On Treating Women in Islam - Khutbah by Nouman Ali Khan

One of the most misunderstood ayat of the Quran is in Surah An-Nisa. This is a classic example of how a passage, taken out of context leads to false claims against the word of Allah. In this khutbah, Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan stresses that we can't read aya 34 without considering what came before and after it. He teaches us that the idea of a man's ‘qawama’ over a woman has nothing to do with authority and everything to do with being a constant caretaker and supporter of women. We only need to look at the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and how he treated his wives to learn that hitting was never a part of it.

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  • @hafsahussein365
    @hafsahussein3655 жыл бұрын

    I really hope I don’t end up in an emotionally/psychologically abusive marriage.. I pray my future husbands family are also good people. May Allah make me an exceptional wife who’s the coolness of my husbands eyes. Aameen

  • @ayansbusiness9323

    @ayansbusiness9323

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @umfatima2810

    @umfatima2810

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ameen Ya Rabbih and grant you a righteous children ameen

  • @detoxlady6777

    @detoxlady6777

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hafsa.You poor thing. You will never be able to please a man. Islam is dead wrong. I left it or I would have been dead by now at the hands of my husbands family. In Pakistan a woman dies every day at the hands of her husband or her in-laws. Don't think you can make these people happy, you cannot. It is the religion of Satan.

  • @NaughtyTroll

    @NaughtyTroll

    4 жыл бұрын

    Detox Lady 😂😂😂😂😭😂😂😭😭😂😭 you’re a joke and a munafiq. I’m sorry but you can never bring Islam down.

  • @Lexcepcion

    @Lexcepcion

    4 жыл бұрын

    Detox Lady please listen before you comment. Thanks

  • @Riki-io4yd
    @Riki-io4yd3 жыл бұрын

    "The word of Allah is perfect, but my mind is not," may be the best quote I've heard in a long time.

  • @Mahirakhan-tu4by
    @Mahirakhan-tu4by6 жыл бұрын

    You're the only Pakistani scholar I know who doesn't turn harsh when say something about women. You really help me understand what Allah actually talks about women. Subhan Allah

  • @celestial5036

    @celestial5036

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mahira khan check out mufti menk as well. He's an amazing scholar like him

  • @tabrazbaloch

    @tabrazbaloch

    6 жыл бұрын

    tariq jamil is also good

  • @tabrazbaloch

    @tabrazbaloch

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ethereal Fantasy mufti menk isn't Pakistani though.

  • @similenotsmile4983

    @similenotsmile4983

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mahira khan- Well then just check out Arab or African scholars. There are so many. Don't focus on their race, just what they say.

  • @UA-ki1vg

    @UA-ki1vg

    5 жыл бұрын

    @True Observation I am not sure that you can back up women being compared to animals by Muhammad PBUH with anything authentic. The concept of a caretaker is related to chivalry, women can work in islam and they can consent to sexual intercourse. I am a muslim woman and I feel empowered by Islam, I am not a sex slave. My culture can oppress me but my religion does not.

  • @idrismj8073
    @idrismj80737 жыл бұрын

    Nouman Ali khan.... What a man. Always someone to look up to. May Allah continue to guide us all.

  • @msalum_

    @msalum_

    7 жыл бұрын

    Idris Mj Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

  • @amc200555

    @amc200555

    7 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes the truth hurts more than a lie.

  • @kazansami1

    @kazansami1

    7 жыл бұрын

    We should always look up only to Muhammad (peace be upon him), because the person to look up to should be the best of mankind. Thank you brother.

  • @kazansami1

    @kazansami1

    7 жыл бұрын

    Peace be upon you

  • @AA-wd3in

    @AA-wd3in

    7 жыл бұрын

    Sami Kazan stfu

  • @sylargrey9444
    @sylargrey94445 жыл бұрын

    Without a single piece of paper to read from... this is true dedication to knowledge

  • @sylargrey9444

    @sylargrey9444

    5 жыл бұрын

    @ interesting, I've never felt two feelings at once before. I felt both hopeful and sad at the moment I finished reading your comment. Hopeful, that one day you will come to realistic terms and notice how not one word you've uttered will ever compare to a word in the Quran, and sad that if you don't, you may forever regret you didn't, and abide in Hell, unless The Merciful has mercy on you. God is good...

  • @detective01holmes10

    @detective01holmes10

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@sylargrey9444 after I read John Higgens comments, I am feeling the same. Interesting.

  • @sylargrey9444

    @sylargrey9444

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@detective01holmes10 thanks detective

  • @detective01holmes10

    @detective01holmes10

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@sylargrey9444 you are welcome

  • @safaaarabiyyah3902
    @safaaarabiyyah39027 жыл бұрын

    I wish I could have a father like him.

  • @ahmadnaqvi9939

    @ahmadnaqvi9939

    6 жыл бұрын

    dont worry. you will have a husband like him...:)

  • @StudySavvyy

    @StudySavvyy

    6 жыл бұрын

    Can I ask you do u belive in men beating their women with toothbrush.

