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@alicewooley7097

Жыл бұрын

The yes man? I would be in L.ove more when he say no no problem in love still .no disrespect about that depends on the individual, both communicate And being there for one another accept what is right or okay . listen ING and peace let one be them selves they may need confirmation to what it is they Re doing accept ur resource or help to make a decision on to what it Is that he or she wants and need to do. Does not have to be do what I said or exact what one said relationship check sounds good. Communion. Updates. Real. Good. I said keep. Bounding throughout the relationship . Thanks to that One

@robinlittlejohn

Жыл бұрын

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Sooooo true. Sometimes the man you want may not be the man who is actually good for you OR simply, a comparability issue. That does not make him or you bad. You just are not your best selves in that kind of relationship together. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right!

@mariaowens3399

2 жыл бұрын

Whewww facts

@katanalashawn4468

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely correct

@Seaton318

2 жыл бұрын

I’m a witness, very true statement

@zanastrange1878

2 жыл бұрын

@@adamumuhammed8034 Thank you for the kind wish, however, I think it is best if he stays an ex, no matter how much we loved eachother, a bad match may just be that

I firmly believe in no games, no lies, no drama, no secrets. That works best for me, and I have a high quality man who loves me dearly.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that, thank you for sharing I appreciate that ❤

Attributes men love in women 1. Confidence 2. Positive energy

@noneya-hv2vu

15 күн бұрын

Feminism Open Attentive Humorous Cooperative

Don’t put your focus on the wrong things because if you get a person you THINK you want, you will miss out on the person who will be truly best for you 🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right, thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

@casperinsight3524

2 жыл бұрын

Well Said 🎯 be mindful of what you really want with self honesty

I have had relationships and marriages that I thought were the one's that best fit me. I have now come to the conclusion that God has the right man for me and I am waiting for him.

This has taught me to be honest with myself and that I want a man that is a provider and allows me to sit peaceful in my feminine energy . I can take care of myself but I would love a masculine man that protects and provides . I am going to pray on it . Thank you . No more entertaining men I'm either not attracted to on all levels or who are everything BUT providers lol.

@rellbgm4473

2 жыл бұрын

You gone be praying for a long time, ain't no grown man gone take care of a grown woman.

@sophrosyne5900

2 жыл бұрын

@@rellbgm4473 There are plenty . I'm just looking to secure my bag so I have my own sense of security regardless. I am also celibate which weeds them out pretty fast. The only part of that I agree with are the pseudo-providers that are actually on power trips, abusers or controlling . There are many men that were raised properly to protect and provide but feminism and thinking " toxic masculinity " actually exists as programmed men to contain their masculine attributes and women to behave like men. I dont do that.

@Carolyn100000

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@checkcheck2125

2 жыл бұрын

@@rellbgm4473 There are plenty if a woman knows how to be a woman without the nasty attitude

@wendywilliams5095

Жыл бұрын

@@rellbgm4473 there out there,I was with one for 18yrs until he passed away,he didn't want me to work and wanted to take care of me

I love the idea of a communication night! That is a gem!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Communication is definitely key, I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!

"Are you fighting to be heard? Or are you fighting to be obeyed?" THAT'S THE KNOCK OUT QUESTION RIGHT THERE! KAPOW!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙌

Being confident, self sufficient, wealthy, debt free has only gotten me a bunch of needy men that either were jealous of me, or wanted what material things they could get from me. They would come to me speaking sweet words of love, etc., but at the end of the day, they were only interested in material things and what I could do for them. I can do bad all by myself; I don't need any help!

