I'm a former 911 operator. All the way back in the 90s we were trained to treat every call as though it were a real emergency. This call was handled with rank incompetence and there is no excuse for it. In my workplace, this operator would have been fired with cause and I hope that's what happened here.

@scotttaylor9133

4 ай бұрын

Yeah, I'd wager that person isn't doing that job anymore (not that I'm mad either, it's a hard job, just at some points you're not fit for it anymore). This was pretty egregious EVEN IF it was a prank, let alone the fact that there was a real person desperately seeking help on the other end.

@zxyatiywariii8

4 ай бұрын

Exactly! A friend of mine worked as a 911 operator and that's what she was taught too -- always take calls seriously.

@user-nz6bk7lf8u

4 ай бұрын

Not incompetent if they were in on it.

@user-nz6bk7lf8u

4 ай бұрын

​@@scotttaylor9133 ud find an excuse for a child predator.

@kellyg6206

4 ай бұрын

I live in Quebec and the 911 operator told my friend who was being attacked if she wanted help to call back and speak french. I was told as a crackhead was breaking into my place to either wait three hours for an english speaking officer or to leave my apartment. I speak french fluently. The 911 dispatcher didn't like that I had an anglophone accent. Disgusting.

That 911 operator belongs behind bars.

@moondancer4660

4 ай бұрын

I couldn't agree more.

@eddieh299

4 ай бұрын

What law did she break? You sound ridiculous.

@RainyCloudzy

4 ай бұрын

@@eddieh299 clearly not taking any of this serious and could of caused a death

@agentrussco

4 ай бұрын

Talk about incompetence 🤦🏼

@eddieh299

4 ай бұрын

@@RainyCloudzy Thinking a 911 call is a prank is not a crime. She still got the needed information.

She marries one monster and then another one answers her 911 call. 😡

@agps4418

3 күн бұрын

it frightens me. if i had to analyze the mindset, the operator was stupid (failed to realize the potential severity of a call), and entitled (does not value anything other their own time and leisure, which is why they felt annoyed by the call). the scary thing is, these 2 qualities are common. a lot of people can be monsters given the right situation. and that means a lot more people are potential victims.

@Loveior

2 күн бұрын

@@agps4418 great analogy and fact checking

“ do you wanna talk to me or do u wanna deep breath “ that was so disgusting and unprofessional to say

@vivian_joan

2 ай бұрын

Right?! Like obviously i don’t want to talk to you and your attitude 🙄

@jksdo88

Ай бұрын

lol its normal

@jksdo88

Ай бұрын

omg saying to someone they should take a deep breath? Disgusting behavior

@jksdo88

Ай бұрын

smh people nowadays are so soft, snowflakes

@EddieDrawsStuff

Ай бұрын

@@jksdo88it was mocking. “Now do you wanna talk to me or do you wanna deep breathe” as the lady was panting and losing air.

The fact that she was more worried about not traumatizing her kids just goes to show how much of a great mother she is. I'm glad she made it out and the girls were okay.

@zondracarter3022

4 ай бұрын

I agree

@cheanarchist2381

3 ай бұрын

She’s just like me .

@sernity1523

3 ай бұрын

​@@cheanarchist2381lol no

@Tizxxx

3 ай бұрын

KZread just had me rate your comment, strange... rated 5 star and "shows appreciation for the creator" option.

@pencilsniper

3 ай бұрын

@Tizxxx Interesting. 😏 Well, thank you! Lol

Imagine you are in a moment of desperation and from a VERY lucky chance you manage to call 911 and then you realize that the operator thinks this is all a prank.

@mleecthulhu

4 ай бұрын

Unreal, right!?

@keeper6458

4 ай бұрын

I really can't. It gave me so much panic

@bertjesklotepino

4 ай бұрын

Imagine being pulled from under the rubble after a bomb dropped on your house. You have lost both legs. Parents? Dead. And 4 days later another bomb ends your life. I can. It happens on a daily basis at the moment. Sure, sure, off topic. But just as horrible, right? Imagine waving a white flag after having been taken hostage. You see your guys approaching so you go out and wave the flag. You go out naked. And you still get shot. And then imagine the mostly American Settlers who are the most violent over there. And so, no, i have no problem at all imagining this. I also recognize it is horrible that i am saying all of this. And i wish i was imagining all of it. But once you have seen things, you can not un-see them. Imagine if all the people.... o wait, we cant have that. Luckily someone shot him before people came together as one. Call me drunk or what ever, but the world is seriously f word up. In todays world certain people openly call for certain crimes to be committed, and they can get away with it. And so, why not have an operator act like this? Not long from now it will be the operator doing the crime while on the phone with the victim, to provide an alibi. Merry Xmas

@angelachouinard4581

4 ай бұрын

The one that broke my heart was where the young man got trapped under one of those fold down car seats and died. 911 was awful and the cops that did come just sauntered around so casual. It was on camera.

@junglekutz5625

4 ай бұрын

I don't even know what part of their job description requires them to think on such a level that requires making this kind of judgment. As everyone that gets into a predicament isn't going to make sense or think clearly. They're in no predicament at all, and they're still messing up. Personally, I find that saying that they're burned out is a poor excuse. As all that they're doing is taking calls and pertinent information needed to dispatch to officers. How does that burn you out?!?!? .......and if it does, more than likely you cannot handle that job. Time to move on to something that you can effortlessly do, while living Life. No one should have to endure pompus know it alls when it comes to what they've gone through or had to endure. Making a call to 911 is made for help, nothing else!!!

“I’m not a victim, im a survivor. He is his own victim because he tried taking my life away and he just took his own life away from himself.” - Teri Jendusa-Nicolai

@SnansKitty

12 сағат бұрын

so powerful - you know shes a strong woman with just those words

This is even worse than the 911 operator that mocked the woman who drowned to death after she drove through a flooded street and got swept away. What the hell is wrong with these people??

@that1chick535

2 ай бұрын

I live in the city this happened and it still breaks my heart. Nothing happened to the dispatcher because it was her last shift before finishing out her notice to leave to another job. I pray she never got that job.

@amandareed5485

Ай бұрын

It's it's not

@Doggie-125

Ай бұрын

maybe she should've called a water police (not tryna be funny) Or a firefighter

@quionamakesvideos4792

Ай бұрын

@@that1chick535I pray she never finds a job and suffers financially and honestly she should be behind bars

@bradenharris8718

28 күн бұрын

Did you listen to that call? I mean, the woman wouldn’t even help herself. She didn’t have to die. She just literally refused to leave the car. The cops can’t help you through a phone, they were telling her exactly what to do and she wouldn’t! She would just scream and cry. Yeah, I get it, she’s scared but if she’s not going to even attempt to save herself knowing the cops can’t get brought and just cry instead and hug up.. This story is overblown and barely anyone ever actually listens to THE FULL audio of that call.

The fact he can demand to see his kids after he nearly killed their mother is absolutely disgusting, like what the hell!!

@c.l.montoya2972

4 ай бұрын

Hopefully, now that they’re grown up & married also, they refuse to visit the monster.

