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@renayw.8699

2 жыл бұрын

Awesome!

@desireediaz4081

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Stephan.great advice always.

@kimmiet.8962

2 жыл бұрын

My issue with that is many men don’t give grace. Many sleep with everything moving or mess up constantly, but want you to forgive.. Patience & grace should be taught to them heavily.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

@@renayw.8699 ❤ 🙂 Thank you!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

@@desireediaz4081 My pleasure ❤️

Usually when I feel “yeah, this guy is the one” it’s the beginning of 3-year therapy

@Twinmama143

Жыл бұрын

Lol really?

@MM-re1jw

Жыл бұрын

😂

@bm4551

Жыл бұрын

😂

@neoloanderson6676

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@nahjacutler

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 fr

1: He doesn’t care about other women 2: She makes him feel amazing 3: He is very attracted to you 4: She brings him peace 5: He enjoys her non- sexual company 6: He can trust her 7: He feels loved and desired

@emmanuellatendem6258

5 ай бұрын

thank youuu

@charquella

4 ай бұрын

Thanks

@beckycarreiro2369

4 ай бұрын

im so lucky my man is like that... thank you Lord

@Bobthebuilder-gn8ur

4 ай бұрын

Very accurate brings him peace might be the most important!

@MSGoal160

4 ай бұрын

But men feel it with in mins.... this you speak of us his vetting process

My beloved late husband asked me to marry him 2 weeks after I met him. We were married for 46 years. Raised 2 children. I miss him. Good marriage.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

@lminton7563

Жыл бұрын

Thats awesome. And so sorry for your loss...

@ballison1716

8 ай бұрын

Awwwwww ❤

@sharonbraselton4302

7 ай бұрын

198⁰

@CanadianWhatever

2 ай бұрын

I want to send my condolences, but also express how grateful I am that you have shared your story of amazing love. Amazing and grateful that these stories exist out there. Can you share your favourite memory of your relationship? A "make it or break it" story? ❤

Agreed , My father knew my mother for 6 month and married her. They were married for 50 years before she passed away from Alzheimer disease. That's his forever lady.

@Lovealwayswins512

Жыл бұрын

So sorry about your mom. I pray that your day is doing well.

@BC-pm3lg

Жыл бұрын

He is thank you so much.

@themystical3282

Жыл бұрын

Wow such a beautiful story. May your mother rest in peace ❤️

@BC-pm3lg

Жыл бұрын

@@themystical3282 Thank you

@liztowers2058

Жыл бұрын

Ugh 50yrs..... heartbreaking

Wow! My husband and I were in the same setting in college for a couple of weeks. When he asked me out on our first date, he said, “I think you would make a great wife.” (I wasn’t thinking about marriage at that time). That was 41 years ago. We just celebrated our 39th wedding Anniversary.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

@elindabeanland5917

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for all the Great videos Mr. Stephan! You are such a blessing!!!❣️

@roblawson8076

Жыл бұрын

Definitely REAL talk

@cynthiakwawu9388

Жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks pls what does it mean when a man says ;I want to spend the rest of my life with you

@Jo_Cruz

Жыл бұрын

Better times...

He told me "you are beautiful..you have a natural beauty" wow. we have been dating for seven months. i am a 66 year old widow; he is a 66 year old widower.Yes love can happen at any age!

@innedbystephanspeaks8004

2 жыл бұрын

THANKS FOR WATCHING 🤍🤍WRITE🤍🤍ME🤍🤍ON🤍🤍ωнατѕαρρ🤍🤍➕1𝟕𝟎𝟕𝟗𝟐𝟓𝟐𝟓𝟏𝟑▫️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@alexandrabackhaus6729

2 жыл бұрын

Every other guy tells me that, a few weeks later they change their tune. I take their words with a pinch of salt. Only actions count.

@marilinwisbey7403

2 жыл бұрын

Lovely 😝 XX ❤️

@LRey85

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful…wishing you both much success

I watched this video a week before I met my partner. We spent the whole weekend together and when we finally said goodbye, he said to me, you’re the one… Four months later, I’ve been watching so many of your videos because I truly want a lasting relationship, and I found out he listens to you too😅 We’ve recently decided we are both the one for each other. I’m really grateful for all this advice you share. Your worth your weight in gold!! I owe my relationship to this channel!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Glad I could help 🙏

@aprilmccain3632

Жыл бұрын

What a beautiful love story ❤

@Jamilah1117

9 ай бұрын

Yea yea good for y’all

@leannwiederanders1844

9 ай бұрын

Yaaaaay!!! 💓

@dianavanessacaicedo440

9 ай бұрын

You bring me Hope! God bless you guys.

Even as a teenager my husband knew. He knew within less than a month. We were 15. I thought he was probably wrong and that he would change his mind. He didn't. He really did know I was what he wanted in a wife for himself and in a mother for his children. He says I was unusually put together and grown up for our age and it was easy to see the kind of woman I already was. Also...that physical chemistry. It was and still is off the charts. He was right and never lets me forget it. 31 years and 3 kids later I am thankful he was so aware of what he wanted. He's a wonderful husband and dad.

@beliveable8539

Жыл бұрын

🥰😍🤩 a true love story. Thank you for sharing 😊

@shawnab

Жыл бұрын

You're blessed 🙌🏾

@maunamars968

Жыл бұрын

I want that

@maunamars968

Жыл бұрын

I'm so happy about your life.

@MM-hk7ym

Жыл бұрын

I am so happy for u.. god bless ur family 🙏

I didn’t know my wife was the one when we first started dating. But after some time, she became my very best friend as if she was a part of me and I knew I wouldn’t be able to live without her. I had to seal the deal lol

@elexiscarrington476

2 жыл бұрын

⚘❤Awww... May God continue to strengthen your union. ❤⚘

@jpet7570

2 жыл бұрын

Love it

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@zeal4god402

2 жыл бұрын

You can't live without God

@blackbeauty826

2 жыл бұрын

Wow

My husband told our coworkers and my step mom that I was going to be his wife the very first time we met. I didn't find that out until 10 years later. He was the best man, son, father , friend, lover and the ultimate husband and provider. He passed last year after 20 years of making me thee happiest woman ever created. Cinderella and snow white have nothing on me!!!! My Prince was designed by God and he was just showing off when he made my husband! Fact!!!!

@AoibheannDoyle-SoulTherapist

Жыл бұрын

Beautiful!❤

@AdventuresOfBillAndMia

Жыл бұрын

I just love this! May your husband-king rest in heavenly peace.