  • @princesszeldaprincess447

    @princesszeldaprincess447

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@StudySavvyy It's not wrong what's wrong is when you beat your wife till she is black and blue which in Islam is haram(sin) for husband to beat his wife black and blue

  • @StudySavvyy

    @StudySavvyy

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@princesszeldaprincess447 yea right, but should a man beat her anyways be it even a toothbrush?

  • @MrAdhi-yz2fl

    @MrAdhi-yz2fl

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@StudySavvyy brother in islam husband have no rights to beat her wife because Hadith says best of you is those who best to his wife.

  • @Ansariya
    @Ansariya7 жыл бұрын

    I feel blessed to be a woman. I will do my utter best to raise my sons to grow up to become real caretakers of their wife... in every single way. This should become commun knowledge, enough of the ridiculous way of cultural abuse of all women, mothers, daughters, sisters.... ENOUGH!!! Thank you Nouman for all your efforts.

  • @redmaple8304

    @redmaple8304

    6 жыл бұрын

    You going to raise your sons to be like Muhammad? Muhammad hit his wife Aisha and laughed when Abu Bakr smacked his wives Aisha and Hafsa. -Sahih Muslim 4:2127 and 9:3506. Going to raise your sons to look down upon women as having half the worth of a man, who can rape their wife because there is no such thing as spousal rape?

  • @mohammadrizwaan1890

    @mohammadrizwaan1890

    6 жыл бұрын

    You referenced 2 hadiths, the forst one 4:2127, The prophet here is not trying to harm aiesha or discipline her, the hadith clearly displays that Aiesha was simply playing and following the prophet and that is why it is narrated by her in sahih muslim Aisha reported: مَا ضَرَبَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ خَادِمًا لَهُ وَلَا امْرَأَةً وَلَا ضَرَبَ بِيَدِهِ شَيْئًا The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, did not strike a servant or a woman, and he never struck anything with his hand. Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2328, Grade: Sahih With the second source, The porphet i believe laughed at the spanking khaadiga's daughter recieved when he the prophet asked for money, so there was simply confusion here, Abu Bakr thought the daughter was asking for money, however she wasn't so it was a you could call a harsh joke, btw a slap to the neck is similar to when a mate slaps you on the back as tough love or whatever. Also the prophet asked both Abu Bakr and Umar to be kind with their daughters. A husband no where in islam can force himself on his wife. Pleases show me where you get this absurd claim.

  • @UA-ki1vg

    @UA-ki1vg

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@redmaple8304 Twins equate to two no? Women are the twins halves of men, doesn't two halves equal one? Men and woman are equal in the eyes of Allah but are created differently.

  • @redmaple3727

    @redmaple3727

    5 жыл бұрын

    Well, it doesn't matter because your sacred Koran says wife beating is permissible in Koan 4,34. I quoted Sahih Hadiths too. Another Sahih Hadith shows that Aisha said she has not seen so much suffering as the believing women when Aiha saw a girl beaten green, and instead of Muhammad admonishing her husband for doing so, he told her to go back to him. Koran 2:223, where it talks about a woman being like land that he can have when and how he wants. And the Sharia Manual, Reliance of the Traveller, which is upheld by the prestigious Sunni University Al Azhar mentions that part of the marriage contract is to provide sex for your husband so even if she don't want to. And you don't respect women, even if you say a smack is okay. What part of no physical violence on a women do you not understad, Coward? Poor excuse.

  • @redmaple3727

    @redmaple3727

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ulfah, what are you talking about, twins? The relationship of a man and womn as dictated in the Koran and by the words of Muhammad is that women is half the worth of a man, that their testiomny is half that of a man's and that she lacks intelligence and religion. Men and Women are only judged as equal on the day of judgement.

  • @lovethedeen7421
    @lovethedeen74217 жыл бұрын

    Subhanallah, everytime I listen to a Khutbah it's as if Allah knew exactly what my heart wanted to hear. I needed this. Shukr to Allah, Shukran Ustadh.

  • @aafreenkhan729

    @aafreenkhan729

    5 жыл бұрын

    I feel the same

  • @salmaumar5750

    @salmaumar5750

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @shabanabegum1374

    @shabanabegum1374

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @aminataummassya5404
    @aminataummassya54044 жыл бұрын

    You can sense that he practices what he teaches, it's not just in the mind. May Allah keep him straight.

  • @asnazai5158

    @asnazai5158

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @abdelbaasit1
    @abdelbaasit17 жыл бұрын

    4:44 Powerful verse: الذين جعلوا القرآن عضين _"They took the Quran and tore it to pieces."_

  • @ommiikhadijah4535

    @ommiikhadijah4535

    4 жыл бұрын

    Those who took the Qur'an and tore it to pieces likes to be in hellfire. Allah knows best.

  • @LittlePalmTreee

    @LittlePalmTreee

    Жыл бұрын

    Chills ❤️

  • @gulshanmukhtar9651
    @gulshanmukhtar96514 жыл бұрын

    When I fed up with all so called scholar of Islam I try to listen his lecture it's give me peace.thank a lot.

