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It's really simple...if you like what you see, make your move and be clear about your intentions. If it's not being reciprocated, just move on. People are playing, too many games.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@haitiqueen0119

4 ай бұрын

Too much games played out here indeed, adults are now playing more games than kids smh🤷

@lorinakers7934

4 ай бұрын

Exactly! It really is that simple. May be a good person, but not for you. All Good!

@Theinfamouskiki411

4 ай бұрын

​@@lorinakers7934I don't understand the energy people have. I don't have time to keep people just because. Like I'm collecting dolls. I guess I got a life. 😂😂😂 if I'm not interested I'm moving on. I don't keep you hanging around. Thats too much. I get wanting sex but a lot aint even getting that! They talking and texting multiple people going nowhere. Wow, people really need a life😂

@mayasheartdesiire

4 ай бұрын

This!!

Keep your independence and don’t lose yourself in him. Most guys aren’t worth the time. Don’t live with regrets. “You treat me like, an option and I’ll leave you like, a damn choice” Lol! Thank you, Stephan for your God given relationship coaching. God bless. 🙏🏻💖

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

@humbleheart2650

4 ай бұрын

SUPER FACTS

Confusion=Red Flag keep it moving I say😊

This is so frustrating. I don't think I'll ever understand why simple communication or voicing pure intention is so difficult.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@outsidethebox8406

4 ай бұрын

I don't understand why men have to lie so much. If they would just be honest dating & women's lives would be so much simpler/easier.

@Theinfamouskiki411

4 ай бұрын

​@@outsidethebox8406right! If you wanna play the field do that but be honest and just say I'm looking for something casual or I'm talking to multiple women. I'm dating around. Most mature are like ok cool.

@MsEve957

4 ай бұрын

@@Theinfamouskiki411because they know if they tell the truth the majority of women are out and don’t want to be bothered

@rosannareb9060

3 ай бұрын

Me either... it's so much easier, and cleaner

1. He wants you but he doesn’t think he’s the one for you 2. He wants you but he’s not ready to be the man you deserve 3. He wants you but he can’t have you (perceives he can’t have you)

@canadianwinterssuck

4 ай бұрын

Going thru this right now and for past year. I asked twice for more love and romance and connection and intimacy. I feel he knows he ain't taken care of business on any level. I broke it off today.

@Keshaknightpullman

4 ай бұрын

1000000. 10000000000 💯 facts. And I show just Left

@lyndamcdonald7701

4 ай бұрын

I was just told #2. I'm situated and have all my ducks in order, he's been divorced twice and wants to get to know himself...a year and a half, of awesome dates were had though. I'm actually still interested in dating him, so I will. I guess I'm also able to date other people.

@ndinaanijawa9307

4 ай бұрын

Maswerasei

@river_in_paradise

2 ай бұрын

All the above 🤦🏻‍♀️💔

Let Him be only 1 per cent of your world, not the whole one. Cause, when he decides to take it away from you and disappear from your life, that won't break your heart or take the ground under your feet. I always keep your quote in mind, Stephan, telling "Rejection is God's redirection to someone better and much worthier!"

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@cynthiareynolds1941

4 ай бұрын

God should be the head of your life. God, spouse. Family, then everything else.

@parishadnz.6048

15 сағат бұрын

...so, if he is only a 1 per cent of your life, for what reason he should decide to stay with you?? Hope he will run away soon if he loves himself enough!

Best advice I ever received--never, ever wait for a man, ever.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

When he shows mixed signals, he’s not interested, it’s as simple as that

This is why it's so important to strengthen our relationships with God because if we stay connected to the source, he will increase our intuition and discernment. God bless everyone on their journey to true love ❤

@SandraGarcia-lj3bd

4 ай бұрын

Precioso comentario , totalmente de acuerdo .

@TheHealingSpace.

4 ай бұрын

Gracias Reina ❤👑

@nataliegallego6526

Ай бұрын

So true dear...thank you!! I have given my love life over to God my Father I prayed and told Him to lead and guide my partner into my life . Deep down I know there is someone special ordained to be my husband it's been my desire to be married from childhood and I wait patiently on God's timing . Trusting that my Father want and knows what's best for me.

