5 Reasons Why Men Are ATTRACTED To Women Who Don't Try Hard!

5 Reasons Why Men Are ATTRACTED To Women Who Don't Try Hard!... In this dating advice video, I will share the reasons why men are attracted to women who don't try hard. Women who don't try hard often exude confidence, which is incredibly appealing to men. Take heed of this dating advice to understand why men are attracted to these women.
I want you to understand men better to know how men think, what men like, and why men are attracted to women who don't try hard. Men appreciate women who don't try hard because women who don't are often authentic and genuine, a quality many men value. Embrace this video to learn how to attract men.
Not every man is attracted to women who don’t try hard, but many men find women who don’t try hard to be very attractive. Women who don’t try hard are often low maintenance and don’t require much attention and effort, which can relieve many men. Pay attention to this relationship advice to know what men are attracted to.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you can enjoy dating and have a fulfilling, healthy relationship.
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  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын

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  • @OnlySupportThoseWhoSupportYOU

    @OnlySupportThoseWhoSupportYOU

    Жыл бұрын

    @Stephan Speaks Sex, It doesn't create Love inside of a man. My birthday was yesterday and I stopped having sex as a gift of love to my mental health. No woman should sleep with a man that tells you he doesn't love you after being with him for almost a year 😮😐🫥 ...... If he does not love my cookies but likes having cookies all of the time - I say 🚩! Flag - that's not right. Most women want to be loved and appreciated if they cook, clean and have sex with a man...❤️‍🔥 I'm so done waisting energy...I feel like I stopped living life to be treated like a servant with nothing offered in return and it made me think within - what am I waiting for? That's when I realized there was nothing there but sex and I had played myself. How mad can I be if a man does not reciprocate but enjoys what I offer? I can only stop having sex out of frustration 😂 He could have had more and better sex inside of love and friendship vibrations and frequencies..... the man dumb.....

  • @giftytuffour8090

    @giftytuffour8090

    Жыл бұрын

    I have all your books now I want to finish reading them all,and I will get your coaching course,next am taking it easy,thank you.

  • @dianaross1055

    @dianaross1055

    Жыл бұрын

    @@OnlySupportThoseWhoSupportYOU true that ✊🏼💜🌹👍🏼✊🏼 I so much can relate to that ✊🏼💜

  • @julietnalwoga5247

    @julietnalwoga5247

    Жыл бұрын

    Mm

  • @julietnalwoga5247

    @julietnalwoga5247

    Жыл бұрын

    @@OnlySupportThoseWhoSupportYOU mmm

  • @JennyGaston
    @JennyGaston Жыл бұрын

    That part👉🏾" you don't have to chase what God sent". Trusting in the sovereignty of my God❤

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤ 🙏

  • @GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262

    @GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed and Amen✨

  • @meredithallen4006

    @meredithallen4006

    Жыл бұрын

    What if the man I’m interested in (and supremely attracted to) is only connected with me in a professional manner. He has not flirted with me or been unprofessional in any way. How can I tell if he is just being professional and respectful or if he is disinterested. The professional relationship is functionally over and I have no reason to ever see or contact him again. But I’ve never been so attracted to a person like this. I’m 43. This could be a crush. But I’ve been there done that. This is different. Maybe just a different crush? Will he ever pursue me?

  • @Carly4now

    @Carly4now

    Жыл бұрын

    That part! 👀🤷🏽‍♀️🥰 FFF

  • @latoyarichardson2999

    @latoyarichardson2999

    Жыл бұрын

    You sure don't if it's sent from god that person will stick around

  • @dtinymaynartry
    @dtinymaynartry Жыл бұрын

    I think the best gift a man can give to any woman or a woman to any man is to allow each other to be him or herself.I love when I can feel free with anyone in my life .Free to laugh ,free to express myself,free to say what hurts, etc.Its a good feeling to have and a good place to be I think

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

  • @berylsavanah9508

    @berylsavanah9508

    Жыл бұрын

    There's a guy I'm in the talking stage with and he said this exact thing. That he likes how he can be himself with me and that melted my heart. I hope we become more than just friends and pursue a romantic relationship in future.

  • @GlendineMPRSSGGlasgow-nq8nz

    @GlendineMPRSSGGlasgow-nq8nz

    6 ай бұрын

    All the best hon. Hopefully you and him are fully committed by now

  • @edwa3dj
    @edwa3dj Жыл бұрын

    When you KNOW your value and you present it in a feminine manner, men SEE your value and we treat you completely differently than all the other women.

