5 Qualities to Look for in a Wife with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Embark on a transformative episode into what makes a marriage survive and thrive. We dive deep into the five qualities of a godly wife. Whether you're a woman striving to grow in these virtues or a man seeking a lifelong companion, this episode promises to enrich your understanding of love beyond the superficial.
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  • @sveltelee5545
    @sveltelee5545Ай бұрын

    Shout out to all my Proverbs 31 women preparing for marriage!! You got this!

  • @balletstar72

    @balletstar72

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you! God working on me ❤😊

  • @estherndungu590

    @estherndungu590

    28 күн бұрын

    Amen 🙏☺️

  • @christy183
    @christy183Ай бұрын

    "Do not fall for the things that are good, but wait on the things that are GOD." Oh, amen (Matthew 6:33).

  • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012

    @virginiechristinemangaonan3012

    29 күн бұрын

    That hits hard❤

  • @justgetitDLC

    @justgetitDLC

    28 күн бұрын

    This verse hits hard.

  • @LoratoPhefo
    @LoratoPhefoАй бұрын

    Your videos make me feel like marriage is such a beautiful thing. I’m one of those women who absolutely had a flawed understanding of submission. But the way you describe it makes me feel like it’s something worthy and possible and honorable, and also glorifying to our Lord. To me it sounded like dictatorship. It’s never been described in depth the way you have so thank you so much. Finding your podcasts at the time we are planning our wedding has been such a huge blessing 🙌🏾

  • @Raven.Sunflower

    @Raven.Sunflower

    Ай бұрын

    This fills my heart with joy to read! Marriage, as intended by God, is a wonderful gift 🕊️♥️. Embracing submission is a beautiful way to honor God and truly demonstrates remarkable strength and grace. 🌸 Congratulations, and may love and blessings accompany you and your future husband on your journey ahead. 🙏🏾🌷

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    21 күн бұрын

    We love to hear that our podcast can be a blessing to you! Glory to God. We appreciate your support. Stay tuned every Thursday :)

  • @ApexHunter89
    @ApexHunter8928 күн бұрын

    I can’t remember where I heard this but it was GOOD. If a woman isn’t a wife before you get married, she probably won’t be after either. Being a wife is a mentality and posture, not a piece of paper, ceremony or ring on her finger. There’s no magic that happens on a wedding day - it’s a confirmation and acknowledgment of what’s already there.

  • @jackiebuhle

    @jackiebuhle

    18 күн бұрын

    This is good👏🏾👏🏾

  • @nyamushagibridget9853
    @nyamushagibridget985322 күн бұрын

    Nothing but love for these ones.....theyre feeding us and guiding us in the things of the Lord

  • @torip9444
    @torip9444Ай бұрын

    I am currently in my waiting season and trusting in God with the most faith that he will show me my putting God 1st Kingdom Husband. We will love on God together keeping him 1st and center of our union. I will have a partner to fast with , go to church with, and just all around praise God with finally. In the meantime I will continue to live my life in obedience to my Lord and savior reserving my temple.

  • @TheRena1969
    @TheRena1969Ай бұрын

    Amen thank you God for Confirmation 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 for my marriage next month on May 15 we will be married 27 years and been together 36 years🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012

    @virginiechristinemangaonan3012

    29 күн бұрын

    Congratulations in Jesus name

  • @brendabenavidez1910

    @brendabenavidez1910

    19 күн бұрын

    Congrats

  • @priscillafumadorh7186

    @priscillafumadorh7186

    10 күн бұрын

    Thank you ❤ Ken and Tabatha

  • @jnew251
    @jnew251Ай бұрын

    Man this episode just made me apperricate my wife even more she processes all those qualities to the t God bless I love this podcast

  • @christopherrose7785
    @christopherrose7785Ай бұрын

    Thank you Ken and Tabatha for your encouragement and spiritual advice on making your marriage great through biblical scriptures. God bless you both.🖤🙏🏾

  • @Lafashionista862
    @Lafashionista862Ай бұрын

    Can we have a video on how to be a cheerleader and lift your man up ? People say this all the time but a lot of us have not seen it so as easy as people say it is. This is beyond foreign to me. But I want to learn. Encouragement is not my love language and it’s not something I’ve ever been given. I only experienced physical touch/affection and the ones around me tore down a lot of my goals

  • @savonnastaggs4664
    @savonnastaggs466412 күн бұрын

    Just got the chills!! That's the spirit, joining and blessing this podcast

  • @marycannon6046
    @marycannon6046Ай бұрын

    Yes, you and your PRECIOUS wife did give us your VERY best, today!! Thank you!!

  • @khensanimnisi1276
    @khensanimnisi12764 күн бұрын

    Was giving up on LOVE,but the LORD led me to your podcast I really see and understand things differently as I listen to your teachings many many thanks 🙏.

