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@kennakast5584

3 жыл бұрын

I need to learn to cherish me.I am getting their though

@iwillbuildmychurchwithsue8975

2 жыл бұрын

Ordered my copy thank I for all your insight 🙏

@gloriathaxton188

2 жыл бұрын

@@kennakast5584 990

@healthylivingbylucymugwere3938

2 жыл бұрын

Stephan ,I love your wisdom and insights, very valuable knowledge

@jeanwynter2574

2 жыл бұрын

I love catering to my man. I’m a nurturing person but I don’t share it with all, the man must be worthy of it. My need to feel safe and provided for need to be tended to also. Thank you Stephan.

I believe feminine energy in a woman is heightened when they are being respected and feel protected by appropriate and safe masculine energy.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right!

@jojobk12able

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@inkpearls3364

3 жыл бұрын

SPOT ON!!!!!

@gletsayaaasantewaa2793

3 жыл бұрын

I agree!!!✊🏾

@gogoldiego

3 жыл бұрын

True💛😇🙏

I guess I’m the only women left on earth that do not like a bad boy or edgy man. I’m attracted to an intelligent, balanced and mild mannered man.

@damitalj

3 жыл бұрын

I am attracted to an intelligent, balanced and mild mannered man but i also need him to have an edge to handle me, in public and private-talk to me and with me using your words and body language

@ravenstillwaters5195

3 жыл бұрын

I hear you.

@boliviandimples

3 жыл бұрын

Totally agree❣️ I have never been attracted to bad boys, not that the one's I was with were bad boys, but after the courting phase, men change! The facade they put up quickly evaporates the second they know that you love them! And the man you fell in love with is no where to be found!

@useyourwords3286

3 жыл бұрын

You're not. They just like saying that to fit their narrative. But it doesnt make sense. I literally dont know any women who want thugs. I think thug women like thug men so they probably compliment each other.

@blissreframed1681

3 жыл бұрын

No bad boys for me either. I like that Edge to come from his athleticism and business saavy😊

1. Balance aka freak in the sheets but lady in the streets 2. Being peaceful 3. Leading with logic and not being overly emotional 4. Have a sense of humor 5. Keep it natural/ Keep makeup to a minimum 6. Intelligence 7. Smiling and positive energy 8. Desire to cater and nurture 9. Feminine energy

@Roc469

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@julissavasquez6074

Жыл бұрын

It’s sad that intelligence is number 6…ridiculous!’

@janparish8055

Жыл бұрын

@@julissavasquez6074 He said they are in no particular order.

@anicesuprise1459

Жыл бұрын

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@Belle-357

7 ай бұрын

Thank you Beautiful 💐

Does anyone else just love to see and hear a man laugh? I feel the joy in it

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

🙂 ❤

@PrincessG2007

3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad I'm not the only one! I love his laugh! Lol

@yolondalogan3309

3 жыл бұрын

💯 a true joyful laugh from my man makes me want to laugh with him

@tino6229

3 жыл бұрын

😍

@preciouswatson4142

3 жыл бұрын

I do cus men struggle with vulnerability always being tuff

When you are literally everything on this list and have worked so hard on yourself to get there but it will never be enough for the wrong person who doesn’t value what you bring to the table. Next!

@shaniceplain

3 жыл бұрын

Thank-You, best advice on here. Wrong people.

@ravenstillwaters5195

3 жыл бұрын

We have all these traits so I guess we are waiting on Gods best man.

@blissreframed1681

3 жыл бұрын

@@ravenstillwaters5195 i am Not "waiting on God" to send me a man! We don't "wait on God" to send us jobs, houses, cars, etc. To get these things we pray and get out there and get it done!

@tee8334

3 жыл бұрын

💯

@hannahmarie8172

3 жыл бұрын

You make such a valid, real point, thanks 🤗

I get what you’re saying. You always talk about a man wanting a woman who brings him peace but I feel as a woman I want that too. No drama or uncertainty, a man who can communicate and not leave it to the woman to be a rocket scientist to figure him out

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Both partners need to pour into the relationship and communication is definitely key. Thank you for sharing!

