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@marygomez1423

2 жыл бұрын

how much does it cost to speak with you You give good advice but I need steps You give steps to watch out for but steps to bring up the issue without creating an issue. my husband who died 2yrs ago was difficult to speak with and we always argued when I wanted to talk. I want a healthy love relationship. I see red flags but who do I bring it up. I have been praying for several weeks to give me words of wisdom. Sir help me grow bcuz if this does not work I still need to know how to bring up flags I do not like.

@psychoblack6948

2 жыл бұрын

@Stephan Speaks = Is that first story in the book your story?!

@MrLoveince

2 жыл бұрын

Link isn’t workingn

@kathleenlamar5489

2 жыл бұрын

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@SharonMichelleWebster

Жыл бұрын

Just purchased a copy each for my son and daughter from Amazon ❤

Don't be trying to fix a man while he's breaking you in the process. Protect your soul from parasites. 💌

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@ReRe-hi8ze

2 жыл бұрын

You nailed it🎤💣

@ivancandita6892

2 жыл бұрын

Same goes for woman

@user-eu3op7or6v

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@justinrivera2229

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeakstrue 🤔🤓❤️❤️❤️❤️

9 EARLY signs that a relationship will fail: 1. Sexual incompatibility 2. Too soon (having sex) 3. Not able to talk to each other 4. One sided relationship 5. You can’t be yourself around them 6. The balance of energy is off in the relationship (Masculine & Feminine energy) 7. Fighting and disrespect 8. Lack of healing and lack of trust 9. Bad timing 10. Lack of connection (bonus)

@Cardenas50zz58

Жыл бұрын

I recently removed myself from someone because of No. 5 . I still don't look back and have no regrets because I kept telling myself If I can't be myself around him, this won't work. ✌️

@lisawentworth6831

Жыл бұрын

I think number 2 was temper. People having sex too soon can be an issue, but it not a deal breaker and make relationships doomed

@schawnettarobinson8584

Жыл бұрын

So true ❤❤❤

@spud4079

Жыл бұрын

#4 is about to be the reason she's gonna lose me.

@linettelow

7 ай бұрын

Thank you.🫶🫶

Bad communication will kill every relationship.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely, communication is definitely key!

@mmommo10

Жыл бұрын

yes and my new date is not really communicating.....;(

@estelalopez3563

Жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks and reassurance is important

You will never be GOOD ENOUGH for the WRONG person because they are not good enough for themselves. Besides you can't make someone happy if they are not happy inside.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right thank you for sharing!

@she_sings_delightful_things

2 жыл бұрын

RIGHT!!!!

@Faustinembeh_backup

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂so true you will never be good enough for the wrong person

@mmommo10

Жыл бұрын

my new date is labeling ME stubborn (as well as himself) for us not communicating, twice he assumed I said something negative when I know I did not, he's telling friends where I am/am not, he never texts or calls, we get along, but, we really don't talk, very strange.

Great sex doesn't mean two people are meant for destiny together

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right!

@ecerizer

2 жыл бұрын

But it plays a big role tho

@rosettemarshall3024

2 жыл бұрын

@@ecerizer it should not

@lexicon4u

2 жыл бұрын

Doesn't hurt though!

“Do not confuse two people staying together with success…Longevity doesn’t equal success.” Damn that hits so hard 💯

@sonjibrown4146

2 жыл бұрын

It definitely does!!! 💯💯

@tiadavis5120

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@ysmithriley

2 жыл бұрын

@Bombshell Mom TRUTH! I had envied my brother for many years because he had a HAPPY MARRIAGE which I desperately yearned for...UNTIL HE DIDN'T‼️

@sundayjames3490

2 жыл бұрын

it is like a coin, the way you observe it, is totally difference from the way others sees it.

@evettashuler4490

2 жыл бұрын

True That!!!

"You can get physically naked, but can you get emotionally naked or vulnerable??" 🙌🏽🖤

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙌

@joygiftwilson286

2 жыл бұрын

🔥🔥🔥

@paniq_fnite

2 жыл бұрын

Amen. 💍❤️❤️💯

@deelightful6124

2 жыл бұрын

Now THAT’S the question

@sandramccall5888

2 жыл бұрын

This Is Powerful

Sexual incompatibility = Disconnect = disappointment and frustration= resentment and anger= lack of desire= apathy= relationship failure.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@danadane5497

2 жыл бұрын

Yes lord

@alexgarrison4729

2 жыл бұрын

Wow this hit home

@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411

2 жыл бұрын

Many of us are Christians on this channel, so sex probably would NOT really be a concern.