@gottathinkupanewone

4 ай бұрын

Yeah, it's like what the hell -- but I have a friend who has an adopted daughter. The daughter is her biological niece, her sister's child. The sister had escaped an abusive marriage only to be tracked down and beaten to death by her ex-husband While the toddler child was present. He went to prison, but demanded visits with the child. My friend, who was raising the child prior to legally adopting her, had to take the girl to the prison to visit the man who murdered her mother. This was in Wisconsin, too.

@lorettadansereau8651

4 ай бұрын

The justice system clearly is severely flawed, doesn't even protect the victims?

@helixmoore7636

4 ай бұрын

​@gottathinkupanewone Like I've stated we need to drop dv from the vocabulary. Men get away with murder and attempted murder of their wives because domestic violence isn't prosecuted.or taken seriously

@mikl12354

4 ай бұрын

what is it with wisconsin? Like almost every bodycame/True crime video ive watched the past week has all been in Wisconsin. @@gottathinkupanewone

To survive 27 hours, pregnant, while freezing with a deadly head wound. This is an absolute miracle. A mother’s love is the strongest thing in the world ❤

@keeper6458

4 ай бұрын

​@@WorldWarFleeHe sure is

@RNG-999

4 ай бұрын

@@WorldWarFlee God put that woman in that scenario. Her own strength allowed her survival.

@barneyronnie

4 ай бұрын

My friend recently became God and cannot abide any sin.

@TheGigantium

4 ай бұрын

@@WorldWarFlee Where was your supreme being during the Holocaust? Where is the Supreme Being when millions of children are born with incurable diseases? ...etc...etc...

@cashewisnotanut4409

4 ай бұрын

It wasn’t a mortal head wound though…She survived.

I worked as a 911 operator for a season, and you don’t ask stupid questions! You can comfort and encourage them, but don’t say “You gonna talk or just breath…?” I can tell you our team leader would drag you out by your ear after that!!!

@georgezee5173

2 ай бұрын

She disgustingly unprofessional... By the way, may I ask you... How many prank calls do you remember you were getting on a weekly basis, approximately?

@Sorvea

2 ай бұрын

@@georgezee5173 I didn’t work there for long, but mostly kids that think it’s funny to call 911, because they think they’re talking to the police. Most of mine were parents who gave their kids an old phone, not knowing that an old phone can still call 911.

@robynmorris3772

Ай бұрын

The fact that the 911 operator made Terri repeat everything too - she barely had anything left. That was hard to listen to.

@tinntinnamp

Ай бұрын

@@robynmorris3772 Yeah I think they do try to get people to keep talking if they can, but you can use judgement (and she clearly didn't believe her in the first place).

@caraclark1293

3 күн бұрын

She could of asked her if she is having trouble to breathe vs that nonsense. She would of said yes and the 911 operator would of known this is no prank. Smh

They are supposed to take EVERY CALL SERIOUSLY!!! That operator needs to be FIRED

@jamespike5161

19 күн бұрын

FR. No matter how ridiculous it sounds, assume it’s real and dispatch services. If it’s nonsense, let the cops you send handle that.

@egodragonvm663

17 күн бұрын

@@jamespike5161that makes sense especially if they can Spare 1 or 2 officers

@johnsteel5347

16 күн бұрын

Police are above the law

@johnsteel5347

16 күн бұрын

Police are above the law

@johnsteel5347

16 күн бұрын

Police are above the law

I genuinely hope that awful 911 operator was _at least_ fired. It is a taxing job mentally, and they work very hard. I’m sure prank calls are annoying. But IMO nothing about that call seemed fake.

@pamelas1816

4 ай бұрын

Exactly! It did not even seem to be someone faking

@JohannaLevy-dd7nn

4 ай бұрын

You can't blame the operator. Even though she thought it was fake they still sent help just in case. Look at the bright side they had not brushed it off as nothing. btw hope they did not need to amputate and they charged him for the murder of that unborn kid.

@vriskaxtereziotp

4 ай бұрын

​@JohannaLevy-dd7nn you absolutely can and we will.

@keeper6458

4 ай бұрын

Exactly!

@keeper6458

4 ай бұрын

​@@JohannaLevy-dd7nnomg...See??? You aren't even worth a comment! But!! I had to let you know

The fact that the defense tried blaming Terry for the miscarriage is mind boggling. I don't know how some defense lawyers live with themselves.

@sunnystormy4973

4 ай бұрын

teri

@ScottyFang

4 ай бұрын

They don’t. The national average for just *thinking about* suicide is 10% out of all lawyers just in America, not just defense, not just civil, not just divorce, ten percent of the overal profession. If you think about it, who grew up wanting to be a lawyer? Everyone I know got involved with law because “family tradition” and they justified their choice with all the options they COULD try to help someone with. Lawyers really are just kids that have been told what to do their whole life, and defense lawyers are still being told what to do by their boss of the firm.. they probably still feel shitty about it, while using their entire check to pay off the unnecessary student loans they accrued because you can only be a lawyer if you go to school 🙃 I don’t think they do live with themselves, but I do think they’re just surviving the only way they’ve been taught to know

@Justsomebodyelse235

4 ай бұрын

@@ScottyFangYou can pass the baby bar and take the bar exam in a few states without school.

@AccidentallyOnPurpose

4 ай бұрын

Per our constitution, everyone deserves legal counsel, even if it's glaringly obvious they are guilty. There are many lawyers that represent clients they think they are guilty, but in the name of the courts they do their job. Upholding the legal system and constitutional rights does not mean we pick and choose who has them.

@machinegurlll

4 ай бұрын

​@@AccidentallyOnPurpose you don't have to sink as low as this person did though. they have the option to pick and choose their own defense and what they say in court, as well as which cases to take. they're not usually hurting for money so I wouldn't feel any sympathy.

“Every child deserves a father, not every father deserves a child” this is literally a perfect example of this.

@lovetrump1088

2 ай бұрын

The same can be said for mothers as well. There are many mothers who have harmed their own children too. This is not a Man Issue, it is an evil issue.

@janeabailey3361

2 ай бұрын

We are talking about men right now. It is very rare for a mother to harm her own child.

@deckard6331

2 ай бұрын

Rubbish, mother's are the ones statistically who harm or kill their own children.

@mojojojoasdfg1183

2 ай бұрын

Aren't we talking about a man right now? Why are you so obsessed with defending something that's not there? You are fighting with air ​@@lovetrump1088

@lisabeth2994

2 ай бұрын

Get an new line!! 😂

The way we treat victims in this country is disgusting.

@EE33339

16 күн бұрын

Agree

At this point, I've heard so many 911 calls where the operator is absolutely terrible that I believe that there needs to be regulations and laws with those operators.

@IllHandleThis

4 ай бұрын

There do. Absolutely. It’s disgusting.

@Kt-cn2rq

4 ай бұрын

Obviously not harder punishments or record so they can't find another dispatching job would be a better idea.

@anneb889

4 ай бұрын

Part of the problem too is the pay. A few years ago I saw an ad starting at 11$ an hour for a 911 operator. I’m sure it starts more than that now….but it’s not going to attract the best employees if the pay doesn’t increase.

@M_SC

4 ай бұрын

Why would you need things to go badly before you thought that. Regulation keeps society civilized

@aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470

4 ай бұрын

​@@anneb889It's not a skilled job.

