10 Keys to Overcoming Sexual Temptation with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Can you resist the allure of sin? Can you stand firm amidst the trials and temptations of life, especially those related to sexual immorality? Join us, Ken and Tabatha, on a transformative journey battling sexual temptation head-on, dissecting its roots and understanding its far-reaching impacts on our lives.
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  • @Ehipopo
    @Ehipopo7 ай бұрын

    Y’all are like my virtual parents lol! I’ve learned so much from you two and I’m not even married yet!

  • @roykeiahlove581

    @roykeiahlove581

    7 ай бұрын

    Same! I love it here 😂😂😂😂❤

  • @roofingwithkash5048

    @roofingwithkash5048

    7 ай бұрын

    Same, I love them ❤️☺️

  • @GODswhitebutterfly

    @GODswhitebutterfly

    7 ай бұрын

    Amen ✝️🕊️

  • @kamimaduka7339

    @kamimaduka7339

    7 ай бұрын

    Same, better to learn before getting married

  • @lailaav

    @lailaav

    6 ай бұрын

    Same!😄

  • @faithhope4703
    @faithhope47036 ай бұрын

    1) Self-awareness 2) Think the harvest of sin ( the wages of sin) 3) Normalize temptation ( starve your flesh and stick with your spirit) - die to self. Jesus was tempted at every point yet He did not sin. 4) Know your identity in Christ( affirming who you are in Christ) The enemy use music 5) Guard your heart(mainly through the eyes and ears- these are gates) 6) Healthy parameters and boundaries ( safety nets) to protect the anointing and calling 7) Speak God and memorize the scriptures and watch God to perform 8) Cast down thoughts 9) Submit to God and Resist the devil 10) Fill your heart more with Jesus (empower it with Jesus) -walk by the spirit and do not fulfill the list of flesh Thank you Ken and Tabitha. It is not just about sexual temptation. It is how to overcome any form of temptation.

  • @RoyalMasterpiece

    @RoyalMasterpiece

    5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this list. ❤

  • @ashleytamar7650
    @ashleytamar76506 ай бұрын

    Poor Tabatha… 😅, but she does well with Ken calling her out… 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @teddynkwabi4502
    @teddynkwabi45026 ай бұрын

    ~Look for the exit, bearing in mind that there's a price to pay for it. ~"Everybody else doesn't have a calling that you have in your life. You have to take it personal" ~You can't love anybody more than you love GOD. ~"Starve your flesh, feed your spirit" ~A season of disconnecting from the secular, just to learn that which is Sacred. ~Everybody owes themselves a season where they can be so overflown with Jesus that temptation becomes a joke.🙌🙌 This was just too good 🔥. It spoke to me in so many ways 🙌. God bless you Ken & Tabatha. Thank you ❤ Love from Tanzania 🇹🇿

  • @BlairHelms
    @BlairHelms7 ай бұрын

    This video blessed me so much!! Being a new Christian, these topics were a gray area for me. The sexual temptations are my biggest struggle. Living in a society where all of these things are so normalized and you’re looked at like a psycho when you choose to not partake. God bless yall ❤

  • @christellen3077
    @christellen30776 ай бұрын

    I pray that Pastor you may be real about your flaws, that you may syop shutting down your spouse, and calling her out on things she does not do. I pray you stop under appreciating so many contribution she brings. You are One, not her against you. I pray you grow in that. Because the lack of honor of your wife publically makes it impossible to listen without calling on the Lord and invoking the Holy Spirit. KEEP GOING AS A WIFE MA'AM. May God grace you more. That is not right. The way a Man of God honors his wife shows his level of servanthood and of discipleship. I can not follow any longer because I do not want to murmur. Last time I commented, and I was not talking about your couple, but Your leadership. May God let you go to new glories as a husband in Jesus Name.

  • @ravenbrevard1843
    @ravenbrevard18437 ай бұрын

    Thank God for using you both to pour this word into me! I am a renewed christian.. a single mom of 3 & I am on the journey of abstinence/celibacy… I got tired of doing it MY way and decided to only do it GODS way.. people make you feel weird or out of place especially other “christians” - I love that saying “I love (or like) you but I love GOD more” YES LORD 🙌🏾

  • @NarrowPath_7
    @NarrowPath_77 ай бұрын

    I'm glad you guys mentioned how the enemy puts thoughts in your head that's not yours or the most high's thoughts and if you don't guard your mind. You'll fall into the trap and start believing the lies of the enemy. I wish more people spoke about this. Especially to help the younger believers.