@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy

3 жыл бұрын

But the thing is though, a man who says he want a woman to bring him peace, is a sign that he’s full of drama and bs. Bcuz you can’t bring anyone peace. If it’s not in you it can’t be brought to you. So if you be peaceful to a man like that, he’ll be holding his bs in as long as he can, and it’ll come busting out like a girdle at the seams or 2 lbs of bologna in a 1 lb bag. Bcuz he can’t hold how he really is in. No one can. So make no mistake, he’ll want to beat up the woman bringing him peace. And doing things to trigger it. You can’t bring anyone peace. Let that statement alone be a warning to back off and leave the guy alone. Every “bring me peace” guy I ever seen, I noticed, that they are indifferent to peaceful women. They may not like women being harsh to them but that’s what they are compatible with at this time. Don’t go with a man just bcuz he’s complaining about drama. Bcuz complaints have no meaning. What you gotta look at is how a man is. Never mind what he says, what he does and how he feels around certain people reveals where he is.

@gogoldiego

3 жыл бұрын

@@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy you have a valid point, but by experience it does brings more peace when a man is mature and ready without the drama or toxic behavior. I have the same beliefs and personality with my husband that I had with my ex, but because my husband is a provider, protector, and no drama type of guy it has brought me so much more peace, trust, and able to be the best wife he desire and deserve, but my ex just sucks all my energy out because of his lack of basic qualities he should posses. A man's behavior matters so much.💛😇🙏

@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy

3 жыл бұрын

@@gogoldiego Yeah. A man gotta be ready to be with a woman. That’s the whole key. Readiness. And if he’s not, then no peace, gratification, and good loving will make a difference. Except make him more unready.

@gogoldiego

3 жыл бұрын

@@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy you're speaking truth.💛😇🙏

For you intelligent women, please find your equal! I was with a guy with a huge inferiority complex. I was constantly accused of making him feel stupid. Really? I had to tone down my vocabulary and choose certain topics to make him feel confident. It grew old fast. Intelligent men are sexy to me. Now add loyalty, faithfulness and respect with just a dash of bad boy, then there's my man.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

@ishaw9894

3 жыл бұрын

Wow that’s insane I may need to upgrade my vocabulary but I definitely love smart men and I’m very great with context clues.

@jehan9

3 жыл бұрын

YES!!! My ex would say “you only achieve honors because your instructor wanted to sleep with you!” Mmmm no foo, I got honors because I worked my butt off!

@krissiew9508

3 жыл бұрын

@@jehan9 That was definitely not love, but some sick insecurities he had. Wow! As long as you know who you are, how smart and intelligent you are, you will nip bullshit like that in the bud far quicker. No one should have to "dummy down" for anyone. I ended that relationship nearly 2 years ago. So much more was wrong in it. Im now ready to start dating again, so hence Stephan Speaks. I hope you have found the right man, if not, God... and some tips from Stephan will guide us😀

@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy

3 жыл бұрын

A bad boy is not going is not going to be loyal, faithful or respect you. Reality check.

Women like a good guy, with an edge... So it makes sense men like the same in women. 👍🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@sherrylldominique4990

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely and a splash of nasty lol

@jenniferheinke1354

3 жыл бұрын

I guess it depends on what kind of person you are, what mindset and standards you have. There are so many different people out there and as they are, so they expect their equivalent, that's just how it is.

@Saidsofoodiecuisines

3 жыл бұрын

@@sherrylldominique4990 YASSSSS😂🤣💪🏾💯

@altheastone1954

3 жыл бұрын

Well said

Some men just don't know how to Appreciate a Good Woman in front of them. They have been messed up by bad apples to a point where they say bump it. Enjoying my Single Season. Good things come to those who wait.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right, good things come to those who wait. Thank you for sharing!

@ravenstillwaters5195

3 жыл бұрын

A woman a man keeps around speaks volumes about his character. When a man is damaged by a woman who is emotionally abusive he will not give his heart to a real woman.

@blissreframed1681

3 жыл бұрын

@@ravenstillwaters5195 THIS is absolutely true!!

By the way, men tend to be great cooks also😃 not saying that I cannot cook or don't like my own food, but it's a nice thing when men do it for us women also.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!!

@avasears2516

3 жыл бұрын

I love to cook and am darn good at it,, but that is on my God list for the man He blesses me with 🙏🏽,, yes yes yes I man who can cook a good healthy meal,, will be my dream come true 🙏🏽♥️

@shola7987

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@phoenixrising8007

3 жыл бұрын

💥🎯

@rachelc5770

2 жыл бұрын

I agree, I like when a man can cook even if it’s not often or if it’s just for them selves. I don’t like babies who are helpless.

The most important words for me( and very liberating) : "feminine energy was never your problem, but your selection process was" Thank you...