*How dare this 911 operator mock her then defense blaming her for the miscarriage… absolutely outrageous*

@MsK-xm7vw

3 ай бұрын

The State of Wisconsin fails on every single level, both by the 911 operator, then by the courts. This is a State you wouldn't wish on your enemies!!! Maybe Wisconsin is where they should put all the illegal immigrants, it's obviously a third-world government that they're used to!

@Blorp_and_Cuppy

3 ай бұрын

yes

@user-fu5eb9fr6k

3 ай бұрын

I AGREE I DONT KMOW HOW THESE PEOPLE SLEEP AT NIGHT KNOWING YOU PUT KILLERS RAPISTS ECT BACK ON THE STREET TO DO MORE DAMAGE. MAKES IT WORSE COZ THEY KNOW 100% THEY DID THE CRIME

@user-le4ui1ot8q

3 ай бұрын

Its about points system and re afending fake since of security for the people suprem courts have ruled cops have no oblagation to protection of the public...they there for check tramatize public and move up in ranks...system broken people till we stand togeather nothing will change

@albeit1

3 ай бұрын

Having served on a jury, it’s clear to me there are no limits to which defense attorneys will not sink.

That 911 operator should be fired and sued immediately and thrown in prison

@imareezy4391

3 ай бұрын

Actually

I have no words to explain how much relief I got. This is the best survival story I ever heard. That survivor DESERVED to live and live a happy life and I am more than happy she got that. For her to think about her children, be able to breathe, not sleep, go through that traumatizing day and still manages to talk about it on camera, is miraculous. I am so happy for her and her children, and her lucky husband, that is soooo blessed to have her as his wife. May that little boy and the entire family be blessed, I hope she gets to live a long happy life

@peggypeggy4137

11 күн бұрын

This story had me on the edge of my seat the whole time. I am so sad that she lost the baby but was very happy to hear that she was able to have a son with her wonderful (new) husband. Her ex was a total sadist/psycho. He didn't love his children, he just wanted to hurt the wife that wanted to leave him while blaming her for his abuse. The courts have failed her before. I sincerely hope he never gets out of prison.

It's really puzzling why the judge granted her husband joint custody when it was already proven that he had a series of domestic violence

@QueenBabylonnia

4 ай бұрын

Trouble is judges only half listen. Normally in these cases the husband says his wife is hysterical, and trying to use the children against them and alienating the children from him, The judge only sees the dispute as being between the two adults, and probably the woman exaggerating. So paternal rights and what he says will even go above anything children may say as its regarded as though the mother would have ‘schooled them’ or ‘ filled their heads with false information’. So many cases where the husband is in the wrong he will still have joint custody, forcing the ex wife to have to be at his every whim and attending to all school meetings, drs, anything to do with the kids, even though he may have never in their lives done this before.

@debra1363

4 ай бұрын

Never mind any kind of custody.Why in H didn't he go to jail for attempted murder? They thought she did it to herself?

@MrsWheezer

4 ай бұрын

The judge at my sister’s divorce required her to meet up with her ex a couple hundred miles alone in another state for visitation. This after the piece of garbage had threatened her life and hid their son from her for months. The judge wasn’t paying the least bit of attention in court.

@micheleh5269

4 ай бұрын

The police should ping the phone as soon as someone is reported missing. But they wait. They prioritize privacy and not 'finding' someone who's off screwing around over the safety of someone who's in grave danger. I saw a show where friends knew the victim was in a specific apartment bldg but police waited at least a day until they had other evidence. She died in the meantime. In this show the police didn't ping until after they saw the bloody clothes from breaking into his house. If the operator had reported the call where she gave his name, they could've pinged the phone hours earlier

@taramay8174

4 ай бұрын

​@@debra1363exactly 💯

In the early 80's I was trapped in my parents burning house and called, begging for help. The operator scolded me for making false complaints as I was screaming hysterically. My neighbor kicked down the door and we both jumped out a bedroom before the house was completely consumed in flames. I didn't get an apology or an acknowledgement that I was indeed trapped in a death trap.

@ClaraOneill1967

4 ай бұрын

I'm glad to know you survived. May Jesus be with you.

@truthdogschell8473

4 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry you had to go through this. I can’t imagine how you must feel

@tammyhall3144

4 ай бұрын

@@truthdogschell8473 I had the benefit of youth to forget a lot of those details. One I will never be able to forget was the firemen finding our dog in my box spring, alive. It's the little things sometimes that ease the burdens of living nightmares.

@annecheesman5958

4 ай бұрын

Hugs. Thank goodness for the neighbour more so thank goodness you are alive. Xxx

@Brooklyn0789

4 ай бұрын

​@@tammyhall3144IN the box spring?? Huh?!

I hope that operator was charged with at least negligence. It doesn’t matter if she thought it was a prank, let the police handle that and fine them if it was. It’s not her job to decide if it’s an emergency or not.

Victims of abuse need to know that the most dangerous moment between they and their abusers is when they decide to leave. Abusers cannot stand to lose control over their victims and will destroy them rather than let them go.

@mariamcdaniel8642

17 күн бұрын

Very true been there.

Now I cant help wondering how many people have died because a 911 operator felt like taking their personal issues out on a desperate caller this way. She should have been charged as an accessory to the crime.

@LightningFox7

3 ай бұрын

Oh a lot. I remember a case of a kid that was in a van and he pleaded for help to 911. The person laughed at him. He said this is where I die today or something like that. And he died. They found him later in the van. Also Teen dies after operator said "Deal with it yourself. And "Operator mocks woman as she was sinking mocked her as she drowned

@effaroundfindout

3 ай бұрын

This is even worse than the 911 operator that mocked the woman who drowned to death after she drove through a flooded street and got swept away. What the hell is wrong with these people?? And they determined that even though she was "rude" she didn't violate policy. The poor woman was sobbing and screaming for help and the operator let her die knowing that no one was taking her seriously.

@LightningFox7

3 ай бұрын

@@effaroundfindout They did what??

@hotshot104

3 ай бұрын

There was a women who escaped from being kidnapped for years and was mocked and not believed by the 911 operator. Thankfully I believe she did make it to someone who helped her. It’s insane how they can take peoples lives like that because it is their fault in part for their deaths and/ or traumas. I know some are jailed but all of them should be for their acts.

@Handle.already.taken.

3 ай бұрын

I saw that! I'm so upset abt that still.@@effaroundfindout

This happened to my sister. She was married to an abusive State Trooper. He constantly threatened to have her committed, he would hold his service gun to the pets’ heads in front of the kids and threaten to shoot them. He was so violent and intimidating, that after the courts decided he could have visitations and the pick up/drop off point was a township police station, the chief at that township police station called the judge,the one who had made the decision for pick ups and drop offs to be there, to move them to another location because his troopers and staff were afraid of her ex. Whenever they would go to court, the courthouse would go on high alert, and my sister would be escorted to and from her car. Now does it make ANY SENSE to let someone that police officers and FBI agents are afraid of, to have any kind of visitations or communication with children??????

@lesleywild8706

4 ай бұрын

It keeps the offender 'focused' (as in something constructive to do in his life) - in a way the woman is being partly blamed for having the children with this type of miscreant - and as such I don't think the court concerns themselves other than thinking 'what will be, will be, the future's not ours to see'? Actually he should be locked up and the key thrown away.