  • @cholachambeshi2698
    @cholachambeshi269825 күн бұрын

    I'm Zambian yaay, love y'all Ken and Tabatha. Also naturalized American- blessed by this channel so so much

  • @Laurajoymarie
    @Laurajoymarie7 ай бұрын

    I stumbled across your podcast a few weeks ago. I know it wasn't by accident. I've been in a waiting season for a while, and was having a bit of a dry season. I was just going through the motions and not spending enough time in the word or with the Lord. This podcast came across my suggestion feed exactly when I needed it. I have learned so much, and it's put such a fire in my heart to learn the word of God more I've ever had before. Thank you.

  • @ZaidGebreegziabher
    @ZaidGebreegziabher7 ай бұрын

    Zambia is a country in Africa bzw. I am also listening from Ethiopia and East Africa. Your content has helped me so much with my life. I have learned so much as a single woman who is trying to find guidance to live in the right way. Thank you!

  • @user-wz4nh6zt4s
    @user-wz4nh6zt4s6 ай бұрын

    Ken & Tabitha, your LIST is sincerely what the spirit of God teach & separate us from the world. Holiness is so worth the diligent search, transforming, Our Creator, Jesus Christ IS worthy of every holy convert 🙏🏽

  • @HadleyFaith
    @HadleyFaith3 ай бұрын

    I cant believe you guys dont have more subscribers! Best Christian podcast out there. I’ll pray over your channel that more people can be led and strengthened in Christ!!

  • @jackienakeeya2117
    @jackienakeeya21175 ай бұрын

    "There is a season where you have to disconnect from secular to learn the one which is sacred" 😮 wawoo powerful

  • @karalopas57
    @karalopas576 ай бұрын

    Thank you guys so much for all of your content!! I had been asking God to help me and show me what I need to see and then your videos started showing up for me🙏🏼🙌🏼 you’ve helped me so much! I even started playing your video loud in front of my bf one day and now he listens to you too!! This is all so helpful to us not having parents on either side to show us truly how to live a godly way! you’ve been like parents for us and we couldn’t be more thankful💜💜

  • @user-og7lo1qg2q
    @user-og7lo1qg2q7 ай бұрын

    My Temptation is Overeating (Gluttony) especially when I am trying to Fast for God, food has been my Guilty Pleasure. The Flesh is always going to war against the spirit and vice versa so self-control is very important as a Christian. Jesus really did set the bar super high for each and every one of us because he was the only one in human flesh who never sinned... People forget Jesus had the same wants and desires as us but still had self-discipline and honored the God with his whole heart because he knew his purpose was greater.

  • @katlehomahlophe6513

    @katlehomahlophe6513

    6 ай бұрын

    I rebuke Gluttony in the name of Jesus

  • @NykiaBenit
    @NykiaBenit6 ай бұрын

    You guys' personality is great!!!

  • @melisshalindsey
    @melisshalindseyАй бұрын

    Whew!! My word… you two are hot and heavy with the word here. So good!!!!!

  • @camchris313
    @camchris3136 ай бұрын

    18:39 Ken Breaking down the word is really what I need! Tabatha I’m with you in the struggle area. I thank God you guys are as honest & open with us the way you are. You’ve helped me so much in my dating relationship that’s now an engagement stage. Blessings to the both of you

  • @cameliamoodie4928
    @cameliamoodie49284 ай бұрын

    I'm so blessed I found you to. I don't have any parents to teach me all this stuff and help me be a better wife , mother , woman etc. Oh my this is such a huge blessing 💖

  • @JoseOrdoricaBustamante-mq2be
    @JoseOrdoricaBustamante-mq2be2 ай бұрын

    I am so grateful to have found this video as an adolescent struggling with the resistance of tempetation. Thank you for your beautiful and powerful words. God bless.

  • @JaileyJai
    @JaileyJai7 ай бұрын

    I anticipate all your videos. Truthfully it’s so much advice about relationships and how to go about them it’s confusing But every time I watch and hear your videos I hear and feel bible, not only that but I can look up the scripture my self and talk to God about how it relates to me. As a Christmas gift to us could we get a video everyday of December 😅💕!!!