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

This is awesome. I was married to my daughter's father. I had to fled from Chicago over 21 years ago because I couldn't be myself. I couldn't smile, can't friends, barely talked to my mother, I couldn't dress up. I was abused in many ways. I praise the Most High delivered out of abusive marriage. I married the wrong person👑🙏🏾📖

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback, and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through!

@childofgodskingdom8403

3 жыл бұрын

My God

I possess these 9 qualities. Just waiting for God to send me the man who truly appreciates this about me.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

🙏❤

@soystef

3 жыл бұрын

I feel ya! He’s on his way...

@deannarobinson3758

3 жыл бұрын

EI@@MeetStephanSpeaks fIu

@akimanakelly6624

3 жыл бұрын

Same here hehe 🙏🏼Let’s keep me praying on God

@queenlang8312

3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate every single thing you said in this video . I love how you deliver this information as well, you’re so honest and transparent yet very considerate and respectful with how you approached these tips. A True King 🙏🏾. I’m so glad I have all these traits you’ve named but there’s definitely more room to tap deeper into these traits . Thank you so much ✨💓

The thing I love most about this man is, he states everything in a respectful & understanding manner. Even if it’s referring our flaws. Thank you for that Stephan! Much respect ✨❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤🙂

@sangel857

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed he understands and presents his information with versatility.

@sheilakoskey3795

Жыл бұрын

​@MeetStephanSpeaks are you single ? Hehehe

I can’t believe I have spent my life being a virtuous woman to all the wrong men,, I have checked off everything on this list, but not one man in my life ever appreciated or stayed around,, most of them cheated on me,, they were always sorry after they were caught and would do anything to get me back but my dad always said when you go backwards you are bound to step in s#%t,, I only did it once and I did that for the kids,, but it just didn’t work for me because once the trust has been breached I’m done,, but now I’m 64 and gonna give it one last try,, I’m practicing abstinence ,, I’m focusing on my walk with God and following the steps God has ordered working on my small business everyday,, I have a small circle of friends and I feel more vibrant and alive then I have ever felt in my life,, so I feel like I’m going to meet the spirit that matches mine soon 🙏🏽♥️🥰🦋

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback and pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you!

@jenng5925

3 жыл бұрын

I agree Ava!

@PRINCESSHELL0KiTTY

3 жыл бұрын

Kk

@shaniceplain

3 жыл бұрын

That's right, you not giving up on love! I touch and agree with you on your love coming soon Amen.

@yolondalogan3309

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, since God can do all that for you, it's confirmation for me 🙏🥲🙂🥰 many blessings to and the Man God has for you! ~ Yolonda

Ladies remember all this takes time. Learning to sit in your power is a muscle that you need to build. Steady you’ll get there because you have already been there before the world influenced our view of ourselves.

@roshanepalmer7412

3 жыл бұрын

Omg Thankyou. I fall in and out of these traits and it’s annoying.

Well balanced ✔ Debt free ✔ God led ✔ Healing ✔

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing I appreciate your response.

@GoddezsIesha

3 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you for sharing the knowledge. i highly respect a man who's able to teach & lead.

@b.k.r.doggielover5449

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the list! Thank you! Thank you!!❤⚘👍

@yolondalogan3309

3 жыл бұрын

Amazing Iesha! Congratulations! Many blessings to you ~ Yolonda

@MsVie2012

3 жыл бұрын

As much as I try to live debt free, something ALWAYS comes up. Dang it. I'm about to go into financial slavery for an HVAC system

"Feminine energy wasn't your problem. Your selection process was."🙌

My dad made me learn how to put my emotions more in prospective since I was a teenager. This helped me out a lot, jumping into emotional reactions all the time is exhausting, try to let things sink in before you react. It doesn’t work all the time but It gives me some type of peace when I can break it down and let my emotions take a back seat… loved the video btw xx

@888hereandnow

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like a great dad!

I needed to hear this. Self confidence and mastering my emotions are the biggest struggle I face. And something I been praying about and I'll be working on as of today. Thanks

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

❤️ I’m glad the video was helpful to you

I believe trust goes both ways in terms of being insecure. Let’s face it, we are grown individuals who should not still be playing such immature games. Growth-mindset and thinking above the belt.🙏🏾🥰

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

10. Humble and kind.. should be on this list

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

True self confidence comes from a deep sense of knowing yourself and a healthy dose of self-love, imho. That can’t be faked. “Freak in the sheets, lady in the streets” made my day!!! 😃

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

The make up thing: it seems guys want us natural but they love, look at, like, stare at women who have plastic surgery and overdone hair and make up! So we see them drooling over that look so we try to make ourselves look good for them. I just dont get that one!

