When she takes too long to respond to a text message...Trust me, she won't get another one!

@derrickmoon3296

10 күн бұрын

You give her another chance then that's it

If it don’t come easy… you better let it go.

When a woman takes longer than 72 hrs to respond, it's a dead giveaway that she's either not into you or she's got somebody else.

It’s because she’s not that interested, usually. But I agree you have to ignore it and try anyway.

I BROKE up with a girl I was dating for over a year because 7 days past on a text . I gave her the time and place to meet me and asked if she could be free. No response after she agreed to meet me at first. She was watching my stories too. So I let her go. She had 7 days . BYE 👋

@mariahconklin4150

2 жыл бұрын

Wow yeah that’s weird to wait 7 days I’d probably only wait a day or 2 and 2 days is too far.

@rageman2150

2 жыл бұрын

My man I'm proud of you.

@BoundInChains

Жыл бұрын

Well done!

@erawriter1651

Жыл бұрын

The 7 day thing is no joke. I am in the same boat. 7 days without reply and today is day 7. I’m out 😆

@kingfancy7317

Жыл бұрын

Not all Heroes wear capes

Good advise stop bothering move on and you will find somebody interested.

If someone doesn't text you back. It means they are ghosting you. And they find you insignificant plain and simple.

@derrickmoon3296

10 күн бұрын

Or they are an aviodant

If a girl double texted me as a guy it would be a green flag but it's different for women becuase they have an ultra abundance of options and they are hypergamous so they don't want a man who puts them on a pedestal whereas men love if a woman puts them on a pedestal.

It's a good video. Thank you. Especially at the 3:05 mark. I think we all can't help it when we WANT them to respond quicker. My biggest pet peeve however is when a woman says they don't want to play games with you, and then they proceed to do exactly that. No one is ever honest these anymore.

@putemongamety4804

2 жыл бұрын

That’s how they are immature overgrown children... it’s funny because they have mouths but don’t use them for the truth but for a lie and other things..... their lost a women who’s has no accountability is a danger to your life... these women think it’s look to cheat and hot girl summer... but they all have to pay for what they do.. as we all do but when they look for a man who can be their it’s going to be to late.. when she begging for her life it’s to late... everybody doesn’t like games me personally I don’t care you’ll never hear from me again but that’s not the case for everybody

Alot of people are giving up on finding someone .And just hang out with family and same sex friends.

@WiseFoolTrades

2 жыл бұрын

Is it any surprise? The whole game is a mess these days.

@Jman21UK

2 жыл бұрын

Social media has completely ruined the dating scene too much diamonds mixed in with the dirt makes it impossible, think it will have serious consequences if it carrys on.

@alexb8926

2 жыл бұрын

@@Jman21UK 😂👍🏼

@blacklyfe5543

7 ай бұрын

Same sex friends? Hell no

@ProtoIndoEuropean88

2 ай бұрын

People these days became socially awkward.

When i first saw this video, i was thinking you're gonna talk about some sh*t like a lot people do. But you're sooo objective that it makes me feel so understood! Because people don't understand that i am not a social media person. I can use KZread or watching some videos on social medias without texting anyone at all. And when you're pushing me to respond to you quickly, I'll feel soo pushed and will definitely lose interest! It's not that i am playing with your feelings or something. It's just that my life doesn't turn around my phone! I never check out my phone every single minute to see if someone texted me or textes me back. I'm not that kind of person. And when i feel pushed to respond quickly, i automatically feel smothered!

On some days women's interest is just lower. Just do your thing and let her get back to you at her pace, in 99.9% of cases there is nothing wrong and she'll go back to normal if you just let her be till she starts missing you and her interest goes back up because you're not chasing after her.

@ProtoIndoEuropean88

2 ай бұрын

That way of thinking is so stupid and naive it hurts. Yeah, she will eventually get interested more out of nowhere and reply more often. Sorry but if she likes me, she has to be honest to her feelings, the "women's interest is just lower somedays" is total bullshit if true love is there.

@novaparadoxx9043

2 ай бұрын

​@@ProtoIndoEuropean88Women just operate differently to us. Don't forget they have monthly periods so their emotions are always going to fluctuate dramatically. Not saying it's an excuse for women to lead us on but I've definitely noticed they are more romantic some days than others

@TheTrueTrinity888

Ай бұрын

Yeah on monday she cheats on you and she'll love you on tuesday.