@cordeaniaknox4158

2 жыл бұрын

@@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411 You’d be surprised at how many of us Christians still have sex before marriage knowing what the Bible says. It’s definitely needed.

" friendship " and "respect" should be the basis of every relationship, if u can not be each other's friend then the relationship won't last, people let the outside world effect their relationship with their partner at times...people need to remember to fight together not apart....

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that!

@Realness4sho

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely darling 🌸

@annawilthew5438

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@shesdeitria1182

2 жыл бұрын

I agree

@casperinsight3524

2 жыл бұрын

Good point 💥 people need to fight for each other not against each other

Also not being equally yoked or not putting God first in that relationship.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right!

@nursetosha5675

2 жыл бұрын

yes..

@tmc8398

2 жыл бұрын

This is number 1 . I know personally.

@ka8155

2 жыл бұрын

This is key!!!! Being unequally yoked is the worst

@marytaylor9504

2 жыл бұрын

KA So Right!!!!

" I am not coaching you to tolerate any damn person" 🤣😂🤣😂 get it Stephen ❤💪👑

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@jennaarmbruster2169

2 жыл бұрын

This REALLY hit me hard.

@shaystewart6909

2 жыл бұрын

Thiiiis

Dang relationships are so hard. It's like a complex math problem.

@babyshsrk6977

2 жыл бұрын

A complex math problem is solvable. Some relationships will never have a solution, other than termination.

@jessyh.6112

2 жыл бұрын

I agree!!! it's like no correct formula exist in order to make relationship successful

@janetferguson1864

2 жыл бұрын

I yearn for more simpler times. Back before dating coaches ever existed.

@mickeysammy5169

2 жыл бұрын

No- nothing like math. They always have a solution. Some people are NOT fixable, therefore should NEVER be in relationships. He give strong, sound advice to help us steer clear from these toxic people!!

@kellyparadis1039

2 жыл бұрын

I am not good at math or relationships so I stay single.

Also don’t relie on chemistry alone. Focus on compatibility! I thought I found my husband with a guy because we had 6 hour phone conversations. Turns out this guy was an alcoholic and drug taker looking for a life vest( me). Think about a man that fits your lifestyle AND is financially stable.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

@sixteen.candles.4644

2 жыл бұрын

Wooooooowwww

@ilanittal2807

2 жыл бұрын

👏

@ritaodriscoll2093

2 жыл бұрын

Amen. Same happened to me, 2 hour phone calls and he turned out to be a covert narc. I was the life vest also. 3 weeks after putting his name on the title of my house I got my first 10 day silent treatment

@kokoalaska9888

2 жыл бұрын

@@ritaodriscoll2093 WOW! That’s horrible. So sorry to hear that. I hope you got your affairs back in check and left that dust bucket.🙁

This video helped bring insights as to why God is against fornication and sexual immorality. Being patient, not rushing, and just enjoying learning about the person could prevent soooooooo much issues

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that. Thank you for sharing!

@aminah761

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@sunshine9426

2 жыл бұрын

Points after POINTS! U R JUST KEEPING IT REAL! ALL PRAISES GOES 2 GOD ALMIGHTY WHEN YOU ASK 4 HIS DIRECTIONS ON ANYTHING U DO! AMEN! 😍😂🌞

@joygiftwilson286

2 жыл бұрын

True

@Amatullah.574

2 жыл бұрын

Yes. God created us and knows what's best for us. We just don't listen.

I just ended a relationship like what hes describing. All my ex did was take take take not giving anything. Best decision. I made. Thank you Stephan!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

@mickyeuro81

2 жыл бұрын

*text him or whatsapp him ,he will make your rationship blossom again from California USA is a good adviser*

@mickyeuro81

2 жыл бұрын

⏭⏭➕17743386651⏭⏭💕💕

@prettyme3150

2 жыл бұрын

Some guys have no shame. I can't give a dime to any guy🙄 I can't stand them

@worldsmostmisunderstood8258

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you got out, I find a lot of women are staying put in bad relationships, just like our ancestors who couldn't do better.