If he switches up, communicate- be clear in your expectations. If no changes or changes are temporary, take that as a que he's not into you like that. Changed behaviors are always the best apologies; if someone values you, they will change their ways for good.

@Florida_gyrl

4 ай бұрын

AMEN

I think l will stay single!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@wejoin

4 ай бұрын

I was with a guy who would tell me after a day or weekend of being together, saying I love you but you deserve better. He introduced me to his parents, and his kids, and it was SOOO confusing because he was available. We were both divorced.

@Prettyp1xel

4 ай бұрын

Lol felt

@angeljohnson234

4 ай бұрын

Girl me too. I refuse to deal with this nonsense.

@outsidethebox8406

4 ай бұрын

Starting to feel this way & I'm married...

He wants a good woman… he just doesn’t want it to be you. I learned the hard way. If you don’t appeal to a man physically or sexually, they may love what you do for them, but will not ever commit to you of introduce you to people in his life.

Going through this now and I finally gave up! Yet he’s still tryn knowing he’s still playing around. Why not just let me go in peace !! I cut him off cold turkey and I know that did something to him because I been pressing him for months to show me I’m the only one and he didn’t. My gut and soul is not at peace around him I’m always very uncomfortable that’s why I know he is not the one. It’s sad because I did like him but I love myself more and my sanity ❤

@tanitshkatanjusha

4 ай бұрын

I know how that feels. You must move on. Because he will not end it and emotionally drain you

The fact that I've just prayed and come to KZread and this is the first video I see is insane. I'm just going to let him go because my heart can't take it anymore. Thank you for explaining it, all Stephan.😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Glad I could help 🙏

@outsidethebox8406

4 ай бұрын

I feel you. I'm in the same position. Going to take me some months to get on my feet first but it's time to move on. Praying for you.

@canadianwinterssuck

4 ай бұрын

Give it a few sleeps and time... many emotions will come up but it will be so much easier after a few days of no contact and you putting all that energy and love back into you❤ I'm right here doing the same

@akaprettygirl92

4 ай бұрын

Prayers

If he doesnt know what he wants, i walk away until he is sure and acts certain

@eternalriver7866

6 күн бұрын

Yes

This is deep! God ONLY send the REAL ONE ! Period!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@heleneagarvik4122

3 ай бұрын

Wroooong

@eternalriver7866

6 күн бұрын

Yes

I have given up on dating. I have given up on my childhood fantasy of the one and wanting to be chosen by someone. I believe wholeheartedly that some people don’t have a “one.” I no longer desire to be valuable to someone and being disappointed at this notion of not being his “one” and feeling not being good enough for someone. I choose God, myself and my family- people I know care about me being being in their lives and acknowledging them. I am now happily celibate and not looking for a “one.” It’s less stressful

@SandraGarcia-lj3bd

4 ай бұрын

You are not alone , i have only met very nasty men Who made my life hell . I am 53 and I expect i Will live tve rest of my Life alone . I have two teenagers my Cat , and my princesas fur baby . The last thing on my mind is a man . Take care big hug.

@jai7184

4 ай бұрын

Same here ! I was happy single and unbothered for seven years and then met someone last may and fell for him after 6 weeks and soon after the red flags started and confusion set in to present day !! Poor communication and lack’s emotional intelligence.. also I discovered traits that I had to research about and discovered narcissism .. This message is right on time

@brittthecancerqueenempress9137

4 ай бұрын

Same honey you are not alone my mind made up..smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

@Ashtarot77

4 ай бұрын

The bible says, you don't have to get married. It's not for everyone.

@nataliegallego6526

Ай бұрын

You have made a wise choice to choose God and put Him first in your life! I hear many couples day that it's when they cease looking for the "one" it's then that special,God given person entered their life. God bless you dear as you continue to life of joy, contentment and feeling worthy because you are to Our Heavenly Father😊

Because he doesn't want to miss out on the lovely hours he has with a woman. A man who still has some conscience knows that it's a balancing act between getting what he wants without hurting her too much and treating her as respectfully as he can. In them, desire fights against reason /to know the right thing to do. At the end of the day they are plain and simple, nice, friendly .......... egoists

@rockzycat

3 ай бұрын

THIS!!