@TheBizuzu

Жыл бұрын

All my condolences to you and your family. May Jehovah God comfort you in Jesus' Mighty Name. Amen

@naamorosah

Жыл бұрын

My condolences dear

@nicholettemichelle3929

Жыл бұрын

What a beautiful thought. Am glad you had those 20years

as a dude myself i could say that everything this guy says is just absolute truth, the woman that i have in my life ticks all of these boxes and its kinda amazing how he actually nailed all of it. being with her makes me feel infinite, like it’s only me and her against the world. i want to be a better man a better person everyday because of her, i believe that she’s the best person in this world and she deserve nothing less than the best man also.

@KaylaNoelle1

9 ай бұрын

Yeah men know shockingly fast. My bf is trying to buy us a house after only four months and he’d get married right away but he doesn’t want to freak out our friends and family. 😂

@live.life.secure.coaching

9 ай бұрын

This is beautiful 😍

@jacquelyndobson1365

9 ай бұрын

Damn, she lucky as HELL!

@Pushnotificationsalwaysoffbye

6 ай бұрын

This made me tear up! I’ve been married to a man who felt this way about me for 6 years and he knew within two months. I think I was so happy, I ignored a lot of my own needs. Cut to years later and a divorce (we were never truly compatible) I finally gave a good man access to my heart again - actually he made his way over my walls - and we realized we sounded crazy, but we said the day we fell in love “I think I’m going to marry you” and we’re a few months into this working on our goals individually and together. It’s beautiful and I have to emphasize that according to my boyfriend and in my opinion, I think that being comfortable with myself and knowing I don’t need to settle to be happy has made me happier and more appealing. I love and would date myself, that wasn’t always the case, but at 33, I know ME and I love the people who appreciate me for that.

@KimCruzes

4 ай бұрын

These stories are so wonderful

Here is a quick tip ...if what he is saying makes you angry, if it triggers you, you're not ready. I say this with love.

@stephaniesanders8274

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. Had a light bulb moment!

@alisaben1

Жыл бұрын

🎯

@anoukvanryckeghem9894

Жыл бұрын

If this makes us angry it’s because we deserve better than that. We will never be ready to settle, and that’s a good thing.

@anoukvanryckeghem9894

Жыл бұрын

If this makes us angry or triggers us it’s because it’s wrong. We should never be ready to have to settle for this

@Just_Hopeless_Romantic

Жыл бұрын

@@anoukvanryckeghem9894 yes absolutely agree with you!!

Ladies this is true. I was single in December and I have a ring on my finger as of this week 🥺 he’s a god loving, god fearing man and the love of my life. The biggest blessing I’ve ever received. We go to church every Sunday and Wednesday and do devotionals at night. Thank you Lord ❤️

@priscillaelikem6202

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations

@TheShellybaybee

2 жыл бұрын

That’s scary and I wouldn’t accept a ring but that’s just me

@samoyewatson4337

2 жыл бұрын

Awe, congratulations sis!

@applesnicolle5144

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheShellybaybee / Why’s that scary? She’s got herself a God loving man

@peytonwright5346

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations and thank you for sharing your testimony. I'm encouraged to continue waiting on God's best for me.

I'm shading tears nearly at the end. Isn't it beautiful to be found?! Congratulations to every woman that was found. To the rest of us yet to be found let's find ourselves and true happiness void of insecurity because probably that's why we are invisible

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing ❤ I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

@gummybear4011

2 жыл бұрын

Aww that's so beautiful

@BABS889

2 жыл бұрын

But wait for how long ?

@Pinkcandy777

Жыл бұрын

I wish :(

@Pinkcandy777

Жыл бұрын

@@BABS889 it's hard isn't it :(

A man will simply show you through his actions that you are the one for him, he will put you as one of his priorities, you have his undivided attention, and he’s actually follows through with what he says if he keeps his promises that means he loves you and does anything to make you happy. ❤

@alaalfa8839

6 ай бұрын

If you live in the moment you dont compare, but you love. 🙂 Dr. Joe Dispenza: "Comparison and competition is the old way of thinking, love empathy, gratitude and helping each other in the community is a new way of thinking.".........You know it if you listen to your higher self connected to higher frequency and energy. Love is energy.

@alaalfa8839

6 ай бұрын

He feels desired is important to him but he may actually get desiredby his own goodhearted actions, if he also puts effort of being a good person.

@goldenshepardgwen166

5 ай бұрын

@@alaalfa8839oh so very true.

I’m so in love with the purity and the positivity of this comment section! Thanks for all the amazing stories guys.

I'd like to add something, from my own personal experiences (this is mostly directed towards the ladies)...from my experiences (many, it has happened time and time again for me, ive had many guys think i was "the one" and proposed marriage/were dead set on marrying me, so ive been seeing the patterns) a guy that truly thinks you are "the one" will NOT let your past sway him from viewing you as "the one" no matter what anyone says or what he finds out. The reason being....because he actually loves you at your core and genuinely likes the human being that you are. The guys that do change their perspective of you and "demote" you from being "the one" because of rumors/gossip/your past/for whatever reason 1) never truly liked you as the human you were to begin with and only liked the idea of you and what you could give him or how youd fit into his picture 2)have underlying control issues 3)have underlying self worth/confidence issues that need to be worked out (preferrably by himself). I say this because I dont want ANY women thinking they have to hide anything or fear what others will say when getting to know someone. Stand in your truth. I can say all this without even flinching or doubting myself because I know when I met my "the one " guy, I instantly knew that 1) i felt at ease and comfortable around him 2) it felt like meeting a soul friend that i was familiar with nothing was forced everything was very natural on both sides to the point where it was a lil freaky 3) the love i had for him wasnt unrealistic where it ommitted his past, or it didnt change upon seeing his "undesirable" traits, it felt easy embracing it with understanding that we are all human and we all go through life lessons (pretty or ugly) and that we all have conditioning or things to work through 4) i felt all of these things coming from his side too 5) him seeing my faults and mistakes or oddness etc actually made him see me fully and made him fall even more so for me 6) your gut just knows IMMEDIATELY like a sixth sense. You CANNOT fabricate it, you cannot replicate it, you cannot ignore it, it just happens and you are stuck sitting there like "oh shit" and "i know you" but also "i see you" and "i feel you" and "it feels like we could be best friends but there is chemistry and" ugh it's hard to put into words. It's just a calm knowing and it does exist, it's not a myth. So if you are unsure of someone, or they are unsure of you. Drop them immdeiately because you are wasting both of each others time. When it's right, it flows, and you just know. Anyways, just be yourself always 100% this goes both ways. If a person genuinely stops viewing you as the one, let them, cuz i can ABSOLUTELY guarantee you, you were both only meant to learn lessons and part, not growth with each other and fulfill your higher purposes with each other.