Yes! Got divorced after 19 years of fake smiles

That masculine feminine energy balance is so real

Physically naked vs. Emotionally naked! That's what I've been missing my whole life. Whenever I'd open up I'd hear it back via a disagreement or a mutual friend. Not ok.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

“ You don’t lose a good man.You loses man who is not good for you.” - Steve Harvey

My ex-boyfriend was a narcissistic. He was a pretty box of emptiness.

This describes my marriage to a T. Been married 14 years, currently separated for almost a year. Trying to get the courage to file for a divorce. Change is difficult, but I'm working to get stronger emotionally.

@Beautyforashes613_

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t rush. Take your time.. it took me 4 years being separated to file

@NattyGeek78

2 жыл бұрын

@@Beautyforashes613_ wow. What was the final tipping point? I know someone who’s wife after saying 2 years ago, I’m done, telling the kids in April and just last month told the guy she wanted him back, wasn’t ready to throw the marriage away. So he went back to see if there is something with salvaging. Is it really that much of a see-saw.

@prettykittea6299

2 жыл бұрын

My heart and prayers go out to you be strong and courageous and when you feel it’s to hard to stand kneel 💪🏾♥️💯🙏🏾😇

@jessicamorales2555

2 жыл бұрын

God loves us, and he is always by our side. Stephan has a video about how to listen to God , you might want to look for it. All my best wishes of courage and healing to you.

@honestinspiration

2 жыл бұрын

@Catherine Broadnax I'm hoping you find something within your heart to stay and try working it out, whether that is counseling or just getting reacquainted with your partner. That is, assuming there's no domestic violence or cheating. Divorce is no joke, especially if kids are involved. Good luck!

I've heard many people mention meeting people at the wrong time and that's why the relationship didn't work. We also have to discuss not entertaining the right person because you were not in the right space at that time. The attraction could be so strong but because the person had goals or healing to do & didn't want to mess it up.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@zionurbanwear

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks We all appreciate you & your ministry

@toniwilson8212

2 жыл бұрын

So true Chase DePrize

@hoodhippychick

Жыл бұрын

This happened to me and I was not ready - it was devastating. I believe the best thing to do is be friends first.

I knew I was sexually compatible with my boyfriend without having sex. His mere touch affected me and mine his. So attraction and interest was mutual. We spoke about our expectation (timing, our libidos, our goal in marriage for sexual intimacy) and philosophy of sex (service, connection or selfish pleasure) and that matched.

@paulokello5981

2 жыл бұрын

That sounds awesome, no fornication but honest communication and emotional and spiritual connection

@nadirajansen9762

2 жыл бұрын

How long after dating did you started to talk about sex with your partner?

@-uniqueamari

2 жыл бұрын

Update?

@Sandra-jc2fs

Жыл бұрын

Yes please, how long til you started talking openly about sex?

I wish I had this info early in life. It would have saved me from alot of PAIN. I'm healed and in a loving marriage now, but the road was rocky getting here for sure!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙏

I truly feel the root of WHY deep relationships aren’t working amongst individuals is….LACK OF TRUST. We don’t trust one another. We’re scared to even be vulnerable to that level because it’s assumed that we will get hurt. This is for men to women and women to men. We hear the promotion for lack of trust in music especially, which is fueling this behavior. Females are for the “bag”. Males are for the “sex”. It may even stem back to the way some of us were raised, mother/father relationships. When we can truly get into relationships with pure hearts and intentions. Truly healed & healthy and not bringing along all this “baggage”. We’d be able to be our true self, able to communicate and just….LIVE & LOVE w/o all these hang ups. Thanks Stephan for this message. It was needed.

@palamirtammarimuthu1752

2 жыл бұрын

Chemistry is very very exciting......alas, it's fleeting..... don't trust it.....✔️🤓 compatibility is preferable..... good friendship 👍🏼

@wendyzelaya182

2 жыл бұрын

Welp goodbye I won’t date until 15 years, ima be healing in the meantime

Problem these days is people getting into situations and entanglements without doing the innerwork. Wasting time, effort, energy, resources with someone who is not relationship ready can take us off-track from meeting the right person for us. #believe #energybalance #wearyourcrown

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right thank you for sharing!

@ezzylafaith1100

2 жыл бұрын

This is so true ! I think this is where all my mistakes coming from.

Omg, that’s so true. I unfortunately was way too masculine in my marriage and began to resent him. It wasn’t his fault, he was never taught how to be masculine. I’ve now learned how to be more feminine and look for men that are masculine.

