5 Ways to Take Care of Your Man with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Honoring your spouse isn't an antiquated notion but a timeless gesture that can shape the heart of a home. In this heartfelt conversation, we peel back the layers of family traditions and respect, sharing personal stories that highlight the importance of recognizing the family leader. And it's more than just who gets the last slice of pie or the best seat at the dinner table; it's about creating a culture of reverence that transcends cultural barriers and aligns with core biblical principles. It's these seeds of honor, we discuss, that blossom into a home abundant in love and respect.
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Thank you. I’m single this is helping to build my knowledge about marriage
@aviharris6874
3 ай бұрын
yessss
@KEYLA_BRANAE
2 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh me too!!! That’s amazing! 😊
@tamaragatling2809
Ай бұрын
Same🥰
Tabatha, You are a patient, graceful woman. You are the reason I continue to watch your channel learning all I can.
@staceyrichardson9976
3 ай бұрын
She is amazing ! All women need this type of leadership ❤
Im Dominican, and I grew up watching my mom and aunts always serving the men first at gatherings and THEN the children. We sat down at the table and were not allowed to start eating till we were all there. And when we finished we couldn’t just leave, we stayed till the adults (male) were done eating and ready to move to another activity. When I came to the US I saw a completely different way of life and as I grew older I adapted to it, identified myself as a “feminist” and hated those customs we were taught… I’m so glad by the grace of God, the Holy Spirit transformed my life and allowed me to see how valuable it was despite the bad times, that I was brought up surrounded by a community of women that although didn’t have Christ, they knew how to honor their husbands. Thank you both, because as I walk with Jesus, I can receive wise counsel from you both And i LOVE that you guys are here in Orlando!
@tistisjustme
3 ай бұрын
I'm Dominican as well, also grew up seeing my dad being served first, we respected his spaces, etc. and I am thankful that I recognize the importance of this.
@Iwant2besuccessful
4 күн бұрын
Same here I am also Dominican...born in the USA and adapted many feminist views...now I'm a Christ Follower and am deconstructing my old ways and am learning how to treat and honor my husband....only by God's grace..I'm so thankful
Thank you! I'm getting married in 6 weeks and I appreciate all that God does through you, Ken and Tabitha. Please pray for a strong and godly marriage for my fiancee Greg and I. God bless you all!
Not married yet, but definitely taking notes!!
@aviharris6874
3 ай бұрын
me too amazing
@ireneturner5482
27 күн бұрын
Same here!!
Never thought I’d love a video that challenges me as a wife. Talk about God opening up my heart to hear and allow change to happen. I’m in a place in my life where I am open & willing…. And overall hungry for God to transform me in all the areas of my life. & this wide area is probably the most important! This video has sowed a beautiful seed in me and I can’t wait to put it into practice in my life with my husband. Praise God for Ken & Tabatha 🤍 blessings sent your way!
Thank you for this. My husband is new to his faith. I have been struggling to start acting differently towards him because now he is seeing things different and acting different. This is going to help me so much. It is giving me new guidelines. I should have been doing them before but it was hard because he was an alcoholic. It made our life very hard. We have been together 20 years. He has been sober for almost a year. It had been so great.
@greaterishe7197
3 ай бұрын
I'm rejoicing with you both for his sobriety ❤
I loved every bit of this for my future husband , wherever he is
I’m a a do-er y’all 😀! Bought the massage table as a surprise for Valentine’s Day and massaged my husband for an hour, he was so grateful and so taken a back. I tagged you both in the video on IG😊. Thank you again for all of your valuable advice! 🙏🏾💕
Love it, I'm of African descent and serving and respecting the men is so huge culturally that it is so expected....might cause women here to do so mechanically and create entitlement. But when done biblically there's a lovely harvest and mutuality...thank you
❤❤❤❤u two..pst allow this woman to talk pour out life to us..her disposition on this marriage things is heaven..am watching you right out of Abuja Nigeria
I'm not married yet, im sure this is a blessing to married people but me hearing all this before I get married feels like an unfair advantage, like I'm being given answers to a test before the test if that makes sense 😂. What a blessing❤❤ thanks you guys.
I always pray for people to be put in my life that will help me grow. And I came back to FL after college and found Alive Church. Y’all are awesome.
Omg the wat this man is blushing when Tab said, "I like when you feel like you have the best wife in the world"
This is amazing advise! My marriage failed because there was no balance in the household. Respect and honor is a major component in a relationship!
I was praying a few hours ago asking God to please give me clarity on how to navigate my relationship better. I was asking for a sign or some kind of guidance into the next steps I can take to progress toward marriage. Not only was your video the first thing that popped up for me but you also called out my comment from a different video! When I heard that I knew for a fact God wanted me to hear this message🙌🏼🙏🏼 thank you guys very much for what you do! This video was made as an answered prayer and I’m so greatful !