@melissamcinnis9378

2 жыл бұрын

I completely agree! If something about your past changes his view of you then he only liked the idea of you. Thanks for sharing!

@lovealwaysxoxoxo6745

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!

@sairalantigua2637

2 жыл бұрын

This is so helpful thanks 🙏🏽

@lydiasegers2515

2 жыл бұрын

Yes

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback ❤

Yep my husband and I married 4 months after we met, he said he knew at first meet❤️ I think Men that are spiritually in tune know immediately.. Other men are double minded and wrestle with Logic.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@CHOSENWOMAN777

2 жыл бұрын

WOW

@thandicandy5452

2 жыл бұрын

True

@JustMe-wq4ue

2 жыл бұрын

Respectfully, are you over 40?

@nikkisunshine8849

2 жыл бұрын

Well said

1.Your true intention to become irresistible magnet 2. The more you need, the less you are likely to receive what you desire 3. Inner story should be changed 4. State from wanting to knowing 5. Negative vibrations should be removed. 6. Stop thinking about them all time and it will increase the desire for you for them. 7. Make them experience of the void. Focus on your energy 1. Be the best version of yourself 2. Be independent - learn to fall in love with you 3. Radiate positive energy. Eg , good things are filling my life today. Keep your thoughts positive 4. Develop the mystery. Like packed gift- create mystery of who you are, what you do, where are you? 5. Maintain little distance 6. Every single day visualize the outcome. Focus on two of you together. 7. Living your life on purpose. Write your goals down.

@marshamish1214

8 ай бұрын

God bless you for this. Peace and love 🙏❤️

@lilove6560

7 ай бұрын

This summary is everything 💗

@rahmasamir909

7 ай бұрын

Set boundries thats the first one if not its a door to hell

So true. Met my husband 2.5 years ago after 3 weeks of spending time he asked me to be his gf. We moved after a year and we just got married last month. He said he knew when he asked me to be his gf i was going to be his wife and he is the calm to my storm. God truly blessed me ❤

I had just signed a 1-year lease on my new apartment when I met my future husband. We knew immediately we were meant to be married. My daughter took to him and his sons and it was so comfortable for everyone. He wanted me to break my lease, I refused to mess up my credit LOL. On the very day my lease was up, he showed up with a uUhaul truck and we moved in that day. We were married 3 Mos. later. We have been married 20+ years.

@LemansSunset350

2 жыл бұрын

Amazing!! ❤️

@mysticempath5601

2 жыл бұрын

Love this

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@giasmom2007

2 жыл бұрын

I love this story❤️

@kimpossible2725

2 жыл бұрын

😍😍😍

For women too, the right man will inspire her to change and evolve into the best woman she can be… for herself and her partner 🦋💜

@sassenachdragon

Жыл бұрын

Amen sister. I’m certain, I’ve never had the connection or the chemistry like this… and you’re right about wanting to be the best woman you can be… I had NEVER considered quitting smoking for anyone before (I just continued and hid it), this time I KNEW within a week I was going to quit and I did!!! And I’m cleaning my place from top to bottom…

@BlossomFlower285

Жыл бұрын

Awww this is confirmation 🥹

@tiffanyyisrael7989

Жыл бұрын

🙌🏾

@KimCruzes

4 ай бұрын

That's awesome

@user-dv9xx3yy8v

4 ай бұрын

Exactly. For both gender

The right man will communicate his vision and his feelings

This video rings true. My dad was a successful bachelor with no children up until 45 years of age. Met my mother, married her within 6 months, married for 25 years until he sadly passed away a few years back.

@sharonbraselton4302

7 ай бұрын

soór fír lós

@TerrySasser

2 ай бұрын

😢this breaks my heart . I’m glad to hear they had a great marriage together inspite of the circumstances

When my dad 1st saw my mother, he told her “Woman, I’m going to marry you.” & my mother started crying…..they’re were married up until his death {50 yrs later} my point is yes some men do know when they have found the one….. I loves your dialogues Sir

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@ThatsBoujee

2 жыл бұрын

🥴 that’s beautiful 😍

@blackbeauty826

2 жыл бұрын

Awww

@p.s.706

2 жыл бұрын

Beauty at it’s best ♥️❤️🌸❤️♥️🌺♥️🌸♥️❤️♥️💞

@fayfalcon7642

2 жыл бұрын

🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲God bless them that you had parents that loved each other like that. His “ forever love”

20:25 As my husband said he cut all his other ties he had immediately after he met me…He didn’t want Anything or Anyone to mess it up between us….17 years later here we are…♥️♥️

@user-zx5xw4yw2e

Жыл бұрын

♥

@ambrosia21

Жыл бұрын

Ok!!❤❤🎉🎉love that for you

"I'm gonna keep her because I don't want anyone else having her" is another reason a man will choose a woman that isn't 'the one'.

You are right Stephan, my husband started talking about marriage a month after we met and we have not even been on our first dat as yet. Needless-to-say he proposed to me on our first date and we are now happily married after 6 yrs.

When HE KNOW, YOU KNOW too. It's a connection, deeper than anything physical. That's how WE KNOW WE'RE EACH OTHERS PERSON!! #Thankful #Blessed #Vibe

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@AlwayzaTopKnotch

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you’re welcome but fr thank you for letting God use you to impart all this wisdom!

@chynabarnescb

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful

I met my fiance in December ..and two weeks after he was telling me he wants marriage one day with me and that he found the one. Two months later we were engaged and we are getting married in June. My mother always said when a guys knows he won't wait.....so true it's a classic!

@m.c.8877

2 жыл бұрын

It's a red flag when they discuss marriage after two weeks. Don't fall for it. It will not last believe me from personal experience. It is better to take it slow. They say they want marriage just to get you then leave you.

@clarissegomez9275

2 жыл бұрын

Listen I don't mean to be rude here but not everyone story is written the same. If anything I am the only one who has threaten to leave him a few times already because its so hard to love someone after you have been traumatized with the wrong guy..so the good guy is the one paying at the end ... Trust me if he wanted only sex I would have known and tell me which guy do that when 1. I'm older than him 2 . I have an autistic child 3. He took me , my child and my dog and he provides everything for us without ever asking me for money. 4. He waited until we set the marriage date to have sex with me which took a couple of months (because he knows I'm a godly woman who didn't not want to repeat the same mistakes) 5. He is not afraid of risking having another autistic child with me ... If that's not proof of real love then I don't know what is! Ps: he is a godly man and we do Bible study together!!