  • @Thegazelle1000
    @Thegazelle1000 Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes it's really difficult to understand the nature of some men: - When you make it easier to chase you, they say that you are too easy to get. - When you do the first move, they said that you are masculine. - when you told them that you're not interested in them, they'll not listen and keep chasing you. - when you told them that you're already in relationship with someone else, they'll keep chasing you. Uh!!! Sometimes they said that women don't knkw what they want, but men don't play either!! THEY ARE CONFUSED 🤔🤔

  • @beefaye6861
    @beefaye6861 Жыл бұрын

    .....If a man is not interested....he will never approach u......If he want u....he coming for ya!😋

  • @denisedee1978

    @denisedee1978

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen ! So true!

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @IVvOOvVI

    @IVvOOvVI

    Жыл бұрын

    This might be true, but I have an experience where the man come over to give me his number, and never asked for my number. And he was the only man who came over and I was the only woman he interacted with before he left. I never called him because he was supposed to make the plans. When he gave me his number I just had a bad feeling. I’m sure he was just playing a game to see if I’d fall prey. Needless to say, it backfired on him.

  • @starbright2683
    @starbright2683 Жыл бұрын

    Amen! "Don't lean on your own understanding." I am guilty of trying way too hard with the last man who I liked. Lord, please deliver me from low self-esteem, desperation, hopelessness, and anxiety, as I age without children! ❤ And thank you for sending Stephan to speak into our lives. 🌄

  • @Janet1975

    @Janet1975

    Жыл бұрын

    I have the same issues. 😢

  • @brunoconceicao4423

    @brunoconceicao4423

    Жыл бұрын

    Ámen, kiddo🙏🏼🌼

  • @letgowithlisa

    @letgowithlisa

    11 ай бұрын

    Amen!💕

  • @Jo_Cruz

    @Jo_Cruz

    11 ай бұрын

    This is an excellent prayer.

  • @cassandramartin8108

    @cassandramartin8108

    9 ай бұрын

    😢

  • @alihall676
    @alihall676 Жыл бұрын

    I spent many years being controlled by a man who only cared about what I provided to him financially. I learned a great deal from that experience. And I lost myself in the 20 years that I was always going the extra mile. I will never be in this situation again. I have a full life with my friends and family, volunteer work that I will never give up because it’s part of who I am. I have time to focus on someone special in my life and I do this with always having balance in my life. Ladies, communicate up front. If you are not being valued, walk away. Do it with grace and kindness, but walk away. Your time will be there when the timing is right!

  • @j.jgodismyprotection4296

    @j.jgodismyprotection4296

    Жыл бұрын

    Love this Part of Grace and Kindness always Control your emotions. And walk away gracefully.

  • @leannegraceliberty
    @leannegraceliberty Жыл бұрын

    Why do some men pursue, and then as soon as we show interest back, then they withdraw?? Seems like this withdraw-thing is a rather common phenomenon. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @reginadavis1028

    @reginadavis1028

    Жыл бұрын

    The interest back might be coming off as too aggressive and may come off as desperate. Might be too willing to do too much too soon. Maybe? Or some guys just like the pursuit. THAT turns them on. Perhaps...

  • @Didi-fr5ic

    @Didi-fr5ic

    Жыл бұрын

    He is not a man yet but a grown ass boy 😂

  • @leannegraceliberty

    @leannegraceliberty

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@reginadavis1028 yeah, I hear you... I think some guys just really love having a string of women interested in them

  • @Didi-fr5ic

    @Didi-fr5ic

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@reginadavis1028 a woman should show intrest , I think her intrest is great but it will be the right energy for rhe right man , you should always be yourself, i think is she has a strong sense of showing love in that way its great , just close you're legs

  • @leannegraceliberty

    @leannegraceliberty

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Didi-fr5ic ❤❤❤ fully agree

  • @CLJ7519
    @CLJ7519 Жыл бұрын

    “Let God Guide You.” Amen. God + Discernment will never fail you. Trust your spirit and that first gut instinct. It’s always the right one.💯

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @tlc6756

    @tlc6756

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely!