"There is simply no better option." That little bit hit my ear right. It applies to a lot of things.

Just match energy if she take 2 hours to reply than take 4 hours to respond to her…..

She not that in to you she playing games with you so stop text her block her number and fine someone who respects you

@CliniK-DS

2 жыл бұрын

What is this simpshit lol. She either is busy or she wants to see if you keep on textning her like you dont have a life. Guys nowadays give up to easy, if she rejected youre date invite, simply wait a week or two then hit her up again. No big deal. When you block her number you just showing her that you are a weak obsessive guy that have to have a girls attention all the time to feel secure.

@HdHd-hp6qz

9 ай бұрын

100%

If I text girl and she does not respond the same day, I'll forget about her. We're all equal and If you do not value my time, forget it. Why be stress out with nonsense. Making a person wait, 3 or 7 days it's very disrepectful.

@blazinjaye45

9 ай бұрын

I feel like 4 hours is too long when you kno that person always on they phone

I like this approach, give them the benefit of the doubt. I'm seeing a girl and out of nowhere takes her two days to respond to a text. Women have their phones glued to them. She responds and apologizes and says some stuff came up. I was ready to just ignore her and move on, but I'll respond and just significantly reduce my investment.

@mrreddington777

Жыл бұрын

Nothing that comes up is an excuse to not text. She could’ve said hey I’m sorry something came up. I’ll text you when I can.

@camels9654

Жыл бұрын

@@Thebatsign She kept up with the behaviour so I starting dating another girl.

@CamoKKing

9 ай бұрын

@@camels9654im currently dealing with this situation. Been chatting to this girl for a while and seemed like she was interested. A few weeks ago she gave me her number out of the blue (i didn’t even ask for it) we were texting quite well and now this weekend she just ignored my text for a whole day now. I dont know if she is playing hard to get, giving mixed signals or just doesnt like me at all. But why give me your number in the first place😭

@XJokermanX

8 ай бұрын

​@@mrreddington777yeah exactly. A text takes seconds and minutes maximum

@megyalilaballad

7 ай бұрын

That's exactly what you should have done from the moment you were ready. Move on if she is not meeting your social and emotional needs. No man who values himself should ever chase a woman. You love, you get hurt, you learn, and then you become weathered and wise. Don't repeat the same mistakes.

I will give her the benefit of the doubt and do not panic. See how things develop. Do not invest more than she is investing in the interaction. Keep it light and fun.

@tamborafina

10 ай бұрын

But by giving the benefit of the doubt, she could be interested in someone else. That's why it's best to be clear I dont need to wait three days for a message and play that game.

@larrnew

9 ай бұрын

@@tamborafinayou got to take it like a man…

@markour-parkour1918

4 ай бұрын

Match texting energy, if she texts you back 2 days later, text her back 2 days later.

Best suggestions I've found so far. Thank you

Same with my gf. She takes hours and days to reply. It's getting annoying cause it's happening for months now. And I habe that feeling that she does it on purpose. She replied 3 days later again. Now I'm gonna make her wait 1 week

@paul8513

2 жыл бұрын

How’s it going? Still the same?

@BoundInChains

2 жыл бұрын

Make that 2 weeks. Lol

@hermilogarcia7510

Жыл бұрын

Break up with her

@xmorowe

Жыл бұрын

Girls play games

@Nick-xw5ip

Жыл бұрын

@@paul8513 I tried my best and did everything for her. She broke up with me 3 months ago. She did it in the worst way she could. She didn't tell nothing, she just ignored my messages and never ever answered again. It's been 3 months. But I got the sign and didn't text her again neither

Just want to thank you. I needed to some good wisdom.

cool bro. so simple and I think it's very on point. I need more of your ideas bro. keep going.

I don't think this is a good advice, I just say straight up "we have to respect each other's time and if you're not capable of that then we can't be together" guys, don't try to be with a girl that doesn't appreciate you and makes you wait ages for a reply

@dansland685

Жыл бұрын

Real

@tamborafina

10 ай бұрын

Agree!

@larrnew

9 ай бұрын

That’s basically what he said!

