Super annoying when you have a deep connection with someone and you both know it, but the other person chooses lust instead of the love with you.

@janicewitzke9529

27 күн бұрын

Definitely. That's what happened to me to.

@janicewitzke9529

27 күн бұрын

It's there choice. Let them. I go. As hard as it was I did. We both did. But yeah I get it we both had a connection but he had three woman if not more. That's not me my husband that passed on we were faithful to each other. By. Gods grace I will never fall for that again. I want love true love not manipulating controlling narcissist. . If it wasn't for. God I probably would have stayed with him. The only way I would reconcile with him is a complete transformation. In. Jesus.

@ladylaymusic7640

25 күн бұрын

I'm definitely going through a hard time of accepting it

@GisseppiijayneFlo

17 күн бұрын

Thisssss

@serenedione

8 күн бұрын

This‼️

I have a solution to stop this fear: date the person exclusively. And do not have sex. Courting without sex. Talk about everything with love not lust. See where it goes. Not every relationship needs to be consummated

@ms.j.w.4208

Ай бұрын

AMEN!!! I AGREE 1000% ...I ask God to remove the desire to have intercou*se with my current BF. I asked God to remove that soul tie but I still wanted to find him attractive. God did it and the vision is clearer..Praise God!!

@user-cl6uj5bn2f

Ай бұрын

This🎯

@bricehudson3948

Ай бұрын

This

@akuasalaam490

6 күн бұрын

Listen!!!

@Hope-qy8dr

3 күн бұрын

What man are you going to convince to be monogamous to a woman who is not sleeping with him?

If a man is scared to express his feeling it means he is still confused and possibly not true with his feeling . It can’t be relied on

@FlatStella1

3 ай бұрын

Very well said

@Melinaviolino

3 ай бұрын

Sad, but right!

@pocahontas4583

2 ай бұрын

Or most likely just afraid of rejection

@purplecarnations-pl2vr

2 ай бұрын

But how will he know unless he tries? Surely knowing means you can move on either way? Its not fair for the woman not knowing​@pocahontas4583

@Ssookawai

2 ай бұрын

@@pocahontas4583 his fear is bigger than his attraction, still not good. If he were 100% sure that you're amazing, his feelings will be higher than his fear, actually. So yes he likes you but "not that much". That's how I see it, a "not that much" won't cut it anyways.

I can appreciate guys who have the courage to say something

It is a lie. Some are very scared and they pull back. It's frustrating for us women who fall in love with them and the fear they have fun hurts and trauma is bigger than their desire to love us.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@pocahontas4583

2 ай бұрын

That’s why I always assume there’s no feelings there. I’ve found 99% of the time nothing ever happens. Even when I see every sign mentioned in the video. It’s given me great peace of mind to stop caring lol.

People need to quit being scared and say something! God did not give us a spirit of fear, for 1....and for 2...it's selfish to pull someone else in because of your fear! Cuz now you've activated their fears and gone went and broke their heart!!

@nonhlanhlamahlangu8427

3 ай бұрын

Exactly

@sixteen.candles.4644

3 ай бұрын

Idl people are human. So I get it.

@vaclinciapounds8859

3 ай бұрын

Right! And God is not the author of confusion either!!! 🙌🏾 👏🏽 ❤️

@mmommo10

3 ай бұрын

love love that

@ShyXoxo1920

3 ай бұрын

💯

I ghosted my male friend because i had expressed my interests in him, and he did not reciprocate (which is fine), but i wasnt going to stick around listening to his dating stories or watching him get with different women ✌

@nofybn7794

3 ай бұрын

It's not right to ghost. You have to say something.

@iamcellular6650

3 ай бұрын

@@nofybn7794 you don’t owe a man you’re not dating a good bye especially when he brushes you off and doesn’t care anyway.

