3:10 Make Allah your main concern 7:00 Love and affection 10:30 Special routine 11:47 Passion and interests 14:00 Fulfilling sexual needs 14:52 Praying to Allah 15:40 Men need to be respected 17:48 Social media 18:24 Laughing rules 18:33 Make your home 19:30 Crucial points on contact with non mahrams 21:34 20:07 What does domestic bliss look like 21:23 Everything about you should be… 22:12 Conflict is inevitable 24:22 Self reflection and apologising 24:50 Everyone gets angry 25:55 Don’t be disrespectful 27:04 People aren’t mind readers 28:30 Sleep on it and snuggle it out 29:05 Avoid arguing infront of kids 29:32 Holding grudges and learning to forgive 29:50 Keep a sense of humour 30:48 Being a uniter and not a divider 31:26 Relationships with in-laws and parents 34:03 Don’t try and keep up with Joneses and don’t ever pay interest 35:02 Only complain to Allah and be grateful 36:33 The little things that irritate you: everyone has flaws 37:22 Happiness Vs Contentment: Don’t take one another for granted 37:58 Have a mentor in marriage: Needs to be a Muslim 39:40 Soar spiritually 40:28 Your spouse comes first 40:55 Grow spiritually together

@ummeismaeel9545

4 ай бұрын

jazakallahu khairan

@bhaagyam307

3 ай бұрын

❤

@SomethingaboutScreens

3 ай бұрын

Jazakallahu khayran!😊✨

@amannahossain06

3 ай бұрын

The main thing is..these advice is for those who's in their right mind😢..apart from that everything was been followed.. But if you don't have a right mind..then nothing works.😢

@hiwarda

3 ай бұрын

Jazakallahukhair!

I have just learned more from you in 41 minutes than I have in the last 69 years of my life. I have been thinking of becoming Muslim for a while now and your talk is gently pushing me closer to that reality. Thank you so much for this video!

@MCCEastBay

4 ай бұрын

Please let us know if there’s anything we can do to help. Praying for your success in this life and in the next!

@manala2873

4 ай бұрын

I invite you to read the Quran

@mouctardiallo9062

4 ай бұрын

May Allah make it easy for you embrace Islam wholeheartedly and keep u steadfast

@Blaze0071

4 ай бұрын

​@@manala2873they'll need to be gently guided into that

@superwoman7397

4 ай бұрын

Pray to the Almighty that he guides you to the straight path 😊

She looks 30 years old. That in itself shows how happy she is 😊

@littleriri

3 ай бұрын

right? May Allah continue to bless her marriage ameen

@Aymana44

2 ай бұрын

Yo❤😊😊

@nuuhaa3294

Ай бұрын

Ikrr Ma sha Allahh

When she said make Allah ur fisrt love, I hit the like button.

She looks so happy, her face lights up whenever she mentions her husband, it's beautiful to see

Mash Allah, 30 years! Could I also have her beauty secrets! She looks in her 20's Mash Allah. A pure heart is probably what it is.😊😊

@freemanontheland507

4 ай бұрын

Ma shaa Allah...

@katestigsdotter

4 ай бұрын

TabarakAllah ❤

@katielarsen2630

3 ай бұрын

Seriously I thought she was 20 years old tabarak Allah

@yasirmunazzah

3 ай бұрын

She’s happy in her marriage so it did not age her. May Allah bless our marriages. Iv benefited loads

@momofpreciouspearls3124

3 ай бұрын

@@yasirmunazzahAllahumma baarik, may Allah bless her marriage

This woman is a blessing to humanity, married, soon to be married, and/or divorced couples. May Allah protect and bless her 🤲🏽📿

What does a woman want from a man? In short, the foremost thing she needs is security. She does not want a husband who makes her live in fear, like the one who often threatens her with marrying someone besides her (i.e. with a second marriage). Or he makes her feel that his friends and his gatherings with them are more important than sitting with her. Or because of his constant, long, unrestrained staring at women he makes her feel that he may abandon her (anytime). She wants a husband who respects her... and who consults her... and who does not belittles her... and who praises her beauty... her talks... her cooking (food)... and he does not degrades her in front of others. She wants her husband to give her tender loving care which she (badly) needs after long tiring work around the house, and with taking care of his kids. She wants true love... which makes her feel that out of all the women (in the world), her husband has only chosen her. Love which touches her feminity (i.e. makes her feel like she is a woman) . O husband! Do not be niggardly in spending over her (needs)... and fear Allaah regarding her rights... for she is one of the two weak ones... about whom the Prophet ﷺ advised us to take care of. 📚 [Shaikh Muhammad Ibn Umar Baazmool]

@D-A-N-

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for that, I will apply this In Sha Allah.

@Ambrin1987

4 ай бұрын

You're welcome 🙂

@ks-io3lc

3 ай бұрын

Beautifully written sister !!