I enjoy the insights from these videos but I didn’t get the 3 things that a woman should do when she’s being given mixed signals from a man

I think I'll stay single till God shows up the right gentleman for me I guess...so here's what there's this guy we've been cool since last year November he was giving me mixed signal he would do things for me and give me what I asked for so a week ago I asked him what he really wants cause I don't wanna end up being attached to him he said he wanted a fling I said ohh then I did actually share how I felt about him 😅but I think it's worth it cause in the morning he called me and told me about the lady who stood him up he thought she was one for him they had a connection 😮bruh just went straight to block list I didn't even want his explanation I blocked him,there's no way I'm starting my new year with such a bad energy nope

The world is a cycle What goes around Comes around Am hoping that men see this video Stephan this was clarity No one does it BETTER Thank you

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

I’m learning more and more each day to appreciate being single. I’m learning how to go out alone, I’m focused on engaging in healthy and happy activities, spending time alone is not a bad thing is what I’ve eventually learned. But don’t get it twisted I do want a relationship but in this day and time it doesn’t seem like their are quality men who are looking to court

@dee2022uk

4 ай бұрын

Yep. Theyre just not ready

@Florida_gyrl

4 ай бұрын

I agree

@humbleheart2650

4 ай бұрын

@@dee2022ukor able

@Theinfamouskiki411

4 ай бұрын

It's so simple but it's hard. Men don't put in effort even if they do like you. It's crazy!

Exactly! They expect us to know what we want! We grew up along the way, why haven't they????

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

Here's a way to systematically dismantle suffering: Notice Rest Ask Tap Breathe Feel We first need to allow our nervous systems to settle, and to start our inquiry from this place of gentle noticing... Once you've taken a few moments to rest, bring to mind the situation you want to inquire into... Step 1 (Notice): Once you've identified what you'd like to look at, notice how it shows up in your awareness: what words, pictures, and energies are there? Once you've taken note of how the triggering situation or person (i.e., whatever is "triggering" your suffering) shows up in your direct experience, start by turning towards the strongest words or pictures... Let them play out while witnessing them nonjudgmentally from awareness. Step 2 (Rest): Next, you'll want to rest with whatever words or pictures you are observing or hearing. To "rest" with words or a picture means to do nothing but see it and let it be there for a while. Don’t take your attention off of it. It can also help to notice the peripheral space around words or pictures. To notice the peripheral space, open your awareness to include seeing the space all around the words or picture while simultaneously continuing to look at the words or pictures. Step 3 (Ask): In Step 3, ask yourself, "Is there any emotion or sensation stuck to this thought?" Step 4 (Tap): The next step is to tap with two fingers, for several seconds, in the center of your forehead, right above the bridge of the nose. While tapping, pay attention only to the tapping, not to the words or pictures. Step 5 (Breathe): Step 5 is very simple- just take a long, slow deep breath. Step 6 (Feel): Once you have taken a deep breath, bring your attention directly into whatever emotion or sensation you experience in your body. Then, feel into the emotion or sensation without any words or images on it. Stay with that emotion or sensation, and notice the peripheral space around it. Then, see if you can make that energy stay exactly as it is just by feeling it. "Why make it stay?" you might ask. Well, emotions and sensations feel stuck because we resist them. Trying to make them stay by feeling them without thoughts reverses that resistance, often leading the emotion or sensation to dissolve. Please take your time when feeling bodily energies and making them stay, as they may take a while to dissolve this way. Keep feeling the emotion or sensation until it vanishes completely... Also, here are 13 gentle and urgent reminders from your soul: 1. You're ALWAYS exactly where you are supposed to be 2. Self-esteem is measured by you (nobody else gets to decide your worth) 3. Get rid of fear: FOREVER 4. When things are tough, change the way you see things 5. Don't dwell on/in the past (come back to this present moment) 6. It's only temporary (all of it!) 7. You have what it takes 8. You don't need to change 9. Release your need for control 10. Accept. Allow. Breathe. Deep. 11. Remember where you came from 12. Remember that you are not alone (not ever!) 13. Remember who you are

