Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Ken and Tabatha Claytor

What’s up, family! Welcome to “Doing Life with Ken & Tabatha”. We are so glad that you have found us. We pray all of the time, God let those who need our show find our show, and guess what, here you are, an answer to prayer. Hopefully, we are an answer to yours as well. We have been married for 24 years. We always say it's been the best 22 years of our lives. The first two years were absolutely horrible, and we had a plan to divorce each other. Thankfully God intervened! He healed us from 12 years of depression, brought us out of 6 figures of financial debt, and He helped turn our marriage around from divorce to now best friends. Our goal is to help you grow closer to God and the people that God has placed in your life. We share all of our business here. Our wins, our losses, and everything in between. You are not alone we are here for you and with you, bringing you new content every Thursday at 3pm Eastern Standard Time. PEACE

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  • @jeannineberry5553
    @jeannineberry55533 сағат бұрын

    Tabitha, thank you for the prayer at the end for our marriage! ❤ 🙏 so glad I listened to this, thank you to both of you ❤

  • @joyannamarmar2145
    @joyannamarmar21455 сағат бұрын

    Glory be To God. Thank you for this powerful message. I am blessed 🙌 😇

  • @gettended
    @gettended5 сағат бұрын

    8:36 I had a double mastectomy this is really helping

  • @LadyBug31259
    @LadyBug312599 сағат бұрын

    Every parent does it different with their children, as for me and mine I bought you a bed and you have a room go find them both and leave me be. When they're newborns to about 4-5 months that's understandable but after that little negro you gotta go!!

  • @flydollronda1926
    @flydollronda19269 сағат бұрын

    I feel like he subtly insults her alot….is it just me? I love the podcast and all, but I can’t put my finger on it, but when he does it it’s like nails on a chalkboard to me…hope I’m wrong and misreading it, but I’ve seen it now multiple times

  • @davidavitua7448
    @davidavitua74489 сағат бұрын

    Same method applies to letting your pets sleep with you

  • @Megan_Alexis
    @Megan_Alexis9 сағат бұрын

    Been binging these episodes. 😍 I just love Pastor Ken and Tab and look forward to your words of wisdom 🤍 thank you !!!

  • @Mrsdeepdimples1
    @Mrsdeepdimples111 сағат бұрын

    The way you guys have blessed me I’m beyond grateful for the both of you. Your transparency and wisdom Tab is mind blowing.

  • @eng.georgek.wanjau4148
    @eng.georgek.wanjau414812 сағат бұрын

    I feel that you have tried your best to bring up a non-existent process to married couples because the tie is a covenant and it cannot be broken because"a woman is bound by the law of her husband as long as he liveth". Whether you repent or renounce,you cannot repent your wife/husband for life and if you marry another,you commit adultery and a gate pass to hell????.

  • @sandrashavers1516
    @sandrashavers151613 сағат бұрын

    thank you

  • @jodiesjourney9094
    @jodiesjourney909415 сағат бұрын

    Nah I’m not with this, that’s just unloving parenting.. a kid isn’t fighting for your attention to replace spouse. They deserve nearness, comfort, trust and safety

  • @tiffanyn333
    @tiffanyn33315 сағат бұрын

    HE IS TELLING TRUTH...LIVING IT NOW....1,000% ON POINT...Married 13 yrs...doing this changed my life in turn changed our family unit..where my husband drastically saw a difference in me...HALLELUJAH Jesus you are so good!!! Jesus is truly our savior!!!

  • @gettended
    @gettended16 сағат бұрын

    28:48 😂❤ it’s a good spoiled. It’s really lovely and sweet

  • @miainformed3657
    @miainformed365718 сағат бұрын

    Beautiful words yes Amen. Subscribed looking forward for more truth, Praise Jesus 🙏🏼

  • @SeeK1289
    @SeeK128921 сағат бұрын

    Tabitha be givin a Whole #Word!!!!!!