@Love2Love927

3 ай бұрын

You could’ve just told him/explained that lol

@inspirationalshanae5129

3 ай бұрын

It's worst when it's a co worker. Then ask why I do Not come in the break room 🤨

@cynthiaholcomb8142

2 ай бұрын

I disagree why get married if you're not fully in love with the man. That's crazy to me🤷

Let’s keep the men in prayer especially if God has shown you your person, which is Kingdom related.❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

@tamitatangoto5134

2 ай бұрын

Yes; He has shown me my person!!!😮 I will pray much more often for him. Thanks for the tip.🎉❤

@princessblessing5288

2 ай бұрын

Me too sister l need to continue pray

@Heyu7her3

Ай бұрын

*But are those men praying for themselves & for you?*

#1… He acts or treats you diff than others. #2… He gets jealous / possessive when you’re around or talk abt other men.

@EspritArkitekt

15 күн бұрын

What's #3?

@Hope-qy8dr

3 күн бұрын

Jealousy and possessiveness is a sign of insecurity, not love.

*A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself - to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.*

@autisticscreechling4950

3 ай бұрын

Agreed! One of my favorite poems from Khalil Gibran deals with that kind of love: You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore. You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days. Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God. But let there be spaces in your togetherness And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts. And stand together yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow. ❤

@Love2Love927

3 ай бұрын

@@autisticscreechling4950 This is beautiful! ❤

@daisythreekids7021

Ай бұрын

@@autisticscreechling4950❤

@Portia620

Ай бұрын

Never cry because of you. It will happen if they dye. 🤦‍♀️. No one is perfect

That’s really selfish to tell someone basically IMMEDIATELY after they get married that you’re in love with them. If you’re not going to say anything before the wedding then just keep your mouth shut. What kind of love is that? She just messed up his life in all kinds of ways…

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@marciawade9101

3 ай бұрын

VERY true! As if HE'S supposed to dump his WIFE, now that this girl has FINALLY expressed her feelings. 🤷‍♀️ CRAZY!

@c.williams3740

3 ай бұрын

Maybe the intent was to mess up his life & having him question his decision to marry another woman. Thats a terrible thing to do.

@DansInCharge

3 ай бұрын

Only terrible for his wife imagine being married to someone who doesn't want you! He clearly didn't love her to begin with but I'm sure there were signs before they got married most women choose to ignore them!

@tamitatangoto5134

2 ай бұрын

I agree with you so much...in fact it sounds like she is copying that movie 🎥🍿 with Julia Roberts😮

Fear is a game. One people play in their heads to have a sense of control. Love is not about control.

@NatzTalk

2 ай бұрын

This guy I was seeing, totally struggled with his feelings for me.

He doesn't need to pursue her with all those deep insecurities. He will damage her with this low self esteem.

Please pray for this man in my life who is running from true love ❤ thank you for your work, Stephan!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

@ChocolateLover4365

3 ай бұрын

Same. Please pray for a man in mine as well 🙏

@jabuwati

2 ай бұрын

Girl, even me here in South Africa am going through the same thing.

@leamontoweh715

2 ай бұрын

I think the prayer should be the women who are holding to hope for a man to change. Love yourself enough to leave.

@leamontoweh715

2 ай бұрын

@MeetStephanSpeaks - everyone should do what is best for them.

I can speak from experience. Risk ruining the friendship with the opposite gender if you have feelings for them. The alternative is worse. If there is a true foundation for friendship, God can put it back together. Opposite gender friendships are at risk of eventually ending anyway unless both just stay single for their entire lives.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@desireekramer2473

3 ай бұрын

I agree

@NatzTalk

2 ай бұрын

Totally agree.

I honestly don’t like many online relationship coaches but I genuinely like you. Your energy is very calm and welcoming!

Sad but so true about some men...... may they gain the courage to share their feelings with their true love so they can start living the life that's meant for them sooner rather than later. Thanks for such an insightful clip!🙏

@evelyn28able

3 ай бұрын

Amen

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@marciawade9101

3 ай бұрын

EXCELLENT!

