Responsibilities of Husbands & Responsibilities of Wives (Khutbah by Nouman Ali Khan)
A khutbah by Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan given at Colleyville Masjid on October 16, 2015.
Explaining one of the most misunderstood verses of the Quran from Surat An-
Nisaa, verse 26, which deals with the relationship between husbands and wives,
Nouman Ali Khan says that the verse actually places men in a huge position of
responsibility, not authority, over women. Men must be repeatedly fair to
women who will reap the benefits of this care, provided they reciprocate by
guarding the relationship and showing respect for their husbands lest they
compromise their very relationship with Allah.
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I recited the shahada March 29 of this year 💓💞.
@FathimaMuhsina
5 жыл бұрын
China Rodriguez MashaAllah! May Allah bless you abundantly and grant you a pious husband💟
@Flytonyinc
5 жыл бұрын
May Allah make it easy for u. Ameen
@JWRLD617
5 жыл бұрын
MashAllah, welcome to the beautiful religion of islam! :-)
@artistfirst7011
5 жыл бұрын
May your faith increase the love of your lord and the degree to which you fear him. May the walls of your heart be imbued with Wisdom and Patience My only advice by God's grace "Any chance you get to do something good...? Jump at it" Lets keep being amazing human beings one good deed at a time... May Allah Strengthen your faith and dispose of your affairs...Amen 🙏
@kahdaijahaleasewalters8905
4 жыл бұрын
China Rodriguez hey how are you doing are you looking for a Muslim husband I got two Muslims brothers but keep in touch with me so that we can introduce you. I
This khutbah made me cry. Allah is most merciful and if only we as Muslims actually lived up to these words, then the world would be such a better place. It's comforting to hear, shukran from the bottom of my heart Ustadh for this khutbah. I needed to hear this and I think a lot of other muslimahs needed it too.
@Baabus
5 жыл бұрын
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@robertgore5591
4 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@enaslimaybaddu5639
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"Quwam" seems to be equivalent to an "established supporter". There is such beauty to Arabic that cannot be found in many other languages. Subhanallah!
@sabrinahamid7906
5 жыл бұрын
I dont know Mustafa jan asti
@talhasiddiqui5040
2 жыл бұрын
He seems to have interpreted Qawwam differently in this video lecture: kzread.info/dash/bejne/l2mMr9Jxhs2clZc.html
@JRtitanicful
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I thought that was strange. I don’t know why he translated qawwam a certain way here then turned around and translated it completely differently in this other video.
This khutbah was like a message to me.. I was literally hurt by my ex and when i fell into my trial period at the first opportunity he got he divorced me. But Alhamdulillah a door opened and i am better than i was with him. Thank you so much for this message and i hope both men and women stand together for one during the most difficult moments
@munazzamehmood1013
10 ай бұрын
May Allah make it easy for you and grant you jannat ul firdaus for your patience, aameen
@hindatuhassan5237
10 ай бұрын
@@munazzamehmood1013 Ameen Ya Rabb
I am marrying the love of my life very soon so this is very helpful😌 Alhamdulilah 🙏🏾
Want easy marriage!? Love your wife! Respect your husband!
@shah6697
4 жыл бұрын
Mr Nouman If a husband neglect his solah, would his wife be able to respect him?
@ToddlerAndMum
4 жыл бұрын
Love & respect both r earned, n it is like reciprocals from what we get from the other partner.... not so easy :(
@lornilula4213
4 жыл бұрын
She could. She can still respect her by praying for him. She can still respect him by treating him nicely and wishing guidance for him in her prayers.
@Myview246
4 жыл бұрын
And follow Islam first, not culture first!!!
@toobad9295
4 жыл бұрын
you do realise that respect goes both ways right? I’m not marrying a man who says he loves me but doesn’t respect how can you even love someone you don’t respect?