@getemmuhammad6982

3 жыл бұрын

Men think differently than women when it comes to choosing potential mates. Although you'll find men gawking at women with enhancements most men will tell you that they WILL sleep with the 'enhanced' woman, but they WILL NOT want a relationship with them or take them seriously. 9/10 men want you in your natural state, because the type of woman a man keeps around speaks to the type of man he is. What you look like reflects on how people view him as well.

@andream6637

3 жыл бұрын

@@getemmuhammad6982 it’s nice to hear a man’s honesty on this!

@sincerelysj6997

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t mean to admit that people are “ugly” under makeup but it wasn’t what the makeup enhanced. It didn’t give what the makeup gave. Everyone is beautiful in their own way but It feels like he was saying don’t fake your features because if a man fakes his hair line we’d be mortified or if he had a wig it be mind blowing lol . Don’t falsify your features to a point of deception? Maybe? No ones “ugly” or a monster but the difference can be drastic sometimes it’s crazy.

@inkpearls3364

3 жыл бұрын

A M - I completely agree. “Men will sleep with that but they don’t want to marry that” Sorry but it pisses me off and it’s total hypocrisy. I’m tired of men making women feel like they have to compete when they’re in a fucking marriage already even.

@ishaw9894

3 жыл бұрын

Don’t forget they marry natural and cheat with those other type of women too. The women at home being stay at home mom. But he’s at work public around women with enhancements lipstick, Fragrance, pheromones, nails. I could on! As a psychic just be with someone who can appreciate you in all of your aspects. Rather that’s natural or an occasional soft beat 🤣

I'm in a season of healing from a long-term relationship. I recognized my mistake immediately. I don't recall being pursued much. Rather rushed and jumped into something when I was operating in masculine energy. Years later, I started not to feel great and began changing that. We grew apart and here I am stepping into my feminine energy now and found this video in response to what I'm manifesting for my life. I don't feel ready to date, but I also am relieved to have the privilege to focus on myself and let the men pursue me. I finally understand my feminine nature and it feels so good to honor it instead of fighting it. I embrace my feminine nature now. A masculine man is attractive to me now. It used to turn me off. That's how far from my true nature I used to be!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

I had to practice being vulnerable after being single for sooo long, I started at the Gym. I always ask guys to put my heavy weights away for me. They never complain about being useful.

It’s so important to know ur worth and to know that we have the power. U have to stand for something or you’ll fall for for anything. To me..Boundaries and priorities are not so important in life not just in relationships. I kinda lost myself in my last relationship...gaining weight, sad, lonely, depressed....NOT NO MORE!!!! I love me more than anyone else will!!!!!!!!!!!!! PERIOD

I like all of it and the balance aspect sticks out for me in particular. And ladies, don't trade your authenticity for approval! And in this "fallen world" we need to find our inner strength in God anyway, otherwise we are lost! So, don't fall into the "approval-trap" that leads only to "women-slave-conditioning"! And Stephan, as always great to hear your insights, much appreciated, and don't worry about speaking frankly, that's what I appreciate the most! 🙏🏻♥️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

In my opinion a lot of men go after the ig model type with all the makeup. I don't see a lot of men going for the natural women.

@kjones3270

3 жыл бұрын

Right! Men say they want a natural woman until you see them on IG liking pictures of women with fake bodies. They are attracted to women they can’t have.

@lathancram5184

3 жыл бұрын

There is a difference between what attracts a man when he just simply wants to have sex with her and when he wants to have a relationship with her. High value men will not marry an IG model. They just want to smash and dash the ig model types. Any high value man will take a 6 or a 7 that brings feminine energy and peace in to his life over a 10 thats posting half naked pics online everyday and is not submissive whatsoever. If a guy marrys an ig model type of girl most likely he is a beta male.

@lathancram5184

3 жыл бұрын

@@ursamajor6347 There is a difference between being "insecure" and being "territorial". Men are naturally territorial with their women. Thats not to say there aren't insecure men out there because of course there are. But generally speaking, what decent man is going to want to marry a woman who posts half naked pics of herself online ? That behavior is not conducive to a healthy relationship. Not only does she lack modesty, but these types of women are usually more masculine boss babe types that are argumentative and have massive egos and are hard to deal with, ig models are good for sex and eye candy but nothing more.