@nooraljawad

2 ай бұрын

Not the best translation given it’s using the n word

@ayshasyraj

Ай бұрын

Thank you

Thank you ❤ I just ended a little grudge I was holding against my husband . You advices calmed me and made me realise it’s not worth it

@MCCEastBay

4 ай бұрын

It is a comment like this one that makes us feel that our work is worth it. May Allah bless you and your marriage! Aameen.

@Ll_jfdk

3 ай бұрын

@@MCCEastBayAmeen

Married 24 yrs and this is so true. ESPECIALLY the triangle. when a spouse distances from Allah it really affects the marriage...and when they return, it renews the love.

@Blaze0071

4 ай бұрын

Distances from Allah? You mean are close to Allah

@Gnabaj02

3 ай бұрын

No, they mean when a spouse is distant from Allah it negatively effects the marriage , as opposed to when they are close to Allah the marriage is good.

5 ways of love like providing service,time,gifts,verbal affirmation,talking things what we like

Even if I am unmarried yet, I learned a lot watching this video. Shukuren !!!

Hina, you have taught me so much in this video. I pray Allah blesses you and your husband & children with so much blessings & happiness. You’ve reminded me to remain calm and humble. Although this talk is on spouses, it oddly enough has changed me as an individual. The way I speak to my mum, my dad, my friends, family etc.. has all changed. This advice is not only for husband and wife but also for families.

@MCCEastBay

3 ай бұрын

This type of feedback means more to us than you’ll ever know! Thank you for your thoughtful comment, and Aameen to your beautiful dua.

Neither i. Am married nor committed but have listened to this very eagerly . All credit goes to this beautiful lady by explaining so beautifully and in very easy way

I was hesitant to listen, but I don’t regret it at all, Thank you for these precious advices. BaarakaAllah feek

This was one of, if not the best, marriage health and marital advice lectures/talks I've ever listened to.

She said 30 years of marriage. To me she looks like a 20 years old girl… MashaAllah.

I do not have enough words to thank you, may Allah reward you the best for giving such beautiful advice for marriage issues

I am 20 years old unmarried girl .....but loved all advices insha allah it will be helpful for me in future ❤

Fantastic lecture on marriage, this should be turned into a YEAR long course where the participants MUST change as they go through this program and should have workshops throughout the year. Advice and lectures are first steps but without actions, it only becomes intellectual knowledge and Islam is not a religion of just consumption of lectures…

Thank you, Jazak Allah Khair!

JazakAllahkhair sister.

Great talk jazakumullah.

Jazakum Allah Khairun, Duayn

JazakAllah Khayr ❤

JazakAllah for sharing

Jazakillah kheir 😊

JazakaAllah khair for sharing, and Allahuma Barik lahum

Loved this, thank you for the talk!

Beautiful lecture! Jazak ALLAH.

Solid advice great video

Thank you for the wonderful advices.

Really great reminder

Jazakaaah kher for such an amazing speech!! So useful

Maa sha Allah, Jazak Allah khairan

beautiful piece.

So insightful

JAZAKALLAH KHAIR ❤

So beautiful... Thank u so much, learnt so much.. need to be shared widely..

Much useful information sister, thank you.

Great video. Jazakallah khair.

Thanks!Mashallah!May Allah bless you are all.

Alhamdulillah! Good Sharing Thanks

MaShaAllah she looks sooo young🤗😍😍😍

@Blaze0071

4 ай бұрын

I know right. Barakallahu fiha

What an incredible recording. Thank You for sharing all the knowledge, Mashallah ✨

Best lecture ever. Thank you ❤❤❤

Maa shaa Allah ♥️ stay blessed 😊

Mashallaah great advice May Allah protect our marital

Thank you for the advice. Look forward to having a harmonious family.

Such valuable advice. Jazaki Allahu khairan.

Shukran for these priceless advices Apa! Marriage is not a bed of roses but rather a garden of flowers we walk through together embracing the beautiful ones and cutting out the bad ones

Assalamualaikum, First of all, my wife needs to see this video (which I already sent her). We have been married for 7 years now, yet no baby. Alhamdouli'Allah we keep hoping and trying. It is such a blessing to learn from an expert in mariage. The little details outlined are of a great importance. Thank you for your efforts....may Allah SWT keeps us steadfast and always guide us on His right path. Ameen

@MCCEastBay

3 ай бұрын

May Allah bless you with a righteous and healthy progeny in an easy and timely manner! Aameen

@simmran01

3 ай бұрын

Aameen!

Thank you jazakallah khair

From Algeria , thank for your lecture ❤

SubahanAllah Allah SWT bless you and your family in Jannahtul Ferdous

Mashaallah allahuma barik. This was a really informative talk about marriage and i love how practical it seems to be

Such a good marriage talk Mash'Allah 😊

Honestly this was such a beautiful talk, I really like the words you used, very impactful

Jazakillahu khair ❤much grateful

What a beautiful talk from the sister, unfortunately my wife and I have separated this year I’m not going to mock her or anything we both had our shortcomings I wish nothing just the best I hope Allah grants her the best of husbands, marriage is so difficult but if you are about to marry soon inshallah listen to this talk very closely it’s such amazing advice mashallah from our sister, May Allah make it easier on you all Inshallah in your marriages

Salaam. What an amazing talk. So many pearls of wisdom in so little time. . Jazakallah.