@tamitatangoto5134

2 ай бұрын

Yes; Sooner,.. Because, TIME IS OF THE ESSENCE😮❤🎉

@flooredjustfloored

Ай бұрын

It's called awakening and it's sweeping the Earth

This happened to me in college, this guy and I graduated high school together and found out later we were accepted to attend the same university. I remember this girl on campus really liked him and they started kickin it for a while. She knew we were from the same city so would ask me about him all the time. Apparently she also noticed something I never paid attention to while in his company with our other friends. She said, he doesn’t treat me like he treats you. Long story short two semesters later he shared his feelings with me. I was shocked because in my mind he was the guy from home. Like clearly if he liked me this would have been revealed in high school. All these ladies on campus why me. I liked him also but never thought we had anything in common more than friendship. We did date for about 8 months but realized mutually it wasn’t meant to be. But overall he did treat me differently from other ladies, I was highly respected. We wasn't intimate but connected on other levels.

Well this is why I don’t care anymore. My lot in life is to be single. And I’m just going to embrace it. Idk why I ever even got my hopes up. Tired of things being more complicated when it comes to me. Nothing is ever straightforward. Always some bs nonsense. Update 3/23/2024 I didn’t want to delete this comment because it was written during a moment of frustration. I have a new perspective. That God has given me. Things seem complicated because you ARE special. You are not to be easily accessed because of the value God has placed on your life.

@Autumn-jz8bw

2 ай бұрын

You have no idea how much this resonated with me :(

@encyclopaedia641

2 ай бұрын

Same. So freaking complicated hian!

@Kala813

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this. I came to the same conclusion. God hears your prayers. His timing is perfect

@balv5080

7 күн бұрын

It is out there for you and for me. I have faith and I believe God’s timing is best even though it is super super difficult in the moment. I don’t like being alone. But I keep praying He will send the man He has for me. I will pray for you too love❤

Men...Take a chance! Tell her how you feel! Chances are the feelings are probably mutual! NO regrets!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@tanyapowell5403

3 ай бұрын

You’re welcome!

I don't think I could be with a man who couldn't take the lead in this regard. How is he going to be a man in the relationship if he can't get the woman he wants.? Can't marry that.

@leeleebaybee8869

20 күн бұрын

Well said!

@donicaschannel8220

14 сағат бұрын

Ikr true 🤦🏽‍♀️

I had a man started dressing nicer, bringing me food and cooking, interacting with my son, bringing me around his friends and family and I met his kids. He started doing more intimate things and he most certainly was jealous of other guys around lol ❤ but unfortunately our time together didn’t last 😢

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@Love2Love927

3 ай бұрын

I’m sorry it didn’t last. Be blessed. Stay blessed. 💜

@Mushroom321-

3 ай бұрын

I went through the same !!, it sucks !!, He was a wonderful example to my kids & came jealously & in the end didn't last either. It was heartbreak 💔but not meant to be . Different goals & direction could have people not together.

thank you for telling us the reality of situations like even tho some people are not together, he may still have feelings for you. You’re the only person on YT saying that really. Not everything works out perfectly or in a straight line like a fairytale

I am a strong believer that we should always keep it real with self first and then keep it real with others. If we don’t communicate our true feelings then can we really blame God or someone else when we miss out on our blessings? That includes that one. I’m just saying. Thanks for sharing! 😎💯🙏🏽💪🏽💗

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

@reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100

3 ай бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I appreciate your response. 🤩

@marciawade9101

3 ай бұрын

EXCELLENT point!

@reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100

3 ай бұрын

@@marciawade9101 Thank you Queen! Take care of you! 💗

@marciawade9101

3 ай бұрын

@@reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100 Thanks! I always do. Hang tight! 😁👍

The he treats you different than others can also be misleading when he lets stuff slide with other women but with you he feels it is more important to talk it out and address certain things. It can seem bad but it really make sense he doesn’t care about the women that are temporary. This happened with my friend and I felt some type of way until he said it straight out, “I don’t care about them and I don’t know how long they will be in my life, you will be in my life forever so it makes a difference.” That one revelation made our communication flow so much better once I stopped comparing, I accepted he didn’t compare because there was none for him. This is so spot on.