@chysmallwood2238

4 ай бұрын

Please tell me she eventually won in court and he doesn't see those babies anymore

@shawnaaustin3396

4 ай бұрын

@@chysmallwood2238the prison allowed him to keep harassing her and the children. Why was he allowed any contact whatsoever with them? He shouldn’t have been able to write letters or send messages to her at all.

@ellamaesovereign8656

4 ай бұрын

I was in a relationship something like that but he always brought out the shotgun he would say three in one shot talking about me and a son and daughter

@DeidresStuff

4 ай бұрын

Dead men can't abuse you or your children 🤷‍♀️

Wow, I am speechless over the way that operator was speaking to that woman.

Makes me sick that even with abusive behavior the Judge gave them both custody. What the ever heck? Good ole boys mind set.

@kweenjade01

22 сағат бұрын

Maybe the abuse wasn't able to be proven? If it can't be proven it's just hearsay.

It doesn't matter if it's a prank, if there's even a slim chance it's real, send out the patrol officers. That's literally their job. I hope that operator feels terrible.

@gabriellafox7948

4 ай бұрын

Exactly!

@t-bonena3609

4 ай бұрын

Agree.....

@marilynbrown5274

4 ай бұрын

I hope they name him..and he is fired!

@sunnystormy4973

4 ай бұрын

definetly !

@bernicerogers2383

4 ай бұрын

​@@marilynbrown5274The operator is female.

The fact the operator said”are you going to talk to me or keep deep breathing” lady if she said her ex husband is trying to kill her she is obviously trapped.

@sonofhibbs4425

3 ай бұрын

It’s amazing to me the 911 operator couldn’t recognize (or wouldn’t) that she was very much in need of help. In no way does Teri’s call sound like a prank. No reason for the operator to have acted like this. It’s seriously as vile as the murderous ex husband.

@staciecs77

3 ай бұрын

Wonder if the operator has a decent husband… 🤨

@adammccarthy2420

2 ай бұрын

​@@staciecs77 probably not

@Sym_bacon

2 ай бұрын

The operator should be fired!!

My love for this woman is unbelievable, I’m so glad she’s safe now with her kids and nick

Listening to that 911 operator’s sarcasm and rudeness must have been like salt in the wounds for Terry who is clinging to life. Inexcusable behavior.

"He tried taking my life away, and he just took his own life away from himself." Couldn't have been put more perfectly.

@soychansa

4 ай бұрын

This was such an amazing take. She's amazing.

My stepfather killed my mom. I remember being called to my COs office and CID was there to tell me my mother had died under suspicious circumstances. I couldn't make sense of that. I told them my mom had seizures and she could have fallen. It wasn't until the day after I got home I found out she had been murdered. It took the police about three months to gather all the evidence and about another nine months for the trial. He got life. Six years later the State Supreme Court over turned the sentence. Saying the evidence didn't support a life sentence. To this day I can't understand how the legal system down plays Domestic Violence.

@IndigoCave28

4 ай бұрын

It’s almost like they advocate it. So sorry this happened to your mom and in your life.

@christyaustin4833

4 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for your mom, as well as your great loss. The only thing I can think to say is that, despite the unevenness, unfairness, and corruption of our current judicial system, the 'man' who murdered your mom is going, to 100% without a doubt, someday find himself standing before God Almighty to attempt to explain himself. Barring a major miracle, I shudder at his eternal prospects.

@girlsrnotwimps

4 ай бұрын

I am so sorry you have suffered such trauma. And not having any sense of justice makes it all that much worse. You shouldn’t have to be going through that. M-rderers shouldn’t get out of jail when they *should* be in there for life. Our culture is still one of patriarchy, where women and children ‘belong to’ men. I can’t tell you how many times I was asked what I did that got him so angry. I would burst into tears when someone actually comforted me rather than blamed me for what he did. It’s been over 30 years since I fled with my children, yet I’m still paying a hefty price for the damage HE caused. I tried to “be okay” for years, but just wound up getting physically sick. I was even bedridden for a period of over five years at one point. The damage was so severe to my nervous system that it broke down for a time. Now I do regular trauma therapy in order for my mind and my body to begin healing. And I’m *still* sometimes blamed somehow by people who don’t get it. Misogyny 101: Always blame the women because it has to be their fault. The legal system is no different. That’s why the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) is so important. It has to be legislated and literally put into law in order for anything (including minds) to start to change. Unfortunately, it has to be passed again and again because of politics. That’s a ridiculous set of circumstances, again due to patriarchy-which affects ALL of society. It’s toxic all the way around. In case you’re wondering, I have been happily (and safely) married to a wonderful man for over two decades. We are still going strong. I have no axe to grind against men, in general, but I find toxic masculinity ugly, and I worry the women who support it might have some safety issues they deal with on their own. It’s a nasty business because it makes all of us unsafe.

@gabriellafox7948

4 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss😢🕊🙏🏻♥️🕊

@rattaxi9645

4 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry.

Makes me sick that not only the 911 operator AND the courts completely failed to help that poor family

i watched this two days ago, on the 31st of january, 20 years exactly after this incident happened that woman is a miracle i am happy she is good now

Dispatchers like this need to be criminally accountable. It's your job to take everything seriously, especially when you can't see for yourself what's going on.

@daisymarie2278

2 ай бұрын

Agree 100%

@jessy1982

2 ай бұрын

The fact he wasn't arrested when she was divorcing him and got to go on with his life and have custody of the girls even after his abuse is disgusting too.

@thomasduernberger6276

2 ай бұрын

@@jessy1982some judges are just nuts, in Germany this year a woman was sexually abused by a group of men and there was enough evidence but the judge didn’t even sent them to jail, the woman literally nearly died because of her injuries and the main suspect got literally just 7 months on probation….

This is absolutely horrifying! The operator is so cruel. I can't even believe it 😭

@aliya6158

4 ай бұрын

at least she is not laughing as was operator mocking drowning woman.

@NettyWallace

4 ай бұрын

@@aliya6158 Omg I haven't heard that one!

@cayla7820

4 ай бұрын

​@aliya6158 Playing the devils advocate, maybe she wasn't mocking her, she was just asking "do you want to talk or deep breathe?" Like asking if she had enough energy to talk? Seeing her bright smile after all she endured was everything! ❤

@keeper6458

4 ай бұрын

​@@aliya6158omg I saw that one. It was absolutely horrifying

@keeper6458

4 ай бұрын

​@@cayla7820Are you kidding me? I feel like Im in the damn Twilight zone!!! Seriously!!!

The way she was only focussed on if her daughters were okay then her own health, that’s a real mom

Best outcome. He lost his freedom after he tried to take her life. She has an admirable view of life. So positive and light. Both she and her family deserve warmest blessing and love.

He didn't just tell her the girls were playing inside. He told her they were playing hide and seek and wanted her to come find them. He's a twisted sicko and I've heard this full story. This woman held on because she didn't know where her children were. She refused to die. They were all shocked she lived. It's insane. She's a miraculous mother. He taped her up and beat her head with a bat countless times before throwing her upside down in a garbage can and hiding it in a freezing storage unit. Her feet were black from frostbite.

@laurenS94

4 ай бұрын

He left a lot of details out. I just watched her story on “I survived”

@suzannenichols6900

4 ай бұрын

OMG!

