Allahu Akbar. Seriously sister. Real talk here! I feel like crying. and I am a man. I dont care what anyone says about not been masculine enough. I thank Allah for blessing me this mind set. I've only watched 20 mins of this video and I've come across some key points you mentioned - 11:42 "A successful marriage is one in which spouses can help each other to gain Allah's pleasure and earn jannah" we have potential spouses and married ones who are too focussed on the dunya aspect. That they don't understand the meaning and blessing of marriage. 12:44 "be intentional" - "verily actions are backed by intention". The spouses are an amanah for each other. Whatever good we do for our spouse, we should have the intention to please Allah. 14:00 "forgetting this is part of my ibadah" - being kind to one spouse, talking in a polite manner, listening to one's spouse, helping around with family and household chores and many small acts are an act of ibadah.

@bewater6684

Жыл бұрын

@@bobbertyboyd2280 If a woman tells you to not cry or is visibly uncomfortable with you crying, most of the time it's because they never saw it before (shock) or they feel unprotected(scared something bad happened or is gonna happen since even u a man is crying). When i saw my father cry for the first time, i felt a insurmountable pain. because he never cried in front of me before, so something bad must have happened to him. It scared me to be honest. Crying from a pious heart is very positively received in Islam as our prophet Muhammad (pbuh) often cried and encouraged us to do so, as the tears are one of the most beloved signs of one's love and fear for Allah.

@majidkhan89

Жыл бұрын

​@King Sultan I didn't say I cried. I said I feel like crying. I guess the reason for my emotions are of 2 reasons. 1. I was previously married in which it lasted a year. I would say that my intention for marriage was pure. To this day I believe I was a Just spouse who did not abuse my power of authority. I treated my spouse with respect, kindness and love. and alhamdulillah, I had and willl continue to have this mindset that whatever good I do for my spouse, is an act of reward from Allah SWT. Unfortunately my spouse did not have that mindset and was concerned about the dunya rather than the akhirah. Which makes me sad. 2. similar to my ex, there are other Muslims out there who are like that. They're too concerned about their wordly life, which then brings a lot of high expectations from either one spouse or both. There are potential spouses who don't have the right intentions for marriage and or don't understand it. some don't even consider a marriage a blessing. it is unfortunately one of the problems with the ummah. We are too distracted by dunya. and that makes me sad and makes me want to cry.

@majidkhan89

Жыл бұрын

@King Sultan I wish I could say that we were happy from the beginning. We were indeed new to marriage. I knew marriage has its ups and down, and I was prepared to make it work and at points go out of my comfort zone. The same can't be said about my spouse. Unfortunately after a year of no affection or intimacy at that, with no real connection or commitment from my other half, I ended our marriage. Alhamdulillah my divorce was smooth with no further issues. This was indeed a test by Allah SWT in how I dealt with, I believe a narcissist. Alhamdulillah Allah gave me patience, and did not lose my temper at any point. I reminded my self that she is not mine even though we were married. That she is one of the slaves of Allah, just like I am to him.

@majidkhan89

Жыл бұрын

@King Sultan indeed brother. Divorce is a very sensitive subject. It's also very sensitive in how you can give divorce. That's why it is recommended for both spouse to go into a marriage with full commitment. That you don't give each other excuses for divorce. Yes after my divorce, her family just took her belonging and left without a word. I dont think they had anything to say or any blame to push towards me.

@majidkhan89

Жыл бұрын

@King Sultan jakallahu khair for the duas. Really appreciate it. May Allah make it easy for everyone and bless them with righteous spouse. And for those who are married, may Allah shower them with mercy and love.

5 keys to a better marriage 1. To be intentional. 2. To embrace gratitude 3. To be Aakhirah focused 4. To be realistic 5. To remember death

@mohammedenayathullakhan6102

Жыл бұрын

Mashaallah wow

@SheikhAlladeen

Жыл бұрын

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@anonymousrider1800

Жыл бұрын

Jazaakallahu

@hassanayahaya6760

Жыл бұрын

Allahu akbar.