Well, if you scared to speak to me , I don’t know if I consider you good enough to be with me. Any MAN Who is scared needs to know that…while you being scared, someone else is making the move and they may not even be as qualified as you are! And she just might be waiting for you to say something. So make the move, what’s the worst that could happen??? A No”…and you ll move on or press further.

@angeliquedawkins669

Ай бұрын

That sounds kind of mean. Some of the unqualified men making a move just want sex, they know they're unqualified and have nothing to lose by being bold. Just not afraid of rejection as a rejection would make sense even to them. Not even talking about one night stands, i'm talk about full on relationships where the principle motivation for romantic gestures and going out (if there's even that) is regular and available sex. She can say something too, courting can be mutual and gradual.

@marcellamiller7808

20 күн бұрын

Exactly!

Your advices are so helpful ☺️.

“Most marriages involves two people who have stronger feelings for someone else.” Wow wow wow wow!!! This statement right here is enough for me. The truth really do hurts. I already have so much trauma from my biological mom and dad, I don’t need it from another person. I’ll stay single. I refuse to be a placeholder!!!

This was good to know. Thank you!

Wow he fits all of these signs, and it was hard putting this into words when describing this situation

Thank you, this was helpful

The part you said don't wanna make him your man. Because losing him means losing your man & your best friend. It hits me hard! 😢

Mr. Stephan, you are very good at all this wisdom you share...almost prophetic...you are helping many people...thank you...

I'm experiencing the "pullback" right now.😢

@SilentRover-lc9jk

43 минут бұрын

😢

I feel like this could be true to a certain point, with men who are serious in character but to all other men he probably doesn't really like the girl enough ❤

Thanks Stephan 🙏🏾, always helpful advice

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

This actually was a helpful message I needed to hear this morning.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 ай бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤️ 🙏🏼

Aww I wanted to hear more.

The story about the best friends definitely resonates with me. I had a crush on him since my teens, but I did tell him I had feelings for him. He was the one who was afraid of damaging our friendship if we tried dating & things went sour. I remember being absolutely crushed when he got engaged... He ended up breaking things off & now we are both entertaining other relationships, but I wonder if he would react the same way if things were reversed.

Blessings to You bro and Yours You don’t have to give us these nuggets but you do Thank You 💪🏾❣️🙏🏾🫡🫡

Wow. He is exactly right about everything he said.

In such a situation fear has no meaning I think a man who really loves a woman doesn't want to keep her down and can have the courage to tell the truth regardless of the consequences.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

I love ❤ someone that only a friendship exists. 😢 I can't tell if he desires more or not.

I told him I cared for him he said he needs boundaries and on his terms can only offer friendship I was heartbroken as he kept being in and out with me I’m relieved

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

I agree with everything you said.❤

Don’t have male friends just brothers but still sometimes they catch feelings

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

STRONG PRESENTATION OF INFORMATION! TRUE SIGNS TO WATCH FOR,WITNESS AND CONFIRM.GOOD TEACHING ON THESE SIGNS!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@user-uj2gs9os8i

3 ай бұрын

STEPHAN YOU ARE GREAT! A BEAUTIFUL GIFT FROM GOD! LOVE TO HEAR YOU LAUGH OR SEE YOU SMILE! WOMEN AND MEN ARE ALL A WORK IN PROGRESS, BUT WHEN WE REALLY LISTEN, WE CAN ALWAYS FINE A WAY TO BE THE BEST WE CAN BE TO EACH OTHER!