@m.c.8877

2 жыл бұрын

@@clarissegomez9275 They are all nice in the beginning sometimes. They do everything that you want ...Go to church ... but in some cases it can be a facade. Two weeks and someone asks for marriage is usually someone trying to control the situation.

@mcchickenmuhchicken

2 жыл бұрын

@@clarissegomez9275 becareful because im sure you arent the only one hes said that too...you just are the one to go along with it

@jaybrown2549

2 жыл бұрын

@@m.c.8877 A red flag is a super fact!

My husband knew I was the one, within the first 30 days of dating. We were married within 11 months of dating. My past relationship was 7 yrs of time. Too much time. 😂❤

My man told me he knew few hours upon meeting for the first time.....on the ladies part too. You will know when you meet your husband. I don't know how to explain. It's just the most calm relaxing feeling ever. You feel a sense of peace of comfort and peace when you meet the one as well for the ladies

My brother knew as soon as he saw her. They have been married for over 45 years.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@thandicandy5452

2 жыл бұрын

WOW ❤️❤️❤️the lucky ones!!

I have studied multiple couples who have been married for years and the majority of the men always said they new day one or pretty quickly after meeting her. The women always took longer to realize he is the one.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@Ohkeh640

2 жыл бұрын

Nice

@TRUMPisOPPA

2 жыл бұрын

This doesn’t seem to exist among millennials/gen z. No guy friends has ever agree this was a thing when I asked them about it. They just date who looks hot or has money, etc. These types of videos seem like a romantic fantasy, a typical Disney movie.

@brittani.alyssa

2 жыл бұрын

@@TRUMPisOPPA love takes emotional maturity. It’s not about age so much as experiences and deep understanding of yourself and others

@TRUMPisOPPA

2 жыл бұрын

@@brittani.alyssa I see. 👌🏽 Sadly those who are mature in love don’t seem common.

That's true..True love brings you inner peace,calmness and i recovered from anxiety,stress just because of true love!!

My dad is definitely not the romantic type and he said he knew he was going to marry my mom the first time he saw her. They married in less than a year and it's been 36 years💚

You can see and feel it!!! Her energy and presence liberates you. You'll want to just do stuff for her ,especially knowing she feels exactly the same way

@BrooklynBaby-1

2 жыл бұрын

Eh… i have doubts. I’ve had plenty of men say I made them feel so good and happy and then it dies. I always pull back maybe it’s me.. idk..

@DK-ki2fh

2 жыл бұрын

@@BrooklynBaby-1 If you've dated so many men and none of them met your unrealistic standards, then maybe the problem is with you? Just my guess.

@lighthouse2946

2 жыл бұрын

@@BrooklynBaby-1 we must recognize our blessings and know when someone is God sent. You probably had them feeling as if you were too good to be true. Some women be intimidated by my Spirit and do the same to me. We can only vibrate with people on our wave length and energy level. So basically I need a woman full of the Holy Spirit 🔥🙏🏾😇

@tiffanymendoza9329

Жыл бұрын

@@BrooklynBaby-1 are you pulling back after it dies or before?

@tyjones6626

Жыл бұрын

​@@DK-ki2fh didn't she just say that

It's so true. I've heard this story so many times from almost all the long term couples, the ones who truly have a deep love bond, and this is what I hear. It's usually the man who knew the lady was the one he wants to marry, sometimes at first sight, sometimes within days or weeks. He pursues her, they get married and stay married. Ladies, if you ever doubt whether the man you like likes you the same way, try and move on. Sorry to say this, but keep your dignity by moving on. I say this because if the man really really likes you, you will never be in any doubt about how he feels. He will go out of his way to show you. That's it right there. Love God, love yourselves and show love to everyone and anyone who comes into your space 💖

@aenigmatica8

Жыл бұрын

So true!! ❤️

@Kamirarenee

Жыл бұрын

Facts!

@marvagreenfield3574

Жыл бұрын

Women who allowed themselves to be played in rotation, knowingly, has low self-esteem. They need to learn how to love themselve.

@iaf4454

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you...

@zanm7407

9 ай бұрын

Yes! My fiance told me he knew he wanted to marry me after a month of dating ❤

Thanks, Stephan, I met this guy 3 months ago, and we both just knew we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. He asked me to marry him and I said yes.

@TerrySasser

2 ай бұрын

Congratulations 🎉🍾

Trust and loyalty are important to me as well. That's security for me.

A Man can recognise a woman's value when he is secure in himself and understands that she is GOOD ENOUGH. On the other hand, sees her as valuable and worthy.

@michaele5588

2 жыл бұрын

secure in himself or not secure in himself... a man can immediately sense a woman's value in a blink of an eye. I think that an innate gift a man has...because in bible men seek for a wife... women don't seek for husband. AS for women, the have to date you almost 6 months,,, get a feel of you.. then,,, decide to fall in love.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@amdjoy251

2 жыл бұрын

Beautifully stated! 😃

@ThuNguyen-ci1zh

2 жыл бұрын

Too many men are insecure and need extra validation 😭 it’s the never ending game🤣

@Itslewieo

2 жыл бұрын

Bingo

I’m annoyed that I waited so long on my ex to figure out what he wanted. But now I met someone that treats me how I always should have been 💕

@blessingsaflow4854

Жыл бұрын

Good for you sweetheart. Bless your marriage.

@stacysmith7387

Жыл бұрын

What is different about the two guys?

It’s amazing to see all the couples who found their mate resonate with this! I love seeing positive outcomes! All though my love life just seem to doesn’t exist. I love how God placed me to be a witness to others!! This video has been a blessing for me and I’m grateful to be waiting with expectation. Thank you

@Ytdeletesallmycomments

Жыл бұрын

Same! Nice to read that there men who do choose to love and follow their heart. Not for me though.. 😂

@user-bm3lv8xk8s

Жыл бұрын

This advice is spot on. Everyone is different but i do find timing, and self healing are very important. Funny thing is a male friend and I were both leaving long unhealthy relationships and remet 2 yrs later. Now learning more about each other romantically, and intimately already had respect, trust, safety and fun as a friendship base. Now the chemistry is a bonus and we look towards a healing future as a couple. Surprise

@ellenbarrett8015

8 ай бұрын

Same

I had found a man who viewed me as the one and treated me like the world revolves around me and he gave me everything I wanted and needed - but he passed away… He was literally my everything. Now I have to start over, hoping to find someone who will love and treat me the same or similar 😪

@kittymcfizz

Жыл бұрын

aww i’m so sorry for your loss 😢

@cheriesmith89

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry for your loss but I believe you will find the right one 🙏❤️

@arnelevans4803

Жыл бұрын

You're going to make me 😢. I experienced the same pain almost 5 years ago. My ex was my first love. I lived with him, and I loved him. Sadly, he passed away on 5/18/18 from pancreatic cancer. I miss him immensely and I will never find any man to take his place.