@Whitashley1

2 жыл бұрын

I was looking for this comment. I was with my daughter's father off and on and had to break it off. I was the masculine one, sexual incompatibility, and I realized we had nothing in common. I also felt restricted in the relationship.

@raquelwegesa7224

2 жыл бұрын

Mine was too feminine, just broke up yesterday coz I don't think it's a space we can co-exist in. It hurts but I'll be fine.

@marlobx7442

Жыл бұрын

@@raquelwegesa7224 wow that's deep

Bad timing... It's so sad. 6 months later he comes and says "I have changed, I got new job, I want to be with you!" But you already moved on...

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I feel you, it isn't an easy situation but you need to focus on doing what is truly best!

The struggle of getting someone to be emotionally naked is what can cause sexual intimacy issues as well. I can’t connect to you if we can’t understand each other. A person can feel used by a person they are with!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@nikkyjackson6500

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💯

No successful longterm relationship has poor communication GREAT POINT 💯💯and nice shirt.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 thank you I appreciate your feedback!

@natashapanayotakis5258

2 жыл бұрын

Love the T shirt !

"The safe choice is the wrong choice". Dang. That hit me 😅

I wasn’t really ready for all the truth this guy is dropping on me, by watching his channel. Callin me out for sure. Having a mirror put in front of you hurts sometimes. Growth hurts. 🖤

The second topic was really painful. That feeling of being so misunderstood by your partner and them not wanting to hear you out. I was vulnerable once and opened up about a past trauma that he used against me when we had an argument. Being alone is really better than being stuck in such a relationship. I don’t know how I went through 2 years of it.

@judithfloyd6693

Жыл бұрын

Try 32 years of marriage with a partner not hearing what your saying. Not even interested in what you have to say.

THIS MAN IS A GURU, MAY LORD KEEP GIVING U WISDOM MY BROTHER.

@1010divajap

2 жыл бұрын

Nobody is a guru. This man makes a ton of sense and is excellent. I wish people wouldn't see an "expert" as a guru or somebody "enlightened'. That leads to blind listening.

Totally I agree with ;if its 1 sided it wont last,whether dating or married,such a relationship drains you emotionally.

"One sided relationships ", and something within you that needs healing. Wow

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

Having sex in a relationship is just like any other aspect of the relationship. You will not get everything sexually or otherwise 100%. Don't ask anyone to do anything they don't want to and also don't expect to get all of your needs met. We are responsible for meeting our own needs. Just because the sex is good does not mean your parter will not cheat.

I’ve been broken & tryin to rebuild. I found a lady & she was great however she wouldn’t take accountability, hid me on social media, told her friends about the bad in our relationship so now they don’t respect me, made excuses for not reciprocating , very one sided, asked me to open up & when I did would be nonchalant when I expressed my concerns. During our last situation she was literally texting as I’m speaking my concerns!! Thanks for the video and help

Well been naive is such a recipe for disaster. You have to see someone for who they are not want you wanna believe.

It's the PHYSICAL NAKEDNESS vs SPIRITUAL/EMOTIONAL NAKEDNESS 4ME! I've traveled the roads Stephan spoke on. I'm over 50 now and my tolerance to repeat mistakes such as these is NEGATIVE ZERO. Thank you, Stephan.

@vincentdamilola3790

2 жыл бұрын

At 52 , l feel you deeply. A woman has been in my life for over 15 years without emotional connection whatsoever. It drains me. I am in the military and lonely she has never complemented me as expected. Thinking on moving on. Grateful for your submission.

Just got out of a 3+ years. It was a mutual agreement to split and I've been trying to figure out the weak links in the relationship's foundation. Your videos have really been helping. Thanks for the content!

Stephan is like wine. Becoming better and better each day, with each talk. Thank you a bunch!!!

preach Stephan 🙏🏽 this described every aspect of my marriage, all these things were present in the beginning and ultimately brought it to an end. I hung on for 24 years, and I mean hung on, endured/tolerated because I was miserable and was trauma bonded not in love or connected with him. I awakened after my dark night of the soul. Much happier single, healing and doing the inner work to make the relationship with myself the most important one. If the right man comes along I want to be ready to receive him with God's blessing. Thank you for sharing ❤️

@gld927

2 жыл бұрын

I hung in 15 years

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear about that, but I'm glad you are now on a path to healing 🙌 ❤ and I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you the man God has for you!