@user-uj2gs9os8i

3 ай бұрын

YOU ARE WELCOME! APPRECIATE YOUR WISDOM!@@MeetStephanSpeaks

@tamitatangoto5134

2 ай бұрын

​@@MeetStephanSpeaksI noticed some other people mentioned you only did two signs not the third one 😮😊 so where is the third one please?😂

👋... Thank you for this.. ❤

Stephan that's so true we longer friends at all

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

Well said. It's unfortunate people can miss out on a great opportunity with someone when they don't speak what's in their heart and/or on their mind. Great points and have a great weekend Stephan. 💯🤍🤍

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you and may you have a great weekend as well 🙏

Great video this actually happened with my current boyfriend we always liked each other but he had a long term girlfriend and after they broke up I admitted my feelings but he already started dating someone else but then they broke up and he finally came to me and asked me out now we are together and happy

good morning. listening may 2024. bless all us here amen.

Flirtatious and engaged with other women, but with me, much more reserved and almost distant. Yet the way he looks at me....!! (yes he knows I adore him)

Indeed real divine love twinflame love is deeper and deeply love and scary for most people. Running and chasing easy-going love or lust is the easy way. And let deeply intens love and passion behind

Great video, but I didn't hear number 3😊🤷‍♀️

The jealousy and territorial I have caught and dealt with. I just thought it was some crazy sign like get out of here because he is my buddy THAT’S IT!

Love,Rosie…that’s my life right now!🤦🏾‍♀️

Better to have the hope and idealisation of Divine Union than to risk losing that.

I honestly cannot feel anything but the same thing for him. I know God hasn't given me a spirit of fear but I am awaiting for God to give me the go ahead. And I hope he hears God too, bc the signs ARE there - from God AND him. I pray for him and for myself to remain positive and honest with him... 🙏🏾🙏🏾

We need a video in “Am I a PLACE HOLDER?”. 🤔 Also the ending of the video?? What happened?? 😅

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

@a.d.b535

3 ай бұрын

Great idea. Sometimes I wonder if I'm my BF's placeholder, looking at confusing behaviors toward me.

@ericathomas4362

2 ай бұрын

I've been in a situationship for bout a year. He says he's not ready for a relationship but he still expects the benefits. He says he care for me but his actions r opposite. I never been to his place and he always made excuses and I'm over it. I asked if I'm a placeholder and he says no..but I feel he's lying bout seeing someone else. Advice please?

@a.d.b535

2 ай бұрын

@@ericathomas4362 It's hard to accept when emotions are confusing the truth, but I would say you're in a compartmentalized part of his life. That's it, sadly. Find someone you can share your lives with fully.

@destiny04fe

25 күн бұрын

@@ericathomas4362 do you…let him reach out when you are doing your thing and you will see that doing you is much better than doing him 😁. You are worth to be chased! You are valuable and if he doesn’t see that. BOY BYE !

Sounds very familiar and true

I think this guy is into me because he's afraid to look at me or he blushes severely when he does look at me & he freaks out and gets scared and shuts down when we do make eye contact. I gave him my number finally on my own because he froze 2 different times when I asked him "How was his day?" I don’t think he realized that he was showing his dreamy meltness afterwards while on the phone with someone. But i caught it and said Awww he seems to really like me. But he has my number now and I can’t get him to talk to me. So I am giving him space. Hopefully he comes around. I need him to talk to find out if he is the one!

All people are looking for love. How you go about is the thing, be up front, don't settle for what you don't want, treat the person how you want to be treated. If they don't they sure are not for you. Stand for what you want I believe. Scared everyone is scared be true to yourself.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@flooredjustfloored

Ай бұрын

Agreed!

I’m going through this he’s been hurt several times now just runs!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

🙏 ❤️

@angelcharms7297

3 ай бұрын

Im going thru the same.😢

@victorianorris1916

3 ай бұрын

@@angelcharms7297 just need try and communicate, I tolded him that I’m praying for you Sis!!🙏🏽🙏🏽

Real video Stephan.☀️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

So true

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

💯 yes!

Thanks for sharing & this is sooo making me think about someone 🤔 oh by the way i didn't hear the 3rd sign. Maybe i missed it 😕

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@jennhawkins5356

3 ай бұрын

The third one wasn’t there!