  • @user-es1qt2ib2p

    @user-es1qt2ib2p

    Жыл бұрын

    Love this. It's very true ❤

  • @Thegazelle1000
    @Thegazelle1000 Жыл бұрын

    You said it right Stephan: "if there's attraction, there will not be a lot of work to do." I always put attraction first before i date someone, if I'm not attracted by someone, I'll put him in the friend zone and leave him there lol. When me and my boyfriend met for the first time, we talked for 15 minutes, then he asked me my number and I give it to him without excitation because I was attracted to him and him the same.

  • @user-mb9jx5tx9y

    @user-mb9jx5tx9y

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes attraction is very important

  • @angelicaguzman1484
    @angelicaguzman1484 Жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately, many men just seek attention. Once they get it, they play hard to get, forget it. I know my worth, I thought he was worth my time, I shared my number and he back up, thank God! There’s no way, I will waste my time with someone that’s not mature enough to stop playing games.

  • @turner2952
    @turner2952 Жыл бұрын

    Great vid! If a man is really interested, he will be the one to persue. If the woman is interested, she will respond to his actions in a positive way by thanking him for calling, telling him that she had a great time on the date, telling him how much she appreciated whatever he did for her. IMO, women should never be the one to initiate anything (calls, dates, etc.). The woman should be the "responder", not the "initiator". Call me "old school", but the way I was raised was that women don't chase men. Always great info, Stephan! Keep up the good work!

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @amerokeewiya1320

    @amerokeewiya1320

    Жыл бұрын

    Chasing & showing interest are 2 different things. Nothing wrong with initiating especially when he does it mostly & when you know unequivocally that he’s totally smitten with you. It’s ok dear…

  • @user-mb9jx5tx9y

    @user-mb9jx5tx9y

    Жыл бұрын

    Nothing yu said was wrong. Sooooo right

  • @sowo7136
    @sowo7136 Жыл бұрын

    As a young lady trying to discover and understand the relationships in reference to the men in this world.Stephen you are like a second father or a great advisor,never have I ever been disappointed by your advice its saved and prevented me from unecessary issues.I'm sending God's blessings to you.

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @Braveh3artGirl

    @Braveh3artGirl

    Жыл бұрын

    Highly recommend RC Blakes on youtube to help you also ❤

  • @denisedee1978
    @denisedee1978 Жыл бұрын

    25:49 💯 This is so accurate ! I have refocus my attention on my ,Health & fitness. I excercise in my gym & spend alot of time outdoor everyday 🚶‍♀️ Walking or running. It's also a great way to meet people with your same Vibe. #leanandmean

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @comic_life_86

    @comic_life_86

    Жыл бұрын

    Just a reminder man so often fall in ima work on myself, and then just go to gym and care about physical health, but guys most of the time that is not the problem

  • @themariamercedez1101
    @themariamercedez1101 Жыл бұрын

    Why do we make life so complicated? Just be calm, it is what it is, let it go, let it flow... You can buy yourself Flowers and talk yourself for hours

  • @angeliquealamer

    @angeliquealamer

    Жыл бұрын

    😸👏💐

  • @heltristan

    @heltristan

    Жыл бұрын

    😅😅😅

  • @pixiewinks6897
    @pixiewinks6897 Жыл бұрын

    I have watched 1,000 videos of over 20 dating coaches over the last 2 years and no one has made more sense or given me better advice then you. Thank you ❤

  • @Tnc874

    @Tnc874

    4 ай бұрын

    You may need to get a life

  • @katied2196
    @katied2196 Жыл бұрын

    Yaaasss!! I'm learning how to become a better woman from a real man's point of view.. we were not given handbooks on this! Men and Women are two different species, but similar in other ways, lol.. I just started talking to a new man, for about a minth, after taking time out for myself and not jumping to the 1st interest.. and your advice and knowledge has made me feel like a better woman and sit back and understand his behaviors more now than immediately reacting off emotions.. and I'm a Cancer Zodiac, lol I'm already emotional, sensitive, and can develop insecurities if I don't check myself.. so again, Thank you for all your education on what should be considered from a Man's perspective and my self value perspective Stephan! Your lady is a very lucky woman! 😘

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your feedback, I'm happy this has been helpful to you I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @orarichman9948
    @orarichman9948 Жыл бұрын

