7 Behaviors That Make Him Chase You | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and the 7 behaviors that make your man chase you.
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I'm single. Never had a boyfriend. But im watching this in preparation for the so-called future.
@NeelamSharma23500
4 жыл бұрын
Good going girl... My 6 yrs relationship is on stake because im the bumbest and unromantic partner in the world... Now im watching all his videos to save my relationship....
@stefaniemcgivern4519
4 жыл бұрын
Brianna Dy they are not worth it....stay happy first....
@sibongilemadingozi4204
4 жыл бұрын
Same !!
@frenchkiss8789
4 жыл бұрын
Yes girl. Learn to protect your heart and always make sure the man loves you more than you love him. No matter how deep your love is, make sure his is deeper. Have a beautiful life❤️
@laurettetetero3529
4 жыл бұрын
You came to the right place baby💃
One of the best ways to be chased is to not be so available whenever he snaps his fingers. Let him know you like/are crazy about/thoroughly enjoy him, BUT, you value yourself, too. Don't be a convenience.
@Whoeverwhateverwhenever
4 жыл бұрын
Easy to say. When you are crazy in love, you forget about these "rules"
@YoMissyRocks
4 жыл бұрын
So true! Especially when you live together, just started doing this and it works wonders!
@Whoeverwhateverwhenever
4 жыл бұрын
@@YoMissyRocks how can you be unavailable when you two live together?
@YoMissyRocks
4 жыл бұрын
Channel Tools Having “last minute” dinner with the girls, working on yourself like working out or with friends (walks/gym). Joining yoga or some sort of class. Basically just focusing on yourself at times. I feel like married life can get predictable at times, especially with kiddos. But maybe once a month I’ll do something unpredictable at times. Just switching up the routine a bit. And anytime I do something like this he ‘chases’ me more. I feel silly writing any of this lol. I’ve always been against playing little games like this. But some guys need you to take a step back, so they can take a step forward.
@Whoeverwhateverwhenever
4 жыл бұрын
@@YoMissyRocks Once a month yes, but most of the evenings you are with him. We can't play this "hard to get" game every day or twice a week, it's exhausting
Act shy and mysterious, be unavailable and reserved Trust me we love a good mystery
@user-mb9jx5tx9y
2 жыл бұрын
Oh we know this lol
they chased when i gave up on them😂
@cristaljustice4534
3 жыл бұрын
Well that's the point 😉
@shiqimeng8223
3 жыл бұрын
the law of universe
@cherylchia8692
2 жыл бұрын
Always work
@matildadhumxoxo5801
2 жыл бұрын
LOL!!
@lindsaymoussa2118
2 жыл бұрын
Ha! True!
7 Behaviors That Make Him Chase You 1. Touch him like he is fragile. 2. Flirt in a crowd 3. Play footsie with him 4. The unexpected sexy kiss 5. Join him in the shower 6. A surprise massage 7. The thigh slide
He chased me because he forgot that his wallet was in my handbag...LoL
@powerhouse6477
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 I can’t 🤣🤣😂
@bolotabr12
2 жыл бұрын
Good one 😂
@tonyaladd650
2 жыл бұрын
🤣😂
@maryjohann9491
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@dianacoulson4724
Ай бұрын
Very funny
Sadly, these do not work on a man who has no wish to be in a relationship.
@Paigepensiero
4 жыл бұрын
crystals Pang lol
@meliha9828
4 жыл бұрын
🙁🙁🙁
@flower9636
4 жыл бұрын
Well said
@mskatrich
4 жыл бұрын
True dat!
@Eg-jd9zt
3 жыл бұрын
A high value woman don’t even waste her time with a dude who doesn’t want to be with her. Let those types go. Let him earn you. If he doesn’t want anything he isn’t into it. Point blank
Men love when you smile a lot around them
TOUCH HIM LIKE HE'S FRAGILE!!! This is new to me and I just discovered it...glad you verified it for me.
Love this! My husband and I have been married 34 years this summer, we’re in our 50’s and doing many of these simple sweet things definitely keep things fun.
