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This is amazing, this is how marriage should be.
I wish
Sister Naima u r the blessing all the good sisters.May Allah bless you... #naima
Salam Alaikum sister
Asalamualaykum Waramatuallahi Wabarakatu Mom, May Allah the Almighty richly blessed you I have really learn a lesson. And May Allah the Almighty grant us understand and remind us when we forgot🤲 Amiin
May Allah bless you my sister
😮Eye opening😢
Polygamy was the custom of Arabia, so pre Islam, Arabians were used to polygamy. Our Prophet was married to one woman, and one woman alone for 25 years, during a time where there was no limit on the number of wives a man could have. Once Islam was revealed, the Prophet still remained in a monogamous marriage. After the death of our mother Khadija, the Prophet continued to honour her by respecting her sister and her friends. And Aisha was never jealous of any wife except for Khadija.
the majority of the inhabitants of Jannah will be women as well. Allah created more women than men overall, so obviously, majority of the inhabitants of both Jannah and Jahannam will be women.
جزاكم الله خيرا
but what if you dont know how to draw ?????
You made me cry, thank you sister, Alhamdulillah for everything
You say that a man should be manly. Strong, a protector, provider, therapist, listener, spiritual, metal and physical and if one of these is missing or he shows weakness you get the Ick syndrome. Wallahi the previous women who didn't even know half as much as you were 20 times as good as you. When their men became weak they built them up again. Even when their husbands beat them, they recognized their mistakes and were always there for their family. But if there are problems, your modern Muslims immediately shame your men. this prevents self-reflection and incorrigibility. It's a shame that your pride and what you hold up to men is gone.
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And again a long list of what men have to do. It's just that you average women think you're better than the average man these days. The marriage you call her sounds like a lot of headaches and stress. Men are cost-benefit calculators and if it's not worth it and you want too much resources (time, money, attention, status etc) men would rather stay alone and live in a corner of the roof instead of with you.
I, as a man, can say I appreciate both of you. However, you women always talk about how a marriage should work from your perspective. I feel like it always goes like this: He must invest, invest, invest. If it's not money, it's time, then attention, empathy, etc. Sisters, you really need to learn to listen, not to each other, but to men. Finally accept men for what they are. Your leaders.
Assalamualaykum, jazakillahu khayran for this. If anyone reads this, please make dua that Allah change my husband’s heart, that he be kind and merciful to me. Aameen.
Someone please teach me a way to memorise all these points
Dear women of Islam. Read that 1. Dar Tiba Volume 5, chapter 10, page 155 .”...and as for the punishment in case of sexual desire for a little girl who is not sexually committed by anyone because of her very young age: There is no punishment. and it is allowed to touch her even if her body and intimate area are not yet fully mature “ Remark: Do you like a pedophile for your daughter? 2. Tafsir Al-Qur'tobi Al-Jaime' Le Ahkam Al Qu'ran Chapter Al-Noor page 146 Aisha said: "Do not give the women a room to themselves and do not teach them how to write but teach them from the chapter al-noor and teach them how to spin and sew" 3. Sahih Al bukhari Volume 6, book 60 Hadith 408 Narrated By Alqama : “Abdullah (bin Masud) said. “Allah curses those ladies who practice tattooing and those who get themselves tattooed, and those ladies who remove the hair from their faces and those who make artificial spaces between their teeth in order to look more beautiful, whereby they change Allah’s creation. " Remark: Please do not cut hairs from your faces. Otherwise, you will go to hell. The almighty prophet said that. 4. Does the prophet love woman? Suma Abu Dawud, book 12 number 2220 " Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin: Habibah daughter of Sahl was the wife of Thabit ibn Qays Shimmas He beat her and broke some of her part (bones !!, wrong translation). So she came to the Prophet (ﷺ) after morning, and complained to him against her husband. The Prophet (ﷺ) called on Thabit ibn Qays and said (to him): Take a part of her property and separate yourself from her. He asked: Is that right, Messenger of Allah? He said: Yes. He said: I have given her two gardens of mine as a dower, and they are already in her possession. The Prophet (ﷺ) said: Take them and separate yourself from her. " Remark: Islam loves women, what do you think?????? 5. Sahih Muslim Book 36, Hadith Number 6596. says: Usama b. Zaid reported that Allah’s Messenger (way peace be upon him) said: "I stood at the door of Paradise and I found that the overwhelming majority of those who entered therein was that of poor persons and the wealthy persons were detained to get into that. The denizens of Hell were commanded to get into Hell, and I stood upon the door of Fire and the majority amongst them who entered there was that of women." Remark: With high probability, you are going to hell. Good luck. 6. Volume 1, Book 6, Number 301: Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri: "O Allah's Apostle! What is deficient in our intelligence and religion?" He said, "Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?" They replied in the affirmative. He said, "This is the deficiency in her intelligence. " Remark: As a Muslim woman, you have a deficiency of intelligence. You are a stupid person. I am not offending Islam; I am quoting Islam books. 7. Volume 4, Book 52, Number 110: Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar: I heard the Prophet saying. "Evil omen is in three things: The horse, the woman and the house." Remark: In Islam, you are an evil omen as a woman! Sahih Al Kafi Imam Al-Bahbodi Volume 3 Number 46. Reported by Al-Husin son of Mohamed of Ahmed son of Ishaq of Sadan , son of Muslim from Aubid, son of Zarah from his father and from Abdullah, Peace with him : “I mentioned Mut'a to him and asked if it is one of the four (permissible types of sexual relations). He (the Prophet) said: Marry a thousand of them (women). They are women who are rented.”