    Not only value yourself, do not lower your standards under no circumstances. If he is the right man, he will accept or meet your standards. Pulling away because he pulls away will not draw him to you, especially if he isn't interested in you or attracted to you. If you don't peak his interest in any type of way, you might as well forget it. Don't play hard to get, be authentic AND BE HARD TO GET!!! Why pretend to be hard to get? Pretending is not being honest and genuine.💯

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

  • @Pagalchhagal

    @Pagalchhagal

    Жыл бұрын

    The same advice can be given to men. Do not lower standards. A woman who does not try is likely to not feel attraction towards you and is not deserving of your love

  • @CF-wp7xo
    @CF-wp7xo Жыл бұрын

    It's not the case for every man. Once I started dating a guy.. he seemed very interested and sweet ... we were taking things slow (i was). One day, he told me that his ex-girlfriend bought him a Rolex for his birthday (a couple of months after he broke up with her).. So, he felt that he should try to go out with her... I gave him my blessings and said goodbye ( I wasn't going to buy him another Rolex 😂😂😂)

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏

  • @ladyowl9187

    @ladyowl9187

    Жыл бұрын

    Wtf 😂

  • @CF-wp7xo

    @CF-wp7xo

    Жыл бұрын

    @Stephan Speaks I was not upset at all about it. I was just saying that some men are insecure and like women doormat style. Actually, most men do. But it is not for me

  • @leahgithaiga2941

    @leahgithaiga2941

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂 I like your humor.

  • @tamaraanthony9762

    @tamaraanthony9762

    8 ай бұрын

    Girl he wanted a matching bracelet 😂😂

  • @authorlarhondanfelton9152
    @authorlarhondanfelton9152 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Stephan! This video answered a couple of questions I was pondering over. 💜

  • @tweetyb421
    @tweetyb421 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this word! It is beneficial for any woman to hear…LOTS of good information. I’m just stunned at the “harem” story…I’m stunned because these girls actually know about each other and STILL engage with this guy…no judgement, but women we have to treat OURSELVES better…we’re fabulous and deserve better….❤️

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @lindazeisky3845
    @lindazeisky3845 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, lately, I've been somehow coming across some interesting videos of yours that have made me think of things related to some doubts I've had... Some of it has given clarity.

  • @veritastold830
    @veritastold830 Жыл бұрын

    Let him lead. Learn to follow. Only compete with yourself, to be more original, more authentic, with and/or without him.

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • @celestinebennett212
    @celestinebennett212 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Stephan, your teachings are really educative. Some women don't try too hard because they have busy schedules at work, time is valuable here but when she gives you her time it is 100% . And that's not trying hard because you never know when you will have another date ..depending on your work schedule especially if you are self-employed, the more you grow the more you don't try hard your business takes 90% of your time

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤ 🙏

  • @1bbybl.u

    @1bbybl.u

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s capitalism talking. No one dies and goes “dam I wish I spent more time working” it’s usually “I wish I got to spend more time with *insert deceased person*”. the way we live our lives in western culture is intended to interrupt our connection to the divine. Our souls and spirits are more important. Material gains are not everlasting, love is. clear ur schedule for love, make sacrifices in the name of love & tune deep into ur personal discernment 😊

  • @celestinebennett212

    @celestinebennett212

    Жыл бұрын

    @@1bbybl.u did you know that 80% of couples break up because of financial instability that leads to cheating .. Love is not enough to put food on the table for your family.. Everyone has a choice ...but choose wisely

  • @AudaciousErin82Baby
    @AudaciousErin82Baby Жыл бұрын

    Stephan, I just wanted you to know that you're truly a blessing to us-me especially. Thank You so much my Brotha (huge hug) May God continue to bless you in all of your endeavors now and in the future 🙏🏾

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

  • @laxdidi6300
    @laxdidi6300 Жыл бұрын

    I love everything you share & the way you explain. It all just makes perfect sense! You are the best! Thank you! 🌺

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @RhondaR4
    @RhondaR4 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Stephan for making this video! I'm learning a lot.❤️

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad to hear that 🙏

  • @radmilamilovanovic6450
    @radmilamilovanovic6450 Жыл бұрын

    I'm in love with Stephan's words of wisdom and his closeness to God! Thank YOU 💖

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    My pleasure ❤

  • @shani-gurlt8397
    @shani-gurlt8397 Жыл бұрын

    Wow! This was very enlightening! Such an eye-opener! Thank you. Stephan

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    My pleasure ❤️

  • @elizabethcook9443
    @elizabethcook9443 Жыл бұрын

    This is great advice!! I’m 46 and learning. Thank you!!