  • @lufuifisofojefedafa2976
    @lufuifisofojefedafa2976Ай бұрын

    Seek first the kingdom of God.

  • @valentine_music
    @valentine_music29 күн бұрын

    I have now found my Proverbs 31 Woman. Thanks for this episode. All boxes ticked. God Bless. Keep up with the good work !

  • @morowell2473
    @morowell24738 күн бұрын

    Praise the Most High for your healing Tab!!! You are a teaching us how to overcome by your testimony!!! Rev. 12:11

  • @brendabenavidez1910
    @brendabenavidez191019 күн бұрын

    I am that Proverbs 31 women preparing for marriage!!

  • @Rutietootie
    @RutietootieАй бұрын

    Tab your hair is looking beautiful!!

  • @fritzsmith1479
    @fritzsmith14794 күн бұрын

    I enjoyed Watching/Listening to this! SOLID Godly Advice!

  • @terenpartee3066
    @terenpartee30667 күн бұрын

    I have watched a few of these videos and they have helped me tremendously. Also I can’t help but say how I see the love in Tabitha and Ken eyes when they talk to each other. ♥️

  • @LoveLee_
    @LoveLee_Ай бұрын

    I’m so glad I’ve come across this channel during my singleness. Taking notes before marriage 📝 y’all are helping me, thank you!! 🙏🏾

  • @Christcitywpb
    @ChristcitywpbАй бұрын

    Love you guys, Lady Tabitha you did an amazing job at the ARC conference 2024!!!! I was there and I saw you bring the house down in 10mins. God bless you both. Please keep me in my husband/pastor in prayer we are trusting God for building campaign

  • @Megan_Alexis
    @Megan_Alexis19 күн бұрын

    🙌🏾 YESS so grateful to God for headship and leadership.

  • @lasharnyoungsam5874
    @lasharnyoungsam5874Ай бұрын

    Absolutely loved the way this was articulated, especially by you Ken👏🏾. God bless you both❤️

  • @reginalove6201
    @reginalove6201Ай бұрын

    🔥🔥🔥🔥as always!!

  • @Erikaisfavored
    @ErikaisfavoredАй бұрын

    Another great segment.

  • @cynthiawambui-re7wq
    @cynthiawambui-re7wqАй бұрын

    Beautifully and clearly put!

  • @Raven.Sunflower
    @Raven.SunflowerАй бұрын

    New subscriber! I've listened to both parts, and they are incredibly enriching and uplifting! It's truly refreshing to witness others passionately standing for the Lord's design for marriage, a beautiful covenant 🕊️🌸May God continue to bless you both abundantly!

  • @patriciahamer3741
    @patriciahamer3741Ай бұрын

    Very good!

  • @ChristFan868
    @ChristFan868Ай бұрын

    So timely. Love you guys. Thank you.

  • @crystallatrece3545
    @crystallatrece3545Ай бұрын

    Sooooo good! Thank you!❤

  • @adoyicecilia7105
    @adoyicecilia7105Ай бұрын

    I have been anticipating this. Thank you so much

  • @blackgoldhourwmerv9886
    @blackgoldhourwmerv9886Ай бұрын

    This was a great watch! Thank you both! 🙏🏾

  • @Elizacolvin-dl7xb
    @Elizacolvin-dl7xbАй бұрын

    Aghhhh SO FRUITFUL! I’ve been thinking a lot about my husband (whom I have yet to meet) and the qualities I desire. I realized I had to ask myself these very same things and prayed to God to search my heart and help me grow in wifely ways! Thank you for this Word of Wisdom! Really would Love if you could talk about.. how to identify my husband or wife and trusting Gods will over my want. Thank you both again ❤️❤️

  • @marilynekokaetouman2678
    @marilynekokaetouman2678Ай бұрын

    Great episode thank you!

  • @RAINSHOWER1217
    @RAINSHOWER1217Ай бұрын

    I’m so glad I bumped into this. It’s something I need! Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @feliciaroschauer891
    @feliciaroschauer891Ай бұрын

    Amen to this🙏🏽 Thank you🤍

  • @WorshipperKW
    @WorshipperKWАй бұрын

    Thanks so much for this 🙏🏾

  • @sthompson8873
    @sthompson8873Ай бұрын

    Thank you for being REAL! This was so good! 😊

  • @aryelbrown
    @aryelbrownАй бұрын

    🔥🔥🔥 Thank God for this ministry!