@YaYaPaBla

4 ай бұрын

Disturbing and evil

@odettegordonyo

4 ай бұрын

Wow makes it even more shameful when hearing the mocking tone of 911 assistant 😢 what an amazing woman/ mother 😮

@junglekutz5625

4 ай бұрын

That's crazy! These type of folk get married and involved in certain folks lives to exercise their "demons" (aka ego) Just imagine hearing someone try to pin their ways on you and they're dead serious about it being your fault! Lil girl or boy......👋🤡 As they pretty much need a martyr to pick on being that they know that they fall short.

I'm sure being a 911 operator is an incredibly difficult job, but I'm appalled at how this operator handled this. How shameful.

@humansvd3269

4 ай бұрын

My brother in law is one. He's busy all the time and it get tiring. When you work long hours and get little sleep, you get more agitated and less empathetic.

@cosmicturtlegaming3268

4 ай бұрын

@@humansvd3269 sure it could be an excuse if it was a normal call center but this is a 911 line, that’s not a reason to act like that

@yogidevendrabiriyani1777

4 ай бұрын

​@@humansvd3269then cut hours and replace lost wages with another job. EASY, YW.

@larrymunn5279

4 ай бұрын

@@humansvd3269 These kinda jobs do drain the empathy from you, you can see it even in the ER ward nurses I'm sure they filter out a lot of false emergencies but you can't start to wave people off. We should have more oversight looking for fatigue cus you know, we're all human. Till this job becomes AI run, this is one job you can't afford to F up.

@karissameader23

4 ай бұрын

It's absolutely disgusting. Same as that 911 operator who did nothing but ridicule that poor woman who died by drowning to death inside her car that was trapped in a flood. I literally can't EVER hear that ever again my life. It was SO gut wrenching the first time. The woman even asked the 911 operator to pray with her when she was close to the end and the operator refused to give that woman ANY sort of comfort, patience or respect. That 911 call absolutely traumatized me and I will be mad FOREVER that she didn't get anything but the ability to resign from her job.

Dispatchers have no right to assume if a call is real or not. Especially not while the call is being done. Their job is simple, take the call, take the information and make sure to send cops to check. Then they can see if it’s real or not

What an amazing person she is. Her smile is so infectious I’m so happy she’s here to keep smiling.

I saw Teri’s story on “I Survived.” I do understand that 911 operators get prank calls and calls that are not true emergencies. But if she hadn’t called her husband, this poor woman would be dead. Her 911 call wouldn’t have gone anywhere. I’m thankful she found such a loving husband who advocated for her forced first responders to pursue her situation. And what an awful experience she had at the county level. Our legal system is completely broken.

@scholasticbookfair.

4 ай бұрын

Trust me the crank calls aren't that plentiful. The way this was handled was horrendous.

@SS-vk3yo

4 ай бұрын

There's no excuse for 911 operator they should take every call serious prank or not.

@scholasticbookfair.

4 ай бұрын

@@SS-vk3yo exactly you can laugh or be annoyed later.

@johanna006

3 ай бұрын

Woman was not taken seriously until man speak for her. Ahh... the greatest country in the world!

@ShadowEclipse777

3 ай бұрын

​​​@@scholasticbookfair. And also then arrest the ass for misusing an emergency line

When dispatchers taunt or mock people that call in, some may neglect to call the police because they are afraid they will be treated the same. How this dispatcher reacted is reprehensible.

@cariwaldick4898

4 ай бұрын

If you're a 911 operator, you need to take it seriously--even if it's a prank. That operator didn't even identify herself. I think the "masking tape" comment made her think it was fake. You can't expect someone fighting for their life to know the right thing to say.

@kurokori

4 ай бұрын

There is another 911 dispatcher who mocked a woman while she drowned. Look up Donna Reneau. She never faced charges, she is a monster, and yet she's still working. This is a sick world sometimes.

@cariwaldick4898

4 ай бұрын

@@kurokori I don't want to look her up; I'm sure you're right. If I think about all the jobs people have to do, and how many there are out there doing it wrong, or bad, or half-assed, I KNOW there must be 911 operators who suck. It seems to me, this job should have a zero tolerance policy. You mess up ONE time, and you get a retraining course. Mess up again, and you get to find another job. It's too important to give these people a pass.

@scotttaylor9133

4 ай бұрын

@@cariwaldick4898 Yeah, to me her voice sounded very weak, and not all there, like she was drunk or suffocating and barely holding on to consciousness. They should take all of them seriously, or get another job. If it's a prank let the cops deal with that (they will).

@suzanne1430

4 ай бұрын

​​@@kurokoriI watched that video...I can't believe the way it all went down.. She should have told her to get out of the vehicle. 💔..and she was a total btch too

What a beautiful, courageous and strong woman. I'm glad she survived and she's now thriving.

I saw this lady Teri tell this whole story on the show 'I Survived'! I cannot believe how terribly the 911 operators treated her, she was already going through hell and then that? Horrifying.

Teri not calling out because she didn't want to scare/hurt her kids is so heartbreaking. She loved them so much.

@argentumsound

4 ай бұрын

*Loves. Luckily.

I have empathy for first responders and 911 operators for being able to calm and guide peoples in a time of need, despite the burnout and trauma they face. This is absolutely shameful behavior and I hope there were consequences for this individual. Maybe it's just me, but if the operator taunted me like that, I'd do anything in my power to survive out of spite JUST so I can ensure this operator is never responsible for someone else's safety ever again.

@Dreamwarrior2

4 ай бұрын

Absolutely this

@amandalong112

4 ай бұрын

Same that operator is awful

@amandaaddario7342

4 ай бұрын

thats the average operator, not sure why you are surprised

@hatchetman3662

4 ай бұрын

@@boxjellyfish9819 Daddy needs a dictionary.

@bonusvampirus

4 ай бұрын

@@amandaaddario7342Most people haven’t spoken to enough 911 operators to know what the average one is like.

the definition of a mother's love is a love that is never broken😍🥰

I’m so happy and proud her mommy strength and love kept her alive.🙌🙏💗

They also mocked a woman as she drowns in her car. I had a terrible experience when I had to call. These people must be monitored.

@motorcyclesandmakeup1297

4 ай бұрын

That still haunts me

@XxxXxx-br7eq

4 ай бұрын

That is sad but it also reminds me of why I try to rally my family to be more physically fit and healthy. Many people I love would have gotten trapped in that car too but anyone who eats healthy and exercises would probably be able to find their way out

@heathermaitland9773

4 ай бұрын

Eating healthy and being physically fit doesn't always matter. Most people panic in a crisis, and even the most physically fit person could panic and drown. Give me a break!

@Girlofpages

4 ай бұрын

​@@XxxXxx-br7eqit was a flash flood. No amount of physical fitness can ensure you survive that. You're delusional.

@mimi-lg8lo

4 ай бұрын

They need to change the entire script how they train dispatchers, what I've observed from 911 calls the dispatchers talk to much when someone is in danger they should get only crucial information 'whats wrong, location, names than allow the victim to stay on the phone quietly' Dispatchers should be kind, compassionate encourage them to stay awake and focus on happy memories'. That would be professional dispatcher training!

She was failed by the system at least 3 times. But I'm glad she's a warrior and advocate now.