It’s not ironic that your video discussing ‘ Mixed Signals’ came up on my feed as soon as I got onto YT - It was God giving clarity - have known him over 30 years ( met traveling) always stayed in contact and travelled - long distance friendship (compatible)- re-connected 2 years ago ( on trip to LV - no sex) since then he calls me almost every night to talk about all things except us 😒 he is so confused and misguided- I enjoy his conversations because it help me understand single men over 55 - I’m good being single (Christian ) and not over thinking he wants a relationship- thanks Stephen!

*When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.*

If he wanted to, he would

I’m in so much pain right now. He tells me he is so greatful to have me in his life but doesn’t know what he wants, he still want to keep in touch. Calls me darling but leaves out of state with work and leaves my message on read and no answer for 3 days then comes back as nothing happened . I told him I want to cut connection completely, I’m 44, he is 40.. I don’t have time for this. He is not clear with what he wants. It hurts so much I miss him like hell but I’m staying strong .. not sure how long I can last . His bday is next a month. I know that day I’ll think of him the whole day 😞😞 it hurts so much!

@spiritsnoledge330

4 ай бұрын

Block him...stay alone..love yourself more and read a book "the power of pussy" ..you deserve a partner who is sure about you..if he is not sure you're the one then he is also not the one for you...

@PSJ2102

9 күн бұрын

How you feel now? I hope you feel better. Your story is similar with my story when I had relationship with my ex, he told me he doesn't know what he want. I believed when a man say this words we have to walk away and leave them. It's not easy but time will heal.

Maybe I am just too evolved, but I don't believe there is miscommunication or mixed signals when it comes to what males are putting out there. For the most part males are definitive. I think the missing link is in how the female is led to believe otherwise due to her own misinterpretation or desire and need in what she wants. This is why it is so important to have Gods discernment and listening ears and open eyes to know what the man is about. He may not speak it verbatim but he is always showing his intention. This was fabulous S~ I always appreciate your dialogue and insight. There is always a great take away for me! ❤😊👍💯✔

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@alaalfa8839

4 ай бұрын

They should take relationships as music..... You are following the rhythm of music..... which means there s no logic, just the vibrations, energy and frequency. :) Sometimes a good vibes.

It always seems being single is more of a blessing. Relationships are a complete curse following up by the desire to be married which i think its a curse since its a painful yet quite waste of time process. In the end, most ppl get hurt lol.

Love is painful and hard 💔.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

🙏 ❤️

@rtee3680

4 ай бұрын

Not really. It’s the people who you date. Don’t be scared to switch it up to date out of your race, or a nerd, or a person who has a weird hobby and he doesn’t think any women are interested. Something like that. Broaden your horizons

@Florida_gyrl

4 ай бұрын

Those people can hurt you too.

Ultimately, we are a social species and historically we needed each other to survive... Non-dual messages focus on zero responsibility, no one there; nothing to do. Nothing matters. Yadda yadda yadda. Loads of BS. The extreme of this perspective is a spiritual bypass. If I don’t feel responsible at all for how I might affect you, then I lose the opportunity to learn relationally. I lose the opportunity to understand the world from your perspective. And, more importantly, I cut your emotions off and I cut mine off too. I don’t feel the terror of potential rejection. I don’t feel the beauty and rawness of vulnerability. And I live in a world of nebulous "awareness". My experience, rather that non-dual bullshit, is to live in a world that is real, and alive and beautiful and raw and complex and always unknown...

he said "Maybe we'll cross paths in the future", then went on and blocked me. leaving me his false hope

Thank for the clarity.

I hear you ! Your perspective is invaluable.