  • @shantakoa8596
    @shantakoa8596Ай бұрын

    Great information ❤thank you for the confirmation and the godly word. I will continue to pray and wait. God bless. Amen

  • @queenconscious2989
    @queenconscious2989Ай бұрын

    Sooo good. This is absolutely on point! ❤

  • @jifunzekiingerezanadorothy
    @jifunzekiingerezanadorothy26 күн бұрын

    So good ❤❤❤

  • @estherndungu590
    @estherndungu59028 күн бұрын

    Am single and i admit that watching your broadcast has been of great helped to me As a young Christian and also throughout my singlehood.

  • @tashanifrater4028
    @tashanifrater4028Ай бұрын

    This was so good, great ministry ❤❤

  • @chidimmanwakasi3644
    @chidimmanwakasi3644Ай бұрын

    Thanks you ❤😊

  • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012
    @virginiechristinemangaonan301229 күн бұрын

    God bless your work❤

  • @ericaanderson4769
    @ericaanderson476921 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @Abbas_Daughters
    @Abbas_Daughters26 күн бұрын

    Amazing Episode 💕💕💕👏🏾🙌🏾

  • @user-cb6gp5lt7w
    @user-cb6gp5lt7w26 күн бұрын

    This is incredible. Thank you

  • @maryannkiburi9908
    @maryannkiburi9908Ай бұрын

    I’m always learning and relearning from your podcast. God bless you both 🙏.

  • @michelletrausi3071
    @michelletrausi3071Ай бұрын

    What a great podcast! So much good information. Thank you Pastors for breaking it down. Today you put it all into perspective for me. Thank you and thank God for all he is doing in you and through you. ❤

  • @rebuiltbygrace
    @rebuiltbygraceАй бұрын

    So enjoyed your teachings today at the marriage Conference. This was a great Podcast.

  • @xolakoti4561
    @xolakoti4561Ай бұрын

    Amen to this!!! God bless you and this ministry. I pray it reaches a multitude of people.❤ God is doing a great work here🎉

  • @the_realsharisse
    @the_realsharisse20 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video, I am single currently but I believe that God is preparing me for His son. I never saw an healthy marriage before and I’m in my late thirties. My mother and Dad never gotten married, but my mom had gotten married twice. Dad never gotten married 😮‍💨 so yeah 🤷🏾‍♀️. But I’m grateful for Daddy God , because He’s teaching me through some healthy, successful marriages. And you guys are one of them, thank you again for all the wisdom. I’ll make sure that I’ll share my God written Love Story with you when it happens, God bless 🤗

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    19 күн бұрын

    We are glad our podcast can be a blessing to you! Stay tuned for a new episode today :)

  • @HowTo5min-co3ni
    @HowTo5min-co3ni26 күн бұрын

    Just discovering this channel. You guys are helping people keep it up! Good content by the way.

  • @napturalee_8815
    @napturalee_881528 күн бұрын

    Tabatha I appreciate your vulnerability for your part in this episode because I’ve been through every single thing you’ve mentioned! During this time of my life I’m learning and building myself from the ground up and you all are helping me so much!

  • @danielarubiio
    @danielarubiioАй бұрын

    Been here since November 🥳

  • @tendaiyvonnenyoni9448
    @tendaiyvonnenyoni9448Ай бұрын

    So true helpful information about what makes a good relationship between wives & husbands

  • @themarro6695
    @themarro6695Ай бұрын

    Excellent episode! So thankful for your ministry Ken and Tabatha. I love the way you compliment each other ❤

  • @Blue77Blue
    @Blue77BlueАй бұрын

    THE OFFICE IN BOTH BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT IT IS!!!

  • @jandremuller9928
    @jandremuller9928Ай бұрын

    Great episode. Open some eyes

  • @abena7826
    @abena782629 күн бұрын

    Thanks for pouring into us! Such an enlightening conversation. God bless you 💗

  • @rockymountainprincess9078
    @rockymountainprincess907813 күн бұрын

    Your ministry is a true blessing 🙏. Thank you for all you do for the body of Christ❤.

  • @NicoleGVictory
    @NicoleGVictoryАй бұрын

    Glory to God. Blessings to your family and all of us in Jesus name amen 💗🙏🏼

  • @Delightful_Dia
    @Delightful_Dia23 күн бұрын

    Beautifully said; clear and precise. Thank you for your sharing your wisdom and understanding.

