Thats how i knew my ex-husband did NOT love me.

@Missybella92227

Жыл бұрын

Yes, this brought me literally to tears. My little quirky gestures irritate my BF the ones that don’t… he makes fun of 😞💔

@BrooklynBaby-1

11 ай бұрын

@@Missybella92227girl, run 🏃‍♀️ 💨

@lisacranmer8005

9 ай бұрын

that's how I knew my x did not love me either, he abused me and he was always ready to scream at me, try to run me over, leave me stranded alone, call me names, talk about private things behind my back, grab my neck and push me into the tub, said I was Costing him TOO much MONEY, no man will ever want you except for your body, DNT come home without meds or I will Divorce you, my way or the highway, charge me rent money to sleep on the floor or sofa, etc etc etc..

@javireyes7333

9 ай бұрын

@@lisacranmer8005😮😢oh my god, you went through such horrific abuse. I hope you recover and heal with help of specific trauma informed therapy and live your best life and love story from Now on

@maryjean-vb8bm

9 ай бұрын

I'm sorry.

Exactly. When a man tries to change you, to improve you, run for your life.

Couldn't have said it better myself. My definition of love is staying by someone's side despite their flaws.

@Ms-tk2tn

3 ай бұрын

Damn my thing too

@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

2 ай бұрын

❤ thank you. If I could have only been lucky enough to have met someone like that instead of who I met in 2023 and his idiotic family.

@maryams8062

Ай бұрын

Periodt!!👌🏾💯

Wow that is so true. He loves things about me that even I don’t love about myself ❤

My uncontrollable laughter that goes into snort laughing, I can't help it & that gets him laughing too 😆

@The900AD

11 ай бұрын

love this

@javireyes7333

9 ай бұрын

I love hearing my ❤ laugh. Can’t get enough of it

@maggief1851

4 ай бұрын

Like Sandra Bullock😊

Facts ! Once everything that he loved that you did before in the beginning of the relationship will start to bother him if he doesn't love you if he does really love you nothing about you will bother him no matter how much time passes by.

This is so good to know 👏 Someone who loves you loves even your “flaws”… someone who doesn’t tears you down. I think that’s natural in ourselves in people we gravitate towards vs distance ourselves from

Damn everything bothers him😢

@nina1996ization

Жыл бұрын

He's a controller

@jenniferyates8100

Жыл бұрын

Same here .

@kalanihettige5344

4 ай бұрын

I feel you

@Truologye

2 ай бұрын

Not good. Get Out Now. You deserve to be loved, all of you❤❤

So true even if they tell you that they love you their tolerance to your quirks is a dead give away if they really love you or not.

You are right Matthew. Exactly me when men are really in love, they will appreciate all about the woman they are in love with. But First we have to love our selves from the top to the bottom. They will be attracted to the inner light we project.

You simplify this so well thank you so much

You nailed it. And, That’s true for women as well ❤❤ When she sees you as a trophy she will constantly correct you over little things. One to make you even more better ( for show of purpose) other to feel good ( for her inner inferiority) Remember she will be very devoted to you. But the one who loves you and you are not just a deal for her, will specially fall in love with your quirky side. Because that’s makes you oh so different and uniquely hers. ❤❤❤❤

Over time, those things they used to love start to irritate them. Then they start to point out how annoying you are.

@lorraineb.4698

8 ай бұрын

Exactly. They say about 9 months in is when their true colors come out

@mslewis4919

5 ай бұрын

Sounds like he’s seeing someone else, he was never truly in love

@user-zq3gf4pf8l

2 ай бұрын

Because they never liked it in the first place. They just pretended. They don't know how to regulate emotions or apologize. Men can get irritated when stressed but they will show you it is not you but them. Don't confuse that with a narcissistic manipulation cycle of abuse, say sorry, then repeat.

He's the first and only man who ever appreciated my quircky side (acting childish in public, talking and laughing loudly, being clumpsy etc). Every other man was annoyed very much from it😅

@Sirenity01

2 ай бұрын

Actin childish in public?