Men in general, do sends mixed signals and it's very frustrating and irritating for women to make decisions. 😒 Therefore, I'm looking for maturity and to have a person who communicates, to let his woman know his true intention feelings. The lack of readiness, should be discussed, why play games with great people 🙄

Thank you the last point was perfectly explained!!!!

Nice job explaining this, thank you! ❤

Excellent breakdown of all the possible scenarios here. It was very helpful, as always. Thank you, Stephan, for all your insight and clarity. ❤

And men say women are complicated! 😅

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

🙏 ❤️

Stephan, your explanations are amazing. You've helped me see men with more compassion, and to trust in god. Thank you for your advice, keep up your brilliant work & inspiring a better world.

I totally get it. Thank you, Stephan! 💯👋🏼😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

Thank you so much for this!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

This video was really helpful.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

Current situation.. Thank youuuuu for the clarity..

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

When you know you know.❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Absolutely!

@cynthiareynolds1941

4 ай бұрын

I heard this so many times

@laurenpierce7723

4 ай бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Cheshire Cat grin

@honeyyu1474

4 ай бұрын

Sometimes youre blinded, you thought you know what you know, till you knew you dont know😂

I needed this😮‍💨💯

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

Ty 🙏🏻♾️

Great video

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

This man is really filled with wisdom...some men can really be confusing mehn!

I had to listen to this one particularly again, I think that’s what happened to my last situation. He finally got his own place and dating a women who like women and he knows I’m not like that. I carry myself with class. I had to sit back and realize that just now, thanks Stephan for giving me that information

You a true blessing Stephan!! thanks for your content , it always comes at the right time , and the way you explain things is amazing thank you so much for these videos such a blessing ❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Glad I could help 🙏

Thank you so much for making this video. It was very eye opening, extremely helpful and easy to understand. Thank you for continuing to make these videos to help people with relationships. Go bless you 🙏🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏

Hello Stephan. Thank You SO Much for This video, Super Clarifying Information...Big Hug from CR. Blessings 🫶🏽✨️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

Hey Stephan, is there any possibility that you do zoom calls with people who want relationship advice?

So, the title says that we should do 3 things. What are those 3 things that we should do? I'm confused!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Kindly watch the entire video to get more clarity ❤ 🙏

Thanks for the info but what are the three things to do in this case?

Had this situation recently.. he did so much of the right things like affection, taking initiative, and being attentive or was just so perfect.. we end up having a (big) disagreement and he fell back some but still dealing with me. He wasn't doing things as much as he was before but he was still there.. and after a few weeks he stated telling me he just wants to be friends (no sex) but that didn't last long. He just kept giving me relationship vibes but also (saying) he just wants to be friends.. and I'm such a giver, I just did my best to keep up the energy but it's so much hot and cold idk of he really wants me or not.. just a huge headache smh.. I hate it because i really want to believe that he just had to warm back up to me but this is just sooooo confusing 😕

Hmmmmm… interesting video!🤔🙏🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

Dude my brain is hurting

Everything you say is very true, even for admonishing men. I think this is the problem with society today, the prescription to dating. Just seek God, follow Him and be a full being in yourself and the right one will show up when you are not searching and the Spirit of God will confirm it all, and material things or other things will not matter to you both. All the signs will be there and you both will in sync. Take out all the distractions, and rediscover yourself, become whole again and the rest will follow..... I very much agree with everything you teach but I think men will benefit a lot from these sessions also. Remain blessed.

God is going to use ME, AMEN almighty father 🙏🏽

ur honesty reminds me of when my mom use to pop me in my head when I did something stupid. It hurts, but how else will i learn?!😂 thank you!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

Yes, that’s why when a man commits all his resources, when he’s ready, he rarely leaves-it’s women who initiate most divorces

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

This is an interesting topic. 10 Signs Your Partner Has Poor Communication Skills & How To Work On It I guess they learn communication skills in childhood by observing parents, classmates etc.

Hi Stephan 👋

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Hi sharonjohns 👋

Take your dignity and GO!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

🙏 ❤️

I was freaking myself out like Omgggg somebody behind him lol whole times it you

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate that!