  • @dan1a_636
    @dan1a_6363 жыл бұрын

    Finding this video means so much to me in so many levels. 3 years ago when I was 14 my dad would use this specific aiya to tell me how when I marry I need to be submissive to my husband, would translate the قوامون to men are superior and use that to reflect his relationship with my mother and how she fails as a Muslim women because she wanted a divorce. I was 14 and I didn't think about searching it up and making sure of what the meaning is behind it and took my father's word starting to doubt my religion and faith because of how he would talk terribly of my mother and use this to further his toxic point so we think that my mother was this horrible person and he was right to go live with him.

  • @Miha-dg3cs

    @Miha-dg3cs

    4 ай бұрын

    Cristian here, i have stoped going to chirch when i lost respect for my father. He said the bible said children should respect and listen to their parants. But in a very intitled way, wich left a bitter taste in my mouth. We have similar stories of faults...

  • @abdurrahmanmubasher9385

    @abdurrahmanmubasher9385

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@Miha-dg3cs You are right... People use religion to justify their horrible acts.😢 It's disgusting.

  • @avrilmcintyre892

    @avrilmcintyre892

    Ай бұрын

    Take care and don't allow anyone to mistreat you. Escape the world is your oyster

  • @nazibahmaimun7817
    @nazibahmaimun78173 жыл бұрын

    I Don't know why but after listening this khutba i can't stop crying. SUBHAN ALLAH. ALLAH IS THE GREATEST. and Nouman Ali khan thank you so much for explaining these things so nicely. May Allah bless you with peace and happiness and jannah. And i wish i can show this video to every man on the earth. I JUST WISH. May Allah forgive us for every wrong thing we did and we are still doing in our life.

  • @fatimahasan7710
    @fatimahasan77107 жыл бұрын

    is he the only one of his kind.....amazed by him....

  • @MuslimsDiaryDawah

    @MuslimsDiaryDawah

    7 жыл бұрын

    Fatima Hasan Assalamu Alikum! Hello Dear Muslim Brothers and Sisters! Please help us to Grow up this islamic Channel by Subscribe and Share. We all Muslims Should United for Spreading Dawah. May Allah bless you All. JazakAllah Khairan.

  • @arfaouisami2955

    @arfaouisami2955

    5 жыл бұрын

    there is salahudin ibn ibrahim in aksa mosque but he speak in arabic :D

  • @eishakhan9222

    @eishakhan9222

    4 жыл бұрын

    Seems like

  • @user-bi7jz3rc3r

    @user-bi7jz3rc3r

    4 жыл бұрын

    Zakir.naik 1in 0.6

  • @kashifaarahams3787

    @kashifaarahams3787

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nouman Ali Khan is 1 of the best to listen to.

  • @piqueny8872
    @piqueny88727 жыл бұрын

    so DONT hurt her, don't change her, DONT try to analyze and DONT expect more than she can give, smile when she make you happy, Let her know when she makes you mad miss her when she's not there- bob marley DIVORCED ADVICE- most men arent smart enough to realize the higher you elevate your women, the less available she is for other men, when you break her down, you make her accessible to anyone she thinks will treat her better.

  • @lookattheflowers969

    @lookattheflowers969

    6 жыл бұрын

    Pique NY Don't doesn't mean when you don't get treated right you start raise your gaze an stare at other men?! Allah doesn't like divorces stop making it a Norm we are not the west with a disgusting 60 percent with woman who aren't sexually satisfied going to start sleeping around normalising divorce culture is not preferable

  • @PsiensGate

    @PsiensGate

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@lookattheflowers969 A Divorce is only permissible twice: after that, the parties should either hold Together on equitable terms, or separate with kindness.It is not lawful for you, (Men), to take back any of your gifts (from your wives), except when both parties fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allah.If ye (judges) do indeed fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allah, there is no blame on either of them if she give something for her freedom.These are the limits ordained by Allah.so do not transgress them if any do transgress the limits ordained by Allah, such persons wrong (Themselves as well as others). (Surah Al-Baqara, 229)

  • @libertiemeh8116

    @libertiemeh8116

    4 жыл бұрын

    Pique NY this is SO TRUE !!!

  • @melompat

    @melompat

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cant ask her to do anything. Than why married then?

  • @thesyndicate3859

    @thesyndicate3859

    4 жыл бұрын

    Love this really, really smart. It makes so much sense.

  • @usmanfarooq96
    @usmanfarooq967 жыл бұрын

    Highlight of the week!!!! Alhumdulillah may Allah bless you o uploader and may Allah bless you random scroller!

  • @n2alps

    @n2alps

    7 жыл бұрын

    Screw You Google typical of NAK fanboy to make a joke dua

  • @msalum_

    @msalum_

    7 жыл бұрын

    Screw You Google Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

  • @miketaylor6764

    @miketaylor6764

    7 жыл бұрын

    ;)

  • @Whatyousee1

    @Whatyousee1

    7 жыл бұрын

    SalamWithISLAM What wrong with you?