@chrisjfox8715

8 ай бұрын

That's true but different people have different ideas of what "ages" is. For some dudes that's a couple days, for others they have a problem with a couple of hours. No doubt that a girl will make time for you if she's truly interested, but it's also the case that the delay isn't always personal. Some people really are just not great at texting people back..or are just in the middle of something more important, especially if they barely know you yet. But let me repeat myself: no doubt that a girl will make time for you if she's truly interested, but that's no guarantee she's going to drop everything every single time just because she is. And sometimes guys and girls try so hard to pretend to play it chill that they lead the other person to believe that they don't care..instead of just being in the moment.

@tateasaurusrex911

7 ай бұрын

Well said. I also think it’s just plain rude. Understood during work. Seriously tho everyone are on their phones these days

Women are 24/7 with their smartphone

@ay-tj7pj

3 ай бұрын

Not all. Some don't use phone.

@hsucduw

3 ай бұрын

​@@ay-tj7pj99% do if they are under 35

@HappyWerewolf-iv8dk

Сағат бұрын

​@@ay-tj7pjlike your grandma😅

Good sign she is talking to other dudes and hiding from all of them to not notice is when her WhatsApp has 'read' blue ticks off. That's the big major key.

Texting is a waste of time

@sallyjoan

9 ай бұрын

no it is not.

@blacklyfe5543

7 ай бұрын

​@sallyjoan yes it is I know from experience all women are the same.

I'm glad I watched this video. I had this situation in my hands and I'm glad I didn't make any mistake. I just wanted some encouragement and now I got a text from her. Imma take my time to reply. Thanks dude

@hazsyah9979

Ай бұрын

What happen now?

I get nervous when my contractor doesn't get back to me in time. If you have someone that is bad at responding. BLOCK them. They are not interested in you and worst don't respect your time. Secure women will respond or even tell you they are tied up and will get back to you. Like business. If you are dealing with a bad responder, respond with a block and find a better one.

@chrisjfox8715

8 ай бұрын

If someone's bad at responding then what's the point of blocking them? Just leave them be

@blacklyfe5543

7 ай бұрын

​@@chrisjfox8715so that person can't get back to you.

@Caribbean.Galaxy

7 ай бұрын

Theres waaaaay to many of them. Just people in general.

@Timayy

6 ай бұрын

That’s an insane way to react lmao

I have been through this recently. It took her one week to get back. Felt like she was testing me. I only asked once and waited

Well i just kicked a girl who wanted to date me. 2 times she needed more then 5 days to reply to me Now i told her that i dont wanna date her anymore. Girls its disrespectfull and i dont care what you have to handle if you need 5 days for a response you dont value the other Person enough And guys please start to kick girls earlyer out of your live they are not worth the energy you are putting in

@PracticalDatingMan

3 жыл бұрын

It's true mystery to me why anyone would respond or even remember to respond in 5 days. Either you respond right away or the same day if you want to talk to that person, or you don't respond at all.

@BoundInChains

2 жыл бұрын

Women and their silly games!

@erniejames2038

2 жыл бұрын

@@ursamajor6347 facts mine do tht too and past one

@oktayhan9193

Жыл бұрын

​@@ursamajor6347 right

@mamadusow2410

6 ай бұрын

Tanks for the advice bro

Act like a guy that has other options. People who has options isn't going to care if there's a response or not.

@omgshad0w

4 ай бұрын

FACTS

the thing is, if i follow what you say to avoid being desperate, and they just leave, what do i do. suck it up and move on? they just have zero mutual interest in me back and theres ntg i can do but find another?

Awesome this the answer I been looking for

What about a week for responding to a text? I still did nothing, because while she did Apologize and respond to my text with detail, she never followed up with any question to continue the convo. In my mind her reply didn't warrant a acknowledgement of her text, but she did earn a week of silence as i just did or better. I got no time for them games

This is great video that I ever watch. 👍

good explanation

Thanks man.. I've realized just now what I did🤧

If you ask me, I am ok with 5 hrs to reply but I got several 1+ days delays with fake apologies that she didn’t see the messages. What I would say is if she’s not thinking about me at least once to see how I’m doing she’s not worth it.

For me i dont really care whether a girl replies in time or not. U reply or not reply i dont care and I wouldn't just text back again until she replies

I think the problem is many guys are messaging the same girl that's why the pauses especially now days can be cause for concern hard to find a girl who isn't talking to many guys now days

@PracticalDatingMan

Жыл бұрын

Of course. Any guy who ever talked to as many as three women at ones knows how time consuming and confusing it can be. Imagine an average girl messaging at least 4-5 guys at a time.