@katestigsdotter

Жыл бұрын

I put the number 5 on top 🥺

I’m not a Muslim but I’m blessed by this message. Thanks

@nishitaserunkuma9388

Жыл бұрын

May Allah guide sister Ameen ❤

@maryamabdulrahman4499

Жыл бұрын

Allah guide u and save u amen 🥺💜

@mubarakchris6701

Жыл бұрын

اللهم اهدينا ألي صراتك المستقيم

@junedahmed7153

Жыл бұрын

read about islam you will come to know in religion wise its perfects too

@farhiamohamed5853

Жыл бұрын

Sister you to know the reality Read Quran in English and Bible then compare. it may Allah guide you

I'm not a muslim but this was a message from a very wise woman. More people need to hear this message 💖

@ayeshasiddiqa2

9 ай бұрын

She's Muslim wise woman.

As a revert, Islam has helped me become a better person through the remembrance of death, something I dreaded daily. And thru the remembrance I have become a better wife , mother , friend , daughter and sister Alhamdhulilah. Thank you sister , May Allah bless you and continue to increase you, your message is absolutely amazing!

@Zzucia

Жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah, may Allah grant you Jannah. I feel the same way since practicing.

Am I the only one who could listen to this sister talk all day?

@NaimaBRobertTV

Жыл бұрын

BarakAllahu feekum!

@Theleadersteacher

Жыл бұрын

No it is not only you me too Ma sha Allah

@satran5779

Жыл бұрын

Not at all🥺❤️

@eslmaster

Жыл бұрын

An absolute gift to the ummah, mashaAlllah. May Allah reward her and grant her and us all the best of both worlds. Ameen, ya Rab

@salmaabdulle9150

Жыл бұрын

ماشاءالله even me 💕💕i like her 😍

I am a dad with 4 girls i love my daughter's a lot but my wife does not want to follow the Quran and teaching .please pray for me and my family 👪 as I have my 4 daughter's with me . 🤲💯

@truecomment3650

Жыл бұрын

May Allah guide your wife and bless all your family amin. Make dua brother for your wife and daughters in the middle of the night, Allah will accept you for sure. amin.🤲🤲

@SheikhAlladeen

Жыл бұрын

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@ajasawaneh

Жыл бұрын

May Allah bless her with imaan

@SheikhAlladeen

Жыл бұрын

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@hereist4nd140

10 ай бұрын

Understand that you can not force somebody to follow somethings it's haram little steps and try to be steadfast. Be a good rolemodle treat her well it's us Muslims that make a example. May Allah guide your family to the straight path ameen.

SubhanaAllah! What a touching sermon. Reminds me of my own story. Being a revert, marrying at a young age of 20, I was blessed with the best husband but he was taken away in a blink of an eye! Literally within 5 mins, he returned to his Maker - no illness, at fajr as we prepared suhoor, on Friday the 18th of Ramadhan 3 years ago. Life has never been the same. Raising our children alone, especially our younger daughters who were 3 & 7 then.... going through the most turbulent times and not having a shoulder to lean on, or just that special someone to talk to... Never take your loved one for granted. We really never know how much longer we have with each other. Jazakallahu khair sister for this beautiful talk. May Allah swt bless all couples with love, peace and understanding, and may He swt bless all those looking to marry with sabr, faith and ultimately the coolness of their eyes....aameen

@afrahahmad7393

Жыл бұрын

Subhanallah I had yours too may the Almighty Allah rewards you here and here after

@camarasaran3888

Жыл бұрын

innailaye wa inalilaye raji'un 😭

@rahulshubh8103

Жыл бұрын

Do u want to meet him in Jannah?