Allah's words... This is definitely Allah's book.. SubhanAllah
@TheKingofdans
4 жыл бұрын
No doubt about it
This was beautiful. May god bless all our marriages I've learned alot from this ontop of what I already knew. I made a promise to myself to be the best wife I can be to my future Husband inshallah.
@enaslimaybaddu5639
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@@Tommy-xy7bg are you the husband 🙊?
@enaslimaybaddu5639
Жыл бұрын
In Shaa Allah sister
@hindatuhassan5237
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May Allah give you the ability and wisdom to do that, May he give you both the love, patience, understanding to stand and support one another
Alhamdulillah, I've been waiting for so long, some Responsibilities of Husbands and Wives according to the linguistic perspective of the Qur'an. Jazakullah Khair Bayyinah! By the way, for those who ponder, He is talking about Surah An Nisa' ayah 34.
@samiyashakrah4995
8 жыл бұрын
Jazzklh
@humancomputeri
8 жыл бұрын
thank you for highliting where the ayah is.
@mr.mikaeel6264
4 жыл бұрын
JzaakAllah, thanks a bunch! Even when i put all the vowel signs on my search engine did not find قَوَّأمُونَ
@rafat610
4 жыл бұрын
JzaakAllah :)
Alhamdulilah for the religion of islam.
@shamahmed2513
4 жыл бұрын
Ameen!
i need all of my classmates to hear this and even my ustaz!
this topic bothered me for a long time many non muslims questioned how women r "oppressed" in islam and all but ma sha Allah nouman ali khan never fails to amaze me
@mehmetsaimalbayrak3006
11 ай бұрын
İts normal when you have a different criterion then Quran it can seem wrong to you. But I found put the hard way and always go with Quran and sunnah over what is expected nowadays provides perfect balance in your life marriage and Journey through life. Being able to shed tears> anything my nefs once that keeps ne away from it.
Omg I love this. I asked my ex husband to look for counselling so we could sort our marriage but he refused every single time. This has touched my heart so much.
@draishalove
5 жыл бұрын
Mariam May Allah grant you better than what you've had before, amin
@zact4289
5 жыл бұрын
Mariam may Allah protect you from all harm & bless you with the best of this life & the hereafter . Ameen ❤️
As a practical Muslim and married for almost 8 years I have never come across such amazing and fitting explanations of marriage I don't have words
Usthad Nouman is so blessed for all of us, Alhamdulillah . . May Allah give him long life and health, Ameen.
@sarahhassan2914
5 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah. So good!
@abbaslegend9214
5 жыл бұрын
And us Ameen
@sabrinahamid7906
5 жыл бұрын
Ameen allah
@nadirahaddison296
4 жыл бұрын
Ameen
It's never a waste of time to listen to Nouman Khan, very informative interpretation, masha'allah.
Ustadh Nouman, you are an amazingly reflective person! You have beneficially influenced my husband and I! May Allah grant me and all of us this amazing quality you have! May Allah protect you and always remember you and bring forth happiness to you and your family and loved ones! May Allah join us in the highest level of Jannah without hisab! Ameen!
@Sharifay.
5 жыл бұрын
ameen x1000000. he is god sent ma’sha’allah
@habibajaved9794
5 жыл бұрын
The speaker is not Noman Alli I think.
@robertthompson7287
4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@enaslimaybaddu5639
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Amiiiinnnnnnn
@enaslimaybaddu5639
Жыл бұрын
@@habibajaved9794 How could you miss Ustaz Nouman's voice 😁😁
As usual beautiful khotba thank you so much austad nouman ali and as a woman I will do my best to be a good wife to my husband and do what my creator ALLAH SWT has commanded us انشاالله
Alhamdulilah...JazakAllah Khair, ustadh NAK for reminding my responsibilities towards my future spouse. May Allah help me in fulfilling my responsibilities over my spouse...
@imranbits
8 жыл бұрын
+Saddam ibn Hameed You got the right attitude bro!