Do you know Mutâ the temporal marriage for money? Sahih Al Kafi Imam Al-Bahbodi Volume 3 Number 46. Reported by Al-Husin son of Mohamed of Ahmed son of Ishaq of Sadan , son of Muslim from Aubid, son of Zarah from his father and from Abdullah, Peace with him : “I mentioned Mut'a to him and asked if it is one of the four (permissible types of sexual relations). He (the Prophet) said: Marry a thousand of them (women). They are women who are rented.”
Do you know the temporal marriage Mut'a ? if you pay, and you get an agreement even for one night? Sahih Al Kafi Imam Al-Bahbodi Volume 3 Number 46. Reported by Al-Husin son of Mohamed of Ahmed son of Ishaq of Sadan , son of Muslim from Aubid, son of Zarah from his father and from Abdullah, Peace with him : “I mentioned Mut'a to him and asked if it is one of the four (permissible types of sexual relations). He (the Prophet) said: Marry a thousand of them (women). They are women who are rented.”
Dear women of Islam. Read that 1. Dar Tiba Volume 5, chapter 10, page 155 .”...and as for the punishment in case of sexual desire for a little girl who is not sexually committed by anyone because of her very young age: There is no punishment. and it is allowed to touch her even if her body and intimate area are not yet fully mature “ Remark: Do you like a pedophile for your daughter? 2. Tafsir Al-Qur'tobi Al-Jaime' Le Ahkam Al Qu'ran Chapter Al-Noor page 146 Aisha said: "Do not give the women a room to themselves and do not teach them how to write but teach them from the chapter al-noor and teach them how to spin and sew" 3. Sahih Al bukhari Volume 6, book 60 Hadith 408 Narrated By Alqama : “Abdullah (bin Masud) said. “Allah curses those ladies who practice tattooing and those who get themselves tattooed, and those ladies who remove the hair from their faces and those who make artificial spaces between their teeth in order to look more beautiful, whereby they change Allah’s creation. " Remark: Please do not cut hairs from your faces. Otherwise, you will go to hell. The almighty prophet said that. 4. Does the prophet love woman? Suma Abu Dawud, book 12 number 2220 " Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin: Habibah daughter of Sahl was the wife of Thabit ibn Qays Shimmas He beat her and broke some of her part (bones !!, wrong translation). So she came to the Prophet (ﷺ) after morning, and complained to him against her husband. The Prophet (ﷺ) called on Thabit ibn Qays and said (to him): Take a part of her property and separate yourself from her. He asked: Is that right, Messenger of Allah? He said: Yes. He said: I have given her two gardens of mine as a dower, and they are already in her possession. The Prophet (ﷺ) said: Take them and separate yourself from her. " Remark: Islam loves women, what do you think?????? 5. Sahih Muslim Book 36, Hadith Number 6596. says: Usama b. Zaid reported that Allah’s Messenger (way peace be upon him) said: "I stood at the door of Paradise and I found that the overwhelming majority of those who entered therein was that of poor persons and the wealthy persons were detained to get into that. The denizens of Hell were commanded to get into Hell, and I stood upon the door of Fire and the majority amongst them who entered there was that of women." Remark: With high probability, you are going to hell. Good luck. 6. Volume 1, Book 6, Number 301: Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri: "O Allah's Apostle! What is deficient in our intelligence and religion?" He said, "Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?" They replied in the affirmative. He said, "This is the deficiency in her intelligence. " Remark: As a Muslim woman, you have a deficiency of intelligence. You are a stupid person. I am not offending Islam; I am quoting Islam books. 7. Volume 4, Book 52, Number 110: Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar: I heard the Prophet saying. "Evil omen is in three things: The horse, the woman and the house." Remark: In Islam, you are an evil omen as a woman! Sahih Al Kafi Imam Al-Bahbodi Volume 3 Number 46. Reported by Al-Husin son of Mohamed of Ahmed son of Ishaq of Sadan , son of Muslim from Aubid, son of Zarah from his father and from Abdullah, Peace with him : “I mentioned Mut'a to him and asked if it is one of the four (permissible types of sexual relations). He (the Prophet) said: Marry a thousand of them (women). They are women who are rented.”