@savking6188

5 ай бұрын

That's why her level of interest is important. If she has a high attraction for you, you go right to the top of her list above the other guys. If she has a low or mid-range attraction, you become the backup guy(s), slow response, reluctance to make herself available for a date. Only pursue women with high interest!

The ad which played before this video was a guitar video tutorial hosted by James Hetfield. While she takes her time responding, i'll hang out with Metallica. (Except Lars - i'll ghost him).

NO! I completely disagree with you. You should NOT give the benefit of the doubt when it comes to finding a wife. If she has reasons for not responding sooner, she will say so if she is trustworthy and genuine. If not, that should set off alarm bells; and a man should be ready to cut it off at the earliest next transgression. Set a communication boundary and communicate your social needs. If she cannot meet that, move on ASAP, self-respectfully.

I find those that show low interest on text just disqualifie them selfs and look for ones that show more interest

I waited for her respond within 7 days but she didn't respond,she just saw my texts and didn't reply anything. thats it bro, i'm completely done with her this is completely disrespectful behaviour.

@tamborafina

10 ай бұрын

If I text girl and she does not respond the same day, I'll forget about her. We are all equal and If you do not value my time, forget it. Why be stress out with nonsense. Making a person wait, 3 or 7 days it's very disrepectful.

@chrisjfox8715

8 ай бұрын

​@@tamborafinawhat are you expecting a girl that's not interested in you to do? Genuine question. Would you rather they reply with "Sorry, I am no longer interested?"

@ilprodeipro6485

3 ай бұрын

​@chrisjfox871 would alteady be Better

@habeebadesina8468

14 күн бұрын

@@chrisjfox8715 Yes, that is the absolute minimum a person can do, rather than the cowardly way of ghosting

If the person does not respond for 4 hours I delete the conversation without any comment and I am done with that person. That simple.

@PracticalDatingMan

Жыл бұрын

This might be too short of a deadline, since things do happen that causes delays. Perhaps 24 hours is a safer bet?

@Antaress77

Жыл бұрын

@@PracticalDatingMan I did same thing after 7 hours because its disrespect. If you put up with this kind of behaviour it lowers your value

@HdHd-hp6qz

9 ай бұрын

I give her an hour max. There is zero excuse to take over an hour to respond to a text that you read as soon as it came in. If the girl you’re texting show’s evidence of her leaving her phone in another room at times or has met you before leave her phone at home. Then you can make concessions for the limit to up to two hours. But 99% of all girls have their phones attached to them at all times and have seen your message straight away. But at that moment she has decided that you aren’t that important. That type of attitude should never be tolerated by any girl. Only invest your time and energy into girls with high interest in you or all you’re going to end up doing is spending money on a girl who had no intention from the beginning of ever sleeping with you or having a relationship. Women are the biggest time thieves.

@HdHd-hp6qz

9 ай бұрын

@ cmmontrose1469 You’re trying to justify low interest in a woman. Yes those reasons you listed are possible. However that isn’t the reason she hasn’t called you. When she does reply 24hrs later she hasn’t listed any of those excuses that you’ve just mentioned. She’ll act as if nothings happened and expects you to go along with it. Like I said before only deal with women with high interest. Life is so much easier that way. You can’t negotiate interest with a girl she either likes you or she doesn’t and isn’t going to wait 24hrs to contact you back if she does regardless of what is going on in her life. Delete the number and keep it moving.

@HdHd-hp6qz

9 ай бұрын

@ cmmontrose1469 If Brad Pitt or George cloney sent you a text message. You wouldn’t wait 24hrs to respond back to them no matter what is going on in your life. And if you say you would then you’re clearly lying. The reason why is because women with high interest in a man want that man to know as soon as possible that they are available and interested. Not to lose the opportunity to get with a high value man. A woman with low interest in a man will have a maybe attitude about everything. Playing games and not being flexible or available. Wether it’s sub consciously done is subjective but one thing is for sure. When a woman is interested in a man she will move heaven and earth to be in his orbit.

Send the text, forget it and if she replies, then she replies. I do not dwell or think about the text I sent. My ex gf who is married took 2 weeks to reply but her texts are long and detailed.