I know he's a broken man and needs healing and deliverance as well as God 1st,I just thought we can build something together,I know it sounds stupid ,I try to look past people hurts and pains,and try to be there and help them,but not at the expense of hurting me!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@Diarrheagod

4 ай бұрын

A broken person will more than likely just end up dragging you down with them. It’s easier to drag down than to lift up. Broken ness is a very dense frequency and unless you are doing constant energy cleansing and keeping your frequency high u will get sucked down. It’s best to stay away from these people. U can give direction (like to a therapists office lol) from a distance.

AFFIRMATIVE PRAYER: - I love myself - God is within, and all around - I am love, itself - I am freedom, itself - I am in love with my life - I am in love with myself - Joy fills me - I am joyful - My twin-flame and I are magnetized to each other; we belong together; we are destined to be with one another... - I am a money magnet - I am a miracle magnet - I am a love magnet - Every cell of my being vibrates at the frequency of perfect health

This is deep, I'm all confused with how these men think lol 😂 thanks for breaking this down

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

Is it me or did I miss it? What are the three things we’re suppose to do?

Good info but exhausting

Some men aren't a real one if they just can't be confident about what he Does & Feels periodt........"Damn Just Be A Man About It"(In my Toni Braxton voice!)

Is it possible for a guy to give all 3 mixed signals in a matter of weeks 😭 From, “you are amazing, beautiful, what I’m looking for, and I respect you so much.” To, “I’m not the man I want to be and God has planned. I’m a hot mess and need to heal.” To, “I didn’t think you were having any of what I was throwing down and I didn’t think you were interested (even after I clearly said multiple times that I was…almost arguing the point of my interest) - and him offering to cook and do work on my house, only to ‘disappear’ and pop up a day later. Like, WHAT just happened these last couple of months??? Plus, lots of intimate touching but no s&x. I had to get off that roller coaster! Thank you for your insight, Stephan. I’d love to hear more about why guys just don’t say something, ask something, or believe something when it’s said. It seems so simple. Why is ghosting the “preferred” method😒

@hotpink3459

3 ай бұрын

Same thing happened to me. When I finally asked him what was going on, he told me he has avoidant attachment style and he thinks all relationships are eventually going to end. I had to let it go because I realized he wouldn't be able to be a good boyfriend anyway.

Stephen is wonderful just wish he had been around so I hadnt wasted 30 yr and yes I grew up on good clean happy ever after movies but also family that had values I miss being held close by someone who loves you my grandparents were the true happy ever after we all dream about

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@makelifematter1896

4 ай бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks so appreciate you also you have such wonderful healing for the younger humans keep healing and doing what you do best!!

You may change a person only by non-verbal communication. For example, if you love music, and play some decent music the partner wants to join, because it is attractive or sunning in the beach is attractive for a while. It's called inspiration. or you love cooking and you look happy when cooking, full of good vibes and humor, so the partner wants to join you because its fun. Then you dot have to change the person just lead him a bit then, he leads himself in his way.

There shouldn’t be so called ‘mixed signals’. No answer is the answer. Sod the mind games and all that. The test of any relationship is us ladies do not need to ‘work it out’ and either it works or does not. No confusion or deliberation!

After 4:30 don’t listen to anymore - mixed signals equals leave

Why can't they just say that!!! If they say what they want and how they feel then I would respect that much better than him being confusing. How could he not be considerate?

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

Exactly

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

💯 yes!

Ok ok...So im not trippin, im connected...👋 what should i do.

Aww… i liked him a lot… now he completely stopped talking to me… i have no self esteem that i dont think a guy like him would be interested at all… or maybe he is not.. idk… it is what it is..

Such a good video again. No one has talked about this topic so thoroughly and honestly. I recently asked a man what qualities he values most in a woman. He couldn't name one. Finally he said he's looking for a connection with a woman and wants her to be trustworthy. That was all.😎

@Theinfamouskiki411

4 ай бұрын

I've asked many men they don't know

@ojala5555

4 ай бұрын

@@Theinfamouskiki411 That's sad. But that means they don't know what they want, and that's why the relationship with them is doomed anyway.