Mohamed suffers from Islamophobia. Here the proof: Sahih Al-Bukhari, Book of Al-Futo'h, Hadith 4599: Reported by Anas Ibn Malik: “There was among us a humble young man with great act of worship and faith, who did good faithful work. So we mentioned his name to the Prophet, but he did not recognize him. Then we described him to the Prophet, but he still did not recognize him. Then we said to the Prophet, ‘Oh, here he is!’ The Prophet said, ‘His face has the look of Satan.’” So the man came and said, ‘Peace to you all.’ The Prophet said to him, ‘Do you think of yourself as the best man in here?’ He (the young man) said, ‘By Allah, yes, I am.’ Then he left and went inside the mosque. The Prophet said, ‘Who would kill this man (for me)?’ Abu Bakr said, ‘I will.’ So Abu Bakr went after the young man inside the mosque and found him standing in prayer. Abu Bakr thought to himself, ‘The Prophet forbids us from killing a Muslim while he is praying!’ Then the Prophet said again, ‘Who would kill the man?’ 'Umar said, ‘I will do it, Prophet.’ So 'Umar entered the mosque and found the man bowing down on his face in prayer. So ‘Umar said, ‘The Prophet forbids us from killing a Muslim while he is praying. I will come back (to kill him after he is finished with his prayers).’ Then the Prophet said, ‘Who will kill the man?’ Then Ali said, ‘I will kill him, Prophet’. So Ali entered the mosque and found the young man had gone! Then Muhammad said, ‘If that man was killed, not two of my nation would disagree with each other!’” Let us study this story. The young man Muhammad wanted to be killed had not committed any crime. All Muslims, even the leaders, agreed that this man is a great Muslim. He is a devout believer, humble, faithful, and diligent with his prayers. He accepted Muhammad as Allah’s prophet. He was such a good Muslim that other Muslims around Muhammad thought that his goodness deserved to be recognized by mentioning his name to Muhammad. When he was called to meet with the prophet, the man greeted him with peace. After the meeting, he left Muhammad with the greeting of peace for a second time and went straight to the mosque to pray. We would think that Muhammad would praise this man as a good example for all Muslims, but according to the story, Muhammad wanted him killed instead. Why? The answer is, he posed a threat to Muhammad’s position as the ideal Muslim. In a very short time, Muslims around Muhammad noticed and praised the man's piety. They clearly held him with much respect, but Muhammad reacted differently. During the man's short meeting with the prophet, he was asked if he thought he was the best of men. The man confidently answered, “By Allah, yes, I am.” Muhammad's insecurity couldn't take it. He did not want to be compared to the piety of this man, so he ordered him to be killed. Muhammad’s treatment of this pious man shows his ugly side. He is supposed to be a prophet, but he is more satanic than holy. Dear Muslims, please leave this ugly cult called Islam where the own prophet kills his believers.
Can you provide the recipe for the love potion. We can’t see the screen
How can one contact you? An email address maybe?
Thanks for speaking truth. 🩵
I’m not too good, I just believe in equality. I definitely don’t want to share my man with other women. However if I was to ever stay in that marriage then I would want to take another husband as well to fulfill all my needs while my first husband is with his other wife!
My goodness I think I need to come and rewatch this with my notebook!
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله How are you doing sister Na'ima Hope you are well doing well insha Allah with all that you've been tested with I'm a 55 yrs old father of 4 daughters and 2 sons 3 married 5 grandchildren I just want to tell you that I have listened to some of your programs and I like it so much I also do marriage counselling here in Cape Town for the last 20 years Alhamdulillah Keep up the good work Sorry to hear about your husband may Allah bless him with Jannatul Firdous Ameen You are a beautiful soul Masha Allah ❤
Ma sha Allah may Allah shower abundant of barka in her life.... strong message
Jazakumullahu khairan ya ukhti ❤
i feel so sorry for muawiyah tucker. what a name to choose.
Islam is most anti religion in this world you expect it. Single moms they are not more muslim lady.Lady most are killed by their husband in this world,no one divorce some one with out any big reason when she have kids.Most of Muslim divorce happened for domestic violence and husband extra matter or husband secret marriage and another issue.So when divorce happened why not those sick muslim man dont do their duties for his child,which another regiilon man do.
.If single mom want to marry she marry nonmuslim man.Child odoption haram in islam because Porphet marry was his aboption sons wife.Its inhuman and shamefull thing.