  • @rosapeaceetloves6649
    @rosapeaceetloves66497 жыл бұрын

    ma sha allah . ramadan mubarak everyone. im a converted muslim but i am a sinner. im not the perfect example 4 a muslim woman. thats why hmdl the lectures of brother ali nouman khan and mufti menk help me to be a better muslim and help others to understand islam better im the right way. there is no culture difference in islam. its all about allah swt and his will for human kind. hmdl for the knowledge

  • @scenesmasher7835

    @scenesmasher7835

    5 жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah sister you have Reverted back to Islam Allah is the most merciful the beneficent the All Almighty!

  • @unknowngirl191

    @unknowngirl191

    2 жыл бұрын

    everyone is a sinner but give ur best and repent may Allah bless u andmake it easy for u :D

  • @Abeliever125
    @Abeliever1257 жыл бұрын

    JazakAllahu Khairan for uploading khutbahs every week.

  • @ayeshazaidi4318
    @ayeshazaidi43187 жыл бұрын

    God bless you Nauman for these beautiful khutbas you give. You are my sons age and I envy your mother for having a son like you!

  • @blackwhite3628

    @blackwhite3628

    7 жыл бұрын

    +Ayesha Zaidi Like everthing good, let us say *MAASHALLAH!* The "envy" language is not Islamic way of appreciating something good.

  • @muhammeds7199

    @muhammeds7199

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ayesha, you should appreciate your sons, because they are blessings allah has given you.

  • @FurieMarie

    @FurieMarie

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sorry, but that's not fair to your sons! Imagine your mother saying "I wish I had a daughter like that."

  • @alib7489
    @alib74897 жыл бұрын

    Yet another remarkable, insightful and enlightening speech from brother Nouman. Rarely in recent years has a scholar provided such knowledgeable, well thought out commentary on social issues. Jazakallah.

  • @msalum_

    @msalum_

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ali Bari Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

  • @masudurrahmanmamun7664
    @masudurrahmanmamun76647 жыл бұрын

    MaaShaAllah. May Allah SWT give you the great reward for your awesome advice, dear Ostadh.

  • @msalum_

    @msalum_

    7 жыл бұрын

    mamun masudur Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

  • @mrittikawahid7652
    @mrittikawahid76525 ай бұрын

    May Allah bless Ustad Nouman Ali Khan. His ability to deliver the teachings of the Quran is outstanding ❤

  • @lornilula4213
    @lornilula42134 жыл бұрын

    May all men and women be granted a beautiful marriage. May we all be granted a character befitting of Ummah of Muhammad. May we all be granted steadfastness in our pursuit for Iman and Allah's blessing.

  • @LeonEdwardsAesthetic

    @LeonEdwardsAesthetic

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @sokhnambaye6624
    @sokhnambaye66245 жыл бұрын

    I have so much videos of him and Mufti Menk to show my future husband inshallah before getting married if it ever happens haha

  • @user-bi8uh5fq3q

    @user-bi8uh5fq3q

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh this is such a good idea damn 😂

  • @soudakizhakkeparambil9740

    @soudakizhakkeparambil9740

    4 жыл бұрын

    Where r u from?

  • @sokhnambaye6624

    @sokhnambaye6624

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Umme Kulsum amiiine

  • @sokhnambaye6624

    @sokhnambaye6624

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@soudakizhakkeparambil9740 Senegal

  • @Miriam-cg6ym

    @Miriam-cg6ym

    3 жыл бұрын

    I tried to show one to my husband but he is too lazy to listen to the hole thing, how can I make him realise something I want him to realise? I need advice

  • @corleone4036
    @corleone40367 жыл бұрын

    Barakallahou fik nak for all the work you do

  • @mayamoisherif2833
    @mayamoisherif28335 жыл бұрын

    JazakAllah khair Nouman Ali Khan! May Allah continue to increase you knowledge and faith. Ameen

  • @S.B1989
    @S.B19897 жыл бұрын

    Al hamdullilah he repeats this subject and the aya's of the Quran. because without proper tafseer nobody will understand it. As a woman I feel special because God gave us women hope and our rights. Even if a man in your life mistreads you. Rabbi yadhina. Ramadan mubarak if you read this.

  • @nassira0508
    @nassira05087 жыл бұрын

    I'm so excited to watch this

  • @m0tiii
    @m0tiii7 жыл бұрын

    Wow i have never heard somebody gave dakwah as great as Nouman does in my country, Indonesia, wow. Prayer to you Nouman

  • @Celentano79
    @Celentano797 жыл бұрын

    MashAllah. Mind blowing Khutbah. Jazakallahu khairan.

  • @SidraNeelum
    @SidraNeelum3 жыл бұрын

    Your explanations bring so much relief to us! :')

  • @sufism1516
    @sufism15165 жыл бұрын

    I ask allah to give Nouman Ali what ever he wishs in this Life and the next. Amin

  • @Muslimah49
    @Muslimah497 жыл бұрын

    Alhumdullah, this brother is so enlightening. May Allah continue to bless him.