She did apologize for late replies. She said she works in the day and has texted me at night multiple times. I don't respond till the morning

@Christian_D24

2 жыл бұрын

She’s getting her back blown out from another dude forsure

@Brock-Lesnar-WWE

Жыл бұрын

Lol good... One girl done the exact same thing to me

@80skid83

Жыл бұрын

Same any texts I get after 9pm , I wait till the next day. She gonna make me wait all day , then she can wait the next day for my reply

@Denzz2

Жыл бұрын

@@80skid83 she makes you wait all day because she had work. If you expect her to prioritise you over her job then you're just a dumbass. Plus, some jobs don't even allow phones.

@chrisjfox8715

8 ай бұрын

​@@80skid83or you can just text when you're available to and not turn it into this tit for tat game. Not everyone that takes a few hours to respond has some slight or lack of interest in you, especially if she barely knows you yet. Some people quite literally do work during the day then have shit going on getting settled in for the night. Not to mention the fact that playing these kinds of games is the very thing that can push some girls to play those same games back. "9pm", what are you, 14yrs old? Read the situation at hand instead of having these concrete rules. The resentment over someone new having a life that doesn't revolve around you every hour of the day is immature.

You put girls on pedestal too much. No one, especially women are not crazy busy like men working over time, providing, repairing, renovating. Respect yourself as a man and finds valuable women not child in girl bodies. Respect each other time!

@chrisjfox8715

8 ай бұрын

Giving someone the benefit of the doubt for no longer than a day is not putting them on a pedestal, it's simply not taking everything so personally just because her life doesn't revolve around you yet. Granted, I'm saying this under the assumption of this being a girl you've pretty much just met. A girl you've established a relationship with routinely taking hours to respond, that's a different story.

To me it just really depends. I’m not one of those people that are going to expect a person to text me back every second of the day because we are all busy and have lives. However there’s a fine line between being busy and just being neglectful. if I don’t get a text back within the day I’m not gonna trip, but when it gets to a point where I don’t hear back every few days, it’s a no for me. Because by then I’m not committed to the conversation anymore, the excitement is gone.

If she takes more than one day… she is probably not interested… I usually give women 1.5 to 2 days if they don’t get back to me like this gentleman said don’t do nothing…the only thing I do is delete the message…if a woman is really interested in you they will get back to you in a reasonable amount of time especially nowadays as most people are tied to their phones!

just felt with this had two people taking long to text me one waited hours after working and the other I was interested took days to text me consistently but recently I found a new girl and she's texting me non stop when I'm at work and even when she's in school she's talking to me daily nd she's super into me and I'm happy with her now. I feel wanted compared to the other two I met

Because you're not a high value man in her eyes

Covert narccissist, study it. Validation.

If a girl is taking multiple days to respond but she is still responding to your messages. It means she is talking to another guy or multiple guys at once, and you are the backup plan. How do I know? Because my ex did this to me before we got together. And I found out she was hooking up with somebody else before she met me for a first date. After we met for the first time she dropped the other dude and I never had this problem again. She texted me almost instantly every text.

@savking6188

5 ай бұрын

Lol

@awadhhasan5937

4 ай бұрын

@@savking6188u shouldn’t be with that type of women that means u are 3rd or 4th option , u need to be her number 1 option

He always texts me first and last and the chemistry been over the roof between us suddenly he stopped texting me yesterday and I never double text just this once and i sent RIP.

The problem is you like somebody who does not like you back then somebody likes you and you dont feel the same.

Perfect advice

This guy made me wait for 6 months to respond to my text. Oh wait! He hasn't yet replied 😅. I sent him the final message letting him know of my disinterest in pursuing the connection. Be mindful of such red flags during the nascent stage of your relationship. Best wishes to all ❤

Thank u

I don't know if you have seen the movie Ghosted on Apple TV. I will not say much about it, (spoiler alert) but a guy gets contact with a beautiful girl. He sends a lot of texts. No reply for days. She has a very good reason. She is a spy and has been busy with really bad guys. I don't think it's a big chance a girl you contact with is like her in the movie 😅. Another good reason is if she is ill. When I get ill I get really ill. Can barely eat. Don't barely know where I am. If she is like that, that is a good reason to not reply for days. If she really likes you she will let you know she is busy and will reply to you later. If she forgets to reply later then she is not into you. You don't forget a person you really like. Most people use their phone all the time. Best you can do if she takes forever to reply and never text first, is to let her go.

You sold your believes in the end.