Assalam Alaikum
Fairness
Assalam Alaikum
May Allah swt reward you sisters! truly amazing content! Such amazing sisters with much needed topics! Allahuma-Barik!!!!
Please come back with these videos!!! You helped me so much to connect with my true femininity as a woman and I’m losing it again I need ur videos back! I’m stuck with sprinkle sprinkle videos and these views are too extreme and unislamic. Help us again 😅🥰
May Allah bless you for this video. Jazakumullahu khairan
Jazakillah khair. Only listened to first 20min but loving it. Im one of the women not in the privileged category, also I am busy with work, study and teenager. So polygyny is best for me but Allah knows best.
Wouldn't the mother lose custody of the kids as soon as she gets married....
I'm so glad I found this video - great information!
alhumdulillah for this video. i searched up this topic and wanted to watch a muslim women explain it. i tend to avoid men’s videos on such topics because i fear they might twist islamic rulings to fit their misogynistic views. again thank you ❤
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The presentation of Iffet Rafeeq is phenomenal. ..
46:04 and you know the ignorance of saying that somebody else’s opinion or real life account is cap is so disrespectful it’s so it’s just rude so there is a podcast of either four or five sisters they share the same father but different mothers and yes they do state that having their dad hardly ever around is a problem so if you remember most men are out working during the daytime by the time the man comes home in the evening it’s basically bedtime for the children and then divide the time that is already a shambles into half these children are not really left with much it’s not the man’s fault that he can’t add extra hours to the day nor can he divide his body in half and make sure that he is in two houses at the same time so yes when a man comes home after six 7 o’clock and the children are already ready to be settled to go to bed and he’s only doing that for three nights they just about get to say good night to him know it is not enough of an investment for your children. And if he works also on weekends it means that there is no time where the children are either not at school or not present that is there 24 seven it’s a low quality dad that your children will be receiving a father who is missing more than he is present. And common sense and most people know this even people who haven’t studied children’s behaviour when adults do something sometimes the kids internalise it it’s their fault for example dad not coming home every night anymore they make question have they done something wrong are they bad 47:13
42:29 No the data shows that children thrive in healthy relationships the data doesn’t show that children thrive in unhealthy relationships The way you belittle women for not being married as if the man is the prize building something with a man is the ultimate goal what about women who marriage has never and will never be written in the qadr what are you showing these women. And when you talk about building something what can you build with a man who is always missing in another woman’s house building you make that make sense if a man has three wives and he gives each 10 nights a month what is he building when he is missing more than he is home you are building you just don’t realise your building with the money that he gives you from working all day you’re basically a single married mother I tried to work out where you are coming from with this what is your narrative what is the point and when you expressed about your own situation I then realised you have your own guilt for destroying your own Marriage and now you’re encouraging other women not to do it based on your own guilt how do you know these women will be happy and be able to cope not everyone is suited for Poly it’s just how it is And I don’t know if Muslim women have become a nation of misogynistic boy moms but for example yes the woman is allowed to remove some of her rights to make it easier for her husband asks yourself now why is your husband not removing his right of having more women to make it easier for her KMT at this point it shows even though our own sisters don’t respect us our own sisters do not respect us if you as a woman do not understand where your sisters are coming from can you not imagine why the man don’t understand us why at the beginning would you start with a narrative that women think they’re too good for something why does that have to be the only reason that women don’t want this thing because they think they’re too nice Maybe it’s because they don’t think they’re suited for it maybe because they don’t want it maybe because we feel basing our sexual hygiene on a number of other women who we don’t know and can’t trust there are multiple reasons he doesn’t mean that you think you’re too nice or you think you’re too good for something I lost so much respect for you watching this video I actually feel disappointed To talk about children need. A father and then talk about we need an emir when you’re a maid is in your other wife’s house or his other wife’s house what do you think he’s doing for you how’s it gonna protect you Sis what are you going to do ring him and tell him he needs to come back now because of an emergency in an emergency you need the man to be with you there Do you know how many sisters are married to Mad right now they haven’t even consummated the marriage if you know how many women the whole Marriage the man apparently couldn’t afford to give her her right but all of a sudden he’s got another woman is £5000 away and he is willing to give another woman monthly maintenance and you’ve been in your house with your children live in a low quality lifestyle going 50-50 like the modern women Kaffir Women on the street 43:14 How does a man who is in another woman’s house protect you how does a man who has another wife in another country and has to split his time while he’s in the other country house you can pick today my sister the manipulation in this video is very dangerous very very dangerous
Love the vaulted ceiling in the background
if i didn’t catch my husband, he would’ve never stopped. that hurts me the most. so disgusting behaviour.