@arturo165
2 жыл бұрын
You are blessed. Good luck and lots of love to you and your husband
@donnapeterson1945
2 жыл бұрын
@@arturo165 Aw thank you, I’m very grateful. 💜
True. Its more to having sex and how to ignite that. I also want to connect emotionally first before the physical.
The title is confusing, because 'chasing' aka pursuing indicates advice for the very beginning stages of dating, yet the advice in the video is for couples in long term relationships. Perhaps a better title would've been 'How to reignite his desire'.
@TilskKarishma
4 жыл бұрын
thank you, thought the same...
@tzukhi
4 жыл бұрын
Right on !
@TheTropics4
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree. This video is for couples already in an established relationship. I would never do those things in early stages of dating.
@ivybanks7936
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Annoying, I clicked off Early!
Unconditional love without any complaints,be a one with whom he can share his feelings,listen him without any judgement
I started watching this channel a few months ago. I have been very happily married for 12 years next month and together for 21 years. It’s nice to know that I have been doing all these things to my husband all along. Maybe that’s why my husband and I are still so deliriously in love and hot for each other after all this time. This is a great channel IMO.
I was smiling the whole time I was watching the video. Mat, you must love your job! And, you're good at it! Thanks for the video!
The gentle touch I think that’s a big one. Guys love it!!
I dated a guy who did not want to shower together. He said showering was very personal.
Your insights are truly incredible. I coach a lot of women myself, as I’m lucky enough to have the awareness of my beauty and worth, but really applaud you on the advice you give. It’s accurate AF ⭐️
Love your relationship building tips and videos Mat! Keep them coming ♥️
These will work when you're in a relationship with the man you want to have "chasing" you. Can't really do these with a random dude.
The difference between you and the other youTubers that are making videos about this topic is that you are real, genuine. You have an amazing energy. True lightworker for sure 😊😊❤️ Do happy for you that you found your wife ❤️🎉😁
I love that you include content for all stages of a relationship. Not just dating, but all the way through to a long term marriage. These are great suggestions. All of them, I’ve tried & tested and yes, they work 😉 thanks Mat
Nice!! Be interested in him in presence. But live your life when you're not in his presence.
Just by making him a priority in your life but, not the only priority! Keep reaching for those goals and being the woman that caught his eye, do not drop everything all the time to be with him. He will respect you and continue to work to be a priority to you. Spend time with your family & your girls (alone), you need to have that time w/o each other as well...it builds a healthy relationship!
@Whoeverwhateverwhenever
4 жыл бұрын
What if he says every day "pleeeease, can we see each other today, even for a couple of hours"? You say yes. After a couple of months he says "it's too much" and leaves.
@vroxxzz
4 жыл бұрын
@@Whoeverwhateverwhenever crystal said be the woman that caught his eye - couldn't have said it better (this is absolutely key, in my experience as well). Carry on doing the things you need to do. He's important but not so important you always drop everything to be with him (he starts to take you for granted if you do this).
@Whoeverwhateverwhenever
4 жыл бұрын
@@vroxxzz I don't drop everything I do. I agreed to meet him in the evening when I got some free time. Should I say no and sit at home instead?
@vroxxzz
4 жыл бұрын
@@Whoeverwhateverwhenever I don't know you personally so I am not in any position to make assumptions- just elaborating on the original poster's comment because you asked 'what if'? Sometimes people take other people for granted just because they are always (or usually)available. You don't have to sit at home doing nothing- you could make plans to do things you enjoy or that you think are important. That way, you have things going on for yourself and that makes you less available for time wasting. You choose who to prioritise and when because you have other things that are important to you. Again, I don't know you, so this isn't specific to you. Just agreeing with crystal knue's point because I've noticed this in my personal life, too.
@Eg-jd9zt
3 жыл бұрын
Channel Tools that’s the thing. You dropped everything. Don’t do this. Let a man earn your time and a space in your life.
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Appreciate this video. Would love more marriage/relationship advice.
perfect yes! thanks for sharing I likes & subscribed
For me it is definitely *"Bee, I love how your mind works...you are so unique"* That is the ultimate compliment I can receive.💋
This video provides great insight into the behaviors needed to make a man chase you. It's definitely worth watching!
Hello Mat, thanks for this video!