  • @whitneypucci5228
    @whitneypucci52287 ай бұрын

    I can listen to this on repeat all day; I would love to see a podcast series about fear and thoughts

  • @neolalakhoahli3526
    @neolalakhoahli35262 ай бұрын

    WOW! I'm only coming across this video 4 MONTHS later and trust its a word in season... I bless the day I came across this channel. I just love it here, and I'm growing sooo sooo soo much. God bless you Ken and Tabatha. Sending love from South Africa.

  • @matej9255
    @matej92557 ай бұрын

    Great video! Basically, - Be careful what you are watching Guard your eyes guys! - Fill your mind with biblical quotes, verses and apply Jesus teachings in your life,Talk the talk walk the walk! - Understand that you already won in Christ! - Self awareness of thoughts! I will also say that it's daily battle because in this world we have so much temptation but we MUST endure and keep going no matter what. God wont give us cross that we couldn't carry it! Holy blood of Jesus, victory of all evil, please wash everyone who's reading this message and give that person strength to keep the fight going in your mighty name. Amen! God bless 🙏

  • @vivienetiu7935
    @vivienetiu79357 ай бұрын

    Tabitha is such a classy lady wow I’m so inspired

  • @aureonashaw287
    @aureonashaw2877 ай бұрын

    I just stumbled on this podcast and I’m extremely grateful that I did.. I truly appreciate this episode.. like a ALOT ..

  • @user-ry1cg9mh4q
    @user-ry1cg9mh4q6 ай бұрын

    Amen!!! 🙌 my temptation is not who I am

  • @yasminejulmisse8787
    @yasminejulmisse87877 ай бұрын

    Yall DID that and let the Lord use you! Really well done!! Glory 💗 thank you!

  • @SpeakYoMindCraig
    @SpeakYoMindCraig6 ай бұрын

    I want to say I thank God he directed me to this podcast give him all the glory. This video blessed me so much. I was in a time where I felt temptation was really knocking at my door and it became a major distraction. I was able to apply a lot of what you guys said to help me stay strong and realize I am much stronger than any temptation so thank you guys!

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    6 ай бұрын

    That's amazing! Thanks for watching!

  • @SafeRn
    @SafeRn7 ай бұрын

    This came just in time ❤

  • @oluwatunmisearowolo8472
    @oluwatunmisearowolo84727 ай бұрын

    Hallelujah! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @scoopwilliams4963
    @scoopwilliams49636 ай бұрын

    Omg they keep it real i love ❤ it 🙏🏿

  • @TrueWisdomTV
    @TrueWisdomTV7 ай бұрын

    love these topics

  • @dominiqueconner1507
    @dominiqueconner15076 ай бұрын

    This message is amazing,and transparent! I love how he put his wife on the spot lol the rawness, and realness… I love it.. This what we should talk about in church to set people fee. Thank you guys for being obedient! I love this message, because it’s setting us free!

  • @SilvernMutisya-kg8fq
    @SilvernMutisya-kg8fq6 ай бұрын

    Hey guys, I have been watching your videos for a while and i am loving them. Keep up with the good content, Loving it🙂

  • @Taniaisunique7
    @Taniaisunique75 ай бұрын

    Right on time! Thank you! A friend shared you guys with me in my season of courtship. Grateful for this!!

  • @praisegirl264
    @praisegirl2647 ай бұрын

    Great message!❤❤

  • @cameliamoodie4928
    @cameliamoodie49284 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad I found you both 💓

  • @ItsCharPatrice
    @ItsCharPatrice7 ай бұрын

    Thank you two for this, I wrote down all 10 points. Thank you so much ❤

  • @annabaptiste1324
    @annabaptiste13247 ай бұрын

    I really love the realness about you guys. keep it up

  • @SimplySybella
    @SimplySybella6 ай бұрын

    Incredible ! And Tabatha 🤯🫶🏾🙏🏾💓

  • @margiewebb2754
    @margiewebb27545 ай бұрын

    Love you guys and the messages you share.

  • @dimiastreater8740
    @dimiastreater87405 ай бұрын

    Very real episode! Thank you for your honesty.