It’s so important to be open to listening to your partner. I had to learn this years ago. Listening doesn’t mean just hearing to have a response but really taking into consideration what the other person is saying and truly gaining an understanding of their input.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right, thank you for sharing I appreciate that ❤

@letrice2892

2 жыл бұрын

I always say ppl listen but do they actually comprehend what's being spoken thats the question

@maedavis7484

3 ай бұрын

😊 54:09 œ​@@MeetStephanSpeaks

What is sad is when a man put everything on you and then calls you a control freak!! 33 years now divorced!! Couldn’t handle the stress I was under. Not to mention I was battling stage 4 cancer at the time with no support!! I have now found my strength and confidence again.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear about that, but I'm glad you are now on a path to healing 🙌❤

@CocoChanelle-1

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like he wasn’t the right one for you from the beginning. I pray you are healed.

@elexiscarrington476

2 жыл бұрын

May God continue to strengthen and heal you... Spiritually, Mentally, Emotionally, Physically, Financially.. in Jesus name.. Amen..⚘ B BLESSED ⚘

@Carolyn100000

2 жыл бұрын

God bless you!

@ingaburgess1474

2 жыл бұрын

I am just learning how to accept and walk in my femininity!!!!!! It is scary but yet eye opening🤗

Until a man is fully satisfied with a woman he will never see past his own selfish interest!💯

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@Carolyn100000

2 жыл бұрын

That's so true, I was confident, stroked his ego, loving, attemtive etc, etc, etc, therefore he must have been the wrong man for me because it did not work.

A clean home is part of self care.women feel better to engage in self- care in a clean and inviting home atmosphere.it's not just about staying busy for many women.but your right the effort is not always worth losing your free time over. Thanks Stephen❤

@lmiller1413

2 жыл бұрын

A clean home feels good.

A woman can show interest, but he needs to not bring negativity. Men who gossip, are dismissive to their woman, and unhealed (constant family drama/past relationships) lack emotional maturity. Laws of attraction will not keep them together. HEALING and therapy are essential nowadays. Too much crap going on in the world to be warring at home.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right, healing is definitely key!

@lindatillman5761

2 жыл бұрын

My guy kept bringing up negativity. I think he did not see it like that. I think he thought he was only helping but. It brought me to defending...it felt like he wanted to control me. Like my father maybe. Idk. .

@Earthomo

2 жыл бұрын

That’s a feminine male (which is the majority of black American males) raised by a single mommy. A woman cannot teach a male to be a man. Same way a man cannot teach a female how to be a woman.

In the past week, I have been approached by four men. Each walking in different masculine energy. I notice that the more I tap into my feminine the more of high value each men were/was. It's shocking too because after taking a class and watching videos on feminine energy, I just tried the steps and it worked. So now am I not only listening to your words Stephen, I am putting them into action😊😇🤗🤭❤. Pray for me💯.Praying for you everyday 🙏 as well. Keep up the good work! Also I have improved on my morning routine!!! Yay Meeee!!!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for sharing 🙏

@candy879

Жыл бұрын

😅😅😅😅😅

The REAL power of a man is in the size of the smile of the woman sitting next to him. Super valuable video, you are doing God's work Stephan.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 thank you for watching I appreciate your feedback!

@nicolelagamo11

2 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏

@lmiller1413

2 жыл бұрын

Nailed it!

This guy is so great at putting out the truth. I'm Muslim and I listen take and appreciate his advice. It all sounds good to me 😊👍. May God/Allaah bless you for all your good work. Aameen. Thanks.

Dating is way more fun and different now that I’m applying what I’ve been learning. I tolerate no Bull stuff and I’m approachable. Im so thankful for these videos as well as God, eating by blood type, and support from other women whom I admire. These tips are appreciated.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

Honor each other. Important for grown UP MAN & WOMAN. DISCUSS PLANS. HONOR IS ESSENTIAL. LISTEN TO EACH OTHER EQUALLY. IMPORTANT. HONOR EACH OTHERS OPINIONS. ESSENTIAL.

🙌🏼👏🏻 ❤️I love your talent Stephan!