You're great Matthew. Good advice💋
Great tips!!! Thank you
beautiful tips thank you Mat
Just started seeing someone and think it might be going somewhere. REALLY, really like him. He says we're on the same page. 🤞🤞🤞
Great video thanks!
These things are short termed... If a man really wants to be with u he will be there no matter what
Thanks for the tips! Though to hook a guy sexually is not an issue, the biggest issues are their emotions and that's where the big problem lies for most of us women! Xmas greetings from Vienna ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@yokedupbra
3 жыл бұрын
I'm a guy here and would love it if you help me understand.
@arturo165
2 жыл бұрын
You can get men to date you but you can't get them in a relationship and even less a marriage.
I have tried some of these techniques. AND they do work wonders😍😍😍😍
Those are great! I feel like do some of those pretty regularly.i I will have to do more of them :)
Lol I feel like if I mouth “I want you” to my man in a crowded place he’d be like “huh? What?” Hahaha 😂
@dorothysmith7226
3 жыл бұрын
Or some other random guy will see you say I Want You! and think you are talking to him??? That would be my luck!!
@TaylorLee
3 жыл бұрын
dorothy smith LOL! Like no not you, him!
@nadiranorjahan
3 жыл бұрын
Facts! Any man! Then the guy behind him will actually get it! 🤣
@tonyaladd650
2 жыл бұрын
😆🤣
@grandmascatsandbooks
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
1-Touch him like he's fragile 2-Flirt in a crowd 3-Play footsie with him 4-The unexpected sexy kiss 5-Join him in the shower 6-A surprise massage 7-The thigh slide
This advice imo is for people in a relationship already. Keep it fun, keep connected etc. Love is more than a feeling. It's an act. Choose to love your partner everyday. If you want an emotional connection, you have to have the conversations, and actions that make that happen. Sex connects but not necessarily or always emotionally. Imo you can have all kinds of chemistry but if you aren't emotionally connected it's just sex. Not making love.
When I asked in our first meeting, just to know him, as we were (surprinsingly and to early!) feeling the same good vibes: "what would be the most amazing place you suggest to date the woman you really love? To have the most romantic, unforgettable date with her, to open your heart and be sure she will be receptive?" My non-verbal attitude to blame, I guess
wow love this message
So so true and the 🔥 is still on high degrees fahrenheit💘 We celebrated our three years anniversary on Valentine's day ... ☺️ Happy days 🎉
My nature of always being happy and cracking jokes.
thank you with this advice
This is golden 🌟🌟🌟
the most unique advice omg
Love this video.
Hi Matt, I literally smiled through this whole video. Great job. I love the suggestion about the "thigh slide," that's so sexy. One of the things I notice I do that causes the man of my dreams chase after me, is when I make eye contact with him and give him a warm smile.
I'm said to be a good teaser, via text or in person, with my words, body language, outfit, and my photos. That made guys I like come back to me. Not giving all of myself at one go, restraining myself just a little bit more, well, I enjoy that to be honest. ;)
Love this
I’m so in love with all of this!!! 😯Thanks MAT!!! 😍
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2 жыл бұрын
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Thanks I'm also a high flyer, I'm so inlie with him thank you to you n your wife n family xx
He needs to be somewhat attracted to you too for these moves to work.
Very interesting ! Thank u.
@MrPerfectTech763
2 жыл бұрын
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@MrPerfectTech763
2 жыл бұрын
Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^
I thought this was a video for singles trying to make their crush chase them lol
@MomoSimone22
4 жыл бұрын
I wish 😔
@silent_whispers319
4 жыл бұрын
ya me too!
@stephaniejudd2056
4 жыл бұрын
Yes! That would be perfect. 😂🥰
@stephaniejudd2056
4 жыл бұрын
Yes! That would be perfect. 😂🥰
@stephaniejudd2056
4 жыл бұрын
Yes! That would be perfect. 😂🥰
Hi Matt, I like your house, nice decor. Thanks for the flirting advice too. 😃
Kudos👍 great information.