If they had time to edit a their video to post on TikTok, they have time to check her msgs

Does not matter what sex is not responding. For me im a woman i dont answer because i am not interested period .its not a priority to answer to some dude or lady co worker neighbor whatever. I dont care to talk to you and wish you did not call.

F the impression. Bottom line they are using you for their own attention. Call them out on it and move on. Know sending them a f u text means they are already gone. Might as well let them know before you leave that you know what they where doing from go. Using you while she go and f another dude and when she is done she wants you all over again for her own selfishness

People are loosing interest on dating because if you dont have a crush on them it seems boring and lifeless

They don't perceive you with much value, therefore they don't invest much. You either can call them out showing weakness and that you care about the ignoring (wrongly done) and decreasing her interest even further. Or you can text days after with something cool you are doing, so you show that you don't care about the ignoring and maybe increase her interest, also indirectly that you still think about her, so you are attacking the root (the interest), and not the effect that low interest causes. So maybe she will increase her interest over time or if not you have to move on. If you are ready to do so, let her know a clear deadline where you won't be accepting to receive messages after (not to long, this hints your value, if you put one shorter than she is answering you, she would be intested in what do you have that she doesn't know to value your time more than she does) 1. Don't increase her ego or lower your value with "i'm hurt messages aka what are you doing that you don't answer" 2. After hinting your value to her, confirm that by setting clear limits where if she wants to get something from you, she should be playing by those rules. And you have to make that be respected and make clear that you leave if she didn't pay attention to the deadline, accept to forgive if she asks to, but don't make that usual. 3. Look for the other options already, you will be better with girls who already have interest in you. You can hint that awell to the girl if she crossed the red line of limit you have set. She doesn't care anyways, but it would definetly increase her interest to make an additional effort to keep you.

I will act normal and invest into less, it is so weird we talked a lot me with a girl we had a date I kissed her we planed things and since we got together she started replying very late like every time 4h 7h 10h 14h like I don't get it and I told her is all OK she said yes and that she still wants to meet me however it is so confusing I don't know she invests as well into the relationship however she does it in a very very confusing way that I cannot understand if I should still talk to her or let her go I am 18 she s 25 she said she s ok with my age but even though like I don't get it I am trying to do a step and she...

Good video

How long is "a few hours "

Honestly the best thing to do with me personally is to not be needy. This guy rarely texts and I’m okay with that because I’m still working on myself. Plus people don’t need to jump into anything to soon because if you’re marriage minded and jump into anything too fast 99.9 percent of the time it will probably lead in divorce. I’m a woman but like watching these videos haha

@Jman21UK

2 жыл бұрын

Seems you are part of the problem yourself 'working on myself' haha hilarious

@erniejames2038

2 жыл бұрын

Rarely text lol tht wat u get for bein desperate fast

@DanielMendoza-su3ei

Жыл бұрын

Hey since ur a girl, please let me know: if I meet a girl thru online dating app, how many days/weeks should we text each other online before i ask her to meet on a date?

@samuelwebster2769

9 ай бұрын

​@@DanielMendoza-su3eiI met a woman online earlier this year and we met about two weeks after meeting online.. Don't wait longer then that it's much better in person.. Texting should only be for setting up a date..

@chrisjfox8715

8 ай бұрын

​@@Jman21UKhow is someone focusing on themselves first a problem? You'd rather a woman rush into dating you even if she knows she has traumas and/or money issues she's self-acknowledged the need to work through on her own first? What alternative did you have in mind?

What if I see her online all day, it's clear that she saw my text,she just doesn't open the conversation

@poe-

Жыл бұрын

It means she is not interested in you or doesn't like you. She will text you back if she liked you.

@alonzoperez2470

6 ай бұрын

It means she's not interested in you. Move on!! The same happened to me

@canotajman

6 ай бұрын

@@alonzoperez2470 I definitely moved on because I'm not even sure which girl I was talking about here :)))

@savking6188

5 ай бұрын

@@canotajman Cassanova

@maneing9762

Ай бұрын

It means there's another dude who's more important than you

I was texting a girl and she didn’t respond all day but I just ignore it and just wait but I don’t worry at all I just take my time😑

@spanishmontana6121

Жыл бұрын

You still waiting?

@tamborafina

10 ай бұрын

@@spanishmontana6121 LOL he probably is. I dont play that game I'll be straight forward with people of what I expect.