@arnelevans4803

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry. The universe will bless you with your soul mate when you least expect it.

@angelam8520

Жыл бұрын

I am sorry for your loss. I lost my significant other in 2015. Allow yourself time to heal. I was fearful of allowing a man into my life because I didn't want to experience that pain of loss (death) of another man. He is irreplaceable. You will meet another special man when you allow yourself to experience a special friendship or relationship with one. He would want you to be happy. .

Women can tell right away that he is NOT the one…Then if she meets the man that has potential to be the ONE she goes into the mode where she begins to pay attention for any red flags 🚩, She learns about his communication skills, and his values etc…♥️♥️

I was dating a man and we connected. We had a deep conversations. I was kind of pushy and he wasn’t where I am spiritually. But I fell in love. He was scared and not ready. People got in our relationship. He treated me better than any man I’ve ever been with. He walked away. He told me the timing wasn’t right. He was a gentleman. Didn’t really know who he was in God nor did I. He never promised me anything. I tried to rush God’s plan. I learned a lot.

@SinaAla

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. I think a lot of us women can relate to your story. I surely can. :)

@Lavelle222

2 жыл бұрын

Did he ever come back?

@jmarie9126

2 жыл бұрын

We almost share the same story but mainly unequally yoked spiritual. It sucks

@kellyfierce3540

2 жыл бұрын

@@SinaAla I surely can. Wow

@kellyfierce3540

2 жыл бұрын

@@Lavelle222 I was looking for that too....

Men Know! As women we hang in there for months because we really like him. Women have to learn let go and move on. Six months is long enough! He’s just not into you. What God has for you, is for you. He wasn’t the one that got away. He wasn’t for you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🤗🤗

Signs he found the one: He stops caring about other women; his attraction to you(look and attraction); he is in peace when she is around him(no drama; stress him out); Happy to be in her presence （he enjoys being around hee outside of sex; fun; enjoyable); he felt he can trust him(Loyalty; security); he feels loved and desired; pieces come together.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

The connection you speak of is like two magnets being pulled towards one another. In looking into the soul eye, there's a familiarity of feeling like you have known the person for years even in the first few moments of meeting. It's a beautiful encounter, that is sacred. Excellent work, as always!❣

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

@marycaldwell3588

2 жыл бұрын

He wasn't the one for Me ok

@goddessoflight74

2 жыл бұрын

@ROSĖ yes exactly

@daisylavenderlove

2 жыл бұрын

There's actually not mystery to when this happens- it happens for a few different reasons. #1 is, the energy of a person, their eyes, the way that they interact with you, is reminiscent of the energy, eyes, & way of interacting that your caretakers had. The familiarity & instant resonance is indicative of that. As you get to know a person more, you will start to feel that resonance deepen based off of 1 specific thing, & that is that the person is very similar to YOU. They may be soft-spoken like you as opposed to being highly energetic when communicating, they might be spiritual like you as opposed to highly focused on material possessions, & they might be a great listener like you are. All of these happenings are 9/10 times involved when people think they've met a soul mate. It's psychological & chemical, & it can happen with multiple people, not just one person!

@goddessoflight74

2 жыл бұрын

@@daisylavenderlove what you speak of are commonalities that most people have when they engage with others. It is SO common. What I mean when I say a connection, it is with one person, that has been connected to you through past-life or multiple lifetimes. Your other half, your true match so to speak. God is at the center of it. It is a spiritual union, no doubt.🥰 Blessings sweetheart.

It's a beautiful thing when a man sees a woman who truly loves him as the one ❤️.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed, it really helps when men embrace that 🙏

I met the one half a year ago and i can’t explain how I knew. I just felt it. I’m a young mom (20 years old) and always thought that I was going to be alone for the rest of my life because no one wants a teen mom. And then… out of the blue I met *him* the love of my life and the person I’m going to marry one day. It feels like I know him my whole life and i’m so happy.

Two men that I’ve dated divorced their wives within two years and came back to me. Of course my heart closed to them and it was hard for me to see them any other way and never took them back. After they married and would call me, I would always tell them to choose the 80 over the 20 and block their calls. I really wish men would use their hearts more when making these long life decisions. Time and true connection are both such precious things to waste.

@lebogangmachethe8429

7 ай бұрын

Most underrated commented I’ve seen so far.

My husband said he knew I was the one after our first date. Glad he kept that to himself for a while or I would have run for the hills. 🤣🤣🤣. Stephan is 💯. It doesn't take long.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@JustMe-wq4ue

2 жыл бұрын

That's interesting. He KNEW you b were the one But if he would have told you, you would b have GONE!!!

@malimbep4298

2 жыл бұрын

@@JustMe-wq4ue Yes because that sounds like love bombing.

@shon76

2 жыл бұрын

@@malimbep4298 it’s not always love bombing though. I met a woman and from the first time I heard her voice I knew something was different about her. After our first date I knew she was for me. From the first time she saw me she always spoke life into me. Always have the biggest smile and very enthused when she’s around me or know we are spending time with each other. We both have experienced narcissistic abusive marriages. Nevertheless if we tried to hold back or hide how we feel about each other, we would be missing out on something wonderful. We had to be vulnerable and open to love again. When it happens, it happens. You can’t really control it. Like this woman knows how to speak to my soul. Never experienced anything like this. On the total opposite side of being in a narcissistic relationship.

@malimbep4298

2 жыл бұрын

@@shon76 So sorry to hear you and your love have been put through hell. No one deserves that so prayers and blessings to you and your new love. Yes you can of course definitely know if u are meant to be together the first day you meet. It does happen as you said. Good luck to you and your new love. Take care love from the UK ❤ 🙏 👍

Man let me tell you, it took me a long time to find the man I’m with. More importantly I had to realize I didn’t find me yet until I started to look at the mistakes and thought process of relationships I put and choose for myself and dealing and healing from childhood trauma. I got to a point that I finally was ok being alone and enjoying life. My views on how I portrayed myself also changed. Then I met him and all I can say the one is out there. It’s refreshing to not have to worry and deal with instability and he’s right

@Her_shey_bar

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations to you and I'm happy you found you. I know what you mean. I healing me after allowing myself to be in a toxic relationship for too long. I'm dealing with why I allowed it and becoming a better me. I recently meet someone and it's a slow start however I feel so safe and comfortable with him. But I noticed some old patterns that I have i.when I first meet him. So maybe him is my trail to see if I have learned my lessons.