  • @JessE-mr4yu
    @JessE-mr4yu Жыл бұрын

    Hi Stephan, I love your channel very helpful. I very much appreciate you. Peace and Blessings to you and all the beautiful souls out there. 🙏💙🩵🕊🕊

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

  • @meagain9649
    @meagain96492 ай бұрын

    This video of yours (especially this one though others too) HELPED ME SOO MUCH to not only respect myself but also value myself and prevent heartache thanks

  • @oliviadimock8202
    @oliviadimock8202 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Stephan for this video, I love hearing perspectives from a man rather than trying to figure it out on my own! God bless you brother! ❤💪

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏

  • @NatashaGrant-ph9od
    @NatashaGrant-ph9od Жыл бұрын

    Good stuff Stephan! This was much needed. Thank you and Godbless you 🙏🏾

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 And may God bless you as well 🙏

  • @vonettaadams8839
    @vonettaadams8839 Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations on your 1.3M subscribers. Keep reaching for the stars 🤩

  • @loridibernardo4926
    @loridibernardo4926 Жыл бұрын

    Beautifully stated!!❤

  • @frankyhubiz6861
    @frankyhubiz6861 Жыл бұрын

    Stephan thank you so much for taking your time to explain all this to us I really appreciate the way you calmly explained the difference between playing hard to get and not trying hard I really understand the difference and I learn something from this your video may God keep on giving you the strength and wisdom to keep on putting us through and may God bless you and your job 🙏 thanks

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

  • @teshathompson5695
    @teshathompson5695 Жыл бұрын

    God chose you for this relationship coach business. Keep up the good work, Sir!

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

  • @Mermaid03_03
    @Mermaid03_03 Жыл бұрын

    This is true. I don’t try at all and post playful toxic things and men seem to flock to me. I just think they’re attracted. It’s nuts to me because you’d think I was a walking red flag lol.

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • @sherryporter4740
    @sherryporter4740 Жыл бұрын

    This was phenomenal, I truly enjoyed it!!!♥️

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @verasmith1900
    @verasmith1900 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing video! You have help me smooth out some kinks in my energy I am putting out! Bless you!!💯💯💯😊😊💕💕

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad I could help 🙏

  • @graciousmurindi2712
    @graciousmurindi2712 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome delivery Stephan

  • @user-mv3dz1io3s
    @user-mv3dz1io3s Жыл бұрын

    What a great video.... this helps so much. 😊

  • @fifi5535
    @fifi5535 Жыл бұрын

    This was perfect timing. God bless you.

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well!

  • @sharonsithole1888
    @sharonsithole1888 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much🙏🏾 i was really need this

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

  • @DeematheFashionDesigner
    @DeematheFashionDesigner Жыл бұрын

    Stephan, I think the real issue is how we are made. Women are naturally lovers and love to show it! The issue is men do not yet they are always complaining that they want to be loved but always pushing away the women that do! It is just confusing and a game where everyone is confused and getting hurt! Women have to tone down their personalities to get a man. It took my years to become “neutral.”

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @kdvwusm

    @kdvwusm

    Жыл бұрын

    I know :( that’s why I have a roster 😅 I am naturally very giving and love pleasing a man I find attractive.

  • @DeematheFashionDesigner

    @DeematheFashionDesigner

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kdvwusm amen to that one! Hard to find that

  • @carlatarantino5383
    @carlatarantino5383 Жыл бұрын

    You are so great at explaining 🎉 thank you!

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    I appreciate that 🙏

  • @Christimony222
    @Christimony222 Жыл бұрын

    I really needed this today. Thank you. So timely.

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

  • @dtinymaynartry
    @dtinymaynartry Жыл бұрын

    I LOVE your content very much.If we are not better people in relationships after hearing all this wisdom then......

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

  • @krysiadavis7773
    @krysiadavis7773 Жыл бұрын

    I don't know what happened to me. I definitely tried too hard, I use to do that with all my relationships in general. But then I learned to no try so hard... not I don't try at all!!! I'm not playing hard to get... I'm just not playing at all. Lol I don't like it but I can't seem to change it. I did completely quit dating.

