The tilt of head, a slight smile, a glance…that’s what I do naturally since I was a teenager…explains why I was always approached. Hmmm…now it’s science 😄

Woman is here 🙋🏻‍♀️. If I am talking to you it doesn’t mean that I like you, it means that I don’t think you are some weird guy; therefore I am engaging in conversation with you. Also 3 glances mean nothing, but if woman looks at you at smiles that might be a welcoming gesture.

I think you have to smile, catch his eye, make a comment , have the makeup on, dress properly = FRIENDLY.

@LoveStrategies

5 ай бұрын

YES!

@madamchabby

2 ай бұрын

You had me till the makeup, no man will make me cake stuff on my face thats bad for my skin.

I can talk to anybody and everybody- I'm a social butterfly. But there is a guy who I'm crushin on, and I'm almost certain he likes me too, but I can't say a word to him because the one time I spoke to him, I froze in an eye lock for like 10 seconds and I couldn't even remember what I had to say. I was like a teenager, and I'm 46! Why can't he be the one to talk to me? I've caught him staring at me, and peacocking in front of me.

That look with a downward tilt and it kind of a light smile is like she's assessing the gentleman, because she finds him attractive in some way

OK guys. Here’s the deal. In public spaces, the men in the “engineering” department control the temperature settings. Men run warmer due to two things: generally more physical, less sedentary jobs in the workplaces, and greater muscle mass. So they make the temp too cold for the ladies. At work, women will take sweaters, knowing this. At social gatherings, they will wear their festive, social clothes trying to look cute and sexy. Meanwhile, the guy will have the temp set to frigid yet again. We would rather look cute than be warm, in a social setting. We suffer for you men. Well, not me. I’m older and I am bringing the damn sweater.

@10nena

5 ай бұрын

💯 This!

Listened to this podcast before a meet up and was intentional to use most of them as the conversation flowed. It was so much fun and helped me feel flirty and playful 😊. That little meet up for coffee ended up lasting 3 1/2 hours and the conversation never lagged

Great tips!! Thank you. For the bonus tip: for me it's not that I'm afraid of being promiscuous, I'm afraid about my safety and making sure he not some kind of psycho killer. LOL

Great advice. My sister is more attractive than me but I was always approachable and comfortable with men, so I typically had no issues attracting them. Unfortunately, it’s always the ones that I’m not typically interested in. With the great looking men I get very shy and too self aware, which looks less confident. Women fear rejection too. Will work on the three glances. Thanks!

@oonaghmcgrath2935

4 ай бұрын

I'm exactly the same around attractive men. Hopelessly shy because there is so much more at stake.

The wig says it all and the need to “find one” by Gary was hysterical. As an older single lady you are both spot on about your suggestions. One can never be too guarded for their safety with someone they are just meeting, but a smile never hurt anyone. It is all in how you practice. Now to find that mirror!? Lol Thank you for all your research and experience.

Why all the suspicion? Many indoor spaces are cold, and many women stand that way when cold. It’s a reason not an excuse, unless a woman is saying there’s no solution and they have to keep doing it.

The wig 🤣 👏🏻 soooo flirty! 💋 Love the sharing of the meaning of touch. As a massage therapist & Reiki energy master this is of foundational importance. 🙏 Human psychology is fascinating ❤ Thank you for your insightful offering.

*Once we recognize what it is we are feeling, once we recognize we can feel deeply, love deeply, can feel joy, then we will demand that all parts of our lives produce that kind of joy.*

I'm watching and LOL! Just maybe the girls are cold and their headlights turned on and they are embarrassed? 😳 🤦‍♀️

Hey guys thank you a lot for both of you. You’re awesome ❤ and I love the last one bcs it’s really talk to me ❤

This is a good video. Thank you

😂 😂 cracking up at Gary’s micro-expressions. Most fun research ever 👍🏼

Ive been so shy that i cdnt even look at a man if i liked him..eg across the room,...if he was someone i knew n didnt know if he was interested in me.

You all crack me up!!! Great content!🤣😊🙌

Always helpful ❤❤❤❤ thank u so much 💓 Watching from Georgia 🎉

@LoveStrategies

5 ай бұрын

LOVE GEORGIA!

Subscribed after I saw the wig at 7:40 😂

Yeees the sexy confidence wig is back 🥳

@LoveStrategies

5 ай бұрын

iiiiiiit's baaaaaaaaack!!!! lol

Practicing my flirt face! Love u guys--- so glad my sister discovered you! ❤️🙏💋

I love the insight ! Oh and keep the wig i laughed and you did a great flirting reenactment 😂

@LoveStrategies

5 ай бұрын

OK, wig is back by popular demand.

I love this!!!

I’m going to respectfully disagree with your opinions about the being cold as an excuse comments. Women often dress provocatively, or think that they ought to in order to attract a man- putting on a parka to keep our temp regulated does not create sexiness. Cold hands and feet can accompany auto immune conditions, which are super common in women these days. The body language of being cold v. closed off can be distinguished if subtle attention is paid

This was funny… loved it !!!

I will follow your advice. Let's see 😊

The number one thing be friendly and honest And don't be so picky on both sides because sometimes looks don't count you could pass up a real good person because of what you think you're idea is of a mate.

So interesting hearing men discuss men & women this way. Ran into someone who was working, thought wow I'm feeling something, didnt know what to do with that. Regret i didn't show i noticed him. Assumed he was married anyway. But will always want to replay that time.