  • @TDJ8329
    @TDJ83297 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂❤ let it All out! We love you guys 🙏🏾✨❤️! So authentic 🙏🏾

  • @wes654
    @wes6545 ай бұрын

    Thank God for you guys 🙏🏾

  • @veronicapollard5231
    @veronicapollard52316 ай бұрын

    Neutral zone!!! That definitely hit the nail on the head!!!! 💯

  • @donovantheeroyal
    @donovantheeroyal6 ай бұрын

    I praise God for this video, this was just what I needed.

  • @sasuke5046
    @sasuke50465 ай бұрын

    Awesome podcast this is what I needed to hear. God Bless you

  • @renodayoungblood4097
    @renodayoungblood40975 ай бұрын

    I'm so thankful for you two! I have enjoyed your podcast for the past two days. I needed you years ago, but I'm grateful that I have you now! Thank you for making Word of Truth so simple and enjoyable.❤❤

  • @sunnysboytv6486
    @sunnysboytv64863 ай бұрын

    This was good. Y’all are so real

  • @lacroixmavie7695
    @lacroixmavie76957 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this so PowerFul God Bless you K&TC

  • @user-hg3cn1yy8f
    @user-hg3cn1yy8f4 ай бұрын

    God bless you two🥰🥰🥰😍😍🙏🙏🙏

  • @jacque-leenewoodall3696
    @jacque-leenewoodall36964 ай бұрын

    I love this podcast. It's such a blessing. Thank you for sharing your life to teach the word of God.

  • @alfreidanicholson4963
    @alfreidanicholson49635 ай бұрын

    I'm a newbie to watching y'all podcast and I have loved and learned something from every podcast I watched. Thank y'all so much!!! ❤I'm seeking a better relationship with God.....

  • @LoveyreSelf
    @LoveyreSelf4 ай бұрын

    Very very full of wisdom❤💛💚😍🥰🙌🏾👏🏾🔥thank You guys,God blessed you 💯✅🕊🦅🌱☘👌🏾🤝🏾🔐

  • @katlehomahlophe6513
    @katlehomahlophe65136 ай бұрын

    You guys are thr best couple. You inspire me. From South Africa.

  • @ED-lc8qk
    @ED-lc8qk7 ай бұрын

    On point! Thanks for sharing, this helped to bring increased clarity. I have an increased respect for Jesus as HE went through everything literally, so I can too. Thanks!

  • @brewerville1502
    @brewerville15027 ай бұрын

    Can I say I am awaiting the man after God's own heart. I found you all 3 weeks ago and addicted to the truth you both teach and Honoring God Almighty with no apologies. Thank you Jesus for his Truth in both of you

  • @johntesfay3621
    @johntesfay36217 ай бұрын

    Yessssirrrrr ❤

  • @user-hg3cn1yy8f
    @user-hg3cn1yy8f4 ай бұрын

    Y’all sooo cuteee🥰♥️♥️♥️

  • @sirdaniel159
    @sirdaniel1597 ай бұрын

    Ken the drip is insane !

  • @lyannajordan1997
    @lyannajordan19976 ай бұрын

    Thank you guys for being so vulnerable and obedient to the Holy Spirit. So many things were revealed and understood through this video. One powerful thing to take away from it was though I may have been freed from pornography addiction, it doesn’t necessarily mean I won’t be tempted anymore. So speaking of ways to overcome temptation vs addiction that was powerful & effective

  • @Maliayh85
    @Maliayh8511 күн бұрын

    God bless you both, this is really helping me but I can’t help but to notice that you keep calling out her stuff. And it seems you’re not calling out your own REAL issues you may struggling with. Thanks for what you do.

  • @TytianaBurgess
    @TytianaBurgess6 ай бұрын

    I love this unity and the knowledge Ken gives , Please stop calling Tabitha out 😂 she has a story and sooo transparent which is a good tool to use also for this channel

  • @John-oekumene2023
    @John-oekumene20236 ай бұрын

    Hello from Germany Hamburg. This a testimony! Thank God my marriage went through a hard time and now we are through the valley. Always reaching out to Jesus. Now since two month I am struggling with smoking again. I went on my balcony to listen to your video for strengthening my position as a husband guided by the Holy Spirit. I smoke a cigarette and listen to your conversation and didn’t expect that the topic of smoking will come up. It touches my heart. Thank you for your work. You are a blessing. Greetings from a Christian living together community of 15 different confessions in Hamburg Hafen city. I will follow you from now on and I have high respect for your work. Keep going. Thank you too much! Have blessed weekend

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    6 ай бұрын

    You will be made free, in Jesus Name! Thanks for watching!

