1) He is not a woman 2) He is under a lot of pressure. More than you will know. 3) He doesn’t want to “deal”with the woman when he gets home. He needs to decompress. 4) He doesn’t need another mother. He needs a helper. 5) He needs to be honored and respected. Acknowledged. 💎💎💎💎💎

@feliciabailey5120

6 ай бұрын

Amen I don't want to be contentious with my husband because he has to go out in the world and navigate especially a black man to provide for me so it's important that we do just this

@yemi6184

5 ай бұрын

What happens if it’s the woman who has to go out “conquer the world” to provide for her family? Too many disturbing presumptions in this message

@feliciabailey5120

4 ай бұрын

@yemi6184 if that woman agreed with the man before she married or even after his leader which is God will show him how to lighten her role that keeps her covered and supported in every way some men stay home and take care of the children because her skills set makes the most money but that man is not to be devalued in that setup he is still the head

@JAnd-andJ

5 күн бұрын

😂I think you put up the 5 bullet point summary on the women's side of this. Thanks. I move quickly and before I had time to sit and dive deeper, this helps. **edit, no it was someone else, but thanks still applies.**

Some gems were dropped. My advice is to Ask God to make u a better wife and He will. If ur husband is getting on ur nerves, ask God to work on u. Not him. Through all my years of marriage one revelations I’ve gotten is if I do right in my marriage, God will honor me. Even if u have a husband who is not doing right. U continue to be the wife God called u to be and watch Him bless u.

I’m divorced for 7 years this year… I feel like I owe my ex an apology after listening to this wisdom😮, thank you guys. I love you two❤

@lucyr1822

8 ай бұрын

I apologized after 6 years of being divorced to my ex . It was a relief and lifted a burden. The marriage did not end because of one person. Pride and ego and not forgiving can burden us … ❤

@ngreat4390

7 ай бұрын

That would be very wise. Please do! May God heal your hearts and restore your home

@ngreat4390

7 ай бұрын

​@@lucyr1822glad you did. It takes courage and humility to do that and I pray God heals your hearts and home

@user-or9tw1ct6l

7 ай бұрын

Yes, I'm in the same position. My ex hunsband and I both realised how much we did not understand each other. I have learned so much, I'm now in Christ, I know now my role as a women for his kingdom. In jesus name. Amen ❤

@feliciabailey5120

6 ай бұрын

Amen I'm with you once I learned from a damaged man that nothing I did he couldn't trust me so I prayed to God and seeing you say this I agree I damaged my ex-husband

She is definitely a traditional wife…. Working on myself to become like this

@supermodeljaz6829

9 ай бұрын

Awareness is so good, I’m happy for you Beautiful Ashley🌹, you’re well on your way!

This was so refreshing. I felt the Holy Spirit tell me you are closer to marriage because now I have a revelation on how to be a good wife

I love how Tabatha looks at her husband...you can tell how much she adores him. I hope she gets the same, she looks like a sweet soul🌼🌼🌼

@EIGHTMINUTESWITHAIRVING

7 ай бұрын

I agree I noticed that too I pray and hope soon woman needs so much love and affection God committed it is in the word of God pray that it’s genuine, and we supplicate🙏🏼🥰

@johannees622

17 күн бұрын

I noticed that too 😊

A wise woman builds her house, but a foolish one tears it down. Women will not submit to her husband if he does not work and provides for her family. Thanks for sharing.

Pre-marital counselling is so important.

@sg5720

Ай бұрын

21 years married - hubby and I have had NO pre counselling cause our foundation is the same. God is the head of our marriage- and because of that I e going strong. It ain’t perfect but I can’t imagine being with anyone else and he always let me know how much he loves and appreciate me. Counselling is a good thing, but not everyone needs it 😊

It's just hit me that God intended for me to come across your channel. When you said you pray and ask God to let the right persons watch your videos, I see this as a sign to an answered prayer. I'm watching and learning what I need to work on in my life. Thank you Pastors 🙏

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

8 ай бұрын

We love to hear it!

@derekdobbs4954

7 ай бұрын

Watching you both pour into me such good advice is so nice,and I thank God for pushing those buttons in my life. Keep up the good work.

@derekdobbs4954

7 ай бұрын

I have just announced that we are starting Gloria night is back at our home Thanks for the idea!