Thank you Jesus God bless you thanks

Love takes time people forgot this. Its not just gonna come lyk that. It comes after time and from emotional connection

I know my boyfriend loves me he does all these things for me & more

Very true - Mine loves my quirky side - Men have quirks too.

And you MUST love them first before anyone else can. 🖖🏾

A couple should lift each other up. Have a good balance.

I have a loud squirky laugh 😂 and he made sure to always make jokes so that I can laugh. I knew that I was loved and liked ❤14 years later 🎉

My partner knows how much I love beauty and the beast. Majority of the gifts he's gotten me have revolved around it. And he appreciates my quirky side so much our wedding is beauty and the beast themed 💕

@cherrydeleon9646

5 ай бұрын

I do not impose on my COVERT NARCISSISTIC NEW MAN. I'M RUNNING 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️

Appreciate you 🙏red suits you

Amen amen amen thank you

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Most welcome!

Thank you Sir, I so much resonate with wat ever you said .I just hope n pray our love lasts forever !!!!!!❤🙏🏻🌹

Wow your right on, my boyfriend says he loves everything about me

It was very helpful, thank you❣️

Matt is so dreamy ❤️

Thank you, great advice! Nice t-shirt!😊👍🏾

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Most welcome!

Thank you for this video. I have depression and always doubt that my best friend loves me. The stuffed animal collection you spoke about was really helpful. I've always loved stuffed animals. My mother threw out all of my stuffed animals when I was young because she thought I had too many. I was too young olfor her to do that. I've been rebuilding my collection since then. My best friend bought me around 20 or 30 squishmallows. I think he loves me

@MatthewCoast

10 ай бұрын

Always a pleasure!

Thank you 💗 that works for women too.

@MatthewCoast

5 ай бұрын

You're welcome 😊

I do have a stuffed animal collection at 40 years old and he knows some of them by names 😂😂😂

Think when Harry met Sally!

@ForeverTogether219

Жыл бұрын

Love that Movie 🎉

That is so wonderfully true...and i have lived it from and to..and the bond created through that is truly magical. (It certainly. did not apply with my first husband who was a narc

This is so cute and informative 🙏❤

True,,I love making him laugh

Can you talk about shy guys

Even tho he pretended I saw through Him he loved Me. I kept him Calm and loving and Openminded and Smiling and Laughing i said hi im Here

Really Appreciate your Quirky Side❤

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Aww thanks!

What sealed the deal is I could sing out loud to the radio toolin along in his truck. The kicker is I have a thoroughly awful voice. I knew he really loved me, as he looked over sideways at me, with a big grin on his face. When he said he loved my singing I knew he really did, because he loved me. 54 yesrs later, he still loves my off key howling. What a dude.

Nice to hear that

How do you like tell when a guy likes you when online he acts really nice and he is like ‘I really like you’ and then at school, he then changes around his mates, acts as if you dont exist.

@oyekunleoyeyinka7470

Жыл бұрын

It means he doesn't like you. So ignore him too. And when he comes back, don't give him room to your heart again. He is a player/mind games player

@Im.justjo

Жыл бұрын

Uh well, it sounds like he doesn’t like you..

@TravelBug189

Жыл бұрын

If you’re confused and wondering if a guy likes you the answer is no, he doesn’t

@RoroNaklis

10 ай бұрын

He just want to open up doors to other girls that's why he shows you two different and opposite attitudes. Yeah it's quite confusing, game player always do that so just ignore him.

How about we start STANDING in love?🤷🏽‍♀️

@Mushroom321-

Жыл бұрын

😅❤❤

Well I already know that my boyfriend don't like me at all.bcz everything I do bothers him.ive never seen him laugh at anything in years.he hates everything I do regardless.he don't talk either

Aw, sweet! Yeah, I'm nothing if not quirky! 😅

When he said quirky side I was thinking my random emotional breakdowns and me randomly speaking in a British accent at probably inappropriate times-NOT LIKE NORMAL HUMAN QUIRKS 😭😭😭

Thank you...I'm excited....