  • @sonyaellis2059
    @sonyaellis2059 Жыл бұрын

    Here we go again with some more golden nuggets! 😂Love how you are free to express raw truth, including God. 🤗🙏❤️🌞🌈

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @275MsParis
    @275MsParis Жыл бұрын

    I’m learning so much from your channel because I had no clue he was a narcissist until I came across your channel. Thank You

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad I could help 🙏

  • @Olabim
    @Olabim Жыл бұрын

    Hi.. your videos are amazing! What do you think about different religions getting married? I mean, for example, a Christian and a Muslim?

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Stephan, your relationship videos have been beneficial for my interpersonal relationships & marriage. 👍

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @MsLilac88

    @MsLilac88

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MeetStephanSpeaks I hope that more people can gain clarity about the complexities of men’s mind. 😊

  • @hmastin
    @hmastin Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for reminding us about not over looking the component of God’s guidance and the importance of it’s role in our lives

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    My pleasure ❤️

  • @gi552
    @gi552 Жыл бұрын

    Watching your videos lead me meet the man I prayed for who matches my effort and energy in terms of pouring each others need and desire to strengthen our relationship even if we are miles apart 😊

  • @daniellarodriguezperez8079

    @daniellarodriguezperez8079

    Жыл бұрын

    Are you in a long-distance relationship if you don't mind me asking?

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad I could help 🙏

  • @gi552

    @gi552

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MeetStephanSpeaks 🙏❤️😊

  • @gi552

    @gi552

    Жыл бұрын

    @@daniellarodriguezperez8079 Yes, Mam 😊

  • @daniellarodriguezperez8079

    @daniellarodriguezperez8079

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gi552 me too. Hope you get what you deserve

  • @lovice43
    @lovice436 ай бұрын

    Great video. Thanks 👏🏽 💯

  • @latoyarichardson2999
    @latoyarichardson2999 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this this was very helpful

  • @keylathomas1555
    @keylathomas15557 ай бұрын

    I love how despite discussing serious -real issues, you always find a way to make us laugh 😂... Thank you!💕God bless you brother!

  • @55mjlangdon
    @55mjlangdon Жыл бұрын

    Great information. Thank you 🙏 💜😀

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    My pleasure ❤️

  • @SusieMarie-57
    @SusieMarie-57 Жыл бұрын

    Thank You Stephan! Yes, Yes and yes to the first 10 seconds!!!

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @SusieMarie-57

    @SusieMarie-57

    Жыл бұрын

    Okay Stephan, so I just found out about You the other week & You Do Know Your Stuff -I’m so impressed! I hope You considering going live sometime soon / because I want to talked back to you from the female perspective! Plus to ask you to elaborate some more on some points! Actually I find myself talking to you - only like men you ignore me and keep going.. ha, ha Your teaching is refreshing & a God sent; love hearing you speak & absolutely love that fact that you are a God-fearing Christian man & come from His truth! I don’t want to listen nor learn from the world; they come from all kinds of wayward, perverted & Lustful perspective! I’m interested in Love! And a fun, healthy, enjoyable, solid relationship with a masculine real man, not a wimp or sissy nor an arrogant power hungry greedy ego manic or chauvinistic pig! And I certainly don’t desire a man that’s prettier than me or one that takes more time primping in the mirror or one that’s covered in jewelry, no earrings, no oh, oh - okay so you have them but I prefer clean skin & No Tattoos or long hair… ha, ha - you’re good though Stephan anyhow you belong to someone else - which is a good thing! Ha, ha And that’s a good thing that beauty is in the eye of the beholder & we each like & are attracted to different features physically & for sure the heart ❤️ & mind of a good solid man -the whole package - Spirit, Mind & Body

  • @kourtney101
    @kourtney101 Жыл бұрын

    Nice, this segment was real talk. Perhaps we need to know the answer to basic questions, like, do I know what I deserve? 🤔 🙏🏿

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

  • @nyasmith-assis5168
    @nyasmith-assis5168 Жыл бұрын

    Glad I kept my curiosity up until 19:26 this is exactly how I would know if someone is right for me and I would want him to feel this way as well. :)

  • @Mrs.Neves3523
    @Mrs.Neves3523 Жыл бұрын

    This is exactly what my husband tells me. He’s never gone for anyone who’s come for him first.

  • @dianaross1055
    @dianaross1055 Жыл бұрын

    thank you for the video 💜

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    My pleasure ❤️

  • @tonarence
    @tonarence Жыл бұрын

    All points are valid 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @eb3644
    @eb3644 Жыл бұрын

    God has gifted you with such wisdom and the best words to convey the information I need. Thank You so so much.