  • @MrJR82
    @MrJR827 ай бұрын

  • @CatchClarisa08
    @CatchClarisa087 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 y'all are too funny!

  • @ernestgillam9992
    @ernestgillam99927 ай бұрын

    Pastor Ken, love ya brother but that word "you did everything" rubs your wife the wrong way. Lol Y'all are such good friends. I love it!

  • @ayanilanique02
    @ayanilanique027 ай бұрын

    That random thought is so real,t those the devil thoughts 😂

  • @jearodz
    @jearodz7 ай бұрын

    @Ken and Tabatha, it's a good topic, but I could barely hear it, can you increase the volume, Please!!

  • @MsAshleyVonne
    @MsAshleyVonne7 ай бұрын

    My boyfriend sent me this videos, and I can't bring myself to continue to watch. In every episode he finds a way to put down, throw under the bus, be condescending, belittle, throw a shot/shade at/towards his wife.

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    7 ай бұрын

    Sorry that you feel this way. Definitely not belittling my wife, we have a way of messing around with each other. I love her, honor her, and will not put her down. I pray you can get over that and don’t miss the message that we are putting out

  • @LoveLee_

    @LoveLee_

    2 ай бұрын

    We can’t watch these videos through the lens of offense. Please don’t miss the message of what they are saying. They are friends as well as partners, not that I know them personally, but I don’t get the sense that he belittles her or puts her down. They just be keeping it real. If you say you love someone, part of loving them is keeping it real. Their chemistry is dope. I don’t sense that negativity at all. Pray before watching, that may help. 🙏🏾

  • @awsambdaman

    @awsambdaman

    4 күн бұрын

    I don’t think he’s being mean I think their relationship has a dynamic where they’re playful but push the boundaries a little on one another. But overarching all that all I see is love to one another and striving to be the best for one another

  • @TinaXinyi
    @TinaXinyiАй бұрын

    Can someone kindly point me to the right directions on the Bible verse he’s talking about? Those seven points he talked about sexual immorality and where in the Bible that Jesus was tempered. Going to really dig into Gods words this time. My struggle is protecting my heard and that starting with the thought.

  • @georginakinuthia8970
    @georginakinuthia89709 күн бұрын

    Ken exposing Tabatha is so funny... subtle shade

  • @StephanieEno-st6xf
    @StephanieEno-st6xf6 ай бұрын

    I guess if ur in a relationship this would be great .. I’m happy to be wit self and not sharing tho wit. Anyone

  • @aliciabuford7708
    @aliciabuford77084 ай бұрын

    MAKE HOLINESS KOOL AGAIN!

  • @eleonorethein5791
    @eleonorethein57916 ай бұрын

    I have a question,? I have been married to my husband for 48 years, he had prostate cancer two years ago and the doctors had to remove his sexual organ, my question is whether oral sex with your partner is a sin? No one can give me a satisfactory answer, neither can the bible, there is nothing about this in the bible, thank you for your answer.

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    6 ай бұрын

    It is definitely not a sin to have oral sex with your spouse. I hope this helps 🙏🏾

  • @lee-oy3ir
    @lee-oy3irАй бұрын

    you should apologize to her that was mean 😭 10:14

  • @tylerwilliams72
    @tylerwilliams726 ай бұрын

    I felt that random urge to just take someone’s stuff just cause it’s left alone. Like what wrong with me

  • @awsambdaman

    @awsambdaman

    4 күн бұрын

    Sounds like pride. You think that you can take peoples stuff and get away with it. And maybe you can legally. I had an issue with stealing when I was younger and my thoughts were “I’m so smart I can play this under the radar and no one will ever know, I can fool all these people”. But I stopped because 1) I almost got caught and 2) I realized that I want to be a good man. And a good man is honorable and doesn’t hide things under the rug. He pays his way and earns what he has

  • @katlehomahlophe6513
    @katlehomahlophe65136 ай бұрын

    "Its been written by LeBron James"😂😂😂😂

  • @rukevweohwojero2396

    @rukevweohwojero2396

    4 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @theprophetictype36
    @theprophetictype367 ай бұрын

    😂😂,