@namagandasharifah8781

Жыл бұрын

Amen Yarabi

@bintimurtado1035

Жыл бұрын

May Allaah, make your affairs easy sis, and reward your patience with good, here and Aakhiraa

I’m a man. And I love you sister for the sake of Allah. You speak the truth and speak only good. These are testing times, the Shaytaan has infiltrated our houses using his many tools. His objective is to destroy the family unit so then chaos can ensue in the world. You are doing a service to humanity by holding strong to the Haq. A sister who is trying to guide others to the traditional teachings of our deen. May Allah reward you and use you to help guide our daughters sisters and mothers.

I'm not a Moslem but this sister's counseling has blessed me. God bless you sister.

Am not a Muslim but i got inspired as am learning about marriage

@SheikhAlladeen

Жыл бұрын

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@nishitaserunkuma9388

Жыл бұрын

May Allow guide sister

@SheikhAlladeen

Жыл бұрын

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@habibasalim3092

Жыл бұрын

May Allah bless you and guide you to the success religion Islam,,we muslims stay single for decades without Adultary fornication, because we control bu fasting frequently and du'a and spiritual ayas from Qur'an for removing desire

@BibiRojan-pf2lh

9 ай бұрын

Very sad to hear your story if you was with your husband that night may be you could have save him you would have been there at the moment .because I have that experience with my father he was almost brain dead but alhandulillah I was there at the moment I took him to the hospital and he survived seven years he passed 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ when some one is sick don't wait ♥️ 😢 😄 🎶 😀 💔 ♥️ 😢 😄 🎶 😀 take them to the hospital you could save their lives .

Wallahi sister gave me unbearable goosebumps for reminding me of death! 😞😞😞😞😞

very moving .. i call my mum today to tell her i love her and hug my children...

We all need to hear this message from sister Naima subhanAllah. She woke me up. We live now in a time where the divorce rates are higher than ever! And these unrealistic expectations… ya Allah! You said it so beautifully sis! We are all not perfect we can’t expect to have spouses who don’t have flaws. May Allah forgive us, make us grateful and let us be from those who are focused on the Akhira, Ameen!

Salam alaikum. I wish every married men and women should be listening to this channel so that all the household will be in peace and harmony .

@SheikhAlladeen

Жыл бұрын

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Glory to Al-Mighty who guide me to watch this ♥️

@SheikhAlladeen

Жыл бұрын

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SubhanAllah been 12 mins into watching this but couldnt stop to comment. SubhanAllah so true this is an amanah. My husband passed away 5 months after my marriage he drowned at sea. But now after 26 years and getting married again you have inspired me so much in a different way. Alhamdulillah blessed with 5 children. May Allah swt reward you for all the work you do in this world and thebherafter. Amazed

@NaimaBRobertTV

Жыл бұрын

Ameen! May Allah bless you in all your affairs.

@SheikhAlladeen

Жыл бұрын

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Jazakillah khayr this was a great lecture and I really needed to hear it. My marriage is much better now since I think my mindset has changed - stopped fantasizing about divorce, being more positive, working on my marriage and lots of dua.

Time stamp from the video, if there's any missing tip or point kindly add below _MESSAGE TO MUSLIMS_ TIP 1- Be intentional 12:44 TIP 2- Embrace gratitude 16:45 TIP 3- Be akhira focused 23:25 TIP 4- Be realistic 27:05 TIP 5- Remember death 33:48 "The gap between been realistic and expectation is where frustration lies"

@SheikhAlladeen

Жыл бұрын

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Mad me cried.May Allah bless you for your patience.May Allah keep you and family safe , happy and grant you demised husband Jannathul Firdhous.Aameen. Jazakillah khairan for the good deed.Aameen.

This can apply to all relationships. Jazak Allah Khairun for the great advice

@SheikhAlladeen

Жыл бұрын

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Sister, I am so sorry about your husband. Your story blew my mind. I am highly impressed by your strength and perseverance. May Allah continue to grant you wisdom and strength, ameen.

This is a good lecture .the crisis in marriage is because of bad foundation. A marriage that's not Islamic, doesn't have Allah as the key aspect is bound for failure in a matter of time. Social media, movies, feminism etc have invaded our homes.