@flyingllama87

4 ай бұрын

For real!

@keeper6458

4 ай бұрын

Same!

@erinl1729

4 ай бұрын

I'm sure that it's very frustrating being 911 operator but every call should be treated as a legitimate untill proven other wise

Thank you for all you've done for others. I was abused by my first husband and thank God that I got out with my baby before it was too late. Girls need to be told how to protect themselves!

@harun5358

2 ай бұрын

And so do boys

@Yukiw-pk3ke

Күн бұрын

@harun5358 girls are targeted more than boys. They get sexualized more often than men. Girls need more protection.

What a Wharrior she is! The fact she stayed silent to not alarm her children says a lot and not allowing her horrific ordeal to hold her back is incredible. What a woman!

The fact they went through this poor woman’s private health records for the sake of that evil slug (I refuse to call that thing a man) is atrocious. Criminals have more rights than the people they victimize here in US courts.

@wandertree

4 ай бұрын

Thank a democrat. They are the corrupt and victim-shaming DAs, lawyers and judges who victimize victims and get hardened criminals light sentences or freedom to prey on more innocent people. If we want these types of criminals locked away for good, stop voting democrat! They have lost the narrative!

@miaknig3130

4 ай бұрын

The only silver lining is that he crossed state lines allowing the feds to prosecute. He would've been out by now, if her county had been the ones to prosecute.

@bobaorc7839

4 ай бұрын

There's a reason why abuse is so rampant in our country. You call the cops. At best, they say "What do you want me to do about it?!" and leave you to be abused for daring to try and press charges. At worst, they arrest both of you and treat the victim like a suspect. Criminals really do get treated with kid gloves while victims are browbeaten into just accepting their lot so the police officer doesn't have to actually do his job by filing paperwork.

@delilahrainelle7158

4 ай бұрын

Yes,,they do.

@Blackfox_Kitsune

4 ай бұрын

please don't insult slugs, they have a reason in life, they are natures bin/trash cleaners. this thing that is teri's ex is an evil thing beyond words.

"I'm not a victim, I'm a survivor. He is is own victim, cause he tried taking my life away and he just took his own life away from himself" what a strong, courageous woman! I'm so happy for her that she got her happy ending ❤

@denise9412

3 ай бұрын

so true ❤

@tonyking9235

3 ай бұрын

CORRECT

@Hahaha.5202

3 ай бұрын

I laughed when she said that bc she's 100% right 😭😭

@lifewithoutfear1213

3 ай бұрын

I thought that comment was a complete joke!

@louisejones5773

3 ай бұрын

​@@lifewithoutfear1213not everybody is mature enough to comprehend this statement. Sorry

Imagine the fear knowing the people you call for help are teasing an making fun of you while you are frightened for your life already, youd think nobody is coming to help, total failure.

love how you always include the victims story and how the horror has changed their life! this is what makes unseen the best true crime channel anywhere

Terri should be able to sue the judge who gave her ex husband time with his kids fully knowing he was abusive

@ninedaysjane2466

3 ай бұрын

It's a huge problem in family courts across the country. Men love to whine about judges favoring women, but the pendulum has swung so far in the opposite direction it's scary. These days it's all about who has the most money to blow. If you research the matter, you'll find some really scary stuff.

@gray3508

3 ай бұрын

​@@ninedaysjane2466 Do you have any proof or are you just bullshittin on the internet cause you can? Women love to whine about judges favoring men but the pendulum is so far in the other direction that it's scary!

@wiggilytaco7570

3 ай бұрын

@@gray3508no it’s true, even men that have sexually molested their own children can get visitation rights.

@donnapauley8183

3 ай бұрын

This is why “Snapped” is so popular.

@blacknoir2404

3 ай бұрын

@@gray3508 for real

A 911 operator should NEVER EVER NEVER treat a call like they may be joking ……. Are you kidding me .

@user-in8yi4ww3y

2 ай бұрын

So sad and disgusting

@Karminek1

Ай бұрын

Exactly! What She would call, but couldn't talk? Would She hang up on her? She shoud ask qustions with Simple answear yes or no to knock or sounds fór no And one fór yes

Thank God this woman survived, no thanks to this incompetent 911 dispatcher. She needs to be charged with negligence.

the amount of goosebumps ive gotten by teri's determination and just human survivor, what a mother and inspiring to all sane humans

I am horrified!!! I'm a former police dispatcher and would NEVER assume a call was a prank. And let me just say, that in all the time I was a dispatcher I never had an actual prank caller. This 911 operator makes me sick and insults all of us who take our jobs as public servants seriously.

@SimbiAni

3 ай бұрын

thank you for your service! 💜 wondering if there could be a way to weed out such careless folks who shouldn't be in positions of power where having a good heart is THE most important requirement 😓

@myfirstnamemylastname2994

3 ай бұрын

Kudos to these police for assuming she could still be alive and treating it with the utmost urgency. I think most would assume that she must be dead and although they would superficially treated with urgency it wouldn't be enough that they would have found her. They would be assuming they were looking for a body and they would work hard and fast but nothing like they would if it was a 911 life-threatening situation.

@myfirstnamemylastname2994

3 ай бұрын

It is mind-boggling she survived. Working in the medical field I know that even just some of those injuries and the exposure to cold and hypothermia should have killed her! My God what a brave and strong woman she must be.

@georgezee5173

2 ай бұрын

Good to hear that. And that's what I was saying to another commenter. I obviously don't know the numbers nor I have worked as a dispatcher, but logic tells me that prank calls can't be THAT frequent to make a dispatcher being fed up of them. This didn't even take place in a big city, so prank calls should be even more rarely. My guess is that they weren't getting more than one or two prank calls a week (if they were getting any at all). The way she dealt with the call was truyl disgusting

@elizabeetle13

2 ай бұрын

I know a dispatcher. You HAVE to treat every call as an emergency, even if you KNOW the caller is a "frequent flyer" who is mentally disturbed and paranoid, and KNOWN to officials as such.

I've had 3 miscarriages. It was heartbreaking but I couldn't imagine losing one because of the actions of someone else. That POS should've been charged with killing her baby. He took her child from her.

@hellomyfriends9740

4 ай бұрын

Yes ❤

@MasterTheGameWithLeAnnB

3 ай бұрын

Of course but at this point it doesn't matter. He will never walk out of prison again

@IzzyKawaiichi

3 ай бұрын

@@MasterTheGameWithLeAnnB It does because some some "life" sentences come with the possibility of parole after a certain amount of years. But if you're sentenced for multiple crimes, the judge can determine if you can serve those terms concurrently or sequentially. The longest prison sentence in U.S. history was awarded to Charles Scott Robinson: six 5,000 year sentences, each for one charge of child sexual abuse, for a grand total of 30,000 years. Of course, just one of those would be impossible, but sometimes you have sentences with, how do I put this... livable numbers, but there are so many that you end up with totals in the hundreds. Nikolas Cruz, for instance, was awarded 34 life sentences, 17 without parole (for the 17 deaths) and 17 with parole (for the 17 injured). If he hadn't killed anybody, and he was able to serve his terms concurrently, then conceivably, he might have been granted parole after some number of decades. However, with the parole came a minimum prison term of 380 years, so even if that had been the case, he would never live to see the outside of a prison again. Not to mention that in some states, you could be given the death penalty for murder, and by attempting to murder her, he did kill her unborn child. The legal issue would be whether or not he "murdered" her child since murder usually requires proving intent, but you can't really intend to murder someone... if you don't know that they exist, which he presumably didn't because she herself had just found out the night before and probably had no intention to tell him. However, since obviously murdering the pregnant mother would result in the death of the unborn child, and he DID obviously intend to kill her... the defense would probably have to come up with some argument that knowing she was pregnant would have changed his mind. It's unlikely anyone would have believed that, but it might bring a charge down to, like, manslaughter.