This just adds new meaning to love someone for Allah
WaAllah iam so grateful that I'm a Musilmah Alhamdulilah I was divorced twice first one was a beater raised my two boys on 130 for each kid for 15 yrs got remarried at 27 divorced 2 yrs ago he only gives me 200 a month for each kid he was caught with prostitution Alhamdulilah I married him raised three girls for 7 yrs taught them to pray fast My parents died at seven I dreamt telling him FahAmal Yeatemah Falah Takhar I'm 37 yrs now everyone telling me get married you did nothing wrong your still young the first thing this religious men who the Mask told me was you have to work I told him I have been father and Mother since I was 18 I'm tired I want to stay home pray learn how to read quran and feel like women he called me a gold digger I laughed and said read surah Nisah
@Mona-xf8mm
8 жыл бұрын
Good luck sister. InshAllah you will find someone to spend the rest of your life with
@hasnahradwan737
8 жыл бұрын
+Mona Alfardi thank you habeetee Allah kareem
@mtaherac
7 жыл бұрын
Be very careful if you want to marry again. Or wait for the best spouse in Jannah. I hope men and women we both learn the real truth of Islam because no one like to be humiliated and no one should humiliate other.
@rubakyaawang2488
7 жыл бұрын
Hasnah Radwan
@farhanamohamed9147
6 жыл бұрын
Todays men are irresponsible.
mind-blowing. mashaAllah la quwwata illa bilLah
how can i like again and again and again and again what a cloture
@HekuranHajdari
8 жыл бұрын
+Maki Abdu I think by sharing with other you give lots of "LIKES" for yourself and the video as well.
I love all the lectures mashallah quran is beautiful
jazak'Allah kheir for the beautiful reminder.
Such a great Khutbah Jazakillah hu Khairan :D
One more amazing lecture by Sir Nouman Ali Khan, may ALLAH swt bless him and his family... AMEEN
@alinurmohamudhajji2768
4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful speech
Masha'Allah! This is the best lecture I've heard on this topic .... and I've heard plenty of them.
i respect you skikh may Allah reward you all good deeds and grant me with good spouse
@bayyinah
8 жыл бұрын
+eng aml Ameen.
@engaml9522
8 жыл бұрын
+Bayyinah Institute May Allah reward you all good deesds
@salmankhan-cq5vn
8 жыл бұрын
+eng aml Inshahalaah
@megablast1988
8 жыл бұрын
+Jason Logan non-sense hater...
@oye936
6 жыл бұрын
We are actually Muslims not Sikh and our religion is islam. You are welcome to join us!
Sub'haan Allah.... it's just amazing...the way Ustad NAK explain....how merciful Allah is!!!!!!!! May Allah make us aware of our responsibility & help us fulfilling our responsibility
Alhamdulillah, MashahAllah what a great lesson from Allah SWT
Powerful. The way the material is discussed really puts light to the miracle of Quran, how every word is precise and deep. We need more of this.
. My husband of 22 yrs threw my bags out on the streets in the beginning of coronavirus. No money he took my phone and sent me divorce through email 2 days later and copied it to my children I spent 5 weeks sleeping rough and had to go court to get back in my home with my sons He is 13 years older than me. I thought we were happy but this year was rough and I think there's another woman or women God got brought me back home but I have to live with him and because I won he taking me back to court. Not only is he is trying to ruin my life in courts even issued police charges even though he used to harm me. I took it and always covered him. I never wanted divorce we had come so far in life. I cared for him. But now I see a cold human Pls please pray for me and I overcome each battle he throws my way 💔
@aishfab
4 жыл бұрын
May Allah swt protect you , your such a strong women and keeping soo strong for your children. May Allah swt give you Shifah and shower you with soo much Sabr and blessings ameen. You doing your duty as a wife but it shouldn’t be to a point till your oppressed even then you trying so much x your in my duas sis keep safe and well x
@TheMiraaj
3 жыл бұрын
May Allah SWT bless you sister, will make dua for you, keep praying!