  • @bijouxbijoux
    @bijouxbijoux23 сағат бұрын

    I understanc the concept. But id like to hear from the kids & their partners. That trauma shows later on

  • @SoftwareDownloadSuccessful
    @SoftwareDownloadSuccessfulКүн бұрын

    Get in their bed with them. Once they fall asleep leave

  • @shariboyd5657
    @shariboyd5657Күн бұрын

    This was one of the most amazing messages I have heard, and I love and appreciate how transparent you both were with your truth, beautiful. Glory be to God. Tabatha it's funny how people tell me I am crazy for literally getting ride of everything picture shirts dresses Facebook post messages EVERYTHING 🙌🏾

  • @khensanimnisi1276
    @khensanimnisi1276Күн бұрын

    Amen🙏

  • @maameodeadu-gyamfi7913
    @maameodeadu-gyamfi7913Күн бұрын

    Yo!!! God bless you guys

  • @sandrashavers1516
    @sandrashavers1516Күн бұрын

    so what happens is she moves to another job and finds someone there attractive, move again, no. What is she not getting at home from her husbands so on and so forth it could be a number of things. Is her husband not attractive anymore. Other things make you appeal to others if something is lacking in your relationship, anyway

  • @CKing-kf4wc
    @CKing-kf4wcКүн бұрын

    I'm in a conspiracy ran by the illuminati and they absolutely impersonate God, if you're in a similar situation, ignore this word because they want me to kill myself and maybe you too. Trust no one

  • @nonnienhlapo7383
    @nonnienhlapo7383Күн бұрын

    Normalise difficulty!!❤

  • @robinechevarria5412
    @robinechevarria5412Күн бұрын

    Thank you for this!!!❤ this has truly blessed me and gave me 💡 ideas. My husband and I are going through it and the world is tell me to leave but God is telling me to stay.

  • @NatiBennett
    @NatiBennettКүн бұрын

    wow

  • @keturahcampbell287
    @keturahcampbell287Күн бұрын

    I needed to hear that!

  • @HH-zx2lq
    @HH-zx2lq2 күн бұрын

    Soul ties is not biblical

  • @bernicelucas6387
    @bernicelucas63872 күн бұрын

    This was so profound.

  • @Alyssa-do3yc
    @Alyssa-do3yc2 күн бұрын

    This was such a blessing! Love listening to you two! I recently met someone at my church that I’m interested in. As a single I can relate to the not wanting to be too “pressed.” It doesn’t work! But definitely working on some of those things will help me to be ready when the time comes!

  • @cxm1211
    @cxm12112 күн бұрын

    It’s not ever about the s** for me. Kids sleep terrible they kick you, you being hanging out the bed cause them. My 2 boys started sleeping in there room at 2. I needed sleep lol.

  • @simoneaustin8076
    @simoneaustin80762 күн бұрын

    what do you do if like you think it would be nice to be married.. eventually but, like you don’t yearn to be in a relationship like i’m busy working on my career & focusing on myself, working on all areas in my life.. i have always been happy single i see relationships as like teamwork its not as easy so i still want god to bless me eventually but, i am very happy right now so how would you pray?

  • @Iammidly
    @Iammidly2 күн бұрын

    Happy Sunday ❤ I went to church this morning. Life's been a bit hard lately, and i didn't feel like going to church, but i still went... While i was there, i kept asking, " Why am i here, Lord? Clearly, I am not in your grace."😢 Next thing you know, he gave me my answer loud and clear! I got discipline today, and for the first time, i understood his words ! Once i got home, i could hear him trying to communicate with me again, but i was not sure what it was. All i could understand was youtube... but mind you, i already had a plan to watch my favorite show on netflix, but he was very persistent, so i was like "ok youtube it is !" God, what are you trying to show me ? Then i saw your video title on how to hear from God, it's crazy because it's been something i've been having trouble with and your video truly helps and i know it was not a coincidence, God knew i needed this piece of knowledge from you guys so i just wanted to share this quick story with you, it's my second time on your channel and everytime he was the one who put me there. I hope this little testimonial of mine will help you continue your amazing work. You are helping people beyond what you can imagine ! May God bless you, your loved ones, and the incredible platform you have and from the bottom of my heart. Thank you ! ❤