Very thoughtful points, no master piece missing here. Thank you for a lot of time you spent for introspection and reading then to deliver all that to us women. Lots to practice 🙏

Stephan you said it right. You must find positivity within yourself to exude it on the outside. Let me just add it can't be Forced Out it Must be Allowed to be Released to come out through your Willingness and Ability to be your own True Self, so find WHO that is and be true to it. 💯❤️

People in general, respond to a good leader. If someone asks an opinion and never takes suggestions, it feels like not being heard. Using the insights and input with discernment is the key. Personally, I prefer joint decision making for things that will effect me and the relationship. I also enjoy his input and insight into decisions I need to make that are for my path that doesn’t effect him other than knowing he is trusted to have good intentions for guidance

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Most definitely!

I've listened to quite a lot of your videos which truly enhanced my ability to become able to decipher knowledge & or rather look at the opposite of the coin that's applicable to my relationship . Thank you for presenting such great viewpoints

Your commentary on self care is on point. How I am loving your channel!

Lordy, truth hit me in multiple ways. Thank you for amazing insight with tactful delivery :)

What you said in this video was spot on and amazing, Stephan 😁🤩😎!!!!

Have it. (Confidence) It still attracts some who want just what they want Stephan, you know what I mean. Your content is great! 💕

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

🙏 I hope this video has been helpful to you!

Thank you for your guidance and true understanding of men and woman clarity is golden

Oh my….Mr. L. Many aren’t ready or Willing to receive this Truth. ✅ Great Messages here. 💯🥰🌸

It's so true healthy relationship, leading love, leadership .....everyday I learn a lot and I correct my self you are Amazing person Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

I’ve been watching your videos when they pop in my feed, but didn’t subscribe or commit until today. I’m happily married and watch, because I want to stay that way. I’ve struggled with the first two things you mention, because I was diagnosed with MS a couple of years ago and use mobility aids and can no longer do many things that I used to find my identity in. I’m learning to embrace my femininely and find confidence in my identity in Christ and not what I can DO.

As a divorcee...I agree 1000%! Not one lie was told.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

I really enjoyed this the passion in getting the message across and using the different scenarios really makes the message more clear and helps u not read in between the lines❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it, I appreciate your feedback ❤ be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!

I totally agree with everything your saying. Thanks for explaining it the way you started this video.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

Stephan's videos are my morning espresso. I love listening to these when working

Salute bro I definitely share these videos in the salon I work at we he having these conversations in your videos are so on point on understanding

God bless you Precious Stephan, what a joy it is to listen attentively as you are speaking Great truths on both sides of the spectrum. May The Great Holy Spirit continue to Empower you Abundantly with more Of our Gods Anointing. You are truly being a blessing to all who take the time to listen and apply these Great Principles and Fruitful Seeds to their lives. You are differently and Amazing Man and don't you ever forget that. As I stated in some of my other comments, my prayer for you is that Our God blesses you with the women He has chosen for you. And that God blesses your Precious Soul with ALL of your hearts desires so that the two of you may Walk out the Greater Assignments and Purpose He has Ordained for you all way before the foundation of the earth, according to His Perfect Timing, Will and Order in The Miraculous and On Time Name of Jesus. Always Love Almeta ❤💥🙏🏿🔥😘

@johnwheeler5819

2 жыл бұрын

Hey Sweet Butter Cake, have anyone ever told you how beautiful you are? oh I look at your picture and I believe that there's God because only God could have created a woman as beautiful as you are. I give Thanks to God For coming across your lovely profile on this website.I am Crosby and i will be so happy if you could reply my message..thank you sweets 😊

You give advice that makes so much sense. Thank you!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤ don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing

Thank you for this!!

All Major decisions that impact a household need to be discussed and hopefully agreed upon. For instance, my husband wants to build a new business building that is about 300k for everything. We also need a newer house. He wants to build the business first and then buy the house when he can. The thing is this impacts both of us as far as the final decision.