@the8thchurch461

Жыл бұрын

Thank goodness for feminism. Women put up with a lot in the past but no more. Men now need to step up if they want to keep a woman.

@mufunyiibrahim3655

Жыл бұрын

@@the8thchurch461 that's what your belief system has lied to women.

@the8thchurch461

Жыл бұрын

@@mufunyiibrahim3655 My belief system? I don't believe in any higher being

@mufunyiibrahim3655

Жыл бұрын

@@the8thchurch461 we follow Islam not people's feelings, opinions or emotions

@the8thchurch461

Жыл бұрын

@@mufunyiibrahim3655 So?

I’m not a Muslim but this was deep Thanks Sister

May Allah grant him jannah. It was emotional to listen to this. We are a young new family and I have a 2.5 year old son and a lovely wife and I can feel the pain of yours and the other sister who's child had died. SubhanAllah

@SheikhAlladeen

Жыл бұрын

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You words change my life

As Salaamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu Sister Na’ima this lecture was DYNAMIC!!!

JazakaAllah Khair sister Baraka Allah feekum. Beautiful Talk and true talk.x

This is powerful Mash'Allah. JazaakaAllahu khairan

SubhanAllah. This is quite inspiring. Jazakillahu khairan. May Allah bless our marriages and make us more intentional from now on.

NGL That opening speech hit home really hard! JazakaAllah khairan sister for the reminder.

This was an amazing video, really got me thinking

Subhana’Allah this is deep very deep. Changed my perspective

I really needed this reminder, JazakAllah Khairan, beautiful reminder.

ma sha Allah tabarakaallah. jazakillah kheyran sister for the advice. our Deen is Naseeha. everyone who comes here learns something. May Allah grant us the goodness of this life and the hereafter. ameen

So illustrious ! جزا ك الله خيرا

Jazak'Allah Kheiran for sharing this dear sis

Alhamdulillah shukran for this message it's well needed.

Good video. Important realistic message. Jazakallahu khayr.

Thank you sis ..you mentioned something things that am going through now ..real talk

Masha Allah, Jazakalahu kheir the piece of advice is👍. You made my day

Thank you so much sister,have came across this video but it has really added value to me and containing a proper mindset about marriage.

Dzhazak Allahu Hairan, my sister❤️❤️❤️

Subhan'Allah such a powerful message

Barack Allahufik sister,i really needed to hear these words.May Allah SWT grant us the ability to bring this in to our lives.

that was a rly good message ❤️ made me cry

I'll listen to this beautiful naseeha again and again and again to make I get all the messages. Ma Shaa Allaah your naseeha is very valuable. Jazaakallaahu khoyran sister 💙

Masha Allah thank you so much sister for this inspiration ❤

Thank you so much! I very much need this.

An eye opening speech Allahumma barik May Allah grant us ease, and hasanat in dunya&akhirah

Thank you sis. The concept of doing things for the sake of Allaah is a deal breaker. Massive!

@NaimaBRobertTV

Жыл бұрын

May Allah help us!

Marvelous lecture, may Allah continues to bless you.

Ma Sha Allah …want to hear it again and again… so true… we need to ponder and work on it.. 🤲🏼Jazakumullah khair

Maasha Allah May Allah bless you Ustaza

Alhamdullilah, Jzk for this talk sister Naima. I cried the whole way through but it was needed. Many points hit home for me. My main take away, *my husband is on a loan to me* and one day he will return to Allah swt, as will I. Life is so short Subhanah'allah, and that in itself we take for granted. My marriage is a blessing, sometimes I forget how long I searched, worked, prayed, and struggled to find my spouse. May Allah swt forgive us for our short comings and continue to guide us towards him, through eachother. Ameen

@NaimaBRobertTV

Жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah, I am so glad it resonated with you! Please do take care of your amanat and share the advice with others, insha Allah.

@lunazara8909

Жыл бұрын

Amin. I also was crying my heart out. Especially when it came to protect the family and the kids.