@Mekia-hr8qh

2 жыл бұрын

24 years for me also. I can relate

@nyemanuel

2 жыл бұрын

You told your story and it was as if “I” was speaking. Hung in for 15 years too long. Newly DIVORCED…and I finally feel free! May God bless all of us on our new paths of mental freedom , protection and emotional healing.

@TheShanieB

2 жыл бұрын

Still hangin...😒🤦🏾‍♀️😢

An entire college-course can be done from this video! AWESOME AMAZING OUTPUT & ADVICE! love it, Stephan, thank you so much.

Great sex actually sucks, because of that (The other person) or you, could get attached to the wrong person, if you’re unlucky.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right!

@demivydE

2 жыл бұрын

Great sex is great if both people are in tune with other and want to be together not only for the sex.

Just wanted to put out there how gifted you (Stephan) are in the area of human psychology & the psychology of relationships.. God has truly given you the gift of sight. It’s just amazing how clearly you can see so many things that most people miss every single time. All of your videos/message make sense & are extremely enlightening. You’re so on point. Thank you 🙏🏽 for all that you’re doing trying to help people understand relationship dynamics & for helping people gain a better understanding of themselves. The information that you’re providing can help people learn how to form strong relationships & remain together for the long haul. 💪🏾 ♥️ 💯

Love it! Especially the sexual compatibility. No need to have sex with the person to know if you're sexually compatible. Just having a sex appeal about one self and it revealing itself energetically is enough to know if you are aligned with someone in such way

@nicoleoneal5115

9 ай бұрын

I agree I agree I agree,

THANK YOU SO MUCH!! You nailed it there. Lack of good communication is a receipt for disaster! Fighting & Disrespect - HELL NO!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

Sex was great but his loyalty is with someone else. Too late to have discovered we're incompatible still.. Can't force it to work. Thanks for the informative vids.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching I appreciate your feedback and pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

@tprucha

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you I am sarah my husband controlled th is account. Your words are so true and intuitive. I am a step mom and always put everyone before me. This helps me to change this dynamic!!! I was strong and single no kids great career. I wish to grow and regain my self and strength.

Also not being an active listener hurts relationship too

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right!

@Wellwtfallthenamesaretooken

2 жыл бұрын

Also being unattractive (like you) hurts a relationship too.

@Wellwtfallthenamesaretooken

2 жыл бұрын

🤮

Thank you for these pointers! When you started talking about “bad communication” that really hit me because when I met my boyfriend everything was glitter and gold but now communication on his side is failing really bad. For example I could tell him that I’m having a bad day and he’ll blankly stop texting/calling for hours and just start talking about other stuff which makes it seem like he doesn’t care about what I got going on but more focused on himself.

I love that you brought up when you have a feeling of energy of judgement from someone! Thanks for all you do 🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

@Candycanecoup

Жыл бұрын

Please explain

@user-dw1si4fw4c

Жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaksp 😢😢ppl

I love this guy , his videos are long but i love it because he gets to the point he explains everything…. He’s dedicated to explaining life and situations in relationships

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

Very powerful! The balance of Energy is so important!

This is spot on! Thank you Stephan ❤️ You have to have good communication, and a willingness to learn what the other's needs are!

My first boyfriend seriously chased me for two years... no sex. We became best friends first.

Wow! You just gave insight into my last relationship without even knowing me. This was painful to hear but needed. Thank you!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

I wish i would have seen this before i got into my last relationship that lasted 1.3 years. The signs were there. 1. We couldn’t talk to each other about issues or he’d start crying. 2. We were sexually incompatible. I am a bit into bondage and he was not. 3. He acted like it was too much if i asked him for some snacks. 4. He only focused on superficial things. He would constantly talk about the girls and how i should dress. 5. My gut feeling saying break up 6. He would flip out if i asked for his phone. 7. Our visions for the future did not match.

@pinkcloudla5176

5 күн бұрын

Oh yea I wouldn’t even sweat it.

This video is amazing! I love the way you dive deep. I was in a long distance relationship that it was one sided he was disrespectful I addressed it and it kept happening! I had been by single for about 11 years and I knew what I wanted and I knew what my boundaries were. I ended it I realized It’s not worth it to putting oneself through these things when a person knows they deserve better! I’m so grateful I walked away with my integrity and hope for the future! And you are correct those red flags you ignore in the beginning they will tear you apart in the end! Thank Stephan

My ex refused to meet me half way in the relationship she said can't change who she is so we parted ways

Amen! I just left my 22 year marriage because we didn't talk and I was walking on eggshells constantly.