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @sharonspence424
    @sharonspence424 Жыл бұрын

    EXCELLENT TOPIC AND ADVICE❤

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

  • @tishaadams2366
    @tishaadams2366 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this. Whole video. The part of having a life outside of a man. I actually talked to God about this. It's on point for me. Thank you 💯💯

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

  • @shantavalentine9537
    @shantavalentine9537 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the video I put pressure on people unfortunately because my family all are married and look at me like something wrong with me. But these guys are nothing now it’s so hard

  • @stefanimelcher
    @stefanimelcher Жыл бұрын

    Oh boy, this is the hardest to do! It's hard not to try to make things happen and let God make it happen. Thanks Steph, you rcok!

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad I could help 🙏

  • @carolinenakiwala9813
    @carolinenakiwala9813 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much sir for always improving me.

  • @preciousstone2782
    @preciousstone2782 Жыл бұрын

    I ABSOLUTELY AGREE...WOMEN SHOULD SHOW SOME INTEREST ,& MAKE SOME EFFORT WITHOUT BEING A THIRSTY...

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @easyblink123
    @easyblink123 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Stephen, Really appreciate your content it is honestly so uplifting & sound! I wanted to ask if you could do a video in the next few months on embracing love & not running away? I know your answer is to heal - since this is a journey would love a video on what we can do in the meantime to be/remain open to love meeting us as grow & work on our "hurt list" inner hurts.

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

  • @shoppernista
    @shoppernista Жыл бұрын

    Bottom line - Let God guide you - Pray- Absolutely

  • @hateisforlosers6116
    @hateisforlosers6116 Жыл бұрын

    This was awesome!!!!! Information. I have met guys who just want to have fun,i am like God No i dont have anytime for that. I learned to enjoy my singleness and my ever so precious relationship with the Father God.He's right about all 5 points, for the younger ladies listen to this gentleman ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤

  • @melissa_rabbani
    @melissa_rabbani Жыл бұрын

    I love your enrgy.. And i feel so good ,and i love your soul❤✨

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @666liana
    @666liana Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤ thank you so much ⚘

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    My pleasure ❤️

  • @catcat9582
    @catcat9582 Жыл бұрын

    I can't handle dating anymore. So many things to be and not to be in order for a man to value you

  • @seductruss

    @seductruss

    Жыл бұрын

    It's definitely draining.

  • @jibarabicha4853

    @jibarabicha4853

    Жыл бұрын

    I think once a true attraction and connection happens, things flow organically and most of this advice goes out the window.

  • @anousalis4089

    @anousalis4089

    7 ай бұрын

    Very exhausting

  • @catcat9582

    @catcat9582

    7 ай бұрын

    @anousalis4089 In some ways the exhaustion is freeing. I don't understand red pill men who say women have such high standards when I see so many women w men who like and act like a big toe

  • @steeenab2306
    @steeenab2306 Жыл бұрын

    Mannnnnn. I wish I had found u in 2020 😂. Yeeshhh. Lol. I would’ve love to hear this with a certain situation. I would’ve never played the cards like I did. 😂. But I’m good now. Just wish I would’ve seen in that one ;) blessings Stephan. ❤

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS Жыл бұрын

    Reciprocating is essential

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Most definitely!

  • @tzk121
    @tzk121 Жыл бұрын

    He valued her but he had 6 other women he was hitting in a rotation😂😂😂. Stephan, I can only imagine the laughs that u get from all the nonsense cuz I be rolling on the floor during some of your talks🤣🤣

  • @whatisthis1715

    @whatisthis1715

    Жыл бұрын

    @tzk121 Yeah, his end game still is to roll a 7, so to speak😂😂. Those other "side slides" are ego protectors. How do you think they'd feel about him if they knew about #7? You KNOW they'd ALL climb on a stool....and pigeon 🤣🤣🤣🤣....blow his 💩 right out of the 💦

  • @courtneyeaglin6505
    @courtneyeaglin6505 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 💙