@feliciabailey5120

6 ай бұрын

Yes the world says the algorithm I see God's divine intervention

This was so good. I realize I was helping the enemy break down my husband. We're not going out like that!! Thank you!

Wow this was an amazing conversation, I really didn’t want it to end. As a 23 yr old engaged woman this gave me a lot to think about in terms of how to ensure that my man feels valued, respected , and honored and being able to set the tone of the atmosphere of the home. Thank you for this wisdom🙌🏾✨

I wish I had this wisdom earlier in my marriage. I have been with my husband for almost 40 years but am seeing so many mistakes that I have made. Keep bringing these messages and pray for me that I will make the changes that I need to see my marriage flourish. In the name of Jesus. Amen ❤🙏🏽

Before now, Iv'e never been into podcasts, BUT, I've been addicted to you guys since Wednesday 10/12/23 of this week. Thank you lovely people. I'm a Single woman using my single season to prepare for my Boaz.

I am learning so much. The Lord is really preparing me for marriage. This was so good 🎉🎉🎉

@LifewithBawseNancy

4 ай бұрын

Swear 😌 I called my engagement off the other day and I’m here realizing I just didn’t understand my man.

@naneybomba9887

4 ай бұрын

❤ God is LITTERLY speaking to me. He always been there.. He loves me soo much. God sees my heart, God knows my prayers, God opens my eyes! God is indescribable AMAZING!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤

Purposely passing gas and not picking up after ourselves in front of anyone is inappropriate regardless of our gender. It’s more about living more like CHRIST by being more considerate of each other as CHRIST is considerate of us even though He created us.

A man doesn’t need another mother. Some men need to hear that because that’s what he is expecting from his wife. Would love to hear this from the dynamic of today where most woman are working and some cases the bread winner

You need to tell on sin before sin tells on you woooo! That’s a word!!

I percieve rhat the Holy spirit is preparing me now for marriage...i had fear and anxiety about marriage before i came across this channel and was praying to get a marriage coach and here i found one.. Thank you Lord. .

@bulelwakowa3920

4 ай бұрын

Girl I had to stop this video to respond on your comment I am in the same season as you and I must say it is not what I had imagined being an way what I am struggling with now is that I feel like I am not ready and I feel like I am still to broken to have someone close to me like that and also I don't want to break any one else around me I did take those fear or these struggles to the the lord just letting him know how I really feel so I get you sis honestly I do 🇿🇦

I am no longer with my sons dad but I will always respect and love him for being an incredible father. Our son is so blessed

Your channel is underrated I’m on my fourth consecutive video and I’m so happy for it! Such a blessing to the body!!!

What a blessing to hear this, we have been married 37 years. But, you have spoken life into our lives. Thank you

I had the opportunity to meet Pastor Tabatha this past weekend. She’s such a sweet soul! Prayerfully, marriage isn’t that far down the road for me, and this episode helped me so much! Thank you Pastor Ken & Pastor Tabatha!🤍

I literally almost burst into tears when you were talking about having the children respect the father, his face and just his presence. It brought up what was happening in my home with my husband, as my children were coming up. And I am calling my husband to apologize for the way that I handled him and those situations.I dealt with everything through hurt and not through the word.

Amazing! I loveeeeee the example of honor this wife gives her husband. Us young daughters need more of her counsel. Teach us woman of God!

I learned something today. There’s a difference between how boys versus men communicate to their women. I also learned how femininity plays a role in how we treat our men.

if my husband say i am attracted to this woman! sorry i dont want to know that! i dont come to my husband and tell how many men shot there shot! ow no! abraham never told his wife that he was going to crucify his only child to his wife. you saying my husband cant shut his mouth about his temptation lol but i love the conversation! she is level headed and great wife!

@Amanda-kb8ok

9 ай бұрын

I wouldn't want to know either. He needs to take that burden and leave it at the cross. Im a woman not Jesus.

@samanthafearon8169

2 ай бұрын

My point exactly....keep it between you and God.

Yes, telling me he was attracted to another woman has happened. I created a safe space for him to speak. We discussed things about her and we were able to find the root, we were able to pray about it and break a soul tie. He felt free to talk to me about a lot of things until drugs got involved. When drug use began there was no saving the marriage after all the deceit, shame, dangers that came with the drug use. We are no longer married, but before drugs, the marriage was a safe place for us to communicate. We did discuss the beginning of drug use as well but he succumbed fully to it. I chose to let him go for my own safety.