@mswiseone12

Жыл бұрын

@Dunamis Farmers no thank you. He is a terrible narcissist. God delivered me from a horrible place after 22 years. I am not going to rebuke his blessing by going back or going to someone to do something to bring us back together.

You've been so helpful. Exactly one month now when he ghosted me (since i asked him what's his plans for us and still he got nothing to say,he ghosted me instead) in the first week of break up was a struggle and a survival week for me. Even before we're on and off and most of the time didn't understand each other's point of view. Since before, I overlooked all the redflags because I truly love the guy but in the process I lost myself and didn't have the focus of what I really need in my life. Letting go of more than 10 years in a relationship is too painful,but with your talks Sir Stephan, I am learning to appreciate the brighter side of it. Indeed,break up is also a blessing. Please continue inspiring people and helping us understand for things we barely see in a relationship. Great thing in my first week of heartbreak, I was able to find your talks here in youtube. Hope not to reach him back over and over again, Big help!🙌🏻

I’ve been second guessing my relationship of almost 10 years lately. The signs apply. Sent him the communication video, he won’t watch it. Your videos are showing me that I waisted 10 years. Bread winner, paid everything, tried to push him for better. I can’t do this anymore. But he’s gonna be homeless when I leave.

OMG, OMG, OMG!!! I feel like an inexperienced person soaking up all this life changing info! You surely know how to break a situation down…….. I definitely know now how and what I need to do to have an amazing and deep relationship going forward. Thank you again!!! Your video is making changes in people’s sexual lives for sure… 💯💯💯

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad I could help!

Thank you for another fantastic video, Stephan. I appreciate the time and effort that you pour into your content.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

You hit the nail on the head with the balance of energy! Been with my husband 9 years and I’m more masculine and he’s more feminine and I’m tired and have started to resent him!!!

@equitablehealthcare-drnatashak

2 жыл бұрын

Please go to counseling. Pull back on the masculine energy. He accommodated you since he loves you.

@angelamccann2340

2 жыл бұрын

Same for me. Almost 10 years. I’ve become resentful. I do all the work. He’s more feminine totally.

This all hits home. Ty for your wisdom Stephen.😊

Glad I’m learning all this stuff before my first relationship, great video!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad I could help!

@jenng5925

2 жыл бұрын

I’m glad you are too. Dating life has been hectic! Wish I had this advice earlier

@RhondaR4

2 жыл бұрын

Stephan is an angel from GOD.❤️

@bremd2018

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, you’ll be ahead of the game!

@lizabethfebo1635

2 жыл бұрын

Lucky you

This video was so awesome. I desire a partner that is open and transparent such as myself. Why? Because if I’m in a relationship with someone it has to be a relationship built on purpose therefore I want to know everything about that person without being judgmental. I want my next partner to feel comfortable enough with me to be vulnerable because we are trying to build. I feel if you have grown and healed from past situations it’s no reason not to be open with the person you are building with. I love ❤️ deep videos like this because so many people are very shallow when it comes with being open and transparent. As women we have to be gentle enough that a man feels comfortable with sharing himself with us verbally.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

You are a gift, you are a Gift, and you are A GIFT!! THANK YOU!!

Stephan, you HAVE TO make a full video about connection. What is it? How to know if you have connection with someone? Give us some concrete examples

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

@daniellehamilton2331

2 жыл бұрын

I will agree!!!!! Super great idea!!!!! I myself would love to know!

@CazKing43

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I would also like to learn more about that too

@frahelis_betzaida8466

2 жыл бұрын

I agree yesss please .

@rebekam9362

2 жыл бұрын

I agree!

You're so right, I just love listening to you, you're my coach! Thanks coach!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

I really like your insights. There is so much common sense and truth here. This is the 1st night I've listened to you and I have these very same thoughts. Your ideas work for both men and women. I think you place integrity at the top - you're just not using that particular word. Wonderful video!

I'm in a long term marriage and this is really resonating with my life. Thank you so much for this powerful insight Steven!! 👏 🙏✨

Your videos are invaluable to me. I did not have a good roll model in relationships. I honestly did not know how to go about navigating one to end up with a healthy person. You have made me realize what I need is ok and it’s ok to be open with someone about that, even early on! I love how you make it ok not to play games and waste my time. I was always told how I need to behave in order to get a man instead of being me (the healthy ways) and not getting the man I deserve. Thank you so much!