@lathancram5184

3 жыл бұрын

@@ursamajor6347 Fortunately a quick search of the definitions will show you the difference. Also, way to completely miss the bigger picture lol.

@blissreframed1681

3 жыл бұрын

@@lathancram5184 This is not true. This is a thing that is put out there. Many HVM have married sexy women. Robert Smith married a Playboy model. Jeff Bezos' woman is sexy. Hines Ward married an IG model. And there are plenty of others on the list. This word is put out there so women will remain basic and toned down while waiting to get noticed😒

It is all about having that balance. That’s how I live my life always smiling and a happy person, enjoying life. I get compliments on my smile all the time. I’ve done the necessary work on myself for growth and continue to do so everyday. This was another great one, everything you said is so true!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

Thank you Stephan for making it clear that feminine energy isnt synonymous with being weak and it's OK not to accept nonsense in our relationships. So many women are afraid, hide and even denounce their feminine energy because we fear being physically attacked, literally. Safety with a balance of appropriate presentation is needed for some of us to feel confident about even addressing our feminine energy. Perfected love casts out (negative) fear. So when I say that I need a man that fears God in a positive way, the purpose is so that my prayers, physical self and my warm, gentle, Spirit lead submission are all safe and healthy to expose to him. In public but especially in private. Forgive me but I'm addressing my past hurts. I've experienced a man behave one way in front of people but behave a completely different neglectful way in private, to put it lightly. I know that all men aren't that way. So I know it's possible to be truly safe physically, emotionally and Spiritually with the right man who fears God's consequences. Then I would be happy to rock all of my feminine energy and 'rejoice before him', speaking of my future husband, as Proverbs 8:30 New King James version says the Spirit of Wisdom did before God. (Check the Bible for yourself, I couldn't believe it either when I first read it) Now ALL of that isn't for everybody to see lol it's OK for me to exude and let that feminine energy permeate while I'm dating the right man so he can sense that there's more to it...a lot more. And that's a good thing lol Stephan, would you consider praying over and making a video on the topic: 'the marriage bed is undefiled' ? Hebrews 13:4, If you haven't already. Btw, I Googled ALL of the books and verses for easy reference. I remember what some verses say much better than exactly which book and verse it's in. Thanks again for another great message ~ Yolonda

I embrace being nurturing and catering to my loved ones now. Realized it is my POWER!

@childofgodskingdom8403

3 жыл бұрын

Okay

@ms.gracefullybroken8724

2 жыл бұрын

Yessssss…one of my greater strengths

Your honesty, humility, and ability to speak truth in love, is amazing. Thank you.

I would agree with all this! I cater to my man and my friends think I’m crazy! But, it’s what I saw growing up and I just found out recently that this is something my son apparently noticed too! He saw me and my mother do these things and he now desires that in a woman and he speaks about feminine energy all the time! I enjoy cooking for him and making his plate and he absolutely loves it! He will clean the kitchen afterwards, so it’s a good deal!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for sharing ❤

@jjjustice11

2 жыл бұрын

​@@MeetStephanSpeaks .

I know plenty of women who have wasted precious time being good to the wrong men, myself included. What I didn't know was how to choose properly the good man. Women need more instruction in how to choose the best man for themselves. Thank you for your videos. Keep up the good work.

Men do love makeup ! They just don’t like bad makeup lol I wear makeup and I get compliments on my makeup from men and women.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

Me scrolling the comments looking for all 9 points 🥸

@brianongaga8576

3 жыл бұрын

1. Balance 2. Confidence 3. Thinking logically 4. Humor 5. Natural beauty 6. Intelligence 7. Smiling & positive energy 8. Desire to cater and nurture 9. Feminine energy

It's hard to smile, it's hard to feel pretty. it's hard to feel peace from within. It's hard to be feminine when you're expected by society to behave just like a man and compete with men. I have found that living this way has made me feel bitter, insecure and exhausted. Thanks for your insight Stephan.

@pamelasneed9095

Жыл бұрын

You don’t have to be what society says. Be who you want to be cuz you following society sounds miserable. It’s not hard to do any of the things you mentioned. Be who you want to be.