MashaAllah thank you very much it's really amazing ❤

Great to see you provide good guidelines, in perspective of islam

Mashaa Allah great lecture, may Allah bless you with more beneficial knowledge Amin

These 41mins felt like 4 mins, thanks for sharing such lot of info

Alhamdulillah! May Allah bless and reward you for sharing.

Alhamdulillah MashaAllah such beautiful pieces of advise. May Allah blesses you for your good deeds

Thanks ❤

Great , To the point , positive and very instructive to any couple .

excellent lecture I salute your wonderful deliberations

Jazakala Khair from South Africa 🤲🤲🤲❤️

MashAllah wonderful advice. I feel every piece of advice is applicable to both husband and wife.

Seems like a grounded, faithful person. Lovely smile!

I love this woman , may Allah bless her for spreading kind words and give her ajar for her kind work

Mashallah what a thoughtful, well spoken, insightful speech. Thank you and thank God for these gems of wisdom

Great talk, Allah protect you and your family

Dear ! May Allah reward you thousand fold for such beautiful advice ! Mashaallah you are the embodiment of your speech , may Allah keep you safe and happy ( ever after as they say 😊 , Jazakallah kheir

Brilliant talk mashallah

Allahumma barik thanks for sharing 👍.

Bless her. She is very wise and lovely lady. Mashallah

Ma sha Allah this is amazing advice. I have learnt so much from this. ❤ But sadly there are so many men in the sub continent who don’t treat their wives as equals and advice like this does nothing for the poor wives. May Allah guide our ummah Allahumma aameen

@shaziaijaz5863

5 ай бұрын

Yes true and in USA it's opposite these days girls are like sub continent husbands.

@IndianSumaira

5 ай бұрын

This is those wives test, Allah surely loves them alot

@MCCEastBay

4 ай бұрын

Sister Hina mentioned at the beginning of her talk that the tips listed here do NOT work for those people who are suffering from debilitating addictions, vices, personality disorders, or mental health struggles. The advice here only works for those who are coming from a certain frame of mind. May Allah make it easy for all!

@ashmash4563

4 ай бұрын

@@IndianSumaira that is true. I hace friends who are suffering for no reason of theirs. SubhanAllah the whole culture is different back home. Like you said it’s their test and may Allah reward them. And may Allah guide our men to treat them properly. Allahumma aameen

@ashmash4563

4 ай бұрын

@@MCCEastBay aameen! I was just focusing on the fact that the privilege most of us women who live in the west have compared to the Indian subcontinent. Ma sha Allah this video is the most beneficial video I ever came across about marriage. Not a single second was wasted or digressed from the topic. May Allah reward sister Hina immensely for her service to deen. Allahumma aameen

I pray Allah continues to bless her marriage ❤

Thankyou so much 😭😭😭may Allah be pleased with you ameen sumameen

Best marriage advice video ever ❤️ May Allah bless you ❤️

Baraka lau feek my dear sister 💕. May Almighty Allah grant you the best reward in this life and hereafter.

Amazingly informative and inspirational. Thank You!

This was absolutely mind blowing !! Too good. Masha Allah. May Allah bless her to deliver more fun videos , Insha Allah 🤲🏻

I am not married but this is so great to listen ❤❤❤

Amazing talk masha Allah

thnaks for sharing

Great lecture

This was such wise advice! JazakAllah khair @Sr. Hina!

MashaAllah, wonderful and useful advice and tips! May Allah Bless you All!

May Allah swt reward you abundantly.

Aslamoalicom Dear Sister HANI. Thanks for your excellent topic you have been selected to expose this information about your personal experience to other brother and sister it's great job to deliver our personal experience and to explain the situation of great relationship between cuapule. The main element Allah relationship it will determine the guide us to right relationship between cuapule. Wish you all the best success and blessing. 💙💚💙💚💜👍

MA SHAA ALLAH, so beautiful really, I really learned so much, May ALLAH SWT keep on blessing you and your family and keep on sending the beautiful advice, IN SHAA ALLAH. ❤❤️

May I get to experience a blissful marriage even though it seems so difficult to come by. I trust Allah to bless me with a good man soon.

@RasikaNishanti-kq1rz

5 ай бұрын

Ameen

@sanamm.1834

5 ай бұрын

Ameen insha Allah :) im Sure Allah swt will bless u with a beautiful marriage

@duceysane3322

3 ай бұрын

Be good woman you will get good man

@hl7806

3 ай бұрын

@@duceysane3322you right but been good doesn’t guarantee a good spouse,Allah chooses,infact Allah test good women mostly with bad husbands. Same with Men too

@kaz9242

Ай бұрын

Good men are easy to find

very good thanks

This is so beautiful to watch, the advice and her peaceful and calming tone, this is masha Allah. May Allah reward you, may we be able to remember these and apply it to our homes ya rabb.

Thank you you, I am always looking for good change and you change me a lot inshallah I will start today ❤❤