Your the only bm I'd actually date or whatever. ❤ i wish all men could communicate like so. Thanks for another video.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

Stephen I'm fed up 🤷

Its the like bombing bs for me. Oh they really like you and ALL that. Then calling or texting you heavy then it drops off after a few days or a week. If you barely know someone and aint even spent anytime with that person then how do you know if they the one or not?

Great video ❤. There were a lot of gems and good points in this video. Very informative

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

Men at 68 want too play the field.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

I love listening to your videos, however I have such a hard time hearing you. I turn my volume all the way up & if there's absolutely any noise going on in the house I still can't hear you. It's not my speakers, bc they're fine with most. This includes when I use my earbuds as well.

I'm new at this dating. And I'm confused. 😊

What does it mean when he shows interest to be around you, expressing attraction, but tells you he likes that “ You’re silly. “ It’s become so confusing.

The titles days "do these 3 things". What are the three things? I didn't hear them mention even though I watched the whole video

Why can't we become "the one" for someone else? Is everything so static in life? Many of us seek constant evolution. Doesn't that then imply being a different and improved person over time? Why do some men discard us so quickly without allowing us, and also allow themselves, the opportunity to evolve together?

@Theinfamouskiki411

4 ай бұрын

My point exactly! After 1 date you know if they the one or not? Come on now thats nuts! You have to give it time. Get to know a person

Thanks for all the explanations appreciate all❤ i have one question the men that is not ready because he is not healed yet, (he just divorced when we meet) can you make a video on this please 🙏 my ex i dated for just almost a year only , he is the nicest person i ever met but the mix signal was he was all in and suddenly not ready and want to heal for one year more , but i believe he still want to continue the connection that day he told me he still wants to heal . So im confused, but even though i still love him , i accept that and told him , I will be ok , but when he went home still message me with emogi and hugs so what the hell is going on lol 😂 i answered him with thank you and goodnight without any emojis, then i never message him again, almost one year now . He also never message.

The best way to avoid breakup is to not become a controlling person saying "Why you do this, this way, why you dont do it my way. why dont you do it now, why tomorrow?" People dont like to be controlled. They try to avoid this kind of relationship as much as possible because they are not marrying their own mother, they are marrying a partner who enjoys activities as much as they do but in a friendly way. Or if you want someone doing some stuff your way, you should say it in a friendly manner and give the person space to add some ideas too. Or if conversations are only about responsibilities not about having fun with hobbies. If people talk about hobbies more, they dont feel controlled because talks about responsibilities seem less frequent, yet the person can fulfill responsibilities on their own terms. I think if the talk about responsibilities is equal as often as talks about hobbies. but in a healthy manner then the relationship seems harmonic.

@Heyu7her3

4 ай бұрын

But they ARE marrying their moms, specifically a mom they sleep with. AKA "Madonna-Whore Complex".

@alaalfa8839

4 ай бұрын

@@Heyu7her3 I didnt mean specific gender. Because both want the same understanding and freedom of thought. Sometimes your own intuition gives you hints about what works for you. Try new ways of thinking to get to the goal, which creates new opportunities in jobs but also in personal relationships. If there was only one way of thinking, it looks like a "cult" mindset. A cult mindset doesn't allow you to have an open mind to try new things, and new ways, and find happiness and freedom. Nobody wants a marriage like that either, where the person can not have different opinion or doing things in different ways. But of course, if the person is rude and vulgar it should be corrected. Vulgar attitude is not the same as doing things differently.

I know he is trying to explain, and I get some of it, but yes it is really confusing…

All of these explanations are fine but I will not tolerate a man, grown man at that, who cannot communicate! That’s what it all boils down too. Flirting with someone, to have them let their guard down, to then spit them back out is trash behaviour and why play with someone’s emotions in this way. That behaviour right there is enough to put me off entirely. And I’m in that place right now…Waste of time. SMH.

They definitely understand what they’re doing! I’m not giving a grown man an excuse! Stop infantilizing these men plz. They know when they’re giving less‼️🥴