  • @yolandagrady7232
    @yolandagrady72322 күн бұрын

    Oh my goodness! I really needed this video! Thank you both for your words of wisdom!❤

  • @Resilientlyblessed
    @Resilientlyblessed2 күн бұрын

    Where’s the full message

  • @sunshine1974tops
    @sunshine1974tops2 күн бұрын

    Ameen !!

  • @nerrissarichards
    @nerrissarichards2 күн бұрын

    To each his own on this one. I have two children of the opposite genders, my son is a teen now but as a baby and a toddler he slept in the bed with me, the whole time he had his own bed, as he got older, I started taking him to his room when he fell asleep in mine, and then he learned to sleep on his own. My baby girl sleeps with me straight as a tiny baby. She slept in the crib, as a toddler she refuses, so she sleeps with me. This works out just as well for us.

  • @sivvysetowski3708
    @sivvysetowski37082 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this great content. ❤ God bless you guys.

  • @kraichellecurren7892
    @kraichellecurren78922 күн бұрын

    He just sounds selfish to me. Folks are going to clap him up for some reason because he speaks with authority🙄Debating whether to dig for the whole video for the science to back his opinion or carry on. This is just ughhh🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @kraichellecurren7892
    @kraichellecurren78922 күн бұрын

    I wonder if he’s the one getting up in the middle of the night over and over, then getting up early in the morning to go to work… I can’t get started on this one, I gotta know when to not get sucked in.

  • @no_prisoners6474
    @no_prisoners64742 күн бұрын

    🙄the problem with letting everyone preach

  • @jkl674
    @jkl6743 күн бұрын

    There is zero biblical basis for this. Stop spouting half cocked advice from your own humanness and insecurity, bro.

  • @dsouza286
    @dsouza2863 күн бұрын

    Guys, you need to make your videos available to download on KZread music as well 🙏🏽

  • @SydneyGayleJR7
    @SydneyGayleJR73 күн бұрын

    HalaluYAH ☦️ In The Almighty Name Of Yahusha Ha'Mashyach ( Jesus Christ )

  • @caramelcocoa234
    @caramelcocoa2343 күн бұрын

    We need to not prescribe stuff based on our own experiences and allow ppl to live. Especially children.

  • @TheEGOconstitute
    @TheEGOconstitute3 күн бұрын

    Amen!🎉

  • @kenyatahall5682
    @kenyatahall56823 күн бұрын

    Sooo good and right on time!!

  • @katrina1045
    @katrina10453 күн бұрын

    My Father always greeted my Mother before the children also. This is so important to demonstrate. Children are not more important or even equal to the wife.

  • @shirleybrewer4210
    @shirleybrewer42103 күн бұрын

    Ken,and Tabitha,you both are great people in my life, don't know you from Adam house cat.you may have Hurd this before,but Iam 75 ,but when we are in alinement we with Christ Jesus,it gives us the knowledge to hear,see,and thing in a more Godly perspective thanks you all.may God continue to bless your Ministry💕🙏🏿💕🌿🌺🌹🌿

  • @thefreequency
    @thefreequency3 күн бұрын

    I give a praises to TMH God for delivering me from a demonic soul tie, alcohol, and low self-esteem I had to sacrifice A LOT including some familial relationship. I had to start over but now I truly understand what it means to be reborn. I am in LOVE w my Father and my new life. Everyday is a new song of praise 121 days of #sobriety

  • @lizz3104
    @lizz31043 күн бұрын

    This was powerful and insightful. Thank you