Great video. Every point you’ve listed here is something my boyfriend of 9 months has said to me. (“I don’t want anyone else,” “you make me feel special,” “spending the day with you is more important to me than football”) etc. From our first date, neither of us were seeing other people, he was consistently straightforward with his intentions and didn’t play games. He has told me “I know I’ve found the one I was looking for,” but because I have been cheated on in the past, it has always been hard for me to believe that. I guess I figured he didn’t mean it. But after watching this video I have more confidence, because all his actions and words line up to the behaviors and thought patterns you’ve listed here. 🙏 I’ll post updates.

@daniig62

Жыл бұрын

Update?

@hej2800

8 ай бұрын

update..?

@Kari_Michele

7 ай бұрын

Update?

Multiple men have thought i was the one way too early on when we were still getting to know each other. It made me see them as irrational and idealistic. Almost as though they were desperate and falling for an image of me, without knowing all the facts. It made me question their judgement, and thus I did not reciprocate the feelings. That’s just my experience as a woman.

@Carolina-rd3gh

10 ай бұрын

Same

@blessingsfromspirit6881

7 ай бұрын

Same!! Which made me lose one of them because I rejected moving too quickly to commit and after knowing him 4-5 months I was willing to try and he had lost that drive to win (and says he is too scared of it not working out)

@lebogangmachethe8429

7 ай бұрын

@@blessingsfromspirit6881he wasn’t serious.

@danneedstogo9166

6 ай бұрын

True, not all men are the same, they don't always know(they might think they know), and can be bad judges of character. Knowing 'the one' too quickly is rather dangerous 😂

One can discern the difference between deep attraction/interest for someone and being casually friendly. If your not deeply INTO someone, don't get romantically deep INTO the person and waste their valuable time

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right, thank you for sharing ❤

I knew my husband was the one within a few months, and same for him but we ended up dating 3 years and we have been married this year will be 8 years! And I specifically remember the exact moment I knew he was the one and it was a time he showed me complete respect more respect than I had ever felt before in a situation where it wasn’t going his way and that actually ended up making it go his way just based off how he responded he made me feel loved and respected

@Holistretch

2 жыл бұрын

May I ask why you guys waited so long? It’s been 2 years with mine and I’m impatient lol

@Romans08.31

2 жыл бұрын

@@Holistretch because I was 17 when we started dating then he wanted that I met most of his family before we got married and they didn’t live close so it took a while, and he was military, I joined the reserves and when I got back from training we got married… personally I would have married him the moment I turned 18 but I was still in high school at the time 🥰

@Holistretch

2 жыл бұрын

@@Romans08.31 ohh makes sense ☺️

Everything you are saying is very true, that’s why I’ve learned it’s important to take your time and really get to know a person. Build a solid foundation first and assess how serious the man is about you before you give too much or put all your time and effort into one person who isn’t willing to commit to you or sees you as just an option. 💯

I don't care about him being attracted to other women/finding other women attractive, he just better have eyes solely for me ! 😆♥️

Some of these men will know she’s the one, but……some are emotionally scared & afraid of letting their guard down & some of us gets tired of reassuring him……so he needs to know & let us know or we’ll move around….ijs

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@shayejivens3295

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@blackgira7056

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@Loveispainj

2 жыл бұрын

Donna. What was the need to say this?

@sharlenebrown4129

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed...stop playing mind games, and keep it 💯..it's that simple honestly

That first example of how men can change their minds quickly after hearing rumors is EXACTLY why I cut men off the first time I hear something that I don’t like because they will not spare me so I don’t spare them in return.

@4u2cre8

2 жыл бұрын

Just about every adult has a sexual past. The fact that he instantly went from loving her to just using her for sex after hearing about her past says more about his character (or lack thereof) than hers.

@dinosaur___7209

2 жыл бұрын

@@4u2cre8 exactly. if anything, she should be glad he was weeded out.

On the first date with my now fiancé, he spoke about marriage and family plans. Proposed 3 months later - I said no. Proposed 4 more months later and asked for my father's blessing soon after. On our first anniversary, we were actually engaged already. He had been in long term relationships and claims "but he didn't feel like they were ever really right".

Thank you for that brilliant point of "the one" vs "who he chooses to be with". It's been on my mind for so long!

I’m already loving the first few minutes of this video!! It really doesn’t take a man long time for real!!! When you know you know! Thanks Stephan!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

@anthonyduncan5866

2 жыл бұрын

A sign is becoming comterble with each other as a couple and not having to say anything , but knowing what the other is feeling.!!! She's always the one who can make you feel better whenever she's around you every single time and she gives you that peace of mind and it comes naturally between the two of you .!!! ( She's a keeper ) 💞💞💞💞👌

I love this topic. My husband knew I am the one on the first day we met. I also knew he is the one after a few days. We are strongly in love. We thank God for this far. God bless you Stephan.

@a.m.thomas9366

2 жыл бұрын

I met a man and want to marry him on minute 1, he was interested in me the minute he heard my voice.

*It's essential to understand how both men and women perceive the person they want to spend their lives with. Let's use this knowledge to work towards a love that's deep and fulfilling.*

I lived in Kentucky and he lived in Florida. We met in a FB 'group;. He contacted me and we started chatting - every day. I thought I was safe because he was so far away and I was seeing someone else but not on a regular basis. We talked about EVERYTHING! After about a month we knew we wanted to meet. He planned a visit, then it turned into him moving here. We were married August 31, 2022 - 13 months after we started talking. We are both in our 60's. True love can happen at any age. We both had been married before.

@wandameekins3911

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations and I wish you both much love and happiness.

Love your realness Stephan. No lengthy intro, no video cuts, just straight into the unabashed truth. Thank you 🙏🏼

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you I'm glad to hear that ❤

@jessicaatigwe6475

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks so Stephen, I have been dating this guy for almost three years now, but in that three years of dating him he has never got me anything, I didn't want to ask him why but sometimes I do ask. I used to ask him to please 🙏 help recharge for me, but the reply I always get from him is " let me see what I can do" for the past one year now, he hasn't seen what 😦 to do yet, I guess 😾😾😾. Just want know if it's a red flag that he has been given me and I didn't know. Sometimes he will ignore me for no reason.

@prettyme3150

2 жыл бұрын

@@jessicaatigwe6475 Run!