So unfair and selfish of Annette to tell that she was in love with friend after he married another person. Annette didn’t know he was getting married? My heart ❤ goes out to the “wife” who married the guy who does not love her. Is this a love triangle,emotional adultery. All them ppl need counseling.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@gck_replayzz1029

3 ай бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaksI’ve been there, personally

Aww my ex has been my close friend before and after we dated. He just can't emotionally handle anything relationship related and honestly, it can be hard for me too. We adore each other. I'm kind of an all in or all out type of woman and have done so much healing so to be with someone unhealed might be tough. He keeps trying though. ❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

@SunshineAndSnowflakes

3 ай бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks same. ❤️ I respect whatever direction he chooses to go in life. Whatever makes him happy and feel at peace.

Sorry. I don’t need your advices anymore. Thank you for everything idol. We parted ways. Hope we both have a better Love life someday.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 ай бұрын

Sorry about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏🏼

Once I consider a man a friend......that is what he is. To be a friend is IMPORTANT to me. It is not a "just" to me. If you cannot be a genuine friend, you will no longer know me. I understand this may come across as closed minded, but it is more about knowing what things are, and knowing what we want.

Well, people need to stop signing up for place holders and be patient. You have to learn how to be by yourself bc if the right one comes along and u got a placeholder in your space well, the right one is gonna keep it pushin.

Stephan, you are so on 🎯💯 % on point. Do you ever read emails that relate to you posted topics? I think I have a great one you might want to hear. Just let me know the word limit and I will stay within those parameters.

If you are not mature enough to state your feelings you are not mature enough for a relationship. Leave me alone.

@paradiselivinginpurpose

5 күн бұрын

Exactly!!!! RED FLAGGG 🚩

@britanicanjohnson

2 күн бұрын

Exactly because we are too old for some ish for real

This makes me believe men and women truly can't be just friends. Someone always likes the other. Or they had something but Broke up and still get back together years later.

@flooredjustfloored

Ай бұрын

Agreed!

@TheDemsk

Ай бұрын

That's not true. If the man is not attracted to the woman, you can be friends.

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it

@Sommer-ho7pk

2 ай бұрын

there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

@MajorCockbern

2 ай бұрын

its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

@ManyWeidman

2 ай бұрын

this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

I'm scared too! I thought this guy was my friend. We would occasionally talk, and he would tell me about his situations with women. I tried to hook him up with someone, saying if nothing else, they would be friends. It never happened. He got mad at me. I didn't see him for a couple of months. When I did, I started to apologize, and he told me he wanted me. I was so shocked! I couldn't think straight. I was always attracted to him, and I told him I felt the same. But I have been on a mission that doesn't include a relationship. This has left me feeling so vulnerable. I didn't know he felt this way.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

@BrookeLyn39

2 ай бұрын

​@@MeetStephanSpeaksThank you

Live this guy. Finally one nit afraid to mention God

I'm sorry..... But, look at that beard shinninnnnn!🌟👏🏼

Hi stephan, please do you have an audio clip of site for your KZread videos … couldn’t find you on podcast.

Stephan the video ended when you were explaining the second sign, it seems like something went wrong.

My husband definitely treats me differently than others for sure, he's very harsh and demanding and judgmental of me and helps me less than he helps others

@encyclopaedia641

2 ай бұрын

Narc

@sarahshaw1990

2 ай бұрын

@@encyclopaedia641 that's what I've been thinking for a long time

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 ай бұрын

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

@sarahshaw1990

2 ай бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks me too. He values Godliness, and he is that type of man who does come to a realization of his shortcomings and is repentive. So, I am just going to pray and wait for him to turn things around.

❤❤ most marriage fail. Because spouses have " back up" friends of the opposite sex. Its a big problem in western divorce courts.