What a blessing from Allah.. may alkah reward her. We should pass on this vid to everyone we know for real. X

Wow SubhanAllah for discovering you. This is so real, relevant and practical.

JazkiAllah khyer sister. Much needed advice.

I listened to the message some days back, and I find it truly amazing...really learnt alot...may ALLAH honey you sister

Mashallah May Allah SWT gives you the best in both worlds. Ameen

2nd time watching this and definitely sound advice that I will constantly return to jazakAllahu kheyr sister may Allah reward you immensely

Subhanallah! Masha Allah! alhamdhlillah!! What an AMAZING lecture!!! So grateful for this reminder!!! Thankyou so much sister, May Allah grant you gooodnesss for all the mindsets you have changed with this lecture ❤️ immmeense love from Maldives !!!

Thanks for the powerful advice sister❤

Laailaha ilalah this heart-feeling lecture my Allah SWT reward u sis

May Allah continue providing you with such wonderful information for the ummah

As Salaamu Alaikum Sister, Jazak’Allah Khair for this message. I seriously needed to hear this being married for 3 months which is my 3rd marriage. Alhumduillah, Masha’Allah

Wau. so i copied the transcript and put it into my notes because i need to read them and remind myself everyday🥲 its very helpful, and to think that i found sister Naima from another youtube channel and came here out of 'pure coincidence'. It's qadha. Thank you Allah. thank you sister. may Allah bless you Jannah. May Allah bless my little family.

This lecture alone Allah will bless you alot.

Asalamualikumwrwb Jazakillahu Khair for sharing your story. My mother recently went thru the same thing and isn't the same. She had a brain stroke. I was just with her the night before speaking to her and by Fajr, our lives changed. May Allah SWT grant her Shifaaun Kaamilah with 3afiyah. Thank you again.

Jazakumullahkhaira. Fully insightful 🎉.

Sister, you have indeed shared a gift. May Allah reward you for sharing this and may Allah reward us all for implementing it into our marriage and life. Ameen!!

The pain of separation to a child is immense. Please avoid divorce. Especially when you have kids and the marriage is workable. And either of them us trying sincerely. Ego is the enemy and shaitaan works very hard to break families.

@summaiyarobi4915

Жыл бұрын

v true

@siham3325

Жыл бұрын

My husband doesnt talk to me for so many days of the month his mood changes frequently, and he likes to stay away almost half of the night and only comes home while we are asleep, he comes home only for food and just to play with his kids for a while or for a sleep, he never ever takes us out, on top of that we have financial problems, am pregnant with my 3rd baby, and since i got pregnant is rarely intimate with me. So should i not think of divorce?

@drag0nf1y87

Жыл бұрын

@@siham3325 seek couples therapy first and then see which way to go

@queeniebee237

Жыл бұрын

@@siham3325 I would say no. You have a roof over your head. Yes the finance is tight but is he doing the best he can with what he has? If so look upon him with more mercy. He comes home to play with the children... You will probably never ever get that again if you divorce. Also with the councilling that was suggested, be careful. Some Councillors validate your feelings and you leave feeling your spouse is an even worse than you thought initially. Talk to Allah and complain to Him, ask him to mend the relationship. You do your best... Clean yourself up and dress well and ask Allah to direct his attention to you? Take all issues to Allah and submit it all there. Do not frown when he comes in. Try a more positive approach like 'thank you for working hard for us'. Fix your intentions as well. You are staying in the marriage for the children and also the first reason is it is half your Deen. Focus on the reward. Focus on the many ayat about patience. Allah's payout is supreme. We like to do things 'for Allah' when we are happy or getting a return. Doing things for the sake of Allah when do not want to do them and doing nice things for the husband you are angry with and probably do not even like right now is not easy. But where else in your life are you excelling in with such flying colours that you think you can get a high level in Jannah through? How many orphans are you raising? How many slaves have you freed? Do you fast year round? Are you even guaranteed shuhada with the delivery of the current pregnancy? You want him to address his wrongs but that is not something within your control. If you want to see a change in your life... You change yourself. That submission to Allah can change anything. I mean literally... If he is fussy about food... Cook it with Allah's help and ask Allah to protect you from his complaints. Literary talk to Allah about it all. Cry to him, ask him for the solution to any matter however small. Improve how you put forward your argument. If you do that then you will be looking at a different marraige in a year and be glad you didn't give up. Being patient is not easy. Just like the sister said. Don't get in a fantasy about divorce. If you think this husband is an idiot please remember you will be swapping out one idiot for another. There are no perfect human beings.