@Shespretty08

2 жыл бұрын

@@jessicaatigwe6475 yes, Run!!!

@heytheresunshine9405

2 жыл бұрын

@@jessicaatigwe6475 Sister the fact you asked the question means you know the answer. Look at it as three years to learn a lesson.

Some of us gets bitter with these men because we don’t have discernment & allows our emotions to get intertwined with the assignments. People comes into our lives for a reason, a season, a lesson, and a blessing…..we have to know which one ☝️ they serves

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@ajag57

Жыл бұрын

🔥🔥

I love the fact that you are so incredibly respectful in the way you share uncomfortable opinions. Thank you. 😊❤

OMG. This is so painful to listen but so enlighting...thank you. Is very important to know this from a man. 🙌

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

I reconnected with an ex boyfriend after 20 years of being apart. We have both been in bad relationships in the past and also have kids with past partners. The relationship we have is amazing, he’s the only guy who treats me with respect we’ve been together almost 18 months, he opened up about how he feels about 3 months ago and he proposed last month. We have seen each other at our worst and have both put in equal effort to make our relationship work, we’ve both been through so much prior to reconnecting and we are just right together.

@misselle1430

2 жыл бұрын

Aaaww awesome story. And the time apart is significant so am assuming it didn't end badly and you were young n now grown n mature. Am also back together with my ex now after 13 years. I had to leave to go study overseas n I told him to follow but you know men 😒🤣 but life happened and he finally realised what he wanted and decided to relocate for me and us. Covid delayed us by 2 years but finally he's here. We have always been intouch tho coz we ended inlove still. All the best with your love.

@soniacoleman6843

Жыл бұрын

I just recently reconnected with a past love after 20 years. I'm praying for the best and God's will be done in both our lives.

@flashyfun5500

Жыл бұрын

Congrats to both of you for recognizing true love. Hopefully you will be married soon. I still can't believe Nia Long was engaged for ten years. I am divorced but if I met a man I wanted to marry it will be Justice of the Peace all the way. I don't need a giant white dress again or a big food bill for people I don't care about.

@gina1304

Жыл бұрын

i know that's right. The same here💥

@christinajackson646

Жыл бұрын

I know what you mean. Similar story, the years are bit longer. He told me I was the one when I was 17 and he was 18. Our paths went in different directions. Saw each other twice after that.. Fast forward. That was 28 years ago. We reconnected and inseparable, 8 1/2 yrs together now. I have a ring but don't call it an engagement ring. It may sound weird, but we both been in horrible marriages and not in a rush. But, congratulations to you both!!!🎉🎊💞🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

My ex and I had a great relationship, great love, great respect, great connection; with all this good elements, he sent me an email telling me he is marrying his ex 3 months ago. They from the same religion, more or less the same age. I am from a different religion and a little bit older than him. But even with the difference in religion and age, we were still great together. One week after the wedding, he was at my door crying, saying he made a mistake. I send him away, telling him to focus on his marriage and wife. Now he is pursuing me to be a second wife. As much as I care about him, I am not interested in that kind of life. I walked away, prefer to choose me. It still hurts, but it will get better. God is with me, always.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

@GB_mt

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thanks Sir for everything you do for all of us. You are such a great blessing.🌹💞

I met my husband at 16 moved in 3 weeks after meeting him. We have been together for 15 years married for 12

This guy is so well balanced in his talks.

Often times we learn much later down the line that they were never the one to begin with.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

It isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best 🙏

@johnclaset4704

2 жыл бұрын

Real talk man, I look up to you. One of the best things I learned was the power of moving on

He flat out told me he wanted to marry me back in 2018. Yes, we're still together. But it's important to know that it was I that was the hesitant party. He wanted to shop for rings, but I wasn't ready. He's been patient, and I've asked him to be so. I'm ready now and will say yes when asked. There's no hurry when it's right. If they're deeply in love with you, they WILL wait. It should be known; he said, "I love you" first, too. He is worthy. Special! No regrets.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@imperfectillustration6261

2 жыл бұрын

No smoke, genuinely curious as to why women would want to wait…What was/is the reason for the hesitation on your part? Feel free to tell me to mind my own business… 😅

@majestyqueen375

2 жыл бұрын

@@imperfectillustration6261 Why would she rush into anything ask yourself that.

@sakuraesther6309

2 жыл бұрын

@@imperfectillustration6261 not ready,it is not oksy to rush to do something just because other peopl are

@luxyluz2442

2 жыл бұрын

@@imperfectillustration6261 Marriage is big deal and is no joke. If the hesitation is there why not wait? If the the hesitation is there you should WAIT & see why you’re hesitating in the first place.

Love your specificity & delivery; your ability to share real world examples and connect it with spiritual values! You are in your lane and using your gifts to make a difference! Go! Go! Go!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your feedback. I appreciate hearing from you ❤ 🙏

Just walked out of a r/ship whereby the man never respected me in any way,,,am thanking God for really giving me another one,,I feels he is the one for me ,, that's why am here,,,I want to try and be better for him

I'd love for more men to be this honest about the woman who check for them. Honesty IS king...

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace honesty ❤

@misselle1430

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately honesty isn't a trait that many people posses so it's important for an individual to be able to suss out a person and their intentions with them esp if one already knows what they want in a relationship. Also usually men are honest... it's just women refuse to listen and accept what they hear and choose to play dumb. Women need to learn to really ask the right questions and really listen to the answer. And also to multiple date like men do till you find the one. Not just 1 man at a time n by the time she accepts he's wasting her time it's too late.

I'm currently with the one. We recognized each others souls immediately and fell in love. Last year I was in the relationship from hell that's how I found your books and videos which helped me so much.

@giasmom2007

2 жыл бұрын

Same

I’m 31 and I really think I found the one and this really resonates with me. Just this morning he said he knew he we are right because I encourage him to be a better man and be motivated and productive in a way he got comfortable in the last relationship and started getting lazy and doing nothing. It really meant a lot to have him express to me that he was happy with me ❤

Yes that's True it Hits Different. The Right Man Has to Encourage her and Lift her up and the same for him. A Special Bond is hard to Break.

When there is a connection, both man & woman would know & would feel in their heart.🧡

It doesn’t take long for a man to recognize when he’s consistently valued, respected and cared for.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right!

@Ohkeh640

2 жыл бұрын

@Vanja Lo lol true

@mariomarin1552

2 жыл бұрын

@Vanja Lo he ain’t the one then. Recognize the signs and move on. Simple!

@WhineyOne

2 жыл бұрын

Profound

Absolutely true, so happy I came around your page.