This is really a red flag that the guy has way too much time on his hands... Busy people often cannot respond to non business related messages during the day. There are times I even have to ignore client texts for a couple hours till I'm done with my current responsibilities... Time is valuable and everyone rich or poor gets the same amount per day

Tbh its because i'm busy with another option I find more attractive and want more. It means theres someone else higher in ranking than you. OR if not then I simply don't care for you in that way, the way you do for me. End of. If i want someone - I TEXT THEM. Simple as.

@Atius8

4 жыл бұрын

Yup, and that is why I don't text girls back that take longer than a day. If they don't care enough, then I'm good, I'm better of with someone else. So when they rage/panic after I don't reply, it's probably because neither me or the options she might have prioritized panned out for her.

@ladyslick121

4 жыл бұрын

​@@Atius8 TBH I wouldn't respect a guy who continued pursuing me even whilst i mess him around. If i lose the the 'other guy i really want' - i'd return to the one i'm slow texting/messing around - just to keep him for emotional needs, access to dick, someone to speak to/shoulder to lean on - all whilst continuing to pursue other guys i properly want. Fellas KNOW the signs when you're a backup option. Even if she settles for you in the end - its only until someone else better comes along. Because i've already lost respect for you, when you continued to pursue me after i messed you around. And before then, if i was slow texting - you were never at the top of my list anyway. Just being honest.

@dreamcore

4 жыл бұрын

rookie numbers, i have one who takes months Seems when she feels too close, despite not having met and being very LD, she abruptly vanishes, or perhaps plays a game to see if I will chase her to another service last i heard from her before this weekend was before wuflu in the west, clearly the current excuse to contact me She's been on delivered for a couple of days now, as i didn't notice it for hours, and now not sure about replying

@augmentedJCDenton

4 жыл бұрын

@@ladyslick121 you are a toxic manipulative women

@ladyslick121

4 жыл бұрын

@@augmentedJCDenton Yass thank youuu! xxx

If she replies in the mornings then you should know the chic has a live in guy with her.

At minute 4, you seem desperate. Definitely not recommending. Successful seduction and dating is based on abundance of your mindset, if you have this mindset you won’t even bother.

@chrisjfox8715

8 ай бұрын

Depends on the situation. If it's an established relationship, that's a perfectly healthy conversation to have. Dumping someone the second they do something you don't like is reflexively immature and isn't developing yourself for anything long term. In any relationship, there's going to be disagreements and attention oversights - immediately moving on from the slightest transgression just because you have options elsewhere isn't exactly a commited relationship.

Yeah but we are adults and I am not interested in games.

Yeah but 36 days after is kind of excessive don’t you agree?

What if it's your gf who tells you she loves you and your talking about moving in together and she often leaves you on unread mid conversation and doesn't reply for 17 - 32hrs while she's posting on socials.

Nah theyre on their phone 247 they are either not super interested or they dont want to seem to keen.. but if they always message back within the day or next day and agree to meet up always then your golden

If she takes a day to reply, she will 100% be deleted

Met a girl at an engagement party on Saturday. We flirted a lot, she even took pictures on her phone and then got my number to send pictures on WhatsApp. Followed me on Instagram the day after too. We danced, walked over and kissed me on the cheek randomly. Now, I tried to build a rapport whilst sober before I set the date and she’s showing dry and no interest responses. Guess I’ll move on. Edit: also providing replies within 1-9 hours. Feels too awkward to ask for a date.

@PracticalDatingMan

3 жыл бұрын

This is all too familiar. Besides being generally / naturally fickle, an intoxicated girl's behavior says little about who she is and her interest level once she sobers up. When it comes to any party, I would recommend talking to girls as early as possible before they get drunk so you can who they actually are and their real response to you. Then, excuse yourself before they have a few too many. And of course, don't forget that once you see good level of interest and respectable follow through, there is an option to call rather than text and ask her out, which is still so much more compelling.

@xMikeyHardyx

3 жыл бұрын

@@PracticalDatingMan This is some of the best, well thought out advice I’ve received. Thank you for taking the time out to reply ❤️

@PracticalDatingMan

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your kind words and I am glad you found it to be helpful.

@xMikeyHardyx

3 жыл бұрын

@@PracticalDatingMan If you fancy a little ego boost, I felt I had nothing to lose so I asked if she was free Saturday to join me and mutual friends for a drink. She said she’d “have to think this over”. You were right, you earned yourself a subscriber. Stay safe in these times buddy 😁