  • @Touchedmymouthministriesint
    @Touchedmymouthministriesint Жыл бұрын

    I heard a sermon preached once, "If God should go on strike"😊(Mat5:45); Love can never be too much, as a matter of truth, it is owed and, therefore, gots to be constantly paid up: Rom 13:8 Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law. Another important thing to know about woman is that she multiplies whatever a man gives to her - give her a house, she gives you a home, give her a seed, she gives you generations, a word and she can give you a book 😊 - like this video here got me preaching! Woman can make sense outta nonsense!; Love bomb a woman and you in trouble! - you might have to run outta town! So, men are the reason for their own distress - if you can't put up, then shut up! Women are multipliers! 😅 Go figure! Hold on! Mi nuh finish yet, have (too much) more fi give; Men go around sweet talking woman and firing seed in a 'dem, and a whole lot of children being born, left neglected and abandoned all over the world - men are the reason for the state of the world; The more you try to give woman trouble for what Eve did, the more hell you get, yet Jesus dropped the charges, but no, I guess He gave too much when He died on the cross - tell 'Im dat nuh! Yeah, men, better watch how you come, for then you'll be crying like a little boy, 'too much, too much😢'; Woman is like a sports car, a lot a power revving in her to give; If you don't grow up, don't come behind the wheel, stay in your house and play with toy cars, don't even give a woman a look, for you asking for trouble and, if you give her trouble, you gwe (gonna) get hell! Oh my, was that too much?😅; You gave the video

  • @MmM20978
    @MmM20978 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Stephan. I appreciate your videos since I recently have been watching them more. I looked back to your videos to see if you have any advice on a Mama’s boy and men who want their Mother’s approval and her competition with you as his wife!

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the visit. I’ll add these suggestions to my list of requested videos! In the meantime, you might like this video 👉 kzread.info/dash/bejne/f6F93KyycdiamrQ.html

  • @MmM20978

    @MmM20978

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MeetStephanSpeaks Ty!

  • @kristle_virgo-empathic4683
    @kristle_virgo-empathic4683 Жыл бұрын

    You are the best ❤🎉. This waS for me. 444. Thank you!!!

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

  • @latoyarichardson2999
    @latoyarichardson2999 Жыл бұрын

    You right if you do less it attracts them

  • @Judybell1959
    @Judybell1959 Жыл бұрын

    I'm not asking a man for his number

  • @beefaye6861

    @beefaye6861

    Жыл бұрын

    Me either..... ✌

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

  • @amerokeewiya1320

    @amerokeewiya1320

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol I hear that!

  • @s.c.h6512

    @s.c.h6512

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol never have in my 28 years. I'm single though lol. These new generation of men ugh

  • @thisismystone9658
    @thisismystone9658 Жыл бұрын

    We even give out our number to guys just to honour his courage to ask sometimes well knowing he totally has no chance.

  • @thisismystone9658
    @thisismystone9658 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks ❤

  • @jennifermbogoKE
    @jennifermbogoKE7 ай бұрын

    17:22 not the "Thursday Girl"!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 not to be insensitive, but damn! "she was one of the days" 😭😭😭😭

  • @abigalestoll
    @abigalestoll Жыл бұрын

    I agree with you ❤️, thanks for sharing.

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    My pleasure ❤️

  • @imvivi3953
    @imvivi3953 Жыл бұрын

    For me i do know my value but sometimes if i genuinely like someone i will do anything for them i understand that man might think that i do not value myself but doesn’t not mean I don’t know my value I’m jus showing u that hey look, i want u . I think these types of men are jus the wrong ones and do not know what they want

  • @Marie-vz2qp
    @Marie-vz2qp Жыл бұрын

    May God guide us in the right path 🙏💕

  • @aunyawilliams9705
    @aunyawilliams9705 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you that was so true and it's all said there about gave men too much time at that but God yes Good God is it thanks 🙏

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    My pleasure ❤

  • @BrittanniMelissa
    @BrittanniMelissa8 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤excellent video. You've helped me so much.😊

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks

    @MeetStephanSpeaks

    7 ай бұрын

    Glad I could help 🙏

  • @constanzaserra6406
    @constanzaserra640611 ай бұрын

    Is it possible that this advices also aplies for job relationships? I feel I can also apply this information for a job search 😂

  • @user-yf1uo7nz4d
    @user-yf1uo7nz4d9 ай бұрын

    oh how I wish to date a man like yourself. You are so helpful to us women .... that says a lot to me on how philanthropic your heart is. :)

  • @ChelleSchannel
    @ChelleSchannel Жыл бұрын

    God bless you for trying to help us women