@ 10:56 I took a pause to get myself together. I did not know what is was like to have a dad growing up, mine was in prison. We were introduced at the age of 13. My dad was released when I was 18. It was the best day and year of my life!!! Then, what happened broke my heart into a million pieces….the cops killed my daddy. They shattered my dreams. I am 56 , 10:59 10:59 and I miss him so much. I am grateful that God is my Heavenly Father. Thank you for giving me the language of how to express what I was missing. ❤❤😢❤❤

I just love you both so much! I’m a single mom of 2 girls and trying to become the wife God has called me to be to the husband I know he has created me for. Tabitha, talk about a Proverbs 31 woman! You remind me so much of my mom and how submissive and supportive she is to my dad. I pray I carry that same anointing and that God will use me as a strategic helpmate for my future husband and for His kingdom. God bless your beautiful marriage and family. Love y’all 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

@CourtneeG

7 ай бұрын

Single mommy of 1 girl here! I am praying for us! I’ve followed this couple recently in hopes of learning to do better! Candice God is going to lead us to our kingdom marriages on His perfect timing

This is my first time listening to you guys, but can I tell you I enjoyed your wisdom. As a divorced woman of many years I desire to marry again and be the best wife I can the second time around!! Thank you so much for sharing and doing it in such a beautiful way❤️🙌🏾🙏🏽.... Many more Blessings to you both!!!

@siphokazimngxali7558

3 ай бұрын

Wisdom here. I am really learning to better me waiting. This is going to be God way

I want this for my daughter 😔. Her dad and I need so much healing.

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

Жыл бұрын

praying for healing in your relationship!

@thebreakthrough9782

4 ай бұрын

Some boat😢

WoW ❤ My first time here, praying GOD prepares me like this as I also prepare for the godly man HE has for me. This was very transparent, transformative & beautiful

So very refreshing to see a Godly couple that can give inspiration of insight in a Godly covenant relationship/marriage(s). Blessings 💕💖💖💖💖💖 So much relevance spoken.

The value of this practical, down-to-earth conversation is immeasurable! 💪🏼💪🏼 Thank you for a tool that can be used by couples who sincerely desire to do marriage well. I believe that the couple who listens to this open and honest dialogue together can use it to jumpstart their own conversation customized for their marriage where they can be “naked and not ashamed” (Genesis 2:25). ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

@aprilrobinson3023

9 ай бұрын

So true! Well said!🙌🏾♥️

This convo was so great thank you!

Just subscribed. I have watched a few videos of yours and they have been amazing!

I didnt know why i kept on watching watching your videos for the past 6-8 hours not until i came to realize you were a Pastor. Surely you have been called to redefine marriage and Christian relationships and may God increase you and continue using you for this great assignment

Having a well-rounded present father is important not just a father. I grew up with my dad from the age of 10. He was a single parent. At the age of 32, I had to unlearn certain behaviors and thought patterns I learned from him. I was told I can be harsh and lack emotion. I didn't know how to connect emotionally to people or even receive physical affection. I didn't know how to express my emotions. I didn't receive those from him. I am still learning.

LOVE THIS!! AND you TWO!! First time watching

This was so refreshing to watch

Appreciating Tabatha ❤

Yes this is helpful. Thank you for all you do!

God was in the garden and he said Adam where are you. God holds men accountable. satan wants to destroy men, couples, family which leads to messed up young’s and everybody is jacked up. Thanking God mom and dad raise 4 boys in Brooklyn in an AG church. Thanks to the church community and parents bring up productive save and sanctified work in progress. Good work guys 👍🏻

I love the content in your videos. One thing that I'd like to add is that "It takes 2 to make a thing go right." Either partner can give their ALL in making a relationship/marriage successful, HOWEVER, if only one is doing the work, it's doomed to fail. That's reality. Or, you stay... just because, and there's no peace, joy, or success in that. KEEP IT COMING....WE'RE LEARNING AND GROWING ❤

@lindaechem2789

6 ай бұрын

You are in my mind. It takes two to tango. It becomes a burden when you are giving without receiving.

