1. Wants to spend time with you alone 0:33 2. Finds ways to touch you 1:31 3. His eye contact lingers 2:17 4. He'll try to protect you from other men 3:03 5. He teases you 3:47 6. He touches his face 7. He withdraws around you

@b.ipuppetstv1608

4 ай бұрын

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I'd take the poke fun at you with caution ladies... Sometimes it's just playful teasing, but some damaged men use it often to bring down your self-esteem

@skoolie_life3261

2 ай бұрын

I agree. I don’t think poking fun or teasing is good for a relationship. It feels more like a friend thing than a romantic partner thing to me. Plus, it can spiral out of control in the long run, and become a difficult habit to break. I’m sure it’s fine for some people, but I don’t like it for my relationships. I guess it has to be done in the right way and not get too personal or offensive, which can be a fine line after you’ve been with someone for a long time.

@pocahontas4583

23 күн бұрын

I think if they make jokes to make you laugh like pulling your leg/made you look type jokes it’s probably not a big deal (had a guy do this recently). When the “joke” is an insult about you steer clear. However after my experience with a “playful” narcissist for many years I’m leary of playful “funny” guys in general. When I was younger I liked guys that made me laugh. Married one and he became my biggest nightmare and turned out to not be cheerful and funny AT ALL behind closed doors. The exact opposite. Angry, jealous, abusive and accusatory.

@aparna8857

12 күн бұрын

Omg...so true...narcs do that all the time...

*To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow - this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.*

I went out with a guy on a date who was an extreme version of #7. He wouldn't talk to me at all and it was soooooo awkward. I thought he was really cute so I tried being engaging but it was like pulling teeth. But when we were around other people he was so easy and sociable. I lost interest after a while because of this. When I told him I didn't want to see him anymore he messaged me that he was absolutely devastated because he liked me so much. That was really surprising to me.

@Sol36900

5 күн бұрын

Wow. That sounds like my office crush. Whenever we were around other people he was talkative. But when it was just us he was withdrawn. I want to know him more but he sends so much mixed signals.

Excellent advice. Many of these, happened to me last night. It felt good but then I remind myself to remain grounded. I really want to get this new guy. Thank you Adam, I save a lot of your videos ❤

Absolutely great advice , esp at end ! Do not overanalyze these. Continue with the flirting and fun and let things naturally unfold.

YES!, I've seen several of these signs but just wasn't sure. Thanks so much, really appreciate you 😊.

Thank you for the awesome video! I recently went on a 1st date, he showed all these signs, it went so good, but then i got in my head about all the touching. It was all appropriate, but, WHOA! I was just surprised by it and didn't understand what the intention was behind it😏 I'm not used to healthy dating, YET, and this video put me at ease❤🙏

I watch these videos to do the opposite of what is advised, to ensure I stay single. Thank you so much! 😊 No Serial Killer.

Thanks for the helpful video, I have experience almost all those sings🥰

OMG #3!! I had this happen to me recently

All of these things 🥹❤️ so sweet!

I’ve really enjoyed your videos. I listen to them for fun and because I want to hear it from a man. I think I’m hooked, line and sinker 😊

Your energy is awesome!

It's like first we we're just normal like open conversation and now,we both like shy getting closer and as for the eye contact is much okay like, always into each others eye and I'm nervous already.Thanks so much, really appreciate it.❤👍💯

Great job

I deal with number 7 all the time. Even with online dating. The guys want to meet me but often don't have the courage to finally ask to meet me. Then I have to be the one to call them back for a second date. But the third date I can be hands off and they start taking more initiative. It's really work and there is always a risk of being rejected. Even tho I don't get rejected often, it sure does sting when it happens!

You got a deep voice 🥰

Well I haven't experienced any of these things lately. Haven't met any men recently. The last ones I met a few years ago showed no interest at all. Not putting myself out there on a limb to get cut down. Not doing it. I am going to assume that men are not interested or attracted unless/until they prove me wrong . Guess I've become a skeptical, tough cookie.

Omg so true and i try to back off cuz I’m not so sure and wanna take things slow but he definitely 💯 show all those things the joking the looking 👀 straight into my eyes when I’m not looking lol 😂 we went to magic mountain and every time I look at him he was on me! Lol

Love the example of the little boy sticking his tongue out. So innocent.

Awww dammit, I missed my shot with the fed ex man 😂😭

@skoolie_life3261

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

I'm going crazy. How do we go to a next step...like actually going out?