@thinkforyourselfjohn3163
4 жыл бұрын
@B B I'm sorry you had to go through this stay strong. Thank you for sharing the following with me. 💗
Eye gazing with a sincere smile
Thanks 🙏
Thank you ❤️
#1. I am definitely good at tip #1.
Compliments on how wonderful he is for the things he does for me.
@wandahaney8125
4 жыл бұрын
Brianna Tyler oh my that’s awful. Sorry to hear you went threw all that. I’m twenty five years married. I would never check up on my hubby at this point. I trust him one hundred percent right now. I like to self improve what my man wants or might like. That’s why I listen a subscribe to this guy.....lol
Wow you know you job ♥️ am loving you video
Love you Mat!!
Being prim and proper doing my job, I feel this guy is going to ask me out
That feeling when you realize you do this naturally, but beleived I was the one who was "off". In reality, he didn't want to be in the marriage. Now Im watching dating videos to relearn what I already knew. This is frustrating.
Why am I watching this I have not even had my first date with him yet.
I love this
I watch your videos because you have a charming voice. At my age it is mainly on scammers alert when it comes to men. 😰
you can be sex kitten, seductive, do all these and men will still NOT commit and chase the women that is cold to him....so I think these behaviors are probably for married couples (where your sexuality is actually secure with him) and he is already very committed and very loyal. if your casual and he already puts you in casual in his head, these are very dangerous moves and he thinks you are cheap/trying too hard/ too sexual and he wants the challenge elsewhere. ......
When you're cooking in the kitchen, he's watching you and you poke out your butt a little extra in a humorous way in his direction and you give him the playful look. Always has him smiling.
You have to make sure he his ready for a relationship before implementing this, if not it might not work for you.
Women need to be recognized also. This as all about how to please a man.
@mysticmoonshyne
Жыл бұрын
Omg stop.
Very true
Always let a man do the chasing but let him catch you sometimes.
@agotacsaszar43
3 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right. 👍
Ty.😊
1. Touch him like a fragile. ( gentle touch) 2. Flirt in a crowd ( hold his gaze and say that i want you) 3. Play footsie with him 4. Unexpected sexy kiss 5. Join him in the shower 6. A surprize massage ( to him or him to you) 7. Thigh slide
@r.h.3532
4 жыл бұрын
@Chuck that's awesome! 😆
@nofybn7794
4 жыл бұрын
Some of these are more already in a relationship, that isn't chasing.
@Haniniha
4 жыл бұрын
The thigh slide followed by a car crash lol
@bridgettesalcido6957
4 жыл бұрын
I suppose if I ever do find someone I'll be ready.....
Thanks, I'll try these on my husband, he might like the touching part, maybe he'll chase after me some more lol. But for single lady who is still figuring out the deal with a guy and new in a relationship, these tips can be a bit too much, If I was dating I would ask questions about his interests without touching him. I would show that i wanna know him more, but I also have my limits and he get the point if he can be the one I can build a relationship and respect him as a husband. I wouldn't give a random guy a chance to chase me for sex only and after sex leave me crying and I end up regretting my choice. the thing that i love and find the most sexy and make me chase him and never get enough of him is when I see my husband praying and have a connection with God, maybe the same is with him because we have the same interest, we connect more on a deeper level. For a relationship to thrive mutual interests and mutual respect is the most important, then comes the intimicy part, the deeper the emotional connection is the more enjoyable the sex is, you don't worry about him leaving you any time soon
@thuanhongdo3408
3 жыл бұрын
So true! Totally agree!
@ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse
2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Keep God in our lives!!! I want my future husband and I to worship God!! Thank you for sharing your advice sis! God bless!! 🤍🤍🤍🤍
Much better video
Very cool
The guy I’m dating is very cold in text, I’m not. I found that if I match his level of coldness, he gets a lot more communicative and chases me more.
We are in long distance relationship,,I can't do that sad but tips are so awesome
Thank u sir
So I do a lot of those things. And he physically pursues me a lot. But I want him to pursue me with conversation and intimate talks he Doesn’t have deep conversations. Is this just a lost cause?