God bless the man who is able to find these qualities and more in the woman God has for him.... and may we as women strive to be the woman that God wants us to be in the relationship He desire for us. Developing these characteristics can only help us become a better woman/person if we don’t already possess them.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

I love that - faux confidence. I have thought about this so many times when I see women who say I'm confident, I'm beautiful, I'm this, I"m that - but it's often not true. When you have confidence, you don't have to talk about it, or brag about it. It's unappealing. Confidence is something that when it's there, is conveyed without having to self promote.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@1010divajap

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Happy to. I think common sense is in short supply today. I like your thinking.

“You can’t walk around 24 hours with makeup on” Me: but I can wear my lash extensions 💁🏽‍♀️ lol

@pianosistah

3 жыл бұрын

Say it again!

@debbiegraham5998

3 жыл бұрын

Same here!! 💕

@NicoleVivianTV

3 жыл бұрын

Lol 😂 feel you

@yolondalogan3309

3 жыл бұрын

Lol same here with my liner 😂

@natnel617

3 жыл бұрын

Just having lashes and eyebrows done can make you look great! I feel like a man in drag when I have lots of makeup on.....🤷‍♀️

I just have to Thank you! I’ve been listening to you non stop for 3 months & today I was finally able to make a new relationship “OFFICIAL”! Thank you for helping me to be able to be happy again!

@ghanaianqueen7891

Жыл бұрын

How is it going!?

Great Reminders to us ladies. It's been time to start taking care of our temples, cause natural bodies never, eva go out of style.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right, our temples need to be taken care of. Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

I love smiling, positive vibes, and I know I possess these 9 qualities. I'm just being patient and enjoying being a happy single 😊.

The very important tools to have in your life are #1 Know what you like for you #2 Do not live to please others and #3 Reset when you feel off-balance. Not the only tools you need but three important tools💖

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

@ravenstillwaters5195

3 жыл бұрын

👍🏻

First you must love yourself totally. Not looking for someone to complete you. And Know your worth. When you have inner peace it shows, and people are drawn to you.

I agree with the makeup thing; it's on a whole other level nowadays. It's crazy.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right!

@Influencerdiaries

3 жыл бұрын

Wearing make up doesn’t mean you’re insecure or you’re doing it for a guy💀 get that through your head lil boy

😂"Don't just look any kind of way" It's important for us to be mindful of that as we get comfortable embracing our beauty. There has to be effort of some kind.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed, it helps when we embrace that!

@NicoleVivianTV

3 жыл бұрын

This is so true. It's not looking like and ig model but just pulled together

Such Good Points , and very useful , as a older woman I have learned that you have to take care of yourself while you are young so you can grow gracefully in Beauty as a older women , I have a dark birthmarks around my eyes But I pray that the man that comes into my life will find Beauty in my eyes as well as my Heart ❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

🙏 ❤

10:00 to 10:56 is spot on! I struggled with the intuition part, most times I am right at least 75 percent of the time, but not able to take the time out to process; I am quick to act, especially when I know he is lying. I gotta slow down and manage my triggers better! Thanks Stephan, you rocks!💕💕

Thank you! These are natural characteristics of a woman. Being feminine is “beautiful”!! It’s a lifestyle that I have always cherished and protected. It can be difficult if we allow others to define who you are. No one can be you, but you. Love you - be free! ❤️

The emotional mastery is so important, very good point& a big revelation for me as well after my relationships. I’m still not there fully, but I’m much more aware of it.

Confidence, happiness, balance, intelligence and civility is an asset for sure in a man and what you're speaking of Stephan is greatly appreciated! I'm attracted to a man who is his authentic self with emotional maturity and intelligence 👑

1. Balance - being exciting in the bedroom but someone that can be brought home to Mom, someone who can act like a "lady". 2. Confidence in yourself. Wear what makes you feel confident. Confident in who you are and knowing you have value. Embrace the fact he has chosen you and be confident even when other women are around. 3. Ability to think logically. Be a master over your emotions. Staying calm and peaceful. 4. A sense of humor. Laughing is good. 5. Natural beauty. Not too much makeup. 6. Intelligence. Can converse well and in a friendly way. Ability to talk things through. Book smart and street smarts you need both. 7. Smiling and positive energy. Women who smiled were found to be more attractive... Smiling conveys a peaceful joyful and confident woman. 8. Willingness and desire to cater and nurture. 9. Feminine energy. Loving, sweet, supportive, charming, vulnerable (not weak but an open heart for the right man). How you take care of yourself can raise your feminine energy.