Allow people to be who they are without judgment .

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

Wow. Every single point made reflects in my marriage. I'm unhappy and don't know how to leave. He's a great guy but we are not friends and wouldn't even be friends outside of marriage.

Every single sign is spot on....no matter the order. All are 100% accurate... especially that core connection. If that is there, the rest can and will work out. Would love a video on that connection standpoint and what eventually happens, in any marriage/ relationship, when it was never there.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

Hey Stephan. We met in LA in 2019 at the Self Love Summit. I was the volunteer (I actually paid for a VIP ticket, but chose to volunteer instead when asked) helping with the meet and greet and your book signing that obviously didn't know anything about your work. Even though I was wearing your merch lol. Just want to let you know that I've been reading your books and watching your videos a lot, and I really like your teaching. It's very down-to-earth and realistic.

Great video as usual. And thanks a lot for the timeline! I really love it.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it, be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!

I couldn’t talk to my ex-husband, it was so draining. He lied all the time and I just stop talking, he literally disgusted me, smh just divorced and it was the best thing. He lived disrespectfully behind my back bc of his own insecurities. I say a life of dysfunction and destruction, he is for the streets, so the streets can have him.

@samanthawilliams5520

2 жыл бұрын

I felt this especially. Recently in a similar boat. I stopped continuing my dynamic of acting desperate when I’m not. Flexing my worth in a safe space without him.

Wow your so right on this stuff! This definitely sounded like my dating years when I was younger. I waited 8 years until I found my True Love. Actually he found me and I didn’t really know what was going on lol! He had his eye on me. We’ve been together for over a year now. The 8 years of not dating was worth the wait! ❤️🙏🏻

There's so much that I didn't know before going into my first relationship. I'm learning and healing. Thank you 🙏🙏

That makes so much sense, you are so accurate!!!!

You caught me I’m one of the ones in a relationship seeing if this applies to me lol. Please keep doing what you are doing I’ve been following you since my divorce 5 years ago and you have helped me to look into myself and see who and what I want in my relationship. Thank you

Feelings of compassion connects people

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

Love that point about energy! Looking forward to a full video about it :)

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I will get it done soon, make sure you are subscribed and you click the notification bell so that you will be notified when I release it ❤

U literally have no idea just how much u, ur videos have helped me. I wish I could tell u my story but there is no room here to do so. I agree with all u say on ur videos. I been through the hardest relationship ever the past 6 years. Like it literally ripped my soul from me. I'm still healing. It's been slow but I'm getting there. Thank u so much for what u do. It helps. Love u. Peace Love and light.

Wow Stephan- you really opened my eyes up WIDE AS EVER- now I see clearer that we were doomed to fail no matter what. So much that you mentioned was present from day one to year 15, he dumped me and he cancelled our wedding for the 3rd time. I was delusional I was wanting to hold on to hope but the fact is that we were not compatible- barely ever on the same page. I accepted ALL a of his flaws n indiscretions, because of love/ now I realize that I should not have overlooked those things. He did as well - his constant thing to say was “ I love you BUT”.. he always ran off for days / ignored my calls for days whenever we started a “TALK” - he hated talking and was allergic to it so much that he literally hid from me for days. Clearly I was dumb.. he obviously had “somewhere” to hide and it wasn’t with me. I don’t blame him I blame me.. I just wish he had the balls to walk away year one.. instead of pussyfooting n playing because he loves the idea of having women around him to boost his ego.. I got hurt and emotionally destroyed in the process. I’m just reaching the surface for air since this was recent and I’m gna be just fine.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

I agree that sexual incompatibility leads to resentment in long run

Thank you for this video, it was really helpful🙏

You speak the truth my friend. Don’t know what your background is but I have Psychology, Philosophy, and Anthropology under my belt and I can tell you know what you’re talking about. It’s so nice of you to try to help people find true love cuz it’s not easy! 🙂God bless

Two people with a matual understanding...and connection is this best..

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

One of the best I’ve watched! Thank you for this♥️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤

Absolutely one of the best videos I've watched from Stephan yet!!

Love this video! It is very informative and information that I needed, that was lacking. Thank you!

Thanks again Coach!...another great video!!... I find them very informative and on point, and with a great deal of content which I aways learn something new from!.... Amen

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙏

This is so helpful! I'm so glad I got to listen to you. Really thank you. I needed to hear this

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

I needed this! Thank you!