Father,A very Happy Festival Season to you,Mother Boggs,and the Children.May this Season of our Lord bring eternal Happiness and Good Health to you and your loved ones.
we are on a LDR situation,never meet,we talked vcall as much as we can
💖💖💖Those 7 behaviors absolutely work on my hubby. 💖💖💖
I always enjoy your videos, thank you for making them. They've given me a ton of insight into how a male mind works. It's also helped me build up confidence in myself because now I know what I'm looking for in a potential mate, so thank you! Now I have a question for you: How do you go about initiating physical contact with someone you're interested in when they don't believe in PDA and the only time you two spend together is in public? You should also know that the one I'm asking this about is a friend and although I'm attracted to him, I'm also afraid of losing him in that respect. Please help...
@leopardlily3398
4 жыл бұрын
Cassandra Loya what about telling him how you feel when the moment feels right? Let him know the friendship is the most important thing to you and you respect that and don’t want to risk it either way... but that you are also feeling more and wondering if he’s into exploring that w you and if not that you still want to be friends.
@Cassiepaya39
4 жыл бұрын
I have told him outright that I find him attractive and that I like him, but all he's offered me so far is sex and I don't want to be a FWB...so maybe I should move on if that's all he's offering?
@Cassiepaya39
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I can understand that. We have talked about being together physically and he says I wouldn't lose him as a friend but what I'm afraid of is...isn't that what most men say to get the chick in bed before disappearing from her life forever?
That thigh slide really works well 😍
Not sleeping with him right off. When you first start a relationship you don’t need to sleep with your man right off cause he’ll pursue you longer if you don’t. A person with a standard and discipline is sexy.
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3 жыл бұрын
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3 жыл бұрын
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One point i need to make is chasing requires distance. if they’re standing right next to you everyday how does chasing actually happen. Seems like running for time alone is all these suggestions would lead me. And perhaps my perspective is why im still single
I thought these 7 behaviors would be a bit deeper than just the simple stuff. These are at novice level 😅. They're alright but I wanna spark his desires emotionally. Physical is easy for men. They are sexual creatures. The challenge is the emotional part.
@21972012145525
4 жыл бұрын
Totally agree. This should be titled, “how to entice a man” or even “how to get a man to have sex with you.” The “chase” or desire is there, but imo these tips are temporary.
@21972012145525
4 жыл бұрын
Lady Warrior I think the word behaviors should be replaced with actions. #1 is good and can be a consistent behavior.
@Wavesfromthenorth
4 жыл бұрын
@@21972012145525 good point. 👍
@whisperingwind7730
4 жыл бұрын
Lady Warrior I couldn't agree more w/ U!! These are great for creating the "desire" in him to have sex w/ U but nothing much deeper than that. After spending 4 yrs doing these things and wanting so badly for him to chase me it never evolved more than FWB although I love him dearly. So yes although these are fun, flirty and sexy to infact create "desire" unless one can get to a Man emotionally somehow it is has been my experience(s) that he will not "chase" no matter how great the chemistry or sex is. The sex w/ the FWB has been the greatest of my life hence why it was so hard to walk away from. The pain of not being his #1 or even pursued was greater however and more real than the mind blowing sex. I had to ask myself and then choose which was more important to me. Getting what I truly want? This man I'd love to make effort and pursue me or be satisfied w/ mind blowing sex? but not the connection (I DESIRE) 4 yrs is a long time to spend w/ someone, to want more and not get it. I realized if he did not value me enough to try and give, "chase" then I was too valuable for him any longer to waste my time. So yea fun video but disappointed in the shallow advice of it overall. ALL of these I did however it wasn't enough to make him REALLY make the effort , to "chase" for something real. 😔
@ribidimi
4 жыл бұрын
have to agree. love you mathew
These are all things to do when you have him but what do you do if you haven’t got him yet?
Good suggestions....but im so sad...bcoz my someone else is far away from me...i wish i could someday😉
I’m very self contained. I have always earned my own money. Didn’t rely on anyone for what ever I want.
I once read that a soft touch on the seams of a man's arm/leg would make him want you more. So my husband came home from work one day and I tried it. We had little twin daughters watching Barney on tv. He grabbed me and we made love in a nearby room! It was sweet. However, sadly, due to his depression and deaths in his family the marriage ended. I still love to remember that these little touches worked once. :)
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