Thank you for your wisdom.

Wow! I’m honored to be here. Thank you for this segment. ❤

Much wisdom. Thank you.❤❤

I Am encouraged. Thank you.

Thank you so much for this! My soul need to hear this !♥️♥️🙏🏼🙏🏼

This is great. Thank you for being so transparent!

You guys are a blessing to me

❤ so grateful for this shared information

This was so helpful! Thank you 🤍

You guys are blessing so many people!❤

I just came across this podcast and I am loving it🙏

This is so so good!!! Love y’all’s content!

This was great! Thank you so much family 🙏🏾

I really enjoyed this!!!! Many of us didn’t grow up with healthy relationship examples or guidance. You don’t have to replicate everything this couple is doing but it’s great insight on how to cover, honor and nurture your man. Good men deserve to be treated well

Thank you for the Gems 💎

Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I see some areas I can grow in.

Stumbled across you..enjoying it so far..teamwork make the dream work

This next level communication. I’ve been married for 8 years and I can honestly say ive have a long way to go with understanding. Thank y’all for the vulnerability and transparency 🙏.

I appreciate this video. As I listened, I recognized that there are some things that I didn't do during my first marriage. However, as God continues to work on me and prepare me for my kingdom spouse , I will take these points along with the Word of God to be a better wife in the future. Thank you Ken and Tab for sharing, and allowing God to use you.

Love these topics! Thank you so much. Single for now 🙏🏾

I just found them yesterday and I love the tone they have with each other

This was sooo good !!! Motivating, happy, made me smile and I learned a lot.

Thank you lord for this revelation

Thank you for your podcast love this and your a great pastor

Thank you for having this conversation. Very impactful, transparent and real.

I love them....just started listening to them yesterday.....thank you....now until my husband finds me❤

Thank you so much you all have helped me so much.

So many takeaways! Thank and may the Lord continue to bless you! 🙏🏾❤️

I appreciate the balanced perspective you all have shared. Thank you, very grateful for this!

Thank you for being my internet parents. God bless you all the way from SA

This is good wisdom teaching love it!

So glad I found your channel!✨Wow! Love it! Love the delivery and transparency! God bless you both! Keep sharing!✨♥️

I appreciate you two so much !!!

Just found you today! God is good 💯! Thank you for speaking life 🙏✨ into me!

Ahh man I love you guys!🔥🔥 I’m a new fan! Very soothing and wise

Oh wow so informed i feel like i am ready for my king❤

This is so good and put everything into perspective. I regret my last relationship ended.

So glad I found this channel. I first watched 10 ways to prepare yourself for marriage. Thank you for this channel in general🙏🏾 and letting God use you two

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

8 ай бұрын

Glad to have you here!

You both are awesome. Ken thanks for coming to Haven Worship Center last Sunday.

Just discovered you all and I love it

This was such an amazing conversation. I'm working on being the best version of a help meet possible for my man.

Thank you for your wisdom 🥹

My 2nd Episode. Again, thanks to both of you for the Wisdom nuggets.

I’m new to your KZread videos (watched two so far); and I have to say they are great!! Keep up the good work!😊

I am learning so much thank you all God bless ❤🙏🏾

My Apostle has literally said these nuggets multiple times! Thank you both for sharing with such transparency, practicality and wisdom!

These are some hard truths but it’s so necessary ❤

This is so good I just came across y'all channel and will share it with my future wifey 💜

Oh my goodness you’ve given me so new ideas and couple goals! Thank you for sharing❤️ Blessings to you both🙏🏽

We need male men, we need masculinity in our lives. We need men to be men…… 👏🏽 Tabatha is telling the truth, because it’s a shortage in the home. Society is definitely doing a number on our men….. both of these sessions were good. Ken just also gave me something good, but men don’t open up like that and I don’t know what it will take for them to open up like that. Thank you for the insight. God bless you both ❤🙏🏽

"You have to sow there, before you go there" that's a Whole Word.. Totally agree....Amen ❤

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

8 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching!

Amen helpful conversation not only that real life what we going through every day you both sharing what women should do

So glad I found you guys ❤❤

I love the way tabitha speaks so eloquent and clear such a sweet voice

This podcast was soo good! I really enjoyed it.

Am sooo blessed by this honest sincere conversation. 🙏