@alluqmanabdulhalim2489
3 жыл бұрын
Be strong sister, don't lose hope. Keep praying. Insya Allah everything will be okay. Amin
@salamkala14
3 жыл бұрын
Mystic Bluelight sister keep being good and show him love even more Wallahi he will change inshallah he will feel ashamed he will become the one and he will be a better father if you want to talk more about this let me know
@salamkala14
3 жыл бұрын
Mystic Bluelight also sister if your husband is cold maybe there’s evil eye or some Jin between you get ruqya maybe someone envy your relationship also buy dairy write all the things you love about your husband everyday and leave it somewhere he can open to read
Barakallah, Ustaz Nouman Ali Khan.
As soon as he said "This ayah is very famous..." I thought (in an Eeyore voice) "Surat an-Nisa thirty-four again"...
This is much needed. May He grant you jannatul firdaws.
Alhamdulillah what a beautiful advice from our Creator. I pray we can adhere to it and implement it in our lives. Alahuma ameen
Subhanallah!!! I was in search of guidance in my marriage and alhumdullilah I found this lecture... The Qur'an has the solution to every problem. Jazakallah Khair for this video. I will will ask my wife to give this a listen inshallah her heart softens
@sabrinahamid7906
5 жыл бұрын
Husband let call when we got marriage
@sabrinahamid7906
5 жыл бұрын
Important to me and you
Absolutely amazing, MashaAllah!! We find the most beautiful advice in the Qur'an SubhanAllah. May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala bless Ustaad Norman and his family, may Allah always protect them from all evil, Ameen! :)
Thank you for sharing the words of Allah. I pray Allah guide me, my husband and all Muslims and Muslimat always. and while watching this, I feel like Allah answered to my concerns im dealing with right now. Subhanallah Allahuakbar.
This is amazing. I don't think there can be a better explanation of this Ayah than how you have described it. So powerful, meaningful, logical and important. I had many questions, but as you spoke, i got clarity to most of those....May ALLAH bless you with more wisdom and rewards for your efforts.
Subhanallah! this is an amazing talk! May Allah reward him greatly and increase his knowledge! Ameen!
@bayyinah
8 жыл бұрын
+Ken Amos Ameen.
@LittlePalmTreee
Жыл бұрын
@@bayyinah as Salem aleikoum could you make a khutbah about « spouse (husband and wife) obedience » What obedience means? Because when I think of marriage I think of it as two people deciding to team and to be LIFE PARTNERS. Like can a husband quarantine his wife ? Prevent her from having a career ? From having social life and benefiting to the world and to the ummah? Because if yes it’s just killing a woman’s soul, it’s a kind of live burial, especially for women whose nature are toward working and ambitious. Thank you so much for your answer also I hope it’s Nouman Ali Khan
Everytime I hear I literally refresh myself my heart and brain keep pushing me to be Good person stop follow shine of world..
👏👏👏 Love the way you began khutbah The Word of Allah s.w.t is perfect But his guidance came for humanity Which we aren't perfect. Allahuakbar
Yay super excited for this one!
JazzakAllah khair brother.
Masha Allah Masha Allah Masha Allah well said. May Allah sbwt protect you, Hafidullah.
May Allah swt guide your heart always and reward you here and in the hereafter
16:20 - Subhanallah. Explains so much.
@bilalhussain9154
5 жыл бұрын
Product Feedback word bro
Beautifully islamic and realistic....
i LOVE the part when he said "what is hers is hers and what is yours is hers" hehe.. 13:13
@berry292
7 жыл бұрын
Stop acting like a little child... That aside, it's limited to housing, maintenance and an allowance.
@renukhan4822
6 жыл бұрын
I also loved the same statement...
@Ihavemadeit999
5 жыл бұрын
Berkan Çakır shutup.my IS mines.your IS mines :))
@olaadali932
5 жыл бұрын
That's cuz Allah knows yall are greedy, not generous and child like when it comes to that
@draishalove
5 жыл бұрын
Olaad Ali astagfirullah
Jazakallahu khayran ustaz for this clear lecture
Mashaallah very hearttouching bayan....