I love this ❤. 😊🤗🤗. Thank you, for this.

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Welcome! Glad you did.

Thank you. It's true

Absolutely spot on… now I need to focus on his quirkiness!

Thank you for your advice

Whoa, OK Rob Dyrdek turned in to a relationship expert. Love it

Awesome message

Oh- believe and trust me- I'm quirky.

Very true 😊

Thank you for saying this ❤.

@MatthewCoast

5 ай бұрын

You are so welcome!

Lol I feel called out. These are so me! My exes all thought these things were cute. 😂🤣😂

This is very true my new guy didn’t think twice when I brought my fan along when I stayed over for the first time

You are exactly right thank you for helping all of us god bless you

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

You're most welcome!

Thanks. That was nice to hear.

@MatthewCoast

5 ай бұрын

You're welcome!

Aw so cute❤

Thank you 😊

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

You're most welcome.

this is so true

Thank you. Yes, I do.

❤nice advice I’m not into dating but I love listening

Love is action. How will he show that appreciation?

He accepts all my crafts and I appreciate him for that because what halfway to 30 year old needs 80 oz of resin, glue etc🤣🤣😭😭

Thank You Much

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

My man does all this things. He truly loves me. He is imaginary so he is always there when I need him 😂😂

Wow. Thanks. It turns out, no man has ever loved me 😢

It's true of what going about it right now thanks for the tips

This is weird bc He showed these signs when I’m convinced he doesn’t love me.

Thank you 🕊 Amen ✨️ 🕊 💫

@MatthewCoast

5 ай бұрын

Welcome!

My sweet Man .. knows I like to laugh a lot .. so I try to make him laugh.. He can come up with some things himself n I will think about it all day while driving.. Yeah .. Pretty KooL.. We enjoy each other.. yes we do..❤

Thank you

Aww, shoot. I'm the doorstep texter 😂 called out

Tell me when I’m walking with my guy friend he walks way to close to me is that a sign he’s into me ??

My husband flat out told me last night that he doesn't love me. So, I guess idk 🤷‍♀️ I'm 40 and have stuff animals.

Thanks you for this I really appreciate 🙏

@MatthewCoast

5 ай бұрын

You’re welcome!

Very true

Makes perfect sense👍😍

So so so true

Thanks you so much

@MatthewCoast

3 ай бұрын

Most welcome

YES!!, PERFECT TIMING !! THIS IS SO TRUE !!! 😮😮

really true 👍

Ah... Makes sense now. No wonder my husband is irritated by everything I do, even if I breathe... I bother him. He definitely is not in love with me. Lol Not going to lie though, already felt it. And knew this before watching this video, this video just confirmed that's all.

@IExpectedBSJustNotThisMuchBS

Жыл бұрын

Contempt is a sure sign… it’s a killer of relationships.

This is true for both nen AND women.

This is so true for how I see her😅

Great info

@MatthewCoast

10 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching!

Thanks, if I ever find love again....❤

Thanks!😁❤️🌹🤗🤗

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Thanks too!

@candaceellis7655

Жыл бұрын

❤😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤aaayyyyy

Are you Killing me Bro.This my way you make me feel like we're connected each Other this the way I'm acted believe me

Yes Anen😂😂😂❤❤❤ I like to look into his eyes 😂😂😂😂😂

Singing in the shower…but careful, you’ll have a soap opera.

That has just confirmed what i thought

Thank you in Jesus name.

Sounds like bs … you either like / love someone or you don’t usually if their “quirky side” bothers you then it doesn’t work

My ex's 'quirk' was to break into my apartment and hide in the closet and keep his face absolutely still while peeking out from all the stuffed animals. ❌🚫😱

Thanks so much ❤😢😢❤❤❤👍 you

@MatthewCoast

4 ай бұрын

You are welcome!

OMG!! I have a list of quirky 😂