This man speaks nothing but the TRUTH!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

1- Balance / freak I’m the streets and a lady I’m the sheets with her man. 2- Confidence believe it stay in that mindset. 3- Ability to think logically. 4-

I totally agree about the natural beauty part. Learning how to be beautiful in a natural state. When I realised this, I had a sharp resistance for overdose makeup.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

Being logical is something I struggle with. I tend to be guided by my intuitive self. I’m working on establishing balance in that area of my life. Thank you Stephan.

Stephan... YOU ABSOLUTELY NAILED THIS LIST!!!!! EVERYTHING IS SO SPOT ON...YOU COVERED IT ALL...I ABSOLUTELY LOOOOVE IT!!!!! 💕

Stephan, you are absolutely correct on every count. I have watched several of your videos and I will say that you know what you're talking about. That makeup point is the TRUTH!

Stephan, thank you for making this video and all the books you wrote (i believe to have them all by now!!) I wholeheartedly appreciate your work and surely love the way you tease us and make us smile and laugh 😉 that is very attractive in a man too! 🥰 God bless you ❤

I wouldn’t know how to contour even if someone showed me how!! Lol 😆 no offense to those who like it, it’s just not for me. I couldn’t walk around all day being afraid to touch my face or freaking out if it rained.

@TanzaniteHayley

3 жыл бұрын

Omg if it rubs off on your white, dry clean only sweater 😑🤣

@blissreframed1681

3 жыл бұрын

@@TanzaniteHayleyThat man will be juuust fine if he wants that woman!😉

This is legit my favorite video, I’ve been waiting for it. This is the one. Well done Stephan ❤️🙏🏽

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

🙂 ❤ Thank you!

Sometimes, we have to put aside may it be traditional or other personally internalized patterns in order to reach for the better. I like to go with Romans 12, 2 : "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is..."

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@childofgodskingdom8403

3 жыл бұрын

WOW

Thank very much Stephan for taking time to make these videos. They're very empowering to women. I thank God for the day I came across your channel

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

I love my natural beauty with red lipstick on sometimes.

Stephan, you have an amazing insight into relationships.I am loving your talks.Thankyou

You truly are your sisters keeper! Be blessed🙏🏽

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

❤🙂 Thank you and be blessed as well!

AWESOME VIDEO! I love that you are emphasizing INNER qualities that men seek: Balance, Confidence, Logical Thinking, Humor Natural Beauty, Intelligence, Smiles/Positive Energy, Nuturing, Femininity. There are a couple that I will improve on!

Wow! this info hit home.. and resonates in my personal space and to my energy. I love the fact that the information you give shows a different perspective in a man than what we usually are not used to hearing or seeing.. and. it's great to hear that men are not as shallow as we may sometimes think they are. The suggestions you give are on point.. Be the person you would like to Have in a relationship... period. ..thanks, Stephan.. i vibed with you energy, here. ..much love and light..

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

❤🙂 Thank you!

Thanks for sharing again. These videos definitely help us to face ourselves or see some things we may not have seen before...definitely taking in the catering and nurturing part. That comes natural for me...but I do see where I can make that part of me conditional, especially when I feel like I'm getting too vulnerable and feel the other person can take advantage. I've definitely seen that with close friends. Thanks again! Got some work to do!!!!

Hey Stephan, I have a feeling that you’re not feeling very well, which shows in the video. I hope you take breaks from time to time and have also time for yourself. I hope you don’t overwork yourself. 🌹 May God bless you and make it easy for you ✨🤲🏻

I love how you treaded lightly around the natural beauty topic. It was like you were waiting for the eggs to be hurled at you! 😂😂

@andream6637

3 жыл бұрын

🤣😂

KNOW YOUR WORTH!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

💯 Yes!

As long as he doesn’t make me the BUTT of the joke imma keke with him ……there was a male that everywhere we went tried to make people laugh at me and I shut that down immediately 💪🏾💋

I truly appreciate the way you make these dating videos for us women ❤. I always get another needed perspective on things and I absolutely love it. I am a bit curious though about if you have considered doing a video for the men on the same topic? The points that you hit on in this video are equally as attractive or in my opinion more attractive when a man can master them. I feel as though these points will be beneficial for men as well to be heard from our point of view, and you would be the perfect vessel to do it us ladles 💘.