@Shribble

3 ай бұрын

thats what i always wonder. women dont have any rights to terminate her pregnancy because they view the child as an american citizen but not really because ur only a full citizen at 18 some say. so how can he cause a miscarriage and not be charged with the death of a citizen? as they have ruled the baby is and that baby has rights.

@salmaabdullahgb

3 ай бұрын

Funny now a woman can be charged for an abortion or miscarriage but not a man for being the reason

Bless you and your family for your fight for your life and your fight for the love of your family,which was a horrific experience.

Thank you for being a voice an helping others,may God bless you Terry ❤

This reminds me of the young man who got trapped in the back of his mother's minivan's back folding seats and subsequently suffocated because his chest was being crushed and he couldn't get enough air. 911 didn't take him seriously, either, if I recall correctly. I've heard just enough stories of these 911 operators dismissing a call as a prank or not taking it seriously that I almost believe it should be a criminal offense at this point.

@amandalong112

4 ай бұрын

Yea that was gut wrenching to listen to that poor baby was so frightened and his poor dad finding him 😢 the operator should be doing time

@violagentsch

4 ай бұрын

❤

@cherrelleg8276

4 ай бұрын

I remember that. It was sad he was so nice even though she was being mean to him.

@carriebell3566

4 ай бұрын

I agree with you

@Le0Nocapri0

4 ай бұрын

In the case with the kid and the van, the police did respond, but they couldn’t find him fast enough. 😢

Absolutely nothing about that call sounded fake. Absolutely disgusting that stuff like this even happens.

I am in both tears with happiness & saddness after what this poor woman went through. How brave she is talking to adults & children about the situation & thank God she is alive. 💝💝

Truly captivating and inspiring!

The fact that abused women who manage to leave are forced to still share their children with their abusers is sick.

@KhronosTrigger

2 ай бұрын

This happens to both genders. Just look up Nick Olivas or Shane Seyer.

@user-ip7sm6zt5m

19 күн бұрын

@@KhronosTriggerwe know that , rn were talking about women. Your right it happens to both but in this case it’s not a male. It’s people like you who try to make everything into a gender / race issue. Stop.

@005string005

16 күн бұрын

@@KhronosTrigger Happens mostly to women. But yes, women can be dicks too.

@Saphira2212

16 күн бұрын

Our broken system 💔

@irenedontoh9692

14 күн бұрын

The system is terrible, that's why.

My son is a 911 dispatcher and he fields far more bs calls than legitimate ones but he would never mock a caller like this. The job is hard and you deal with stupid people all day long but you never lose your professionalism.

@user-ee4pf3zz7d

4 ай бұрын

So? That's part of the job. What's not part of the job is judging calls & talking to someone like this crap operator did! Your son is just a middle person to get the right help at the right place. That's it.

@jun-rose

4 ай бұрын

Did you not read their comment? They said exactly what you did...

@AESmith-bw1fy

4 ай бұрын

More prank calls than legit ones?? I find that hard to believe, honestly

@user-bt2lx4gy7h

4 ай бұрын

​@@jun-rosethey clearly read the first half of the first sentence and that's it

@Ritzynco

4 ай бұрын

@@AESmith-bw1fy Dispatcher here, and about 75% of the calls are garbage. Out of the remaining 15%, half are for people wanting an ambulance that probably don't actually need one (ex. toe pain or a normal bloody nose).

Wow! This woman is such an inspiration. I can't believe I've never heard of this story until today. Maybe if I had I might have had a better chance from my abuser recognizing the red flags and seeing that sometimes they're just in any good in a person.

Formidable woman. Truly a survivor. She did so much good for others by enduring her own suffering, channeling it into something truly good and just.

A mother’s love is so powerful. What an incredible woman. It is _extremely_ hard to leave an abusive relationship, but she knew she had to for her babies. Keeping herself awake, and in turn keeping her alive by thinking of them and how she needs to be alive to protect them. She was her own hero. I love it!

@keeper6458

4 ай бұрын

Amen!!!

@alwayssmile818

4 ай бұрын

my mom did drugs instead of taking care of me so idk about mother’s love

@itzfanaticplays260

4 ай бұрын

What a mother love can do, amazing lady and she is right not a victim a survivor for sure. 😊 I don't know if I missed the part, but when and why did he undress her, as her clothes with duct tape was in the house the police thankfully went into to find clues?? I just wonder why he did that?? Amazing lady and children and what a lovely man the new husband is. Beautiful soles all of you. 😊❤😊

@itzfanaticplays260

4 ай бұрын

​@@alwayssmile818That's sad to hear, I don't know if your male or female and of child bearing age, I think if you have children you too will have that mothers love one day, It's like no other. 😊❤

@asantestewart

4 ай бұрын

It’s hard and it’s so scary, it’s to the point where I’m putting most of my life in secret. I don’t post about my personal life, I barely show my kids, I don’t talk about my love life in public because he’s always there, thinking I’ll come back, and as much as I think about it sometimes, there’s always that voice screaming “NO” with every single reason why I left. I can’t, I lost myself with him, my mind, I can’t be with somebody who laughed in my face about me-in his words- slowly dying. I just can’t. I hope anybody that’s in an abusive relationship has a strong line of people surrounding them trying to pull them away and keep them safe. People are sick.

Imagine you’re fighting for your life and the operation has a go at you for „breathing funny” 🤦‍♀️

She is just a light of a woman to have had endured that and come out of it grateful, smiling, and still more concerned about her kids than anything else! On the other hand, that man is a monster, and may God deal with him accordingly.

Teri is truly an amazing woman that I admire. She chose to stay awake/alive for her girls and I am so proud of her for telling her story to others to help potential victims. What an inspirational and wonderful woman. I’d be honored to meet her.

Teri came to my high school to tell her story over 10 years ago. I will never forget her story. Her strength is inspiring

@rachelharmeyer7964

Ай бұрын

You are lucky

I hope the operator stays awake every night because of how dismissive they were to a dying woman

@IndigoCave28

4 ай бұрын

That type of person is unaffected

@wandalares5406

4 ай бұрын

Agree 💯

@gomezg8497

4 ай бұрын

Ameen

This woman is such a hero. She is so amazing. I'm so sorry she went through this horrible ordeal! You young Lady are phenomenal ❤❤❤❤❤😢

Gosh. Sorry for the pain and suffering caused by that monster caused you. I hope her new family life endures in peace❤❤

My heart sank within one minute of this video. Teri was a survivor of 2 criminals, her ex, dispatcher. What was the outcome of the dispatcher? Was there public outrage? The dispatcher was horrid, void of empathy. You MUST read comment, it's around 18-20 down. OMG!!

@chloelewis9833

4 ай бұрын

She was fired.