  • @jbhiyari

    @jbhiyari

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @msalum_

    @msalum_

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hafeethah Rahman Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

  • @ZARCSTUDIO
    @ZARCSTUDIO7 жыл бұрын

    MaaShaAllah. May Allah SWT give you the great reward for your awesome advice

  • @seharajmal3426
    @seharajmal34267 жыл бұрын

    jazakumullah khair. May Allah guide us all ☺

  • @adeelali8417
    @adeelali84176 жыл бұрын

    Sub'haanAllah beautiful lecture Ustad NAK.

  • @faridullahkhan53
    @faridullahkhan536 жыл бұрын

    Jazakaullahu khairaan brother, may Allah swt reward you. Nice explanations.

  • @badesabamir576
    @badesabamir5767 жыл бұрын

    JazakaAllah kher brother

  • @xoOhGoshiRockxo
    @xoOhGoshiRockxo4 жыл бұрын

    I was so lucky to meet him. Great guy

  • @rashidaperveen7553
    @rashidaperveen75534 жыл бұрын

    most beautiful khutba that i have ever heard . Allah bless you more knowledge.

  • @salmanshaik3839

    @salmanshaik3839

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @mayainc120
    @mayainc1207 жыл бұрын

    Jizakallah, Man you inspire me. May Allah bless us all.

  • @salmanshaik3839

    @salmanshaik3839

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @ameenajaidad7613
    @ameenajaidad76137 жыл бұрын

    Jazak Allahu khairan kaseera.

  • @noufissaa
    @noufissaa7 жыл бұрын

    You explain the subjects so clear and you have sabr hamdulilah to explain it to us. Thank you very much, I really appreciate it. I hope insha Allah, that Allah will help you continuing and develop this sabr and knowledge. Shokran

  • @MostafaMansoori
    @MostafaMansoori6 жыл бұрын

    Nicely explained with amazing analogies.

  • @barakahaad6245
    @barakahaad62452 жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah when I heard this I got peace in my heart

  • @salmanqureshi3361
    @salmanqureshi33616 жыл бұрын

    So true this is such a misunderstood topic in our religion May Allah guide us all to the truth Ameen.

  • @smshamsulislam3691
    @smshamsulislam36913 жыл бұрын

    Wow!We need more on these ...most people don't talk about these matters...so please make more kutbah and videos 🙏

  • @mrsahmed6387
    @mrsahmed638712 күн бұрын

    Thanks Ustad to teaching the meaning this specific ayat.

  • @Adishvian
    @Adishvian7 жыл бұрын

    👍Jazakumullah khoyr ustadz nouman ali khan and Bayyinah team

  • @msalum_

    @msalum_

    7 жыл бұрын

    Adish vian Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

  • @monamasood5895
    @monamasood58956 жыл бұрын

    nouman ali khan lectures are comprehensive and realistic. his way of delivering his lecture is very impressive intellectual and efffective.

  • @F.sweet1
    @F.sweet17 жыл бұрын

    Much needed guidance! Thank you!!

  • @SoAS26
    @SoAS265 жыл бұрын

    Ikr!!! Men treat their wives horribly...I know wives who ask money to buy groceries ..to feed their own children and the husband is like..I don't know ...don't you have that property rent money from the property your parents gave you? They don't take care of the wives when they are pregnant . Like. WTH ...how are you people even human. It makes my blood boil.

  • @benmuftyy9109

    @benmuftyy9109

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am a brother and you are right

  • @benmuftyy9109

    @benmuftyy9109

    3 жыл бұрын

    The only good men are men that fear ALLAH THE ALMOGHTY

  • @fatimakhatri1687

    @fatimakhatri1687

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thats y u know sister there is a hadees i have read..Hazrat Ali RA said When you marry..marry a man who is god fearing because when he will love you he will honour you and when he will hate you he will not wrong you...when someone truly fears Allah their hearts gets filled up with humility and Allah increases them in consciousness of Him so they are mindful of their words and actions..n when they get slip off as they are humans they humble down and try to apologise and look for fixing things up...May Allah make us good wives to our husbands and may Allah give us god fearing husbands♥️

  • @fatimakhatri1687

    @fatimakhatri1687

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can understand dear My own father abuses my mother like anything thats so horrible experience...He keeps on taunting her that she didnt bring anything in dahez...N he makes us beg for every single penny even after having so much money kept in the cupboard..He doesnt Allows my mother to even take 100 rs without his permission..even for essentials n kitchen stuff he will ask ten illogical questions before finally giving money..he makes us cry for fees of our college..even during eid he dont spend on his family with big heart...May Allah swt guide all of us💖

  • @unknowngirl191

    @unknowngirl191

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@fatimakhatri1687 sister, may Allah bless your mother with jannat ul ferdous and knock some sense in your father's head. May Allah protect u all ameen

  • @salihanazley
    @salihanazley7 жыл бұрын

    Such a beautiful explanation...