Denng Stephan, you are speaking the truth! Thank you for your advice.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

Good Sunday the video was very helpful for me and yes I'm now in touch with my feminine side more than ever I used to be very masculine LOL I'm beautiful smart and intelligent confident but men were afraid of me believe it or not little old my point is I resonate with the video I'm more in touch with my feminine side I get asked out all the time and I'm not even going to big places just the grocery washateria etc now knowing exactly who I am I can stand in my power and be more relaxed it took me time to get there but I'm grateful I'm there😇😍💃🙌

Let's continue tomorrow I have an appointment to a medical mission cleaning our teeth together with my daughter at 7:am . I appreciate so much some excitement I felt in seeing or listening in your coaching sir Stephan I'm hoping you alway give time or in your available time for not bored I enjoy in your communication sometimes you joke that can make us laugh and very grateful and thankful some movement even a little can make a timing or tuning in your vlog sometimes wrong button I'm hoping it may continues step by step to move forward ok thanks again and God bless to us! Stay safe always and be strong!

Being myself brings me the man thats best for me! Thank you. !

@johnwheeler5819

2 жыл бұрын

Hello sweetest, I don't mean to intrude your privacy, I came across your profile while going through comments here, I must admit I did stare at your profile for a long time you are looking really good,I give Thanks to God For coming across your lovely profile on this channel .I am Crosby and i will be so happy if you could reply my message..thank you sweets 😊

Great topic! Thank you for educating me! You’re an angel! GOD BLESS YOUR HEART❣️🙏🏽❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 and may God bless your heart as well!

I do enjoy your perspectives and observations!

Let's continue tomorrow I'm sleepy ok I appreciate so much listening in your coaching but I'm looking forward for the transcript to write down if may be for clarification and very grateful and thankful to have you all always in this same page defended me whatever disastrous happening in my life. Thanks again. Stay strong always and keep safe. Good late night!

Wow ! Great video with very useful information ... I've learnt a lot as I need to lower my masculine energy level.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed, it really helps when you embrace that!

Thank you! Great message.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it thank you for your response and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!

I believe that a healthy relationship is equal and equality.

Thanks for the gems🙌🏾

All facts. Great advice.

This film is an goldmine ❤🙏 thank you

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

Wise words of Wisdom ☯ TY for keeping it real Intentional communication is essential in a successful relationship Active & open listening without interruption Learn to give the benefit of the doubt, innocent until proven guilty Being mindful of a Positive outlook & receptive perspective Persuade without dictation, inspire or motivate with feminine energy Its not what you say but how you say it, be mindful of your tone of voice the words you choose and how it will come across, ya catch more flies with honey instead of vinegar. Exude your femininity to balance your masculine energy that can be off putting to men. Finding balance ☯ Self Care standards is self honouring & discerning Self care structure provides effective time & energy management Attentive, considerate, supportive & nurturing energy feeds a man soul Peaceful, joyful, lighthearted fun energy is fun and enjoyable to be around Surrendering to allow your man to lead, trusting his direction and appreciating him getting you where you want to be.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right, communication is definitely key, thank you for sharing!!

Great content! True Words!

Hi Stephan Have a great and blessed day ❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you very much and may you have a great and blessed day as well!

Positive speech Stephan, very interesting.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 thank you!

👌🏾Agreed 10000000%.... One thing that is a TURN OFF is negative energy!!!!!! And I Love CONFIDENCE!!!!! And consistency is SEXY!!!!. Side note, I have an ex(RIP) That want to my mother to talk to her about me and told her..... I'm too nice. Always happy. He thought I was cheating because I didn't question him about things.... Some people are not ready for Confident women!

Thanks for the info

Great teaching!!!!

Excellent video! Very educational and informative! ❤❤❤💯

@johnwheeler5819

2 жыл бұрын

Hello sweetest, I don't mean to intrude your privacy, I came across your profile while going through comments here, I must admit I did stare at your profile for a long time you are looking really good,I give Thanks to God For coming across your lovely profile on this channel .I am Crosby and i will be so happy if you could reply my message..thank you sweets 😊

This is everything I do just how I am this must be why everyone says im a good women n just love me u really. Helped me heal n feel im 100%/ready n im doing things right thank you

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad I could help!

