank you for the reminder.

@carlosverde-datingtips7001

11 ай бұрын

@@FlamingCockatiel no problem!

Hips don't lie as Shakira sings! 😜

you talk about guys liking you no matter what you look like, but everyone in your video is beautiful..

@LanaLeon

Жыл бұрын

They are all average looking…

ok i need some advice... i have a huge crush on my bestie and she knows now and most of what we do is argue now but when she isnt mad she is very flirty and dirty minded (the entire friend group is dirty minded tho so its not a weird trait for us) sometime she teases... like i will flip her off (again... normal in our friendship) and she will say "i love you too" in a sarcastic tone and i get flustered like heck... is it ok for her to be doing this and acting like this with me knowing i have a major crush on her and she doesnt like me back?

@cmuir6757

11 ай бұрын

You sound 17. Go find other friends. She is not your bestie either. Respect yourself.

I heard 3 ways to boost my sexuality but your post states there are 5 ways. Did I miss hearing the other 2?

Honey gets the most flies. I like when men are genuinely, nice to me. Southern Belles like a bad boys sex appeal, but we love a gentleman's mindset. I stay Yoni channeling from a consistent healthy adoration, shown to my lower 3 chakras with little feisty root & sacral flashes here and there. Wearing my Givenchy perfume, here and there. Light sensual caressing or patting of the hand, arm, and face of need be. Definitely some eye gazing.

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Жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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@LM-dl3yx

Жыл бұрын

You catch more 🐝 bee's with honey than vinegar. We're trying to catch bee's, NOT FLIES.

I feel sexy when: wearing stockings and boots, wearing earrings, putting on lipstick ang light make-up, and of course, when wearing nice lingerie and sweet dresses 💋🥰 these are my ways to own my sexiness 😊

And 3 & 4? 🤪

I love when he touches my face when I'm about to sleep, and moves my hair away from my neck

Thanks Matt. I find when a man has a certain cologne it turns me on. Or when he wears certain clothing or when he talks to me in a certain way

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I've got a bit of a boyish figure on top, 34AA, 5ft1, narrow shoulders and upper torso, no obvious hips and a constant bloaty belly but guys say I'm cute, have nice legs and behind... I don't feel good enough let alone sexy. 😢

You describe 6 of the 7 exact ways of my husband. Please post a video on how to handle these lying hypocrites first time viewed

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How to turn off the sexy energy vibes and change it in the lovely and peaceful energy?

@EMichaelBall

Жыл бұрын

Us men find soft, gentle, and sexy energy to be lovely and peaceful.

I usually text this to the new man in my life; "You are amazing...." "You are incredible...." or "You are magnificent...." or "Has anyone told you today that you are.......(choose one of the above)." (Edit: I think he likes it!)

@jeannetondryk4395

Жыл бұрын

You're so funny! Love your shirt! I love your smile!

This was much needed, thank you. Question: How big of an age gap is too much?

@PrancyBiscuit

Жыл бұрын

If you're the older one, i would say as long as they're over 25 (when the frontal lobes are developed) it doesn't matter 😊

@Seven_709

Жыл бұрын

@@PrancyBiscuit lol I am the older and have been attracting much younger then me for some reason. I get pegged at 10 years younger then I am. I just figured at some point it's considered icky, you know?

@Seven_709

Жыл бұрын

@@annwrog Thank you!

@dib3385

Жыл бұрын

@@Seven_709 I was a 45 yr old with a 35 yr old - that was fine - he is now 50 and I am 60 - its still fine lol

@Seven_709

Жыл бұрын

@@dib3385 Thank you! I was with one 15 years younger then me for 5 years. It didn't work out, not because of age but very different up bringing.

Am not sexy and not beautiful so this is so hard for me ..i dont know haw to do this things 😔

Ohh 😮 thats why my bf loves it i like to touch his ears, his face, his shoulders and whisper in his ears when hes lying down just to call him or wake him up ☺️

06:24 a foodgasm

A "man" will see the imperfections and accept you anyway

After being together for 22 years and two kids I definitely do not feel sexy anymore especially since ive put on so much weight. Matt how do I find my sexy back?

@lincolnhtschick

Жыл бұрын

Lose weight and work out. Simple, difficult, but AMAZING.

@LOVEBABY138

Жыл бұрын

Self care. Find new hobbies; go shopping, watch movies, listen to music. Know wgo you want to be abd just be it. It is in you. Only you know how you will feel sexy. Go to hairdresser. Nail dresser.

1:03. And then for the 99.9 percent of us 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

Things that i do, that make the one i want find me sexy.. hm.. had never really thought about that.. because i think it's a subconscious - Conscious act. Well first one of course to make oneself up the pertiest one possbly can with sexy dresses and the pertiest make up. Two, to smell so good. Then 3,, I don't even know what 3 would be for someone who is extremely shy with the guy she loves. ..

how can you keep a man interested in a long distance relationship with just using a cellphone for communication?

@brendajackson4424

Жыл бұрын

Facetime

My boyfriend says he likes dirty talk in like a bratty tone? but i always feel awkward does anyone have any ideas on like what to say? 😂😭 i never know what to say

Who picks out your shirts??

🌙🌙🌙🌙 I don’t need this video Lol no lack of sexiness but commitment.

@marcelo56278

Жыл бұрын

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