@tammybushnell6920

4 ай бұрын

Survivor of her ex, the divorce judge, the dispatcher, the prosecutor and the defense lawyers.

@SusanSpies66

4 ай бұрын

​@@chloelewis9833Good

@lindz916

4 ай бұрын

More than that…including the judge who granted her abusive ex shared custody after she had proven abuse.

@MommaARA

4 ай бұрын

and she was raped. She's lucky the baby survived.

When an operator mocks someone who is dying, they may lose their will to fight for their life. It seems hopeless when the person who is supposed to help you, doesn't want to.

@rachelthedogmum

4 ай бұрын

This!!!!

@user-by5fi3sp8h

4 ай бұрын

Even trying to reanswer their mocking questions takes energy some don’t have in that position

The detective work is just amazing

Great work finding the lady officers. Thanks for your efforts+sucess

This is an amazing and resilient woman. So glad the incompetence of the 911 operator didn't cost her eyes. Someone calls and says someone's trying to kill her and she asks how she is holding the phone and to either talk or breathe? Worst attitude ever. Should be fired.

@mleecthulhu

4 ай бұрын

💯

@aesaphyr

4 ай бұрын

The comment about talking or breathing is even worse than that - basically, the call handler heard her laboured breathing and was mocking it. That's what he meant by "deep breathing". It's just absolutely awful.

@tw9664

4 ай бұрын

@@aesaphyras in actually breathing heavy back at her? She should have faced endangerment, Gross negligence and most definitely should have lost her job! It’s obviously clear she sucks at it! I’d be careful calling 911 if I were her, karma has a funny way of coming back and biting you in the a$$…

@aesaphyr

4 ай бұрын

@@tw9664 The operator is a man as far as I can tell. After one of his questions, she was unable to answer immediately and you can hear her laboured breathing instead. He asked if she wanted to talk or was more interested in deep breathing. That's what I meant by the comment about deep breathing being mocking - it wasn't something he said out of the blue, it was something he said in response to hearing a 911 caller in breathing difficulties.

@carolnearson7932

4 ай бұрын

@@aesaphyrSounded like a woman to me. Taking it personally, also, as if this woman in distress is taking up the dispatcher’s personal time!

Her maternal drive saved her life. My heart breaks for her. They accused _her_ of wrongdoing because of her miscarriage which only happened because of her ABUSER. She survived, and grew a wonderful family and helped others. Be blessed, lady. Your love is incredible.

@Kt-cn2rq

2 ай бұрын

The doctors helped her at the hospital would cleared that up crap up faster than shit if the lawyer asked them to testify.

@christynrachandbrigreen5735

18 күн бұрын

😢 the baby died ? How horrible…. He’s a murderer and that’s against Gods will

As a survivor , I appreciate you and your story SO MUCH! Bless you

Inspirational❤ thank you for helping to educate the kids about red flags❣️so happy you got to see your girls to adulthood and be blessed with a son , born of true love and grace. Be Blessed

the fact that the court overlooked her trauma time after time, eventually leading to this violence taking place in her life... it really shows they never considered her safety in any ruling they did.

@peaceofmindofpeace1650

3 ай бұрын

Jeah as usual, sadly.

@azaleablue2261

Ай бұрын

Yes, is it time to do something about liberal judges? Do they seem to always side with the bad guy?

@user-ll6zn3xv9v

25 күн бұрын

The court is trash.

@danpowell3953

20 күн бұрын

@@azaleablue2261Interesting view, but I could easily argue a conservative judge tends to favor the man and ignore women because they assume they are just emotional. I think it’s weird that they put the mother through an investigation regarding any prior miscarriages.

@Buttercup84

18 күн бұрын

​@@azaleablue2261it was in Wisconsin. Wisconsin is Republican lead almost everything. They do not favor the truth or women and will railroad common sense everything and are extremely incompetent, like that dispatcher and courts and are perfectly fine keeping innocent people incarcerated even with enough evidence to prove they didn't commit the crime(s) they were convicted of. It's a horrible state and absolutely abhorrent politics so liberal is not them.

What wasn't mentioned was that the 911 call was actually the second call she made. In the first 911 call she made, she was able to give the operator the address but passed out shortly after and then made that second call which was routed to a different dispatch center .

@lcam9241

4 ай бұрын

Oh wow! This woman truly fought to stay alive through many obstacles. ❤

Such an unbelievably strong woman and mom and police acted really fast! God bless her, her family and everyone of the responsibles for saving her! 🙏

These little girls are so lucky to have such a mother and when they see/hear their mother’s story in the future it’s gonna be something. ❤❤

Teri is amazing! My mom knows her personally and we all attended the same church when I was growing up. David was always celebrated and had a lot of power in the community, which sickens me. I'm so inspired by Teri, a domestic violence survivor that spreads awareness and makes changes after everything she endured. She even messaged me personally after I survived a domestic violent relationship a few years ago. We are survivors, please take these early warning signs seriously, nobody deserves being thrown away like garbage!!!

@ChinyereDOTcom

4 ай бұрын

🙏🏼 💜 🌸

@gomezaddams6470

4 ай бұрын

This is why people who made their life public like Amber. Heard who are abusive people, Make a mockery of real abuse. A coked out sociopath With far more mental illnesses to list. Abused a man but were taught not to believe that. Listen to people that take the person serious, Unless they're known for being the abuser in other relationships. She really messed things up for men who've been abused.😢

@SusanSpies66

4 ай бұрын

I hope that dispatcher was fired.

@SixteenTonesStudio

4 ай бұрын

I was impressed with Nick as well, was thoughtful about preserving battery on her phone, hung up and called the police himself to report her missing and make sure the police response was elevated. He seemed very measured and thoughtful, which would be extremely difficult. And the way she had the forethought to remain silent to protect her girls is remarkable. They both seem awesome

@user-sg6sd2vg1r

4 ай бұрын

Most abusers usually have a lot of clout and it's hard for the victim to get any justice. I barely escaped mine though not completely unscathed.

I’m normally one to defend 911 operators who come off as curt, because they’re trying to get as much info as possible, while trying to calm the caller down. This one was just egregious, though. I don’t care how many prank calls you’ve received. That was beyond unacceptable.

@isabellavalencia8026

4 ай бұрын

Exafuckenactly

@carriefawcett9990

4 ай бұрын

They can still be kind as well as get information. They have no place being curt. Slags!

@Thedarkbunnyrabbit

4 ай бұрын

@@carriefawcett9990 'then how are you holding the phone' isn't even getting useful info, it's definitely just not taking it seriously.

@bradsanders407

4 ай бұрын

BOOHOO LET'S ALL CRY ABOUT A LESS THAN SENSITIVE 911 OPERATOR. EVERYONE READY?!?! WAAAAAAAAAAAA WAAAAAAAAA WAAAAAAAAAAAA WAAAAAAAAA WAAAAAAAAA WAAAAAAAAA WAAAAAAAAA WAAAAAAA WAAAAAAAAA

@LocketInThinePocket

4 ай бұрын

​@@bradsanders407cringe

The madness in this world is beyond words but Teri, well done girl and well done for all the hard work you do for others in same situation. x

Thank you for advocating the passing MARSY'S LAW . THIS LAW SHOULD BE EVERY STARES LAW..