@RukhShariq

Жыл бұрын

@@siham3325 have a talk with him first before you think about getting divorce

Masha Allah,you made my day. Thanks

Wow, her story really touched me, in a away I didn't even think of it. Alahu Akbar.

Wonderful speech! Allah Akbar! 10 minutes into listening to it and I got emotional, made soujoud to Allah to thank him for allowing me to listen to your speech and learn from it! Doing everything for the sake of Allah only not for anyone else including our spouses was my wake up call! Allah Akbar! What a great incentive for being good and doing good knowing that we are doing it for Allah only and everyone else is nothing but a vassal controlled by Allah.May Allah bless you and reward you sister for your outstanding speech made so easy and accessible to everyone!I would love to have the honor to meet you some day and learn more from you and benefit others! May God bless you and shower you with his love and mercy wa Salam alaikoom!

Jazakillahu kheyr beautiful lecture

Salaam Alaykoum sister This video was is my suggested and came just on time subhanAllah

Jazakillahu llahu khairan ma. I appreciate this ❤️

Jazak Allah Khair sister thank you so much for the reminder for the sake of Allah…🤲🏻❤️

JazakiAllah Khayran, sister for this amazing lecture. May Allah bless you and your loved ones. Thank you !

Assalamu alaikum sister, I just want to thank you immensely for this reminder. I can't tell you how much I needed to hear this! Jazaki Allahu khayran ❤️

@NaimaBRobertTV

8 ай бұрын

I'm so glad!

Subhan Allah beautiful reminder May Allah reward you sister

Mashallah. May Allah bless you for illustrating the truth.

May Allah bless u sis. Permit me to share this video far and wide as I can especially to the youth.

A very strong sister delivering a very powerful speech we all can learn something from, muslims and non-muslims alike. May Allah SWT make you and your family among the dwellers of Jannah.

SubhanaAllah. This was so amazing ❤️. Bless you sister

Thank you very much for the video with kindness and respect for excellent explaining and clearfaying right

Iam speechless dear, jazakaAllahu kheir

Thanks for these advises. Jazakalahu Khairan

Recently found you and I love you for the sake of Allah ❤️

Very very wonderful and lucrative message wishing you more knowledge and wisdom, jazakhumullahu khair. Thanks.

Sister, this is a great message to everyone, I cried while listening and watching your video, Masha Allah! May Almighty Allah bless you and your entire family and grant you Aljannah Fidaus on the judgment day! Barak Allah fikun Sister!

Alhamdulilla sister May Allah bless you for this eye opening message I am going through tough times in my family life and your words made me rethink... Jazakkallahkahir❤️❤️❤️

shukran sister for sharing such a beautiful message on marriage. May Allah reward you for your efforts....

Masha Allah, baraka Allah feek, may Allah bless you sister Na'ima and bless our marriages

Heart touching reminder I would recommend to all Muslim brother and sister to listen this

Ma Sha Allah! Very insightful speech, all the points got me, walahi! May Allah forgive and amend us all.

Watching it again after months. Needed to get motivated and forgiving. JazakAllah khair. May Allah bless you and your kids. Ameen

Thank you so much sister,I'm a married woman and you don't know how much you have helped me...jazakakallah khair

Jazakallahu khairun for your excellent presentation...may Allah swt reward you abundantly in both the worlds, Aameen...