@encyclopaedia641

2 ай бұрын

My frustration is I don’t know why they freaking do that. You harbour feelings for someone else and then proceed to marry someone else that’s crazy. Really crazy. Why not sort your feelings for this other person first you haven’t even told them how you feel. They are your best friend so they are always there you see them everyday heck they might even be there on your wedding day and then you have some sort of feelings for them but rather than sort out your feelings for them, try and explore and reach a resolve, you go ahead and marry someone isn’t that stupid?! No wonder there’s so much divorce because it’ll be hard. Why put yourself in such a situation.

@flooredjustfloored

Ай бұрын

Some form of fear

Oh I do agree about that jealousy thing but I also look at it if it’s meant to be it will happen. I told the one I want if she wants someone else then go as I only want someone that wants me not an option or flight over her as then I’ll go did she even want me or just settle for me. I have options but once you get emotionally attached and bonded it’s not that easy.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

I've always felt that for men, it's so much easier to be with someone you love but aren't in love with. 💯

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Ай бұрын

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏🏼

This reminds me of the song If I Told You That by Whitney Houston and George Michael.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

I was best friends with my first husband for a year. We confessed feelings. Ended up together for 13 years. We have two sons but i still lost my best friend in this

I know he really likes me still but he can't show it or even admit it to himself. He shown all the signs...

What’s the full video for this discussion?

This signs reminds me of a guy i met online that im interested but end up realising im the only one catching feeling and knowing he treats everyone nice especially that one female friend that he always check up on. I was taken aback and distance myself instantly although it hurts but its better to linger and hoping for someone who wasnt truly ready for nor wanted to get to know you.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

It is not just in partnership to find the harmony, but also at work, where you are supposed to be with the person 8 hours. You like some person, and their values and humor. But later you notice their obsession with perfection, that they are not able to relax, but be nervous over some nonsense, that it decreases your ability to talk to this person more often, so you distance yourself, try be neutral, because they make big deal about some nonsense. But it may be caused by their previous jobs, where they were taught to micromanage every nonsense. they took it so seriously, that they are afraid of losing job if they don´t micromanage every detail that sometimes matters the least. Then its very difficult to live happily in any environment if we are obessed about some tiny details. But it affects the relationships.

I can tell you now up until 4:46 for sure it’s true…I’ll Keep listening

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

Stephan, I really appreciate you, but I’ve gotta say, I will watch these videos until halfway through, waiting for your first point to start! When I tell stories and do videos, I’m a “scenic route” person to. I never get to the point…but, you and me both, should work on that! 🤣 I wanted to know and I watched to the end on this one, but the 3rd point got cut off. There were lots of stories, though!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

I feel in gut that he’s my husband, I hope I don’t sound delusional if only things would’ve been easier, we both single but I have kids with my ex husband who keeps finding excuses to control my decisions using the kids and I am afraid my love is getting tired of it

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.

@tamitatangoto5134

2 ай бұрын

I feel that same way about a guy. That he is my husband. And some people might think that's delusional. But I can't help but feel it and believe it. Maybe we can have the saying: "BELIEVING IS RECEIVING."😅 I plan to take some other people's advice on here and pray for what I want,.. and see if God gives him to me.😊

@LL-rk5lv

2 ай бұрын

@@tamitatangoto5134 it’s weird I even feel when he is going to text me before he does but I am letting him go

@kasiejoanna1204

Ай бұрын

I'm in the exact same spot! 😢😢

Wisdom ❤❤❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

lol I am in a situation where I noticed he is jealous and so am I!!! 😂😂😂 But I would love to share my story to you Stephan, if it’s possible?

4:20 damn lolll

@MeetStephanSpeaks

3 ай бұрын

🙏 ❤️

Well I was hoping but as usual I’m wrong, he treats me differently by kind of hiding from me and watching me from afar but won’t say anything other than hello. We work together. And he seems annoyed if another man talks to me. But he doesn’t talk to me, call me, text, etc. So at work I just ignore him and don’t talk to him unless I absolutely have to. I really did care for him but the distance is killing me. So instead of obsessing I just face up. Cause why care when he doesn’t.

I can attest to this about men

i always wondered why my EX (who is now married) used to stalk my social media..