  • @angamnagam8741
    @angamnagam87415 жыл бұрын

    I can understand what u say clearly n am so thankful am imagining when rasul aleh salat wasalam talk he was clear n he show everything that even the people that they didn't see they can feel it like they see it mashallah

  • @ijazzzali
    @ijazzzali7 жыл бұрын

    Who else felt very honoured hearing this? sisters?haha :P

  • @msalum_

    @msalum_

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ijaz Ali Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

  • @nbaownage

    @nbaownage

    7 жыл бұрын

    watch this : kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y2aT1a2Ng5jJkrw.html

  • @mariamohib6247

    @mariamohib6247

    5 жыл бұрын

    but 1 in 100 of mengive this honour to their women ..

  • @siddiqah89

    @siddiqah89

    Жыл бұрын

    @maria mohib not true!! I used to think this too until I married into a very good practising family alhamdulilah, he has 5 brothers, all like himself, and brother in laws too, all mashaAllah treating us like queens alhamdulilah. V different from my own family.......

  • @MohammedAhmed-es2ie
    @MohammedAhmed-es2ie7 жыл бұрын

    *(ما شاء الله تبارك الله)* * Masha Allāh Tabaraka Allāh,* may Allah reward you, *brother Nouman,* the best.

  • @salmanshaik3839

    @salmanshaik3839

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @SillyKoala
    @SillyKoala6 жыл бұрын

    Nowadays, men are not men anymore, and women are not women anymore, that's why they don't accept this beautiful ayah. May Allah protect us and grant us wonderful relationships where each one is good for the other and behaves according to what pleases Allah سبحانة و تعالى

  • @CathyKitson

    @CathyKitson

    6 жыл бұрын

    What do you mean, men aren't men and women aren't women? What are they, then?

  • @waifu_png_pl6854

    @waifu_png_pl6854

    5 жыл бұрын

    yeah, depending on men is the best part of being a female!

  • @xadam1964

    @xadam1964

    5 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful aya? For telling men to beat their wives?

  • @Leil2221

    @Leil2221

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@xadam1964No ayah say beat women.

  • @sakinamir5089
    @sakinamir50897 жыл бұрын

    share this lecture.. our ummah needs such knowledge such enlightenment both men and women..

  • @towardslight4475
    @towardslight44753 жыл бұрын

    I love his narration ...bcz he make us Understand easily

  • @bishnugogoi9729
    @bishnugogoi97295 жыл бұрын

    Great explanation Sir...hats off

  • @loubnakhedimallah4755
    @loubnakhedimallah4755 Жыл бұрын

    I really would like to have Arabic subtitles for theses khotbah... it's so different in a good true way that I wish everyone could listen and understand this

  • @travelandwatchcouple
    @travelandwatchcouple7 жыл бұрын

    My dad needs to watch this

  • @travelandwatchcouple

    @travelandwatchcouple

    7 жыл бұрын

    my mum also needs to watch this

  • @muhammedabdullah2893

    @muhammedabdullah2893

    6 жыл бұрын

    What exactly does ISNA do as an organization ??? As a Muslim growing up in the US for over 20 years...I find it hard to find any personal impact ISNA has provided for me. I think the problem resides within the lack of traditional scholarship ISNA'S board consists of. We need a team of leaders with refined souls to lead the Muslims of America. And i dont really see that with ISNA. Most people on the board try to comform with American values whilst leaving Islamic values. We are facing an identity chrisis as Muslims living in America...and ISNA is confusing the identities of many American Muslims. Id argue ICNA is doing much better work than ISNA is with a smaller team and following. What are your thoughts!??! JazakAllah Khairan

  • @LolLol-rr7mx

    @LolLol-rr7mx

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ufuk XiYiZi send it to him

  • @cocoberry6373

    @cocoberry6373

    5 жыл бұрын

    RizeVize hi5

  • @UA-ki1vg

    @UA-ki1vg

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@azfarthakur7602 As a muslim from the UK I appreciate the dawah from the scholars and speakers from the US. If they are preaching Islam then how can they advocate to follow your desires? They focus on Islam not culture.

  • @TH-ir5yt
    @TH-ir5yt6 жыл бұрын

    ALMIGHTY ALLAH'S MERCY &BLESSINGS BE WITH U BROTHERS Norman & Mufthi Menk-ALMIGHTY ALLAH'S MERCY AND BLESSINGS Also on The UMMAH For having Speakers like U among Us.ALLAHUAKBAR !

  • @salmanshaik3839

    @salmanshaik3839

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @sadaf-u-nisashakir6602
    @sadaf-u-nisashakir66024 жыл бұрын

    Well explained!

  • @ayaali6158
    @ayaali61588 ай бұрын

    You are one of the few scholars that I like to listen to them regarding woman talks in islam

  • @daniyahmk1619
    @daniyahmk16195 жыл бұрын

    JazakAllah khair

  • @ushionagisa8104
    @ushionagisa81044 жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot for this videos !!! Please please if it is possible activate the subtitles in more languages. Not just in English, add them in Arabic and more if its possible. Because this videos are so helpful and valuable that i would love them to touch the live of more people, people that doesn't understand English too. Thank you!!!