@AaliyahReform
3 ай бұрын
Won’t God do it Amen 🙏🏾❤
Thank you so much for this. As a Christian single woman, I desire a husband that loves to pour into youth & men, because I love pouring into women, youth, etc. Yes I’m enjoying this so much & I believe I need to learn to honor & respect the men in my life, like my brother, dad, etc… it’s been challenging with my brother, but I learned that I can end up treating my partner the same way if I don’t practice this positivity toward all men. Thank you Ken & Tab for such a great service example
I find it crazy that I am a husband but I totally relate to Tabatha because my wife loves being honored, been given space and she absolutely adores being served. I am sure if i can make a Ken's night type of thing she would really love that. thank you for the great content guys.
Single and expecting a great Kingdom man. Thank you for these videos.
I love this so much.. teaching us from a place of love… I learned so much today… especially the part where the wife set a King tone (atmosphere) at home…. There are so many benefits of being a Queen to your manzzz Love all the way from NAMIBIA 🇳🇦 (Africa)
such great tips ! newly married over here :). it's nice to know that i've been doing something right! i love to see my husband cared for and happy in the ways i can do that for him as a wife ! always love watching y'all podcasts. May God bless you both
Married almost 21 years and still learning. Tab had me taking notes lol Thank you both for your ministry❤
This is a blessing. I’m single right now but I’m preparing myself for my future husband.
This video was absolutely fantastic! I take great pleasure in giving my husband massages. Whether it's just us two or with our little boys, we love embarking on road trips together. He enjoys driving while I soak in the scenery, and afterward, I'm always ready to give him a relaxing massage as a token of appreciation for safely navigating us to our destinations. I’ll need to look into getting a massage table. That was a good idea, Ms. Tabatha! Growing up, I witnessed my mom serving my dad his plate of food first, followed by my brothers and me. This tradition of showing love through serving was passed down from my grandma to my grandpa as well. It brings me joy to continue this gesture for my husband, who always expresses his gratitude with a smile and a warm thank you when I hand him his plate. I’m passionate about cooking and baking so I anticipate hearing their opinions. 😆 It’s always a win to my husband! Even though I work part-time, I strive to make my husband's return home as smooth and effortless as possible even if I’m not there. Each morning, I ensure our boys have their toiletries and pajamas neatly laid out on the bed. As we homeschool our oldest, who is in kindergarten, I have all his schoolwork prepared and organized, ready to tackle the day's lessons. My husband selflessly dedicates himself to our family, never once voicing a complaint. It's my aim to cultivate an atmosphere of peace and love in his life, just as he does for me 🕊️🌸. Embracing a servant's heart towards each other brings about a profound sense of beauty and purity in our marriage. 🙏🏾🌷
I just found your videos, and I feel like they're really helping me prepare to be a wife. I love the dynamic and energy and respect between you two, and the fun. Thank you much.
Hey dad hey mom. I miss you guys everything they are teaching is how they are for real They are the reason I am married today they're the reason I found God. Spirit of faith helped me know who I am.
Thank you for this!!!❤ this has truly blessed me and gave me 💡 ideas. My husband and I are going through it and the world is tell me to leave but God is telling me to stay.
Kingdom examples and experiences are amazing, Proverbs 31 woman is what you are Tabs and so inspiring to women not only in Christ but hey if it leads them into salvation then c'mon lesskkooo. Loving how you bring in the biblical verses to match the the example! Australia needs you guys on TV!
I truly appreciate your sincerity in sharing your life. We are also 24 yrs in marriage. Listening to you has being very helpful. Love you both. God bless you.
thank you guys so much for this!! i am currently dating and as a 25 year old i appreciate this! I am dating for marriage and i desire to cultivate a healthy marriage with my spouse when it is time! I am a curse breaker for marriage in my family! THANK YOU 🙌🏾
Wow what an amazing way to care for your husband! I’m so taken back by how you, Tabatha, treat your husband. It seems like you have such a loving marriage. You’re setting such a great example for us young women who didn’t have the opportunity to see their parents loving each other well. Growing up I watched my mother dishonour my father over and over again and vice versa. Even as a child I saw the effect it had on their well being. After watching this it made me believe in godly love. I hope one day God brings me a husband so I can treat him like the king he is❤️ God I pray that you help me to honour my future husband in this way. This was so beautiful guys, really. Thank you so much for making this video and I’m excited for the next video too!
Been with my spouse 10 years and married 7 years in June! So thankful for you two it helps us a bit more knowing where to love each other and how to be a better partner so when we are faced with those hard times we have a bit of training on how to handle it! I send my husband links and he watches as well ❤
Another single woman loooking for her man and how to keep him, and thus keeping me as well. Such a beautiful relationship!
My mom was a good example for me to follow in serving.I did it naturally when I was married.Unforunately I was married to a very self centered man and he did not reciprocate.
Thanks for the wonderful tips. May all marriages be blessed 🙏🏾
I love how you communicate with each other. How you clarify if you are hearing things correctly from each other and correct how you mean what you said if it wasn’t heard correctly from the other. How you communicate in your home. This is the first episode I’ve watched from you. ( That I remember anyway) Again new, I hear also how you’ve directed your kids to respect when so many parents are exhausted and don’t want to put that time and energy in and kids run the show. If there isn’t an episode on that, that would be great to hear. So many dads get put on the back burner by the entire house.