Adam and Gary really committed here on play-acting the research-backed tactics. You gotta few chuckles out of me as well! You continue to embody your brand: STRATEGIES. Listeners can adopt what you espouse or not; you are simply presenting ideas and strategies, mapping out why you find them particularly worthy of consideration. Nice job, Gents!

I needed this 😅

@LoveStrategies

5 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful for yah!

My rbf is my death knell. lol...I did great with dating apps and set up meetings, but NO ONE approaches me cold turkey. Maybe a few bravest of the brave. 🤣🤣

Great Gas 🎉😂 and informative.

Yes, some of us are that cold. I wear 2 pairs of pants and 2 long sleeves to be warm. Haha

Men always approach me after karaoke 😂 it helps I have a sultry voice but that’s how I got my boyfriend 🙂 he loves when I sing for him and do a little shimmy 🥰

I had a note left on my car, one time…on a bank strap…AND I worked for a bank,So I thought I had a stalker!! 😳So NO No…Don’t leave 📝 notes🤦🏻‍♀️…I was going to go to the police 👮🏼!!

Nice 😊

You guys are so funny 😂

@lonniegarland9319

5 ай бұрын

It’s the male, ‘bating 100 theory.’ The sadder thing is that they are making money off idiotic assumptions. 😂😂😂😂😂

What do I do when I walk into a room is as soon as I get through the doorway I pause I hold my head up high wiggle my hips a little bit scope around the room as if I'm looking for a friend of mine look in the far back corner add proceeds slowly over to the bar to get a drink in the far back corner

Great work. And that wig😅

Hahahahaha dying at 7:40! Hilarious ❤❤ Adam looks so much like the handsome John Ritter. Rip John. You guys are so funny. Well done ❤❤❤❤❤

🤣 👍🏼 …the demo with the wig😭

Priceless😂😂😂

And because it's a micro expression it's subtle

You two guys may want to explore human Design..Minifastor types have closed off repelling aura, Generators and Manifestor Generators have an open inviting aura. Projectors can access auras of others and have to wait for invitation energetically. ..there is more to it but HD helps! ..Your strategy must be in sync with your type of Human design

@isismob7379

4 ай бұрын

I would like to hear more about that!

@GalacticWoman

4 ай бұрын

@@isismob7379 Google Human design types and theur auras. Fantastic system

I’m a woman but I’d really like to know what the male flirty face is…btw…. Great wig….. you are a pro …it was hot…. I do that all the time when I’m with my man… without thinking… great move when it’s natural…

Yeah if somebody doesn't have a jacket it's it seems to me like either they went impromptu to to this Gathering or they're hoping that the Amanda trying to flirt with will lend them their coat to show that they're being shivers and or even interested

I think it's cute and it's funny helps take the stress out of dating. Because I can tell you that if I when I date I'm going to think of you and that silly wig and it's going to make me feel like my audience is naked so to speak

Adam’s flirty face lol

Now it looks like a guy going surfing

Keep the wig!

@LoveStrategies

5 ай бұрын

Done and done!

You guys are funny

Hi

Id like to ask him out

Ok. Let the games begin.

Watching from Florida😂

@LoveStrategies

5 ай бұрын

Jealous! It's cooold here in Boston!

You can't always read body language they could just being nice

It's not middle school to give guy your number on piece of paper your letting that guy know your interested nothing wrong with that.

Great. I just gave the guy a note with my phone number yesterday after a year of him giving me signals he likes me. I just am not physically able to talk to him as I get completely paralysed when he's near. I guess I messed it up 😂😂

@kitkat0768

4 ай бұрын

Keep posted on how that went. I thought to do that once but also didn't want to in case I was wrong. Also same scenario, looks from him, looks from me (trying to be discrete) it was getting awkward and obvious when we locked eyes once. It became like he'd keep an eye out for me passing in a obvious way but he never tried coming up to me or spoke to me. . I didn't want to feel like a stalker or creep him out so I'd avoid where he was after a while. Hard when he works by a coffee place I used to go to.. Recently I was walking towards another store and him and a female were walking out before I got to the entrance, him carrying the grocery bags walking close to her, he didn't see me. I just guessed that must be his girlfriend So lucky I didn't approach him. If I'm wrong I'll leave it to him. I am the same, could barely breath when he looked my way. Reminded me of Henry Caville, smile and eyes.

@chrupka52

4 ай бұрын

@@kitkat0768 don't do it. I've made a total wally of myself, haven't seen him since as I've been hiding so nope. It didn't go well - he is married!!! 🤣

@charlenewhittaker1674

2 ай бұрын

@@chrupka52 well i think that was an incredibly brave thing to do! I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but huge kudos for having the front to do that. I wish I was that confident!

I agree with you about flirting and being sensual let them see that you are a sexy woman but you are one they have to work for remember Shania Twain song Man I Feel Like a Woman

I would never flirt with everyone, Im not interested in everyone. I think it leads a guy on, isnt their job hard enough. !

I can easily talk to people around me.

Female, coming from a german speaking country I stare anyway long and often enough, so I get in Contact. 😂

😂🤣😂Cinderblock hands 😂🤣😂

25:02 😂

So a woman has to show some sort of instant sudden sign of Interest

"Welcome mat"....thats what I call the hairy chest on a guy lol

😅😅😅😅😅 The wig

Y`all are cute

🤩💝😇

Lmaooo😂🎉❤

in a date anyobevhas to b themsekfs and not Bionce...

Ugh, seriously?

😂😂😂

I would never look at my phone to pretend for anyone else. Weak women.

@judyperri9496

5 ай бұрын

I’m pretty sure no one wants you😂

Why shave the sides of your head

25:02 😂