Powerful, very helpful nuggets for true

Great job explaining 👏👏👏👏👏👏thanks again keep it coming

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed the video, I'll keep them coming ❤ be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!

@Angie-so9wp

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I sure will

You are 💯💯💯💯 Thank you soooo much!! 🙏🏼💕😉

Ahh we need more of u!!!!!!! 💜

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

This is all 100% accurate!!

On point on all cylinders 👍🏾❤️‼️

Amen! Thank you!

Teach Brother! Aerve each other! Everyone!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

I love to have my man too take control, that lets me know that he knows what he's doing, and I trust his suggestions on things

Yes.. I agree with the quote.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

Good words.. Thank you...

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

Are there men above 40 still into celibacy 😪. I listen to you and am getting knowledge on how to carry myself. Sometimes I see myself in your messages and laugh at the glaring mistakes of yester year😂. The biggest issue I find is meeting new people with similar belief systems. Any tips ?

Accept ING. And embrace. Works both ways too in a sense too

Love this right very well know how to talk to one another so true

Stephan , you look great !!!

I would never clean my kids rooms, it is their room. I now only have 1 son who is 21 and he does the laundry, washes the dishes and take care of the animals. I take naps as needed and on the weekends, I sleep in , which helps me to recharge. Children need to learn responsibility because I will not be here forever. And I will say when my youngest son, who is 18 was here, he didn't always clean his room, I didn't stress about it, but would close the door and then he finally realized he was going to have to clean his room if it was going to get clean because mom didn't do it and all 3 of my children are very responsible and can take care of themselves and don't have to depend on me, mom. Love your message.I absolutely love to learn new things and I hope when I finished my degree next April that I can take some of your techniques to help those in mental health.

Absolutely. I can not manage to just be in the saying yes yes without expressing my own opinion. I might as well just die before I become that woman.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

Great tips Steph ❤😍

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

I like the way U honestly understand both genders. Mr. Stephan yr knowledge is very help 2me. Thanks🙏🏾🦅

Love this soo true teach

Thank you 🙏

Honor each other!!!

Thank you. I do tend to attract married men and I now understand why. I also despise men who are married and attempt to get with me for whatever reason. And I let it be known that if they don’t want trouble in their marriage they need to go home and hug their wife and treat her well because they may never find anyone else who will put up with their bs. Sometimes it works and sometimes I have to be harsher. It is sad when there are women who “accept their role as the side hoe”.

Love Leadership and Control aren't the same.

thats true the man who is manipulating at all incidents it makes the feeling of loving because the respect is not there...it must have an agreement before getting into deeper relationship have an agreement that both must listen to each other as a sign of respect to each other

Hahaha.. I am a bit horrible at convincing that I end up crying because I can't really explain my view properly that some times I find myself getting annoyed and not trusting that person with my idea and I do it myself which then makes me one who has shut them out of my thing... I am definitely going to have to work on my communication skills.

I 💜 these sessions. 🛋 Those who are best suited for a successful relationship MUST first know themselves & know themselves very well. Or else, they'll get someone for whom they have not prepared.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right, thank you for sharing!

@kourtney101

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks 🙂

great quote

Obedient MAN IS A GOOD MAN. GROW UP. HONOR EACH OTHER & COMMUNICATION TALK OVER PLANS. TALK OVER. COMMUNICATION. PEACE IS NEEDED. HONOR IS NEEDED. IMPORTANT

Shonuff! Showing interest n flirting really peeks a man’s interest

Always ask God 🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

💯 yes!

I'm not Christian, but I do speak to the Universe and my ancestors for guidance 🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

I’m glad this was in your spirit 🙏🏽💙

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

🙏 Thank you!

Men points and advices are valued as well but it doesn’t mean we have to do what they stated, we appreciate it but just as you said “There thoughts are valued but that doesn’t mean we have to do as they say”

Stephan I just did that tonight...showing interest...let's see where that takes me.

Balance is Essentially in a healthy relationship.