  • @aldijanahelac4764
    @aldijanahelac47647 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu alaikum dear ones, I know there is another one similar speech given by Ustadh, I believe in Malaysia. You can look it up, left me speechless, it is called ABUSE OF WOMEN! And yeah, Ustadh, may Allah subhanahu wa ta ala bless you and keep elevating your status on both worlds, you are a precious gift *

  • @msalum_

    @msalum_

    7 жыл бұрын

    Aldijana Helać Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

  • @angeldelight55

    @angeldelight55

    Жыл бұрын

    Walikumusalam

  • @exploringworld5860
    @exploringworld58605 жыл бұрын

    So so amazingly explained.. Masha Allah Masha Allah...may Allah grant you more knowledge so u can explain more ..masha Allah.

  • @salmanshaik3839

    @salmanshaik3839

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @redouanenaoui8422
    @redouanenaoui84227 жыл бұрын

    inna llaha ya7komo mayashaa . My Allah bless u Nouman

  • @MuslimsDiaryDawah

    @MuslimsDiaryDawah

    7 жыл бұрын

    redouane naoui Assalamu Alikum! Hello Dear Muslim Brothers and Sisters! Please help us to Grow up this islamic Channel by Subscribe and Share. We all Muslims Should United for Spreading Dawah. May Allah bless you All. JazakAllah Khairan.

  • @sahilashabnam238
    @sahilashabnam2382 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your clear explanation. I have a request to you, please make a video on the explanation of Islamic rules of property distributions .....there's so much misclarifications people keep on giving us....I believe it will be really helpful if you can kindly make a video on it ....as your way of explaining things is very straightforward. May Allah grant us peace and guide us to the right path.

  • @omermobashir2528
    @omermobashir25287 жыл бұрын

    Jazakallah khair ya ustaz

  • @Uponimis

    @Uponimis

    7 жыл бұрын

    omer mobashir I've

  • @misbahshaukat5935
    @misbahshaukat59355 жыл бұрын

    Thank you ustad 😊

  • @hawacamara8863
    @hawacamara88637 жыл бұрын

    hope i can see next part

  • @user-yv7oi1ml1j
    @user-yv7oi1ml1j4 жыл бұрын

    الله یبارکلك ، i have been searching for explanation of this Ayah for Atheists PPL

  • @olimalargal
    @olimalargal7 жыл бұрын

    Very sensitive point...which is often argued...especially in this modern society.. misunderstood meaning of this aayah is criticized badly by falseminds...but ..Maa shaa Allaah...brother..!!!bi fadhli rabbina u pondered the criticism and makes us to realize the "mavadhdhathan and rahmah-bond"through this word of Allaah.The growing,constant love..(qavvaamoon).accepting the talents of other's (fadhdhalna)..good deeds ,piety... honesty.(saslihaath,qaanithaath, haagidhaath).these are the great secrets of the happiest marriage life...All. these diamonds are bounded in this aayath...now we see the glitterings of joy behind this..jazaakumullaahu khairan brother for tackling this sensitive issue and for making it as a crown of islam..!!

  • @yourlocalisfp
    @yourlocalisfp3 жыл бұрын

    "...this is the part of the ayah that is subject to a lot of controversy..." MashaAllah, I didn't hear anything controversial when Ustadh explained it. SubhanAllah

  • @hajarichinti2301
    @hajarichinti230110 ай бұрын

    may allah grant me and all the good girls well informed in deen spouses like this man here

  • @hajiranabi5283
    @hajiranabi52837 жыл бұрын

    very nice advice may Allah bless this young man with more knowledge which Will benefit the ummeh .

  • @asmaaalami6818

    @asmaaalami6818

    4 жыл бұрын

    I would have loved if he give more élaboration and explanation of the part of beating women!! Dribohona means literally something différent otherwise God would never ask to beat women!!!

  • @salmanshaik3839

    @salmanshaik3839

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @DifferentLiving
    @DifferentLiving5 жыл бұрын

    Good work brother

  • @ridwanseidu626
    @ridwanseidu6265 жыл бұрын

    Jazaakallahu khair

  • @SHabi-jb6bg
    @SHabi-jb6bg Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your excellent lecture on this ayah, in which I found an extraordinary whole beauty reconciling mind and heart, feeling and reason. I also noticed where Allah said "Wa'dribouhonnah...", I don't believe that Allah means "hit them...". This word has many derivatives and meanings and its usage depends a lot on the context. I believe a simple and logical interpretation here in this ayah would mean "to withdraw from them and go on strike to talk to them, respond, listen, etc", until they admit their actions and sincerely ask for an apology. And Allah knows best. Thank you.

  • @sadiamasood8729
    @sadiamasood87295 жыл бұрын

    MaShaAllah... It's always amazing that how he takes an ayah oh Qu'ran and explains it in a way that you fall in love with Allah and his words.I just feel closeness to Allah after hearing him.May Allah bless him♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @TheTransliterator
    @TheTransliterator5 жыл бұрын

    O! our Ustadh Nauman Ali Khan!! May Allah Subhanahu wa T'ala & His beloved Rasoolallah Sallallahu alehe wa alehe wasalam be pleased be with you!!