Great video 🙌🏽thank you for the explanation breakdown, women need to learn how a man thinks in order to bring clarity in any given situation. Stay blessed 💕

Please encourage women to remove their ego before listening to your amazing advice. Everything your saying is spot on but some women will continue to create a narrative that fits their perspective. It’s so simple yet complicated because we allow our emotions in the mix but your thoughts are spot on and logical. You’ve helped me a lot! Blessings ❤️

@jmoses7345

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, I agree.

@Here_Today_

2 жыл бұрын

Let people be, wisdom weeds out the fool

@jmoses7345

2 жыл бұрын

@@Here_Today_ well said.

@chanelagaintv

Жыл бұрын

😊

@kokolatte825

11 ай бұрын

​@@Here_Today_now that's a good one

If a man ever makes a negative comment about you especially continuously. He's not the one. I have learned this about 12 years ago. I was close friends with someone and we took it further but I remembered a comment he made that hit below the belt. That set me off. I never dated him again. We were cordial a couple of years later but never dated again. I think any negative comments, constant criticisms, immaturity, arrogance, insensitivity you know they aren't the one for you. Its not the purpose and purity of what God shows you about relationships the goodness. When we experience the goodness, the great qualities, and joy. Then we know that this person is for us. When its genuine, someone with your best interests at heart, trustworthy, and true interests in you 100 percent they have the qualities of being the one. I would love to see you do a video or ask real couples on when women knew their partner was the one.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

I guess I was never "the one". He finally got us counseling (after agreeing to it several times through the past decade) when he realized I didn't want to live with him anymore. Then he "fights dirty" during sessions. So happy for you ladies who are treated well in your relationships.

i'm a girl, and coming into this video, I knew he would say it does NOT take long for a man to realize she's the one. i also knew he would say that he can't EXPLAIN it, it's just something that men can figure out quickly. let me explain: in my teenage years my friends were literally only girls. the unfiltered conversations we had about men and what we imagined. i was always scared of talking to boys, and because i had NO IDEA how boys think and how their mentality is, i was always surprised or shocked at some things my friends told me about their boyfriends. completely went over my head, and i sticked to those fantasies i had without actually talking to boys. fast forward a few years, and after a HUGE hit by life personally that really broke me, most of my closest friends now are guys. i'm literally just one of the guys, i dress and i act like it. and they don't actually see me as a girl 😂 so they basically have unfiltered conversations about everything. one time they doubted if i was really trustable lol so they made their own group separately in the beginning, and i caught them. i didn't take it personally, i understood and said if it's uncomfortable, no harsh feelings. they actually really respected me for that, and since then haven't doubted me once. i've never given them a reason to. although i still don't understand some things biologically lol but i am aware of it, i could grasp exactly how guys think and where their mind can be in different situations. in my friends group now, if one of the guys says he's dating a girl and is serious, we can instantiy, INSTANTLY notice from afar how HE looks and presents himself around her, and can figure it out ourselves if she's right for him or not. granted there are exceptions, but honestly, not many. there's just something, SOMETHING that a guy picks up on through the very first few conversations with her and can instantly notice if it "gels" well with her or not. if he can actually envision something further with her. it's a hit or miss honestly, even i can't explain it, but i got the intuition for it. granted both times in my life, the age groups are different, but the fundamental nature of girls and guys doesnt really change. especially in their respective friends groups. even in co-ed groups, you got some things that a girl can't open up to with the guys in the group, and vice versa.

@nathaliafaria1177

Жыл бұрын

Oh poor thing

@drvren030

Жыл бұрын

@@nathaliafaria1177 what exactly did you find in my comment to think that lol

@nathaliafaria1177

Жыл бұрын

@@drvren030 Because you said you think you are one of the guys but than say that they create a group excluding you behind your back and you think that's ok...

@drvren030

Жыл бұрын

@@nathaliafaria1177 oh, gotcha. Looks like there's one part that wasn't clear. So, that day after i caught them, they stopped meeting up excluding me. They did it because they had some stuff they couldn't trust me with yet, at the time. Since then, I've literally become one of them Hell, the way it is now, they individually open up to me with some pretty intense stuff that they haven't told the other guys yet lol

I was just having a conversation about this topic a few minutes ago with a friend!! Look at God giving confirmation! Thank you for letting God use you for clarification, and edification of the minds of women and men!! Thank you Stephen!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

Shoutout to everyone here trying to learn from each other & find healthy love. We don’t have rites of passage like we used to, and sometimes it seems like media & hookup culture has taken over but it’s beautiful to see our confines willingness for love & improvement! May we all find it!❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙏

Your info brings me SO MUCH PEACE and helpful clarity. What insight ! Thank you

You speak the truth. Trust is number 1 with me. If he or she is talking behind your back to family and friends or stabbing you in the back somehow it chips away at the love. And finally you are left with nothing. It is very hurtful and it’s not real love.

The more dating advice i watch, the more i confused I am

Agree, with all your key points. Before, you find "the one" you must be able to recognize and distinguish what the one looks like. So in essence, we must know & discover who we are & what we desire. Otherwise, the one will come & we won't recognize that this is the one aligned with your path. Once, a man moves beyond superficial things in the relationship and evolves into a more spiritually "awakened" version of himself where connection, and values matter then he is more likely to recognize the one. When he has a purpose & a clear vision then he is ready to find the one. Women know they have found "the one" when we love their spirit, and the heart of the man. You feel drawn to them, and the love feels like an unconditional love. You essentially just love the essence of who they are at their core, and you just know. Excellent video, many great points, one of my favorites. Abundance & blessings to u. "When you find the one they touch you without touching you".

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Most definitely!

@JamaicaLove876

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks ❤ 🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

@JamaicaLove876

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Always enjoy your perspective & insight. Keep up the great job.!! ❤ Drink your tea too. 🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

@@JamaicaLove876 ❤ 🙂 Thank you!

I’m watching this because I caught feelings and I’m scared of opening up my heart because I know I have a lot to give and I don’t want it to go to waste. Bruh. This talk made me hurt a little but it’s also true. It hurts more because he’s incredibly handsome I know he may be easy to be swayed away by someone else assuming he may have multiple options. I can’t fight the feeling anymore though so I feel like I’m breaking my composure that’s taking me a lot not to break

@souldancersbyjennifer

Жыл бұрын

Hugs and love. Trust that you are loveable. I'm sure you are. Do the inner work to heal your wounds and feel worthy. Confidence itself is attractive. It also keeps you safe and away from abusers and time wasters. Hold space for yourself during these times. It's very crucial in your healing process...