I went and bought a massage table after I saw that episode. I don’t even think I waited until it was finished😂. I heard God and didn’t waste anytime 🤣 Thank you Tabatha 🙏🏾
I am not married but I took a bunch of notes for when I do get married. Such a quality and appetizing message. Thanks for sharing.
I just found you guys today and this was so powerful and inclined with my beliefs. Im all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦
I’m goin to get a massage table. Thank you for all the great info. 3 years married and looking to make this 4th year the best one yet!🎉
I am single, but this is amazing content! I am so grateful for the two of you❤❤
One of the best videos I've ever seen!!! 5 👀 award!!!
@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
14 күн бұрын
Thank you. Share it with your friends and family!
This is golddd. I got pregnant the same year we got married smh so I’m learning to be a wife and a mom at the same timee. Definitely will be taking these tips ❤
Absolutely loved this!! Thank you!
This was really good! Thanks
Tabatha is beautiful! She beams virtue! I aspire to be like her. Am single and waiting on God. I faithfully watch your videos.
This was so good, thank you!
Thanks for this message!!!❤
You guys are a blessing!!! Thank you!
Loved this!❤
Thank you both for these gems! A lot of which you spoke of I currently do Tabitha however I have not been consistent with it. Thanks for waking up 'the Wife that I know God wants me to be'!!!
Great message!!
So good!
Loved this!!! Cannot wait to get married to put these to use!! :)
I love the message from you guys!! Thanks so much!!❤❤❤❤
Thank you for this time and the gems.
Thank you so much for this
I love this
Thank you for this message… I needed to hear this
This absolutely blessed me. Thank you ❤️
Love this!
Thank you for this message. Abundant Blessings
Thank you both for this service ❤
Nice. Love Tabatha's smiles.
Thank you guys for being real. I love that you are speaking to the modern day marriage and teaching us how to live the bible out in our daily lives . So glad i found you guys ! ❤
I wish this could be translated to Spanish so I could send it to my mom 🥹🥲
This blessed me❤❤❤
Sounding so good
Thank you ❤
This was fantastic! Thank you so much Tabatha
Love you both.❤❤
Wow, Tabatha you laid it all out👌🔥🔥🔥 this was good! Im taking notes as a single waiting on marriage.
Buying that massage table ❤
Thank you all for sharing and being transparent!! Mike and I have grown so much from your wisdom! You both are such a blessing!! Love y’all!
Feeling challenged, thanks for sharing such great insights
I love y’all 🙏🏾 so much wisdom
I enjoyed this episode 👌😍
I love this. Thank you for practical application.
Loved! Thank you!
Really nice podcast, normally watch the reels on Facebook, very deep looking forward to continuing watching
Powerful thanks great information
I’m on the verge of divorce because of the lack of intimacy it’s like once a month and I don’t know how much longer I can bare it.
The details are so good , thank you God bless
You both are lovely! I love your childlike mannerisms!
I definitely appreciate you guys podcast as a husband it definitely been helping me out I appreciate you guys
Am really learning A lot here thank you
Thank you! I listen to you often and I feel so blessed. you make marriage beautiful😊
Thank you so much for such beautiful words.♥️
This was so GOOD! Tabitha, I love your sweet spirit. It gives me an example I haven't had of how to be a wife and mother. Thank you for sharing such weighty content on a regular basis.❤❤❤
so good, thank you both for sharing the knowledge❤🎚️ blessings
2 minutes in and I was hooked and subscribed! I look forward to the wisdom I’ll gain from watching your channel! ☺️
Thank you so much ❤I needed this video and it gave me a different perspective.
This was good Tabatha! I'm gonna make a list for my Brian's night!
I'm single and this is definitely some nuggets for single, married and persons in a relationship
This is really good. I’m getting a massage table.
Thanks so much for your content❤
@aviharris6874
3 ай бұрын
u guys r blessed I want a marriage like urs
This is so good and a helpful reminder for us wives that are married and been married for a length of time. I’ve been married for ten years and I still have to remind myself to keep the fire in the marriage going in spite of the kids, work life, etc. my husband comes first and I have to honor him as such. Every now and again I do ask my husband if there is anything I can improve on and majority of the time, he is pleased but there are times where I did have to pause and work on other areas. Watching this video has given me a different perspective for sure. Side note: I am looking into buying a massage table now 😂❤
Just found you guys and I already love you both!!!! Thanks for being obedient to Gods calling.
I saw a lot of these, growing up in the Caribbean, but you put a modern touch to it with the massage table, candles ect … Great advice!!
This is so good. I’m a newlywed but I started the Chateau de Williamson Day Spa for the times when it’s all about him for pampering so he can relax and then I’m listening to this that it’s a major key. #confirmation