  • @salmanshaik3839

    @salmanshaik3839

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @yusra9603
    @yusra96037 жыл бұрын

    Allah razı olsun

  • @malyuki39
    @malyuki397 жыл бұрын

    the besssst MashaAllah

  • @Acek-tq2jv
    @Acek-tq2jv3 жыл бұрын

    O you who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will, and you should not treat them with harshness, that you may take away part of the bridal money you have given them. And live with them honorably. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike a thing and God brings a great deal of good through it. (An-Nisaa’ 4:19)

  • @rehananaheed7603
    @rehananaheed7603 Жыл бұрын

    سبحان اللہ اس سلسلے کو جاری رکھیں دلی دعا ہے اللہ آپ کو کامیانی دے🤲🏽

  • @barakahaad6245
    @barakahaad62452 жыл бұрын

    I really feel like crying 😭😭because I know how much Islam has shown women honor but a lot of men and women don’t see it❤️Alhamdulillah

  • @Najmalhulwa
    @Najmalhulwa5 жыл бұрын

    This is just beautiful, I’ve always found the word قوام fascinating, it does come from قام, to stand or قائم, the standing. It’s to do with rising up for something and is relative to family. If you’ve noticed in family, the woman is the nurturer and care taker and this comes with a consequence, the maintenance and finance of the family. This is default for a healthy fair society. It doesn’t mean a woman can’t rise up to her aspirations, it’s a basic standard to be applied regardless سبحان الله. A woman has no option but to do both parts in western societies with minimal ‘welfare’ care and even that’s becoming scarce now. It’s not equality but insane productive musculine obsession with superficial success and cross country competition and world domination. حسبنا الله ونعم الوكيل

  • @hamdhasherief2058

    @hamdhasherief2058

    3 жыл бұрын

    A woman’s man aim is to be a mother? Ridiculous.

  • @ayoutubeaccount8629

    @ayoutubeaccount8629

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hamdhasherief2058 If motherhood is not for you then that's fine. I think you may have missed the point

  • @brumbrum987654321

    @brumbrum987654321

    2 жыл бұрын

    Being productive isn't a masculine obsession and neither is success. The way you've framed this is wrong.

  • @LeonEdwardsAesthetic

    @LeonEdwardsAesthetic

    Жыл бұрын

    Western woman are misandrists

  • @malijan5599
    @malijan55997 жыл бұрын

    ameen... shukran

  • @salamatuabdulghani2597
    @salamatuabdulghani25977 жыл бұрын

    may Allah reward you give you the best in this life and the hereafter.

  • @salmanshaik3839

    @salmanshaik3839

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @romarioteka8243
    @romarioteka8243 Жыл бұрын

    Learning this as a converted Muslim is very helpful ❤🥹

  • @ayaali6158

    @ayaali6158

    8 ай бұрын

    Congratulations for converting to Islam, and welcome sister 💕💕

  • @sanfay5839
    @sanfay58397 жыл бұрын

    This needs to be in Urdu too!!! Please!

  • @fazlinadams-waggie142
    @fazlinadams-waggie1426 жыл бұрын

    Shukran Ustadh Nouman. This is so true, in today's modern society, many men expect the woman to contribute half towards the expenses of the home, food, children, education, transport, etc. And in addition tgey expect the woman to take care of herself. May Muslim men listen & accept the truth & be guided to treat women with justice, as the Quran explain it. May the mothers of sons guide them to treat their wives with kindness Insha Allah.

  • @CathyKitson

    @CathyKitson

    5 жыл бұрын

    Women have an obligation to contribute fully to the home if she has the means.

  • @hoda6244

    @hoda6244

    Жыл бұрын

    @@CathyKitson Are you Muslim?

  • @Leil2221

    @Leil2221

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@CathyKitsonNOPE.

  • @CathyKitson

    @CathyKitson

    Ай бұрын

    @@Leil2221 Why not? Are you saying women should not provide for their families if they have the means? That they should just leave them in want? That'd be unbelievably selfish and women love their families and would not allow them to suffer.

  • @anmolyasir3654
    @anmolyasir36544 жыл бұрын

    Assalam o alaikam Nouman sir! Plz make this khutbah in urdu please sir I request sir please U r doing the right thing sir Stay blessed Regards Anmol Yasir

  • @user-hj4ue6pq7r
    @user-hj4ue6pq7r4 ай бұрын

    Scared of marrying someone..now marriage is so scary..

  • @EhsanTabbouch
    @EhsanTabbouch7 жыл бұрын

    May Allah swt grant you more wisdom and more knowledge to translate the Aayat of the AlQuran alkareem as it should be translated , beautiful, pure, easy for the heart and mind to except and say" سمعنا وأطعنا غفرانك ربنا وإليك المصير

  • @salmanshaik3839

    @salmanshaik3839

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @jane29jeng
    @jane29jeng3 жыл бұрын

    Where is the second part of this khutbah? Im literally taking notes. MashaAllah NAK is a great teacher.

  • @souleymanekamara8156
    @souleymanekamara81564 жыл бұрын

    Alah protect him,! Thank you

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