  • @brendabenavidez1910
    @brendabenavidez191019 күн бұрын

    You guys have really beng helping me .. Thank you and God Bless

  • @SoldierOfYWH
    @SoldierOfYWH28 күн бұрын

    Pastor you’re speaking facts, a woman’s looks does not come before her dedication/love for God! no bueno! it is a must to see the fruit of God in her, in her behavior and actions

  • @CatchClarisa08
    @CatchClarisa0827 күн бұрын

    I enjoy this show so much! You two are my favorite people. Tabitha is so beautiful! I love the hair color❤

  • @lanaib_
    @lanaib_29 күн бұрын

    God is changing me to be more of a wife thank you for this video!❤

  • @brendabenavidez1910
    @brendabenavidez191019 күн бұрын

    I'm waiting on God .. i will watch this again ty

  • @michaelsane.1729
    @michaelsane.1729Ай бұрын

    AMEN‼️

  • @sherylsmith279
    @sherylsmith27928 күн бұрын

    Yes! Great perspective…love the word! Also let us remember the husband, is to provide for his wife. (1 Timothy 5:8.) The trend seems to be women must come to the table with tangible things. I believe that her heart posture is what’s important… she should not have a gold digger mentality, but bringing something material is not a criteria. Let’s remember we are a helpmeet (Genesis 2:18.). We honor and respect our husbands. If they love us, we will respect them naturally. Yes, it is however wise for women to have an income.

  • @jenniferreynoso8231
    @jenniferreynoso8231Ай бұрын

    Great video! Are you two from Arizona? I see your hat says Patagonia. :)

  • @praisegirl264
    @praisegirl264Ай бұрын

    Love the podcast! You two or amazing. And I do believe we must put god first. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ We need him and I we will be miserable without him. And I do not want a man who don't put god first before me. Either you put god first or you want get me. I do not have anymore time to waste on the wrong mate. Thus I s it for me ...

  • @KJ47_
    @KJ47_Ай бұрын

    Much Love To You Guys, Ken u went crazy this episode ‼️ These Gems u dropped will help many future marriages including my future marriage, Glory be to God ❤

  • @mikecarter523
    @mikecarter523Ай бұрын

    Pastor Ken can't be letting them barber shop conversations out! He breaking the man code 🤣🤣🤣

  • @theworldsbestmom8082
    @theworldsbestmom808227 күн бұрын

    Wish I saw this 3 years ago

  • @mercyjohn9734
    @mercyjohn9734Ай бұрын

    Wow I just noticed I am a red flag .... definitely need to change

  • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012

    @virginiechristinemangaonan3012

    29 күн бұрын

    You are on the right path Remain blessed❤

  • @nyamushagibridget9853
    @nyamushagibridget985322 күн бұрын

  • @DioniWise87
    @DioniWise87Ай бұрын

    The whole episode is a gem! 💎 Watch it all! But if you want to go directly to the 5 qualities, then go to 20:24.

  • @Blue77Blue
    @Blue77BlueАй бұрын

    WHEN IT IS ONLY BASE ON HUSK!!!

  • @Lifeafteryes
    @LifeafteryesАй бұрын

    📝📝❤❤✨✨🔥🔥

  • @julebymkl3068
    @julebymkl306829 күн бұрын

    Yes! Men and women understand the power of women 😂😂😂

  • @marinachoban2607
    @marinachoban260729 күн бұрын

    Now I’m worried I’m not wife material😥 cuz I get stressed out easily and take things close to heart, and have insecurities😔 What do I do?

  • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012

    @virginiechristinemangaonan3012

    29 күн бұрын

    If asked, i would tell you to understand that, first, you are not perfect. You got flaws. Then, you need to know , believe and act as the worthy lady you are. Not laying your identity on a man but on GOD ONLY. You are loved by God as He sent His only begotten son to die on the cross for the salvation of our sins. You deserve to love for real and be loved for real.❤

  • @ram47863

    @ram47863

    19 күн бұрын

    Surrender to god, ask God help to make you more relaxed

  • @andrewims1321
    @andrewims1321Ай бұрын

    Finding a good Christian woman can be difficult. Especially when sex is off the table.

  • @torip9444

    @torip9444

    Ай бұрын

    Good morning. I'm not trying to sound like a debate team here, I understand where you're coming from because it is the same for us women. What I have grown to learn is that a person can't truly call themselves a follower of Christ if they can't give up those temptations, esp premarital sex for the Glory of God and being pleasing to him. I had to check myself because of a slip up with falling into temptation, knowing it was wrong in the eyes of God. I made sure to repent and have not turned back to my mistake. Is it difficult to leave sex off the table? Yes, but not impossible. It is manageable to overcome by calling on Jesus for renewal of the mind, body, and spirit.

  • @andrewims1321

    @andrewims1321

    Ай бұрын

    @@torip9444 well spoken sister. Continue to put your faith into the Lord.

  • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012

    @virginiechristinemangaonan3012

    29 күн бұрын

    ​@@torip9444 Preach louder❤

  • @lanaib_

    @lanaib_

    29 күн бұрын

    @@torip9444thank you so much for this comment!

  • @whitneytash2622

    @whitneytash2622

    8 күн бұрын

    No one wants sexual purity anymore...

  • @1STELDER
    @1STELDERАй бұрын

    1st