Haha.... Yepp.. You're right on the nose with every one of these. The stare.. I know exactly what you mean.. Literally staring into your soul

Hi! I need advice. I've just met a guy who is 2 years younger than me and is extremely shy. We just started working together and since neither of us is very social, we ended up spending a lot of time together after work on weekends. I have a partner that I love very much. I had the feeling that this guy and I could be friends since we are both very comfortable around each other, and it's not piece of cake for us to find people to connect with. Trouble comes when he has started being touchy. I have other guy friends who are touchy with me but it feels natural and I can see there's no intention behind it. But this boy was extremely distant at first, to the level that he would do anything to avoid touching me, out of shyness or respect, but now that he feels a lot more comfortable he has started touching me a lot more. With all of this, I just want to know if I should ask him how he feels because I don't want to give him the wrong impression. We laugh a lot and enjoy time around each other but I'm really looking for a friend. He is so shy and introverted that I know it would take him months to even consider opening up about it. I'm more of the ripping-the-bandaid-off kind of person. However, I don't want to make a fool of myself. What should I do?

3 drives me nuts. He will just be staring right into my soul while my eyes are moving around the room while we talk😂😂😂😂 💀

Hi, for the #5 scenario where the guy may tease you. Do you mean like making innocent jokes or does that also include "negging" where the guy makes fun of your appearance? When I first met my husband he gave intense eye contact whenever I spoke to him and he was physically protective(chivalrous) to me whenever we were out.

Oddly enough, my crush (who's not around right now since he's in Houston for vicarage) has done a lot of these things, but because of what he's said, I try to tell people, "He doesn't like me" even though his actions HAVE made me wonder if he does...at least a little bit.

One of the first things I noticed men do when they like you is they get a haircut assuming they have short hair or they shave groom more or in a nicer way like getting a professional to trim their beard or groom them

Your true

What about when his attraction communication involves some nice things get to know him he seemed heart centered) now everyday I have to learn how to navigate his humour( which he's used to picking on people apparently so of course it's jokes feel targeted at my expense and make me feel uncomfortable and stupid for opening my mouth to actually talk . Some of these jokes include mockery for how much I talk .....disgusting references to animals and jokes about being gay or not being gay)... He says he really likes me and that he's shy.. but when we're together all we do is sit in his car and have coffee... I'll go to his friends house and watch him and up drunk and high... When he's sober.. it's like he becomes an incapable 5 year old toddler unable to talk about things... And wants me to do the talking... But also motions with his hands that all I do is yap...." blah blah blah that's all I hear" is one of the things he says to me...all while smiling and claiming it's a joke I should relax.. he says "if I didn't like you I wouldn't call you up to bring you to my friends house or ask you out for coffee" . like I should be grateful that we only do that... . He used to kiss me but doesn't now .. we go to the bar even though he likes me he gets other numbers.... In fact .. conveying all this to you I feel like I'm going crazy...

Wow,7 out of 7. Maybe we should get married. 💕

Another one is stiffness. I remember the woman I had the most tension with I felt like I was going to explode if contact was made so I physically held back. Luckily the feelings were mutual so I didn't feel creepy about it.

The guy I’m seeing does all of these things except for touching his face (or maybe I just haven’t noticed). There hasn’t been a need for him to protect me from other men, but he is a big believer in the sidewalk rule. So, my heart is hopeful.

The guy I like constantly touches and fiddles with his mask when we are talking. Is this also a sign?

🙋🏼‍♀️ #7🤫 that is the only way anyone would know with complete certainty!!! ☝🏻😅 that I am wildly attracted to a man 🥰😂

J have seen alot of these.

I met a guy who did all these and I knew he was attracted but he was talking to other women behind my back. Told Mr he wanted to have babies with me and marry me but then he ghosted me.

@lili-sz6nj

4 ай бұрын

He is a player.

Would touching his ears, by his nose still count touching his face? Because this sort of touching is not meant to groom…right???

Good video Adam it was entertaining but informative. I don't know to read guys. Met this guy on a cruise I thought we had a connection. He asked for my Instagram and I gave him my number we flirted he told me ohh i have a porcha when i got home he started ignoring my text and ghosted me i am scared he just wanted me for sex I don't know what to think I'm so confused 😕

You have been able to forget your ex and detach your ex is a big miracle. It was not possible. You have been able to forget and detach your ex is a miracle. Now next you will be able to move on is a miracle. God will help you to move on is a miracle. May be it will happen in may month. As angels told your miracle will happen in next month

So.... I should just assume that the guy I like, even though he has a girlfriend, likes me back cos he smiles all big every time I have talked to him and his cheeks turn red by his nose?

I hope spending time and deeper voice isnt true or else that would mean my brothers best friend likes me😂😂 and I did asked him that as our whole colony wanted us to date smh he denied it at that time. It would be damn awkward if its true

All I get are loser men approaching me for their own advantage. 😢😢

My new guy does all the above 😅

If a hubby doesn't protect u does that mean hes losing attraction?

I did do this to someone and it seems like when you let them make the first move in a man and let them know a little bit they seem like they're more likely to come back and find out deposit can you talk to someone's heart

This is all common sense information, women know better.

😢 do not go to his house they will try to get you in bed because they haven't eaten but if you really like the guy call it a night or go do Day dates something fun activities

Are you sure you didn't describe a rappist

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That's not true woman can be just as jealous as men

Dont over anylize men 😮 the men that talk wayyyyyy too much, yikes!

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This is gay