Its awesome to see you. I always enjoy your laugh. Advice is always spot on and insightful 👌

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

thank you, I truly appreciate that

@virgiltheodore4206

3 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks You're welcome 😊

My gosh! I so love your analogies! Sometimes it’s hard for me to understand how to put things into practical application. The analogies stick with me👍👍👍

Stephan you’re so good at what you do and you’ve helped me a lot but it’s so hard being a woman. So many things we have to do to work on ourselves in an effort to make a relationship work. Truth is I wish men would take the time out to try to make it work also

@angela4christ78

3 жыл бұрын

just be your best self and focus on Jesus, he will bring out the best in you... and make you see how valuable you are... stop living your life for a man

" The most important thing to know about dating, is WHEN to walk🚶‍♀️away!"

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right! Thank you for sharing.

❤️ Balance & natural beauty and that beauty on the inside is even more important and definitely let's that natural beauty shine so bright ✨ on the outside

Listen 🎶, chill, trust me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love 💘 it!!! Your advice is phenomenal 👏! Thank you for sharing your gifts 🎁. You are sooo appreciated 😊

This video is fire , one of my favorites by far

You had me at balance. LOL Good message🤎

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

❤🙂 Thank you!

Now it all makes sense ☺️ Thank you for this Stephan 🙌

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

🙌❤️ my pleasure

It’s taken me years and years, decades even to understand that how I feel isn’t always the reality. Logic is more of a masculine trait that I’ve had to work on. I mean, I didn’t even know that existed until I started to see that reality and my emotions didn’t add up. I didn’t know logic existed without emotions and the reality is, I make better decisions based purely on logic. It kinda goes against everything about being a woman but it’s the more tried and trusted method for me. Throw in some intuition and I’m good to go lol!

Listen, chill!! 😊 you make us laugh with your contagious laugh , thank you for all🙌🏽

My kingdom wife loves to still cater to me vise versa and we have 9 children some grown but i want 4 or 5 more. She is a cancer so nutring comes natural for her as for me I'm a leo. We're both blessed and happy. God Bless everyone.

Thank u for braking down that confidence explanation this is my main struggle !

Well said and very informative! Thank you for sharing!

Thanks for sharing such great information with us ladies! I'm learning so much from you. Also you have such a wonderful personality. 👍👍

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

I'm happy to hear that, thank you very much!

I like the way Stephan was so nice in the way he expressed certain points... I've heard men say a few of his points before.. especially about the makeup..

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

❤🙂 Thank you!

I do love your inspiring words stephan, your energy is positively amazing. Stay blessed stephan honey 😘❤

I was brought up on fixing plates, I have been this way all my life. When you’re a loving , caring person catering is easy. I love to make people smile and be happy. I know once God sends the right man in my life I will get a chance to see what reciprocity feels like. This was a great video Stephan

Although I was a huge fan of the Self care video that you put out I believe last week; this is by far one of my favorite videos that you’ve created. You hit and tackled so many key points which are too often overlooked and explained each point in a way that I believe many women can relate to without taking offense, especially as it relates to Balance and Natural beauty. When it comes to balance, my older brothers always use to tell me to exude the energy while leaving a little to the imagination. Almost like burlesque dancing vs strip dancing. And as far as the “natural beauty” 👏🏾 You hit it on the mark with makeup being an enhancer as opposed to a mask and/cover up. And the amount of time and $$ that goes into a “beat face” 🤦🏾‍♀️ Like don’t get me wrong, I believe it’s cool once in a while, but daily is a tad bit too much. One almost becomes “unrecognizable” Sadly, it seems as though we’re now growing into a culture that is more focused on the superficial exterior as opposed to their overall vibe and purpose as a human being. Simply to be better. A better human, a better parent, friend, child, whatever while aiming for happiness. Instead so many want to rock and keep up with the Jones’ at any cost, positive or negative. And trust and believe, social media doesn’t make it any easier. But that’s a whole other topic. On that note, Thanks again for putting out this video and simply for creating such a much needed and wonderful platform. Many blessings.🥂

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

Your videos are so addicting 😂😂😂😂 great topics light hearted advice 👍🏼👍🏼 I agree about a women being nurturing…I feel it’s a culture social and religious attribute that’s learned! sadly some women have lost this due to trauma’s and bad experiences …but some women know the value of servitude because that’s what we are called to do as Christians! 😇just wanted to share 🙋🏻‍♀️

Completely correct,Thank you for the remainders!! You are amazing person 😊

Love it! Great video Stephan! 😁😊 Stay blessed!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!

I'm going to say some not all be Mean muggin, A smile is priceless and it's Free.

@NicoleVivianTV

3 жыл бұрын

Say that!