Thank you for eazy way explaining Quran to us. May Allah give you(Also all of us) more knowledge and wisdom.
I really need this khutbah in urdu so I can show it to my friends.
Subhanallah sheikh may Allah bless you , and may this remainder enter our hearts because there is a big problem between men and women.
This is such a beautiful explanation of this verse. Unlike anything I've ever heard and challenges the narrative that a lot of us have been taught
@talhasiddiqui5040
2 жыл бұрын
Here Mr. Nouman Ali Khan is interpreting the first part of the verse in a different way: kzread.info/dash/bejne/l2mMr9Jxhs2clZc.html
Beautiful lecture...jazakAllah
Jazakallahu khairan for elaborating it beautifully Ustadh .
jazakAllah for such a simple narration of an age old problem
May Allah ﷻ grant us a good zoriah and make it a coolness of our eyes 🤲🏽 ameen
This was so informative and helpful. SubhanAllah how Allah s.w.a put such sacred divinity in ourselves as women and men. In sha Allah Allah s.w.a protects our marriages and blesses it so we all as a society benefit from it.
beautiful words
wow he did a great job in this mashaAllah
SubhanAllah beautiful explanation
JazkAllahu khairan kaseeran sir!
Very good explanation, about An Nisa ayat 34
Amazing knowledge ma sha Allah
Thank you brother for all your support and good works.
SubhanAllah, so amazing. I always see posts saying women seek appreciation from men, but that did not sit right with me, I didn’t agree. A woman (just like a man) should not seek appreciation from outside themselves - they should know they are valued because Allah swt created them, and their abilities, qualities. That should make them be grateful to Allah swt always for their creation. I came to realise women seek support more than anything and subhanAlllah this description of a man being qawwum (constant supporter) is so true and beautiful! Allahu Akbar
As Salam, Jazak Allah khair brother for beautifully explaining this beautiful Ayaht
I’m waiting for Allah’s blessing to meet a good practicing muslim
JazakAllah khairan kaseera💕
I thought the cartoons were real ppl😂😂😂
@missveggie908
5 жыл бұрын
Me too😂😂
@nnijah_k8071
5 жыл бұрын
5 mins in me too😩
@makaweysuweys7693
5 жыл бұрын
Quran recitation me too🙆🏽♂️
@hapsatouthiam886
5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@janeynwa338
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah got me too 🙈
Watching in 2019..August who us watching in 2019?????
JazakaAllah kher may Allah bless all of with right and deep knowledge and understanding of Quran paak
@bayyinah
8 жыл бұрын
+anjum khan Ameen.
Beautiful lecture as always
What a beautiful talk. May we all benefit from it. Jazakallah, may Allah reward you and everyone who directs him/herself and others to the right, Ameen.
:') May Allah reward him in Jannah....ameen....
blessings and love to all of you
masha Allah that is so beautiful
hamdulillah wa shukrulillah! Good 2 hear this indeed!
Beautifully explained. I would love to listen to the explanation of the rest of the Ayah (Surah An Nisa (4:34))
Beautiful lecture!
@farhanamohamed9147
6 жыл бұрын
Very informative,
Thank so much bro for the khutbah
Al hamdolilah thank you and i understand better and i will be better guided now god bless you
Salam to you all. All br sister should watch this video to make marriage beautiful.
Tru said...very good explanation...God bless you
mashallah JAZakAllah khair
Jazak Allah Khair
جزاك الله خيرا
this khutbah made me cry :c(
Wonderstruck!
alhamdulillah...
SubhanAllah!!
*_Incredible!_*
May Allah bless you
Allahu Akbar! May Allah grant Sheikh Nouman Ali Khan .
@bayyinah
8 жыл бұрын
+Isha Kanteh Ameen.
@zainobrufai9110
4 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah , may Allah grant all the sheikh s jannah.
Allah bless all
These 30 minutes flew away like 3 minutes